M56
Ok fella's, join me on the war against "non reply"!
April 02 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
This week on days of our RHP lives SoftAndCurious wonders at the comprehension skills of some men, whilst Meander turns private detective and exposes an age faker. Out West ITM2 continues her ongoing battles against the fuzzy and cropped photo scourge. Don't worry intrepid viewers, if you missed last weeks, month or years episodes, you'll be able to pick up where you left off within minutes. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'SoftandCurious' Man (b): looks like a cut and paste job - Tall, fit clean healthy guy. I've been told have great eyes and a sexy accent. I'm a professional Monday to Friday and like to think I'm fun to be around, I always aim to please and courteous, I'm not here to waste time and happy to open my PG. but be warned there are a few naughty ones in there, because some people do ask. Reply (b): template response as above Man (b): I know that, it did say so on your profile. I just wanted to say hi because I loved what I read. *ok so where did he say hi, or that he liked my profile, or that he understood I'm not seeing new people right now in his first message? It was all about him? And his profile says: "Honestly!!! I think if I pay to send a message, the least people can do is say either ... wow you're stunning sign me up.... or thanks but no thanks.... if you can't be bothered, make sure you add that you're rude on your profile!!!" get no reply from me. You can tell from the profile that they are entitled twats and I have no time for entitled twats. Seriously, the more you try to guilt trip and shame me into replying by including those silly statements about how I should reply and if I don't I'm rude / a stuck up bitch / blah blah blah, the more you're guaranteeing I'm going to send you to the trash. Demanding, entitled, bitter men are not my bag.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hahaha Days of our RHP lives lmao might be your best work 👍 Out west the fuzzy and cropped photo scourge are a menace 😂😂😂
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' I think it would be nice if the op popped back in to see us 😀 this has ended up being a really good topic, lots of varying opinions. You handled the topic and opinions, really well, nice one, come say hi 😃 Jeez, I last posted around page three of this thread thinking that would be the end of it, and its now twelve pages long. Bahaahaha As it stands, I'm maintaining my newly changed opinion on the topic and now send messages with no expectation of a response. I honestly feel terrible for the women who have posted examples of the shocking responses that have been thrown back at them after sending a polite "no thanks". I did give it quite a bit of thought, and also decided that if I were a female trying to weed out the nice blokes messages from the weirdos messages, then I'd probably tend to push the sulky "you owe me a reply" messages into the latter pile. Interestingly, I've learned another important lesson as a result of posting this topic, and that is to just get involved in the community, chat on the forums, start an interesting topic, and be yourself. Since posting this topic I've had more profile views, and funnily enough, more replies to messages than ever before. ..now back to reading the last three pages of posts. hahah
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RHP User
9 years ago
The Geek missed so much more that isn't about a few women on RHP. *rolls eyes* Peachy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Haha that's fantastic, great to hear, and regarding your catchup reading, we'll see you in about a week 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
What are you talking about, it's ALL about us, the women of rhp 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
Don't panic PeachyPearL, you'll get your time in the sun, there's enough money to pay everyone $0 for their contribution to the show 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's simple,it's just another site except it's more pointed at sex and meeting for faster fulfillment than slow and steadier regular sites. For this reason,women particularly, have fuller in-boxes,are slightly shallower and and are more likely to cherry pic the ones to reply too. What more can be expected? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
For me it's all about the expectation factor, if you don't expect to get a reply then it's no big deal if you don't. No expectstions = no disapointments. Of course it would be sensational to get a reply from that amazing person you've browsed past, but it not happening every time makes a reply that much more exciting....even if it is "sorry man you just ain't pressing my buttons today!!" Stay cool 😎!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I agree with you I'll be honest. Yes I've sent a Lot of messages to women, couples. Where I'm not a match. Just in hope. But I can also honestly say. Most the messages I do send. I am a match. I personally would prefer, a no. Or sorry, even fuck off, tells me straight. At lest you know where you stand I also believe. There are many profiles not filled in to what the person is looking for. Surely, that's not hard to fix up for themselves Artful sinner. Being a bloke on here. I do understand what your wanting to achieve. Yet I doubt anything will ever happen. Just read some of the responses here. Yeh sure, some will understand. Most won't Cheers
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hate to disabuse you of your absolute knowledge of the women here, but to be clear...I'M just as "shallow" on other sites as I am here on rhp! It's completely shallow of all of us (and I'm going to lump you men into that generalisation) to have preferences or a 'type', be attracted to looks, height, body shapes, etc. And yes, in my shallowness...I won't put up with abuse in messages, or messages from people I've nothing in common with, not attracted to, or just send a "Hi". Which is probably why, in my infinite shallowness...my inbox is not over-flowing or hard to keep up with. ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
98% From 7,167 received, 7,041 sent. You should have seen the 2 percenters. My eyes are still watering......
