RHP

RHP User

F65

Older women

October 10 2012

Lots of guys on here seem to say they 'like older women' but I wonder 'why'? Seriously, as an older woman, I look at my body and see the signs of aging. The crepe skin on my arms and slackness related to getting older, the higher rate of fat to muscle which again, inexorably creeps in with the advancing years, the droop where once there was firmness. Do guys seriously get off on this stuff or is it just that they think older women are experiencing such things and hence, are more 'desperate' .. and therefore.. more likely to 'put out'? I ask this question in seriousness..please don't give me the 'pat' .. 'older women know what they want' or.. at least, if you are going to respond in such a manner, give some examples of 'how' they know what they want and why that matters to you. As an older woman, I really like younger men more and more, because, they have those things which I am losing.. the firmness and lithe bodies of their age. I can understand why older men are seeking younger woman, the same reasons. It is a bid to, in some way, reaffirm oneself and to hark back to those kinder years of our own early days. Am I being cynical in thinking, it's only the leg over potential that guys see in older women, or do some of you have a genuine liking for more mature aged women and all the stuff (in my eyes decay but perhaps in yours...something else) that seems to go with it?

Comments

Page 3 of 3 1 2 3

  • makoman22

    makoman22

    13 years ago

    there is nothing more sexier than a hot mature woman luring the young buck.ive always had older women,from my mothers girlfriends,to women in our apartment when I was younger.that rush of excitement,to know they new exactly what to do and made sure u knew it too.im 40 now and although I can apprieciate a sexy 20 something chick,i always get a stir down below when I see a mature sexpot..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'm in my mid forties and most of my lovers and relationships over the last two years have been with men in their late 20s. At first I was suspicious of their interest, but over time I've realised a few things.....men are not only turned on by our bodies but by our minds and by our attitudes and on the whole these stay consistent over the years. So if you're smart, you're funny, you've got some sass and you know and feel you're sexy, then they'll think you're sexy too. Whatever your age. They appreciate our emotional maturity, our ability to articulate our needs, wants and expectations, our confidence and our independence. All this is not to say you shouldn't look after your body - I take doing that very seriously. But I don't do that so others will think I'm sexy - I do it so that I will feel sexy and confident. By the same token, it takes more than a young, firm body to turn me on - confidence, kindness, intelligence and the ability to make me laugh need to all be part of the package.:)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    They like fucking older women.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I wonder if that woman realises in hindsight that she at the very least has affected her son's sex life in such a way. Luckily for him the only real problem he seems to have is an inclination toward 'mums'. Anyone seen the movie 'Bad boy Bubby'? What an eye opener...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'XS'They like fucking older women. is?   I do think you need to like someone before you can fuck them. Men can say no,well they can after I take their gag out and untie them.   of course they like fucking older women, we dont yell we dont tell and were as grateful as hell

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'chevtrek' The answer is simple older women are easy targets and will believe the bullshit more and lap up the attention heck I targeted older women when I was in my 30s. Sorry ladies dont delude yourselves...   young guy wants sex = if its bullshit , and no we dont believe it, but we pretend we do..cause a guy wants to know he went, he saw and he seduced.   I am deluded all the time, especially when laying on my back, legs wide and a young guy eating like a starved man. I think, fuck this guy must want to marry me,my pussy is so good looking and tastes better than a big mac and wow all they want is sex?   whodathunk it?   do you think us old girls come with moron written on our forheads? dahh we do know all they want is sex but for us that has to be a perfect match

