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the 'language' of love?
April 14 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Often. But not usually unless I am trying to make a particular point when writing as it is not my writing style. Too many years studying and my assignment would not have been accepted if I did use profanity, and certainly very rarely in public. What is the difference between men and women swearing? None! I spent many years working in the shearing industry, back in the eighties I was often the only women in the team, men swearing is just as cheap as women swearing. It is not only women with this problem, the songs that the kids listen to are full of profanity and many have been banned from my kids ipods. Those that do litter thier comments with this type of language probably speak that way in real life. They dont know any better and they probably think it is cool. FFS.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I try and pick my audience to my gutter mouth. Im confused though in that you mention swearing in forums. Do you mean the use of terms such as "pussy, cock" etc as the "language of love" or the F and C words? ( see? im trying to pick my audience here..) I find the first two examples as commonplace talk on here and doesn't bother me in the slightest considering vagina and penis reminds me of the doctors surgery- bit too clinical. Even the "F" word doesn't make me batter an eyelash but the "C" word I'd personally never use as I'm sure Id get struck down with lightning. In conversations with my girlfriends I can let fly if Im particularly riled about something then the "S" the occasional "F" and my throwback to having irish parents.."ruddy and bloody" can come out! I'll admit I swear more then my husband who never swears in front of me. Id never use profanities in front of my parents, oldies and the general public. Private conversations/chats in here can be another matter..
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RHP User
15 years ago
This is casual time, it is fun to swear!! call me sailor/slapper/stupid i don't care JUDGE AWAY!!! If people don't like it then they can hang our with someone more 'posh/proper/PC''
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' This is casual time, it is fun to swear!! call me sailor/slapper/stupid i don't care JUDGE AWAY!!! If people don't like it then they can hang our with someone more 'posh/proper/PC'' we were asking a question is all.... no need to judge, you did that for yourself.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Often. But not usually unless I am trying to make a particular point when writing as it is not my writing style. Too many years studying and my assignment would not have been accepted if I did use profanity, and certainly very rarely in public. What is the difference between men and women swearing? None! I spent many years working in the shearing industry, back in the eighties I was often the only women in the team, men swearing is just as cheap as women swearing. It is not only women with this problem, the songs that the kids listen to are full of profanity and many have been banned from my kids ipods. Those that do litter thier comments with this type of language probably speak that way in real life. They dont know any better and they probably think it is cool. FFS. and this makes it what? OK? its neither cool nor smart. we were asking because it seems to be a very disturbing 'norm'. it doesnt matter where its heard. or who it is that swears, to us its offensive. i was asking because we are amazed that men and women who are on sites like these to meet for play etc, seem to feel obliged to be the most offensive they can be, and we don't understand. is it to impress? show off? shock? i dont like being called 'c--t' or being told to 'f-ck off', and neither does my wife. lately tho it seems to be the women. i do not swear to or at women. never have. but women seem to have no issue swearing at us/me. am asking why?
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15 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65' I try and pick my audience to my gutter mouth. Im confused though in that you mention swearing in forums. Do you mean the use of terms such as "pussy, cock" etc as the "language of love" or the F and C words? ( see? im trying to pick my audience here..) I find the first two examples as commonplace talk on here and doesn't bother me in the slightest considering vagina and penis reminds me of the doctors surgery- bit too clinical. Even the "F" word doesn't make me batter an eyelash but the "C" word I'd personally never use as I'm sure Id get struck down with lightning. In conversations with my girlfriends I can let fly if Im particularly riled about something then the "S" the occasional "F" and my throwback to having irish parents.."ruddy and bloody" can come out! I'll admit I swear more then my husband who never swears in front of me. Id never use profanities in front of my parents, oldies and the general public. Private conversations/chats in here can be another matter.. dont have issue with the softer things...pussy cock etc. but take offence when a woman tell me to f-ck off or call me a c-nt. as much as my wife is offended when someone who is purportedly trying impress her, peppers their chats etc with c-nt this and f-ck that. we dont swear at anyone or call them names. its saves having to go through the tedious motions of putting down my drink and removing my watch. in some ways, at nearly 50, we are very old fashioned, and i take great pleasure in demonstrating my indignation when someone offends me or mine in public.........
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RHP User
15 years ago
But agree that it's pretty crass and very unladylike. . I also agree with Saturn that audience is everything. And my swearing is only ever in context - to throw around foul language out of context and merely for the sake of it to me, suggests a limitation in good vocabulary and social graces - male or female - however the times they are a'changin I guess and for some reason unbeknownst to me, society is a lot more accepting of it than ever before. Seems a shame really ...
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RHP User
15 years ago
but does it have to read like the author has Tourettes? its bad enough that males are free with their expletives, but when it comes from women, it makes me shiver. not with fear, but with disgust.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am not sure why it is that women's speak is being single out here. Is it OK for men to swear up a storm, but not OK for women to use foul language? IS that what the issue is? Woman acting like ladies? I swear far too much, and I know that it is not for every one. Therefore, I try to limit it to the right kinds of circumstances. This place (RHP) seems like the right kind of place to speak freely. For me, swearing loudly on the street, or in a public place where people might be offended, would be crossing a line. However, I would be equally offended by a man or a woman crossing that line. I guess I could be mis-interpretting your question, but it seems to me like you are only concerned about the way women talk. Why is that? Just asking....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Different situtions call for different actions. I can swear like crazy but know when not too. Most of the time frustration with other peoples actions make the swear words fly. They are the angry words and yep there probably are better words to use but my inner dictionary shuts down and the F's and C's fly. But what about during sex????? Whispering in your mans ear " I need you to fuck me baby" etc. A lot of guys seem to like a bit of dirty talk in bed. Anddddd What about swearing in a different language? Is it less offensive if people dont know what your saying?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'xxticklishxx' Different situtions call for different actions. I can swear like crazy but know when not too. Most of the time frustration with other peoples actions make the swear words fly. They are the angry words and yep there probably are better words to use but my inner dictionary shuts down and the F's and C's fly. But what about during sex????? Whispering in your mans ear " I need you to fuck me baby" etc. A lot of guys seem to like a bit of dirty talk in bed. Anddddd What about swearing in a different language? Is it less offensive if people dont know what your saying? what happens in the bedroom is fine, its in private. am talking about in a public situation.... here in the forums, out in the world etc. seems you can no longer even ride on a council bus without being exposed to it.... I sat on a bus a few weeks back and endured the potty mouths of 2 twenty-somethings (check out chicks no less)......... until i shut them up by reminding them of the 15 or so primary school children who could also hear them. i'm no prude, but these things were way out of hand.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't judge a woman based on her use of swear words, as long as she says could 'have' instead of could 'of' and capsicum instead of capsicun and understands that youse is probably not a word, she can continue to do my cooking and cleaning.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' I don't judge a woman based on her use of swear words, as long as she says could 'have' instead of could 'of' and capsicum instead of capsicun and understands that youse is probably not a word, she can continue to do my cooking and cleaning. ok. gettn off track here, but thats no surprise. not judging, just asking why it seems that everyone, especially women lately, are so free with their colourful language, in public.
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RHP User
15 years ago
By focussing your attention on what a lady should and shouldn't do, you're neglecting the fact that it's also ungentlemanly for men to pepper their sentences with unnecessary swearwords, you sexist fucks.xx Sarah
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15 years ago
Go easy on me Sarah, I said MALE or female!!! :-D
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15 years ago
Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78'By focussing your attention on what a lady should and shouldn't do, you're neglecting the fact that it's also ungentlemanly for men to pepper their sentences with unnecessary swearwords, you sexist fucks. xx Sarah Geez I like you could not have said it better myself. Its gettting harder not to be judged on absolutely everything we do now, not only on what we choose to do in the bedroom, but how we ask them to come with us
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RHP User
15 years ago
Whilst oft I choose the path of the contrarian, albeit due more so to my more secular contumacious nature...I personally take no offence. My virginal visual and auditory senses remain unscathed. | Besides...if she is fucking hard against my tongue with her hot pussy saturating my face and starts screaming, I might just hear the same words? | Short form....who gives a shit? Please note that all words have been spelled correctly and not a word in text speak. | ...ffs.
