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Non-smokers kissing smokers...What's the go?
January 19 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Im a non smoker.. and my profile states non smokers only ... and believe me there are big reasons for that I know people should bury the baggage and move on but this situatuion nearly buryed me my former husband was a smoker .. always saying he was going to give up but never did. The intensity and close proximity to smoke ove the years increased havock with my asthma to such an extent that i became severly alergic to some brands of smokes ... to such an extent that i was often hospitalised and one more than one occasion actually respiratory arrested in the back of the ambulance on way tpo hospital .. ,,,, came to realise that he was buying those brands deliberately ... its not just the kissing a smoker that you now smell .. but also the taste in the skin and cum ... and the lingering odour on the clothing and hair .. Hive me a non smoker anyday .. no offence peoples but if the only option for SEX was with a smoker .. i would sooner become a nun and have none
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RHP User
15 years ago
iv never smoked...ok thats a lie, i did when i was a kid and my mum kicked my arse sooo hard iv been too scared to try it again lol but being a non smoker i dont care if you smoke or not...but that could be because i have no sense of smell i cant smell it or taste it on you so just tell me and im good with it....oh and be considerate about it...you know dont light up when im laying next to you and dont blow smoke in my face...now that is a turn off lol roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
I smoked 25 a day since I was 12 years old and gave up 6 years ago. The only time I have had a cigarette in my mouth since the day I stopped was boxing day night when I lit a smoke for an incredibly drunk friend and it really tasted revolting. I gave up smoking while living with a man who smoked 40 a day and as much as I know how easy it would be for me to start smoking again, I never will as I am stronger than that. I dont mind the smell of cigarette smoke at all, happy to stand next to smokers. Kissing a smoker does not phase me either.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Don't like it, and certainly a deal breaker for us !
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RHP User
15 years ago
I smoke! I have been with non smokers! never been a problem! I am considerate! & do my best! to clean my teeth well! etc! If someone likes me they gotta take the good with the bad!& vica versa! Simple! im upfront & honest! if they dont want to get to know me! thats there choice! & there loss! xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
MINTS (lots of them)build a bridge, get over it.... I have never been a smoker, but if someone I am with is, then thats their choice, but for sure they get alot more kisses if they keep the smokers breath under control.... lol!
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RHP User
15 years ago
ok, if someone has big presonal reasons about smoking, then I totally realise building a bridge won't be an option.... I suggest avoid the bridge and find another route.... ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am an ex fulltime smoker....and now only smoke if im out drinking...which is maybe once every 6 weeks or so.I would MUCH rather kiss a smoker...than kiss someone with bad breath.Ewwww....bad breath.One person actually made me vomit.So please, pleeeeeeeeeeease!!....smoker or non smoker...brush your teeth and tongue...floss and gargle...EVERY DAY!!!Noone likes poo breath.JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I gave up eight years ago and haven't had one since. A while ago I spent an afternoon with friend who smoked and kissing him wasn't as pleasant as it might have been. By the time I got home I was nauseous and it was because of the nicotine I had ingested through passive smoking and kissing. Yuk! Not doing that again.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We have wondered about it too. As I used to smoke, I dont mind being around the occational smoker at parties. Enjoy a smoke myself sometimes after a drink. But reading the posts above realised that standing next to a smoker smoking & kissing one might be a bit different... . But hubby is a definate non smoker, hates it. So far, because he is letting me drive our profile I havnt really worried about it to much. Im staying away from 2 smokers but if one is non & the other is occational I figure it should be ok? But so far we havnt actually met up with smokers so it hasnt been a problem yet. Mrs H xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
It is amazing how many young 18-25 year olds smoke. Even the ones whose grandparents are connected to respirators and oxegen machines. Really dying of enphasema is a truly horrible way to go and your lover has to push you around in a wheelchair for ten years with you wheezing away just waiting to kick it. It's truly cruel for everyone involved... and don't think that it won't effect you... it's a dead set certainty that it will have an impact. You'll be weazing instead of rooting... you'll become a STARFISH ... and there can be nothing worse in the swinging game!! :pI can't kiss a smoker without thinking how fucked up you will be in a few years time ... and those cracked pursed smokers lips look like a cat's bum. :) It certainly doesn't make you sexy... but if you've got enough going for you, and you're bent over a kitchen benchtop with your back to me.. I'd probably still fuck you. HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MRSSWEETIEPIE'They try to mask it in all kinds of ways and it's just hopeless, don't bother. I can tell if you've had a ciggie in the last 24 hours. We can tell a mile off. So true. And there's not enough pineapple juice in the world to disguise the revolting taste of a smoker's cum. I'd rather just swallow the contents of an ashtray. Same taste, just without half an hour of effort and the potential for lockjaw! Tinky
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RHP User
15 years ago
We all have Additive Behaviours! Just like SEX is an Addiction! LOL Seriously! I have Never had an Issue with Smoking & Intimate Partners! After all I am sexy! Take me for what I am Or not at all! LOL No one has a problem with SEX Addiction! xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
We agree with you JenstaThe problem we have is, setting up a date right up to the point of meeting and it all falls apart becoz i remind the potential play mates that we are Considerate smokers and they go ewwwww.Non Smokers don't read our profile just look at the pic'sWe are who we are...We have many non smoking play mates and we respect them completely, We don't need to smoke to enjoy ourselves...xxxxxx to all
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RHP User
15 years ago
your so funny
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RHP User
15 years ago
Okay I will be honest - I am a smoker! Yes I admit it, bring out the broughs of wood to burn this heretic at the stake.I say that I am a smoker in my profile, but will not even condemplate lighting up around a non-smoker. What does make me laugh with mild hysteric confusion is those women (and couples) who have contacted me yet in their profile clearly state, often in big bold type "NON SMOKERS ONLY". When I query them about it, they tell me it isn't really important, or that they have the occassional cigarette themselves.Now the bit that pisses me off is when you are on that all important coffee/drinks first date, with someone who states they aren't a smoker adn the first thing they do is either: light one of their own cigarettes; or asks for one of mine!!!!!Personally I would rather be with a smoker, even if I didn't smoke, than someone who took drugs or gets drunk (no person looks attractive when drunk - PERIOD!)Mooka
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes being the weak willed bastard I am, i never have much luck giving the bloody thngs up, did manage twelve months once! Mehh just another reason to cross me off your list people...Bahahaha..ha .....ha......Doh! ..along with my age, build, location, hair colour, height ......sometimes i do get lonely though sitting up here on this bloody great rock! heheheCheers Nev....i gotta move....the scenery looks pretty much the same in every direction, where to next week.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Smokers dont worry us, they are no less of a person because they smoke the smell does not worry us. Hygene when swinging involves showers max 2 hrs before and mouthwash, colonge / perfume and wipes immediately before non smoker or smoker. We cannot see a problem. Rather smell smoke in reality that stale sweat. Only 2 years we had given up smoking for 3-4 years, the couple we played with gave us a few one saturday night (we should have said no) and started us off again. Given up again now for six mths so its just the temptation if we spend an evening with smokers we say no if offered any.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I guess being with a smoker is better cos at least then they bring their own ciggies! I do feel a bit sorry for the smokers of today...I mean you choose to spend your hard earned money on a vice...and its not an easy vice to have because it is soooo unpolitically correct...But of course lots of people are still closet or drinking smokers, but nowdays its uncool to keep a pack in the glovebox for pub nights...So you poor buggers who spend all that money on them end up giving them away to anyone who asks...lol cos its just as uncool to say no to a bummer...after all its only a ciggie! But Im with Stalky, cant beleive how many 22 yr old smokers there are! Hopefully they all quit like I did ...but still all those add campaigns...for nothing? Mrs H xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh No!!!! Reading BJs post realising that we are going out for a big one tonite and I just ate garlic loaf for lunch!!! . EKKKKKKKKKKK!!!!! Whado I do?? Its sitting there in my tummy stinking up my airways?!?!?!?!!?!?!?Im brushing & gargling as we speak! HELP!!!! Mrs H
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RHP User
15 years ago
I stay away from smokes due to health and breathe problems. but everyone i know says it's a stress reliever. I had some puffs before but didn't feel any change. Guess i needed a full cig and not just a quarter of it. But honestly i don't see the benefits of smoking. It's expensive, it's damaging, it's unhygienic. There's a electronic cig you can buy, a little expensive though but it's everything a normal cig is without the negatives and also helps second hand smokers like myself!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MrandMrsH' I guess being with a smoker is better cos at least then they bring their own ciggies! I do feel a bit sorry for the smokers of today...I mean you choose to spend your hard earned money on a vice...and its not an easy vice to have because it is soooo unpolitically correct...But of course lots of people are still closet or drinking smokers, but nowdays its uncool to keep a pack in the glovebox for pub nights...So you poor buggers who spend all that money on them end up giving them away to anyone who asks...lol cos its just as uncool to say no to a bummer...after all its only a ciggie! But Im with Stalky, cant beleive how many 22 yr old smokers there are! Hopefully they all quit like I did ...but still all those add campaigns...for nothing? Mrs H xxThis one is too easy...munch on a few sprigs of fresh parsley. Make sure you brush your teeth after wards though as green teeth, tongue and saliva is not attractive.
