Non-smokers kissing smokers...What's the go?

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  During my own personal researchI have found that there is little difference between the taste of the cum of a smoker and a non smoker.I can however taste what you have eaten in the last day.And i can taste when you dont drink enough water.Some smokers smell ok...some smell revolting.Just like some non smokers smell ok...and some smell disgusting.And Id much rather kiss an ashtray than a toilet.Just sayin.JMO...BJxxx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  i am a smoker (female), and hence i am bias, i admit to that...:) my husband doesn't smoke and never has...when we met, he knew i was a smoker, and accepted the fact, that being a smoker is something that is part of who i am (or who i choose to be)...take it or leave it...and he has never tried to put pressure on me, to quit... it is a personal choice, if and when i am ready, it'll happen... i am fully aware that from a non-smoker's point of view a smoker can be unappealing, repulsive, etc.... (there has been enough colourful comments on that topic...lol) my only hang-up is when people want to eat their cake and keep it as well.... they want to fuck you, but they don't like the fact that you smoke, and so they expect you to refrain from it for their sake... now...if you don't like smokers, then don't contact them/meet up with them, etc....but don't expet them to move out of their comfort zone for you, tapping their finger on the table, because they would really love to have a cigarette with that glass of red, but they are too scared to upset you, to have it.... i understand that some smokers are more than happy and willing to refrain from their bad habbits for the entire night, for the sake of keeping everyone happy...very noble... i wouldn't....if you are aware that i am a smoker ( our profile clearly states that), and you still choose to approach us, then don't expect me to try to be someone i am not, just to please all your requirements....sorry if that is a selfish point of view, but i believe all should be able to feel totally comfortable in a meet/play situation...and just simply with being themselves.... we so far had great experiences, and smoking has never been an issue....but after reading the comments on this topic, it appears we've just been extremely lucky...:)

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  ..who can TASTE the chemicals on the skin, and in the cum? man, I have lost count of guys who 'have never heard of that' - and then there was that guy the generously offered butt sex so I wouldn't have to taste him...how thoughtful. Sorry, but we all pick and choose what we eat, and dont eat things we dont like. I dont like the chemicals, therefore I'm not going to be kissing, licking, sucking or swallowing you. oh, and telling me you have one 'occasionally when out with the buys, maybe once every 6 weeks' doesn't cut it. You either smoke, or you dont.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  As a non smoker I'd had one playmate that smoked and she was not a heavy smoker, but I did not mind at all... hardly noticed actually except for her pulling out a pack afterwards :-) ...in this case it was not a lasting regular buddy so can;t say anymore, but I'd say if someone was doing two packs a day and wanted to be regular then I'd have to say no.. it's the same with alcohol I guess, we all have a glass at times, but if you see someone sloshed every time they're at a party then it's a bit too much... :-(

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Non smoker, and yes I can tell if you have had a ciggie in the past 4 hrs, no matter how you try to mask it. Have dated a few smokers who are considerate, but in the end I cannot handle the smell. Still would prefer to kiss a considerate smoker than a rum drinker, ( had a bad experience with OP Rum as a teenager)

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  This has been a very insightful posting and the comments from all has been very enlightening..but personally for me my profile says defintely no smoking please....doesn't matter if you are a casual,social, light, once in a blue moon, heavy smoker...smoking is smoking...Don't contact me! I have kissed a smoker and I gag and feel like I can't breathe....it's like licking an ash tray (not that I have lol)...One guy walked off "to do something" which was have a cigarette in the middle of when we were talking and he came back to continue our discussion I could smell the stench of tobacco...I was out the door! Here is an insight to some serious smoking after living in Japan for several years in the early 90's...they have a brand of cigarettes called "Hope" the cigarette is only about 3 inches high and really thick with about 36mg of nicotine..."Hope Light" is about 28mg....OMG no wonder they only smoke half the cigarette you can see the tar and nicotine in the filter sooooo totally wrong and grosse...makes you wonder what the stuff is doing to your lungs!! I didn't get the chance to check out % of death as a result of cigarette smoking, but I did notice the tarnished yellow fingers & nails from smokers and the staining of the teeth it caused...they have terrible oral hygiene over there as it is...quite expensive to see a dentist or an orthodontist..strange for such a first world country hey but that is another matter.. I remember the days when you used to go out clubbing and to pubs and the rooms were filled with smoke... Eeek!!! I couldn't breathe...On coming home I used to throw my clothes in the washing machine and strip off real quick and run for the shower to wash my hair before I went to bed so I could get the smell out of it so I could sleep well for the nite lmao... So back to the smoking thing...if my profile says no smoking it means it, I don't compromise that for anyone and it's different strokes for different folks at the end of the day...and it's about respecting each other. But Good luck to those who are trying to quit...and well done to the reformed smokers who have it's better for you health and your pocket . But how things have changed in society and smokers are now becoming more and more of minority. Kat xo

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'jensta'We all have Additive Behaviours! Just like SEX is an Addiction! LOL Seriously! I have Never had an Issue with Smoking & Intimate Partners! After all I am sexy! Take me for what I am Or not at all! LOL No one has a problem with SEX Addiction! xxx Well honey if u had sex with as many people in a day as some people smoke cigarettes you'd probably smell pretty bad too :P It's all a matter of perspective lol

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  15 years ago

  Mr. used to smoke 30 a day till a year or so before we met and I used to smoke 10-20 a day up til my first pregnancy. So far it has been 30 years off them for him and nearly 23 for me. We both totally dislike the smell and taste of cigarette smoke on others, cigarette smoke literally makes him gag in a not so nice way - he had hypnosis. We will meet smokers but think very carefully before engaging them. If they take the efort it shows some respect for us in trying, if the make no effort to mask we give them a miss.

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  15 years ago

  Yes - we openly admit on our profile that we smoke. We at least have the decency and guts to admit it, and we just ask people to at least read that bit instead of skipping over it in a hurry to look at my ass and booby pics lol.Soo.. we have often discussed the apparent lack of smokers in profiles, and so we ponder if there actually are people so aptly described by mooka 'who say they don't smoke' yet if we meet - what's the bet they look nervously around the room and admit to having an 'occasional puff' .. then before too long there's discreet scramble out to the durry machine near the ATM to get a pack! Or we fork out an endless supply of freebies Closet smokers, non smokers, reformed smokers, social smokers, ex smokers or some who just plain BS you, whatever - there are some horror stories here though about people who stop halfway through whatever they were doing and light up - choice work lol. All we can say that will never happen as we aren't 'dirty smokers' and we respect people who don't. For exampe - we visited an overseas country recently where it was ok to smoke inside clubs and casino's- but we still went outside, it just felt wrong to do it inside ...but damnnnnn nothing beats a beer and a smoke after some serious lovemaking first, then getting nailed, hard, for a few hours .... Mmmmm love it.

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  15 years ago

  Quoting 'tyandeb' Mr. used to smoke 30 a day till a year or so before we met and I used to smoke 10-20 a day up til my first pregnancy. So far it has been 30 years off them for him and nearly 23 for me. We both totally dislike the smell and taste of cigarette smoke on others, cigarette smoke literally makes him gag in a not so nice way - he had hypnosis. We will meet smokers but think very carefully before engaging them. If they take the efort it shows some respect for us in trying, if the make no effort to mask we give them a miss. we are of the opinion that you cant 'mask' it in any way. so we dont go there. but do have to say that by far the worst are pipe and cigar smokers........ peeeuw!

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