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RHP User
15 years ago
as always people jump on their soapboxes without bothering to read the topic as posted.............its says......and I type slowly for you all...... in 'conversation and even here in forum posts' .......... seems that comprehension is not a strong point for many. I dont mention what goes on in private, because its exactly that...in private.... the observation I made was about language used in a general and more public way.... duh!
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15 years ago
wow..you had me for a minute then Chasing Midnight !! brb.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Whilst oft I choose the path of the contrarian, albeit due more so to my more secular contumacious nature...I personally take no offence. My virginal visual and auditory senses remain unscathed. | Besides...if she is fucking hard against my tongue with her hot pussy saturating my face and starts screaming, I might just hear the same words? | Short form....who gives a shit? Please note that all words have been spelled correctly and not a word in text speak. | ...ffs. was never a solicitation for a display of linguistic gymnastics. as we find that avocation both boorish and perfidious....... its only clever one or two times, and then it really does become just another juvenile show of imagined cleverness. oooh look at me and the big words i found mummy!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Have you noticed how younger ppl use the "no offence" statement....like, "you look like a fucking(retar...) goose in those boots....no offence! I mean really! It's permission to offend by acknowledging political correctness .........ffs :-D
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RHP User
15 years ago
Honey follow me into the bedroom and if you dont mind terribly could you put your nicely aroused penis inside my vagina, I've already pre-moistened whilst thinking about your afore mentioned appendage. And if its not too much to ask could you please use a lot of force and momentum to get me to my desired ending? . Lol just not quite the same as get your hard cock into the bedroom now and fuck me really hard until I scream with a mind blowing orgasm....kind of gets lost in the translation. . I get what you are saying a little, but should women only be allowed to swear in the bedroom and then modify it everywhere else? Im sure most people do anyway, you just feel out the situation and adjust accordingly
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15 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' Honey follow me into the bedroom and if you dont mind terribly could you put your nicely aroused penis inside my vagina, I've already pre-moistened whilst thinking about your afore mentioned appendage. And if its not too much to ask could you please use a lot of force and momentum to get me to my desired ending? . Lol just not quite the same as get your hard cock into the bedroom now and fuck me really hard until I scream with a mind blowing orgasm....kind of gets lost in the translation. . I get what you are saying a little, but should women only be allowed to swear in the bedroom and then modify it everywhere else? Im sure most people do anyway, you just feel out the situation and adjust accordingly I haven't used any 'props' for sex yet, but if my lover started speaking with the afore mentioned language, i'd gag them QUICK SMART! As i tell the to shut the fuck up because the dirty things i am going to do them has no room for language like that!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I try not to swear but it sometimes slips out because it is so common placefor people talking in general.My ears do pucker up when a woman swears, it is a tad bit of a turn off.I even would say it comes a close third to a woman spitting or farting in public.A lady is a lady when she carries herself with pride and self respect.Just my opinion.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I get what you are saying but can only think of ONE women forum poster at the moment that is over the top and using what I consider foul and juvenistic type language.This is happening in the gangbang thread to point you if you dont know what Im talking about, in the right direction. Can you please give examples of where you think women are using the "C" word , Particularly ...and F words elsewhere? Are you also saying you have recieved messages on RHP from women calling either you or your wife a 'C"?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' This is casual time, it is fun to swear!! call me sailor/slapper/stupid i don't care JUDGE AWAY!!! If people don't like it then they can hang our with someone more 'posh/proper/PC'' we were asking a question is all.... no need to judge, you did that for yourself." What you wrote sounds like judgement to me?? "whats with women these days? it seems to be the 'norm' for women to swear, like sailors, in conversation and even here in forum posts. for us, its offensive, and dont understand the need for it." and " but when it comes from women, it makes me shiver. not with fear, but with disgust. " If someone says what i do offensive, then that is judgement in my book? You guys really like pointing out the negative, like OVA and OVA and OVA... zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz But posting statements that are condescending with patronising tones like the below example is just too much!!!.... You are not superior to anyone here, so knock it back a peg or two would ya? FFS!! "as always people jump on their soapboxes without bothering to read the topic as posted.............its says......and I type slowly for you all...... in 'conversation and even here in forum posts' .......... seems that comprehension is not a strong point for many. I dont mention what goes on in private, because its exactly that...in private.... the observation I made was about language used in a general and more public way.... duh! "
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'japaniso'I try not to swear but it sometimes slips out because it is so common place for people talking in general. My ears do pucker up when a woman swears, it is a tad bit of a turn off. I even would say it comes a close third to a woman spitting or farting in public. A lady is a lady when she carries herself with pride and self respect. Just my opinion.No offence Japaniso .. and after Mikeandshells bus comment ( which I find a bit off you deem them to be checkout chicks because of their language Mike ) .. but where do some of you guys live??
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ok sorry bout that- you were saying that they were "checkout chicks no less". Still I dislike the judgement on a whole for the misdeeds of a few.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think there is a time and place for swearing etc, but to be honest it just shows a lack of intelligence in my opinion. Meh. I think you can still get your point across just as well without it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
How enticing, precious angel! I would be ever so delighted to accompany you and as a considerate benefactor of your womanly graces, would ensure that I do not disrupt a solitary hair that may prance from your luxiourious mane in...| Quoting 'dontgothere' Honey follow me into the bedroom and if you dont mind terribly could you put your nicely aroused penis inside my vagina, I've already pre-moistened whilst thinking about your afore mentioned appendage. And if its not too much to ask could you please use a lot of force and momentum to get me to my desired ending?| And if you find my attention to you exciting...perhaps you will experience a femal ejaculatory climax of extraodinary proportion and allow me the pleasure of experiencing the manna of your liquid womanhood. | Ohhhhhhhhh, ta! | When the snobs close the curtains I got the silk ropes and will fuck you blind. Deal?
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RHP User
15 years ago
I was laughing to fucking hard to give a rats ass about my spelling...but the offer still stands. | Tooooooo much.
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RHP User
15 years ago
where I was saying f-ck more than usual. Usually was reserved for the bedroom... something like oh yes, f-ck me harder or f-ck that feels so good. When I was married, I hardly ever said f-ck that feels so good. As the years has gone on, I have felt it creeping into my vocab and the other day I said to a friend I say it too much and he said yes I had been using it a bit. So have to make an effort to reduce my usage. The c word only gets said under my breath!
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15 years ago
Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' This is casual time, it is fun to swear!! call me sailor/slapper/stupid i don't care JUDGE AWAY!!! If people don't like it then they can hang our with someone more 'posh/proper/PC'' we were asking a question is all.... no need to judge, you did that for yourself." What you wrote sounds like judgement to me?? "whats with women these days? it seems to be the 'norm' for women to swear, like sailors, in conversation and even here in forum posts. for us, its offensive, and dont understand the need for it." and " but when it comes from women, it makes me shiver. not with fear, but with disgust. " If someone says what i do offensive, then that is judgement in my book? You guys really like pointing out the negative, like OVA and OVA and OVA... zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz But posting statements that are condescending with patronising tones like the below example is just too much!!!.... You are not superior to anyone here, so knock it back a peg or two would ya? FFS!! "as always people jump on their soapboxes without bothering to read the topic as posted.............its says......and I type slowly for you all...... in 'conversation and even here in forum posts' .......... seems that comprehension is not a strong point for many. I dont mention what goes on in private, because its exactly that...in private.... the observation I made was about language used in a general and more public way.... duh! " we werent singling anyone out. you seemed to put your hand up is all. and as i said, 'we' found it offensive. dont see how that judges you, when 'we' denotes us. its very different from saying 'you' offend us. at no point do 'we' feel we are superior. quite the contrary, we are actually just average. and yea, people hijack the topics and soapbox. its not fair and gets way off subject and off track. understand too that i do feel as though people didn't get what i wrote in the first place, even though its written in plain English.............