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yeah I'm just as shallow in real life 😇
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RHP User
9 years ago
Some of my stats tell a story Profiles viewed - 0 😎😉 Messages sent - 3,137 - reply rate 181% Messages received 5,676 Flirts sent - 314 - reply rate 1,219% 😱 Flirts received - 3,827 Logged on - 13,261 times haha Forum posts since last login - 30 😂😂😂 Sexual encounters - zero 😀😊
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RHP User
9 years ago
Logged on 13,000 times, no wonder I get nothing done lmao 😂
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sexual encounters - 1 and a no show Pretty impressive hey? 😀
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'newadvenchaplus' It's simple,it's just another site except it's more pointed at sex and meeting for faster fulfillment than slow and steadier regular sites. For this reason,women particularly, have fuller in-boxes,are slightly shallower and and are more likely to cherry pic the ones to reply too. What more can be expected? - Posted from rhpmobile Some basic respect?
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RHP User
9 years ago
My reply rate is 117% Only on Pie
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RHP User
9 years ago
Those that rely are those that are interested... those that do not... are not... does that not give you an answer. But... I must say there have been some people I have wasted effort on as I thought a different tack may assist... and sometimes it has. I must say you can meet and converse with some damn fine people on here. MF
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Fit_Geek' Don't panic PeachyPearL, you'll get your time in the sun, there's enough money to pay everyone $0 for their contribution to the show 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile But nah, I was laughing because of something I said further back in the thread about it NOT being just about women. (Sorry Touch :-P) *still rolling eyes* Pesky Peachy, believes in equality and humanism
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes I think this is rude. If I am not interested in someone I was reply with a no thanks and no many occasions I have received a message back saying thank you for your response it was nice to get a reply even if it is just a no.Come on people bring back manners.
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RHP User
9 years ago
😎
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have sent 262 messagesReply Rate: 100%I have received 261 messagesI have sent 2 flirtsReply Rate: 2,900%I have received 58 flirts My messages are very even. Must be waiting on Betty's reply..
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RHP User
9 years ago
On it gorgeous - you shall be even once more 😉😘
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Koolgrey' I have sent 262 messagesReply Rate: 100%I have received 261 messagesI have sent 2 flirtsReply Rate: 2,900%I have received 58 flirts My messages are very even. Must be waiting on Betty's reply.. Umm, wow. I try to send thoughtfully composed messages that are relevant to the females profile, and could only hope to achieve stats like that.I must either be butt ugly or doing something terribly wrong with my profile, or both. I've never received a single flirt.If anyone wants to take a look at my profile and give me their opinion why, I'll gladly soak up any feedback I can get.
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RHP User
9 years ago
50% - men (not looking for them) 20% - couples (95% not in SA) 25% - women outside SA 5% - women in SA (75% no photos) 😯 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Kool is single your not No brainer
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RHP User
9 years ago
Haha yes, fellow sinner! Are you suggesting that the many women who claim to be looking for NSA dont really like the idea of sharing me with my wife? After all, i'm in an open relationship, and I'd have thought that RHP would be the last place a woman would look for her next husband..
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RHP User
9 years ago
There have been many previous threads on why single women often aren't interested in guys in open relationships. You'll probably be able to find some if you do a search. There have also been many threads discussing why RHP isn't viewed as just a hook up site by many.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Good point. I'll definitely do some searching. I bet its been questioned many many times. lol I wonder if I should then just state myself as single? - From an NSA perspective my relationship affords me the same freedoms in either case.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'artful_sinner' I wonder if I should then just state myself as single? - From an NSA perspective my relationship affords me the same freedoms in either case. a big no. You're not single, so you would be lying, and your relationship would in no doubt put some restrictions on you in terms of time and availability. If I was talking to a guy who had a single profile and then later told me he was in a relationship - even an open one - I'd be pissed.
