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Cold turkey after PG pics viewed….
September 21 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
They are probably photo collectors. I get them as well.... all they are interested in is collecting photos or access to private galleries for their wank bank. I don't give access to people unless I have exchange a couple of messages.
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RHP User
11 years ago
just the male of the couple wanting a perv. I just pulled back all my pg's from everyone who had them because they had no real interest other than something to have a wank over. I get contacted a lot from the man of a couple then all of a sudden, they play solo and it is alright with their wife.....blah blah, blah
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RHP User
11 years ago
If it doesn't feel right..... its probably not right. Ralf is likely right, and that the request for more photos is probably coming from the guy. Just say no. IF they're that keen to contact and communicate with you, they were already keen before the PG access.
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6exxy
11 years ago
Pics are great shame about the replys as that is a bit rude.
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RHP User
11 years ago
While we are both happy in ourselves, we are mature and we have a few extra kilos then most so we dont want to set the wrong expectations by letting people know upfront and still they want to see our PGs, and once we do........ummmm hello is anybody out there LOL....so once weve had regular communication we release our PGs and if we don't hear from them, we just delete access...its just part of being on RHP isn't it? Frustrating but its reality.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Prob the man of the relationship sussing you our
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Hottie1
11 years ago
I have since deleted people from viewing our private galleries. As Meeka has said, I've either had long conversations with people or met them before I open my gallery. You determine who has access to your personal photos and I'll only be spank material for genuine people. Mary xx
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Hottie1
11 years ago
Your arses do look great, you both look awesom 😃 Mary xx
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Hottie1
11 years ago
Awesome ....
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RHP User
11 years ago
We have had this happen a few times find it so Rude and Annoying. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
you pose a great statement .... you make the effort and open up your pg .. panicking that you will be all over the internet before you know it .. and then nada .. and you start to wonder if they were not interested .. (which is fine) .. but at least have the common courtesy to message back and say thanks but no thanks .. so rude when this happens .. so funny enough although disappointing you did respond to me .. so thank you for that ... unfortunately you were not interested which wasnt such good news ..grrr .... lol .... xxx all the best xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
You may have intimidated them?who knows, people are rude - we'd suggest to just move on and thankfully you found out before meeting.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have a photo of ants and another of gazelles in my pg. Hang on that's not right, I have those photos as I think it's funny.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I find it SO hard to have chatted, flirted and all seems a go ahead,with couples ...... then when you see their private gallery it is a big disappointment and clearly not what turns you on .....but how do you say that after all that lead up ? I feel so horrible for being superficial, but attraction is a must . So sometimes I have don't the no reply .....I have also done the thanks but no thanks thing and got a barrel of abuse. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm still unsure how to communicate it, I will be following this thread for suggestions.
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JessicaRabbit
11 years ago
I'll be the first to say... Yes! I do think people don't reply after seeing PGs because they aren't attracted to the person, err, facially. I'm guilty of it, I must (shamefully) admit. It's terrible, I know, but I really don't think there is a nice way to say to someone that they have a hot bod but their face doesn't do it for you. I'm NOT saying that this is the reason they didn't reply to you! It's more likely that they are pic collectors/time wasters etc. as has already been said. **Awaiting crucifixion** Jess xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'JessicaRabbit'I do think people don't reply after seeing PGs because they aren't attracted to the person, err, facially. I'm guilty of it, I must (shamefully) admit. It's terrible, I know, but I really don't think there is a nice way to say to someone that they have a hot bod but their face doesn't do it for you. This happens to me too, but there is a nice way of saying "hot bod, shame about the face" and that is "I'm afraid I'm just not quite feeling the chemistry", or something to that effect. You just can't argue with the laws of attraction!