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RHP User
15 years ago
At least when we burn you at the stake there will be no need to look far, we only need to search your pockets for a lighter to light the god damn fire. LOL.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'jensta'We all have Additive Behaviours! Just like SEX is an Addiction! LOL Seriously! I have Never had an Issue with Smoking & Intimate Partners! After all I am sexy! Take me for what I am Or not at all! LOL No one has a problem with SEX Addiction! xxx I love your posts Jensta...you make me laugh and you make me smile..and I love your confidence! You go girl...Keep it up xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee'At least when we burn you at the stake there will be no need to look far, we only need to search your pockets for a lighter to light the god damn fire. LOL. But you might get sidetracked by what else is in his pockets... Mrs H xx I tried cloves, tounge has gone numb! Somebody post me some parsley!!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Miss Bj was the only 1 who said it....non smokers sometimes do have disgusting breath!! I am a smoker and am aware that it smells, I not only try to freshen my breath before playing because I smoke, (I don't hide I'm a smoker), but its always nice to have fresh breath anyway!As far as reading profiles...I have had an instance where i drove wayyyy out of my way to meet up with someone...who then when they saw I had a smoke in my hand said "OH no i ddidn't realise you smoked or i wouldn't have invited you here." i got an sms after i left saying a close friend of his had died because of smoking....my thought is...ok its an issue with you...why didn't you check the 2 profiles on 2 different sites I was on that clearly state I'm a smoker??? eh some people!!BTW a little off topic...man Stalky you have a spankable behind!!
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TimidButCurious
15 years ago
Do you smoke after sex? . I don't know, I’ve never looked . A Dad Joke… sorry, couldn’t resist :o) .Timid
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RHP User
15 years ago
Never ceases to amaze me what some people put in front of a good experience! I can understand Halitosis or bad body odour. Smell is just one of the senses. . What's the smelliest thing in the world? An Anchovie's C**T.... (Don't like that word, so for emphasis only)
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RHP User
15 years ago
stinks. dead things smell nicer. stinks up not just yr breath but every part of you. your hair, skin, sweat, cum, clothes,car,bed,pillows, even your cat and dog etc etc etc the list goes on......... it touches and spoils every part of your life and those around you. how do i know this? smoked for 29 years, gave up when smoking 50 a day and have now realized just how horrible i must have smelt and tasted. we don't play with smokers as a result.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' I can't kiss a smoker without thinking how fucked up you will be in a few years time ... bahaha...yeah, stalky, I can see where you're coming from. I had a partner once who was (bless her cotton socks) more concerned about the effects of smoking on me, and thus our relationship long term, than she was about taste or smell. My father, a chronic alco and chimney, suffered the fate that most dread - 2 weeks ago. I'd like to consider myself fairly well educated, in that I know the risks and have seen the effects...but like every human, I have the choice. So far, I choose to smoke. Such is the nature of addictive behaviour. This ...may change. I would like it to. As soon as I find my balls... I'll quit. Until then, I just hope that there are people out there who are not as judgmental as the majority of society who still feel that free will and a free country enable a man to do whatever he fucking pleases to his body, wherever he pleases, so long as it's legal. Then....there's sex...mmm...taste...such an integral part of the experience. Damn straight stalky - smoker or non smoker, I'd still go there... ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MissBJ' I would MUCH rather kiss a smoker...than kiss someone with bad breath.Ewwww....bad breath.One person actually made me vomit.Oh......babe...god...i feel for you! I work with, at present, alot of young people (18-22) who haven't yet discovered deodorant nor worked out that due to La Nina, we are no longer on water restrictions... My default response to walking through their wake of yuk is 'have a fucking shower, buy some fucking deodorant!" As for the mouth - couldn't agree more. Even if there's a CHANCE of meeting a girl, even for coffee, I brush, floss, listerine, flame-thrower (ok...perhaps not ALL the time with the flames...) the shit out of my mouth....because i know what it's like. Nobody I know willingly cups their lips around the sewerage downpipe at my block of flats...perhaps that's a sign? ;) Regards, SF
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'tinquabell' Quoting 'MRSSWEETIEPIE'They try to mask it in all kinds of ways and it's just hopeless, don't bother. I can tell if you've had a ciggie in the last 24 hours. We can tell a mile off. So true. And there's not enough pineapple juice in the world to disguise the revolting taste of a smoker's cum. I'd rather just swallow the contents of an ashtray. Same taste, just without half an hour of effort and the potential for lockjaw! Tinky DAMN! Well...I hate pineapple juice, but I've heard Apple Juice does the same trick...but really? I had an inkling that smoking affected the taste of cum, but didn't think it was that significant? Wow... Apple Juice any better ;) Regards, SF
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' Now the bit that pisses me off is when you are on that all important coffee/drinks first date, with someone who states they aren't a smoker adn the first thing they do is either: light one of their own cigarettes; or asks for one of mine!!!!!Personally I would rather be with a smoker, even if I didn't smoke, than someone who took drugs or gets drunk (no person looks attractive when drunk - PERIOD!)Mooka Mooks, fkn spot on. I lost a job opportunity, when I was younger, due almost entirely to the fact that we sat a comprehensive 'personality board', in which umpteen number of 'specialists' and current employees would survey and assess our suitability for the job based on how we acted. This was indoors, under direct supervision and observation, as much as outdoors where you THOUGHT you weren't being watched. Young stupid bastard....I'd said I didn't smoke in the application and introduction - for fear of being shunned from a medical point of view. They tested us...said "Do we want to continue or would we all prefer a 5 minute break...? WHo here's a smoker?" I was so nervous and stressed...when the opportunity came for 5 mins out of the room, I whoofed them down like they were going out of fashion. Packet? Fuck no, man, gimme the fkn plantation. Now. Or I'll kill you...and toto too ;) Anyway...didn't go down well. Young idiot. I'm comfortable with who I am now...and respectful of others for it....fkn selectors and their fkn mind tricks. DAMMIT!