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Younger guys wanting older women.
April 19 2015
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RHP User
11 years ago
Haven't you read what I said? Anyway, my standard response to someone so young is that I am old enough to be your mother and I am only interest in men closer to my own age. Go find yourself a girl more your own age and have fun exploring together. Good luck Pauli, you certainly look cheeky enough to put a twinkle in a young girls eye.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Wanted to know the kinkiest thing I had ever done. I told him to go first. His response: "I had sex with a chick on the beach." Can't blame him, he's half my age, but that's just one of the reasons I'm not interested in guys that young.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I had a very similar conversation with a gorgeous young guy about the wildest thing he had ever done. He said have sex outside in a thunderstorm. Damn I almost changed my mind. I thought he was very charming. :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
The problem I have after reading through this forum and also based on replies from older women. I think that younger guys that genuinely have an interest in older women ( for whatever the reason may be ) get thrown into this stereotypical group of younger a guys just chasing sex. For me I genuinely have an interest in playing with and dating older women. I find them much more attractive and I seem to think it's because they are at a point in life where they know what they want, they aren't there to play games and waste people's time and they are genuinely a lot more fun, you can have a decent conversation with them and maybe even learn a few things along the way. Has anyone here had a conversation with some girls from the younger generation lately? Half the time it is really not worth it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The fact he thought sex on a beach was kinky or that he used the word "chick".
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RHP User
11 years ago
You're a cutie. Shame your in Sydney 😕
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RHP User
11 years ago
Jake_W, It's a shame **you're** in Sydney.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can see both perspectives here. I'm sure there are younger guys who genuinely like older women for the various reasons mentioned in this thread. But, I also see how the older woman / cougar thing has become a sort of porn fantasy for many of them...basically just another item to tick off on the fucket list. I'm not really sure what my own lower cut-off age would be, and I guess it would largely depend on the circumstances and the guy. I do know that currently being at uni and around guys who are mostly in the 19 to 22 years age range, I think I do see most of them as boys, not as men. Some of them still look about 16, and in that sort of context I very much doubt I could go there even if I know they are technically adults. Then there's the other barriers, like trying to hold a conversation when you have very little common ground and completely different life perspectives. Even if I'm just seeing someone casually and mainly for sex, I still need some sort of mental connection and stimulating conversation for it to be an ongoing thing. Of course I'm aware that levels of maturity aren't always correlated with age; my last FB was older than me but I eventually had to call it quits with him even though the sex was decent, because I just couldn't have a decent conversation with him (plus he had a habit of having to make the conversation all about him, which got rather tedious).
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks 😊 I take it the whole age thing isn't an issue for you? Finally lol, of course you have to be so far away lol!
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RHP User
11 years ago
6 pages of posts into this topic and only very posts from guys in their 20's.Personally I think that the 20-30 guys just want sex and mostly they just dont care when, where, how they get it. Either they dont read the forums (just like they rarely read profiles) or arent prepared to say what they really think. The thought of having sex with someone young enough to be my son.....or even grandson, quite revolts me. All my life I have preferred older men....alas now, many of the "older men" cant get it up, so I am happiest with a man around my age.....or just a few years younger. I have never been inclined to be a teacher - even quit teachers Collage as a teen. I want a MAN, not a boy...a man who has a pretty good idea of what he likes then we can explore boundries together .
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RHP User
11 years ago
..very FEW posts from guys in their 20's
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RHP User
11 years ago
My reasons/opinions -Tend not to play games,not having to make all the moves and jump throughall the hoops-Tend not to be looking to settle down and have kids-More experienced-Media ie. stifflers mum, Mrs Robinson-The Guy not having to take such a dominant role, learning and experiencing new things. For instancethe female teacher fantasy, where the teacher is in the more dominant role.
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RHP User
11 years ago
While I can't speak for all young guys, I do read the profiles to see if I suit the person. Ive also been reading these forums since I created my account, there are quite a few good threads to help us newbies out - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Fabulous to see you joining in the comments
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RHP User
11 years ago
Think with your brain and not with your cock and you will do well. Have fun.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I always find this topic brings up one of life's funny ironies. Men have their sexual peek around 21 yet women have theirs around 30. So why not two people at their sexual prime get it on :p Though I find it funny because women in younger years get subjected to guys chasing hormonal release. Then later (when likely in a committed relationship) they have similar urges with a guy now past his primal interest wanting more of a deeper connection. I was talking with a psych recently and she actually made an interesting point. Years ago, women used to take many husbands. Why, because men would go out to hunt and many a time would be killed - so the woman was free to take another husband. So the moral of this story is that why wouldn't a woman want to enjoy a man in his sexual prime? Though that being said the converse is also possible of older men with younger women, in that sex is not the primary interest but with lower hormones their is more opportunity for a deeper relationship - well of course you still can't get past the age old swapping of assets (her figure for his bank figure :p ) But hey, who am I to judge :p I must admit these days someone who can laugh with me is a lot more attractive than a "starfish model" :p
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Motomax
11 years ago
I like the contrast. I find older women easier to talk to, relaxed, know what they want from the experience and more in tune with their bodies. With the age difference it's generally more inclined to be something short term. There's no games, strategies or leading someone on. It's as honest and raw as sex can be. Mutual attraction and fulfilling 2 people's sexual needs.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Haha. Thanks for the advice. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
So i may be Jumping into the deep-end by commenting. but iv read a couple of the pages of comments and it seems what most of the mature women saying is all negative in some way. im sure iv most likely added or messaged one or two or more of you in this topic an had no response due to these feelings you have, and first of all id like to just apologise if there is anyone iv insulted or brought unwanted/ill feelings to. was not my intention of course. But gosh every person has there individual reasons and motives as to why they may have tried to contact a far more mature women to there age, like myself i dont contact any mature lady because they are mature.... i contact them because iv read through their profile info, seen what pictures of them they have up, checked the lists of interests/hobbies an so on, and iv liked what iv seen and read witch in-turn made me feel interested in contacting whoever it may be to see where it lead to. keeping in mind i very very rarely have any actual sexual intentions, expectations or goals. Plus i NEVER start any conversation with the mind set or thought of purely just wanting it to end sexually physical.