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Why is it assumed that you have to lose muscle?Why is it assumed that you cannot maintain a physical shape and remain attractive into your later years? It takes effort. We know the excuses. We have three kids. There are always calls on ones time. The she is a health professional and works weekends and can be on call. The he of us is a company director who is looking at joining the bar. With soccer, kids activities and more, we have all the constraints imposed of a family and yet we maintain an active outlook.He rows and goes mountain climbing. I (She) swim and work in the gym. This does take time. Really though, is it not worth the effort? We do this for one another. We like to turn each other on and to maintain a fit look. Yes, we have to manage our diet. Yes we have to spend many hours a week in the gym that could be more enjoyably spent on an evening walk, but the cost of doing this is balanced with the looks and lust my partner shows in his eyes when he looks at me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    i myself am no super model an never will be....in my dreams i am lol.....and i have flaws just like alot of others....and i make it known on my profile ...so there is no shock to the system for anyone....but i have found youngers guys....that i know....like the way i look and feel...and that in return makes me feel even more good inside...pardon the punt lol......at end of the day the one thing i have seen and know with guys....is if they didnt like what they see they wouldnt contact you...but they do find it a turn off when u bag urself out the way some do....go into every encounter with a open mind and try to enjoy it.....and stop worrying so much about wrinkly skiin etc........ps-if there spelling mistakes lol blame my nails...they to long lol.......happy hunting

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    saturn 65 you ooze sexiness and i think you will for a long time yet hot little lady

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I find women 40+ are more comfortable with themselves mentally, emotionally, physically and sexually. They have a better idea of what they want or desire and are less afraid to ask for it. The game playing isn't there either. That's my two cents on why I prefer more mature women as lovers. More power to you "older" women. You just have to get passed all the immature idiots with there "wanna fuck?" Messages and the younger guys thinking they would be doing you a favour when in fact it would be you rewarding a gentlemen with your experience and knowledge.

  • yankmychain56

    yankmychain56

    13 years ago

    While I have been with a few women less than half my age, and the sex was VERY good, it seems that the older a woman gets the sexier she is (to me). I feel that older women (50+), KNOW what they want and don't play games. Younger women many times seem to just want to flirt and play around. While I like to flirt and have foreplay, when it is 'time to get down to business', then let's go!!!!! I have been torn apart by 'older' women. The package might be slightly worn but inside is a fired up 25 year old with twice the experience and three times as horny. We aren't getting any younger. Lyrics to One of ozzy osbournes songs: I used to dream about the future, but now the future is the past...... When you go in to retirement homes and see painfully crippled and old people, you look on their table and there are pictures of them when they were in their twenties. We might be getting old but in our minds we are young. Some of the younger crowd get stuck up and look down on the older crowd. Don't worry, some day not long from now you will be looking back at when iPhones were new and your grand kids will think it is ancient history.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I have lots of younger male friends as I still DJ   easy target in fact they wish most older gals would think there cougars

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    you can thank american pie for that but realisticly an older girl knows what she wants and also what you want

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    In my experience, the sex is much hotter with older women.. pleanty of kissing, scratching, squeezing :) and The Fact it's looked upon by some people as "forbidden" or "wrong". (If there is such a thing) to be honest excites me. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    We have been taught to respect our elders, they have been where we haven't, and know what we don't. And know how it is done.So if you get a few fellows telling you your hot, it is in search of something that can only be shown,not told and that is sexy.I reckon you are advertising, because you look Ok in the profile pic and now have a smorgasbord of men to have your way with. And little do they know, and yeah I had a good look at you as well. And you know what we are all thinking too. We still have to respect that anyway.Mado

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Lady_Tuscan' Quoting 'chevtrek' The answer is simple older women are easy targets and will believe the bullshit more and lap up the attention heck I targeted older women when I was in my 30s. Sorry ladies dont delude yourselves...   young guy wants sex = if its bullshit , and no we dont believe it, but we pretend we do..cause a guy wants to know he went, he saw and he seduced.   I am deluded all the time, especially when laying on my back, legs wide and a young guy eating like a starved man. I think, fuck this guy must want to marry me,my pussy is so good looking and tastes better than a big mac and wow all they want is sex?   whodathunk it?   do you think us old girls come with moron written on our forheads? dahh we do know all they want is sex but for us that has to be a perfect match I just knew you had a good looking pussy, never thought I'd tell you that, especially being the first few words with you, it just feels good when what was thought is right.Now you have shown, what it is that is so fucking sexy and why respect is expected amongst you ladies, it would be merely echoes from a small and frightened person to question, or worse challenge what has been spoken.Never the less, I have a bone to pick with you, if it is right that you went and did that make over on JSK, I was with him and he was my first mate, at the ready for setting out to Sea with danger most likely trying it's hardest to see us wrecked on the rocks of North Headland, We were to take voyage that next morning. He pulled out, and was all spruced up. Took his chances instead with entering the realm with you ladies, and it seems that my other half of a wit has become a sex slave in your dungeons.So there is going to be a trade off, what do you want for his release?Being a sex symbol and your good looking pussy, won't shake me, though I still have to respect the position we are in, So I ask you ladies for an act of kindness. He is not just any of the seamen you like to play with, he is the First Mate and Other half of a Wit.Lady TuscanMado