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'CarlosSpicyWienr' Yes being the weak willed bastard I am, i never have much luck giving the bloody thngs up, did manage twelve months once! Mehh just another reason to cross me off your list people...Bahahaha..ha .....ha......Doh! ..along with my age, build, location, hair colour, height ......sometimes i do get lonely though sitting up here on this bloody great rock! hehehe Far out dude! Addiction beats many many people...you're not 'weak willed' - i quit...for an hour in between cigarrettes, but I quit!! Seriously though, 12 months is no mean feat - don't beat yourself up too hard mate. I did 2 years. The first 2 weeks is the hardest...anyway, it all came undone when a work colleague offered me a durry in response to my visible signs of distress (god bless her HELLSPAWN SOCKS)...and it was all over. Fuck. And Uluru ain't so bad...I happened to go there last year and is was raining. Yes, everyone, RAINING. Infact, pouring. The whole three days straight. Disappointed as I was not to have climbed the rock (I was motivated, keen, and a bit crazy...but I had a girl with me and whilst endangering my own life is cool, getting her hurt was not...) I was promptly reminded by a local merchant that we had come to the rock and seen what only 2% of all tourists ever see - waterfalls cascading from the rock, pools of water - an oasis in the desert - forming at it's base... and then there are the Olgas...wow, FUCK walking that shit in the heat of the day! Overcast and rain - perfect. I will go back, though ;) Good luck...doubt anyone here'd cross you off mate... Regards, SF
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4' Smokers dont worry us, they are no less of a person because they smoke the smell does not worry us. Hygene when swinging involves showers max 2 hrs before and mouthwash, colonge / perfume and wipes immediately before non smoker or smoker. Cheers BadRomace ;) Hygiene (nod)...fingernails too - they can cause some nasty injuries not to mention killing the mood!!! Gents, ladies - cutting them is great, but for FUCK SAKE please file them too! Guys - it's not homo to do so and the women will appreciate it! Now...Where's my listerine? Ah...next to my pack of smokes...excuse me... ;) Regards, SF
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RHP User
15 years ago
With my addictions! Surprisingly! I dont smoke! after sex! for me! at that point! Im still peaking! and I have to snuggle touch & feel! xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'tinquabell' Quoting 'MRSSWEETIEPIE'They try to mask it in all kinds of ways and it's just hopeless, don't bother. I can tell if you've had a ciggie in the last 24 hours. We can tell a mile off. So true. And there's not enough pineapple juice in the world to disguise the revolting taste of a smoker's cum. I'd rather just swallow the contents of an ashtray. Same taste, just without half an hour of effort and the potential for lockjaw! Tinky even though i run the very real risk of being branded a nazi or a bigot or racist or something, I would have to agree. and add also that women who smoke, IN MY EXPERIENCE, also taste/smell of cigarettes when you are down there. its just as off putting.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'tinquabell' Quoting 'MRSSWEETIEPIE'They try to mask it in all kinds of ways and it's just hopeless, don't bother. I can tell if you've had a ciggie in the last 24 hours. We can tell a mile off. So true. And there's not enough pineapple juice in the world to disguise the revolting taste of a smoker's cum. I'd rather just swallow the contents of an ashtray. Same taste, just without half an hour of effort and the potential for lockjaw! Tinky even though i run the very real risk of being branded a nazi or a bigot or racist or something, I would have to agree. and add also that women who smoke, IN MY EXPERIENCE, also taste/smell of cigarettes when you are down there. its just as off putting. Obviously you dont like smoked fish! Maybe try some smoked oysters?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4' Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'tinquabell' Quoting 'MRSSWEETIEPIE'They try to mask it in all kinds of ways and it's just hopeless, don't bother. I can tell if you've had a ciggie in the last 24 hours. We can tell a mile off. So true. And there's not enough pineapple juice in the world to disguise the revolting taste of a smoker's cum. I'd rather just swallow the contents of an ashtray. Same taste, just without half an hour of effort and the potential for lockjaw! Tinky even though i run the very real risk of being branded a nazi or a bigot or racist or something, I would have to agree. and add also that women who smoke, IN MY EXPERIENCE, also taste/smell of cigarettes when you are down there. its just as off putting. Obviously you dont like smoked fish! Maybe try some smoked oysters? you'll make me gag! lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' Personally I would rather be with a smoker, even if I didn't smoke, than someone who took drugs or gets drunk (no person looks attractive when drunk - PERIOD!)Mooka i object to that Mooka...i look very attractive drunk, have a few beers and try it roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
My profile clearly states "non smokers". I figure if I'm important enough to fuck then I"m important enough to not smoke... but hey the addiction comes first for most people! That's resulted in me sitting alone in restaurants and bars while Mr Smoker goes outside (NO I will not join him). I don't like the feeling of being left alone. After tasting my body why spoil the lingering flavour and smell with nicotine ? Just doesn't make sense. I'm fortunate that my ex did eventually get how important this was and quit smoking four months into the relationship. I think it was winter that finally did it for him... standing outside, alone, naked after sex, desperate to have a puff. Hugs, Saturn
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RHP User
15 years ago
but it's a strong no no for me. I have never smoked and the smell is intolerable for me. We all have our likes/dislikes. Even if you they smoke around someone, it comes out in their hair, skin and other...fluids :) have tried to suffer it for the odd attractive person, but it rarely works out.