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'japaniso' I try not to swear but it sometimes slips out because it is so common placefor people talking in general.My ears do pucker up when a woman swears, it is a tad bit of a turn off.I even would say it comes a close third to a woman spitting or farting in public.A lady is a lady when she carries herself with pride and self respect.Just my opinion. which is what we were driving at in the first place. ...........thank you........
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am a prolific swearer...my template reply to unsolicited messages even has the words : "Fuck off and leave me alone" in it...I find that this is much more effective than "Please do not contact me further" especially as my profile already says not to bother and send me messages... . While my writing style is tempered (a little) in comparison to my day to day speech so as to try and not offend too many people I will admit that i often reread what has been written and edit it...crossing out all those nasty swear words...my day to day speech is littered with swear words - when in discussion with my drivers etc but not in dealing with clients...and of course if I am at a pub etc then yes I freely admit to swearing . Did my mother raise me in this manner??? No way!!! But having worked in seriously male dominated industry where sometimes it was the only way to get them to listen - you had to be one of the boys to get your voice heard - it has become a part of my general sppech. . Does this make me any less articulate?? I dont think so...I feel that often it is the only way to get a point across . Kisses Focus
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15 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65' Ok sorry bout that- you were saying that they were "checkout chicks no less". Still I dislike the judgement on a whole for the misdeeds of a few. i pointed out that they were check out chicks because thats what they were. and easily identifiable by their uniforms. there was no inference or judgment.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'Sensual36' I think there is a time and place for swearing etc, but to be honest it just shows a lack of intelligence in my opinion. Meh. I think you can still get your point across just as well without it. absolutely. we were asking questions and sharing an opinion, but the time and place thing is absolutely valid. the assumption is that we are all OK with bad language, but the reality is that many of us are not, and that it potentially ruins whats going on at the time......
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RHP User
15 years ago
yes Focus.. Upon reflection, that is when i went wrong.. was only female in the office at one stage....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sorry saturn, Did I say check out chick.I thought I said, fart, spit and swear.mmmTo be honest, swearing isn't all that bad, its how you swear that makes a womanlook bad but I should say guy as well.I wouldn't walk into an aged care facility and talk to residents there with a foul mouth.It's all about respecting those around you at time and place.I don't hold it against anyone for being annoyed with some one enough to say F off, but it all depends on the circumstance doesn't it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I tend to swear a bit but when you race cars you tend to hang around guys that turn the air blue occasionally. I never liked the use of c*nt for a woman's vagina but in the BDSM world it is the norm. Also the use of f*ck is common for sex and I am now used to both and am no longer offended.I do find it offensive when every second word out of a person's mouth is f*ckin'. Such as "We were goin' along the f*ckin' road and this f*ckin' car f*ckin' cuts in front of us" (overheard at the shopping center from a young man of around 18 or 19) Where is the soap to wash their mouths out?
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15 years ago
Quote " Sorry saturn, Did I say check out chick. I thought I said, fart, spit and swear.mmm" ..No you didn't say checkout chick I thought i had made myself clear by underlining your quote... Mike you could have said two girls swearing without making a deal about there job title..YES you were making a judgement- stand up and and at least admit it. I see you didn't answer rest of my question...wonders why....??
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15 years ago
whats a council bus??? do you have check out chicks in their 20s??? wow im impressed but whats a council bus??? roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes I know I swear too much and I'm not proud of that, especially when I let out an expletive accidently in front of someone like say my mother...I hate that disappointed look she gives me (only time she gives me it). My father was a chronic swearer and I blame him, although he'd never swear in front of a lady - he should have extended that to kids too!Mrs Pup is a lady and she almost never swears, about the only time I've heard her is when I've been an absolute selfish goose and luckily I do try not to be one very often. I'll agree with mikeandshel though that in general we all swear all too often and inappropriately. Why? I think we have less care for those around us and it's only getting worse. Yep kids and adults alike might be swearing on the bus, they also wont give their seats up for the elderly or a pregnant woman. What I don't see though is that it's worse just for women. I also don't know who's telling them to F#@K off or calling them C#@ts ....I don't see people throwing these insults around in the forums and in public it's only the low lifes who woudl level those terms at someone unless you really really insulted them in some way?
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15 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65' I get what you are saying but can only think of ONE women forum poster at the moment that is over the top and using what I consider foul and juvenistic type language.This is happening in the gangbang thread to point you if you dont know what Im talking about, in the right direction. Can you please give examples of where you think women are using the "C" word , Particularly ...and F words elsewhere? Are you also saying you have recieved messages on RHP from women calling either you or your wife a 'C"? What? and start an inquisition? not a chance. was merely generalizing and stating a point of view and asking for feedback. am not about to point fingers, as this is not a schoolyard. haven't read the gangbang thread as its a topic we see no joy in for us. it happens is all you need to know. as to the 'private messages', yes we have received some absolutely nasty messages of hate, jealousy and cruelty, and some that have had more than just a hint of threat and malice in them. over forum posts and comments and for just saying 'no' to people we didnt feel matched what we seek.... these have been from couples and singles, male and female. but we digress, the basic question in our topic was us being offended and not understanding the need for colorful language (especially from women)......
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15 years ago
Quoting 'amysterious1' yes Focus.. Upon reflection, that is when i went wrong.. was only female in the office at one stage.... and I was the only male in an all female work environment. but never spoke inappropriately. was always too frightened.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'MistressT' I tend to swear a bit but when you race cars you tend to hang around guys that turn the air blue occasionally. I never liked the use of c*nt for a woman's vagina but in the BDSM world it is the norm. Also the use of f*ck is common for sex and I am now used to both and am no longer offended.I do find it offensive when every second word out of a person's mouth is f*ckin'. Such as "We were goin' along the f*ckin' road and this f*ckin' car f*ckin' cuts in front of us" (overheard at the shopping center from a young man of around 18 or 19) Where is the soap to wash their mouths out? which was how these two 'retail technicians' were speaking.......in front of a bus load of primary school children and a few old dears........where was the soap? aisle 9?
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15 years ago
Quoting 'TassieRose' whats a council bus??? do you have check out chicks in their 20s??? wow im impressed but whats a council bus??? roxxy a council bus.... you know.... the city supplies them, theyre big and belch diesel soot and cost way too much and are usually late, but.......... they are handy on occasion.....but full of screaming school kids and foul mouthed young 'retail sales technicians' and dejected workers whose bikes been in the shop for 9 weeks......lol.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65' I see you didn't answer rest of my question...wonders why....?? don't wonder too much...was busy is all and occupied with children and grandchildren who also demand our time.....would be OK, but there's just so many of them....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sorry If I didn't make myself clear before but I am most definatly referencing your fart and spit comments lol..seriously, how many times in your life have you seen a woman spit or fart in public? If a lot or even a few times then yes again Im enquiring as to where you live to see this happen as Im genuinly surprised. Maybe I live in a bubble of suburbia that this does not exist and for that I am thankful. Or maybe the wind gusts blow seaward before my delicate nose can smell such ungainly smells...but in regards to this topic I think that as far as forums go I cant really see where OP is getting his opinion from..am waiting for them to show me.
