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Younger guys wanting older women.
April 19 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
This is basically the reason i'm attracted to older woman. Older guys- you don't have to worry about us stealing the women your age, I have not found a single lady interested in a young guy such as myself on this site yet! Oh well, a boy can dream...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Phwoar
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RHP User
10 years ago
I firmly believe it is about the guys wanting to be lusted after. The concept of an older woman, who potentially has her shit in a pile being interested in a younger man is a giant boost to the ego. And at the same time, there is something undoubtedly sexy about an older woman. That being said, I had an experience with an older woman when I was younger, and in my case it was so good, because it genuinely was naughty. She was married, I was young and willing. Those times together still are in my mind, and I would love to try them again. For me, I think older women are so irresistible because of their comfort with themselves. They appear (perhaps totally different internally) to be more confident, more comfortable in their own skin and ready to just enjoy themselves, without the bullshit. An older woman (aka older than me) with some nice curves, soft breasts and lust is the sexiest thing around.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have been asking myself the same thing I have yet to have someone older message me back but I think they can teach me a thing or two and it could just be loads of fun - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Im a cougar to two youngens. They are great. Had 3 but we didnt click enough.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'NortyNancy' Im a cougar to two youngens. They are great. Had 3 but we didnt click enough.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'polys' Quoting 'NortyNancy' Im a cougar to two youngens. They are great. Had 3 but we didnt click enough. Sorry meant to say 1 i didnt click enough with the other two were great. They are swingers and pleasers, Ive been with some fwbs that were non pleasers, pretty selfish actually and at my age i dont put up with that crap. Please me or go find some vanilla that loves boring sex and suffers headaches lol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I love your enthusiasm for the enthusiastic young man! Shame Ballarat and Yatala are such a distance from Sydney! I would attempt to woo you all with my intellect, wit, and my use of the Oxford Comma!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'inregulation5' I love your enthusiasm for the enthusiastic young man! Shame Ballarat and Yatala are such a distance from Sydney! I would attempt to woo you all with my intellect, wit, and my use of the Oxford Comma! mmm I never use to want them till i had met these two. It feels a little strange especially when one is younger then your own daughters lol. But in the end I just see them as a man that knows how to please his women.
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RHP User
10 years ago
How delightful :) Quoting 'NortyNancy' Quoting 'inregulation5' I love your enthusiasm for the enthusiastic young man! Shame Ballarat and Yatala are such a distance from Sydney! I would attempt to woo you all with my intellect, wit, and my use of the Oxford Comma! mmm I never use to want them till i had met these two. It feels a little strange especially when one is younger then your own daughters lol. But in the end I just see them as a man that knows how to please his women.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm attracted to both older and younger women though I definitely enjoy admiring older women. I can't say for certain what it is, but some older women just really turn me on. I've been with woman that was 14yrs older and it was a great experience and one of the best times I've had for sure - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Warning69' The young ones will test drive and old car but want the luxury of a much newer model not sure why I'm replying with quote since the profile is no longer, but anyway, now that more time has elapsed, this comment rings true in so many ways. Yes they'll have the young girlfriend or wife, yet come to me to be sexually satisfied, and not just once, they come back for more. So who would I rather be, the young girlfriend or me, think you know the answer to that, as an added bonus, they make it count when they do come, horny as all fuck, suits me, exactly how I like them
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'MySweetStick' I don't really see age as a make or break. It is, after all, just a number. If I click with someone, then I click with them. If she's 100, then so be it :D that means I'm good for the next 49 years. Hang on how old will you be then, nah you'll be too old for me by then lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Would younger men consider an actual relationhship with an an older woman. Ive been dating someone for about 6 weeks now and only just found out he is 10yrs younger than me. We have kids the same age but what about his friends and meeting them that could be awkward couldnt it??
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
I have a younger lover in his 20's. When we are out in public together, he has no issue displaying public affection towards me (holding hands/hand on my back etc etc) nor does he care what others think. Infact he says he couldn't be more proud to be with me. When we are together age never comes into it. We just enjoy each other's company. He treats me like a lady and how I want to be treated. I feel honoured when we are together. Why does he want to be with me?? Because he chooses too and wants too. Ms Foxy x
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_silk' Would younger men consider an actual relationhship with an an older woman. Ive been dating someone for about 6 weeks now and only just found out he is 10yrs younger than me. We have kids the same age but what about his friends and meeting them that could be awkward couldnt it??