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playfulminx
9 years ago
Quoting 'artful_sinner' Good point. I'll definitely do some searching. I bet its been questioned many many times. lol I wonder if I should then just state myself as single? - From an NSA perspective my relationship affords me the same freedoms in either case. As Luck_Dragon said, it's best to be honest. If you're married, you're married. Just make it clearer in your profile that you're in an open relationship. As for me, I don't generally meet attached men for a number of reasons, none of which to do with morals. It's hard enough finding time to play, and to find a man to play with, let alone the added complication of a spouse who may or may not OK a play date. In terms of messages, I try and reply to everyone. I do a quarterly spring clean when unanswered messages pile up. I'm super busy so some months, I just can't reply to everyone. Also, I'm very clear in my profile about what I want yet 20% of guys who message aren't on the same page as me (and then they get annoyed about having THEIR time wasted...). Another insight though, I met a guy this year who had written to me a couple of times over the last two years. He's from interstate so the odds of meeting him while in Perth and while I had spare time was unlikely. I told him as much but he wrote to me again this year on the off chance. Whaddaya know? The planets aligned. Sometimes it's just pure timing and luck.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Quoting 'artful_sinner' I wonder if I should then just state myself as single? - From an NSA perspective my relationship affords me the same freedoms in either case. a big no. You're not single, so you would be lying, and your relationship would in no doubt put some restrictions on you in terms of time and availability. If I was talking to a guy who had a single profile and then later told me he was in a relationship - even an open one - I'd be pissed. Yeah, too right. Truth be told, we're the same with our couples profile. If someones been lying to us then we just get pissed. They probably woulda had a better chance with honesty in the first place. I guess it frustrates me a little because Im very much just as available as many NSA single guys. thanks playfulminx, maybe I should consider making it a little clearer in my profile. This could help, assuming most peeps get as far as reading beyond the "married" flag. xx
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
A gent sent me a message. No hello. No how are you? Just "do you have boobs?" A reply was a given. Then blocked the twunts sorry arse. Funny thing is had that he was respectful in his profile. Anyone else? I'm in the mood......
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well, based on those stats, there's only one thing you can do Move to WA 😀 There are apparently women over here who view profiles on the sly 😉 😜
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
Your stats just mean there is alot of folk perving at you...and why wouldn't they 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
Where did you find those stats? I can't seem to find where they are located?
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MissBishere
9 years ago
Mailbox Stats I have sent 6,588 messagesReply Rate: 136% I have received 8,986 messages I have sent 90 flirtsReply Rate: 8,903% I have received 8,013 flirts
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RHP User
9 years ago
Awesome. Flirt reply rate 8,903% ? Very impressive 👍 Now what about conversion 😉 The competition is stiff 😊 the number you have to beat is zero 😂😂😂
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RHP User
9 years ago
First, I agree with Ms_Jonesy 👍 But it's the ones you don't see looking who are the real dirty pervs 😎 I'm also curious though, where did you find those stats?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Rough percentages from looking at my views the last couple of weeks, but close enough. And ITM2, I've had quite a few views from WA. It's a fine looking state as far as interesting ladies I'd happily catch up for a lunch and chat. And you much more of course 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'artful_sinner' After all, i'm in an open relationship, and I'd have thought that RHP would be the last place a woman would look for her next husband.. I'm awesome husband material! Too bad I don't believe in marriage..
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RHP User
9 years ago
😊
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
The % calcs are reversed. The higher the percentage, the worse you are.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Click on your username (top right), and pick Profile Stats. Mailbox Stats I have received 2,028 messagesI have sent 1,621 messages Reply Rate: 125% I have received 1,072 flirtsI have sent 19 flirts Reply Rate: 5,642% I think you guys are mis-interpreting the reply rate. It looks to be a relatively useless direct comparison between sent and received, without any consideration of actual "to/from" message tracking. ie Meanders 125% is simply the ratio between 1621 and 2028, and 5642% is the ratio 19 and 1072. They need to rename the reply rate value to something like "sent to received ratio".