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RHP User
15 years ago
It all reminds me of an old song that was playing in the eighties (I think) about how we didnt make the guns, we didnt make the factories, we didnt start the wars. Mikeandshel...we are the generation that has raised these no good types that swear prolifically in the streets and at public venues. Yes, you and I and all the others in our age group. We ( and I use the 'we' collectively) can take the blame for all of the expletives, rough language and the whole enchillada. We failed our children and in turn, they are failing thiers. We obviously did not set a good enough example. Remember "we" are the generation that laughed at comedian Rodney Rude. The man who made a living out of profanity on stage....."hey Santa...where's me fuckin' bike?" No body likes to be called a cunt or be told to fuck off and the one question I and many others have asked is...why is it so bad for a woman to swear like a trooper in public and not for a man? I personally find both offensive. We teach our boys and our girls about 'paddock language' You just gotta swear when working sheep and dogs. There is no other way.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We think the occosional swear word is fine, but not as everyday lanuage. Its a turn off! By either sex! We have said " No" to play based on excessive swearing.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' This is casual time, it is fun to swear!! call me sailor/slapper/stupid i don't care JUDGE AWAY!!! If people don't like it then they can hang our with someone more 'posh/proper/PC'' Agree totally Boobalicious - at work I'm professional non swearing KPI talking professional - on this site afterhours I want no scensoring and I'll ******>>>>@@@@@@@@@@@ say what I want lol.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' It all reminds me of an old song that was playing in the eighties (I think) about how we didnt make the guns, we didnt make the factories, we didnt start the wars. Mikeandshel...we are the generation that has raised these no good types that swear prolifically in the streets and at public venues. Yes, you and I and all the others in our age group. We ( and I use the 'we' collectively) can take the blame for all of the expletives, rough language and the whole enchillada. We failed our children and in turn, they are failing thiers. We obviously did not set a good enough example. Remember "we" are the generation that laughed at comedian Rodney Rude. The man who made a living out of profanity on stage....."hey Santa...where's me fuckin' bike?" No body likes to be called a cunt or be told to fuck off and the one question I and many others have asked is...why is it so bad for a woman to swear like a trooper in public and not for a man? I personally find both offensive. We teach our boys and our girls about 'paddock language' You just gotta swear when working sheep and dogs. There is no other way. we did none of those things Fiona. you may have, but most definitely not us. the women we spoke of were our ages, in their forties and even in their fifties........i taught them nothing and set them no examples..... the 2 on the bus were just another example. we were making comment on women. not girls and boys who are barely more than children. and to set the record straight, we find Rodney Rude offensive, taught our children to be respectful and never used poor language in front of any of them. we/they do not swear or curse in front of women, or children. if they do it out of our earshot then we dont really care, but if its used in conversation with us or with my wife, one of us will put a stop to it. if you think its ok, thats your business, but we dont. if you wish to put your hand up and take the collective blame, then good luck to you. and no......after working in the industries I have and managing to 'keep my cool' i can defintely say that you do not need to swear to make yourself understood. why 'bastardize' a perfectly good language? besides......if you lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas..... I come from a single parent low income government housing background, but managed to keep myself and my reputation clean.I grew up knowing some of the worst people you could ever meet, and managed to remain untarnished. I have worked in the Road Transport, Maritime Shipping, Mining, Justice,Law Enforcement, Building and now Manufacturing Industries,usually in a 'hands on' role, and at no point have had to compromise even one principle to be "one of the boys". swearing, cursing, name calling and the like are all 'discretionary', meaning you have the choice to speak well or speak poorly. i know which way i choose, and i know which way my wife chooses........ as for my post not being about men, well thats just another topic for another day, and i'm sure you dont wish to get into a discussion about how juvenile i think men who swear prolifically are do you? as a final point too....I've not ever heard the language that came from these young womens mouths while riding on a council bus half laden with children at any stage before, from anyone, male or female. it was a disappointing eye opener.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy' Yes I know I swear too much and I'm not proud of that, especially when I let out an expletive accidently in front of someone like say my mother...I hate that disappointed look she gives me (only time she gives me it). My father was a chronic swearer and I blame him, although he'd never swear in front of a lady - he should have extended that to kids too!Mrs Pup is a lady and she almost never swears, about the only time I've heard her is when I've been an absolute selfish goose and luckily I do try not to be one very often. I'll agree with mikeandshel though that in general we all swear all too often and inappropriately. Why? I think we have less care for those around us and it's only getting worse. Yep kids and adults alike might be swearing on the bus, they also wont give their seats up for the elderly or a pregnant woman. What I don't see though is that it's worse just for women. I also don't know who's telling them to F#@K off or calling them C#@ts ....I don't see people throwing these insults around in the forums and in public it's only the low lifes who woudl level those terms at someone unless you really really insulted them in some way? i used the forums as an example. as we've been berated and abused in many private messages in response to opinions and comments we posted on various forums. and have passed them on to site admin. the upset is also out there in public. being abused by women in general, and women using foul language. but please, i say women meaning 'of our age', not really sure why, but we expect better than that from women. might just be our upbringing?
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15 years ago
Hmmm… let me see, destructive swearing would be one side of the coin, the other side of the coin would be constructive swearing. We cannot have one without the other. When we are aware of it, and embrace it, somehow we do not get affected negatively by it no more. Resisting to it creates suffering, and this is when we find it offensive, low, degrading, on and on. As we become more and more aware, we tend to use more constructive swearing, and this is not offensive at all. Desireher.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Whilst oft I choose the path of the contrarian, albeit due more so to my more secular contumacious nature...I personally take no offence. My virginal visual and auditory senses remain unscathed. | Besides...if she is fucking hard against my tongue with her hot pussy saturating my face and starts screaming, I might just hear the same words? | Short form....who gives a shit? Please note that all words have been spelled correctly and not a word in text speak. | ...ffs. was never a solicitation for a display of linguistic gymnastics. as we find that avocation both boorish and perfidious....... its only clever one or two times, and then it really does become just another juvenile show of imagined cleverness. oooh look at me and the big words i found mummy! For someone who is claiming to not be judging.. there seems to be an awful lot of put downs.. if you don't like people who swear, ask them to leave, or more to the point don't ask them to come.. if you don't like the language used in forums, don't read them.. It really isn't that hard to work out.. why should people have to conform to what you think is the right way? People are people and at some stage everyone, including you, will say or do something that upset the minority..And while I understand that you can't be expected to be a hermit and not go anywhere for fear of hearing a few F bombs be dropped, you can not expect people to know that you take the moral high ground on speech but are quite happy to frequent a site like this and put your wife on display.. If the speech offends you, ask them to cease or you can get up and walk away..And if you think puttin "it" about town is MORE lady like than saying fuck.. You are delusional
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15 years ago
well i think considering this is a sex site and we choose and pay to use it that one can say and do as they wish.if one takes offense well dont read it.its not like you have to listen to it.in public yes different story not the right place for it.go to a work place or pub /club its all common language and yes it probably is getting worse but has always been that way and wont change.a lot of the time people dont realise the words they use.dont know thats just my take on it.women men no different but certain words shouldnt be used ie c*#ts. other words have many different meanings depends how they are used. oh being a sex site we mainly sign up to find a sex friend its not facebook
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15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' It all reminds me of an old song that was playing in the eighties (I think) about how we didnt make the guns, we didnt make the factories, we didnt start the wars. We didnt start the fire - Billy Joel 1989 Mikeandshel...we are the generation that has raised these no good types that swear prolifically in the streets and at public venues. Yes, you and I and all the others in our age group. We ( and I use the 'we' collectively) can take the blame for all of the expletives, rough language and the whole enchillada. We failed our children and in turn, they are failing thiers. We obviously did not set a good enough example. Remember "we" are the generation that laughed at comedian Rodney Rude. The man who made a living out of profanity on stage....."hey Santa...where's me fuckin' bike?" No body likes to be called a cunt or be told to fuck off and the one question I and many others have asked is...why is it so bad for a woman to swear like a trooper in public and not for a man? I personally find both offensive. We teach our boys and our girls about 'paddock language' You just gotta swear when working sheep and dogs. There is no other way. I didnt like Rodney Rude...I didnt like working the paddocks...actually avoided everything like that where possible...I still blame the abbattoirs...lol . Kisses Focus
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15 years ago
Quoting 'loneroamer' well i think considering this is a sex site and we choose and pay to use it that one can say and do as they wish.if one takes offense well dont read it.its not like you have to listen to it.in public yes different story not the right place for it.go to a work place or pub /club its all common language and yes it probably is getting worse but has always been that way and wont change.a lot of the time people dont realise the words they use.dont know thats just my take on it.women men no different but certain words shouldnt be used ie c*#ts. other words have many different meanings depends how they are used. oh being a sex site we mainly sign up to find a sex friend its not facebook Just because we're all randy little devils doesn't mean it's open slather to be crude, rude and disgusting..unless the person you're contacting states they roll that way!!! Why is a site concerned primarily with sex conceived to have no base level of respect for others on it? Do you respect yourself? If so respect others..by all means if they play dirty then get in and dirty with them but don't expect that everyone is that way. Personal messages are one thing but the forum is just like being in a public place albeit a very open and sexy place.Yes that's my take on it but I believe it's close to the truth?