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RHP User
11 years ago
When women are just as if not more superficial. To blame the male of the couple out of hand seems a bit easy to me. It happens to us all the time but you just move on and block them from further contact so u dont get stuck wasting time on flirts etc when they forget theyve knocked you back already lol.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sexy2014, there is nothing wrong with your pic's and profile, I should be so lucky as your man, he's not too bad either, they are just "wankers" in the true form, literally "beating the Angry Anderson doll" over your pic's, but I can understand that from a male P.O.V. Ppl on here and most sites are often, rude, abusive and incessant "blockers". I sent a well mannered, but suggestive msg recently to a lady how had a pic of her "gutted rabbit" as her profile pic and got a "blocker", I think some of em' just come on here to do that to ppl. Well "fuck them". Delicious, just saw your latest pic, If I was your man, I'd be out of work, for not turning up to work. I don't know how he leaves the house in the morning with you walking around in front of him. I bet he running "Mr happy Pant's" all the time. Don't ever loose it. I'll give back my membership. Cheers P.L.
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RHP User
11 years ago
FACEPIC: Fatal And Conclusive End (to) Previously Impending Coitus. X Obi1 (Rustling naked though the long grass looking for beetles - I like to lick their backs!)
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RHP User
11 years ago
people need to be upfront and not get so hung up if there is or isn't a connection - its just courtesy to at least provide a response in terms of no connection, so that people are not wasting their time communicating or a lack there of......and as the receiver of no connection, there are plenty more fish in the sea....you just have to have the right rig LOL :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Any pic collectors must be extremely disappointed to see mine, there are no nude pics. I don't ask for private access unless I am attracted to his personality a lot, and then looks are not really important?
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RHP User
11 years ago
you could actually save the pics...might have to go change those we've given access to. And Koko....u know we loves ya anyway ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Because I get needy boys after I say 'not my type' or 'no thanks'.. they say...."but why??".... "Give me a chance"...... "I can do blah blah blah". I don't feel the need to explain myself back and forth, If I'm interested, I'll respond. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
rather frustrating. you talk to someone for days, they love everything about you and then vanish after swapping face pics. news flash! all of me comes as a packaged deal. it absolutely amazes me at how superficial people are. each to there own but at the end of the day if a face pic and not whether or not the can fulfill you needs is your biggest concern then good luck with that search.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You can always find something nice to say even if you aren't attracted. I'm superficial and usually ask to see a face pic before engaging in chat. Nothing worse than getting in too deep and then having to back-pedal. Having said that, if someone is really engaging and we click and connect what they look like becomes irrelevant.
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RHP User
11 years ago
For what it's worth sexy_2014, you have an amazing set of profile pics and I sincerely doubt that your faces are unattractive enough to cancel that out.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Always keep in mind......If it's on a screen it can be saved. Sorry to highjack your thread sexy_2014 but I figure it's an important point.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks to everyone for taking the time to comment on our topic, it's always great to hear of other peoples experiences and opinions.. Of late we're finding it easier to give access to our pic's from the get go if we like what we read in a couple/person's profile, if both parties like what they see in the PG's we can then exchange more messages and begin making plans to meet. We've been burnt to many times before exchanging countless messages with couples to then give them PG access never to hear from them again.. It's always a risk we know that someone will do wrong by us with our images, we're always careful though not to put any images in our PG of us getting up to to anything xxx that shows our faces.. At the end of the day no one likes rejection but we're in the mindset that there needs to be some sort of attraction between all involved, if we're given access to a PG and we don't feel an attraction we'll be honest and tell them; "unfortunately you're not what we're looking for etc and wish them luck in the future finding sexy playmates", something to that effect anyway. We nearly always find that this met with "thanks for your honesty" from the other couple/person and then also wished best of luck for the future.. Thanks again everyone for your input into this topic, it's been great reading all the comments.. Cheers, Sexy_2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
It is to be expected. Not everyone is attracted to everyone. I have had a polite thanks but no thanks as well as the no response. I prefer the former. I have also politely said thanks but no thanks, but am guilty of not responding. I like the concept of win/win or no deal. Ie both parties have to be up for it! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'AMystery' Always keep in mind......If it's on a screen it can be saved. Sorry to highjack your thread sexy_2014 but I figure it's an important point. Despite the "Function disabled" feature, people can take screenshots and there are many apps on the market to bypass that feature anyway.If it's on the net, it's public, no matter what the security settings are. And once again, people: Please don't use the same pics here you use on Facebook and LinkedIn!
