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After cumming cuddles
January 17 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am a root and scoot kinda girl! I don't like the cuddles after or the dozing off...When I am done and he is done I don't mind a bit of chat but that is all! I find it too intimate to cuddle after sex and as I only have sex with FB's or randoms I have no interest in getting intimate with them at all after the sex act! Sounds cold I know and don't get me wrong I love hugging and miss it so much, but with me it has to be with the right person! Same as I don't kiss randoms....for me, it is just too intimate! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
And looking forward to reading the answers... Im with you on this Lippy
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RHP User
13 years ago
...a wombat eats roots shoots and leaves I must admit, I like to cuddle, spoon, snuggle....whatever you call it. Wrapping my arms around someone and dozing off post-coitus feels great...kinda miss it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Very handsy. My libido and energy drops instantly after cumming, and with it the nature of the touching changes really noticeably - flatter hands, firmer presses, nuzzling without nibbling etc. This from a lying down position, rather than propped up on elbows or something. I can finish what I started if my partner hasn't arrived yet, but it's not usually from anything more complex than the ol' 'give 'em a hand'.I certainly wouldn't have the energy or inclination to bolt out the door! For me it's not a question of intimacy at all - I'd do it in a relationship, with a FWB or with a one-night stand. The only exception to the above would be if the lust goggles dropped and I thought "frack me - who/what have I done?!" Then I'd find myself profoundly uncomfortable and eyeballing the exit. Fortunately that doesn't happen too often.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Love a nice cuddle/spoon after sex but has to be with the right person and definitely not post threesome!! Oh and ladies, if you have long hair, tuck it under your head, please, for the love of god don't make me eat it!
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RHP User
13 years ago
...I liken my partners to "a good fart". They seem to hang around for ages and I just can't get rid of them! Lol KK xx
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Smilingwithfun
13 years ago
For me, would depend on the situation.It depends on the other person as well. Its one of the reasons why i like to chat & get to know the other person first. The better you know somebody the better when we finish feels.There is no,what do we do? Having been there when i was young, i now wish to know the person first,that way we both enjoy a cuddle & chat. However each to there own.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Love a cuddle with the right person. I like being little spoon and when you feel that familiar bulge twitch on my lower back, I start squirming..... and off we go again!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think I have upset a few guys by getting up and leaving straight away. They look at me sitting on the bed pulling my clothes back on and say "oh you're leaving now?" I don't do it all the time, just a bit of the time. Sometimes it's late and I have work in the morning- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
And that means you're pretty special. I'm going to want to cuddle and chat.Finding someone I like enough to want to get "special" with is tricky enough. I'm hardly going to want to stop at one, roll over and snooze.And you better be here for Coffee and Toast in the morning.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm all for the Post-Coit Cuddle . Drifting off on a sea of Bliss . Sweat drying on our skin . A little time later , the playing starts again ;) Waking up for Morning Glory ... No fun lying in a puddle tho' . Fortunately , I've got a King Size Bed .- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
No matter who i may be with . . . . I jut hate cuddles full stop after sex! From my kids or my dog because he is so excited to see me when i get home from work YES after sex No Thanks
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm actually not really much of a 'cuddling' girl and I don't like staying for very long at all after I've shagged someone. Maybe while I'm single it's part of my protective strategy to not start falling for a FB....but even when I've been in relationships I'll do a bit of a cuddle afterwards but when I want to sleep then I want my own space. Have never been able to sleep properly with a guy's arms all over me. The only thing I miss about 'fucking and running' is the middle of the night and morning sex, I do love those....
