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Personality in Person vs Profile Persona

December 08 2012

Note to all: Are you really the person you state you are...??   There are people on here that are PRETENDERS... Why be someone your really not... WHY ???   You know who you are... Profile pics that are years old, even sometimes using someone else's pics. Profiles stating false and mis-leading information, such as age, location, likes, dislikes,fetishes (those ones are usually the curious ones...only fishing for ideas or your weirdo's both men and women)   How true are you on your profile compared to you in real life ??   Im sure there is over at least a third of you that are not speaking the truth. Ever wonder why you speak to people for who knows how long... but no matter how hard you try you will never meet them in real life, quite often those are your types.   Who is willing to admit they have misled others to have them believe that they're someone they're not ??

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    They may not know what to expect but we do :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Ok i have to ask I am really sorry for those who had red my profile...Is totally fake....so here is the real me....Ok I am the most handsome guy in the world....Brand Pitt and some other hollywood stars envy me.. I am 1,99cm tall. I am exactly 89kg and I have six pack belly. my arms are like Arlond's in Terminator 1". My "down under" pride as most of the girls say is like my third leg :000000. sometimes i have problem with this but what can I do...I was born like that...My bank account is the sum of bill gate's account and a bunch of more wealthy people which I will not name them in this thread....I can do that private.....I have a house in every state and they all look the same....I want to have the same feeling in every one when i ride my private jet. I have a different car for every day of the month and own 5 clubs, 3 casinos and 6 hotels. Last year I bought a small island just to have some piece of mind when the 60% of the female population of this city is after me......What am I doing here.....I am trying to find where in the hell is the rest 40%.... Again I am sorry for my fake profile...I know I am a big sinner.Big times

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    The Spanish Inquisition.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I don't speak spanish.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'jensman1903' I don't speak spanish. Just as well, spitting is a very bad habit... ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    No Spanish needed in order to be a very naughty boy!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    And what u see is what u get ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    But a bit of Spanish can be very nice in a Naughty Boy.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'christos13'Ok i have to ask I am really sorry for those who had red my profile...Is totally fake....so here is the real me....Ok I am the most handsome guy in the world....Brand Pitt and some other hollywood stars envy me.. I am 1,99cm tall. I am exactly 89kg and I have six pack belly. my arms are like Arlond's in Terminator 1". My "down under" pride as most of the girls say is like my third leg :000000. sometimes i have problem with this but what can I do...I was born like that...My bank account is the sum of bill gate's account and a bunch of more wealthy people which I will not name them in this thread....I can do that private.....I have a house in every state and they all look the same....I want to have the same feeling in every one when i ride my private jet. I have a different car for every day of the month and own 5 clubs, 3 casinos and 6 hotels. Last year I bought a small island just to have some piece of mind when the 60% of the female population of this city is after me......What am I doing here.....I am trying to find where in the hell is the rest 40%.... Again I am sorry for my fake profile...I know I am a big sinner.Big times and look your cock made a dent up in the roof ok your ....that guy that owns Virgin? how goes it Dick?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    A bit of Spanish in a naughty boy can be very nice. Form an orderly queue...- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I am a oompa loompa and i fuking hate chocolate