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RHP User
11 years ago
This is where I disagree with the old saying about sexual peaks. I draw a very distinct line between physical peak... and peak sexuality. To prove the point, I pose a very simple question: Do you think you are a more knowledgeable and competent sexual partner now..... or when you were an enthusiastic near-beginner at 21 looking for the "hormonal release" you mentioned?! And do you think women know more about what they want and enjoy more in their younger years, or, as theyve grown and experienced a little further down the road? Pretty obvious answers to both, arent they. Or, they should be. DG
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
See a recent aussie movie where 2 x 40ish women who are best friends, find themselves single and each has a 20ish son. Cut to the chase, each of the women have a secret affair with their best friends son. Cant remember the name of the movie but would like the thoughts of anyone who saw it. I thought it was well handled and fits into this topic.
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RHP User
11 years ago
not sure I subscribe totally to the whole 'sexual peak age' theory that is out there. Im sure that there are ages where hormones etc come into play, but I think there are so many more other factors in ones life that plays a bigger impact on where they are at on their own sexual journey than just whats pumping through their blood at a certain age. In my experience, althought relatively limited, ive heard stories of people awakening their sexuality for a number of reasons. Getting out of a long term relationship is a common one. The same plot seems to follow no matter what ages, whether its someone at the age of 50 getting out of a 20 year marriage or someone in their 30s after a 5 years relationship. Another story Ive heard is of someone making very drastic changes following a really bad time in their later life. They had been through enough and finally thought the time was right to act on what they have been feeling their whole life. For me, Im at the stage now where Ive never felt more aware sexually of who I am and what I want to explore, at the age of 31. Is this because im secretly a woman trapped in a mans body and hitting my peak? or the fact life has opened up and incredible path for me to realise and follow due to the combination of lots of other things happening in my life? Saying that, I always have had a part of me which has that older authoritive woman fantasy. The school teacher, the police woman etc... wether this is linked to my submissive tendencies? I think not as it seems to be similar to a lot of males, even those who claim to be alpha males. The days of the internet just make it much easier for people from different generations to connect with each other I think. Also, we are males....some definitely will just try anything or anyone in the hopes of getting laid.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have only just joined this site, and it's pretty much to meet older women. I strongly disagree with anyone who thinks younger guys go for older women because older women are desperate. I enjoy the company of older women, not to mention i am extremely attracted to older women. I'd be happy to take a woman out from this site for a few drinks, nice dinner & just go from there.Anyway i havent read the last few pages of comments, figured id chuck my 2 cents in onto a topic that pretty much sums me up :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Any_Whichway' See a recent aussie movie where 2 x 40ish women who are best friends, find themselves single and each has a 20ish son. Cut to the chase, each of the women have a secret affair with their best friends son. Cant remember the name of the movie but would like the thoughts of anyone who saw it. I thought it was well handled and fits into this topic. Annie, I remember a similar topic was raised a few years ago on this forum and a few older women admitted to sleeping with their sons friends. That caused quite a stir I remember. From memory one, maybe two, guys admitted to sleeping with a close friends mother as well. I think the consensus back then was that you really shouldn't go there. The women were shot down.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'mjolnirgoatman' I have only just joined this site, and it's pretty much to meet older women. I strongly disagree with anyone who thinks younger guys go for older women because older women are desperate. I enjoy the company of older women, not to mention i am extremely attracted to older women. I'd be happy to take a woman out from this site for a few drinks, nice dinner & just go from there.Anyway i havent read the last few pages of comments, figured id chuck my 2 cents in onto a topic that pretty much sums me up :P Who said older women were desperate? I haven't read all the comments but I certainly insinuated that its the young blokes that are desperate and will root a hole in the ground kind of thing.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'mjolnirgoatman' I have only just joined this site, and it's pretty much to meet older women. I strongly disagree with anyone who thinks younger guys go for older women because older women are desperate. I enjoy the company of older women, not to mention i am extremely attracted to older women. I'd be happy to take a woman out from this site for a few drinks, nice dinner & just go from there.Anyway i havent read the last few pages of comments, figured id chuck my 2 cents in onto a topic that pretty much sums me up :P Who said older women were desperate? I haven't read all the comments but I certainly insinuated that its the young blokes that are desperate and will root a hole in the ground kind of thing.