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15 years ago
Quoting 'loneroamer' well i think considering this is a sex site and we choose and pay to use it that one can say and do as they wish.if one takes offense well dont read it.its not like you have to listen to it.in public yes different story not the right place for it.go to a work place or pub /club its all common language and yes it probably is getting worse but has always been that way and wont change.a lot of the time people dont realise the words they use.dont know thats just my take on it.women men no different but certain words shouldnt be used ie c*#ts. other words have many different meanings depends how they are used. oh being a sex site we mainly sign up to find a sex friend its not facebook its attitudes like yours that spoil it for those who place at least a little value on manners and consideration. this is an 'adult' site yes, but that doesnt mean we can all behave like irresponsible teenagers. we are of the opinion that we need to impress each other, not shock, and it would be lovely if people could speak/write/message/email and text us (we are strangers after all) without all the colorful language and crude adjectives. as to the 'dont read it'. lol when its directed straight at you or sent to your message in-box,or sent to your mobile 'phone how can you not?
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15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy' Quoting 'loneroamer' well i think considering this is a sex site and we choose and pay to use it that one can say and do as they wish.if one takes offense well dont read it.its not like you have to listen to it.in public yes different story not the right place for it.go to a work place or pub /club its all common language and yes it probably is getting worse but has always been that way and wont change.a lot of the time people dont realise the words they use.dont know thats just my take on it.women men no different but certain words shouldnt be used ie c*#ts. other words have many different meanings depends how they are used. oh being a sex site we mainly sign up to find a sex friend its not facebook Just because we're all randy little devils doesn't mean it's open slather to be crude, rude and disgusting..unless the person you're contacting states they roll that way!!! Why is a site concerned primarily with sex conceived to have no base level of respect for others on it? Do you respect yourself? If so respect others..by all means if they play dirty then get in and dirty with them but don't expect that everyone is that way. Personal messages are one thing but the forum is just like being in a public place albeit a very open and sexy place.Yes that's my take on it but I believe it's close to the truth? thanks for that. this time you explained it a bit better than we did. exactly. its about respect. something we are seeing less and less of. we have protested before and its just made things worse, people get all indignant and say you are singling them out when its been a general request for things to settle down.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'Hazee' Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Whilst oft I choose the path of the contrarian, albeit due more so to my more secular contumacious nature...I personally take no offence. My virginal visual and auditory senses remain unscathed. | Besides...if she is fucking hard against my tongue with her hot pussy saturating my face and starts screaming, I might just hear the same words? | Short form....who gives a shit? Please note that all words have been spelled correctly and not a word in text speak. | ...ffs. was never a solicitation for a display of linguistic gymnastics. as we find that avocation both boorish and perfidious....... its only clever one or two times, and then it really does become just another juvenile show of imagined cleverness. oooh look at me and the big words i found mummy! For someone who is claiming to not be judging.. there seems to be an awful lot of put downs.. if you don't like people who swear, ask them to leave, or more to the point don't ask them to come.. if you don't like the language used in forums, don't read them.. It really isn't that hard to work out.. why should people have to conform to what you think is the right way? People are people and at some stage everyone, including you, will say or do something that upset the minority..And while I understand that you can't be expected to be a hermit and not go anywhere for fear of hearing a few F bombs be dropped, you can not expect people to know that you take the moral high ground on speech but are quite happy to frequent a site like this and put your wife on display.. If the speech offends you, ask them to cease or you can get up and walk away..And if you think puttin "it" about town is MORE lady like than saying fuck.. You are delusional if we come across as judgmental then so be it. don't expect or ask for an explanation, as none will be forthcoming. if you dont like the topic and the way the discussion is heading, opt out then. we have something to share and wont have it hijacked by those that we have already crossed paths with, and who are already very aware that their input is neither welcome nor invited.
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15 years ago
Yes have been out seen this happen, fart,spit etc.LOL.Did find it funny once I read it back but it is all true I tell ya.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'fionabee' It all reminds me of an old song that was playing in the eighties (I think) about how we didnt make the guns, we didnt make the factories, we didnt start the wars. Mikeandshel...we are the generation that has raised these no good types that swear prolifically in the streets and at public venues. Yes, you and I and all the others in our age group. We ( and I use the 'we' collectively) can take the blame for all of the expletives, rough language and the whole enchillada. We failed our children and in turn, they are failing thiers. We obviously did not set a good enough example. Remember "we" are the generation that laughed at comedian Rodney Rude. The man who made a living out of profanity on stage....."hey Santa...where's me fuckin' bike?" No body likes to be called a cunt or be told to fuck off and the one question I and many others have asked is...why is it so bad for a woman to swear like a trooper in public and not for a man? I personally find both offensive. We teach our boys and our girls about 'paddock language' You just gotta swear when working sheep and dogs. There is no other way. we did none of those things Fiona. you may have, but most definitely not us. the women we spoke of were our ages, in their forties and even in their fifties........i taught them nothing and set them no examples..... the 2 on the bus were just another example. we were making comment on women. not girls and boys who are barely more than children. and to set the record straight, we find Rodney Rude offensive, taught our children to be respectful and never used poor language in front of any of them. we/they do not swear or curse in front of women, or children. if they do it out of our earshot then we dont really care, but if its used in conversation with us or with my wife, one of us will put a stop to it. if you think its ok, thats your business, but we dont. if you wish to put your hand up and take the collective blame, then good luck to you. and no......after working in the industries I have and managing to 'keep my cool' i can defintely say that you do not need to swear to make yourself understood. why 'bastardize' a perfectly good language? besides......if you lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas..... I come from a single parent low income government housing background, but managed to keep myself and my reputation clean.I grew up knowing some of the worst people you could ever meet, and managed to remain untarnished. I have worked in the Road Transport, Maritime Shipping, Mining, Justice,Law Enforcement, Building and now Manufacturing Industries,usually in a 'hands on' role, and at no point have had to compromise even one principle to be "one of the boys". swearing, cursing, name calling and the like are all 'discretionary', meaning you have the choice to speak well or speak poorly. i know which way i choose, and i know which way my wife chooses........ as for my post not being about men, well thats just another topic for another day, and i'm sure you dont wish to get into a discussion about how juvenile i think men who swear prolifically are do you? as a final point too....I've not ever heard the language that came from these young womens mouths while riding on a council bus half laden with children at any stage before, from anyone, male or female. it was a disappointing eye opener. it must be hard being so perfect...thank god im just a normal woman, i swear, i fart, i burp and god forbid i even shit in company....a girl does what a girl has to do roxxy
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15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' we did none of those things Fiona. you may have, but most definitely not us. the women we spoke of were our ages, in their forties and even in their fifties...NOTE I did use the collective "WE" so lplease do not assume that I mean you in particular..... if you think its ok, thats your business, but we dont. if you wish to put your hand up and take the collective blame, then good luck to you. I would never take the blame for all as I am only one and NO I do not think it ok. More a sign of the times and defintely say that you do not need to swear to make yourself understood. why 'bastardize' a perfectly good language? Because sometimes a simple FUCK OFF is not understood clearly enough. Because sometimes "Oh darn, Oh bother" does not feel quite as good. besides......if you lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas..... I come from a single parent low income government housing background, but managed to keep myself and my reputation clean.I grew up knowing some of the worst people you could ever meet, and managed to remain untarnished. Odd choice of words.....untarniished ". swearing, cursing, name calling and the like are all 'discretionary', meaning you have the choice to speak well or speak poorly. Of course it is discretionary. No one disputes this. My discretion may be different than yours though i know which way i choose, and i know which way my wife chooses........so which one of you is it that habitually writes FFS at the end of your forum posts? Text swear is still swearing for my post not being about men, well thats just another topic for another day, and i'm sure you dont wish to get into a discussion about how juvenile i think men who swear prolifically are do you? But you did specifically single out women in your original post as a final point too....I've not ever heard the language that came from these young womens mouths while riding on a council bus half laden with children at any stage before, from anyone, male or female. it was a disappointing eye opener. Obviuosly too insular in your lovely little smug world then. If you do not move with the times you fossilize. By all means keep YOUR high standards and look down on others for thier lapse in moral standards but do not expect all to be the same.You are very fond of berating me for my narrow outlook on subjects......Look in the modern dictionaries, many of these words that YOU have never heard are now actiually accepted as part of the English language. Any language is never perfectly good. It must evolve with the times. The same as us.