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm with manly and DG. The intimacy I enjoy...the spooning, the caressing of ones skin, having a post coital laugh, banter, and I just love it when said lady falls asleep either whilst I'm spooning her, or as she's nestled into my neck, one leg over my body, her hand placed onto my chest....very intimate, very nice....for me, it makes ME feel sexy and desired just as much as the events leading up to, and during sex.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm not a bolt to the door kind of person... as alluded to above, there shouldn't be any energy or breath for anything but a tangle of limbs and whatnot, which can easily become a nice caress and shared moment. That's intimate, yes, but it's not a mortgage and kids!However, having said that...The spoon. It just feels a bit... suburban, a bit mortgage and kids, actually.So, I vote for stroking, for winding down together, for a tangle and even a cuddle. But I split a hair at the spoon.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I dunno, it makes me feel a bit .... used. As if I was only a hole to fill (god, that sounds ugly but is more than likely true). I don't have that many "random" encounters so fortunately it doesn't happen very often. And if there is a root and scoot involved with a random, I'm probably not likely to see that person again, it just leaves a bad taste in my mouth.I'm not expecting them to stay the night (but its awesome if they do - morning sex yippee!!!) but I do like to lie there in post-coital bliss, stroking their arm or leg, head on their shoulder or whatever and TALKING. Yes, I love pillow talk - one of my FWB's and I would have all kinds of interesting conversations afterwards - the civil war in Sierra Leone, international weapons supply lol. I'm getting horny just thinking about it hahaha.Generally I find after a 15 minute cuddle we are either starting again or I just say 'do you want to have a shower?'. That's their sign that it's okay to leave without me being pissed off :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Manly_McHardon'...a wombat eats roots shoots and leaves I must admit, I like to cuddle, spoon, snuggle....whatever you call it. Wrapping my arms around someone and dozing off post-coitus feels great...kinda miss it. Too too sad :(....................................................sigh Oh well
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's good to hear everyone's thoughts on this - ta x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ellabella10' I dunno, it makes me feel a bit .... used. As if I was only a hole to fill (god, that sounds ugly but is more than likely true). I don't have that many "random" encounters so fortunately it doesn't happen very often. And if there is a root and scoot involved with a random, I'm probably not likely to see that person again, it just leaves a bad taste in my mouth.I'm not expecting them to stay the night (but its awesome if they do - morning sex yippee!!!) but I do like to lie there in post-coital bliss, stroking their arm or leg, head on their shoulder or whatever and TALKING. Yes, I love pillow talk - one of my FWB's and I would have all kinds of interesting conversations afterwards - the civil war in Sierra Leone, international weapons supply lol. I'm getting horny just thinking about it hahaha.Generally I find after a 15 minute cuddle we are either starting again or I just say 'do you want to have a shower?'. That's their sign that it's okay to leave without me being pissed off :) I couldn't agree with this more - my sentiments exactly AND worth a read by the scooters :) Well done
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RHP User
13 years ago
If you have been intimate enough for sex, a post coital cuddle is essential. If you are a wombat you would never grace my bed again. And the morning after, well, it's a must. I'd call it a two for one deal.
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RHP User
13 years ago
is a tick from me, cuddles, spoons, chocolate and round two, when I get shuffled to the door I feel so used !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just to be a little different... I am all for a cuddle on a cool or stormy night, but in this Qld heat I find that after good sex I feel like the last thing I want is to be near someone else's body heat. Don't get me wrong I love to touch but no no no to a hot cuddle. However sex outside in a storm and a cuddle, hug is soooooo on
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RHP User
13 years ago
... to roll 'em out of my bed. That didn't work! Just me on the floor in a laughing heap and a "so you're not going home then?" KK xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
hehehe ............. ;) I looove seconds
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RHP User
13 years ago
Are you mad?? Seriously though it depends on the circumstance. A quick fuck on the way to work and Im out of that bed/off that couch/ making my hair look nice and tidy and out that door before everyones caught their breath. With randoms its not that often I cuddle. With longer term partners or someone staying overnight then Im all for the cuddle/snuggle before, during and after. Im a naturally touch orientated person so cuddling/snuggling comes easy to me (apparently Im making up for when I was a small child I hated it then and pushed people away) Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
the honest answer from a mans perspective, if you are looking for the door straight after, then you were only there for sex and you were not that taken with the lady. If he honestly thinks your nice he will want to relax with you and spend some time getting to verify if his first impressions were right...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I like to snuggle and cuddle. Not too great in this weather though but hey...I can get naked in the pool and cool off that way, lie there naked with the fan on us both to cool the skin a little. I am with the others and feel just a little used without the cuddles. There are times when it is not practical though, like a quickie over the car bonnet, or down by the river in a secluded spot..not hanging around naked for cuddles when the risk of being busted is great!