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RHP User
11 years ago
If someone disappears after I show them a face pic I think two things - it wasn't meant to be and how rude of them not to say something. Both of these thoughts mean that I'm no longer interested in them anyway. For the record folks, it's not that hard to be direct and honest if it turns out you're not attracted to someone once you see their pics. If you can't come up with anything better, why not just say "I'm not physically attracted to you ... all the best ... yada yada"?
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RHP User
11 years ago
99% of the time we just don't have the same attractions towards some people and we learnt our lesson years ago about taking one for the team. So, in the politest possible way, and with reasonable explanation, we always let them know that one or the other wasn't interested and good luck with the search. Some people carry on about it, crack the shits and spit the dummy but most people are just appreciative of a reply and the honesty. You'll get it all on here; we don't get much free time so we're also labelled as time wasters to the ones that have all the time in the world to galavant around the country side and shag like rabbits, (WE WISH!!), bitching couples that will result in you being avoided by someone thats never met you; it's a cut throat lifestyle!! We'd prefer to be honest and upfront rather than one of the couples you're talking about in this post.If we have ever not replied it would certainly be because we were sidetracked with life not because we don't give a shit and think we are too awesome.We're no oil painting by any means, we're starting to reach the "oldies" bracket, we certainly aren't into ourselves and we still get it all the time; messages, then nothing after our PG has been viewed, constantly snubbed even after a meet has been agreed to AND we even display our faces openly on our profile so go figure?? Hell on our last meet the couple made up a story about sick dogs and bailed on us so....maybe we aren't attractive? Who gives a shit really..? We've been doing this for a long time, you just move on to the next.. Anyhoo, your faces we haven't seen yet but it is true; your arses are great :) For those who wanted suggestions, this is our general reply. It's not perfect but feel free to tweak it and make it your own. Hello there! Thank you so much for your message, you sound very nice!However, one of us was very interested in your profile and the other was unsure and as a rule we only play together so unfortunately we are going to have to decline, much to the diappointment of one of us we might add but sometimes we both don't feel the same attractions, which as frustrating as it is for either of us we do respect each others decisions regardless of how our differences of opinions towards couples are. So, in saying all that, we wish you all the best and hope you have loads of fun in the future. K&M
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MissBishere
11 years ago
I have face pics public available my pg are more body shots. So my rejection is due to my body. I try not to let it bother me as I understand not everyone is attracted to larger sizes.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its just after happening to me now saying hi love ur profile and can I see ur pictures so I do then no answer back do people realize its a adult site for fun not phot shop to have pictures - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Ebony_luvs_Ivory' rather frustrating. you talk to someone for days, they love everything about you and then vanish after swapping face pics. news flash! all of me comes as a packaged deal. it absolutely amazes me at how superficial people are. each to there own but at the end of the day if a face pic and not whether or not the can fulfill you needs is your biggest concern then good luck with that search. Sorry but I am more attracted to a particular face type then I am to a hot body. It's something about the eyes I think?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am loving the flower on your perky butt shot......... makes me want to slowly blow it off.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm with you JessicaRabbit.. sometimes the bod pics just don't match the face pics and then it's awkward. I hate to think of offending anyone so not replying seems perhaps the best way to handle it, but it probably...more than likely, isn't??!! There seems to be this air on here that everyone is desperate and will fuck anyone who shows interest, I can only speak for myself but I, personally, am fussy and it's my body, my time, my mind, my energy, so I think I have a right to be selective, as is everyone else.. Horses for courses my friends and not everyone is going to float everyone else's boats and that's just the harsh truth. Would you rather a response to say "your not my type" or "your not what we're looking for"? Would that be better than silence? Mrs Sxcnhot xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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6exxy
11 years ago
Thanks for having the honesty and courage to say what some would side step on this issue. Many of us are picky. We all screen for our own taste. The filters we use work well but sometime they also work against us. Yes I am guilty too 😋 No cruxifixin but wished I was younger lmao
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RHP User
11 years ago
This has happened numerous times to me. Some are polite enough to respond saying I am not quite what they are looking for but the majority will just ignore. That said, there are also many who are quick to compliment me and have no issues, so it must be a preference thing. Now I don't want to sound up myself, but in real life settings I have never had an issue with my looks or been self-conscious at all and am a pretty confident guy due to this. However the way I get ignored after sharing face pics on here really does shatter my confidence. Funny that!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have responded to people to say, nothing personal but you are just not my type but I wish you all the best and hope you find what your looking for. Or words to that effect. Have never had anybody respond angrily, most guys respond with a no worries, thanks for letting me know. So I think responding is better than silence.