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RHP User
9 years ago
...in other words, I could receive 50 messages from 50 different people,and send 50 messages to an entirely different set of 50 people,and my reply rate would be 100%. (even though I didnt actually reply to anyone)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Click on your username (top right), and pick Profile Stats. Mailbox Stats I have received 2,028 messagesI have sent 1,621 messages Reply Rate: 125% I have received 1,072 flirtsI have sent 19 flirts Reply Rate: 5,642% Honoured you replied to ours!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'artful_sinner' I think you guys are mis-interpreting the reply rate. It looks to be a relatively useless direct comparison between sent and received, without any consideration of actual "to/from" message tracking. ie Meanders 125% is simply the ratio between 1621 and 2028, and 5642% is the ratio 19 and 1072. Those ratios are pretty useless, I don't know why RHP has them. Obviously if it was a proper reply rate it couldn't be more than 100%.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have received 1,403 messages I have sent 964 messages Oops! I have received 1,623 flirts I have sent 27 flirts I do have the automatic response to flirts set though in my defence! And I'm still getting messages hitting me up even though I have that I'm taking a break on my profile. Over half of of the eight messages today acknowledge this, so it's not like they haven't seen it. Probably the reason for my slack response numbers ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Might as join in this thread, so apart 'non responses' which i accpet as mostly pure ignorance and a discourtesy (how would you like it??), the one , that makes me laugh, is when you send a pleasant message, purely as a compliment, when you know they are not looking for you, is that suddenly they block you... what?? oh, you don't want me to see your pictures, oh hang on , I already have, some people really??
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RHP User
9 years ago
Received this message "Shall we be fucking?" So let's take this out for a spin, put it to the vote, who thinks that person should get a reply, given that many have stated they reply to all messages. Even with a template, the template is a courteous thanks but no thanks. Does this person deserve to be treated like a decent non-neantherthal with a polite 'Thank you so much for your nice message. I'm going to respectfully decline. Thanks, good luck and have fun? So I'll make this multi choice 1. He receives our standard courteous template reply 2. He gets no reply 3. He gets a personal rejection with tips on how to approach women and maybe how to tie his shoelaces while we're there 😉 4. We send a 'special' template reply we have reserved for special people 😇 In my best David Attenborough voice, is this subspecies threatening our natural rhp habitat? 😯
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RHP User
9 years ago
In response to your question 'How would you like it?' Re not getting a reply, I couldn't care less, I only want a reply if they're interested, and don't even go back to check who I've sent messages to, at least when I wasn't a guest and could send messages. What difference does a message make, no is no, it won't change the outcome. To add to that though, I don't know if you read some of our posts about the ones who we're not sure about, there are quite a few I put into the too hard basket, some stay there oops 😊 but it's also not always a black and white decision. Either way, lots of guys live in hope that instigating conversation, getting a foot in the door so to speak, might give them the chance to sway me. I don't like that kind of pressure. Women aren't here to nurse tender male egos, we should be respected enough in our capacity as modern women, to make our own choices and if we choose to reduce the amount of time messaging and increase the amount of time fulfilling our needs and desires that we came here for, well that's our right to that. I refer to men in this comment because they are my preference, so based on my experience. One reply message doesn't always end communication, I just don't have time, and after being on the receiving end of 'well you're just a desperate old cougar anyway' which I am btw 😉 and much worse, there should never be any expectation IMHO respect yours of course, just my thoughts 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
Depends. Being me, I'd probably go with a variation of option three.If I got that message out of the blue from a strange woman, first thing I'd do is disable my let-them-know-I've-looked-at-their-profile function, so they don't know I'm looking, and check them out.Then it depends if they're my cup of tea or not...looks, interests, personality...whatever I can get from the profile.But probably not. I don't really go for that strong arm approach. Turns me off a bit.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hey Buddy,I'm not one that thinks he knows all about the opposite sex but there is one thing I do know.Never bitch about what they don't do, in stead thank them for what they do. You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar. Cheers
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yeah but it's all in the wording and context too don't you think? I considered my first messages and some of them are straight in too, but this one didn't sit well with me
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RHP User
9 years ago
Here's an example, straight from my mailbox from one guy from WA with no pic (my profile states I'm only interested in local people with pics) - (May 2015) Him - Wish you were here sucking my cock Me - template 'thanks but no thanks' reply Him - May I see your pg Me - (thinking he must've missed the first reply) send another template 'thanks but no thanks' reply Silence... Me thinking, Yay! He got the message. And then, this week, Him - Wanna fuck? (My first one in 4 years, BTW, Woohoo! 😝) Me - Sure! Silence...until next time 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Personalised "special" reply. Couldn't stop myself I'm afraid
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Yeah but it's all in the wording and context too don't you think? I considered my first messages and some of them are straight in too, but this one didn't sit well with me There's a definite difference in context between a man sending that sort of message to a woman, and vice versa, due to the differences in men's and women's experiences both here and out there in the real world when it comes to sex and being approached for sex. Let's face it quite a lot of men (no not all) would be pretty happy to receive a message like that, or any of the other lewd propositions that most women on here receive on a weekly basis. I personally don't think that men can fully know what it's like to be a woman on here (and yes before I get hammered, women can't fully know what it's like to be a guy on here either).
