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KINKY BOYS... Where have they gone?
July 03 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
but I do know that I have nothing listed on my sexual preference.The reason being, what can be fabulous with one person can be just very average with another.I like to get to know the person and explore together what our boundries are once we are comfortable witheach other and a level of trust is there.Is that a kink in itself?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Meeka, I am still here....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Or what they'll actually do? You'll probably find there's a big difference.I personally enjoy sex with electrodes hooked up to my nipples and short/high bursts of current. That wasn't on the drop-down list though, and I'm worried it might turn off the non-electrophiles.
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RHP User
14 years ago
We all have different ideas about what is kinky. Some think missionary in the lounge room is kinky, others, watching two men fist each other with studded leather gloves.I think if you went to a lot of trouble to define a kinkiness scale of 1 to 10, some one (not looking at you specifically Meeka) would come up with 11.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Maybe they're here they just dont want to flaunt everything. Many people prefer to hint at their naughtiness- not ram it into people's faces. A huge list of fetishes can be a total turn-off. That alone might redirect a possible match-up to someone less full-on. Not everyone is the kind of person who will do everything and anything with anyone and their neighbors with the dog watching! Some people are wary of the scary! A cheeky hint of kinky is much more appealing. Nothing vanilla about one on one if you're doing it right! That's what makes this site so good - it's a huge buffet and you never know what flavor is behind that good old vanilla!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't have any listed on mine either, for the same reason. Lets just put it this way, there isn't a lot I haven't been involved with and enjoyed.If I was to put all that down, women might think I was some kind of deviate or summin.lolCheers FeloniuslyPerverted
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RHP User
14 years ago
Prefer to keep things simple and vanilla in my profile and let the boundaries expand at their own pace if I'm comfortable with a particular partner. Besides I love the look of surprise and excitement on a partner's face when something they didn't expect happens SFxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well I do look at what they have listed in their profile... I want to know that we may have some kinks in common and I am sure I am not the only girl doing that. Fair enough you may not want to list your kinks but maybe a comment in your profile saying why you haven't because I just assume that you are a missionary man. Mrs Tri..... how could we ever devise a scale? LOL. It would have to be a sliding scale that is for sure. Seriously, I don't think a person would probably call me vanilla as such but I am no where near kinky as some! No where near!!!! Meeka xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'mikeysins' Meeka, I am still here.... Nice kinks Mikey!!! Very nice kinks. :) Meeka xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'It would have to be a sliding scale that is for sure. Love a bit of lube. ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Gotta love that !
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RHP User
14 years ago
Meeka, you're right but that sounds like some excellent dialogue while getting to know someone. Bottom line could be that maybe a lot of guys really arent into anything that Neapolitan!
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RHP User
14 years ago
All true, but just because I have a certain interests listed does not mean that I do that with just anybody or possibly I may not have even done them yet. (should really go look to see what I picked myself. Doh!) I agree that when someone has absolutely every kink listed that is a little off putting sometimes.I like naughty people. Can't help it. I love talking about it, laughing about it, being in your face lets gets down and dirty about it. Love watching people who really let go of their inhibitions. Hey, I was brought up as a good Catholic girl. What else can I say. With me, what you see is what you get.... if you have nothing at all listed in your profile and you don't state in your comments that you are very adventurous well then. I assume that you are not. Simple... I would say that is a fair comment?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Last time I actually listed what my kinks are Meeka I got swamped by messages from people wanting a sub to play with, regardless of the point I had made in my profile about having a Master and not needing another. This time around I just keep it simple and who knows what may come of it. Though I do recall chatting to some seemingly vanilla profiles and finding some very naughty kinksters...their reasoning was that they dont have to advertise it...if it comes out within a few conversations then they know they have found someone worth getting to know. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
14 years ago
One persons kink is another persons vanilla.I dont dress often at all, but one of my female friends says im kinky and a perv (knows me well) ;) yet the only male friend that knows i dress, couldnt care less.But as they say..Its all fun and games till someone gets knocked over, out or up :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yeah yeah, sure sure, we believe ya Krissy ; Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
14 years ago
... they're out there is you look for them, way out there!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Are batteries included?x Hesione Electra
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RHP User
14 years ago
Im 1 of the most continualy horny men out there ...I love girls riding over my mouth and dipping there pussy unto my lips ...I enjoy being dirty and secret in public..........well shit the list goes on
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think Apollo has nailed it, basically you're damned if you do and damned if you don't.It's a hard ask for a single man seeking a single woman here so.........inoffensive, lowest common denominator equals vanilla.Hmmm could be time to differentiate !