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15 years ago
if we come across as judgmental then so be it. don't expect or ask for an explanation, as none will be forthcoming. if you dont like the topic and the way the discussion is heading, opt out then. we have something to share and wont have it hijacked by those that we have already crossed paths with, and who are already very aware that their input is neither welcome nor invited. Focus is restraining me.......but I do recall being told I was childish for this very same comment here. If you dont want opinions...do not ask for them L Focus...not Billy Joel 'we didnt start the fire'..an earlier song l Roxxy...I think Mikeandshel are talking about public transport when they talk about council bus
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15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' if we come across as judgmental then so be it. don't expect or ask for an explanation, as none will be forthcoming. if you dont like the topic and the way the discussion is heading, opt out then. we have something to share and wont have it hijacked by those that we have already crossed paths with, and who are already very aware that their input is neither welcome nor invited. Focus is restraining me.......but I do recall being told I was childish for this very same comment here. If you dont want opinions...do not ask for them L Focus...not Billy Joel 'we didnt start the fire'..an earlier song l Roxxy...I think Mikeandshel are talking about public transport when they talk about council bus see when you swear you dont get ignored lol...thanks Fiona i had no idea what that was...must be a mainland thing, over its called a "bus" was that a midnight oil song??? roxxy
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15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' i used the forums as an example. as we've been berated and abused in many private messages in response to opinions and comments we posted on various forums. and have passed them on to site admin. the upset is also out there in public. being abused by women in general, and women using foul language. but please, i say women meaning 'of our age', not really sure why, but we expect better than that from women. might just be our upbringing? I think it's pretty pathetic that anyone would send a pm full of foul language and abuse. I've been sent quite a number of messages both in support and very heatedly in difference to my opinions expressed here but most have still been acceptable and not full of cheap abuse. I try to post here and in pm with a level of respect. Sure things get heated and I may drop a few FFS's and so on and some playful innuendo is always fun but personal abuse is just a cheap shot when someone has nothing else to prop up their argument.I'm glad I've been spared the profanity you say you experience in public. I think crass communication historically becomes more apparent the lower down the socioeconomic scale you go but agree that this is changing... people across the board just seem to have less respect for people around them, prevalence of swearing is just one manifestation.So let's all hug and make love FFS Hehe
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15 years ago
Quoting 'TassieRose' Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'fionabee' It all reminds me of an old song that was playing in the eighties (I think) about how we didnt make the guns, we didnt make the factories, we didnt start the wars. Mikeandshel...we are the generation that has raised these no good types that swear prolifically in the streets and at public venues. Yes, you and I and all the others in our age group. We ( and I use the 'we' collectively) can take the blame for all of the expletives, rough language and the whole enchillada. We failed our children and in turn, they are failing thiers. We obviously did not set a good enough example. Remember "we" are the generation that laughed at comedian Rodney Rude. The man who made a living out of profanity on stage....."hey Santa...where's me fuckin' bike?" No body likes to be called a cunt or be told to fuck off and the one question I and many others have asked is...why is it so bad for a woman to swear like a trooper in public and not for a man? I personally find both offensive. We teach our boys and our girls about 'paddock language' You just gotta swear when working sheep and dogs. There is no other way. we did none of those things Fiona. you may have, but most definitely not us. the women we spoke of were our ages, in their forties and even in their fifties........i taught them nothing and set them no examples..... the 2 on the bus were just another example. we were making comment on women. not girls and boys who are barely more than children. and to set the record straight, we find Rodney Rude offensive, taught our children to be respectful and never used poor language in front of any of them. we/they do not swear or curse in front of women, or children. if they do it out of our earshot then we dont really care, but if its used in conversation with us or with my wife, one of us will put a stop to it. if you think its ok, thats your business, but we dont. if you wish to put your hand up and take the collective blame, then good luck to you. and no......after working in the industries I have and managing to 'keep my cool' i can defintely say that you do not need to swear to make yourself understood. why 'bastardize' a perfectly good language? besides......if you lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas..... I come from a single parent low income government housing background, but managed to keep myself and my reputation clean.I grew up knowing some of the worst people you could ever meet, and managed to remain untarnished. I have worked in the Road Transport, Maritime Shipping, Mining, Justice,Law Enforcement, Building and now Manufacturing Industries,usually in a 'hands on' role, and at no point have had to compromise even one principle to be "one of the boys". swearing, cursing, name calling and the like are all 'discretionary', meaning you have the choice to speak well or speak poorly. i know which way i choose, and i know which way my wife chooses........ as for my post not being about men, well thats just another topic for another day, and i'm sure you dont wish to get into a discussion about how juvenile i think men who swear prolifically are do you? as a final point too....I've not ever heard the language that came from these young womens mouths while riding on a council bus half laden with children at any stage before, from anyone, male or female. it was a disappointing eye opener. it must be hard being so perfect...thank god im just a normal woman, i swear, i fart, i burp and god forbid i even shit in company....a girl does what a girl has to do roxxy normal for where? its not about being 'perfect', its about using appropriate language for appropriate circumstances and audiences. you cant know if you are offending anyone unless they tell you.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'TassieRose' Quoting 'fionabee' if we come across as judgmental then so be it. don't expect or ask for an explanation, as none will be forthcoming. if you dont like the topic and the way the discussion is heading, opt out then. we have something to share and wont have it hijacked by those that we have already crossed paths with, and who are already very aware that their input is neither welcome nor invited. Focus is restraining me.......but I do recall being told I was childish for this very same comment here. If you dont want opinions...do not ask for them L Focus...not Billy Joel 'we didnt start the fire'..an earlier song l Roxxy...I think Mikeandshel are talking about public transport when they talk about council bus see when you swear you dont get ignored lol...thanks Fiona i had no idea what that was...must be a mainland thing, over its called a "bus" was that a midnight oil song??? roxxywe have buses that are provided by 'councils' and by local private contractors, but running regular routes. 2 different but complementary services.. depending which direction you are traveling you might be on one or the other.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy' Quoting 'mikeandshel' i used the forums as an example. as we've been berated and abused in many private messages in response to opinions and comments we posted on various forums. and have passed them on to site admin. the upset is also out there in public. being abused by women in general, and women using foul language. but please, i say women meaning 'of our age', not really sure why, but we expect better than that from women. might just be our upbringing? I think it's pretty pathetic that anyone would send a pm full of foul language and abuse. I've been sent quite a number of messages both in support and very heatedly in difference to my opinions expressed here but most have still been acceptable and not full of cheap abuse. I try to post here and in pm with a level of respect. Sure things get heated and I may drop a few FFS's and so on and some playful innuendo is always fun but personal abuse is just a cheap shot when someone has nothing else to prop up their argument.I'm glad I've been spared the profanity you say you experience in public. I think crass communication historically becomes more apparent the lower down the socioeconomic scale you go but agree that this is changing... people across the board just seem to have less respect for people around them, prevalence of swearing is just one manifestation.So let's all hug and make love FFS Hehe we thought so too, but as the worst ones came from a couple of women, we thought to share and ask a question or two. to say we were stunned is an understatement. the instance on the council bus was just another....and was extra disturbing as it was in front of some 6 or 7 years olds. i/we dont make it habit to swear in posts, besides the odd "ffs" which is unusual unless i'm trying to aggravate someone, but its the continual swearing, using them as nouns as well as adjectives, that gets you down. as to the 'socioeconomic' thing? nah, we find it from all walks, the worst being the more affluent. try Doomben races with a bunch of champagne addled 40 somethings and you'd see...... yes 'respect' is the big thing, so many 'demand' it but certainly dont show any, its a hypocritical thing.