  • Playful2looking

    Playful2looking

    13 years ago

    I am sorry... sobbing ....on my knees begging forgivness. I am a complete fake. I live in QLD and I drive a Ferrari. I am really gay I just want to have sex with your husband. Oh and I am only fifteen years old. Would I lie to you. Sorry again to the real people who drive ferraris and of course the lovely gay guys..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    The above line summaries a sentiment that is shared by many on this site. It is the fear of non- acceptance that compels people on this site to be both honest and dishonest in their dealings with others, although personally speaking I find that honesty reveals an admirable character. You are to be looked up to by the dishonest if you chose the path of honesty, although sadly, and this is not just from my experiences, you find it hard to be truly accept by others, either way. People expect your real- life version of yourself to live up to a profile name that ignites sexual desire and heightens one's curiosity of you, but if you pass for an ordinary name, then you can only expect indifference from members of this site, and surely you are worth more than others indifference? You can't force an attraction- 'make someone like you', as it is commonly called and have all been told before- but many people alternately hold the belief, at least at some level, that we each hold the power of teaching someone how to treat us through our responses to them. We may not ever be enough for some people, but we certainly don't have to add the label 'weirdo' to 'insufficient' by hackling and harassing another because the first message stated above has not sunk in. To summarise, it is through honest dealings with others that we can expect their respect for us, and that should be more of a reward for us than any mis- matched relationship that might ensue through our dishonest interactions with others. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'tuscanred' Quoting 'christos13'Ok i have to ask I am really sorry for those who had red my profile...Is totally fake....so here is the real me....Ok I am the most handsome guy in the world....Brand Pitt and some other hollywood stars envy me.. I am 1,99cm tall. I am exactly 89kg and I have six pack belly. my arms are like Arlond's in Terminator 1". My "down under" pride as most of the girls say is like my third leg :000000. sometimes i have problem with this but what can I do...I was born like that...My bank account is the sum of bill gate's account and a bunch of more wealthy people which I will not name them in this thread....I can do that private.....I have a house in every state and they all look the same....I want to have the same feeling in every one when i ride my private jet. I have a different car for every day of the month and own 5 clubs, 3 casinos and 6 hotels. Last year I bought a small island just to have some piece of mind when the 60% of the female population of this city is after me......What am I doing here.....I am trying to find where in the hell is the rest 40%.... Again I am sorry for my fake profile...I know I am a big sinner.Big times and look your cock made a dent up in the roof ok your ....that guy that owns Virgin? how goes it Dick? Dont get any ideas tuscanred.... The roof was close to my cock....you re not :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    All true and mostly for the reasons the OP stated, what's the point in having to pretend to be someone else to find someone you want to play with. You only end up not actually getting what you really really want, and if you decide you want something more, you blew it from the beginning.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    My pics are about 2 years old, might have to start targeting professional photographers or those who seem to have a good amateur eye! Actually might have to just start messaging someone full stop lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Roxxyrose is really a sweet lady, gentle in manner and speech and reminds me very much of 'the old lady who lived in the shoe'.   Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Nobody expects the Spanish Inquisition...our chief weapon I surprise......that's all......just surprise

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Lost_Focus' Roxxyrose is really a sweet lady, gentle in manner and speech and reminds me very much of 'the old lady who lived in the shoe'.   Kisses Focus   ohhhh whatevvaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'll just out myself here and now....why not?? Offline, I'm a depressed nobody that has no friends, misogynistic but crave women, and a hermit. If I do go out I go on my own, sit in the corner and drink on my own. I'm a follower, not a leader, I run out of conversation easily and usually just hide behind my computer screen that allows me to be the persona I dream of being.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Over the years and most of them turn out to be pretty much the same as I imagined them. Usually tho I have chatted with them for a while before meeting. I have been shocked a few times though like the lady I was seeing for 3 months before she sprung on me that she was married and left her husband for me :-o didn't see that one coming!!! Neither did she when I broke it off straight away.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'christos13' Quoting 'tuscanred' Quoting 'christos13'Ok i have to ask I am really sorry for those who had red my profile...Is totally fake....so here is the real me....Ok I am the most handsome guy in the world....Brand Pitt and some other hollywood stars envy me.. I am 1,99cm tall. I am exactly 89kg and I have six pack belly. my arms are like Arlond's in Terminator 1". My "down under" pride as most of the girls say is like my third leg :000000. sometimes i have problem with this but what can I do...I was born like that...My bank account is the sum of bill gate's account and a bunch of more wealthy people which I will not name them in this thread....I can do that private.....I have a house in every state and they all look the same....I want to have the same feeling in every one when i ride my private jet. I have a different car for every day of the month and own 5 clubs, 3 casinos and 6 hotels. Last year I bought a small island just to have some piece of mind when the 60% of the female population of this city is after me......What am I doing here.....I am trying to find where in the hell is the rest 40%.... Again I am sorry for my fake profile...I know I am a big sinner.Big times and look your cock made a dent up in the roof ok your ....that guy that owns Virgin? how goes it Dick? Dont get any ideas tuscanred.... The roof was close to my cock....you re not :)   be careful my pretty or the wicked witch of the west will get on her broom stick and come get ya.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'tuscanred' be careful my pretty or the wicked witch of the west will get on her broom stick and come get ya. Your re a witch.....i ll make you burn then as you deserve :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Well my profile is real me, recent pictures and i do expecting the same from the boyz...i dont believe in laying to people, no point at all....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'kristakarunden'Well my profile is real me, recent pictures and i do expecting the same from the boyz...i dont believe in laying to people, no point at all.... It's all RHP template, and nothing else?   And I'm surprised RHP has approved a pic that includes your child.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'hotfit'The above line summaries a sentiment that is shared by many on this site. It is the fear of non- acceptance that compels people on this site to be both honest and dishonest in their dealings with others, although personally speaking I find that honesty reveals an admirable character. You are to be looked up to by the dishonest if you chose the path of honesty, although sadly, and this is not just from my experiences, you find it hard to be truly accept by others, either way. People expect your real- life version of yourself to live up to a profile name that ignites sexual desire and heightens one's curiosity of you, but if you pass for an ordinary name, then you can only expect indifference from members of this site, and surely you are worth more than others indifference? You can't force an attraction- 'make someone like you', as it is commonly called and have all been told before- but many people alternately hold the belief, at least at some level, that we each hold the power of teaching someone how to treat us through our responses to them. We may not ever be enough for some people, but we certainly don't have to add the label 'weirdo' to 'insufficient' by hackling and harassing another because the first message stated above has not sunk in. To summarise, it is through honest dealings with others that we can expect their respect for us, and that should be more of a reward for us than any mis- matched relationship that might ensue through our dishonest interactions with others. - Posted from rhpmobile From the very start I have been myself, not to be one that i'm not... In the short period of time that I have been on here, I havent tried to talk myself up, or try to impress people with a picture that shows a ripped six-pack... life is more than just a hard stomach, or a big dick or big boobs... but for some of you - you need that. Either your desires are so far out there and thats the only way you know how to attract it, or you simply just don't know how to communicate... Honest communication, combined with natural physical attraction will always get you further in life than trying to compete with the opposition, just on looks alone... Ok, I might not be the most attractive person on this site, however the few people that I have met in person since being on here, have all had excellent experiences ^_^ and I have enjoyed theirs... people enjoying what we do best. There is no need to treat people as sex objects, that wont get you anywhere, wheres the satisfaction of appreciation... the appreciation of enjoying that person's company, a mutual understanding where everyone is a winner... Be yourself, enjoy who you are, and you will find that others will also :) Take care for the Xmas holidays.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    less is definitely more.A profile that intrigues with a clever use of words has my vote.I met a man today for coffee,he has no pic here,but I knew who he was immediately and he was exactly as I thought he would be.

