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Men should not be cooking, its WRONG!
March 27 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachypear63'For me at least it is not only about 'I am right' it is equally (sorry that word again) about 'I am not wrong'. I am not wrong...it is that simple.And unless I AM wrong...do not expect an appology nor a dose of humble pie eating.
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15 years ago
A pencil sharpener makes a good point.
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15 years ago
luckily pumpkin soup makes me gag..... and have never eaten humble pie...too rural for my tastes.
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15 years ago
Those of you who have been in the camp of "YES there is equality in Australia aand if there isnt it is your own damn fault" would no doubt have caught the interview on tv late last night with Justice Michael Kirby as did I. Very interesting man, a supreme court judge. Any who have studied law would recognise his name as they would have had to quote him many times on points of law. He has also been in a same sex relationship that has spanned more than 40 years. Tough call back in the seventies admiting you were gay. I imagine the man knows a thing or two. What stood out to me about the interveiw was when he was discussing the inequality to be found in the law in Australia. He said, and I quote :- l " The world judges a country on how they treat thier minority groups and Australia still has a long way to go. The minority groups in Australia are not treated fairly nor are they treated equally" l Proof without stats? Maybe he is wrong as well.
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15 years ago
Justice Kirby , wonderful mind! When Fi did women become a minority group thou ? I could be vile and say does that make it a "poof without stats" but I wouldnt do that ! Brae .......... an arguement
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15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Those of you who have been in the camp of "YES there is equality in Australia aand if there isnt it is your own damn fault" would no doubt have caught the interview on tv late last night with Justice Michael Kirby as did I. Very interesting man, a supreme court judge. Any who have studied law would recognise his name as they would have had to quote him many times on points of law. He has also been in a same sex relationship that has spanned more than 40 years. Tough call back in the seventies admiting you were gay. I imagine the man knows a thing or two. What stood out to me about the interveiw was when he was discussing the inequality to be found in the law in Australia. He said, and I quote :- l " The world judges a country on how they treat thier minority groups and Australia still has a long way to go. The minority groups in Australia are not treated fairly nor are they treated equally" l Proof without stats? Maybe he is wrong as well. the relevance to the posted topic is what? a statment of an 'opinion' doesnt make it proof, and 'law' isnt 'relationship'. he's making reference to 'real' minorities, rather that 'perceived' minorities.
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15 years ago
are we going camping? oh goodie! lol
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15 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachypear63' p { margin-bottom: 0.21cm; } Women disadvantaged in workplace: study Larine Statham June 17, 2009 Women are disadvantaged from the moment they enter the workforce and the trend continues as they climb the corporate ladder, an equal opportunity group says. The Equal Opportunity of Women in the Workplace Agency (EOWA) on Wednesday released a report by Macquarie University, highlighting the hurdles working women continue to face. It shows women remain dramatically under represented in senior leadership roles. Advertisement: Story continues below For every woman serving as a board director in Australia, there are about 12 men in board director positions. The report also says women at the executive manager level are either funnelled into support roles or fare badly in the wage stakes compared to their male counterparts. "Sadly, regardless of which way you look at the data, women are still disadvantaged and their skills are being underutilised," EOWA acting director Mairi Steele said. "More women are leaving university with qualifications and yet as soon as they enter the workforce there is a gender pay gap." She said fewer doors were being opened for women seeking to enter senior executive positions. Assumptions were made about women's ambition and their commitment to their careers, she said. "At the end of the day, women are still subjected to bias and discrimination. We eventually have to look at corporate culture," Ms Steele said. The report - Pay, Power and Position: Beyond the 2008 EOWA Australian Census of Women in Leadership - was released as part of a Symposium in Canberra. Federal Minister for the Status of Women Tanya Plibersek took the opportunity on Wednesday to remind Australians how far women had come. She noted Australia now had a female Governor-General in Quentin Bryce, while Julia Gillard was the deputy prime minister. "Many women have achieved high office, good pay, significant influence, but I do not think we can say yet that equality has been won," she said. "Not when so many women are stretched between paid work and caring obligations, unable to perform their many roles as well as they want. "And not when women earn 83 cents for every dollar men earn." Ms Plibersek and Ms Steele said it was up to individual businesses to ensure real change occurred.Googly Mrs P' all very interesting. and thanks for the reference link. but........does this really reflect in relationships between men and women? i personally don't know anyone who is disadvantaged because her husband earns more, or if she earns more in some cases.