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RHP User
10 years ago
He "gets it". And that is to the benefit of both of you. Most..... sadly don't get it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
ive allways had an thing for older women some with children my age. at first it's abit weird also being younger and less experienced pop's in some of the ladies minds but as a young buck i had great satisfaction in proving my capabilities and showing that some of r amazing in bed and mature, tbh ive found older women alot more enjoyable to spend time with then women my own age, there's no beating around the bush it's not awkward and the sex is hell of a lot kinkier but hey im only speaking on my own experience
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Seachange73
10 years ago
When I first joined RHP, cubs in 20s, were not even in my horizon. I did get lots fo contacts from them but seldom did I respond to them as I found a lot of the cubs are just immature. However, after I met a couple of really nice young sexy intelligent men in their mid- to late 20s, I realized that maybe I am missing out here and have closed off the possibilities of having so much fun with these virile men with hot bodies. Lol. And the fact those I met are also very smart just makes the attraction stronger. So yes, please... But I do have limits in age. But then again, if the connection is there, why not? Having said that, where are these sexy Melbourne Cubs?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'andromeda90' ive allways had an thing for older women some with children my age. at first it's abit weird also being younger and less experienced pop's in some of the ladies minds but as a young buck i had great satisfaction in proving my capabilities and showing that some of r amazing in bed and mature, tbh ive found older women alot more enjoyable to spend time with then women my own age, there's no beating around the bush it's not awkward and the sex is hell of a lot kinkier but hey im only speaking on my own experience we should be so lucky to be spending time with guys like you, and I can absolutely say without hesitation my best lovers have been your age, that's not to say all guys your age or any age are interested in making it good for us as well, but the ones like you, the ones who do care, make the best lovers, more so when they don't give a crap about the age difference. I find they, like me, appreciate the experience and make it count, without arrogance and/or laziness. I've also had a few in the 30's who have been amazing but I tread carefully once the age starts to go up, because unfortunately, and all too often, along with that comes a lazy approach. And I've found guys from upper 30's into their 40's have an attitude like they're doing me a favour, I cut them off early in the peace, I don't care how hot they are, screw them, I only hook up with genuine guys who appreciate the intimate pleasure that mature women can bring, but don't treat us like 'mature' women. None of us at this age feel the age we are, look it granted, but we go off like fire crackers lol and I for one treat every encounter like it's my last, it counts, it matters. If I feel like a guy just wants to fuck for the sake of getting his 5 mintutes of pleasure, I don't worry any more, I'd rather go without and do myself
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RHP User
10 years ago
You will find 90% of the guys on these sites, regardless of their age are just trying their luck with as many women/profiles as they can. They just hit up as many as possible, age and for the most part are irrelevant until they get a hit(response)... Only once they get a hit then do they decide to take it further or string you along until something better comes along.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Theyre in Sydney lily :P (or at least I am!) Quoting 'lilyorchid' When I first joined RHP, cubs in 20s, were not even in my horizon. I did get lots fo contacts from them but seldom did I respond to them as I found a lot of the cubs are just immature. However, after I met a couple of really nice young sexy intelligent men in their mid- to late 20s, I realized that maybe I am missing out here and have closed off the possibilities of having so much fun with these virile men with hot bodies. Lol. And the fact those I met are also very smart just makes the attraction stronger. So yes, please... But I do have limits in age. But then again, if the connection is there, why not? Having said that, where are these sexy Melbourne Cubs?