  • 301428

    301428

    13 years ago

    Well Maria I paid you some compliments on your old profile and did not want anything only to meet for some drinks and you let loose on me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Those people using REAL names need to stop. There is no need for it, unless the poster has used it...in which case my rant here is egg on my face....but still, those that wish to use posters real names need to pull their heads in.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I didn't realize you craved a hermit,I know a few

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    OK OK I'm MARRIED (separated 6yrs ago and NO divorce yet) and put single on my profile. That's ok isn't it????I am a VIRGIN and don't like SEX.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I am what I have stated on my profile and yes the pics are 100% me ! I have found that some put misleading information for privacy reasons I fully understand that part, but when it comes to saying yes to a meeting and not showing up ,well that's just very annoying and down right rude ! If you have no intentions of not showing up then do us all a favor and get off this site ,stop wasting our time ! I have had this happen once ,thanks creep ...I have heard stories about people meeting others only to find they are not who they pretend to be , get a life you lot ! Most of us are genuine and don't want to be wasting time playing your childish mind games !

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    13 years ago

    CAM UP BABY; pretend to be anything that tickles your fancy lol can't wait till membership status is fixed? rhp

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Everything on my profile is correct except My name, Its a name i always use on line., My photos are untouched and I think 1 is 2 years old and the rest are recent...I think i have understated my interest - But i am trying to establish saftey, being a single female newby , I am sure you understand. If anyone can assist in creating this little issue I would be most appreciated......Perhaps a little unsure of my boundaries as far as Bondage goes. Hence Caution..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    My profile represents 100% accuracy as to who I think I am at this point in time; of course it may well change in six months. Life happens outside of RHP and it is up to all of us (if we want what fulfils us most from this site) to be truthful and to update accordingly. I have met some lovely people from RHP and so far none of them have misrepresented their profile with their ‘real’ selves. We should all keep in mind that some written words, some visuals do not a man/woman make!! Even after messaging, cam or whatever method is used, it is only in 'real' life that the 3D image takes place. Even then the person will always be judged with our own biases. I agree with Freya13, to quote: "less is definitely more.A profile that intrigues with a clever use of words has my vote." xxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I am continually learning who I am and what is important to me. In the last few weeks a few people have said things to me about me that I never really even considered. A nurse told me that to all outward appearances I am the picture of health and seem so relaxed but inwardly we both know that I was stressed to the point of collapse. A guy that I live with said I was the most relaxed easy going person that he has ever met and that nothing seems to faze me. I have never really thought of myself in that way, though I guess I do internalise a lot and don't let things show. Then I was talking to my boss and office manager and they were saying so many nice things about me and that I was so confident and strong - definitely not the way I perceive myself at alli guess the point I am trying to get to is that it's all a matter of perception. What a person actually thinks about you is not always the way you perceive yourself. And while one person will think of you in one way another may think of you differently. As long as you can be Honest with yourself that is the main thing.

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