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RHP User
14 years ago
They feel they have to hide their kinks from the judgy wudgys Meeks!!So they keep it all locked in the box until a few messages later and POW !! out it all pours once the poor fuckers realise they are allowed to be themselves.Sad, very sad....but true all the same
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RHP User
14 years ago
As planned Mischevious, as planned!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well in answer to your original post..Kinky boys - where have they all gone ?? My own observation, is the genuine kinky ones, with a wide and diverse range of kinkiness and fetishes...have profiles on sites that cater specifically for their needs/wants.. ...the site that commences with a male name.... well that one is real eye opener for fetish diversity and Im no prude...!!! Im not sure of what you are personally seeking but I think RHP may be a little too tame and vanilla for the real McCoy's
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RHP User
14 years ago
hey Girls and Boys I think my profile is pretty accurate, but please look and let me know. It is quite difficult to meet girls who want to get kinky, I still havent fulfilled one fantasy of sittingis stuff, on a nice hairles cock and riding it while a yummy girl kneels in formt and sucks mine. Or, found a girl and a guy who is not hairy and looks after himself for me and the girl to share suckign his cock and kiss with his cum on our lips If you are a kinky girl who like this or a fit guy who keeps himself manicured and inshape drop me a line, I alsoi travel to lots of cities for work and have lots of time for play xx Wetty
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RHP User
14 years ago
it is more acceptable for girls to put up their realkinks and desires too. How many swingers clubs do you go to and see a guy sucking off another guy, not many, but every club is OK with FF, that sort of pervades the whole scene i think. I am masculine and manly, love women, mmmm love women, but in a group play situation i definetly liek cock and male bodies too. Really want to go to cpls club in Sydney or somewhere else similar and suck a guy off with a girl where all the "straighties" can watch, and see what the reaciton is :) Anyone up for it Friday night at Cpls in Sydney :P
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RHP User
14 years ago
For me, my profile. I don't want to give everything away. I like the fact that your giving readers a tease or expression of what you might be interested in. I have found on here that there doesnt seem to be alot of contact from others, it makes you question your profile, is there to much stuff on there that is scaring them off, so you keep it to a minimum. On top of that, i seem to find myself contacting them. Now this is main occurrence if a women or couple checks my profile, an ill go check theirs, if i like it ill contact them, most times i get a positive reply, so why they not contact me then in the 1st place. is it cause my profile has not enough on there that they want to see, or is it to much that they are not into that.So where is that level playing field, we want ppl to know what we want, but other may find that to much. I say if you are curious about a profile and want to know more, make contact and ask questions.
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RHP User
14 years ago
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RHP User
14 years ago
I like to dress up as Zorro or as a fencer in white at costume parties. I've also dressed up as James Bond, Austin Powers and Vincent Vega in the past. Enough said.