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RHP User
13 years ago
great discussion.........what are they thinking.... my FWB are all long termers..............sounds like a jail sentence lolmost of them have been indulging in post coiltal snuggles for about 4 years.....and they tend to stay over or I do........and they dont comment on my snoring....well not usually...ok ..sometimes those that cant stay......always snuggle and chat......solving the problems of the world.......or just wickednessrandoms.........hmmm....nope..they still get to lay there and chat.....i dont force em too....lolyoud only get one chance at wombat.......hate it with a passion(unless thats exactly what we agreed on )great to see so many of the men embracing their need for intimacy......refreshingive already got a mortgage and kid........not planning on more......mortgages maybeim with LRE....your special......i expect more of you ........(hehehehe...especially in the morning)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I am a root and scoot kinda girl! I don't like the cuddles after or the dozing off...When I am done and he is done I don't mind a bit of chat but that is all! I find it too intimate to cuddle after sex and as I only have sex with FB's or randoms I have no interest in getting intimate with them at all after the sex act! Sounds cold I know and don't get me wrong I love hugging and miss it so much, but with me it has to be with the right person! Same as I don't kiss randoms....for me, it is just too intimate! xFunlovingxHow much we have in common
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm a Very Sensual Woman ,Cuddles, Caressing Spooning or wrapped in each others arms and a little Pillow Talk is all Part of a Sexual Encounter I adore this time as much as the Sexual Intimacy .. Luckily I have Lovers who are totally into that too. A couple of times I've taken a chance on Guys I didn't have a strong Connection with on all Levels, but we did have Sexual Chemistry . .They did get up and Leave .I knew they would even before we had finished the underwhelming sex, so no surprise there.. However I felt like I had been a Hooker and didn't even get paid for the priviledge of being fucked..I was seriously annoyed ..Needless to say They were never Contacted again..Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thankyou so much for raising this topic sweetheart. I am an extremely affectionate, loving person in general so i absolutely want cuddles after sex...and more kisses, soft stroking. Im very tactile and i love touch. The skin is the largest organ and very receptive. Im not going to have sex with someone i dont feel a connection with anyway....i left the meaningless quick fucks behind in my early 20's. But i do sometimes worry that the person im with might confuse my affection & intimacy for being in love. I just figure if im sharing my body & mind with someone so intimately i want to be fully present and enjoy it to the fullest. Just because i want to hold you in my arms, run my fingers across your skin, caress your cheek, look you deep in the eyes and kiss you doesnt mean im in love or want to marry you!! But i appreciate that not everyone is as comfortable with living Love...a lot of people have been deeply hurt in the past and have shut themselves off from feeling. One Love xo
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RHP User
13 years ago
Miss Lippy:), I agree with you, for me, its about respect, its about mutual agreement, its about mental and the sexual/physical needs. I need all that to want to be with someone, I want a level of care, which to me creates desire, need, want and passion. To me, if "we" have that, after sharing each others most intimte moment, I think its nice to be able to lay and appreciate each others body and closeness. It doesnt have to be a "relationship", but the whole FB thing is still all about pleasure and respect. i think its nice to be able to lay there:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I do like a cuddle and a kiss or two but I think theres not a lot of guys into that if there is I'd like to meet them a nice affectionate guy between the ages of 25 to 40 who actually has respect for women and who likes a cuddle and a kiss and isn't looking for the door to creep away and never to be heard from again I have met a guy just recently who seems to be very sweet but time will tell I'm hoping my instincts are right with him but who knows
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm a fairly tactile sort of guy, and adore the post-sex touching, lingering in each others arms... It's more about restating the intimacy that you've just shared than it is about re-starting the sex (although..... ). If we think that much of each other that we've shared each other's bodies and given enjoyment to the other, then the coming down from that plateau by caressing and stroking adds further dimension. I much prefer to stay the night where possible, ease into the next morning with another slow, sensual session followed by more cuddles, touching and storking. And yes, spooning....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Truly??? What was I thinking?? Editor!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Like many I've read, I do miss the after cuddle that comes to me personally much easier with someone I feel very comfortable with. But if the feeling isn't mutual, or I don't feel comfortable, I'll lay there and wait for her to decide how intimate she wants to be. Just like one comment I read, sex can be viewed in the same way as cuddles as far as intimate acts go. But there is never a one rule for all with me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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StookyAndChooky
13 years ago
both me and my man are both affectinated people enjoy our cuddles after sex and even when he is with another women without me there he stays there and cuddle afterwards as most men seem to eat root and shoot outta there lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
I actually got invited into someones bed last week. So after sex cuddles?Poor woman needed a crowbar to get me out of bed and off home again afterwards..~giggles~
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RHP User
13 years ago
I like a bit of a cuddle and chat, before round two, that is! Then it's okay to up and leave. (Bad girl!... spanks herself!)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ellabella10' I dunno, it makes me feel a bit .... used. As if I was only a hole to fill (god, that sounds ugly but is more than likely true). That's an empty feeling... and I really, really believe its an empty feeling for blokes too. I don't mean the quicky, or the agreed hot, random hookup, but when there has been some kind of build up, even just in a bar that evening, its hard to imagine the scoot not being a bit empty for guys, too.In my less than humble opinion ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love the cuddles, snuggles and spooning - i've just shared my body with someone, what can be more intimate than that? I'm tactile, i love the feel of his thigh on mine...stroking it softly as we chat, tracing the curve of his smooth hip, running my fingernails over the dip in his shoulder. My hands have a mind of their own Does this mean i'm planning the mortgage and who'll run the kids to school?? Hell no! It just means i choose to abandon myself to the moment. That i am truly present and enjoying everything his body can offer. I don't tend to choose men who do the wombat act and if i do find myself in this position there is no 2nd invitation.