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RHP User
11 years ago
A 2013 Autralian film with Naomi Watts and Robyn Wright..They had known the boys since they were babies..xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
hello , iv always belived that u should concerntrate on the lady first chillihoney
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is called Adore x
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Thanks. I might leave it there after reading Meeka's post on that topic area. Enough shit going down around here without adding to it at the moment.
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RHP User
11 years ago
That topic was 3-4 years ago. Apart from a forum tragic like me, most people are new so any thread you raise will no doubt be different and may be very supportive in fact. Don't worry about shit going down... That is what we all like about the forums. Robust debate.
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
I shall post a new topic on it.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
when i was in my late 20s i dated a woman who was 47 and to be honest it was some of the best sex ive ever had ... she was a good friend too and to this day we still keep in touch
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yep best sex I have had was with a couple in there late 40's ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Definitely your own morals! I always had an age limit that I strictly abided to, until a young man (who said he was 30, actually 23) blessed me with champagne, chocolates and fresh red roses, was very well dressed, well mannered and could hold an intelligent conversation, so, I procrastinated for a while, battling those " "morals" whom at the time was younger than my oldest son, he was a gentle man, he kissed me so passionately, my ears, neck, back and breasts, I loved sucking his beautiful young cock, holding him to my breast, while I straddled him, I eliminated my "morals" and have found that we have life to enjoy, two consenting adults, I don't care to waste my time worrying about what other people think, after all what other people say is their business, not mine...ENJOY YOUR LIFE BECAUSE IT IS YOURS,
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Tom_Marsh
11 years ago
It seems the general consensus is that the young guys go for the older women because we'll go for anything and or that older women are desperate. I couldn't disagree more. It is soo much easier to pick up a girl my own age rather than an older one. But I don't have much interest in girls my own age. For some reason I am genuinely attracted to older women. I have been with more women over 40 than under. I can't really explain it, it's just how I've always been. When I was 18 I had a friend (wb) who was 51 and we had an amazing time. I know that sort of age gap is not for everyone and respect that. But to the women who give us whipper snappers a chance I say THANK YOU
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've been picked up by p plates before (and from the marital home, how gutsy was he?) mmm that should spark conversation - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've fucked older women on RHP. It has nothing to do with fantasy for myself. I just see a beautiful woman, and that's enough.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Older women know who they are and what they want. They are more understanding. There is nothing to say they can't be just as sexy. Maybe they have mummy issues? lo.l Fantasy. Just being with someone with an age difference is a turn on for some and they can't really go 20yrs younger, lol ........Should i go on?
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Freya79' I get messages from 18 year olds..so it is either a granny porn fetish ..or..well ..just opportunism xxFreya That's what I said in the beginning!! I am sorry, and I may think about this different when I am in my 50's and 60's, but a woman close to her 60's playing with 23 year old is definitely in the dirty old woman category... the same way I view older men with very young girls. This is probably more in response to Precious's comment. I see where you are coming from and I have an age range where I find men most attractive but that is not to say that being a 'lot' older than the young man is wrong or disgusting. I think we would respect your thought on the matter but leave out the name calling bit. Men have done the older man/younger woman relationship for centuries and it has become more acceptable. Now the older women are being more and more experimental and expressive in going for what they want. Yes, it may be a fantasy and to some, they are fulfilling that fantasy, not unlike you and your strap-on. Not sure about name-calling as I can see how it can be offensive. From what I read, it is like shaming the more mature women here with their preferences. In my opinion, akin to comments relating to fat shaming or skinning shaming or whatever kink shaming you are very much opposed to. I commend the women for being open about it and kick this subject out of the taboo sphere. I thought the forum was going well. til I read the name calling bit. discussion sure, shaming no. IMHO.
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Well said Lily. Ive been with guys in their 20's of recent times. If they convince me I'm what they are looking for, i will consider them as i dont feel like I'm in the 50's. Guess that makes me a dirty old tranny. Nice to have you back Lily. Bring anything back for me?
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Seachange73
11 years ago
got you a handcrafted dildo!!! all 4 inches of it (they based it on the local sizes. hehe) but it got confiscated at the customs gate... wonder who is having fun with it now? see ya at the meet and greet... heels and bells on... us durtee old wonders...
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RHP User
11 years ago
You are dirty old perv. So what?? I don't even see that as name calling to be honest. Oh and lily. I don't believe I said it was disgusting did I?? I think you are putting words ino my mouth again. someone mentioned Loosing their virginity at 17 to a woman in her late 40's I think?? You bet I thought that was disgusting. Shame you can't report people like that to the authorities. Not sure what the age of consent is for boys.