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'inregulation5' Theyre in Sydney lily :P (or at least I am!) Quoting 'lilyorchid' When I first joined RHP, cubs in 20s, were not even in my horizon. I did get lots fo contacts from them but seldom did I respond to them as I found a lot of the cubs are just immature. However, after I met a couple of really nice young sexy intelligent men in their mid- to late 20s, I realized that maybe I am missing out here and have closed off the possibilities of having so much fun with these virile men with hot bodies. Lol. And the fact those I met are also very smart just makes the attraction stronger. So yes, please... But I do have limits in age. But then again, if the connection is there, why not? Having said that, where are these sexy Melbourne Cubs? Ok. lol. Gotta dig deep in melb... The men are still hibernating... lol
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'PrinceGlendale' You will find 90% of the guys on these sites, regardless of their age are just trying their luck with as many women/profiles as they can. They just hit up as many as possible, age and for the most part are irrelevant until they get a hit(response)... Only once they get a hit then do they decide to take it further or string you along until something better comes along. Who you talking to wrt to flattering ourselves? Lol. It may be correct for SOME men, I will not dispute that, but am sure 90% is way too high. Kinda too far out of the center to be credible. Do you may have stats for that? I dont think you can generalize all men like that here to think they are like you (and maybe your mates who you compare notes with?). Bad assumption unless you have conducted a study or poll that can substantiate your claim. I would like to see that to prove myself wrong. I have met so many wonderful men on here and some have become regular fwbs. Their age varies from mid 20s - 40s. Most have been very good and respectful No complaints. Those i refuse to have anything to do with were not worth pursuing as they are dicks, regardless of age and how fit and muscly they are. The sense of entitlement of some men are just as obvious as machetes waiting to be plunged into our heads. A metaphor, but who needs that, right? Not all men we find attractive are muscly and with abs. Read on the forum topics on here on that. The men here outnumber the women and we tend to be more discerning than men. Such is the law of supply and demand. On a more personal note, your comment sound very bitter to me and devious and manipulative. Now you have posted that in the forum and outted your views, some women will be wary of you. I will. Just for the record. Most women are also aware of this behaviour and hence most will not hook up as easily as you think we will. You'd be surprise that some women go fishing too. actually, the fish comes to us. It is men like you, and your attitude, that makes it harder for a lot of good men here to meet women here. my 2cents.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You have no idea! The amount of messages we women get from guys who are looking for a FWB is staggering. Yes some guys just want a one off fuck and will shag anyone, but as Lily says, ( and this applies to all my RHP girlfriends) guys we meet usually become friends, which is a really good situation. And most guys Ive met have been at least ten years younger than me and we still see each other, even if its just a catch up for a drink or dinner? They are lovely men who I enjoy having in my life. So I think your 90% assumption is a bit off the mark. I see you are looking for "attractive" people. Good luck and enjoy!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think you just shot your self in the foot.... A lot to say in a forum when such little is written in your profile.... I fortunately don't meet your criteria .... As you like sex with attractive women and girls .... Shame as I'm nit attractive but "a beautiful gorgeous lady'. Quite different you see. Good luck in your search for attractiveness
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RHP User
10 years ago
Takes one to know one, huh? Thanks for letting us know you're one of those men we should avoid. Certainly makes things easier, and I need all the help I can get at my age.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' I see you are looking for "attractive" people. Good luck and enjoy! Mr Glendale is looking for attractive women up to age 99. Should they feel flattered?
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' I see you are looking for "attractive" people. Good luck and enjoy! Mr Glendale is looking for attractive women up to age 99. Should they feel flattered? He is on a fishing expedition as he have said... casting a wide net to see what fish he catches, hopefully some innocent fish will swim towards his net... LOL
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RHP User
10 years ago
I completely agree with Meander, and go close to taking offence to the other comments.. (But I won't). At 19, I slept with a 39 year old. And what an awakening. Ever since then, I have always found women 35+ to be incredibly sexy, curvy and usually always wear thoughtful lingerie. But, it is more than that!! As Meander says, an older women knows what she wants, and does not hesitate to tell you. It makes for a fun, intense and naughty encounter .. One which is not often, if ever, gained by being with a woman my own age. I'm sure there are other other reasons (fantasy, etc), but for me, it's the sexiness and confidence of an older woman! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I brought up having sex with a nonagenarian before, and you're actually doing it! I gotta know, how is it?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've got to say Meander... better than you'd think!.. My last post spoke of women betweene 32-50(ish).. double that, and OH MAN!! ;) ...but you raise a valid point. and my 99 year old partner on my profile, and the fact that when I said I "agreed with Meander" I was referring to your post on page 1 of this topic has got me thinking...... ..Maybe I just like older women because my tech skills are about that of a 70+ year old. Makes sense now...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Lemming season indeed.