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On_Safari
13 years ago
Why not take the time to really enjoy each other and the intimacy? Quoting 'karynb' I love the cuddles, snuggles and spooning - i've just shared my body with someone, what can be more intimate than that? I'm tactile, i love the feel of his thigh on mine...stroking it softly as we chat, tracing the curve of his smooth hip, running my fingernails over the dip in his shoulder. My hands have a mind of their own Does this mean i'm planning the mortgage and who'll run the kids to school?? Hell no! It just means i choose to abandon myself to the moment. That i am truly present and enjoying everything his body can offer. I don't tend to choose men who do the wombat act and if i do find myself in this position there is no 2nd invitation. I'm with you......
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RHP User
13 years ago
I prefer a little bit of a chat and some touching and then some more sex, and then some more pillow talk and touching and then some more sex. At least one of us should be walking out the door a little unsteadily on their feet if not both ;) cuddling me will only encourage me so do so at you peril!!! Ha ha- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sorry for my english !My answer : Right when Im cumming in my head is the following " Just let me feel this feeling more just some more seconds" .After cumming usually 1 min brake cause mens have higher body temperature which caused by higher blood pressure and we need to rest a litle bit . ( Like running with full power since 20 sec ) . But for me after cumming the best if I should do oral for the girl since she cames "again" (this is in my minde right after ) , until im using my tongue and fingers Im again "hard" and after came the second round . So for me the 2nd round is in my minde when im done . And if she came to me and cuddling thats makes this feeling super stronger :)
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abcplus1
13 years ago
If it is just us, then we will normally fall asleep in each others arms.If we are with someone else then it depends on who it is, but we do look for a partner who will be a real friend and who is close enough to us that they want to have us wrapped around them (and vice versa) as well all fall asleep.
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RHP User
13 years ago
When we DO both decide we've had enough sex (until the morning ) there is nothing better than to cuddle and spoon as we both exhaustedly fall asleep together. For me, the post sex cuddling and spooning is almost as good as sex its self......almost!! It's a nice way to end an encounter, even if at the start of the night you know it may be just a 1 off. I'm definately not a "root and scoot" type of person.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Depends on the mood, just the same as the sex act its self varies from hard & fast to soft & sensual. Sometimes its nice to cuddle up afterwards other times no & just want to leave ( & I mean with the same lady) but then I try not to do the same thing every time variety is the spice of life & mixing it up a bit adds some variety. Least in my opinion.