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachypear63' I'm intrigued that this topic seems to have come down to men against women... literally. Lol with quite a few bystanders!I thought the topic was supposed to be about understanding how to keep couples together. Understanding is the first step towards any realistic solution I would have thought. Confused and disappointed Mrs P' >>> hope you have a lovely day. The sun is shining here as always lately lol. Maybe a bit too much of a good thing ;-) it was about couples, but someone hijacked the topic. it became serious and turned into a debate. as for man against woman? perhaps i should ask Mike for his opinion, but its been me, Shel, who has been at the keys here for the most part. and yes, taking offense at what other 'women' think. its indeed time to grow up ladies.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachypear63' As I've stuck to over and over again, I disagree with you about the topic etc which has us coming at the topic from very different places. While I respect your right to have your opinion on the topic, I refuse to accept your opinion that I am wrong just because you say so. Obviously I was wrong about the man and woman thing but at least I'm certain now. I guess your mention of the lack of a six pack should have given it away lol. Mind you I think it would have been good manners to introduce yourself when I mentioned your advantage ages ago. I agree with you now that we are only going around in circles and would like to leave it at agreeing to disagree. It hasn't gotten as hot outside as I thought it might seems as a freshening breeze has come in.... Yay! Mrs Peachy lack of a six pack? am a little confused now? lol
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15 years ago
Each Of Us Will always percieve the world and what is happening in it differently due to the fact of Nature VS Nurture. Be careful and take some of the "STUDIES/RESEARCH" with a pinch of salt. Many may be twisted to fit the researcher's personal view's and what they would like you to believe (or to sell a concept). Yes! It's hard to believe, but these poll's often have a criterion that a person needs to met to be able to take part in a poll, and if thats not controlling a poll to get the results they want, I don't know what is. Opinion is opinion, everyone's entitled to their own without discrimination.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'looking2try3' Justice Kirby , wonderful mind! When Fi did women become a minority group thou ? I could be vile and say does that make it a "poof without stats" but I wouldnt do that ! Brae .......... an arguement. Women in the work force has always been a minority. Have you ever gone on a job interview and been asked "Are you planning on getting pregnant?" I have. Besides...I think that particular "poof" would have all the stats in his head. Yes he has a brilliant legal mind.
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15 years ago
OK so women are not treated equally because they are not given MORE rights to fit in career with their other "caring" duties???? Well I'm pissed, I'm planning on being a part time stay at home dad and you know what, it is negatively affecting my income even before I've had kids as I'm having to keep a position with a lower profile to fit the kids in the future.Sooooo I'm being discriminated against right? Where's the bloody royal commission into this eh??? Why can't I make exactly all the choices that best suit me AND be the top dog in my career???? Bloody discrimination..wish I had some boobs so I could supposedly be in a minority group (huh????) and therefore demand for more than my fair share.Shite, lucky some of my recent immigrant mates (male and female) don't sit around whining about how unfair things are, they dig in, work hard and I know many of them take home more bacon than any high level exec.So does Fi believe the stuff she espouses or is she as she says just stirring up conflict? So Peachy, you found one of the thousands of studies that people do to keep themselves in a job and they came up with some facts:Less women in exec roles....WHERE are the VALID statistics of the NUMBER of men compared to women actually seeking these positions....could it not be PLAUSIBLE that for every one woman applying for a senior position there may be 12 equally qualified men applying????? Fuck, we need Mythbusters on the case but hang on they are male so they'd lie right?Is it not also PLAUSIBLE that there are more women than men that WANT to take time off when they have a baby??? I know I'm trying to get all my male friends to take paternity leave with me so we can all have a ball at Daddy Daycare but I've only got one recruit so far!!! And even though my wife loves her career, she often regrets HER choice (made with me) that HER career was going to take precedent over mine and I'd do the kiddy caring in sake of my career not hers. So should she be able to drop her career, take a few years off and come back on more money than she left on??? IT JUS DOESNT HAPPEN..it is not economically possible...these are the CHOICES we make!!!!!!Sorry girls you just are not making any good points to make me think you're not just whining or stirring the pot.