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RHP User
10 years ago
One is to get experience and two it is easier toget an older woman laid than to chase girls in there 20s.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' One is to get experience and two it is easier toget an older woman laid than to chase girls in there 20s. A generalisation which I disagree with.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Good to see you up and about.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Got a message from a 28 year-old just now, containing this gem: "You look like younger than your age so thats why I am interested in you" I don't know whether to be flattered or offended?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' Good to see you up and about. I was getting back to playing and she came back into my life for 4 days then took off with another druggie.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I sure as hell don't consider myself "an easy lay" Insult to the max
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'PrinceGlendale' You will find 90% of the guys on these sites, regardless of their age are just trying their luck with as many women/profiles as they can. They just hit up as many as possible, age and for the most part are irrelevant until they get a hit(response)... Only once they get a hit then do they decide to take it further or string you along until something better comes along. I always knew I was special, but now I know I'm different to 90% of guys - according to PrinceGlendale. It's probably closer to 99.99% though - I'm pretty unique :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's more exciting for me, more pleasure and passion 👌 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Sasha_007' I sure as hell don't consider myself "an easy lay" Insult to the max A spade is a spade and even a cougar gets young guys because its so damn easy.AS any young guy will tell you a root is a root.Sorry but somebody has to tell it like it is orwomen want the truth but cant handle the truth.Quote-Does my bum look big in this.Truth answer --Hell yeah
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RHP User
10 years ago
The truth is that both your posts are plain nasty and dumb. For a change I won't even add that's my opinion.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' A spade is a spade and even a cougar gets young guys because itsA spade is a spade and even a cougar gets young guys because its so damn easy.AS any young guy will tell you a root is a root.Sorry but somebody has to tell it like it is orwomen want the truth but cant handle the truth.Quote-Does my bum look big in this.Truth answer --Hell yeah Would anyone else like to tell chev...... your "truths"..... ?
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'Sasha_007' I sure as hell don't consider myself "an easy lay" Insult to the max You know comments from him is just to invoke a reaction and attract attention.. Lol. don't fall for it.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' Good to see you up and about. Did easter just snuck in early?
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' Quoting 'Whateverway' Good to see you up and about. I was getting back to playing and she came back into my life for 4 days then took off with another druggie. Quoting 'chevtrek'Quoting 'Sasha_007'I sure as hell don't consider myself "an easy lay" Insult to the maxA spade is a spade and even a cougar gets young guys because itsso damn easy.AS any young guy will tell you a root is a root.Sorry but somebody has to tell it like it is orwomen want the truth but cant handle the truth.Quote-Does my bum look big in this.Truth answer --Hell yeah After reading your nasty, misogynistic and disrespectful comment to Sasha above (and to women in general), I too would run away with anybody rather than stay, even if they were a legless, toothless emaciated one-armed druggie, if that is all the option I have. I think at least if I was the young lass, I would have more fun and be treated better. If that is not the case, why would she even consider running away with the other loser if she had it soooo good with you? Sorry had to tell it as it is... Can you handle that truth?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Lily orchid.. I forgot the type of person (can I really call him that? ) we are dealing with and what age group he sleazes after.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I thought that the OP's opening observation was that many young men (in their 20's) simply ignore her age preference stipulation on her profile, and contact her regardless. Her summarizing question was (therefor) why do these said 20+ year olds want to have sexual encounters with a woman 20 years older than themselves?. Regardless of the answers and stated reasons, the fact still remains that they simply choose to ignore the OP's stated preference regarding age brackets. Now, in that context, why do you think they still contact her? Lets hear from the ladies who's profile stipulations are similarly ignored, but this time from older men, and see if the response is so accommodating (and the outcome so pleasurable). Obi1 (Wearing his grumpy pants for a change)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Omg let me put this in plain English for you, forum suicide, i've been nothing but polite to you and supported you when others knocked you. An easy lay? Ask the hundreds of guys i reject every week and ask them if i'm an easy lay. I'm extremely fussy who i spend time with, yes there are young guys who will hit on anyone, but there are old guys who do the same, any hole would be a good one, but to insult young guys who genuinely are turned on and enjoy the amazing experience and sexiness of a sexy mature woman. I can flat out tell you almost every guy i've been with has said i'm the best he"s ever had, particularly with oral but it's not just that, it's the confidence, lapping up every second the juiciness, the heights that only a mature woman will take you to. But i don't just take anyone there, and the guys i've hooked up with in the last year are the hottest young guys in the city i don't care if it sounds like i'm bragging, you need to hear this. Any one of them, well most, could snap their fingers and get whoever they wanted in the real world, hot young chicks would be falling all over them, so why come to a cougar for an 'easy lay' they don't need an easy lay, they need a 'great lay'. Some men may be ugly, out of shape and desperate, but not my dudes, they are sheer perfection mmm - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