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Depends on the state but in Victoria, age of consent is 16. However if you want anal sex, the age is 18. Must be if you want to use parts of the body for purposes deemed not fit for purposes, then you need to be alittle bit more mature. Or is that to sort the boys from the girls. Not sure were oral sex fits in(usually in the mouth). Maybe you can suck cock at 16 if you are female but 18 if you are male? Think i was sucking cock at 14........
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Cock sucking might be like sport. Golf, tennis etc, to be at the top, the younger you start the better you become. Maybe thats why I'm so good at it? Sign up for the olympic cock sucking team. Being a judge would be a handy gig........ Oh and Meeka, should i be signing off the old perv? Not sure if that was for me?
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Dirty old perv....... Xxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Was for everyone. :p
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RHP User
11 years ago
Close friends and I often fondly call each other dirty old cow, dirty dog or even bitch on occassion. It's a almost a term of endearment if you will. I remember asking a friend of mine who is in her 50's if she does the same and she almost fell of her chair in horror. Lol.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'So damn right I find it disturbing that an older women would find a kid attractive. I also find it hard to believe that a young fit man would find someone almost 40 years his senior attractive. And yes, if we can hound a guy on here because he has young women I fail to see the difference between him and this situation. There is none. Blokes that young.... Ewww. you did not say 'disgusting' but instead you find it disturbing. I do recognize the difference. My apologies. however, your comments above inferred to me a level of disdain or scorn for such coupling. sure you personally find it not suitable for you, but to imply that young men of 23 or 24 are not worthy of attention with the 'Ewww' comment does nothing to change my impression of your disdain for it. Personally, I reserve the Ewww comments of disgusting things like stepping on shit and the likes... but that is my experience and opinion. To branch onto the argument of a man losing his virginity at 17 to a 40yo is another topic/subject altogether. It has nothing to do with this topic. In this forum, we are talking about two CONSENTING adults (both over the age of 18) who are here to fulfill their fantasy. One liking an older partner and the other wanting to be with a younger partner (of whatever sexual persuation). It is not my cup of tea as I have a preferred age range based on experience, but I am accepting of it when it works for others. She does not rub the coupling in our face at every opportunity as another poster does, nor does she boast/gloat in the trysts. she stated she enjoyed the experience and good for her. Are we not supposedly open-minded in this site to accept and respect people's kink, preferences and lifestyle that differs from the hoi polloi? They key here is that the parties are both consenting and nobody got hurt. It seems it was mutually beneficial to both parties. btw, my panties are not in a knot. aint wearing one today.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
a dirty old perv. Quoting 'Meeka100' Was for everyone. :p
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RHP User
11 years ago
That 17 year old comment on this forum ... Well he is 17 now. But that is why I brought that up. I was shocked to read that.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The 17 yr old and late 40's scenario was mentioned on the forum by the guy himself. He obviously didn't see any issue with it but I was horrified. And yes, young guys that still look like teenagers which lots of them still do at that age. When it comes to bonking them. Double ewww. Clear enough Lily?
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' That 17 year old comment on this forum ... Well he is 17 now. But that is why I brought that up. I was shocked to read that. I agree. I must have missed that post. yep that is unacceptable to me as i have boys close to that age, one 19 and the other 15. if i discovered that happened to my boy at 17, well that is another ball game altogether. him being a non-consenting adult in the legal sense.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' And yes, young guys that still look like teenagers which lots of them still do at that age. When it comes to bonking them. Double ewww. Clear enough Lily? Whatever makes you happy meeka... obviously you are not hearing me. fair enough. end of discussion, eh?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' if i discovered that happened to my boy at 17, well that is another ball game altogether. him being a non-consenting adult in the legal sense. about other states, but in Qld the legal age of consent for sexual activity is 16. I did see that Any-Whichway mentioned above that it's the same for Victoria. So in that case it wouldn't be a legal issue, but may be a moral one depending on your viewpoint as we've seen here. A lot of 17 year olds are having sex and the lines about what is acceptable and what isn't can vary depending on a lot of factors.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Posted that ever since he was fourteen he has enjoyed having sex with much older women....he is now twenty -six..I find this disturbing for not just the obvious reasons but because I do think it forms a pattern ...Not a healthy one ..xxFreya
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Quoting 'lilyorchid' if i discovered that happened to my boy at 17, well that is another ball game altogether. him being a non-consenting adult in the legal sense. about other states, but in Qld the legal age of consent for sexual activity is 16. I did see that Any-Whichway mentioned above that it's the same for Victoria. So in that case it wouldn't be a legal issue, but may be a moral one depending on your viewpoint as we've seen here. A lot of 17 year olds are having sex and the lines about what is acceptable and what isn't can vary depending on a lot of factors. yes. i see your point. it is an emotive subject when it comes to my children. but this topic is not within the bounds of the OP. thanks.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