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'mikeandshel' we did none of those things Fiona. you may have, but most definitely not us. the women we spoke of were our ages, in their forties and even in their fifties...NOTE I did use the collective "WE" so lplease do not assume that I mean you in particular..... if you think its ok, thats your business, but we dont. if you wish to put your hand up and take the collective blame, then good luck to you. I would never take the blame for all as I am only one and NO I do not think it ok. More a sign of the times and defintely say that you do not need to swear to make yourself understood. why 'bastardize' a perfectly good language? Because sometimes a simple FUCK OFF is not understood clearly enough. Because sometimes "Oh darn, Oh bother" does not feel quite as good. besides......if you lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas..... I come from a single parent low income government housing background, but managed to keep myself and my reputation clean.I grew up knowing some of the worst people you could ever meet, and managed to remain untarnished. Odd choice of words.....untarniished ". swearing, cursing, name calling and the like are all 'discretionary', meaning you have the choice to speak well or speak poorly. Of course it is discretionary. No one disputes this. My discretion may be different than yours though i know which way i choose, and i know which way my wife chooses........so which one of you is it that habitually writes FFS at the end of your forum posts? Text swear is still swearing for my post not being about men, well thats just another topic for another day, and i'm sure you dont wish to get into a discussion about how juvenile i think men who swear prolifically are do you? But you did specifically single out women in your original post as a final point too....I've not ever heard the language that came from these young womens mouths while riding on a council bus half laden with children at any stage before, from anyone, male or female. it was a disappointing eye opener. Obviuosly too insular in your lovely little smug world then. If you do not move with the times you fossilize. By all means keep YOUR high standards and look down on others for thier lapse in moral standards but do not expect all to be the same.You are very fond of berating me for my narrow outlook on subjects......Look in the modern dictionaries, many of these words that YOU have never heard are now actiually accepted as part of the English language. Any language is never perfectly good. It must evolve with the times. The same as us. insular? lol. thats hilarious! dont begin to assume you can teach or coach me/us to the wonders of the world. I've been there and done that, from witnessing murder in new york to working as a drug rehabilitation coordinator to holding a child's ear on after his father kicked him so hard he all but tore it from his head. we'd think living west of the Pilliga would be far more removed from mainstream society than a major city, but then, i could be mistaken. dont make assuptions, especially about us, as I've possibly experienced more than most.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Wont deny that there are foul mouthed "bogan" types out there of BOTH Female and Male persuasion. The type that do indeed pepper their speech unessecarily with swearing I however dispute the fact that it is happening with women in the forums to any great degree.So much so you would have to mention it occuring without backing it up. Mike, I didn't ask you to point out particular people but did ask to direct us to any particular topic to show us where this unnessary swearing by women was occuring so as to make your assumption that the practise of women swearing is indeed becoming over the top. You wont.Hide behind the "Oh no we wont go into school yard tactics" to me thats a cop out and if you are going to make such a wide sweeping statement back it up! If someone- Male or Female sent me a rude message - ie calling me a "C" or any other such abusive stuff in regards to anything I posted, Id have no problems blocking them and then outting there dirty tactics back in the forum boards on the topic that brought up their dummy spat in the first place.Thats just Bullying tactics on their side and they should be outted for the cowards that they are.Then Admin can deal with them.Saves some other peep having dealings with them.JMO
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RHP User
15 years ago
Really I am and to help you in this since you wont be drawn to naming a subject or author, Im putting my hand up and seeing if one of my own sentences in your eyes could be deemed as unnessary profanity. In the trainwreck thread that was "I just did a pregnant girl," and you did post in that one so I know its ok for you to go back in and look at. I mentioned , jokingly I might add that I wondered should I have "fucked" my baker..is that the kind ofprofanity/ language you are talking about?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mrs Sat i think they are talking more about the gang bang one...maybe not that one in particularm but like it there is a young lady in there that is name calling and using very harsh language maybe check that one out...i would hope they arent talking one or two little fuck words, more every second word is swearing or name calling well thats the way i see it anyway roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
See thats what I thought too, the GB thread but Mike has stated he hasn't looked at that one. I agree and already said that there is 1 girl being what he might be on about.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'TassieRose' whats a council bus??? do you have check out chicks in their 20s??? wow im impressed but whats a council bus??? roxxy a council bus.... you know.... the city supplies them, theyre big and belch diesel soot and cost way too much and are usually late, but.......... they are handy on occasion.....but full of screaming school kids and foul mouthed young 'retail sales technicians' and dejected workers whose bikes been in the shop for 9 weeks......lol. sorry didnt see this post there...we just call them buses over here no matter who owns them roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
I do say rude words when appropriate which is in bed. I think swearing and saying rude words are two different aspects. Absolutely in conversation with a friend of mine I do let the fbomb drop and so does he...I don't find this offensive nor degrading, it's just the way it is. Having said that, not every second word is F**k. I adore the female Cbomb in the bedroom and I like the male Cbomb in the bedroom also. That's where it sits. All good. I do agree, if I was in conversation and/or in the forums, I do refrain from swearing, no point really. I feel it is an unnecessary expression of emotion in that environment. I find the funny side of things, I love it when I am with a guy and he drops the fbomb and then blushes...It's soooo cool. I believe in respect though. I am of the old school and I remember getting in trouble by my Dad for saying Shutup and Bugger...so anything else never came to mind lawl. I strongly will not stand for swearing around children. xxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65' See thats what I thought too, the GB thread but Mike has stated he hasn't looked at that one. I agree and already said that there is 1 girl being what he might be on about. again, i wasnt 'on about' anyone in particular. its a general thing.as for those that have been directed at us? all good and sorted thank-you, blocked and reported to admin a few times. wasnt so long ago that you hardly heard/read a woman using bad language of any sort, but it seems as soon as a little frustration occurs, its all 'f' this and 'c' that. all i was tring to do was understand where it all went wrong and it became the 'norm' for women to speak like this? I am very accustomed to it, after spending time with a hugely diverse cross-section of society, but never have I been OK with it. the council bus episode just annoyed me. its not meant to be a 'sexist' thing as I have never once said that I/we are ok with poor language from men. we block guys regularly based on language used at first contact. I've had to deal with complaints at work from those who have been subjected to abusive language and bullying, and some of the accused have been women, which was both difficult to deal with and disappointing. in this post some of the women have sworn uneccisarily, but its not amusing or even remotely clever, it just shows a lack of understanding of the topic as posted.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Can you all please stop this profanity. Lol. Focus is right beside me reading this!!! FFS! l If the swearing in front of children is a worry, please wander into a school yard at lunchtime and really listen to the little darlings. Check out the movies that they are watching. Listen to the words of thier songs. I can guarantee that the average ten year old knows, uses and understands words we never had even heard of at thier age.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Can you all please stop this profanity. Lol. Focus is right beside me reading this!!! FFS! l If the swearing in front of children is a worry, please wander into a school yard at lunchtime and really listen to the little darlings. Check out the movies that they are watching. Listen to the words of thier songs. I can guarantee that the average ten year old knows, uses and understands words we never had even heard of at thier age. What is that young lady still doing up? Focus get to bed now !!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'll just have to leave it at that.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Man or Woman, there are other colourful metaphors to be used by any slime lapping pin-stick!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65' I'll just have to leave it at that. how can i be skirting when it was about generalisations anyway? its not any one thing or any one time. its in general. its women punctuating posts with f-ck or on occasion c-nt. both Fiona and Tassie have done it here, and frankly its offensive! the question was 'is it to shock? lack of vocabulary? or just rude? seems to be accepted by everyone and even celebrated by some!the post was that I/We found it to be offensive and that I was attempting to find a reason why! if you dont get that, then I am afraid I cant help you, as you've already interrogated me enough. seems to me that you are just stirring the pot and attempting to upset me. why? so I'll have a 'dummy spit'? hurl some profanity about?