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multifun
15 years ago
we are both reformed smokers and though our preference is for non smokers we dont totally exclude those who do,but a couple of weeks ago we were with a couple who both smoke and half way through our night of passion the male of the two stopped what he was doing half way through went and got a smoke came back a went to continue on with his freshly lit cigarette.that crossed the line big time and pretty much destroyed the whole night, we wont be going back
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multifun
15 years ago
we are both reformed smokers and though our preference is for non smokers we dont totally exclude those who do,but a couple of weeks ago we were with a couple who both smoke and half way through our night of passion the male of the two stopped what he was doing half way through went and got a smoke came back a went to continue on with his freshly lit cigarette.that crossed the line big time and pretty much destroyed the whole night, we wont be going back
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'multifun' we are both reformed smokers and though our preference is for non smokers we dont totally exclude those who do,but a couple of weeks ago we were with a couple who both smoke and half way through our night of passion the male of the two stopped what he was doing half way through went and got a smoke came back a went to continue on with his freshly lit cigarette.that crossed the line big time and pretty much destroyed the whole night, we wont be going back Know the feeling smokers can be annoying having to have a smoke on the balcony all time....too much play time is lost.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I used to date a smoker and then married her, the only reason we were able to get along was she would go outside and have a ciggie and then come inside and head straight to the bathroom to brush her teeth and freshen up some. It was bearable, when she fell pregnant she gave it up like a light switch never smoked again. My ex partner is a smoker who does the same, the only way I could tolerate her was she did not smell of smoke. After all the trying and asking and pleading I did she would not stop so I left her. Then I met a beautiful Swiss woman, again same thing she would "clean up" after smoking, but again it did not last. The reason these relationships with light smokers does not last is simple, my system seems to handle them up to a certain point then my system goes into major rejection mode. My eyes will water up, nose run and chest tighten. The thing is I can smell a smoker a mile away and because of this I have made it a strict policy of no smokers, zero tolerance and that is the way it has to be... hate it when my chest tighten...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well, for us metting smolers is a definite no go,we cannot handle the smell being left on our clothes when we finally put them back on!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Funny...just how socially acceptable it has become to be a "smoker basher" and we all do have some choices around that. I have just (barely, and still struggling) gone down the path of quitting with a few slips here and there...but even if I had not, I would object to both some of the advertising and general attitude. Too, as a smoker I would never have smoked indoors in my own home or anyone else's, not ever in a car and even whilst sharing a room would make sure I was not passing on second hand smoke. Too...I always carry a small spray mouth rinse with a clove base. | So, how about if we bash some other offenders that are equally dangerous and cost us all millions every year in health care... | I like a good drink now and then, but NEVER would consider getting in a car trying to drive or can recall the last time that I was actually even drunk. Booze breathe is just as bad and I am not crazy about being around really drunk people. So, why not put a picture of a fibroid liver in the final stages of chirrhosis on every bottle...or better still a nice picture of what two cars welded together look like with dead bodies laying around because a drunk lost control of his/her car. Let's put in a "zero tolerance" law then there is no question as to whether or not you are "okay to drive". | McDonald's should have a few shots of an open heart surgery...removing a couple of plugged arteries and replacing them with saphenous veins stripped from your leg. Supersize me...and don't forget that if I ate only there every day for the next year I might die of malnutrition. Might as well hit up the rest...and please be sure to make KFC finally identify what part of a chicken looks like that? | I had to really laugh when a lady walking towards me on the street and saw the cigarette in hand kept on coming...only to fan her face and make coughing sounds. Nice touch when the bus went by and shifted gears...she would have inhaled about a pack's worth and not a single cough. Can we please get filters put on the buses? | Here is a cracker...a few months back I stood on a balcony with a nice young lady, we shared several cigarettes and a couple of glasses of champange and the next day after going nearly semi-conscious together she tells me that smoking really bothers her? | Oh well, back to quitting but not because of social pressure. Stuff that, and as for my occassional Cohiba..... | ...pry them from my cold dead fingers!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mr b smokes but i dont. he only smokes out side and never tries to kiss me after he has ben smoking i tell him he stinks if he dose. he is repectful when we are with other ppl but sometimes cant help himself. Mrs B
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RHP User
15 years ago
Though the thought, and action, of kissing him passionately was like licking an ashtray, and the way the smell of tobacco was ever present, I thought my late husband was the best lover I ever had and, he assured me, vice-versa. He chose smoking over me - and died! I have since remarried, and "smokeless" love-making has to be experienced to be believed. The natural smell of the man, licking his body and the taste of his non-smoker's lips and cock, pure semen you can swallow without gagging and his tongue, clean and exploring. Now on RHP we insist on non-smokers completely. We know we have probably missed out on some fantastic experiences, but it's a small price to pay for everything else. It's all a personal choice.
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RHP User
15 years ago
If I have one pet hate in life its ex-smokers who believe they have the right to sit in judgement of smokers. This will probably sound strange coming from ex-smoker himself lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Wow guys...plenty of food for thought. Statistics don't lie...it makes sense as a single male to be a non-smoker ;) Well then... perhaps soon... I would kiss a girl that smokes if I was a non smoker. The killer for me would be smoking in bed, or while eating. When I backpaked around Europe for a month, I just couldn't beleive how much smoke in the air affected me when I was trying to eat. Woah...! and it goes without saying that kissing someone who's JUST had a cigarrette is not the best either. hmmm...let's see...compromise...yes, if she were a dynamo in the sack and had me seeing stars every time I was with her, she could smoke my highschool yearbook stuffed with my chest hair and I'd still kiss and lick every part of her body and call it ice-cream ;) power to you girls!
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RHP User
15 years ago
....55kg?? . If that's the case, then I'm happy to call myself a light smoker....pmsl ;-D
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RHP User
15 years ago
Having never really smoked cigarettes, the taste is very noticeable; but as almost everyone my age I know smokes it has never really bothered me, its not ideal but its not a deal-breaker for me. Besides the best place to get to know someone when your out at a pub etc is outside/smoking section.
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Bubbaj
15 years ago
they smoke as long as they have had a mint to disguise it or something along those lines. it is like kissing an ashtray and enough to gag....hmmm the point of it being on their skin.......if their smoking hand is anywhere near my nose....i will run :P
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tullus11
15 years ago
Roll Up Roll Up people. no pushing or shoving every one get a turn on this ride!!!! DEATH!
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RHP User
15 years ago
From an ex-smoker...well written
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting '141241242342' Though the thought, and action, of kissing him passionately was like licking an ashtray, and the way the smell of tobacco was ever present, I thought my late husband was the best lover I ever had and, he assured me, vice-versa. He chose smoking over me - and died! I have since remarried, and "smokeless" love-making has to be experienced to be believed. The natural smell of the man, licking his body and the taste of his non-smoker's lips and cock, pure semen you can swallow without gagging and his tongue, clean and exploring. Now on RHP we insist on non-smokers completely. We know we have probably missed out on some fantastic experiences, but it's a small price to pay for everything else. It's all a personal choice. exactly. its personal choice. no matter the reasons behind it. as adults we get to choose, and thats the beginning and end of it all.lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
I was married to an alcoholic smoker for 20 years! I held my breath for 20 years and I switched my brain off to his many drunken tirades. So, I decided to have fresh air in my life again before it was too late. I wasn't getting any younger and he was getting smellier and more unattractive behaviour-wise. Divorced him. Best decision I've ever made. My kids were super happy about that move. No more ciggie smoke smells wafting into the house.He smoked outside in any weather conditions. Decided I didn't want to smell another man for over 2 years.Born again virgin! Next best decision,joined RHP and met a man of kindred spirit : ) We both don't smoke, don't drink alcohol (I'm allergic to both),exercise nearly everyday. In our profile, says, No smokers. We don't mind light smokers, so long as they don't smoke the day of play.But, I don't kiss them either. They exhale ciggie smells from their lungs and it's also on their fingers and also sweat ciggie smelling sweat. Reminds me of my ex-hubby. Bad memories : ( Does turn me off a bit. Only played with 1 light smoker. We played with him because he was a really nice guy and hot looking and very considerate to rid himself of smoky smells. Now we choose only Non smokers. Easier that way. I like kissing. It's just so lovely to kiss someone with clean breath. Worst thing is actually body odour. Can't concentrate and totally turns me off, no matter how gorgeous he is. Simple. Don't smoke and save a fortune! Take up knitting. Keep your hands busy.