thanks for bringing to my attention the current legal age of consent for sexual intercourse. I am definitely behind this. I am aware that kids are having sex with each other. my 19yo has sleepovers with his gf of 3 years both at my place and her parents'. mostly my place. i truly endorse open, understanding and honest policy in my home. providing them a safe loving environment to spend quality time together as mature young intelligent adults. I just googled legal age of consent for sex in Victoria and Annie and LD was right. I was aware that for minors, sexual consent is legal within 2 calendar years of each other. but was not really aware of the breakdown, of the age range (12-15, 16+, etc) for different sexual activities. in my time, it was a blanket 18yo but it seems that it now has shifted down 2 years. One teacher told me when I was in high school that we were considered of legal age at 18, competent to make legal decisions to to drive, serve our country, etc, Then, financial and government rights are fully accorded to young people when they reach 18. However, my boy was treated as a minor still until he reached 18. For example, when my son turned 18, , applied and given his own Medicare Card, had access to his financial savings (which we have put aside for him and banks would not give him full control over his assets until 18) without parental consent and other privileges. I do see how I could have fallen behind the 8th ball as the discrepancies exists in different states and different circumstances.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Firstly if a person is at the age legal consent, then it really does not matter what floats their boat? Ageist sexism is as bad as homophobia as far as I am concerned. If a young man, seeks an older woman out, how then is the woman seen in a predatory way as a dirty old woman or man for that matter. If a young man seeks out an older man or a young woman seeks out a older man its their choice. I have found that young men activily seek out older woman. Many get pretty disapointed when you say no. My youngest lover was and 21 when we first started three years ago and I still see him now and again. My oldest lover is around 47. I am over sixty , but I do not have a problem when engaging with younger men , in or out of bed its their choice. If a woman sleeps round, then she is a slutNow if she sleeps around with younger men she is a dirty old woman? Do people ask at swingers clubs in the dark and in the heat of the moment, oh btw how old are you? They know that cock has to be over 18 to get in their int he first place ( pardon the pun) I have no problem if people put the label on me, dirty old woman or slut or bad speller but some people do take offence to it. The problem with the written word is there is no tone, so things can be taking wrong. when talking to young men, I have found that their first stimulation, that thing that tapped into their sexual awakening might have been by looking or desiring older women around them. Though like Freya said, being exposed to things way to early in life, before the emotional or psychological aspects of sex could be understood is a problem. They may have been seduced way to early and now the patter of desire is set. Do not blame them for that or make them feel ashamed they like women much older than themselves. Men have choices, so do women embrace the differences , what is good for one may not be for another Remember the men here seek out the older women, not the other way around. I have had younger women ask me to bed, and I cant get my head around that at all, because i have daughters and the thought freaks me out. So I understand how others might feel about young men who have sons that are the same age. there is nothing dirty at all about consensual sex.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Many many times as a 20 year old, 'Boyo, the older the chook, the better the broth'!
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RHP User
11 years ago
"Ice Age 3" The wrinklier the raisin, the sweeter the fruit 😉
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RHP User
11 years ago
In base of my last experience, some mature woman wrong understand about What want young boy from here. I has meet 2 weeks before with woman 50 year old, and just because the game start with teasing text,some call with phone ,she start little bit lost the head...I from start I told she, want only friend with benefit not more other and for she is ok want same, and if everytihng good im ok for casual meet. When we meet , start meet same What we have imagination, with Kiss ,hug and after foreplay we have sex...but after she start really lost the head.l.I understand she want more other,same relationship... Told me words same my first girlfriends when I has 14 years old!!! I feel scared this situation...not leave me go away...every second want Kiss me...make really too much sweet eyes...really cant comeback in my car because she stay same octopus in my body and never want stop Kiss!!!! This is really What dont want,!! Stay 1 hours in front all people Kiss without control !!! Just because dont want Give payne and broke she heart,because I understand she start feel more another of What before we want, is really not easy for me leave her without Give payne....but really i start not feel,good in this situation...for me Kiss is for foreplay and when Feel is good time for Kiss,same when the eyes looking at the same time, but sure not more of 1 hours, hand in hand same What we do,in public park in front all peoples she really without control no Give me time for breathing!!! I understand is the situation What she dream from long time and after whe have dont want finish... I understand Now , need be careful in this game....because for some mature woman is easy fall in love, and this is What sure I dont want....for me is just trasgression, excited game where have control, not 50-100 text in phone for day!!! This game must start when meet and finish when finish meet,and start again next time meet not 24 hours for day!!!