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abcplus1
11 years ago
We give people access, more often than not silence is what it is met with. We must be ugly after all. If there is no further messages we remove access....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Ebony_luvs_Ivory' rather frustrating. you talk to someone for days, they love everything about you and then vanish after swapping face pics. news flash! all of me comes as a packaged deal. it absolutely amazes me at how superficial people are. each to there own but at the end of the day if a face pic and not whether or not the can fulfill you needs is your biggest concern then good luck with that search. Yes of course its superficial here, its all marketing , smoke and mirrors and the golden pussys brigade, I am their leader but the face is my turn on, when I walk up the street its a mans face that does it for me. I guess some guys look at the boobs, or the legs or the bum. I am sure you do the same thing. I like to kiss, I like to look at a mans face when I am fucking him , so I cannot see the point of being with some one that you do not find attractive in that particular area. I might have a face like a robbers dog to some guys others think I am fine and that's not a problem for me at all. I would hate some guy to say, love your tits but can you put this bag over your head so you don't put me of my stroke. You think thats superficial, guys often ask me for a fuck right up without even seeing my face so what does that tell ya
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RHP User
11 years ago
I never ask for access more interested in the person their desires turn ons knowing them when we meet then the physical comes into it have to have a mental connection first then the physical. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
We think the problem is WAAAY too many profiles just have photos of the females body and none of the male. Same goes for PGs. Most photos are of the woman. Which attracts a lot of attention (As the female form will always do) but when they see the male side the attraction is lost. What can we say. Not every male is hot. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'billy206208' Its just after happening to me now saying hi love ur profile and can I see ur pictures so I do then no answer back do people realize its a adult site for fun not phot shop to have pictures - Posted from rhpmobile everyone has a different thing they come here for. You put your main picture as your cock. All that says to women is that , here I have a cock come jump on it cause its the only cock worth looking at on here. cocks grow wild on RHP. its like looking at a field of daisy s, they get lost in the big picture. so a nice face or torso picture, always tends to attract most women. I say most here but not all. It may be a site to have fun( loath that word) for some, but its not Luna park with free pussy rides. again big picture stuff.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'inthekiss' but the face is my turn on, when I walk up the street its a mans face that does it for me. I guess some guys look at the boobs, or the legs or the bum. I am sure you do the same thing.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I have responded to people to say, nothing personal but you are just not my type but I wish you all the best and hope you find what your looking for. Or words to that effect. Have never had anybody respond angrily, most guys respond with a no worries, thanks for letting me know. So I think responding is better than silence. A) holly shit woman, did you get the number of the bus that hit yaB) can I sit on your face, cause really I need not to see itC) You have more chins that a chines phone bookE) thank you for your message, your tits are amazing, but we are not a match cause your but ugly see thats nice and diplomatic