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RHP User
13 years ago
There is nothing nicer than just lying in bed and feeling a woman next to me. Stroking her, caressing her, whispering in her ear, licking her neck, running your fingers along the shape of her breast and down her stomach, feeling the curve of her butt as she lies against you. Inhaling the scent of her skin...the perfume of her hair, listening to the beat of her heart. These are just some of the wonderful things I enjoy about sex
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HotMocca
13 years ago
I love cuddling my partners from behind after sex with my arms wrapped around them. I kiss them several times on the shoulder as I hug them and try to catch my breath. Many of them happen to like it too :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
the cuddles, caressing and kisses in between sessions is my favorite part!!!! i cum, relax, touch, kiss, cuddle and before i know it, im rock hard again.. i can repeat that over and over... i wouldn't get hard again as quick without that
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RHP User
13 years ago
get another condom and get back to it. If I'm raw I cum then keep going till I cum again and then relax and get foreplayish. Have I been doing it wrong all these yrs? Is it a one and done?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
With my special FB who has been friends with me for years I love to cuddle afterwards. We kiss and cuddle often for an hour or two after a big fuck session. Often leads to more. I love cuddles as I don't get any affection in my marriage and I desperately need it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Depends who it is and what kind of mood I am in, I am quite to have the sex and then happy for the guy to leave or sometimes I like having the snuggle afterwards.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think in the time it takes for a man to reload his weapon determines 'stay or go' time. If it was a good shag and you're keen on a bit more, the after match niceties are manageable to an extent...although body heat and then need to cool down means little cuddling & touching. The girls I'm about to play with are a no bullshit, fuck, fuck and fuck off kinda set up which is perfect for me. Can't really be arsed with the relationship building. Affection only leads to your wallet being emptied, Not your ball bag!!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'neptune_drift'Very handsy. My libido and energy drops instantly after cumming, and with it the nature of the touching changes really noticeably - flatter hands, firmer presses, nuzzling without nibbling etc. This from a lying down position, rather than propped up on elbows or something. I can finish what I started if my partner hasn't arrived yet, but it's not usually from anything more complex than the ol' 'give 'em a hand'. I certainly wouldn't have the energy or inclination to bolt out the door! For me it's not a question of intimacy at all - I'd do it in a relationship, with a FWB or with a one-night stand. The only exception to the above would be if the lust goggles dropped and I thought "frack me - who/what have I done?!" Then I'd find myself profoundly uncomfortable and eyeballing the exit. Fortunately that doesn't happen too often. Once those hormones have been dramatically dropped by cumming i lose all energy as well, its not that i have lost interest but after a powerful tense orgasim i collapse in a heap and although like Neptune i am more than happy to help finnish the ride for the other person, but my attention to detail certainly drops. As mentioned somewhere also once finnished even with my wife a little touch contact but when it comes to sleep i rather be in my own space also. Its nothing to do with" using "or "filling a hole"and the jobs done!! its about having no control and been zapped of your energy. Of course in my youth after cumming i have felt the need to chew my arm off and run but not now days.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'coops14' the cuddles, caressing and kisses in between sessions is my favorite part!!!! i cum, relax, touch, kiss, cuddle and before i know it, im rock hard again.. i can repeat that over and over... i wouldn't get hard again as quick without that Yummy...!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I dont mind a little cuddle, conversation and etc after sex.. usually it builds up for round 2 and 3 before any exit strategy ever crosses the mind.Mind you, I do like my space if I sleep as arms and etc make me uncosy...Mind you, I do like to wake for midnight snacks and pre-breakfast workout ;) unless she is leaving with a shower, then I'll do the whole Hitchcock "Psycho" and see if she can clean faster than me making her dirty....again
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh how I miss cuddling. I love a cuddle after sex. i guess each individual is different. depends how intimate you are with the person. well .. I am a cuddle person so I cuddle... sex or no sex. It just feels good to have a naked body next to mine and having a good intimate connection. And i personally can't get too excited if my partner is not intimate enough. so cuddling is all part of the experience.
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RHP User
13 years ago
My FWB left me shortly afterwards and I felt a little cheated. Maybe I'm a big softy but I always stay for the night. That always leaves the door open for sex in the morning too
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On_Safari
13 years ago
Your comment about sex in the morning reminded me of a post coitus encounter my girlfriend had with a guy who thought he'd topped her. Scenario, lovely dinner, much humour, manly enough to make her feel like delicate porcelain doll but firm enough to let her know he was in control. She's an early riser, let him sleep to a reasonable hour; wakes him at 7am to ask how he likes his eggs. He rolls over and says, one eye open; "Shoosh, it's too early for you to be making any noise." 5 seconds later he's standing in his jocks, clothes in hand outside her front door blubbering something about "....what did I do wrong?" Bloody funny!! No he didn't get invited back despite much trying. Poor bugger.