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15 years ago
Why is this not a fair question?My wife undertook training only offered to a handful of people a year, it was intense and there was absolutely no room for taking a break for a week holiday let alone a baby. So yes she was asked, and yes she delayed having one and yes she thinks it was a fair question and expectation as a lot of time and money was being allocated to train her.Now she's at the pointy end and she relies heavily on those who work close with her and if they take off then it not only affects her but all of her clients. It is a fact that many roles are vital for a business to run so one MUST know if there are going to be future deficits in their staff.You can answer a question with the truth or a lie Are you planning on taking a year off to travel?? Is this a fair question? If you lied and took the job then fucked off in a year would your employer have the right to be pissed?Are you getting pregnant in the next 12 months? Why is this not fair? So you're going to employ someone, maybe spend thousands on training them for a role only to have them take time off just when they start to become productive??? THis is not discrimination, this is pure business! IF YOU WANT EQUALITY then answer the damn question and deal with the consequences. IF YOU WANT THE TOP POSITION then you cant afford to take the time off to do ANYTHING whether you're male or female.Can it not be more simple?
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15 years ago
Quoting 'Baise_Moi' Call me old fashioned but these are things I really don't think men should be doing in this day and age- menstruating- giving birth- breastfeeding- going through menopauseThank you you gorgeous woman. . . . WILDly enjoying
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15 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachypear63' Quoting 'mikeandshel'there are no 'conversations' here as someone will always pounce on it and attempt to take issue. history has already proven my words to be 100% accurate. and i don't need the abs to back that up. When I said six pack I meant abs. abs = Australian Bureau of Statistics, lol, not abdominals.
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15 years ago
Mr does the cooking in our house ...he says its the only way to get a decent feed!!
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15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy' Why is this not a fair question?My wife undertook training only offered to a handful of people a year, it was intense and there was absolutely no room for taking a break for a week holiday let alone a baby. So yes she was asked, and yes she delayed having one and yes she thinks it was a fair question and expectation as a lot of time and money was being allocated to train her.Now she's at the pointy end and she relies heavily on those who work close with her and if they take off then it not only affects her but all of her clients. It is a fact that many roles are vital for a business to run so one MUST know if there are going to be future deficits in their staff.You can answer a question with the truth or a lie Are you planning on taking a year off to travel?? Is this a fair question? If you lied and took the job then fucked off in a year would your employer have the right to be pissed?Are you getting pregnant in the next 12 months? Why is this not fair? So you're going to employ someone, maybe spend thousands on training them for a role only to have them take time off just when they start to become productive??? THis is not discrimination, this is pure business! IF YOU WANT EQUALITY then answer the damn question and deal with the consequences. IF YOU WANT THE TOP POSITION then you cant afford to take the time off to do ANYTHING whether you're male or female.Can it not be more simple? too simple for some it seems..but yes you are absolutely correct on many points........
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15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy'Why is this not a fair question?My wife undertook training only offered to a handful of people a year, it was intense and there was absolutely no room for taking a break for a week holiday let alone a baby. So yes she was asked, and yes she delayed having one and yes she thinks it was a fair question and expectation as a lot of time and money was being allocated to train her.Now she's at the pointy end and she relies heavily on those who work close with her and if they take off then it not only affects her but all of her clients. It is a fact that many roles are vital for a business to run so one MUST know if there are going to be future deficits in their staff.You can answer a question with the truth or a lieAre you planning on taking a year off to travel?? Is this a fair question? If you lied and took the job then fucked off in a year would your employer have the right to be pissed?Are you getting pregnant in the next 12 months? Why is this not fair? So you're going to employ someone, maybe spend thousands on training them for a role only to have them take time off just when they start to become productive??? THis is not discrimination, this is pure business! IF YOU WANT EQUALITY then answer the damn question and deal with the consequences. IF YOU WANT THE TOP POSITION then you cant afford to take the time off to do ANYTHING whether you're male or female.Can it not be more simple?They dont ask if a man is planning on taking maternity leave or leave to travel or any other type of leave now do they? So why should they ask that of me?
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15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' They dont ask if a man is planning on taking maternity leave or leave to travel or any other type of leave now do they? So why should they ask that of me? I can help with that Fiona, Girls are built for giving birth to babies, and guys as far as I am aware cant. But stand to be corrected I am quite often wrong here.