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RHP User
9 years ago
If I received that message it would either be no reply, or a special reply, depending on my mood that day
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Koolgrey' Depends. Being me, I'd probably go with a variation of option three.If I got that message out of the blue from a strange woman, first thing I'd do is disable my let-them-know-I've-looked-at-their-profile function, so they don't know I'm looking, and check them out.Then it depends if they're my cup of tea or not...looks, interests, personality...whatever I can get from the profile.But probably not. I don't really go for that strong arm approach. Turns me off a bit. She wasn't strange?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Received this message "Shall we be fucking?" So let's take this out for a spin, put it to the vote, who thinks that person should get a reply, given that many have stated they reply to all messages. Even with a template, the template is a courteous thanks but no thanks. Does this person deserve to be treated like a decent non-neantherthal with a polite 'Thank you so much for your nice message. I'm going to respectfully decline. Thanks, good luck and have fun? So I'll make this multi choice 1. He receives our standard courteous template reply 2. He gets no reply 3. He gets a personal rejection with tips on how to approach women and maybe how to tie his shoelaces while we're there 😉 4. We send a 'special' template reply we have reserved for special people 😇 In my best David Attenborough voice, is this subspecies threatening our natural rhp habitat? 😯 of 3 & 4
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well, if she wasn't a stranger then that changes everything! 😊 But seriously, I'd probably still have to think about it. Some female friends I'd still prefer them to just be friends. And while I appear confident and kool...I know, I know 😉😎...I have insecurities too when it comes to sexually agressive women, friends or not. The chink in my armour.. ☺
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' You misspelled scathing* Never!
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RHP User
9 years ago
so 3 and/or variation of 4 seems like the combo. Fries and a drink with that 😜
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'funlovenfun'...You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar... Not sure how many people care to be compared to flies (?) As an aside, I stopped to look at the origins of that saying ('cause I've seen and heard more in the past 12 months than the previous 44 years). I found this contribution from someone on another site: "I just found out something amazing about flies, vinegar, and honey that turns this old idiom on its ear! I read about the design of a fly trap that attracts them with vinegar, but traps them with honey. It's an inverted jar, and the flies, lured in by the smell of the vinegar (vinegar smells like rotting fruit to them, which they adore) are tricked into going higher up the jar, where the sides are coated with honey. They get stuck on the honey. I think the basic meaning of the saying remains intact, that if we want people to do what we want, we should be sweet and not rude to them. – user38166 Feb 24 '13 at 2:03"
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Koolgrey' Well, if she wasn't a stranger then that changes everything! 😊 But seriously, I'd probably still have to think about it. Some female friends I'd still prefer them to just be friends. And while I appear confident and kool...I know, I know 😉😎...I have insecurities too when it comes to sexually agressive women, friends or not. The chink in my armour.. ☺ 1) You so know I was teasing... 2) You said strange, not stranger (I was totally messing with you) 3) You are a great bloke, and even appear to be a great bloke - who knew that could happen? 4) You know I love your guts 5) *note to self: Don't use the word 'shall' when talking to Kool
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RHP User
9 years ago
1) I so knew you were... 2) Ah, a technicality. I like you even more for catching me on one.. 3) Humble too. Who would have thought one man could be so much..? 4) Thank you! And your reasonably interesting. ..Nah, your a top chick, and if your a man or like a sentient program from The Matrix, then I'm fooled!
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RHP User
9 years ago
My non-replies are to flirts right now.I've been a paid member for about a week now...my flirts have almost tripled. And they are all the same one:"You're exactly what I'm looking for, please message me I'm keen" ...not keen enough to send me a message cos it would cost them (they're all guests).