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Culturedanimal
13 years ago
As per my normal instincts, just be honest and try to be realistic. If you're not really into telling the world what you're into, there are those faceless pics that will do the job untill the target is identified. And then there is the different strokes for different folks. I've done some fairly radical things and put the shock effect into others and then they have turned around and done exactly the same thing to me, just with a different kink. Most people who I work with think I am about as square a nerd as you can get. Some here will vouch that I am far from that.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Which bit of 'will try ANYTHING at least once' is vanilla?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Those BB shrugs have paid dividends!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Meeks: This is how the ORIGINAL went.... you need to change this a little.. "He who knows not and knows not he knows not: he is a fool - shun him" (Meeks - take him to the bedroom and TEACH him) " He who knows not and knows he knows not: he is simple - teach him" (Meeks - take him to the bedroom and TEACH him) "He who knows and knows not he knows: he is asleep - wake him" (Meeks - take him to the bedroom and TEACH him) "He who knows and knows he knows: he is wise - follow him" (Meeks - drag him to the bedroom.. OR WHEREEVER... and LEARN MORE from him... ) Of Course.. Much of the teaching can be at the hands of more then one person.. and more then one gender.. caveman (a good teacher is a good student)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Damned Good Therapy Grins
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RHP User
13 years ago
grins back
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well Cavey, I would do just about anthing for some damned good therapy. :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
Waiting for some genuine kinky girls.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ApolloThirteen' Maybe they're here they just dont want to flaunt everything. Many people prefer to hint at their naughtiness- not ram it into people's faces. A huge list of fetishes can be a total turn-off. That alone might redirect a possible match-up to someone less full-on. ApolloThirteen, as usual, is spot on. I've avoided listing a few fetish interests on my profile because there have been people on the forums saying that they won't even bother reading someones profile if it lists "x fetish". Some people seem to think it's a list of demands, not a list of interests.Don't fret Meeka, there are most definitely kinky guys here...xx Stuck
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RHP User
13 years ago
*chuckles* You and I both... You and I both..
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RHP User
13 years ago
kinky is a state of mind whatever level of kink you are into. kinky is the desire and willingness to try things just because they can be done and they simply feel good with no stigmas about them.I agree with what you are saying meeka,i too wish that more kinks and fetishes were able to be more specific in their categories, however i do also agree with other posters in the fact that it can be off putting and intimidating to other potential matches if its so in their face. I find personally that it can be very limiting to promote too much of your in depth kinky side too much but just enough for others to know that their is s whole tidal wave of possibilities to explore if they are of the same or similar mindset.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Kink is about confidence. Some people say they are kinky as a way to get attention, but then do not know what to say when asked for details. Some people, like me, have 'kinks' and we know what they are, which makes us confident about them, and we look for people of similar peccadilloes :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes I agree with ApolloThirteen sometimes less is more, there is so much excitement and anticipation on the first meeting that a shopping list of kinks can be a distraction to getting to know someone. it can distort expectations, its enough just to meet, and then you can discover as you go. That said I do kind of like neapolitan ice cream. lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Meeka!Where have you been!!!!My question to you is where are all the kinky girls!!!!!Trust this finds you well.Interested359
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RHP User
13 years ago
my kinks would scare people away!!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Johnny_2go' Which bit of 'will try ANYTHING at least once' is vanilla? You come across a profile and think, "Bloody good on you!" I love nothing more than reading a profile of a person who knows exactly what they like, and OWNS itIts a positive sign for the future when someone so young already knows what their kinks are (whether they are similar to my own or not) and refuses to hide them or tone them down for the ones reading with granny glasses on.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'stuckinthemiddle' Quoting 'ApolloThirteen' Maybe they're here they just dont want to flaunt everything. Many people prefer to hint at their naughtiness- not ram it into people's faces. A huge list of fetishes can be a total turn-off. That alone might redirect a possible match-up to someone less full-on. ApolloThirteen, as usual, is spot on. I've avoided listing a few fetish interests on my profile because there have been people on the forums saying that they won't even bother reading someones profile if it lists "x fetish". Some people seem to think it's a list of demands, not a list of interests.Don't fret Meeka, there are most definitely kinky guys here...xx Stuck For one, having them simply listed is so far from ramming it down someones throat, and two....if you are merely interested in those fetishes yet havent tried them, there is always the option of further explanation in the body of the profile (girls DO read them) And Stuck, if those people on the forums wouldnt bother reading your profile because of a fetish interest....why on earth would you care? I certainly wouldnt, nor would I ever want to meet them let alone fit into their category of what is acceptable I'm not now, nor have I ever been about pleasing the masses, and believe me I've had people try and make me feel ashamed of my personal likes before......pfttt haha nice try !!!Don't fkn EWWWWW my kinks I'm not wearing it!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'neptune_drift' Or what they'll actually do? You'll probably find there's a big difference.I personally enjoy sex with electrodes hooked up to my nipples and short/high bursts of current. That wasn't on the drop-down list though, and I'm worried it might turn off the non-electrophiles. that cracked me up...lol....... :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
We are here . Lurking in the background thinking dirty devious thoughts . Unfortunately only really get hit on by guys and I would like some femininity to the kink .