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RHP User
15 years ago
i find smokers seriously sexy!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
For those interested or concerned...cranberry juice contains both oxalic acid and certain other natural ingredients that are a very natural way to detox any number of chemicals from the human body and in particular the blood stream. Certain anatomical waste disposal processes, particularly sweating...can be influenced by food or other chemical intakes, however would require very high doses that are not processed out otherwise. Cranberry juice will facilitate a more efficient waste elimination. As for altering the taste of semen...no pathological link there, so sorry, add that one to the Urban Myth dictionary. Not going to happen unless you are snagging a 5 pack plus per day smoker and most likely because the smell will be on his hands...but that could happen to any smoker, drinker or garlic muncher. Short form...if you smoke, keep your hands off your dick.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We are non-smokers, and have always been so, and even though in our early days in this scene we played with light smokers, we have progressively become choosier and now only seek other non-smokers. We love to kiss. Mrs. TF just doesn't get turned on without some long passionate kissing, which doesn't work for her if the object of her affection is a smoker. She says it's worse if it is another girl, as a girl's long hair catches so much more of the smell than guys' usual short hair. Mr. TF is less sensitive to smoke and is more tolerant, but that might just be because he's a guy. Are we being too demanding ? It sometimes feels unfair to reject potential playmates because they are "light" smokers. If they are considerate... abstain for a while beforehand, wash, brush, gargle etc. then surely it's unfair ? The thing is, our experiences lead us to believe otherwise.Firstly, we are the last people who want to deny others their addiction of choice. The aim of this scene is fun, and if you are addicted to nicotine you may be able to put up without it for a while, but nicotine is a demanding mistress, and will not be denied for long. The last thing we want is for our playmates to feel a rising craving, tension and aggravation. The aim is for an easy going and relaxed interaction.Secondly, the uncertainty and stress of a first date, especially for nubies, can easily turn a light smoker into a chain smoker.Thirdly, if potential playmates can't get their head around the concept of playing without having a solid dose of nicotine deadening their feelings, then they should probably sort out their feelings first. It is very similar with many in this scene who won't consider playing until the early hours of the morning after getting thoroughly pissed. If they can't find the courage to play until they are pissed, then maybe they shouldn't be playing. Alcohol and nicotine are both psycho-active drugs, and our aim is for playmates who are grounded and stable enough to be able to happily function without either. Our drug of choice is fine red wine, but we are just as happy to play without it as with it.Sensitivity to smoke is a physiological reaction, and isn't just because one's prejudiced. Our social life was quite limited prior to the banning of smoking in nightclubs and other public venues, as Mrs. TF's tolerance to the smoke-filled atmosphere was about 20 minutes before she started to sneeze un-controllably and afterwards would feel dreadful. Mr. TF, though a non-smoker, just couldn't understand the problem. Everyone's different.In our recent travels around Europe, and visits to quite a few swing clubs / strip clubs / cabarets etc., we were surprised (though we shouldn't have been) of the wide prevalence of smoking in the clubs. The Australian nanny state isn't all bad.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't understand the whole smoking thing... I mean it just seems to chew up a lot of time and dollars. I agree with MissSaturn, that it is kinda weird to be left at a table while your date needs to indulge her habit, luckily I have a drinking problem so this is usually a good time to down four or five tequilas without being judged. . If it were a choice, sure.. a non-smoker would have to be preferable to a non-smoker. But I don't see it as a deal breaker. I don't mind the smell of 'fresh' cigarette smoke, but I don't like the smell of stale smoke on clothes or in rooms etc... so when I am with a smoker I am sure to remove their clothes as quickly as possible and aim for extended love sessions so they can't smoke as much. I see it as a community health act.
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RHP User
15 years ago
while all of your comments involve poor health, smoking is the one that most impacts others, most frequently. An obese person can walk past me and cause no issue. As long as I am not on the road with a drunk, then usually all good. BUT, if someone lights up around me, the passive smoking directly impacts on me, without my choice.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'twofornicators' We are non-smokers, and have always been so, and even though in our early days in this scene we played with light smokers, we have progressively become choosier and now only seek other non-smokers. We love to kiss. Mrs. TF just doesn't get turned on without some long passionate kissing, which doesn't work for her if the object of her affection is a smoker. She says it's worse if it is another girl, as a girl's long hair catches so much more of the smell than guys' usual short hair. Mr. TF is less sensitive to smoke and is more tolerant, but that might just be because he's a guy. Are we being too demanding ? It sometimes feels unfair to reject potential playmates because they are "light" smokers. If they are considerate... abstain for a while beforehand, wash, brush, gargle etc. then surely it's unfair ? The thing is, our experiences lead us to believe otherwise.Firstly, we are the last people who want to deny others their addiction of choice. The aim of this scene is fun, and if you are addicted to nicotine you may be able to put up without it for a while, but nicotine is a demanding mistress, and will not be denied for long. The last thing we want is for our playmates to feel a rising craving, tension and aggravation. The aim is for an easy going and relaxed interaction.Secondly, the uncertainty and stress of a first date, especially for nubies, can easily turn a light smoker into a chain smoker.Thirdly, if potential playmates can't get their head around the concept of playing without having a solid dose of nicotine deadening their feelings, then they should probably sort out their feelings first. It is very similar with many in this scene who won't consider playing until the early hours of the morning after getting thoroughly pissed. If they can't find the courage to play until they are pissed, then maybe they shouldn't be playing. Alcohol and nicotine are both psycho-active drugs, and our aim is for playmates who are grounded and stable enough to be able to happily function without either. Our drug of choice is fine red wine, but we are just as happy to play without it as with it.Sensitivity to smoke is a physiological reaction, and isn't just because one's prejudiced. Our social life was quite limited prior to the banning of smoking in nightclubs and other public venues, as Mrs. TF's tolerance to the smoke-filled atmosphere was about 20 minutes before she started to sneeze un-controllably and afterwards would feel dreadful. Mr. TF, though a non-smoker, just couldn't understand the problem. Everyone's different.In our recent travels around Europe, and visits to quite a few swing clubs / strip clubs / cabarets etc., we were surprised (though we shouldn't have been) of the wide prevalence of smoking in the clubs. The Australian nanny state isn't all bad. like us you are just exercising your right to choose one way or the other. as adults we all have the ability to make choices. we choose only those who like us, choose not to smoke. simple really. smokers miss out. so sad. lol.
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RHP User
15 years ago
. . . it's like tomorrow! On your "Urban Myth" comment. Rubbish! Be married to a chain-smoker for 25 years, ask his oncology-pathologist if the taste is just your imagination and be told it's not, it's REAL! Explanation? Toxins, like everything else, including your cranberry juice, are carried through the bloodstream and expelled in body fluids leaving traces of their origins. Thanks to mikeandshel for your understanding.
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RHP User
15 years ago
personally i find the taste & smell of grog more offensive but then again I am a smoker
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting '141241242342' . . . it's like tomorrow! On your "Urban Myth" comment. Rubbish! Be married to a chain-smoker for 25 years, ask his oncology-pathologist if the taste is just your imagination and be told it's not, it's REAL! Explanation? Toxins, like everything else, including your cranberry juice, are carried through the bloodstream and expelled in body fluids leaving traces of their origins. Thanks to mikeandshel for your understandingno thanks required. just telling it like we see it. have lost family and friends to cancer, all smoking related. my ex was an oncology nurse who smoked. went through multiple cancer surgeries with her while together. as a result, i gave up once we parted ways, from that point i began to appreciate what i had been missing out on as my taste and sense of smell returned....omg what an awakening! never thought anything could taste or smell quite so delicious as a woman aroused..... (a non smoking woman that is)......the difference between a smoking and non smoking woman is incredible.......have to say though that now i cant stand to walk into houses where people smoke, nor ride in a smokers car.....gives me headaches. (cant see myself or Shel kissing a smoker any time soon, as we deliberately exclude them from our play)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well , I guess it's like most things in life it's an individual thing and what your prepared to deal with to get the desired outcome . I'm an ex - smoker for nearly a year now , for a while i didn't mind the smell of second-hand smoke but the more time away from them the more revolting it smells ! Personally i am going to meet up with a girl who is a light smoker in the near future so i'm about to find out what its like i guess , but i'm not going to turn her down because i want her too bad !! lol . So i guess its something i'll just have to deal with and i agree with someones comment about it being better than dealing with putrid bad breath , i'd rather kiss the ashtray than the sewer any day !