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RHP User
15 years ago
whats with women these days? it seems to be the 'norm' for women to swear, like sailors, in conversation and even here in forum posts. for us, its offensive, and dont understand the need for it. do they not care? we've read posts of women of all ages and theyre peppered with profanity...is it just laziness, or a genuine lack of vocabulary? or just plain rude? we think the latter....... if this isnt aimed at woman and being sexist...then i dont know what is you mentioned posts of WOMEN peppered with profanity...which ones are you talking about??? you have said nothing at all in this question that says men annoy you also when they swear, its all aimed at women...you cannot now say it isnt when plain and simply it is and yes i am a normal woman...if your wife doesnt fart, shit and burp then i feel for her...life must be very hard as a stepford wife roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
I asked a question. You would pick a part of my post to respond to but never the question I asked.I ( ok persistently..) tried to pose it in such a way that you may answer it even throwing an example of mine as I wouldn't be offended had you thought it rude, I was just trying to find out exactly how a woman swearing offended you. If it was used in context or bandied about willy nilly. NOW that you have finnally pointed out that examples of FionaB and Roxxy in this thread as being offensive then I can say that yes , I do find you are precious/sexist about it. I know your care factor on what I think is zero and on this subject it truly works both ways.
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RHP User
15 years ago
thats very interesting that you should name me there in all my posts on this thread i have sworn twice maybe its because i said the whole word instead of calling it the Fword or Fbomb or F-ck...oh dear how rude of me but if i have offended you by saying it twice in all the posts iv posted here....stiff fucking shit, suck it up princess FFS roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Dont you know when we are doimg it deliberatly to take the piss? L At my age I will swear how and when I desire and if anyone, man, woman or child has an issue with it...... TOO FUCKING BAD.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh how funny it is to read fellow chatters pondering about whether or not to use the fuck word and the consequences of using it. How many newspaper editors would love to slip a 'fuck' in here and there to some of their articles? It's just another word, to be used with respectfulness and with appropriate timing....
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RHP User
15 years ago
I love the word fuck...I find it so expressive and why is it so offensive because society says it is?!For fuck sake x
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Tart_Du_Jour
15 years ago
I am not going to reply to your topic straight away but it would be lovely if you could one day start a topic about things that you like or make you happy apart from your lovely wife
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' What is that young lady still doing up? Focus get to bed now !!!! Yes Maam..... . Uhhh??? Yours or Mine?? . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'TassieRose' Quoting 'fionabee' if we come across as judgmental then so be it. don't expect or ask for an explanation, as none will be forthcoming. if you dont like the topic and the way the discussion is heading, opt out then. we have something to share and wont have it hijacked by those that we have already crossed paths with, and who are already very aware that their input is neither welcome nor invited. Focus is restraining me.......but I do recall being told I was childish for this very same comment here. If you dont want opinions...do not ask for them L Focus...not Billy Joel 'we didnt start the fire'..an earlier song l Roxxy...I think Mikeandshel are talking about public transport when they talk about council bus see when you swear you dont get ignored lol...thanks Fiona i had no idea what that was...must be a mainland thing, over its called a "bus" was that a midnight oil song??? roxxybaaahaaahaaa i laughed so loud that my toddler sprayed me with a water gun to shut me up! You are priceless
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Dont you know when we are doimg it deliberatly to take the piss? L At my age I will swear how and when I desire and if anyone, man, woman or child has an issue with it...... TOO FUCKING BAD. ah such charm, you really are a piece of work..but hey you go girl! ...i think you are offensive all the time. but that's just my opinion, luvvie. lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'Saturn65' I'll just have to leave it at that. how can i be skirting when it was about generalisations anyway? its not any one thing or any one time. its in general. its women punctuating posts with f-ck or on occasion c-nt. both Fiona and Tassie have done it here, and frankly its offensive! the question was 'is it to shock? lack of vocabulary? or just rude? seems to be accepted by everyone and even celebrated by some!the post was that I/We found it to be offensive and that I was attempting to find a reason why! if you dont get that, then I am afraid I cant help you, as you've already interrogated me enough. seems to me that you are just stirring the pot and attempting to upset me. why? so I'll have a 'dummy spit'? hurl some profanity about? You guys are the shit stirrers and more offensive to most, compared to the funny fuckers who swear for a bit of fun and don't spend all their time being negative looking down their noses judging non-stop! Y don't u go join a high brow country club where people have sticks up their arses and share your ridiculous moral high ground with language from the 16th century AND freely and openly chat about sex and all the good stuff? Or just maybe get over yourselves and CHILLAX ALREADY!
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tattoodguy
15 years ago
buddy suck it up ...the english language has been transforming for years and youve only just noticed ,whether you find it insulting or abusive is purely your own perspective, as the younger generation are using such adjectives merely for convenience as it emphasises the statement they are trying to make ,it has become the norm whether you or like it or not ,its not unlike when the first bikini was worn to the beach most were up in arms and now everyone is doing it ,sorry pal its not going to get any better ,but it doesnt mean you have to join in just be more tolerant,you can still go to the beach in your full swimming costume but it is you that is out of place
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Dont you know when we are doimg it deliberatly to take the piss? L At my age I will swear how and when I desire and if anyone, man, woman or child has an issue with it...... TOO FUCKING BAD. Well I never!, Fiona, can you get to the bathroom soap and water is needed to wash those words out! Or over some blokes knee and your bottom smacked!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' Quoting 'dontgothere' What is that young lady still doing up? Focus get to bed now !!!! Yes Maam..... . Uhhh??? Yours or Mine?? . Kisses Focus language of love I understand, your bed or mine? kind of straight to the point and the main reason we're all here isn't it? you know.....for sex. . and geez Focus, I thought I had a run in the flirt stakes, but you give me a good run for my money honey pair of fucking flirts the both of us
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'Saturn65' I'll just have to leave it at that. how can i be skirting when it was about generalisations anyway? its not any one thing or any one time. its in general. its women punctuating posts with f-ck or on occasion c-nt. both Fiona and Tassie have done it here, and frankly its offensive! the question was 'is it to shock? lack of vocabulary? or just rude? seems to be accepted by everyone and even celebrated by some!the post was that I/We found it to be offensive and that I was attempting to find a reason why! if you dont get that, then I am afraid I cant help you, as you've already interrogated me enough. seems to me that you are just stirring the pot and attempting to upset me. why? so I'll have a 'dummy spit'? hurl some profanity about? You guys are the shit stirrers and more offensive to most, compared to the funny fuckers who swear for a bit of fun and don't spend all their time being negative looking down their noses judging non-stop! Y don't u go join a high brow country club where people have sticks up their arses and share your ridiculous moral high ground with language from the 16th century AND freely and openly chat about sex and all the good stuff? Or just maybe get over yourselves and CHILLAX ALREADY! lol.... ta for that, i nearly wet myself lol,.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'Saturn65' I'll just have to leave it at that. how can i be skirting when it was about generalisations anyway? its not any one thing or any one time. its in general. its women punctuating posts with f-ck or on occasion c-nt. both Fiona and Tassie have done it here, and frankly its offensive! the question was 'is it to shock? lack of vocabulary? or just rude? seems to be accepted by everyone and even celebrated by some!the post was that I/We found it to be offensive and that I was attempting to find a reason why! if you dont get that, then I am afraid I cant help you, as you've already interrogated me enough. seems to me that you are just stirring the pot and attempting to upset me. why? so I'll have a 'dummy spit'? hurl some profanity about? You guys are the shit stirrers and more offensive to most, compared to the funny fuckers who swear for a bit of fun and don't spend all their time being negative looking down their noses judging non-stop! Y don't u go join a high brow country club where people have sticks up their arses and share your ridiculous moral high ground with language from the 16th century AND freely and openly chat about sex and all the good stuff? Or just maybe get over yourselves and CHILLAX ALREADY! lol.... ta for that, i nearly wet myself lol,.
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