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't think i could go without Kink.. vanilla can be so.... beige!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'triunity' We all have different ideas about what is kinky. Some think missionary in the lounge room is kinky, others, watching two men fist each other with studded leather gloves.I think if you went to a lot of trouble to define a kinkiness scale of 1 to 10, some one (not looking at you specifically Meeka) would come up with 11.What about two missionaries fisting each other in the lounge room with studded leather gloves?Still meh?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm kinky as and there's pretty much nothing I won't do hence experimental on my profile, too much kink in there at the begining can frighten some people off, prob is not enough kinky girls! Another problem is the more you experiment the more everything else is boring! Got over the one on one missionary sex way back!
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RHP User
13 years ago
We're still here Meeka, you just have to talk to us instead of hiding out in the forums, hehe ;-) I think a lot of the previous posts have got it spot on though, so no need for me to repeat what's already been said. Then again, I suspect the true motive for your post was not so much to criticise 'vanilla kinksters' but to flush out those you think have real potential, am I right? You clever girl!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Vanilla sex is boring that's for sure
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RHP User
13 years ago
Kink is So boring I have a roller to remove the Kink ..just so i can put it back
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RHP User
13 years ago
KINKY male here looking for some fun. like to fond my limits
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RHP User
13 years ago
your coment is so true
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RHP User
13 years ago
all be as kinky as yous want with me please
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RHP User
13 years ago
Problem is most people are turned off or threatened by by guys who list they are bi. It's like some sore of non acceptance still exists. If a woman is bi though yippee. Sexism in reverse, perhaps ?? If a kinky girl is looking for a naughty boy and findse great, otherwise vanilla here we come. Hey a man's gotta eat lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
kink = trust ,you just dont let anyone do ya like that !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well said qforfun. I understand that totally :))
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey Girls any of you liek sharing suckign a cock with a guy and kissing with the cum on your lips together or do you like cum licked out of your pussy too Let me know if you do i travel lots too so dont be sht if youre not in Sydney (in melb this week too)
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RogueGeek
13 years ago
Then he got himself a girlfriend. *sigh* Cheers, MS
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ApolloThirteen' Maybe they're here they just dont want to flaunt everything. Many people prefer to hint at their naughtiness- not ram it into people's faces. A huge list of fetishes can be a total turn-off. That alone might redirect a possible match-up to someone less full-on. Not everyone is the kind of person who will do everything and anything with anyone and their neighbors with the dog watching! Some people are wary of the scary! A cheeky hint of kinky is much more appealing. Nothing vanilla about one on one if you're doing it right! That's what makes this site so good - it's a huge buffet and you never know what flavor is behind that good old vanilla! I completely agree with you Apollo.. im into quite a few things..and if i havent done it im willing to try it.. with the right person / people... but im patient, im not in a rush and im respectful of myself and others so instead of throwing out a list of every kinky fetish id like to do/try .. id much prefer to say what im most comfortable with, and if my partner(s) are keen.. go from there.. bottom line is we are all into our sex and are sex maniacs on some level.. and if you are reading this and you disagree... you should know you ar on an adult dating & sex site and you're looking at raunchy photo's of other LIKE-MINDED and consenting adults for fun so please....anyway... no decent person wants to come across as a freak... even if they are freaky... and we all love a little freaky now and again x
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RHP User
13 years ago
I haven't gone anywhere Meeka, lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't believe everyone knows there true level of Kinkiness until it's put right in front of them....Only then will it turn out to be Great Sex-play OR it will just be to much for them....and they will back out.I have always been of the opinion to give it a try, and if your not sure try it again with another Person....And if your still not sure then try it with a different Sex............. And if your Still not sure then Stop doin it cause it ain't for You! Great People have one thing in common...... They Don't conform to the Norm!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Meeka, It's pretty rare to find someone truly open minded, who has few limits and boundaries, even on a site like this.the words...kinky...taboo...experimental...imaginative and open minded, seem to have almost as many different meanings as there are people. For example, some people find threesomes kinky, others find anal sex kinky and still others find BDSM and related activities kinky. It all depends on exactly where you are coming from. I prefer to give almost anything a try, if I or the person I am with think it could be fun, then try it. Not everything will work all the time, but when it does it can be spectacular. Sometimes an idea that initially leaves me feeling neutral but that really turns on a partner can end up being on the list of favourites :). You never really know until you try. Andrew