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RHP User
9 years ago
lol I thought you guys had started multi choice flirting 😂😂😂
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Eiliethiya' My non-replies are to flirts right now.I've been a paid member for about a week now...my flirts have almost tripled. And they are all the same one:"You're exactly what I'm looking for, please message me I'm keen" ...not keen enough to send me a message cos it would cost them (they're all guests). Especially love those from Premium Plus members... they have 20 messages per day and I get a flirt? Does that make me option # 21 for that day? If so, I feel oh so special
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Koolgrey' 1) I so knew you were... 2) Ah, a technicality. I like you even more for catching me on one.. 3) Humble too. Who would have thought one man could be so much..? 4) Thank you! And your reasonably interesting. ..Nah, your a top chick, and if your a man or like a sentient program from The Matrix, then I'm fooled! You busted me!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' lol I thought you guys had started multi choice flirting 😂😂😂 Could so be a thing!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Eiliethiya' My non-replies are to flirts right now.I've been a paid member for about a week now...my flirts have almost tripled. And they are all the same one:"You're exactly what I'm looking for, please message me I'm keen" ...not keen enough to send me a message cos it would cost them (they're all guests). I don't think most women think to much of a flirt. I am paid up but only premium. For the first few weeks as you only have five messages a day and I am sure that would be plenty if I were female lol. But after you send that last message you tend to see someone you wish to chat with. So I generally sent one to say loved the profile or the would you reply as I find maybe 1 or 2 out of twenty messages is viewed or replied to. So by sending these two types of flirts I hope to get some idea if they are interested. After they sit for a while as I know they are cheap shitty things, I will write and generally it sits not read and no reply lol.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Get a room already, will ya? But please leave the door open, so we can hear what's going on (& maybe sneak an occasional peak, if that's ok with you?) 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
Keep me out of this particular "Vietnam" No reply means no interest...move on - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
When every message or wink I send is greeted with a reply, no matter how perfunctory, that will be the day I start to suspect that AI is running this site. 😀
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RHP User
9 years ago
They've gone quiet 😎 quick Elke, let's sneak in and take a peak 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
I now ghost if they ask for my pg. I've only just realised, I'm doing it all the time now. I hate being asked for private pictures, given that I have a few thousand 😉 in public so how dare they ask me for more when I get the standard 2 or 3 of them? Fuck them, I'm over nursing men who appear on the outside to be normal and respectful. Grow up. We're not here to serve/service the entire fucking male race 😠😠😠
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RHP User
9 years ago
game, women make the rules, not the men. Confusingly, the rules can change at any time. Society rightly penalises, punishes and segregates men who can't or won't play by the rules. This site is a microcosm of the wider society, only slightly different. Here, women can ignore unwanted advances with less fear of violence, intimidation or ongoing harassment. Here, the numbers are stacked in favour of women, well-presented (typically younger) men and the physically well-endowed. And here, what you see is rarely what you get. There are other sites that that might suit you better. Try them. I have, and I've found that my strike rate is much higher than it is on RHP. It's all about the match..and the statistics. The further you are from the average - whether that be in looks, personality, or whatever - the more difficult it is to find a match. That is a fact of life. It's no different in the animal kingdom. So, why am I here? I'm a bloke, too, but I'm not here for random hook-ups. I'm here because I enjoy the banter and the window into the thoughts of other like-minded unconventional people, especially women, who I find fascinating. When I meet one of those people, then that is a bonus. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Lately for me it's been couples who have been the worst offenders re sending me messages when they don't match my preferences, and looking for FFM when I state that I'm not looking for that at present (actually moved that statement to the top of my profile but some are still either not reading or ignoring it). Ah well, I'm an equal opportunity no replyer
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RHP User
9 years ago
If they asked for private access, I used to reply saying I had 50 public pictures, they had 2, "I tell you what, you upload another 48 pictures and I'll open my pg" 😘 That would either end communication or they'd reply "fair enough" 😁 with no pictures of course 😉 All good fun, you know I love you guys, luv ya's all 😛
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RHP User
9 years ago
Off topic again 😇 sorry op
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's "yous all", learn betterer English.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Haha 😀 funny you say that, I did wonder after posting if it should have been yous 😛 My apology, I'll write betterer next time 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
Re replying, I have to say it's all or nothing with me. Either no reply or a very enthusiastic one. Just fired off a 'yes, yes, oh God yes' reply flirt 😛
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RHP User
9 years ago
So just to let men know we also don't get replies, which is fine, but to use this example to illustrate that, guys new to the site must sometimes fire off a heap of flirts, then pick out the ones that most appeal, or a pecking order I guess, fair enough, but the rest of the replies get ignored lol So get a flirt from a young hottie, I think you're hot, what do you think of me? Refer above yes, yes, oh God yes! reply 😀 then nothing. When he's done the rounds of the rounds or worked down his list, he'll get to me, but I won't reply. Hate it when they treat me like gap filler 😯 😠
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RHP User
9 years ago
rounds of the rounds?