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RHP User
15 years ago
Since I met my man, Dean, who does not smoke or imbibe. A vegetarian and so fit, it made me cut back on eating meat as well. the Kiss from a non-smoker is magical. The taste is sweet and clear. My nose doesn't tingle from an allergic reaction. Kissing him is such a pleasure and I can also breath. I don't advice holding your breath and kissing a smoker.Short kisses and you feel you need to gargle afterwards. Don't like sucking on a smoky cock either. My performance level drops dramatically when I smell it : ( I guess being half blind, I wear glasses, but not when I play, my sense of smell is acute. Definitely non-smokers will have more flirts and messages to play. So, guys/girls give it up for more action!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'nomadcrusers'Personally i find the taste & smell of grog more offensive but then again I am a smoker | | Me too...and that applied even before I started smoking. Science has a lot to do with it...how the body eliminates the toxins, where they are deposited and what physiological systems in the human body are involved. Here is a short snippet from a fairly reliable source... | "Nicotine is one of the most addictive legal substances worldwide. One of the most essential means to give up smoking is to expel the substance out of the system. Nicotine gets in the body through the inhalation of cigarette smoke. |Second-hand or passive smoke contains only trace amounts of nicotine, if any. |As soon as the smoke reaches the lungs, it is absorbed into the blood flow (as is oxygen) and distributed throughout the body. The body knows that nicotine is a drug, and it will be metabolized by your kidneys. Nicotine is dissolved in water. It passes through the liver and then gets out of the system through urine. The quantity of nicotine in each cigarette is around 1 to 2 mg. and 90% of nicotine will be flushed out rapidly through your urine."|Now then...if you like I can point you in the right direction as to which of the organs in your body actually produce seminal fluids and how it is produced? As to the urban myth...basic amines such as putrescine, spermine, spermidine and cadaverine are responsible for the smell and flavor of semen. These alkaline bases counteract the acidic environment of the vaginal canal, and protect DNA inside the sperm from acidic denaturation. And guess what? Nothing involved in smoking is a part of this. Sure...once cancer sets in, there would be a huge difference however again related to the disease and not the cause. My apologies for your personal experience. | Now the oxidation and metabolic processes of alchohol are a whole different story. Ever sit next to someone who has had a big night out at breakfast the next day? That is, if they don't start to vomit and tell ya what...a self respecting pearl diver that could hold his breath for 10 minutes would not head for the land down under for a few days...even after a shower. Oh wel..in about 24-48 hours "she'll be right" to quote ya'all here. | For the record...I do understand how you must have suffered. I knew a man that I can only ever recall as violent and abusive alcoholic...and a smoker. He began beating his two sons nearly senseless when they were just a few years old. Later, these two boys learned fear and hate...and that this man was violently beating and raping their mother, who was too terrified to even think about leaving. One night, he went in his house and broke the nose of his 16 year old son the split the lip of his 18 year old son. His wife had locked herself in a back room and was screaming and crying...no doubt this would have been the night he did kill her. That however...did not occur. The 18 year old, in a few well trained moves reduced him to unconciousness and laid him on the front lawn with a broken clavicle and a few broken ribs. The divorce ensued within the month, however through the balance of his lifetime, this man never quit drinking and is the case with all chronic and progressive diseases, it reduced him to an utterly shameless state. | His wife died at a very young age...only 44, of a heart and cardiovascular incident that occured in the thoracic aorta that caused nearly instant death. That would have had less than a 1 in 100,000 chance of occuring and the most subliminal cause would have been her life with him. She was actually quite thin and a lovely woman. | He did quit smoking at the age of 50...I know the surgeon quite well that performed the laryngectomy and passed a death sentence to him of no more than 5 years. He did manage to live about 9 more years and his only companions were his alcoholism and then addiction to morphine. | When he died after a lenghty and protracted stay in the hospital and palative care...his youngest son living in the same country looked after the final arrangements so that he could be buried in a Veteran's cemetary. The only thing remaining in his refrigerator were a half gallon bottle of the cheapest vodka money could buy...and a bottle of morphine that, when flushed down the toilet, would have kept the rats in the sewer systems of Seattle on a high for months. | His older son never forgave him and did not fly back to witness his death nor attend his funeral. There are some things in this life that are unforgiveable. | I know some may judge that harshly. But in the end, I never found a way to forgive my father. | And as you said...it is all about choices.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Having recently given up smoking, I've had the best of both worlds so to speak. To be honest, when I smoked I had the same attitude as a lot of the others on here "It's what I do, and if you don't like it, you don't have to be here". Now that I've given them up, whilst it's not the best experience, I know that I have to accept it as I am NOT a hypocrite. Basically, if you like someone enough, you will forgive them a little indiscretion.
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RHP User
15 years ago
On this we agree. No one has had a cigarette and gone home to beat the shit out of his wife and kids...but alcohol is a different story. Once you have lived with an alcoholic...the smell and the taste is totally unforgettable as well as unforgivable. There are certain sounds that I find grate like chalk on a blackboard and one of them is the sound of a stubby of beer being opened. A cigarette lighter doesnt do it........and he also smoked 40 a day. It is all very well going on about the health issues but there is not one single disease caused directly by smoking that a non smoker cannot get. Smoking exacerbates the conditions and makes it easier to get them yes...but as a non smoker...you may end up with the same disease anyway.
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RHP User
15 years ago
As a dedicated smoker, I was inclined to suggest flippantly that should someone not wish to experience kissing my lips, they should feel free to kiss my arse instead, both, I have been told, are equally enjoyable! However, the truth is I'd love to quit smoking. But until I do, I remain as considerate a smoker as I can be, especially around non-smokers. | I get nothing from medical facts or statistics, in particular the wisdom espoused by reformed smokers. This is because I am addicted to nicotine. Starting smoking is my one and only big regret in life. I have seen a parent suffer a massive heart attack and watched them stop smoking 40 Marlboro Reds each day after almost 40 years of dedication to their cigarettes. I have seen emphysema rob a family of a much-loved family member. Never ever do I attempt to justify or appear dismissive of this, possibly the most evil and expensive of all the drugs freely available today. | I understand that smoking is a psychological addiction in that there are no physiological side effects or withdrawal symptoms when you quit. That is, it's all in my head. Plain and simple. I need to quit. I have children who do not deserve to be saddled with a legacy resulting from my poor choices. I pray they will be better informed of the long-lasting social, medical and financial consequences of smoking than I was when I made the choice to become a smoker. | It's a horrible disgusting habit and it's consequences for the addict are pretty obvious. | I think it's fair to say, irrespective of all that has been said in this thread, abusing free will and making destructive choices as a young adult will f**k you up every time...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' | I understand that smoking is a psychological addiction in that there are no physiological side effects or withdrawal symptoms when you quit. \ Nicotine is one of the most addictive legal substances worldwide...and amongst heroin and alcohol, one of the more insidious to treat. You see...the body does become physiologically addicted (see above) and the unfortuante part of the rapid dissipation of the substance in the brain, requires short burst immediate maintenance. The psychological side...is more a trigger mechanisim (after a meal, what to do with the free time, after sex) and more easiily dealt with...and yes, we will have withdrawal symptoms. | In the interim...I would be happy to volunteer to kiss you on either, have a glass of wine and a cohiba... | ...naaa, make mine a scotch and you can have a cigarette!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' On this we agree. No one has had a cigarette and gone home to beat the shit out of his wife and kids...but alcohol is a different story. Once you have lived with an alcoholic...the smell and the taste is totally unforgettable as well as unforgivable. There are certain sounds that I find grate like chalk on a blackboard and one of them is the sound of a stubby of beer being opened. A cigarette lighter doesnt do it........and he also smoked 40 a day. It is all very well going on about the health issues but there is not one single disease caused directly by smoking that a non smoker cannot get. Smoking exacerbates the conditions and makes it easier to get them yes...but as a non smoker...you may end up with the same disease anyway. maybe not beat the wife or kids, but i do know someone who cut another mans hand from his wrist because he wanted his cigarettes. as for the diseases? your chances of catching or contracting them are still there, but the risk is greatly reduced. in some cases by a staggering gap.......... i believe the forum was about kissing smokers, the mention of illnesses etc was an extra feature, as was the talk of alcohol and domestic violence... kind of a quadruple feature deal.... you know... 4 for 1? or... buy one get three free? as is the usual way these discussions go.... the real treat tonight is that the forum has regained some respectability and is currently free from accusations of racism, bigotry, Nazism, bullying etc etc etc .