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RHP User
13 years ago
For those of you who have read my forum posts over time, or even my profile, you would know I'm pretty vanilla. I therefore have a bit of a minority voice on this thread, but I thought what the hell, I'll express it anyway :) I'm not one of those people who can't fuck for the sake of it - for the orgasm, for the kink, or otherwise. I don't think about sex as a list of things I'd like to do. For me, first my heart needs to be set on fire, and then the possibilities open up. The more trust, the more love, the more open I am to exploring and to pushing boundaries. Because of all this I have an aversion to profiles with lists of kinks. I've had too many situations where I'm chatting to a man and he's fixated on one or two body parts, or doing one or two things because they're his kinks. Women, you know those times when you're talking to a guy and you think "right, so any hole's a goal?!". Men fixated on kinks and fetishes give me that kind of feeling. Note I've said fixated. Having kinks doesn't bother me at all, but having a narrow view and only seeing me as a way to indulge a kink - eg not seeing me as a whole woman - seriously puts me off. The good news though kinksters is that clearly I'm not your target market so there's no need to pay much attention to my post, other than perhaps as a different point of view. I should say also, I love reading about kinks and all the cheeky kinksters on RHP. Just because it's not for me doesn't mean I don't appreciate the sexiness of it all xxx {gawd, I'm not sure pressing post on this one is a good idea ... here goes ...}
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RHP User
13 years ago
Who 'can' fuck for the sake of it!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lil_bit I understand what you are saying and this is totally fair enough. I suppose for me I like to see a few kinks listed so I can gauged where a person is at. Again, just because a person has things listed doesn't mean they do those things with everyone or all the time, etc. My original post was more to do with some men almost boasting about how adventuourous they are having no boundaries. Yet when you look closely they are very straight laced vanilla. So it confuses me a bit but of course kinkyness is a sliding scale and different for everybody. I have to say though, when you meet someone on your wavelength, even if your tastes are a bit different, it really is HAWT!! Lol. I love talking about it, laughing about it, i love to be a very filthy naughty girl. Therefore I am always attracted to similiar type of people. I just wouldn't be happy if I couldn't talk dirty to my Playmates. Think I am rambling. Sorry. :D Meeka xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
So to respond to your comment in my rambling way lil_angelic, it is that meeting of minds, tastes, adventuourous personalities is what I am looking for too. And yes, men who just think they can use you in order to tick off an item from their fucket list are, well, simply boring and not what I am after. :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
When you live in vanilla land Kinky is when your hubby fucks you, over the kitchen bench and you get some cookie mix in your hair and flower on your tits. Kinky is having sex with the lights on. Kinky is giving hubby a blow job while he is about to mow the lawn, but only if you have a six foot fence around your yard. Kinky is him putting on your Bridget Jones undies. You know when your a dirty girl , when your playing bridge with the ladies and you say last night I swallowed And they all blush and giggle and put their cards up to their lips and say Your terrible Muriel. Ohhh if only they knew the real me. The suburbia kinkster in her licra tights.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am into very kinky, but you proberly wouldn.t like what i like, a little bit taboo,reply if you want to chat
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RHP User
13 years ago
Every guy with a parot and a wooden leg and says he loves dogs is gonna be sending you a message.
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RHP User
13 years ago
LOL... hey you look like me in your profile pic! Meeka xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
But your tits are more perky! and your bum is perfect bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah blue suits us both me thinks now there is a kink, a TR and Meeka sandwich be afraid, be very afraid
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RHP User
13 years ago
We are out here being ignored and over looked for ones with big wallets.