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    S- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    For me, it's about timing, the experience, and the circumstances.. I wouldn't have a relationship with a woman considerably older for diff reasons, i guess it is what it is, and I don't over think it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I mainly sleep with older women due to them being more open to things, being a black male, I do have a couple of girl friends my age, but the majority of women including my swing partner is older. They are no longer worried about society, and they are usually as experienced if not better than me which is never a bad thing. There is nothing sexier than a in shape older woman when out, I make a serious effort to going to places where older women frequently go. As I get older and become more attractive, the amount and quality of you beautiful Australian women goes up. I love this country, it's in shape beautiful women and the curiosity of the elusive big black cock, it's a volatile mixture that makes it always fun, naughty and down right sensual. P.s. if you are reading this, I would love to hear from you ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have a guy who only want older i hate my age but now im looking after myself and on diet and gonna start doing exercise walking around the blocks when im not working ect to help me get more fit while i'm on diet .unless they like older cos more mature and reasonable ... he found me on rhp here and we started to talk on skype twice now he is so sweet and good looking im totally head over heals for him but now im not sure if he still on RHP cos i can't find his in searching for freinds so i dont know if he deactivate his account or just blocked me on here but we still on skype so frustrating .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Try an older woman for the experience, the chemistry would probably be totally different something I need to feel and be in the moment of.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    For F&#@#sake crack up, what is wrong with you girly...... If you feel sensual and sexy advertise, if you feel low in esteem masturbate.   I climb 3-400 feet in the air every day with blokes half my age, I can count on one hand, the ones with real heart, the rest are just wanna be would be's if they could be, soft cocks... get a grip girl Flash a bit of pussy and any man will come running If it's the excitement of youth that makes you feel better, good for a night or two, but, perhaps you need to look deeper. Try a real man for ever lasting company in your bed.... Let's face it there is no bigger turn on than a woman who feels sexy and sensual and knows who she is.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    P.S   I dropped my falsie's up stairs the other day, they were lose, and now there broken, I'm walking around with no teeth and looking like a gummy shark ( stick to the young blokes).... go figure!

  • Beachlover1999

    Beachlover1999

    12 years ago

    Hi Crackup   I do on some days associate myself with what you said on your OP, I think many more women do question as you do but perhaps deny it or have amazing partners 24/7 that make them feel awesome so no doubt creeps in!!! Maybe that is the 47 woman in me feeling a little less how I used to be, but think I also questioned myself at 21, perhaps even more so then!!!. But I am a gorgeous sexy woman and my play mates, yes I love younger men, make me feel fantastic. One in particular is soooooo hot, intelligent etc and I have questioned it to him, he is 32 and lives in Sydney, 'Why me?' But I am made to feel amazing, sexy and intellectually we are akin and he says age is a number....Hes right, I maybe 47 but I am in fact inside about well whatever age I feel like being!!! I am pretty certain in 10 yrs I will be the same and when I am 87 and the nursing home is calling....what amazing memories I will have!!!! lolol

