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KINKY BOYS... Where have they gone?

July 03 2012

Where have all the kinky boys gone? Sometimes, I wonder. I get messages from men saying they have no boundaries, that they are really sexually adventurous and want to explore. Yet when you look at their sexual interests and fetishes they are not into anything much at all. It's 1 on 1 sex, they are straight, sometimes they aren't into anal either, maybe soft BDSM and that is all. I dot get it... To me that is pretty vanilla. What sort of kink or adventure can you have with that? Is this a fair comment or am I being unreasonable? Meeka xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Brand new to this but really interested! Check out my profile if you are keen hehe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You might also be asked to provide a few more of your interests in your own Fetish list Meeka. I think you'll find that when us kinky males do searches, you are probably slipping under the radar. Let's be honest, most guys talk the talk, but lack the grunt to walk the walk. Jay

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'cumoutanplay' Im here meeka100 but no luck on this site Never seen a pipe like that on here. Brave move.

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    12 years ago

    Good afternoon all. In our private gallery I have pictures of me taking hubby with my strap-on and his joy was obvious. When we were looking for a single playmate I showed this to a gentleman who was 'interested'. We got the thanks but no thanks you are too experimental! Really? Luckily I didn't have our other toys on show. A number of men have found me too forward, when in any chats I suggest what I might like to try. Luckily, we have a found a FWB who is sexually open to anything - he comes (pardon the pun) to play with all the right attitude and then some. Keep looking Meeka! Mxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'ag4mg92' In our private gallery I have pictures of me taking hubby with my strap-on and his joy was obvious. You're keeping them hidden from us? That's just cruel!

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    12 years ago

    Hi gorgeous lady, ask and you shall receive! M xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Love to see you pics or better still make some! BTW Tantric is great if you can take the time, really good for 2 or 3 on one.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ....I can stand about an hour on the Tower-of-Power, as long as I get a little Golden Shower.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ApolloThirteen' Maybe they're here they just dont want to flaunt everything. Many people prefer to hint at their naughtiness- not ram it into people's faces. A huge list of fetishes can be a total turn-off. That alone might redirect a possible match-up to someone less full-on. Not everyone is the kind of person who will do everything and anything with anyone and their neighbors with the dog watching! Some people are wary of the scary! A cheeky hint of kinky is much more appealing. Nothing vanilla about one on one if you're doing it right! That's what makes this site so good - it's a huge buffet and you never know what flavor is behind that good old vanilla! ApolloThirteen I think you have hit the nail on the head with your abovementioned description - well it describes myself at least. Myself personally, I am not really sure how much kinky-ness should be listed on the user's profile because I am quite new at this, but shouldn't there be some unknown? People please correct me if you think i am wrong.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm heaps kinky but girls don't like what I'm into. Share a cock with a girl and cumswap

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'd love to have an Mumford 3threesome

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Ive found a few of the hottest naughtiest kinksters hiding behind very vanilla profiles on here. Get a message from them, read their vanilla profile,blah blah, zzz.Sounding a bit too humdrum for my likeing.Message back" sorry im not what youre looking for because I want someone to a,b,c and d." Then they reply " well actually, Im into all that plus a bit if e, f and g"!! Well hell yeah, lets rock and roll. And yeah I dont list what i like because half of its not there anyway, and like some of the others said, you can play different with different ppl youre attracted to. Vanilla can be nice as well.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I say Meeks, me thinks you want the 50 Shades type of guy maybe...?? Is that a fair call.? Have you seen my profile.? Try me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    We are here. Just flying low