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RHP User
13 years ago
If not, look it up. Men have one. Women don't.If your pussy stinks and my cock stinks like your pussy after sex, I aint sticking around for hugs and cuddles, Ill be heading to the shower!If there wasn't much mess, you smell good and you're hot and don't talk crap, then yeah, maybe I might hug you and kiss you and chat and whatever... but only usually if I want my refractory period to finish so I can go again.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I prefer my eggs unfertilized!! And lucky it wasn't me, I often go commando.
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On_Safari
13 years ago
How I like mine. (IF I still had an oven 😝)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'azamoth'If not, look it up. Men have one. Women don't. If your pussy stinks and my cock stinks like your pussy after sex, I aint sticking around for hugs and cuddles, Ill be heading to the shower! If there wasn't much mess, you smell good and you're hot and don't talk crap, then yeah, maybe I might hug you and kiss you and chat and whatever... but only usually if I want my refractory period to finish so I can go again. I was going to comment on your post, but then I read your profile... Wow.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'azamoth'If not, look it up. Men have one. Women don't. If your pussy stinks and my cock stinks like your pussy after sex, I aint sticking around for hugs and cuddles, Ill be heading to the shower! If there wasn't much mess, you smell good and you're hot and don't talk crap, then yeah, maybe I might hug you and kiss you and chat and whatever... but only usually if I want my refractory period to finish so I can go again. I was going to comment on your post, but then I read your profile... Wow. So it does work ;) thanks for testing it out for me!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Depends on the chemistry.... But I am very affectionate like a cat when it's interested I'm all about a bit of cuddles.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Azamoth! It's hard to imagine that your profile could attract someone - but every pot has a lid I guess. Regarding the original topic, some people assume that a person who wants post sex intimacy does so because he or she is emotionally needy. It's a very silly assumption to make of course but might explain some people's behaviour.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'karynb' I love the cuddles, snuggles and spooning - i've just shared my body with someone, what can be more intimate than that? I'm tactile, i love the feel of his thigh on mine...stroking it softly as we chat, tracing the curve of his smooth hip, running my fingernails over the dip in his shoulder. My hands have a mind of their own Does this mean i'm planning the mortgage and who'll run the kids to school?? Hell no! It just means i choose to abandon myself to the moment. That i am truly present and enjoying everything his body can offer. I don't tend to choose men who do the wombat act and if i do find myself in this position there is no 2nd invitation.So true if a girl wants to cuddle with me then go for it ! i love to start with this kind of play if there up for it! desire building!!! guess its all about comunication in the end
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RHP User
13 years ago
To me it is as important as the lead up. Personally I need it. Secondly I would never want a woman left feeling she was the reciprocal for my unwanted lust, by running out then door. Lastly ther is also a chance you just might need to continue...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Bathsheba' Azamoth! It's hard to imagine that your profile could attract someone - but every pot has a lid I guess. Regarding the original topic, some people assume that a person who wants post sex intimacy does so because he or she is emotionally needy. It's a very silly assumption to make of course but might explain some people's behaviour. Thanks Bathsheba. Its good to know that I'm loved once in a while :) If I cuddle you, will you forgive me?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would have thought the cuddle after sex was a basic like oral sex. I want it and love it, all part of the whole package. Whether its for a rest between more great sex or at the end of many hours of pleasure.
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RHP User
13 years ago
love pillow talk.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think if they orgasm and run, they need to leave permanently. .....but then again, I love to cuddle
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RHP User
13 years ago
No snuggles, no seconds! Why would I go back for more if I wasn't made to feel wanted and desired in the first instance. The cuddles just reinforce the connection. Those who skip out on the cuddles either have ridiculous egos (if we cuddle she'll fall for me), or are seriously damaged emotionally (I can't let myself do anything that approaches emotional, I don't know how to handle intimacy, scared!!)I prefer an ongoing thing that includes cuddles, it doesn't mean I want a 'relationship'. It takes someone who is emotionally strong and secure to go the package.