When you posted a forum about your heartbreak not that long ago, you received a lot of mental support from the same "cougars" you're slamming here. This is how you choose to show your appreciation? I think you just blew the possibility of ever gaining our empathy again. May you get what you deserve from the way you treat women.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Your delivery methods leave a lot to be desired. A lot of guys may think along the same lines but really, a little tact may present your aguement a little better. Women deserve better than that. Women are equals, always remember that.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If I were a woman in a relationship with a fella who appears to show himself in the light of such a dick.. I would probably chose a "Druggie" too
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' Your delivery methods leave a lot to be desired. A lot of guys may think along the same lines but really, a little tact may present your aguement a little better. Women deserve better than that. Women are equals, always remember that. To start with I am not trying to degrade women or to be a ass but telling what I have seen andheard out there be it swingers clubs or a BBQ.I am no spring chicken or great looking guy but my honesty has done me well be it workor as a DJ or even being social however , in my experience guys chin wag just as much as womenand its mostly about women or who they bonked plus added to that the talk about cougars being a new source.Even when I came out of retirement back to the work force things don't change the guys talk and the only thing that has changed over the years is that they now have pics on there mobile phones to back it up.I am sorry if you think I should use tact but I have seen the pictures and heard all sorts of conversation from allages. Last of all the new generation of divorced men in there 40s chasing women 50 to 60 for sex.
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RHP User
10 years ago
These same men you talk about who sit on the phone and perv at the cougars, would the cougars give them a second look, probably not, most get out of shape at that age, can't hook the young chicks or even chicks their own age, so think they'll go for the cougars, until they get a dose of reality and find out the cougars don't want them, even if numbers weren't on offer, i'd go without, seriously, a group of wannabes sitting around scrutinising cougars, this is where you get your opinions, hmm think you are getting a dose of reality and grumpy about it so come in here to slam the cougars, i feel sorry for you, no i don't what am i saying - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
What they said, couldn't have said it better - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have quite a lot of female friends that I socialise with, and I do mean a lot. They cover a wide age spectrum starting from 19 up to 70. If i were a single man and had to pic one as a partner, I'd take the 57 year old lass, she's a very close friend of mine. I'm lucky enough to have had a reasonable number of lady's proposition and/or show an interest me in the past, a LOT of them, much to my surprise have been 15+ years younger than myself and some have been pretty tidy, I'm still miffed as to what's going on there lol. Unlike some guys, I'm pretty confident and have no need to 'hook up', I don't feel I have anything to prove to myself or others like some recently scolded individuals on here lol :P The reason I'd go with the 57 year old is purely because of the relationship. We talk easily, have similar and respectfully different views on subjects we a mutually interested in etc. We both find each other hot and I don't mean physically, it's more a love for each others person. I can't do the young girl thing as I like all the life experience and ease of conversation that a more mature woman brings to the table. In addition to that, pre marriage, I founds more mature women much better in the bedroom ;) It's ridiculous to suggest cougars are easier to hit on, everyone is different; there are tons of young girls that are real easy to hit on and tons of cougars that won't take your shit no matter how hot you are, one can't really generalise about this. That's my 2c worth, have a good week guys
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RHP User
10 years ago
Chevy baby, reality, well it felt pretty real last night, happy birthday to me haha and as for your mates, 'good built and good looking'? Bet they're not through my eyes, they are the ones who would be fantasising, in their dreams basically, only in their dreams - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well said and agree 100% i would be fussier now than i've ever been, no question, though body and looks are important to me, it doesn't stop there. The guys i see respect me and i them, without that, it never gets to hook up, and that happens a lot. So the quality of the individual has to be there. Like you say, what does age have to do with whether you'll fuck anything, the common error these losers make, and the reason they are losers, is they think cougars will be easy when they can't get it anywhere else, and are desperate. In their dreams, in their bloody dreams. But thank you for your show of respect for those of us who happen to have a bigger number of years behind us and who happen to like, respect and enjoy guys just like you, you're not looking i know, but it's the combo lol of body and mind. Sorry, love my hj's, didn't mean to refer to you as a combo haha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Would be worse lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Meal deal, now that would just be teasing - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm sure ITouch is devastated!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2'you're not looking i know, but it's the combo lol of body and mind. Sorry, love my hj's, didn't mean to refer to you as a combo haha - Posted from rhpmobile I'm always looking, just not playing as such, unless I can find a nice lady/couple that'll suit the wife and I But if I was playing, you'd be somewhere up the top of the list