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    Only if you're kinky but...... Pushing and being pushed are my favourite things to do.....💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    were out there trust me, sometimes you just gotta look a lil harder ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'VWGolfGTIQIK20Z' I say Meeks, me thinks you want the 50 Shades type of guy maybe...?? Is that a fair call.? Have you seen my profile.? Try me. Why do I almost feel insulted by this comment! LOL. If you are referring to a bit of spanking and being tied up, and ice play, whips, etc, etc. Then I just consider that to be a bit of fun. I wouldn't have though somebody needs to be really kinky to do all those things. Or are you talking about dominant men who would dominate me. Well I can categorically say no, a guy like that is not for me. I would prefer a switch if anything, as I like to do some dominating myself. I like men who can play at being submissive. Don't get me wrong, not submissive in every day life but who can really let go when it comes to their sexuality. Preferably bi-sexual.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I suspect that many of us dont know what kink is because the only sort of kink we have been exposed to is the '50 shades of grey' type.. unfortunately, we in australia are not like europeans who seem to be much more open and tolerant of difference.. you are not being unreasonable - you have an expectation that many of us guys dont understand and hence dont know how to address.. In my view, kink happens cerebrally and then is transferred to reality by roleplay. It is also about a liberation and a sense of freedom. but.. yolu ask.. what does it mean and what is it?? my kink is exhibitionism and taking a risk where one might realistically be discovered - and committing acts of sex or flirting or touching without necessary penetrating or contact directly under the noses of those who would be highly offended were they to know what you were doing!! for example in the lav on the short peak hour morning business flight from melb-syd power exchange of Dom/Sub is beautiful once experienced the intimacy of a golden shower has psychological meaning way beyond pissing and needs to be explored mentally long before the act. blindfold and going out or blindfold and inviting others to touch without the other knowing.. collar and chain and going ut to dinner or dancing D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hi Meeka100,I note that you use the term 'boys' in your comments! does that mean you have an age preferance in the question? I am sure there are many men who once they get to a certain age, have learned about themselves and understand themselves to a point where they now know that they are or are not kinky, and they can define what kinky means to them.on the other hand if you are dealing with boys (i guess upto age 25-30), they have not quite reached that maturity yet??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I refer to everyone as boys or girls. I know it annoys some. I have a regular FWB who is 53 and I call him a naughty boy all the time. Well, he is the one who corrupted me anyway.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I've always been one for kink :( - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    A girl after my own heart, Meeka....... I prefer people to be open an honest about what they like or what they are wanting to try. I do get though that some people are too shy to express that. That used to be me years ago..... not now. It can also depend on how long they have been on the site as to what they are confident putting on their profile. All you can do is screen for the people that best suit you. Not be afraid to meet and have a bit of fun until you meet the people you click with. Some people need a little nudge to release their inner fantasies. It is so sexy being with people who are willing to let go and enjoy new and regular "kinky" things. Like I said, kinky with the right people..... And if you are lucky enough to find the right person/people..... bring it on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    We moved on to a different site that isn't so Vanilla :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    What is Kinky? Anal play, golden showers, pissing? What may be kinky to one self maybe mundane to someone else. Me personally am trysexual. Try it twice just to make sure it is fun.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Haha just read it properly, goddamn, may need to get some sleep haha.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Why do I almost feel insulted by this comment! LOL. If you are referring to a bit of spanking and being tied up, and ice play, whips, etc, etc. Then I just consider that to be a bit of fun. I wouldn't have though somebody needs to be really kinky to do all those things. Or are you talking about dominant men who would dominate me. Well I can categorically say no, a guy like that is not for me. I would prefer a switch if anything, as I like to do some dominating myself. I like men who can play at being submissive. Don't get me wrong, not submissive in every day life but who can really let go when it comes to their sexuality. Preferably bi-sexual. Wow this is an old thread, must have been around the first time I was here LOL 50 Shades is akin to lipstick lesbians, even in the books its very soft play. Not really what I'd call kink, more superficial than anything else. I would think most people that are either sub or dom in the bedroom are only like that in the bedroom, I find being submissive in certain circumstances reduces everyday stresses, its the escape from a normally dominate work life. I also get a great deal of pleasure in allowing a partner to feel like there are no boundaries for them to explore, vanilla folk are often only that way because they are too scared to explore. Kink though.... in 2012 kinky might have been dress ups, shared undies, anal attentive. What is kink today ? Genuine open relationships, swinging in your 20s, online sexual dating. Thankfully we no longer see Gay & Lesbian people as kinky just regular everyday folk.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I've only ever been in 1 MMF to my surprise as my mates are more timid than they talk themselves up to be When it comes down to it. I think it's a shame as who wouldn't enjoy being the centre of attention... i get as much joy giving as i do receiving n think that all fantasies should be fulfilled

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I love to be really kinky(females only ) , id tie you up to a chair and tease and torment you while slowly doing role play as a bondage barber and and trimming your luscious hair to a nice short sexy bob style - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Someone be my volunteer :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Maybe some blokes don't want to list all their fetishes for a fear of putting women off... I've done the same, thinking that a potential partner may believe that they may be acted on as soon as possible. I mean that, my fetishes may not be everyone's cup of tea, but there is no 'expectation' to act upon them..... Just a thought.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    i am still here and love kinky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    there's 2 reasons I don't list all my kinks, 1) I don't want to scare someone off who isn't into a particular kink, just because I like a kink doesn't mean I have to have it 2) Having some mystery chatting with someone and discovering similar likes and desires is awesome. It's like a form of mental undressing.... In the right moment I have little inhibition and am willing to try pretty much anything (legal) I have experimented with quite a few things and still have more on the to do list...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    If you're in the South East, won't say hello? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Everything bar poo and pee from me ,Splitz here btw And squirting is a def yes !! And partial to mmf bi What can i say...I'm a rare gem ! 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I think all you can do is be honest. If you're super kinky, list what you like - if you're only a little kinky there's no point talking yourself up. That's my 9 tails worth anyway :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Something that starts with a cup of coffee in a public venue, then a clear understanding of likes, dislikes and limits. Then 😁😉😈 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Hey la femme, yes we are a dying bred but we are still out there, it's not every woman's ideas of fun,,but if your looking I'm a goldy Coast guy to so don't be shy,,,

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