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On_Safari
11 years ago
I haven't been with anyone younger than myself in 11yrs. Why? They can't be trusted to be genuine, sincere or understanding and it was proven each time by men 21-34 so that age bracket is dead to me. It's the nature of the beast and the reason I flatly refuse them, and none have tried to convince me to give them a go and change my mind. Low opinion yes. Do I like them as people abd friends though.....definitely. I just don't take it serious when they say they want me, heard it all before and it was fucked up dangerous ground that cost me professionally and personally. And then there's "mummy mode". There's only been one or two younger men I've desired to bed and well......that'll never happen.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If both parties are happy and consenting why not ! I wouldn't be the insatiable sexual beast I am today ( LOL ) without the training and skill set development I learnt from a "cougar" back in the day peace spunks :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Fuck I'm getting old!! Alzheimer's too it seems.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
The devils advocate hat goes on.... Do you think thats the case for ALL younger guys.... or... perhaps just the ones you attract?(You know how statistics can be skewed) Not argumentative (I promise!)....just curious.... as I'm clearly not here representing those younger guys DG
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Seachange73
11 years ago
I am sorry that you had to go thru experience like that. Clingy or needy women (and men) exist in all age brackets from all walks of life, so I hope it does not tarnish your view of older women. It was just really unfortunate you had that experience. I hope you fare better in the future with older women. Most of the 'older' women I know and associate with are not like that at all. In time, you will find out what I mean. Be picky and take your time to get to know them before jumping in bed with them if you wish. Those in the know will understand and appreciate the pace if you are after the same thing. Take care and keep having fun.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
The 3 yiunger guys I experienced saw me as a notch. I held respect and was well.....without coming over narcissistic considered "quite desirable"......I've shared those stories in the past, I don't give of myself lightly without consideration and the last took 6mths to convince me he was genuine ..... then wasn't and bragged that I hit on him. Thank God I didn't fck him. I just think younger men are scratching an itch. I'm no ones itch to scratch. Simple
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sure dont want stop my future experiences with older woman for only one bad experience....but sure from Now I walk in that street with more carefully, from Now , I try not too much teasing and provocation for maybe the first What say after is forget ( same my last experience) I think that I must show less interest...too much is dangerous for this situation... But the problem sometimes ( everytime!!!) really hard find a older woman but still nice amd sexy, and What have preference younger boys and near distance. Always is problem or distance...or dont like younger boys, or sometimes I find woman more interested in me,but with more scare for try this experience, not enought power for real meet ...because sometimes must take What is more near of What looking, because if want perfect never have!!!! In Italy not everywhere but in big city same Milan,Rome ,torin and more others where is people more open minded and more people more chanches to meet one looking the same, in Italy is really more easy find What I looking ( my bad luck in italy, my job !!! Take all my time, hours work and hour in car ,and not time for my pleasure!!!) Im a athlet and is really hard have time free for that, sometimes have some occasion with woman in my job...but just dream in my head..dont have power for do that in my real life with people What Know me, Know Who I am and after maybe speak too much with other peoples about my life ...this is too dangerous for peoples like me work in public job ...and because My discretion of my privacy stop me in some situation in job where maybe have some fun...) really before in italy, cant in time of job and cant after job because no more time free, everyday long distance trip and always with people work with me.... Here in Australia Now I have lot of time free and I really hope take some nice experience...I hope have little bit of lucky!!! Ah if you want Know What told me this woman ( and not for joking but seriously!!!) told me is available for Help me for take permanent visa and not stay same prison with sponsor visa where cant changes company!!! This woman are really Total Crazy!!! After some fun really lost head!!! Start I dont Know maybe think I move to live with she and Her daughter What have about my same age!!!! This is really Crazy!!!! This is for me just fun in my second life What for me is more excited do that, but I dont want and dont need immersion full my life in that ...I have my normal life...and after when Imhave time i have that, but that must stay outside of my normal life.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am 21 and I love older women, I personally are just into them find them a lot more attractive, they seem to be more mature and experienced with things which is a great thing, I prefer women your age then to someone my age deffinetly! X - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I always enjoy sex way more with older women they seem to just fuck so much harder. Don't just lay there! And are a lot dirtier. No rimming from a 20something yo chick :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
As a young woman I was always attracted to older men. There was something worldly (obviously), mysterious & relaxed about them that drew me in. It was less about the sex for me & more about the the persona behind these "fascinating Creatures". They were delightful. It simply never crossed my mind to be interested in younger, or even the same aged guys. And as I was somewhat of a tomboy, they in turn they left me alone. I've pretty much "grown into" my favourite male age group now, where it's equally about the intimacy, friendship & sex. Now, as an older Woman, I received lots of offers & requests from: the very young through to those who are well outside that group (but pityfully,...still try it on). The "Im inexperienced / want to be taught ," line/request , freaks me out big time in all honesty. I am not a "Performing Seal," with a vast repertoire of tricks - (well, not that I wish to "teach a youngie", anyway) ....nor do I have a "library of catalogued Sexual Education", that I feel a 'sense of duty' to pass on to some poor, deprived lad/s who assume I will be delighted at that privilege ! Lol. Who wants that kind of responsibility ? Not me , thats for sure!. Im outa there pronto at the 1st sign. Good grief, my job provides me with sustained & ample high-powered pressure, without subjecting myself to even more pressure to perform (albeit in a different activity) , during what is my much needed - relaxation/pleasure/leisure time ! No thanks, I'm very comfortable leaving the "Sexual education" of young, testosterone-driven", guys", to those who are more interested in & enjoy it ". (And more power & fun to them too). Just saying...... KK xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Personally I have always dated guys younger than me, it's just that I'm attracted to younger guys. I also personally believe that women our age have aged so much better than previous generations and we look hot. We are confident in our skin knowing it's the only one we have, are not looking for a baby daddy and are willing to be open & experiment in the bedroom. A lot of guys my age, haven't aged as well and I do not find myself attracted to them at all. They are lazy & seem to be set in their ways. The majority of guys that message me & I would say 98% are always younger. I say if the attraction is there go for it. I have a local fwb who is 22 and he can't get enough of me, is always complimentary and loves my ass and says it's the best sex he has ever had. Hello I am not going to complain about that, he is young yet passionate and ready to go in an instant, the energy he has is amazing. I love that. I have a date next week with another 22 year old also and he is super keen to meet. Whatever floats your boat I say as long as it works for you. Yes not going to be a forever thing, but I will definitely take regular sex with a hot young man any day. And yes I find that they are on the same sexual wavelength as me also which is a major bonus. Let me tell you they always come back for more and I am definitely up for that. I don't think they are after a teacher in that respect and most are pretty well experienced to it all and watch lots of porn and are more open to experiment than older guys. Just my experience :))
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I think it can often be as simply stated as..... (in here) they see older women as fair game. And for those who doubt that generalisation.... ask.... would they be happy being seen in public with those older women (that they've contacted in here, at least). the same question, would I be happy to be seen with you in public??