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15 years ago
Then quit your Firkin' whining and bloody well do something about it. Sheesh...all this carrying on about how your wife earns all the money and poor lil old you has to look after the kids...... And no, your wife should not be able to take years off and go back on a higher wage. Nor should she have to go back and start all over again or be on less wages than when she left. I am not sitting and home whinging about the deal either. Like Mrs Peach, I love my life, not stirring the pot at all. Nor do I want conflict for conflicts sake (truelly I dont) I would be happy if just one person realised that all is not equal in the land of Oz. That these inequalities can and do happen...regularly. It is not as easy as getting off your arse and having a go for many. Man, woman, immigrant or australian born, race or religion, we all deserve to be treated equally and fairly and we are not. You asked for proof without stats and now you call for more stats? Well dear man, you, like us all, cannot have it all. I gave you stats and they were not enough, I quoted from a supreme court judge and it was still not enough, newspaper quotes and websites were not enough. I guess for some....It is never going to be enough!
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15 years ago
ah bugger hey......so my friend (female) who is an executive with an international banking company is an aberration? she got there in spite of a low-income government housing estate background, in spite of coming from a single parent family, and in spite of having and raising 2 beautiful daughters along the way......on her own. or my school mate who is the CEO of her own property management company (3 children, divorced at 28)? or the Grandmother of 3 who just gained her Registered Nurse qualifications at age 47? (returning to work after 2 decades of full time motherhood) but hey you know, being a mother isn't a condition of being a woman, its just a choice. the choice is to do one or the other for most, but some manage both quite successfully. you don't get 'given' a choice, you get 'options'. you then 'choose' what to do with these 'options' and guess what? they are the same 'options' men get.... family or career. love or study.sacrifice or selfishness. don't expect or demand the playing field be artificially leveled, level it yourselves........
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15 years ago
Oops sorry not laughing at you Peachy - I really like your reasoning and I'll agree in essence you're right! I'd love everyone in this world to look after each other equally but that's never going to be a reality..we can always try to be better.BUT then..there's those like Fiona who admit they like just stirring people up for the fun of it then say they don't do it ..sheesh there is no hope for some people. WHat the hell are you really saying? That the world isnt fair....oh boo fuckin hoo. It's people like you with your righteous opinions that keep things from progressing. Look at Jackie O, the poor thing is just walking across the road and who jumps on her for a headline? WOMEN that's who! Horrible women who just love to blow their own trumpet.....a few around here too eh!!!!!! At least she'll hopefully learn something about her profession and be a better person in her position for it.Fi you want taxpayers to support single mums no matter how many children they have and support women who chose to take time off to have a baby etc etc sheesh who the fuck supports the taxpayer..oh yes right they are not a minority so stuff em hey!!!Oh...and....I ....realise...that...you...are.....a.bit....slow BUT my carrying on was a counterpoint deary, i'll try and simplify it for you: .... WE have made the choice for our careers, which will limit our level of the ladder. We have the choice to be at the top but we think family is more important...so we will give time to family above career, we wont be a CEO but we will be rounded and happy and we accept we can't have everythingWHat the hell are you on about? You bleat on that you are so together and with it but you have sooooo many issues. Oh and it is ALWAYS you that gets personal first..with me, with everyone. If only you could present a decent BALANCED argument but I fear you don't understand balance!I'm sorry life has left you so damaged I have equality and I give equality so stop speaking shit and would someone complain and get this thread closed as it seems every thread that Fi gets hold of gets boring real quick....maybe Brae was right in the first place.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' ah bugger hey......so my friend (female) who is an executive with an international banking company is an aberration? she got there in spite of a low-income government housing estate background, in spite of coming from a single parent family, and in spite of having and raising 2 beautiful daughters along the way......on her own. or my school mate who is the CEO of her own property management company (3 children, divorced at 28)? or the Grandmother of 3 who just gained her Registered Nurse qualifications at age 47? (returning to work after 2 decades of full time motherhood) but hey you know, being a mother isn't a condition of being a woman, its just a choice. the choice is to do one or the other for most, but some manage both quite successfully. you don't get 'given' a choice, you get 'options'. you then 'choose' what to do with these 'options' and guess what? they are the same 'options' men get.... family or career. love or study.sacrifice or selfishness. don't expect or demand the playing field be artificially leveled, level it yourselves........ again, someone comes along and says it how it is and much nicer and clearer than my ramblings!EQUALITY can only be judged on the laws and regulations we have to work under. So far as I know these rules are pretty damn fair for both sexes and all races. Sure there's always room for tweaking but for some to fill 6 pages saying Australia is behind is just plain stupid. Maybe we need to leave the farm and go see the rest of the world and be very, very thankful we live in the country we do!Oh if i'm wrong can someone tell me the laws that we have that are discriminatory, I'm always up for some education. Oh and I would dearly love to see the statistics that all these waste of money committees use to come up with the results that just because more men are in high positions that it's discriminatory. At the risk of sounding like a broken record, MAYBE more men want those positions???????The people that succeed in life aren't the ones that bleat on how unfair things are, they are the people that just get in and do what's required.Sure in utopia we'd all get to choose our desired job, how many kids we want, what income we want to be on, how many hours we want to work etc etc etc but of course the sane among us know this is a dream. The others think it's inequality!Now I'm off to eat my breakfast that my downtrodden wife prepared for me before leaving early to go to her job which is one of the most competitive positions to attain around..ah the inequality of it all!!