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'langton11' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2'you're not looking i know, but it's the combo lol of body and mind. Sorry, love my hj's, didn't mean to refer to you as a combo haha - Posted from rhpmobile I'm always looking, just not playing as such, unless I can find a nice lady/couple that'll suit the wife and I But if I was playing, you'd be somewhere up the top of the list what a nice thing to say. Your wife is very lucky, and no that's not flirting, just saying haha
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' I'm sure ITouch is devastated! God, there's been shit going down and I'm dribbling on about meal deals haha you must think I'm such an airhead Truth is I was out all day and didn't see the comment, no doubt a pack of lies, yew, hate to think, ignorance is bliss? But thank you so much, I appreciate that
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RHP User
10 years ago
Awesome date with a guy 10 years my junior tonight. I'm singing Sinatra's 'You make me feel so young"!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Sharing details of someone else's personal life on here I find seriously disgusting. I might need to know what that was
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RHP User
10 years ago
Peoples, peoples... This thread has gone somewhat askew. Was not the question "why would 20ish year old men want to have sex with a woman 20 years their age"? For some this may bring rise to underlying possibilities such as: Is such an age difference REALLY their preference or, as some have suggested, are they simply casting their nets as wide as possible and would just as happily meet up with a 30year old, or indeed, even someone their own age? Are they genuinely looking for a woman in this age bracket because they want a more experienced lady? Do they want to be taught or experience better sex? Do they have a Freudian complex? Are they simply awkward and shy around women their own age? Is it just ego or over inflated self assurance that prompts them (i.e "I'm young and fit and full of stamina and quite frankly what woman does not want that!") Is the so called "cougar phenomenon" that gives these strapping young fella's the belief that therefore ALL women would favorably entertain the notion of a lover half their age? Is it, as some have suggested, they will simply try to have sex with any woman they get the chance to? Or is it simply that they can't read? (though I haven't seen a man yet to say "yep! that's me!" on any posts related to this particular thread) Ultimately thought, the question is NOT are younger men better in bed, it's not suggesting that age should he a barrier, and it's NOT about suggesting or implying certain older women on RHP are "easy" or "desperate". It's about the mind set and motivation that these young MEN have that prompts them to message someone who's profile has an age stipulation that clearly excludes them! The understated implication here is also that according to the OP, this happens consistently and involves men in this particular age bracket, and consequently, is this a transgression that can be condoned under the guise of youth? Obi1 (now down to my cranky underpants)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Awesome date with a guy 10 years my junior tonight. I'm singing Sinatra's 'You make me feel so young"! and the cheshire cat smiley face says it all
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RHP User
10 years ago
If details of my private life, true or not, were posted by Chevtrek, he needs to be kicked off the website, not just have the post removed. Aren't the posts supposed to be approved before being put up? It was obviously very wrong to others reading it so why do they put comments like that up and allow disgusting pigs like that to stay on here. Yeah, I know the answer of course, it's a business, they'd lose a paying customer I am public property now and knew that when I put my face pictures up but the point is, I don't live in the past anyway. I was faithful to my husband for 23 odd years, our entire married life, right up until the very tail end, but he knew anyway, and understood. So any other information would be from years ago, who the fuck cares about then? Important to remember there are things that happen in a person's life that aren't always known too, even to people that are close to them. I had a disgusting creep almost rape me when I was young, at a family party, never ever told anyone else in the family because they all liked him, thought he was good fun and the life of the party. So it could be someone like that who's sitting there, was disgusting then, would be more disgusting now yew, coming out with lurid shit about me. Either way, it's not that person who crossed the line on here, it's a free world for people to bullshit on in their own private space, I couldn't give a shit what they say, but on here, a serious line has been crossed, or that's the way it appears. Should never be allowed. I don't know what was said, and it doesn't really matter, but i do know I now look the best I've ever looked in my life, and I'm proud of that, I'm the best sexually I've ever been, not so much proud of that, just having a f%&kn good time with that, so I was what? a dud root lol yeah I was. Did I look like this, no I didn't, but I do now, that's what matters and I'll never be any different. To add to that, there's more to that, something physical changed with me, my then doctor thought they put the paddles on me (died and came back) and I know, I knew the second I walked out of the hospital after an operation I was different, was like a light switch, came from within, energised, I can't even explain it, horny from that day, massively horny, so things physically changed with my body and if people want to knock me for how I was or knock other people for how they were in their past, it really doesn't matter. Are these people doing the knocking in good shape, I doubt it, my guess is they're all sitting around with their beer bellies perving at the sexy pictures, wanking to them in their private time, and then slagging off about me. Well I love life, I live for the moment, I'm very proud of my current self and suggest others worry about getting themselves sorted and happy like I have, instead of pointing the finger, because they're the ones who are missing out on life and happiness because of it. Sorry for the vent but this just made me feel sick
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' If details of my private life, true or not, were posted by Chevtrek, he needs to be kicked off the website, not just have the post removed. Aren't the posts supposed to be approved before being put up? I completely agree.