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Story' Quoting 'AMystery' Always keep in mind......If it's on a screen it can be saved. Sorry to highjack your thread sexy_2014 but I figure it's an important point. Despite the "Function disabled" feature, people can take screenshots and there are many apps on the market to bypass that feature anyway.If it's on the net, it's public, no matter what the security settings are. And once again, people: Please don't use the same pics here you use on Facebook and LinkedIn! You DO NOT need any third party apps/plugins to enable you to download/save photos; neither do you have to take a screenshot. All the browsers have built in support for accessing the photos if you know a little bit about what you are doing.. so count this as your warning.As with all of the internet, if you don't want something saved, don't put it out there.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I have responded to people to say, nothing personal but you are just not my type but I wish you all the best and hope you find what your looking for. Or words to that effect. Have never had anybody respond angrily, most guys respond with a no worries, thanks for letting me know. So I think responding is better than silence. I've hardly ever had a negative response in two years. I think it has a lot to do with making clear you're personally not attracted to a guy, instead of saying something that comes across as "You are not attractive." A friend of mine usually writes something like "Though I think you're very handsome/attractive/pretty, I'm afraid you're not quite my type/I'm just not feeling it" How can you be offended by that?
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RHP User
11 years ago
When people make contact me and ask to see my pg and when I do they go silent... Yet when I remove their access I get a message asking why I took their access away...I cannot believe I have to explain it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
easy don't have a pg or just give everyone access won't have that problem. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Seems to be a lot of common threads here which all end up at the same conclusion. We all seem to get annoyed with the unknown. Whether its people that arrange to meet and don't show or a sudden halt of replies/ texts etc I think what ever the circumstances people seem to much prefer to say nothing at all than to say anything bad lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
As soon as someone sees mine it's all over lol I polite not interested would be ideal
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RHP User
11 years ago
it happens all the timewe have found that if someone asks for more pics very early on in the conversations they end up being fakes,just pic collectors...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I got winked 6 times over a weekend... replied to said winks on the Sunday - then I got blocked by the winker on Monday? Is that common?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Really isn't it? This has happened to us when we first joined. We now only share our albums with people we've met. And not always theme other. It's very difficult to politely say thanks but no thanks were not attracted. Even though your both quite attractive it doesn't mean that everyone is going to be attracted (we all have our own likes and dislikes) if you know what I mean. Don't get bent out of shape about it or waste tok much time on it...... Next lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
To say that we have also done it to others when we have not been attracted to their private gallery. Funnily enough, we have never asked to see someone else's pics they've always just been opened up randomly lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Purely voyeurs gorgeous girl .... We get it all the time There loss
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RHP User
11 years ago
We always pay careful attention to who can view our galleries. If we don't hear from people within a certain amount of time we assume that we are not their cup of tea and remove the access. We try to reply to all those who allow us to see their galleries even if it is just "Sorry, but you aren't what we are looking for. Thanks for the interest and best of luck." Can't guarantee that we always manage it as sometimes things get lost in the shuffle.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I get picture requests frequently and I would estimate that 75% are just collectors (thank you to the genuine 25%). Surly there is enough naked picture fodder freely available on the web for these clowns to stop wasting our time! I will usually send a few in the first instance but stop when it’s all one way traffic, which it all too often is. It can't be cold turkey if they keep asking!