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'kimbakandi' As a young woman I was always attracted to older men. There was something worldly (obviously), mysterious & relaxed about them that drew me in. It was less about the sex for me & more about the the persona behind these "fascinating Creatures". They were delightful. It simply never crossed my mind to be interested in younger, or even the same aged guys. And as I was somewhat of a tomboy, they in turn they left me alone. I've pretty much "grown into" my favourite male age group now, where it's equally about the intimacy, friendship & sex. Thankyou KK for acknowledging that which is common to us all who have been around the block a few times, and still going well. We do some of us have our preferences that have been arrived at by trail and error, experiences .. some are still searching, others deem themselves to have arrived. The young, (and young at heart) who are still searching, who can criticize them for wanting to seek new experiences? But I think we all desire acceptance and to find the intimacy, friendship and sex is just wonderful, where ever it comes from.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've met with a few couples and if the rules are set before we agree to meet then all good, I will leave if they spring stuff on me when I arrive - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I guess they just know what they like and what turns them on!Making the whole experience so much more fun Drew x
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RHP User
10 years ago
I can verify your statement from experience.. Also more openness to experimenting
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RHP User
10 years ago
This is the best response so Far.. Very well put and my first experience with a mature partner was when i was 26
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RHP User
10 years ago
Personally I do not think it is just because the sex ... saying older women are more experienced in sex and are better at it is a generalization which isn't always true .... I have always been attracted to older women and I don't mean just sexually ... I can never relate to girls my age or younger I always get bored too easily, all my girlfriends that I had an actual relationship with were older than me. I think it is definitely the stimulation of the mind ... Older women are mature and they just are more interesting. Also one thing that is a big turn on is they know what they want! And it is not just in sex ... in life in general an older women is more likely to have her life together more than a younger girl ... which is for me the best thing one can ask for ...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Although I'm yet to actually have a girlfriend, I do find a lot of older women attractive, particularly if they're a younger looking 30-50 odd (Marisa Tomei for instance). That may well be the case for me, since I apparently look a lot younger. And also often the wisdom and intelligence, or drive they have, compared to an often silly 20-something. Though I suppose these things aren't restricted to numerical age. And certainly one of the most interesting flirts I've had on online dating so far was with a 'geek' 3 years older than me, who seemed to be quite funny and cool, though interstate. Most of my interesting flirts/convos have been interstate or international, not enough people in Adelaide.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Older women are attractive and are really good in the bedroom. Best I have had is older :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
For me an older woman works in with my foot fetish. There is nothing more erotic than a mature confident intelligent woman seducing a shy young boy like I was at 18yo with her feet...and mature woman's feet are way sexier! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
But I feel I need to speak up in defence of us Cougars and younger guys after some of the comments being made. I'm a total cougar...wear the title like a badge! I was never attracted to men my age and thought I was just fussy, sex was boring and so were they then one day I was seduced by a hot 24 year old, loved it and realised I was "shopping in the wrong store," needless to say I have never looked back! I can't say I have had a bad experience (touch wood 😜) and the guys I have met have been charming, respectful and great fun. I don't go for the ones that want to learn, only the ones that know their stuff and trust me, there are plenty of them out there. The average age for me is 24 to 32 and they all tell me the same thing....older women are way more sexy because they know what they want, are confident, don't want a relationship and are great in bed. Am I a notch to them? Who cares......they are a notch to me, besides, I'm one hot cougar! Happy to tick their box if they tick mine 😜!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Many a fine tune played on a old fiddle - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
recently broke up with a younger man, after 2.5 years he wanted kids... it was fun while it lasted, I miss his very chatty conversations and his sometimes annoying constant thirst for knowledge, however it ended with him cheating with a younger more fertile version... his reason was needing to be a dad, understandable, plus the fact that I kept him at arms length because i knew it would eventually happen, we remain friends but I will never go that young again... although hot and it felt great to be the teacher... the conversation was lacking... especially when they are in that "know it all stage" and the need of having a mother figure... he had some massive mummy issues when I met him... he pursued me for a long time before I agreed to a one night stand but as i said it lasted 2.5 years, when we met I was swimming in money, when he left, not so much... i think it is mainly the needing to be waited on hand and foot, money, mummy issues and experience.
