Cheating

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  @brizzyguy62 I believe you are right. So mikeandshel are cool in my books.@l2cun Only as important as the relationship is important. You told us where your line is and as such I thank you for your input.@loneroamer I mentioned in a slightly earlier post that we were in the same position as you... except that, despite having permission, Nathan has never played with another girl without Cassie being involved.Nathan: I suspected Cassie wasn't really as comfortable as she said so I've chosen not to.Cassie: I'm alright with it... but I do want to know who Nathan plays with, so slightly different situation.still @loneroamer Did she ever tell you she'd played with another? You should let the girl make the first move when going in new directions. Or perhaps she wanted to know you'd played but not know with whom? Did you try asking her what about it had upset her?

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  If you don't tell your partner YOU ARE FUCKING CHEATING

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Loneroamer was given permission but was told that she didn't want to know. So not telling is not always cheating.Of course if your comment is not directed towards Loneroamer then I agree with you.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Looking the other way seeing the long term relationship as more important isn't neccessarily cheating. "Do what you want i just don't need to hear the details" isnt' cheating either. "just don't fall for anyone else, get anyone pregnant, or bring anything funky home..............isn't cheating.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  If your partner has told you; do what you want but I don’t want to know about it, then you are not cheating... What I'm say is people who go behind their back and she or he does not know, its cheating.. We have lots of married bi-guys (yes I know females do it to) that have told me they want to have sex with us, but don’t want their wife to know they are having sex with others. Far as we are concerned this is cheating and we tell them to go find someone else... I have ask some of them why don’t you let your wife play as well, some of their excuses are: She would not do it, but did he ask her NO... This is one answer I got a lot: I don’t want other guys fucking my wife (why is he doing it then)... And this one: I’m the man of the house and I do what I want I don’t have to ask for her permission to have sex whit others... When I got married 3o years ago I told my wife before we got hitched, I was bisexual because I did not want her to married me with knowing who I was (funny we still married and happy) Call me old fashion or a arse hole but I have been caught in the middle of a married couple when she found out he was cheating on her, he told her it was all my fault and the worst part was she believed the arse wipe and took it out on me... If your partner don’t know its cheating.....................

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I just recently found out my wife has been having a full blown affair with a guy she met for just goin on a year now, I found out a week ago, I found his numba in her I pad and called him, he was just as shocked as me..........she met him online and told him she was younger than she actually is ( she's fckd hot ) and single. We have been married for 17 years and have 14 year old daughter and a 11 year old son. She's begged my forgiveness etc, I told her we needed to go to counselling and she has agreed. The same day I found out about her, I put a profile up for myself, still not sure exactly why, hurt, revenge....take your pick, but one thing is for sure, it has really fckd my head up, not to mention my self asteem

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