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RHP User
11 years ago
To get requests for messages and or access to private galleries and then get no response when sending a message however polite it may be and also to access to private galleries. The subject has been raised here in a number of ways. As for me I have yet to hear an argument or excuse for non replies or responses as anything other than pure bad manners. Its easy here to not respond. Yet it only takes a few seconds to say 'no thanks'. I do understand that many profiles get bombarded with messages but then some do take the time to set up an 'auto reply' to any message that comes their way, usually saying they will respond as soon as they can. Not getting the courtesy of any response speaks volumes for the other parties attitude. As mentioned here, probably simply voyeurs looking for pics in this case.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's better they go cold turkey after viewing your pics than after your first play meet, which is what happened to me after meeting my first person off rhp recently. There's a difference between no commitment and no respect....feels like crap :-(
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TimeToPlayAus
11 years ago
What annoys us more than not getting a response to a message is when someone has sent you a flirt saying "please message me", and then doesn't bother responding when you do. Courtesy would be a "no thanks"...we don't care if it's no, but politeness costs nothing, particularly when you asked for the message in the first place. And then there was one dope that we chatted to and were about to ask if he and his partner wanted a drink who said "you snooze you lose" and blocked us. Apparently we didn't get to the drinks stage fast enough. Still, someone like that we wouldn't want to play with anyway, so thanks dude for stopping us from doing something we'd regret.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Unless you have heads like shirk or rather fit for radio only (I'd say you don't) they more then likely single guys posing as couples ?? N it's these wankers that fuk it for the real guys here n the real couples... One last thing mmm great arse u have there
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RHP User
11 years ago
We have the same problem. If we show you our pics and you arent interested just say so we are grown ups you wont hurt our feelings. I think most are just fake or full of shit - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's not just women or couples it happens to has happened to me a few times over the last couple of weeks and usually by people who have initiated the contact in the first place. I think it is pretty rude to not get back to someone, a simple thanks but no thanks would be much appreciated in my opinion. I think we are all pretty mature enough to accept that not everyone is going to be attractive to everyone on here.
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lookintoplay_qld
11 years ago
to many blokes with wives who don't really play ruin it for the real ppl on here winks are just as bad no replys
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RHP User
11 years ago
we've had a few instances like that. Now, we just block people when we get no reply and see that they've viewed our profile multiple times thereafter. There are also people that give a negative reply then keep viewing your profile..these people are blocked as well. If you're not interested, you're not interested..we won't be heart broken.
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sexyandfriendly
11 years ago
As a newbie here, we had this experience a lot. People just disappear after they see PG. I assume that majority of them are just wankers but i am surprised to see verified validated users behave the same. I think RHP should profile a sort of ranking system, so that people can rank each other about how they react. Maybe it help to spot out those pic collectors. And to those who are real but just don't bother to reply, please do that otherwise your counterpart will think that you have abused them. This bad feeling will spread in the community and one day you will face the same thing. Think twice.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Constantly, happends all the time ! Even a message back to say " I've changed my mind, no thanks"how hard is it? But nothing, no reply ? Rude!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree.... Not even a no thanks not what I'm really after! Yeah thanks for the reply people. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ive chatted with people, opened pages to each other and not felt an attraction. Physical attraction is a must for me - and its not about people being supermodels (im not!!) it can just be as simple as them not smiling in a single shot, their home being an absolute pigsty in the background etc, just a "feeling". And, none of us is on here to go thru with something we are not excited about. Unfortunately, and as much as people say "if its a no just say", even when you try to be as respectful as possible, a no usually ends in a barrage of "who the f do you think you are" etc. Its a shame, and i suspect that avoidance of that is what leads a lot of people to simply cut contact instead. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry everyone for the dble post! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Scammers most of time..Anyone who asks for email, pic etc straight up isn't someone you need in your life...or is it...your call people
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RHP User
11 years ago
If your pg is like your public pics....wow hot :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
We agree with Meeka 100, we recently went through the list of people who had access to our PG's. Some had access for many years. We have now cut access to quite a few that were on our list. We learned very early in the peace that there are a heap of photo bankers... John and lee.