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RHP User
9 years ago
So we get a lot of messages and the majority are a template messageIf you can't be arsed writing a proper message - we can't be arsed spending time to respond - really simple!
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RHP User
9 years ago
At first I responded to messages, but after being polite I usually got back really horrible remarks. I now ignore if I'm not interested after viewing their profile.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Life is what happens to you whilst your busy making other plan's!!! Ain't that the truth!! Its funny, looking back on our adventures, we've had over 50 all the way down to 19. They all had their own reason's and what we got out of it differed greatly!! Taking advantage of the babysitter...hehe. You know what we mean? Anyway the point is, yes we have a read but, will message regardless as some of our best get togethers have been on paper so opposite!! What we're trying to say is weather you get a reply or not? weather their looking for the same thing or not? We don't care anymore as beening on this site is an adventure and its the journey thats exciting..the unknown!!! Lets face it...if we all slotted into each other like lego blocks wouldn't that be boring!!! Enjoy the Ride 😄
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RHP User
9 years ago
No reply means not interested mate.... It's the same as writing no thanks. I get alot of messages and sometimes I write no thanks sometimes I don't bother..... I will reply to men who need pulling into line though.... One example was a really old and ugly dude who messaged wanting to have his way with me.... PLUS on his profile he had ANAL as a must..... I told him he was NOT physically attractive enough to demand anal!!!! Bloody disgusting!!! I also have on our profile that they must be physically fit as I'm insatiable and can go for hours but I get men messaging who aren't physically up to the task as is evident in their photos so they sometimes get a no thanks, sometimes no reply... My point is if you get no reply, move on, seriously..... Also I've tried the no thanks reply on all at the start and I had men replying to the no thanks either with a tanty or pleading so now I don't bother so much. If you send a message that's on you, don't bank on a reply just because your a paying member OP, that's arrogant, obviously they're not interest so move on. Have a lovely day 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Guy requested I tell him if not interested, could I at least let him know. Normally I wouldn't reply, and the following is an example of the reason I no longer reply. I did tonight, and I shouldn't have. Where are you Inspirit, I need some of your warm and fuzzy adjectives 😂😂😂 My reply "Yes sorry, I'm going to say no. I wasn't sure, still feel a bit that way really. Your pictures are a bit hard to see with the flash. Daytime pictures, clear with good natural light might be better, but that's up to you, not my place to say. So I kind of put you in the too hard basket lol I'm time poor, I am sorry I hadn't replied. Still a maybe, I'd just need to see you better, and I really appreciate your message/contact. Thank you" His next reply "lol no dramas ur 52 years old im 33 i think i'll be ok hun" Typed like that with double spacing, extra emphasis maybe? lol Obviously can't read, I'm 53 😉 and I doubt another 20 years will be enough for him to grow a brain 😎
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RHP User
9 years ago
Exactly, can't handle rejection 👍
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RHP User
9 years ago
You can think what ever you like meander, we're not here to make old ugly men that my wife is not interested in happy, the old and ugly parts can possibly be overlooked to a certain degree if they are nice, clean and non demanding, it works just the same if they are young, super fit and hung like a horse OR a hot nympho bikini model - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
So another multi choice 😀 Received message "Can I eat your boxs". Apparently I have more than one. Maybe all the perving has given him double vision 😉 1. He receives our standard courteous template reply 2. He gets no reply 3. He gets a personal rejection with tips on how to approach women and maybe how to tie his shoelaces while we're there 😉 4. We send a 'special' template reply we have reserved for special people 😇 5. We immediately feel compelled to analyse it on the forum 😉 😀
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RHP User
9 years ago
Send more than one message if someone hasn't replied?! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
So anyone who wants to have their needs fulfilled needs to be perfect looking?? It's ok to not be attracted to someone. It's not ok to be a Shitty person about it.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
4 & 5
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RHP User
9 years ago
Haha 5 is very important don't you think? 😀
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