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Beachlover1999' Hi Crackup   I do on some days associate myself with what you said on your OP, I think many more women do question as you do but perhaps deny it or have amazing partners 24/7 that make them feel awesome so no doubt creeps in!!! Maybe that is the 47 woman in me feeling a little less how I used to be, but think I also questioned myself at 21, perhaps even more so then!!!. But I am a gorgeous sexy woman and my play mates, yes I love younger men, make me feel fantastic. One in particular is soooooo hot, intelligent etc and I have questioned it to him, he is 32 and lives in Sydney, 'Why me?' But I am made to feel amazing, sexy and intellectually we are akin and he says age is a number....Hes right, I maybe 47 but I am in fact inside about well whatever age I feel like being!!! I am pretty certain in 10 yrs I will be the same and when I am 87 and the nursing home is calling....what amazing memories I will have!!!! lolol   That people find you fantastic to be with. "why you?" Because of you! A beautiful mind.Mado

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have always had a thing for older women, they are more mature, experienced and not afraid to teach the young ones, I'm seeing a 44 year old for casual sex at the moment but would like to meet more older women, so I can keep learning, I'm still young so I may as well have some fun!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Today, younger men are pursuing older women with surprising vigor. So, at 50, you can date men 10, 15 … even 20 years younger than you, in addition to men your own age and older men as well. That’s a lot of choices, right? Should you choose to focus on younger men, here are five reasons why males in their 30s want to date hot, 50-something women like you: 1. With age comes confidence. By the time you reach 50, you know yourself pretty well. That means you have more self-confidence which is very attractive to all men. A confident woman isn’t clingy, needy or desperate. She has her own life and is more likely to not need as much attention from a man — cougars are attractive for this very reason. You are just easier to spend time with and a lot less demanding than younger women. 2. Older women are looking younger than ever. You look younger and hotter than ever. Have you been to a class reunion lately? The women look fantastic. Women are taking better care of themselves and doing more to stay young looking. And compared to men, women have so much more to rely on with good skin care, exercise and health. All this gives you a younger appearance than ever and certainly younger than previous generations at the same age. Some experts are claiming 50 is the new 30 – imagine that! 3. You have experience under your belt. Now that you have entered your fifth decade, you have plenty of experience under your belt. Younger men find this exciting and are often seeking to learn more about how to please a woman in the bedroom. This can be a lot of fun as you show him what women like and educate him for younger generations. What a great service you are doing for womankind! In addition, a younger man’s youthful exuberance can bring a lot of fun to dating overall. He is not yet stuck in his ways and is far more likely to try new things and have a sense of adventure. They might want to try new foods and restaurants, new cultural experiences, new social activities, new sports and even new positions. 4. There’s no “ticking.” Once you move into your 50s, you are usually beyond the child-bearing phase. The female biological clock has stopped that super loud ticking that you may have heard in your late 30s and into your early 40s. This can be a huge relief to some young men who don’t want to get tied down by younger women who want to start a family. These men are open to relationships, they just don’t want that long-term commitment and family responsibility. So you offer him a great opportunity for companionship and romance without the pressure of wanting to get married. 5. You’re realistic. At 50, you are savvy about how the world works. That means you know that dating a younger man may be a heck of a lot of fun, but also might not lead to anything deeper or more serious. That is fine by you. You don’t mind a little romantic distraction and feel flattered and enlivened by a younger man’s attention. Yet, you recognize that your relationship is not as likely to last long-term. The good news about this fact is that you can relax, go with the flow and just enjoy it. And when the interaction with your younger man stops being fun, you are more likely to simply let go and move on. Being savvy to the ways of men and how life works keeps you on an even keel and realistic about what you are doing. That freedom can open doors for you to have more excitement and fun than you ever imagined possible with younger menHell thats 5 good reasons to be "cracked up" about