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happy0450
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' They are probably photo collectors. I get them as well.... all they are interested in is collecting photos or access to private galleries for their wank bank. .....if Women used my pics to masturbate to. More seriously, I can understand your frustration. ps Ms Sexy does have a very cute bum however... Both hands firmly on the keyboard
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RHP User
11 years ago
We've met a lot of great and wonderful people on here, but we've also come across some tyre kickers (and worse). The worst thing we've seen is a friend of ours having their PGs pics stolen by an escort. She passed the pics off as her own on her website. Terrible person. - Posted from rhpmobile
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blackbig
11 years ago
It is absolute very rude not to respond after viewing someone's PG. I have had people responding thanks for the PG, but won't take things further and similarly I always respond politely even when the answer is no... You can tell a lot about physical attraction by looking at the body shots in my opinion. The face shots add a little bit to the flavour. Personally I am not attracted to certain body shapes, so I will straight away say no even without looking at the face shots. In summary it should be everyone obligation to be open on things we like and dislikes. No means no and nothing more ..... Be polite and sensitive when saying NO-:)))) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Honesty is the best policy, there is no nice way of telling someone your not interested but you can be diplomatic about it, "thanks for showing me your pg but I'm sorry I'm not interested in further contact right now" it may be a sting at first to the feelings but in the long run at least you didn't waste anyone's time and everyone knows where you stand Personal I don't give my pg to anyone unless I have spoken to them or met them in person I've had many ask me for it although I've told them I'm not interested :/ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I completely disagree with SxcNhot and Jessica,Its about being honest at the end of the day, so any type of response is better than nothing. your not my type , or your uuugly as all shit, it doesn't really matter , just a simple response to let someone know you have taken the time to see what this person has to offer. Were all here for a bit of fun at the end of the day and i think your feelings should be left at the door. Of course not everyone is going to be your cup of tea, and thats where a simple reply would be the right thing to do. Have a great day ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
We are here to find people attracted to us and have a good time with them. If after giving out our pics people do not reply, we are not offended. There has been many an occasion that we have chatted to people and on viewing their pics not been attracted to them. We sometimes reply that we are not interested,other times we simply do not reply, as I am sure they must realise we are not interested at that point. Rejection is natural, there would only be a handful of people that everyone would see as attractive and probably not ever be rejected,but even then it is doubtful. Due to this we tend to give our pics out immediately so if people are not interested, after that it is not a waste of time with all the chat and then nothing. We prefer to know straight away if there is physical attraction, after all that is what we are on here for. Yes making friends is a bonus but primarily it's all about the sex. We do not feel you can be too precious emotionally on this site. There should be a level of etiquette but not always replying after seeing pics should not be taken as being rude.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The usual BS guys pretending to be girls to get access to your personal pics - perhaps even hoping to get a face pics that comes up elsewhere so they can identify who you really are. I've even had some of my pics appear on other sites too which just shows you how sad some people are and I'd say it must be 100 times worse for the Wimin folk :) I prefer phone calls these days or even an external email address after many messages (you also google their email addr of course before you send - amazing what you find) then you can decide to send more pics or whatever. By this stage you've established if they're a moron or not and yes there's a lot of dum fuks out there. Once I've met people they can have whatever pics they want Mwwohaaaaaaaaaaa M
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SexyScorpios
11 years ago
No reply gets the automatic block from us saves you having work out the changing pics with the changing username who are one in the same
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RHP User
11 years ago