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XBERT
10 years ago
Can't blame them as the 'Cougar' phenomenon is in the media a lot. It's great for the young lads, good on them and a lot of mature age ladies love it obviously.But for me I wish they would cease and desist as it is causing guys my age missing out on so many lovely ladies who are 40-50 and actually preferring guys 30+ or so.so please pursue persons in your own age group so I can do the same with more success! as long as we're all having fun is the main thing.
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RHP User
10 years ago
has been around for ages. It's not a new thing. It's evolved with online dating but back in my early 20s plenty of my friends would go to certain bars and clubs in Scarborough and Northbridge to, as they put it, grab-a-granny. They claimed it was just cause it was easier than trying to pick up young women in their own age group. Everyone had a good time and nobody was harmed.
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RHP User
10 years ago
this is true because older woman can give more pleasure and know how to fire the man
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think that the difference in age should not more than 5 years
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mollypop73' recently broke up with a younger man, after 2.5 years he wanted kids... it was fun while it lasted, I miss his very chatty conversations and his sometimes annoying constant thirst for knowledge, however it ended with him cheating with a younger more fertile version... his reason was needing to be a dad, understandable, plus the fact that I kept him at arms length because i knew it would eventually happen, we remain friends but I will never go that young again... although hot and it felt great to be the teacher... the conversation was lacking... especially when they are in that "know it all stage" and the need of having a mother figure... he had some massive mummy issues when I met him... he pursued me for a long time before I agreed to a one night stand but as i said it lasted 2.5 years, when we met I was swimming in money, when he left, not so much... i think it is mainly the needing to be waited on hand and foot, money, mummy issues and experience.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'pillow69' Many a fine tune played on a old fiddle - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Nothing beats treating an older fm like a queen cause she will fuck your so good a make u come so hard , I even only masterbate over older fm
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RHP User
10 years ago
How lucky was he xx you are hot xx let's chat if you travel or like to chat to 39 year old hot bloke I am Looking for a sub I need a sub
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'HandM2' a young fella at the gym said he over the young starfishes. Apparently lie In bed and do nothing. Hence he's moving on to cougars or barracuda in his opinion. Interesting point of view. Her. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just shows to what extent we've internalised the idea that the man should be older, when guys consider a woman 2 or 3 years older than themselves to be a cougar
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RHP User
10 years ago
As a young man I had encounters with young women who were firm and attractive but generally had no idea about life. It was impossible to have an intelligent conversation with many of them and they seemed to seek constant reassurance about how they looked etc. From time to time they would take me home to meet their parents, often this would be just mum as a single parent. The mothers were more interesting, better educated, more confident and usually more fun. With time many of my contemporary females have caught up. For me it was never about a quick shag. One married couple whose car I used to service made me an offer. Basically I was given a budget to entertain (wine, dine, 69) his wife while he completed his PhD (which involved some overseas travel). The age difference was about 18 years, it was always intended to be a short term arrangement but I was very appreciative. I guess the point is that most of us are not looking for a life partner, many of us have moved outside our preferred age range (and gender for that matter) at swingers clubs ... it is what is, a meaningful but temporary thing.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I get it all the time. Youngens wanting us older women/cougars because we are not vanillas.We are women that know what we want, we are experienced and don't get a so called headache for it to finish. We want more and more and more. Makes me laugh that they think they will wear me out, Im known as the killer of all cocks and outlast even the fittest of BOYS. I never wanted someone so young but have no experienced 3 toyboys. Its mostly about our experience and what we can teach them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
110% right Quoting 'Shilo1966' But I feel I need to speak up in defence of us Cougars and younger guys after some of the comments being made. I'm a total cougar...wear the title like a badge! I was never attracted to men my age and thought I was just fussy, sex was boring and so were they then one day I was seduced by a hot 24 year old, loved it and realised I was "shopping in the wrong store," needless to say I have never looked back! I can't say I have had a bad experience (touch wood 😜) and the guys I have met have been charming, respectful and great fun. I don't go for the ones that want to learn, only the ones that know their stuff and trust me, there are plenty of them out there. The average age for me is 24 to 32 and they all tell me the same thing....older women are way more sexy because they know what they want, are confident, don't want a relationship and are great in bed. Am I a notch to them? Who cares......they are a notch to me, besides, I'm one hot cougar! Happy to tick their box if they tick mine 😜!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't really see age as a make or break. It is, after all, just a number. If I click with someone, then I click with them. If she's 100, then so be it :D
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