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I believe all old ladies got more passion. They know how to be good in bed as well and like always. OLD is GOLD - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'knots' P.S   I dropped my falsie's up stairs the other day, they were lose, and now there broken, I'm walking around with no teeth and looking like a gummy shark ( stick to the young blokes).... go figure! I have super glue?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi! Crack Up. How are you Hun? Hopefully feeling Positive about who you are and enjoying Online chats meets.. I must say someone had to really look into the Archives to find this Gem. Here it is Resurrected once more. I thought and had hoped it had long died off! Maybe it needs to be cremated next time not buried he! he!.. Enjoy Lu :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have just spent an hour reading the entire string (admittedly its because one of my favourite hotties yes lushishly aged commented) but your question like the dialog is about the fulness of time.Why do I like women who are older than me ... no its not the novelty factor the phase grab a granny is so vulgar and speaks more of the person making it than the intended target. Also love a good gumming, not likely as I enjoy my nipples bitten and I have a tendency to look for a drink at the end of a good passionate session of sensual love making.In your original comment you suggest that as we get older "we" look for our partners to remind us of lost firmness and elasticity of skin. Well my mind is possibly the last thing I have that has any firmness and it has come with time and age. As for elasticity it to is my mind as I find that it is through sensual liaisons with an older woman that my normal life shape is crap. I find that a woman who has allowed herself to engage in life's benefits has more to offer than a simple one hour of physical escapism. When I have been blessed with a journey with an older woman I have sort to get more out of it than just the physical as I am a very firm believer that the emotional and intellectual engagement is what makes the intensity of the physical so memorable.

  • precious142

    precious142

    12 years ago

    Just get out there, do it and enjoy! have met and experienced some terrific younger guys.......best thing I could have done. And have 2 that I see on a regular basis........in and out of the bedroom! Just make sure you separate love and lust...... When I stopped the self - questioning and doubting, it opened up a whole new enjoyable world for me. Trust me - its good for the body and good for the soul!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi all, I'm 34, referred to as mature for my age, but, absolute truth, I find women that attract me have been from all age groups and sizes etc. ANY woman can be sexy and seduce a man and the key ingredient there is self awareness, confidence and the belief in themselves they are attractive..... From there I find many women attractive in many different ways......... As far as this thread goes, women older than me have more often had those attributes well under control and therefore attracted me .... Just my thoughts..... Any comments welcome.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Some older women are fucken amazing. Babe you need to get some confidence!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My :-) don't hold back lol. Brave_heart you look just fine. Now see lots of nice kind ol dals have had their say. So I'll answer crack me up :-) I have had an older girl fantasy, my 1st (woman) was at 16, she being 38. Always liked older women, until I found "the 1" <~~~ mrs funky thinks I'm cute at times Why, older women, can't really put my fat finger on it. But the lumps, bumps wrinkles of old age doesn't scare off this funky guy!, Mrs Funky might have an older guy fantasy, Her might be the same reasons as my ol girl one, we'll swap notes while swapping fluids and get back to ya'll. Mr Funky (.)(.) XxX - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Well put young man - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I think older women are quite often more skillful, know what they want and more appreciative of a good lover. Looks rank less than responsiveness. I'm not perfect looking and don't expect it in a lover. It is nice to be a mature man who has a wide area of appreciation.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    Still can't bring myself to "go there".... in my mid-30's I had an experience with a 32yo that left me dry. I can count on one hand the number of yuonger men I have lain with and both left me feeling cold and unsatisfied while they ran back home and notched up thier bedpost or ran down to the pub to tell their mates or THAT one that just ran around my male-dominated workplace saying "I hit on him!!" FFS and that one went to water when I pinned him up against a wall and kissed him after 6 months of being chased and told what he wanted to do to me. Yup the 32yo mentioned above. IF there is such a thing as a 30-38yo gentleman capable of matching me and changing my perception of younger men, please step forward now or forever stop flirting with me.....INDY has no faith in what she considers "age inappropriate men" sorry man cubs

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    I DO HOWEVER enjoy working with you, spending time with some of you and being friends with you, I JUST CAN'T FUCK ANY OF YOU (possibly because I make love not fuck).....just thought I'd clarify that before I'm hung out to dry.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    :) hi first of all the younger guys are simply playing on the ease the older lady's are at in life they don't have to work very hard to archive there own outcomes :) anyway for me I have a preference of body style and to be honest age no longer comes into it not does the signs of ageing body's when the clothes come off... The main part of any attraction is 75% mind and life's out looks and 25% body (that's how I see it) as for the lady's here putting the boot in while ur down is prob there way of saying hey there's nothing wrong with u at all;),,

Page 3 of 3 1 2 3