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RHP User
13 years ago
i want to be humiliated and shamefully played with then i wanna fuk her
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RHP User
13 years ago
Vanilla sex is ok, but can get boring. Most of my ex's have been into vanilla and after a while, i'm like yeah can we discover new things yet? And most times its no to many suggestions and some others i just don't even ask. I like exploring with my partner, love ass play (on her of course). Love rimming, doing her with toys, being tied and tying up. I used to see an older woman your age Meeka mainly for physical fun and she was kinky. She even intoduced me to watersports. That kinky enough?? hihi. But it was great going that far. Devouring her ass, sex in public places, doing her with toys, food, household objects, light bdsm, pee play yummy.......that still too vanilla Meeka???
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey Frenchtickler, most of what you described apart from the pee play is just normal for most people. Isn't it? I haven't indulged in golden showers... Yet. Also fascinated with milk enemas. Oh and why is ass play only for the lady? I have a strapon which I like to use. Last boy I used it with rode it cowboy style then came all over my stomach. Totally hot!! Well some went in my hair too... My girlfriend thought that was hilarious so too some pictures. Lol Fisting is on my list... I have fisted a girl before but want a girl to fist me. Oh and use a strapon on me too. Love love love my bi-sexual boys. Especially being in the middle. Mmm spit roast anyone? I could go on but.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
mmmmm i LOVE strapons!!!! and milk enama.. how about use my mouth as a full toilet!! YUM
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RHP User
13 years ago
i have to say im a kinky 1....nothing more hot than a female bending me over with a strap on..:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Meeka: I remember with fondness a reply you made to ANOTHER thread.... ".... sneaking in late at night with cum dribbling down your legs...." Therein lies a HUGE part of where KINKY has gone.. I can come and come and do ALL that shit with you... BUT THEN.. "Hang on Meeka.... let me pull my glove on..." Kind of kills the moment a tad.. Kinky means kinky... with it all.. warts and all.... WARTS being only an ANNOYING part of the POSSIBLE ending to a fckn GOOD weekend!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yummy, well give me your ass Meeka, i'll look after it, lol. Well anal is still taboo to many girls. Well what i didn't say was that the older woman i was seeing was an ex gf's Mum. Naughty huh. One day my ex who was my gf at the time had a fight and broke up over the phone while she was away on holidays with her dad. I went over to her place as i had to drop off some papers. At the door i was greeted by her hot as hell mum who was a fitness instructor. I would go over her place often and her mum would be in skimpy outfits and she had a even better bod than her daughter. We had coffee, chatted etc. She said that she would be back in a sec cause she had to change. Oh she changed alright........she came back in her sexy lingerie.....a tiny bra and a gstring and boldly stated that she found me real cute and wanted me to take care of her. The first thought was "am i dreaming". I asked if she was crazy me being the bf of her daughter. She knew we had broken up and reached over, grabbed my head and kissed me. We ended up seeing each other regularly especially that her daughter had her appartment for uni in wollongong and me being in sydney and that she was divorced. It was the most amazing sex ever with her and we experimented pretty much everything. I even fisted her a few times even if her cunt was very tight aroubd my had and she would scream in pleasure. We actually did milk enemas a few times, sex in public, lots of anal play including her doing me with a dildo, pee play, regular wild sex that u don't consider as kinky, food play, drinking wine out of her pussy, ice cubes etc etc. But the kinky thing was that all this was with the hot as mother of an ex girlfriend. So when do u want me to worship your ass Meeka? LOL
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RHP User
13 years ago
Guys know they can be kinky but rarely do kinky things first without being convinced it'll be hot, and to just go with it. I know from personal experience that it was always the woman that took me to the fetish store to get me my first harness and shackles, it was the woman that took me out to the clubs to broaden my sexual experiences, it was the woman that told me that stripping for her Girlfriends would be hot, and was the woman that told me that swinging was something they wanted to get into.It was me that was kinky enough to ask this questions when getting to know them..and honest enough to keep there secrets. Thanks to all you wild crazy woman that aren't afraid to be yourselves around the right equally kinky guys!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
When it comes to kink, finding that elusive partner who matches your kinkiness is like finding a needle in a haystack! So add kink into any partner seeking and getting it right isnt going to be easy. Communication is the key as we know. Keep in mind over the years kink and fetishes has become much more mainstream. These days you have so many women swooning ove 50 Shades of Grey, yet dont have a clue of other moves/books like "The Story of O" parts 1 and 2, there is also the "Sleeping Beauty" series of 3 books. And with that, 50 shades is being sold in places like COLES!!! Yes 50 shades is mild but my point here is, that even those into a little slap and tickle in the bedoom class themselves as kinksters. Kinky is now how most people would define themselves to some extent. 15yrs ago kinkiness was peering out on the internet and before then you had the serious leather community who were all doing their thing in private. Where have all the kinky boys gone? No where, its just now defining as to how kinky someone actually is and what type of kink they are into. I hate those who a say 'I will try anything" umm yeah sure, cut your cock off!! fool, never say anything! Over the years I have learnt its not so much about kink, or how kinky, or how much S&M is involved, or who is barking the dominant orders, but more about spice and variety, about today being a slap on the arse, tomorrow some handcuffs and the next day some water sports and so on. Variety I now think is the kink, explore, expand and enjoy. My question is, where are those who can keep the variety happening into a relationship and not get stale! Thats my problem these days.