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15 years ago
Quoting 'tinquabell' A pencil sharpener makes a good point. Good point. . But don't you start, I mean this thread is just trying to one day give you an even footing amongst all the men that are constantly being promoted and paid more than you... you poor, poor thing. . And besides, your breasts are far too perky to be taken seriously.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy' Quoting 'mikeandshel' ah bugger hey......so my friend (female) who is an executive with an international banking company is an aberration? she got there in spite of a low-income government housing estate background, in spite of coming from a single parent family, and in spite of having and raising 2 beautiful daughters along the way......on her own. or my school mate who is the CEO of her own property management company (3 children, divorced at 28)? or the Grandmother of 3 who just gained her Registered Nurse qualifications at age 47? (returning to work after 2 decades of full time motherhood) but hey you know, being a mother isn't a condition of being a woman, its just a choice. the choice is to do one or the other for most, but some manage both quite successfully. you don't get 'given' a choice, you get 'options'. you then 'choose' what to do with these 'options' and guess what? they are the same 'options' men get.... family or career. love or study.sacrifice or selfishness. don't expect or demand the playing field be artificially leveled, level it yourselves........ again, someone comes along and says it how it is and much nicer and clearer than my ramblings!EQUALITY can only be judged on the laws and regulations we have to work under. So far as I know these rules are pretty damn fair for both sexes and all races. Sure there's always room for tweaking but for some to fill 6 pages saying Australia is behind is just plain stupid. Maybe we need to leave the farm and go see the rest of the world and be very, very thankful we live in the country we do!Oh if i'm wrong can someone tell me the laws that we have that are discriminatory, I'm always up for some education. Oh and I would dearly love to see the statistics that all these waste of money committees use to come up with the results that just because more men are in high positions that it's discriminatory. At the risk of sounding like a broken record, MAYBE more men want those positions???????The people that succeed in life aren't the ones that bleat on how unfair things are, they are the people that just get in and do what's required.Sure in utopia we'd all get to choose our desired job, how many kids we want, what income we want to be on, how many hours we want to work etc etc etc but of course the sane among us know this is a dream. The others think it's inequality!Now I'm off to eat my breakfast that my downtrodden wife prepared for me before leaving early to go to her job which is one of the most competitive positions to attain around..ah the inequality of it all!! there is no 'inequality'. not even a little bit.theres just those who are adult enough to do whats necessary to secure the future they want, and those who are not, and expect it served up on some platter, by a system that unfortunately panders to those who are weakest among us. it takes the taxes of hard working and responsible Australians, and funnels them through a poorly managed and widely abused welfare system and hand it in truck loads to lazy, irresponsible and downright ungrateful people who, while reaping the benefits of our "social welfare" system, still manage to cry 'its not enough' and demand more! the laws no longer discriminatory, as we no longer live in the 50's (most of us anyway) its people who are discriminatory, especially those who cry the loudest, who protest and bitch continually, without seeing that its themselves who are at fault...bitching about men and hurling silly and childish innuendo and insult while you do is not the behavior of reasonable and responsible adults. in my view you get what you give, behave like a pig and you'll get treated like one. simple give and take, action and reaction.... if the arguments put forward and the figures offered up weren't so offensive this discussion would be great reading, but like i said before, its been hijacked. again. and made into something it was never supposed to be.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy' Oops sorry not laughing at you Peachy - I really like your reasoning and I'll agree in essence you're right! I'd love everyone in this world to look after each other equally but that's never going to be a reality..we can always try to be better.BUT then..there's those like Fiona who admit they like just stirring people up for the fun of it then say they don't do it ..sheesh there is no hope for some people. WHat the hell are you really saying? That the world isnt fair....oh boo fuckin hoo. It's people like you with your righteous opinions that keep things from progressing. Look at Jackie O, the poor thing is just walking across the road and who jumps on her for a headline? WOMEN that's who! Horrible women who just love to blow their own