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thank you, Fionabee...for both of your comments. They are appreciated and it is often hard to separate fact from fiction...myth from science or socially acceptable assualts on others who may have made different lifestyle choices. I agree with those here that have made their own too however just wonder if at times we don't go too far overboard when the social climate supports sectoring out certain types of behaviours and hold them up as targets for the masses. | There are a lot of choices made for us...such as some of the laws around a substance like marijuana, just another drug like alcohol yet less invasive. Interestingly, the politicians (at least those back home at the time the choice was being made for us) were most likely having a drink or two and deciding how to tax the product rather than considering it's scientific cause and effect outcomes. I don't do any illegal drugs but if you look back to the days of prohibition there was a time when the cry "Give 'em the axe" was a popular public outcry. | Too, anyone here want to put their hand up and say that all of us are living a lifestyle that is just south of mainstream and most likely would not be held in public esteem? No, me either...but I sure do enjoy being a hedonist so fly the flag in support. | Now back to the real subject at hand here and flying the flag? I nominate the very lovely... | flirty_bi_fem | | ....as the winner for the award of the "Most Patriotic Hot Chick" and thank you you all for anothe day off to enjoy my altered state! And like the song says... | "...let's talk about sex."
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just when I hit "post" I had a funny thought...or at least I think so, but my sense of humour is a bit warped on a good day. Think about how my profile might sound if I put some of the stuff on this thread in there... | "I enjoy a good drink, but if you rock up with booze breath...count me out. Too, if you are one of those "party 'til you puke" types...please make sure you have cab fare home. If the sex is "that good" I may just wander out on the balcony and have a few puffs of a fine hand rolled cigar...but I have heard that some women like that smell but will brush my teeth and gargle afterwards anyway. | If you are acting just a little left of centre, please don't be offended if I ask for a couple of drops of your blood to quickly check for any residual drug content...most of that will be there for anywhere from 72 hours to 4 weeks after in your blood stream. Sorry, but I really would prefer not to be asleep if or when you loose it, steal my wallet and hit the door. Not that it's likely to happen, I am a light sleeper...but I prefer not to keep company with those who can't get high enough on life and needs to abuse a designer version of lawn fertilizer that may cause a melt down or you crack it. Thanks for understanding". | The end....I promise!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' | I understand that smoking is a psychological addiction in that there are no physiological side effects or withdrawal symptoms when you quit. \ Nicotine is one of the most addictive legal substances worldwide...and amongst heroin and alcohol, one of the more insidious to treat. You see...the body does become physiologically addicted (see above) and the unfortuante part of the rapid dissipation of the substance in the brain, requires short burst immediate maintenance. The psychological side...is more a trigger mechanisim (after a meal, what to do with the free time, after sex) and more easiily dealt with...and yes, we will have withdrawal symptoms. | In the interim...I would be happy to volunteer to kiss you on either, have a glass of wine and a cohiba... | ...naaa, make mine a scotch and you can have a cigarette! That's pretty much what I was attempting to say, albeit poorly. I was getting carried away and failed to make the point myself that it is one of the most addictive substances around. I have actually had a former hard core drug addict tell me that he was able to give up heroin and alcohol amongst other things, but nicotine was the one thing he could not ever kick. And whilst you're right with your fancy pants medical facts, I am still of the understanding that triggers in your brain for "top ups" do not constitute an actual physical withdrawal symptom (when compared to other substances which require a very 'real' physical come-down of sorts). Apparently, these short burst maintenance triggers occur every 15 minutes on average ... For all I know, I might be a raging success as a quitter .. never tried though
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RHP User
15 years ago
Is so incredibly hard to do but I managed. In spite of all the odds against me. I started smoking when I was 12 years old and one day while watching a documentary on the tobacco industry, a spokesman admitted that the tobacco giants have always known that if you start smoking before the teen years you have little to no chance of ever giving up. That was the final nail in the coffin for me. To be told I could not do something. The first thing I did was make a list of ten good reasons why I should stop smoking. Ten different reasons. Inspite of not having a cigarette for six years, I know, wothout a shadow of a doubt that I could pick one up here and now and be back to 25 a day within a week. The addiction never truly goes away...I have just learnt to control it more than it controlling me.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'freogirl66'while all of your comments involve poor health, smoking is the one that most impacts others, most frequently. An obese person can walk past me and cause no issue. As long as I am not on the road with a drunk, then usually all good. BUT, if someone lights up around me, the passive smoking directly impacts on me, without my choice. I was a very militant smoker and would use comments like "Feel free to hold your breath for as long as it takes me to smoke this cigarette" NZ always had tobacco free week once a year. I used to call it reform an ex smoker week and try hard to refom a person who had given up smoking.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' For all I know, I might be a raging success as a quitter .. never tried though Quitting's tough. You will need something to keep your hands occupied... oh and your lips. Erm.. I have this thing... it's called Nicajeanate. Now they're not patches... and not really inhalers or gum... but might help. Just thinking... you know... :-D
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' And whilst you're right with your fancy pants medical facts... | These are not "fancy pants"...just my jocks, and I guess I could post a pic in here without them on like some of the others? | Naaaaa....you'd just blush or giggle. Way too "girlie" for me..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' For all I know, I might be a raging success as a quitter .. never tried though Quitting's tough. You will need something to keep your hands occupied... oh and your lips. Erm.. I have this thing... it's called Nicajeanate. Now they're not patches... and not really inhalers or gum... but might help. Just thinking... you know... :-D *smirk* . Not sticky, not smelly, no chewing required ... makes cold turkey look awfully primitive ... . I don't think I've ever been as appreciative of Australia's weak immigration policy as I am right now! Nice pic
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Is so incredibly hard to do but I managed. In spite of all the odds against me. I started smoking when I was 12 years old and one day while watching a documentary on the tobacco industry, a spokesman admitted that the tobacco giants have always known that if you start smoking before the teen years you have little to no chance of ever giving up. That was the final nail in the coffin for me. To be told I could not do something. The first thing I did was make a list of ten good reasons why I should stop smoking. Ten different reasons. Inspite of not having a cigarette for six years, I know, wothout a shadow of a doubt that I could pick one up here and now and be back to 25 a day within a week. The addiction never truly goes away...I have just learnt to control it more than it controlling me. yes it is difficult..... i began at age 12 and gave up at 41...... had tried previously using patches and gum, but the last time turned out to be the one that stuck. ........I was by then smoking a pack of 50's each day. .........just decided 'thats it' and screwed up the pack i had and tossed it the bin........ going 'cold turkey' was incredibly difficult and i was a bear to be around for many months......i miss it even now, but cant go back as i truly enjoy my smoke free life......., besides, its freed up an extra $5000/year for the slush fund lol.