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RHP User
10 years ago
As with all of us hook ups don't always work out, in my case there have been a couple i've asked to leave, one guy was on a mission to film me squirting, i let him do it, then kicked him out because he also lied about the way he looked, he had old pictures up, and was wiser now, and filter heavily, and overall i've been lucky but there have been 2 or 3 that i would never repeat, and plenty more who get cut off during the text exchange, so there will be sour grapes out there basically, i also have stalkers from when i had my number on another website, so stands to reason those people will surface, the wannabes and rejects, do i care pfft like - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Posted before finishing, anyway, there are many who almost get to hookup but filtering continues at my end, look for small things that ring alarm or turn me off, more pictures, you know, any number of reasons, like i said, the hook up quite often doesn't even happen, but to come on the forum and air second hand information, which would no doubt be absolute rubbish, o - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Screen cracked on my phone, i'm sorry op for hijacking the thread but the point needs to be made that this is disgusting behavior, em - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I give up, i've made my point, let's do our best to weed out people like that an - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Look out for each other, thank you to all for outing this creepo and highlighting what most on here already new, i've now caught up, i couldn't understand why he was being slammed, now i know, what a loser - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Dont feel you need to justify yourself to anyone..... ever..... especially the likes of...... well....... (((((hugs))))) DG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Pure and simple besides I did try to evade what I knew butyou made me tell. Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' If details of my private life, true or not, were posted by Chevtrek, he needs to be kicked off the website, not just have the post removed. Aren't the posts supposed to be approved before being put up? I completely agree.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' If details of my private life, true or not, were posted by Chevtrek, he needs to be kicked off the website, not just have the post removed. Aren't the posts supposed to be approved before being put up? I completely agree. I turn my back for a little bit and not read the forums and voila! so controversy shows up! Lol..... I don't know what was posted as it was obviously deleted. Maybe better I have not read it. Am sure a lot of hot air. So typical of Chev though to invoke the ire of women by some stupid callous remarks. We fall for it time and time again much to our chagrin for allowing him to get to us. But that is him, agent provocateur and I think he loves it, despite his protestations. I have long lost respect for this man who has time and time again showed his stupidity and total disrespect for women. I have concluded that any of his posts have no iota of credibility and is anything but self-serving ("Oi, look at moi, look at moi! I got 4 young girls hanging off my arms!!! Bet you guys are jealous of studly me!!"). He reaps what he sows.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
some of us felt sorry for his recent dilemma .Shows we are perhaps too caring and too willing to turn the other cheek.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Chev's derailed another thread. I just don't understand why people keep getting sucked in to responding to him. Even his last topic where he was crying about his 18 year old leaving him, I just saw no point in commenting on it because I have seen time and time again that he does not actually take on board or register anything that is said to or about him. It is utterly pointless to engage.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Never again, gloves are off haha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Everyone, i appreciate the kind thoughts. I wasn't up to speed with this creep, am now - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
That has nothing to do with this thread/topic.I am sorry if the ladies are upset and feel I am being unfairbut example- We donate to charities like WWF but the truth ismost money goes to people who run the charity like the CEO.I am just stating the other side of it.Quoting 'Whateverway' some of us felt sorry for his recent dilemma .Shows we are perhaps too caring and too willing to turn the other cheek.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
I'm stepping toward the exit.........
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