trumpet.....a few around here too eh!!!!!! At least she'll hopefully learn something about her profession and be a better person in her position for it.Fi you want taxpayers to support single mums no matter how many children they have and support women who chose to take time off to have a baby etc etc sheesh who the fuck supports the taxpayer..oh yes right they are not a minority so stuff em hey!!!Oh...and....I ....realise...that...you...are.....a.bit....slow BUT my carrying on was a counterpoint deary, i'll try and simplify it for you: .... WE have made the choice for our careers, which will limit our level of the ladder. We have the choice to be at the top but we think family is more important...so we will give time to family above career, we wont be a CEO but we will be rounded and happy and we accept we can't have everythingWHat the hell are you on about? You bleat on that you are so together and with it but you have sooooo many issues. Oh and it is ALWAYS you that gets personal first..with me, with everyone. If only you could present a decent BALANCED argument but I fear you don't understand balance!I'm sorry life has left you so damaged I have equality and I give equality so stop speaking shit and would someone complain and get this thread closed as it seems every thread that Fi gets hold of gets boring real quick....maybe Brae was right in the first place. ah well said.... I laughed so hard a little bit of wee came out.........
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15 years ago
I have no plans on getting pregnant anytime soon. Brae .....Oh nor does sarah ! this thing has quite a life huh!
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15 years ago
Quoting 'looking2try3' I have no plans on getting pregnant anytime soon. Brae .....Oh nor does sarah ! this thing has quite a life huh! lets see how far we can go then....and extend its life until it dies a natural death, rather than someone putting it to the sword prematurely.......lol
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15 years ago
Quoting 'looking2try3' I have no plans on getting pregnant anytime soon. Brae .....Oh nor does sarah ! this thing has quite a life huh! was that your true choice though, or did she force it on you in a subtle institutionalised matriarchal way? You can feel safe to tell us Brae... I mean, this is a swingers forum, a judgement free zone ;-)
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15 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' I don't mind doing all the inside stuff, but by my own choice and doing I now have to do the outside stuff too. I still have to remind myself every week to put the damn bins out. I can practically watch the lawn grow before my eyes, so if I still had my man and I've just mowed for almost 3hrs ( yes thats how long mine takes, big bastard of a thing) and I've been out swearing and telling myself "its good for your ass , it's good for your ass" well then...........he can dang well get me a beer!!!! and he can cook me some effin bacon and eggs while he's at it!!!!! ...how about I mow your lawns, you get me a beer (or beers) and watch....then we'll take care of looking after your ass! I love mowing the lawn, very relaxing....and cooking? Love it even more, especially for a nice dinner between 2 - so long as we can make the place even dirtier after dinner before cleaning up! hehe
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15 years ago
MistressT puts everything into perspective
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provocativeparty
15 years ago
It would be nice to see a pole on home duties and who works for a living men to women pole.. how things are divide.. I know i have always done 100% of the cooking.. about 60% of the cleaning... now 100%... and I have alway made the money..(how the F#$K did I loose the whole house lol)Somewhere something went very wrong.... But i cant put my finger on it...Mr Provocative
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15 years ago
A man's role at home is to drink piss. That is all. Sheilas should put the food on the table and nothing too fancy. That is what my missus does. Roasts, spag bol, bacon and eggs, steak and chips-that's all that is needed unless i catch some fish or have a barby or am out. Who the fuck wants to cook anyway, its pissy work? And who wants to do yard work, thats pissy work too? Get out with mates, check out the talent, drink piss, do some drugs, and generally fuck around and make a nuisance. Everything else is a waste of time.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'Dirtyfuka' A man's role at home is to drink piss. That is all. Sheilas should put the food on the table and nothing too fancy. That is what my missus does. Roasts, spag bol, bacon and eggs, steak and chips-that's all that is needed unless i catch some fish or have a barby or am out. Who the fuck wants to cook anyway, its pissy work? And who wants to do yard work, thats pissy work too? Get out with mates, check out the talent, drink piss, do some drugs, and generally fuck around and make a nuisance. Everything else is a waste of time. another waste of space, grow up will you?