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RHP User
15 years ago
In my previous life my Ex was always nagging me to quit, continuous it was. It got so bad that I even went and bought some patches, but the damn things weren't big enough to cover her mouth and shut her up!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' In my previous life my Ex was always nagging me to quit, continuous it was. It got so bad that I even went and bought some patches, but the damn things weren't big enough to cover her mouth and shut her up! ok thats funny. well done lol.
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
Can't stand it. Heavy smoker, regular smoker, light smoker, occasional smoker whatever they class themselves as..there is no difference..a smoker is a smoker. If you smoke, we don't care, it's your choice, your life, your death. But (for us) smoking is disgusting and offensive so we chooses as much as humanly possible to distance ourselves from people who are smoking the best we can (not always easy). As avid life long non smokers, we can smell cigarette smoke from a long way off...sitting in a car at a red light we often smell the smoke from people crossing the street or sitting 3 or 4 cars away..yes it does carry that far. Sit for five minutes beside a smoking person and clothes & hair are immediately tainted with the smell. No amount of gum or mints will kill a smoker's breath. We clearly state non smokers in our profile, but obviously people can't read because we still get messages from smokers. We're not saying smokers are any less human than others, we have great friends & family who smoke (tsk tsk) and they are fantastic people. But fantastic people who are ignorant to the fact they are killing themselves, people who say they enjoy smoking are lying to themselves, they just say that because they have no will power, oh yes ,people will be ticked off with that comment...meh...tough! I bet in a couple of hundred years from now, people will see old photos & film from today showing people smoking and they'll say "They did what?..they actually paid money to suck poisonous smoke into their bodies?..incredible!!!"Stick that in your pipe & smoke it!!!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Being a non-smoker (never even been curious to try one), I've always hung around smokers and quite frankly I'm used to the stench. So when it comes to kissing a smoker, I've always had that initial thought of "Fuck she tastes awful" but I've also noticed the taste quickly subsides as well. Probably all that saliva-swapping helps cleanse the mouth cavity of all that. Or perhaps it's the cleansing properties of my penis? :)So yes, it is a bit of a turn off but then again, in the heat of the moment, it's easily overcome and just as easily subsides.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Personally I'm a non smoker (not picking sides ), and my last 2 encounters have been with smokers. Although there is the taste while kissing, the passion of the sexual encounter overpowers it. Not to say that kissing a non smoker would alleviate this. Its personal taste which makes us decide if we want to have sex with this person ( smoker or not ). Usually its physical appearance or personality that decides
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RHP User
15 years ago
It is very easy to stop smoking. The hard part is staying that way. Good luck to the trying to quitters!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Donna_Brett'Stick that in your pipe & smoke it!!!!! Well we reckon smoked fish for Brett and smoked sausage for Donna
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
Funny double meaning there BadRomance......but we don't eat either....of the food variety anyway!
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RHP User
15 years ago
yes forget the smokes and have more sex..your lungs will like it too. we dont like smoke or smokey breath, but wont turn those away who do it, just dont breath out plz :>
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well for mine... I was raped by a man who smoked when I was young - so I can't go there...the smell of cigerettes on a man's breath is enough to make be gag!!! And YES - I can tell in a moment - so no point in pretending you don't smoke, when you do! So for me - it's a TOTAL "deal breaker"...end of story!!!! Ohhh & no sympathy needed people - all delt with a long time ago with counceling & my life is all health & great thanks!!!! Which is more I can say for those people who (choose to) smoke - seriously, I just don't get it???? Big smiles always, JJ :-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'JustJuicy' Well for mine...I was raped by a man who smoked when I was young - so I can't go there...the smell of cigerettes on a man's breath is enough to make be gag!!! And YES - I can tell in a moment - so no point in pretending you don't smoke, when you do! This is one I can finally understand and fully agree with...whether I smoked, am quitting or had never smoked. That is one of those mental triggers that you will never get past...I have a few too including spaces crowded with loud and obnoxious strangers. Took some courage to put that one out there and is appreciated. | Might just be worth looking you up when I finally and completely get off these damn things...and the Cohibas are just a luxury that could wait. Hell, it could even be that extra bit of motivation needed! | Premiditated crimes of violence like that, and a few others are in my opinion...ones that should have the ultimate sanction as an option to the perpetrator. Guitly by reason of insanity or under the influence...too bad, time to ride the rope. I wish you the very best on your journey.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Guys smoking stunts your growth therefore your dick does not grow as long as it should plus it clogs your blood vessels which stops it getting as hard as it should. Thats why smokers have the little soft cock problem, but the blue pills will counter that so you can still play!
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RHP User
15 years ago
OK, not all men who smoke, however I am partial to a certain look... and a certain way of holding a cigarette and a certain way of inhaling...*drool*The more taboo smoking becomes it seems the more I've fetishized it.I myself am a smoker and let people know that. I do my best for stench minimisation but hey, I'm a smoker, what's fresh and peachy to me probably isn't, so I tend to see other smokers (besides I do have that smoking fetish going on). I've had two long term relationships with non-smokers and they didn't complain but again, not an in-the-house smoker and when I'm with non-smokers I tend to cut right down anyway.However.....Ahhh the taste of fresh cigarette and rum on a mouth - a perfect kiss.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Donna_Brett' Can't stand it. Heavy smoker, regular smoker, light smoker, occasional smoker whatever they class themselves as..there is no difference..a smoker is a smoker. If you smoke, we don't care, it's your choice, your life, your death. But (for us) smoking is disgusting and offensive so we chooses as much as humanly possible to distance ourselves from people who are smoking the best we can (not always easy). As avid life long non smokers, we can smell cigarette smoke from a long way off...sitting in a car at a red light we often smell the smoke from people crossing the street or sitting 3 or 4 cars away..yes it does carry that far. Sit for five minutes beside a smoking person and clothes & hair are immediately tainted with the smell. No amount of gum or mints will kill a smoker's breath. We clearly state non smokers in our profile, but obviously people can't read because we still get messages from smokers. We're not saying smokers are any less human than others, we have great friends & family who smoke (tsk tsk) and they are fantastic people. But fantastic people who are ignorant to the fact they are killing themselves, people who say they enjoy smoking are lying to themselves, they just say that because they have no will power, oh yes ,people will be ticked off with that comment...meh...tough! I bet in a couple of hundred years from now, people will see old photos & film from today showing people smoking and they'll say "They did what?..they actually paid money to suck poisonous smoke into their bodies?..incredible!!!"Stick that in your pipe & smoke it!!!!! we have family and friends who no longer receive invites to our home as they are less than respectful when smoking. we dont want smokers in our house.
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RHP User
15 years ago
The first smoker I kissed I found actually very enjoyable. With that particular person it may even have been part of the allure... And they really were a chainsmoker. But I don't like it in my house or car and without the enjoyment benefits of kissing it's not so great to smell. And my most recent girlfriend was a smoker. A lot of people were surprised that I could shack-up with one but it was honestly never a concern. Maybe her brand of tobacco wasn't so strongly scented as some others? I'm asthmatic so taking up a smoking habit would be a quick way to chronic illness for me. But I have been known to have the very occasional cigarette, mostly with said ex, or a mini cigar. But really I am a non-smoker who has yet to have an unpleasant experience kissing or playing with a smoker.
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