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After cumming cuddles

January 17 2013

Hello,I am genuinely interested in gaining insight from guys (or girls that feel the same) on cuddling 'after cumming' with FWB, or lovers.I have noticed that when a guy 'cums' his body language, attention span and openness often shut down and the exit strategy is in place. Conversely, i like to catch my breath, have a snuggle, maybe doze off and then get moving - doing these things dont mean anything more intimate to me then the things i have just performed - its my exit strategy.What I would like to understand is what goes through a guys head, when he cums and then suddenly thinks - 'right im outta here'? Is he just done? Or, are cuddles too intimate? Or..... I dont know what but id like to hear your thoughts!Cheers :)

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RHP User

13 years ago

I mean if I have to get up , find the keys to the cuffs and shackles just for a cuddle prob ain't gonna happen! Lol Do love that middle of the night, gee that feels warm there, oops I'm hard wake up fucking semi asleep cuddle! Horses for courses!

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RHP User

13 years ago

While now dating I have met some root and scoot gals or off to the shower I dont bother with them a second time

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RHP User

13 years ago

Stick around for cuddles, then fuck again.

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RHP User

13 years ago

I only want to find myself in bed with a woman that I dig on as many levels as possible. I enjoy touching cuddling an showing affection, before during and after sex. But I again I'm in bed with a person I LIKE! not just one that's fucked me.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Be it a long term lover or a friend with benefits I love a good cuddle. Before, during and after. Not going to jump up and run off. If you have cum this far treat your lover with some care and respect.

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RHP User

12 years ago

I am on a dating site and the ladies can be just as bad.All they want is a booty call and half dont stay and cuddle.God I miss cuddles.

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him_and_me

12 years ago

I think I would definitely be pro-cuddles. I love curling up either behind or in front of him, so I can feel his warmth the length of my body. It's a chance to stroke and kiss gently. Lovely.

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RHP User

12 years ago

I go along with the situation of the moment. I have had both experiences. I enjoy to cuddle catch my breath maybe even gently rub her back to calm down. I do get comments that most guys usually have one foot on the floor before the last drop has left their body. But i have also had it the other way where the woman is really keen to leave ASAP. Strange because i have seen those women more than once and its not as if they were regretting being with me. But they do it all the time. But they are very rare most woman want a bit of intimacy afterwards i think its reassuring and helps make them feel their not a piece of meat. So comeon guys lift your game think about the others your with.

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RHP User

12 years ago

I like it, but you know, I think that's the sort of thing that builds emotional attachment. If it's JUST sex, you're better off not doing it.

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