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15 years ago
Personally, if I had a boss, I'd rather it was a man. Someone who didn't have crazy mood swings. :) Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Dirtyfuka'A man's role at home is to drink piss. That is all. Sheilas should put the food on the table and nothing too fancy. That is what my missus does. Roasts, spag bol, bacon and eggs, steak and chips-that's all that is needed unless I need to be rolled over i catch some fish or have a barby or am out. Who the fuck wants to cook anyway, its pissy work? And who wants to do yard work, thats pissy work too? fuck your lawns must be long Get out with mates, check out the talent, drink piss,talk shit do some drugs, and generally fuck around and make a nuisance. Everything else is a waste of time. Including her happiness Sweet jesus Dirty tell me you're nice to your wife SOMEtimes
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RHP User
15 years ago
Both of my longest term relationships (8 & 5 years) have been with men who were seriously good cooks. Maybe there is something in that ;-) My ex husband's crispy fish salad was so amazing I think I married him for it lol. A man with a vacuum in hand is also pretty damn sexy! Women porn ;-) I say this because it is still a statistic that women do the majority of the housework while also working equivalent hours. I appreciate nothing more than a man cleaning, cooking and giving me a massage!!! As long as the division of labour is equal noone can get resentful. LAC x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'provocativeparty' It would be nice to see a pole on home duties and who works for a living men to women pole.. how things are divide.. I know i have always done 100% of the cooking.. about 60% of the cleaning... now 100%... and I have alway made the money..(how the F#$K did I loose the whole house lol)Somewhere something went very wrong.... But i cant put my finger on it...Mr Provocative in a 'real' relationship theres no need to 'divide' just share. we do whatever we need to, when it needs doing. both of us can and will do everything thats needed to keep our lives running on an even keel, be that cooking, washing or even cleaning the toilets. theres only one or two things that need doing that Shel cannot do.....swing a whipper snipper or lug a lawnmower. at 50, she shouldnt have to anyway. .......and for the same token, theres not much i cant do either, having been a stay at home dad myself in years past.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Some great responses...and (as RHP protocol demands) some odd ones. Mr H3 here. The world is confusing for a gent. I'll go on record admitting that. I can't "hard talk" a lady. In fact I don't want too. Ladies always first through the door. Never assume what a lady wants or desires...but feel free to explore...she will let you know. Old values are dying. This much is true. But they have a place. Much like the way we learn, listen, communicate and love has changed. So must we. Mrs H3 and I have a very "dynamic" relationship. "Pants" are unisex and exchanged as required. Cooking, washing, work, kids, housework, income etc is all handled in a very flexible manner. There are no defined roles. But if the lady needs a "knight protector"...if only to deal with a nasty spider...then the Mr steps up. When Mr wants a lady to sit with, then she happily sits and shoots the shit over a beer or two.Can I suggest that the ultimate answer to this fab question lay with the individuals involved. Individuals are after all what makes each of us unique. Peachy...life without passion is death. xox hun
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi H3, I don't think I've seen you post before..I hope I get to see many more.As always it seems, I have some disagreement though.... if there's a nasty spider then Mr Pup will be found fighting Mrs Pup for the safest possy away from it!!!!! Haha
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy' Hi H3, I don't think I've seen you post before..I hope I get to see many more.As always it seems, I have some disagreement though.... if there's a nasty spider then Mr Pup will be found fighting Mrs Pup for the safest possy away from it!!!!! Haha hey its the same here.... I'll deal with anything, but if its got 8 legs/eyes, I'm outta there........
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RHP User
15 years ago
nice of you to notice..."long time listener, first time caller" as they say in radio land.I'll define our roles. "there is always shit that needs doing. Someones gotta do it"
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sorry ladies, I know feminists fought for years to get equality but let me say the following:I love that I can work... My life would probably cease to exist if I didn't work. In saying that, I am my partners woman. I will cook, clean, do anything and everything that he asks because I believe that is my role as his partner. I like that he will tell me what to do or what he wants and how he wants it done. I like that he takes control and makes me feel safe.Thats not to say I won't stand up for myself because I will... but honestly .. the whole equality thing is overrated. I'm a romantic apparently and I love doors being opened for me and cooking dinner for him (even if it's so bad he can barely eat it) and I love that when it all comes down to it, he will protect me :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
love to eat and love to cook. love to see someone enjoying a meal i have cooked. never lived with a partner so correct me if i am wrong, but if you ladies come home and the housework is done then you got more time for a bit of bedroom action right
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