As a single guy, who just wants play mates with no hassles or ego's it is very disappointing to be "dropped" from their initial interest after they view some photo's of my less than desirable plain face, or my equipment. oh well. onwards i guess to the next , and we will see how what happens this time. Why would a guy want photo's of just me?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Id put money on they just thought you might of been to good looking to play with i know we dont rate our selves great as looks go so if we had an offer from such a good looking couple we would say no as not to disappoint - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi there - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree with previous posts,you can't go against the law of attraction and no one should be made to feel guilty because they are not attracted to you. Replying or not,some people won't be impressed either way. You win some,you lose some. Happy fishing everyone:)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd like to add that I am the female of a couple previously but now on here by myself and I am guilty of the intensity of receiving and sending messages then asking to see pics that just don't do it for me. People have very different perceptions of whether they are 'attractive'. I am a little too trusting with my pics and have a few reasonable ones in my public gallery so sometimes just don't see the need to show people anymore when they have even less in their private than I do in my public gallery. As well as being a guest and not having access to everything in galleries anyway. It's so hard to turn someone down if you simply are not facially attracted to them but I too will keep a lookout for suggestions as to how to be more polite and at least reply with a subtle not for me! Just also like to add that I have the opposite problem of a pretty face but not such an in shape toned body at the moment!! Working on it x
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey guys. I was really interested to see this topic so here is my 2 cents. Firstly sexy_2014 anybody that doesn't like what they see is crazy. You guys are hot and I'm seriously fussy. I always send back a not interested as do know what it feels like to get no reply and be on the receiving end. What ever happened to good manners. Shame on them and clearly these dickheads are just time wasters. What beats me though is why spend all that time chatting then the PG is unlocked then nothing. A simple not interested or not attracted to you would certainly just be common decent courtesy. MY GOD THERES EVEN A QUICK REPLY. And one last time you guys are very sexy and I would be very flattered IF it was me approached by you and I'd be like hell yes let's meet. I would devour the 2 of you. 😜😘 Xoxo - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Lots of "fishing" references made in this post. As an avid fisherman myself I agree with that analagy. I have on occasion pulled in the odd "star gazer" (Google them if you want to see what they look like). Whilst looks may/may not be important as stated by some, facial appearances (along with lots of other things) do play a significant part in the "overall chemistry". And yes, if you do catch what you may consider to be a star gazer, you can always release them back into the somewhat muddy waters if the RHP ocean unharmed. Be nice. After all, others may consider YOU to be "fugly" as well! It's comercial trawlers and those people who use nets and set-lines that I am wary of. Obi1 (Currently fishing without pants off Mud Island)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Lots of "fishing" references made in this post. As an avid fisherman myself I agree with that analagy. I have on occasion pulled in the odd "star gazer" (Google them if you want to see what they look like). Whilst looks may/may not be important as stated by some, facial appearances (along with lots of other things) do play a significant part in the "overall chemistry". And yes, if you do catch what you may consider to be a star gazer, you can always release them back into the somewhat muddy waters if the RHP ocean unharmed. Be nice. After all, others may consider YOU to be "fugly" as well! It's comercial trawlers and those people who use nets and set-lines that I am wary of. Obi1 (Currently fishing without pants off Mud Island)
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RHP User
11 years ago
HI THERE DONT WE ALL HAVE THAT FEW EXTRA KILOS BUT NEVER MIND AS NAKED HOT BODIES AND KINKY SEX ...SEEM TO FORGET EVERY THING BUT IF YOU ARE FOR SOME FUN COME SAY HELL CHEERS D
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RHP User
11 years ago
Almost all of the couple profiles that message me usually have 20 pics of the female and one very old and distant pic of the male. Obviously this was done on purpose and it can seem deceiving. They usually grant access to their pg with the first message, so it's not like we were exchanging messages back and forth. Therefore, I just don't respond. If a guy gives me access to his pg after exchanging messages, I try to respond when I'm not attracted to them. Sometimes I do forget to do it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If it is couples to you will find the guy likes but the partner does not like age or looks and they don't know how to put it to you . And ah lot of people who cant handle to meet people in the flesh or just full of it . Had couple profile on here too .
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hello ? Ever read 'He's just not that into you?' - well couples.. I'm a single and I have to be attracted to both of you - so I just 'ghost' if your pics don't float my boat - no apologies - no explanations - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its a sad fact that there seems to be a lot of fakes and time wasters on here. I assume that most people will be hitting you up for the thrill of taking a peek at your private pics with no intention of meeting or even chatting over the phone to you. Don't be offended though. There are good honest folk here too. T - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm looking at either changing my profile name if I can ever work out how to.. Or deleting this account and restarting another one.. I used this name in jest and I just get swamped with pic requests from unsuitable people.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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