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RHP User
13 years ago
taking in what some have said above about what people consider kinky is different and changes with time, I like to instead express my self as open minded... all the things you list Meeka I find arousing..
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RHP User
13 years ago
I still love the way your mind works!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Id love to be student and meet a kinky teacher or just experiment together still looking for a kinky lady
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RHP User
13 years ago
the trouble being..lot of people from here only meet for the one off fuck session..so you dont know or cant be sure what someone into ,as said above what one person might find kinky could be lame as for someone else.the same as people who dont meet up because they feel your not their type..i met one person iun the everyday world i wouldnt approach her ,nothing like what im interested in ,,but it turn out to be best kinky fuck session ive ever had ..so be like me ,dont judge people by what in their profile ,chat and meet up,take a chance ,you might just get what your looking for
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RHP User
13 years ago
pity you're on the other side of the country.I've got some new bondage gear thats just waiting to be broken in....Ball gag, nipple clamps, restraints, cane, silk ropes.......
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RHP User
13 years ago
we are just waiting for someone like you
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RHP User
12 years ago
Im here meeka100 but no luck on this site - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
but I ended up going somewhere else for the real kinky stuff. Not sure if I'd get in trouble for naming another site though.
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RHP User
12 years ago
In my opinion; and understanding that this is virtually a no boundaries site. I personally choose to keep that aspect of my profile "grey". I don't specifically go out raving to the world that I interested in all 50 shades, pardon the pun!!! Sometimes it scares certain people approached. So I find it a better tact to KISSKeep It Simple Sexually, evaluate who I'm with through emails and the initial meet and take things from there. Sure, I might get brushed over when ladies a looking through profiles. However that's the risk of it all!!!! Great topic as always Meeka Koz.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You don't have to look far to find kinky men Is this kinky enough for you?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Hey Frenchtickler, most of what you described apart from the pee play is just normal for most people. Isn't it? I haven't indulged in golden showers... Yet. Also fascinated with milk enemas. Oh and why is ass play only for the lady? I have a strapon which I like to use. Last boy I used it with rode it cowboy style then came all over my stomach. Totally hot!! Well some went in my hair too... My girlfriend thought that was hilarious so too some pictures. Lol Fisting is on my list... I have fisted a girl before but want a girl to fist me. Oh and use a strapon on me too. Love love love my bi-sexual boys. Especially being in the middle. Mmm spit roast anyone? I could go on but..... hi meeka I would tell you in private but not here as I do some odd things no one may have done yet and willing to do more.
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RHP User
12 years ago
to actually list "politically correct" fetishes so you broaden your sex horizons. cant lock out the other potentials cause you have a strange fetish that turns them off. Besides, i wouldnt even be comfortable doing bdsm with a stranger cause we both like bdsm, normal sex sort of gets that connection so you can progress
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have always wanted to try the kinky side of sex but my wife is not up to it. Meeka please send me a message what you have in mind. Remember it's only kinky the first time. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Right here ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yeah another one here too
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hahaha
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