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RHP User
13 years ago
then there is no need for cuddlescuddles are usually associated with emotion and relationship as just mentioned beforeso if you are not emotional or in a relationship with the person you had sex with... cuddles aren't necessary"Awww u wan a liddle widdle cuddle do ya"*yuk*vomit*
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_silk' I would have thought the cuddle after sex was a basic like oral sex. I want it and love it, all part of the whole package. Whether its for a rest between more great sex or at the end of many hours of pleasure. I absolutely agree. I want it all.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Even if it is just sex, isnt it just great to rub my stinky stuff from my stinky cock which stinks from your stinky pussy juices over your lovely nipples to make sure your just stinky all over!! The we can just go again and make an even bigger stinkier bed together. LOL Sorry, havent stopped laughing. I do like to play with my lover after sex, cuddling, kissing and soft touching because sometimes it can lead to more but it always leads to leaving with a smile.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We love intimate energy , cuddles after sex is a must , if there's no passion and it's just straight up sex and when thats the case it's usually not the best sex, it's a beautiful thing to be sensual and be able to relax together feeling good after sex , a few kisses while feeling the warmth of eachothers skin , bein able to adore the one you have shared a experience with.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Cuddles after sex make me feel like the person I have slept with has enjoyed the experience of sex with me but also me as a person. For me it creates an artifical intimacy which increases my comfort level with a FWB that I wish to play with on a regular basis or over a longer term. With that comfort comes the ability to explore each others passions, desires,fantasies in any way shape or form that we like. If they stay the night then sometimes the cuddle just happens during the course of the night and leads to yet more hot sex. I consider a cuddle or the stroking of a back or thigh as a precusor to foreplay, nothing sexier than someone wanting to touch your body in some capacity; or a sign of sexual satisfaction and contentment. I have been the recipient of the "root and scoot" a few times and find it somewhat offensive as it has left me feeling like a unpaid hooker and wondering about my sexual prowess. Having said that cuddles are not for everyone.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You're sort of funny (are you taking the piss?), but also sort of sad. It seems to be that sex without any emotion (lust, pleasure, joy) or intimacy is just soul-less. It worries me a bit that the R&S practitioners are sometimes those deeply into the 'scene', and they seem to have lost their soul to it all. A dire warning to the rest of us.
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RHP User
13 years ago
misonygistic undertones in one of these posts
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RHP User
13 years ago
even
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RHP User
13 years ago
its always good to just take a bit of time to just stop and reflect how goot it was. im all for it maby in a group exercise it would be odd but 1 on 1 yeah deffinatly
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RHP User
13 years ago
If i have had a real sensual time the after embrace when we are both breathing deep can be the fun bit. Its when you really make a connection with some one laying there is when you know if the chemistry is spot on not all put on.
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RHP User
13 years ago
So eloquently putSurprised people like that would get a shagnot from me
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QLDtwo4fun
13 years ago
Lots of foreplay, lots of fun, followed by cuddles.....then start again
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sometimes its not appropriate and a good solid shower might be, but I do enjoy a solid embrace after..If she wanted me to cum on her belly, I like slowly rubbing it in all over her skin and that type of tacticle interactions after...
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RHP User
13 years ago
LOL Spoon me and I'll fork ya!!! Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
and my response is..."Well, are you going to cuddle me or not? My arms don't bend behind my back!"
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RHP User
13 years ago
Im with u paintme, especially spooning after sex, if the chick involved helps the guy to relax n snuggles their nice arse back into me, well let's just say it's nice to chill n have a feel to get me back in the mood for some more foreplay before having another go at a nice warm wet pusy :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Manly_McHardon' ...a wombat eats roots shoots and leaves I must admit, I like to cuddle, spoon, snuggle....whatever you call it. Wrapping my arms around someone and dozing off post-coitus feels great...kinda miss it. Totally agree with you here mate..
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RHP User
13 years ago
... post-play is better. A bit like foreplay but messier. Spooning and breakfast comes after that.
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RHP User
13 years ago
think if a person is good enough to have sex with then they are good enough to cuddle with after, it completes the whole experience!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Feeling, stroking, holding, cuddling, spooning, nuzzling (I so love that word), snuggling and connecting.
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RHP User
13 years ago
WTF RHP??
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RHP User
13 years ago
I just love to sleep beside a play partner... to curl into them, or, to pull them against me throughout the night.So cuddling is a givenDG
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love a good nuzzle. I also love being the big spoon....It lets me hold my partner, as well as lightly caress them, and then nibble their ear lobe, and then they role over to look at me and we start it all over again :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'anybodyjustnow'It lets me hold my partner, as well as lightly caress them, and then nibble their ear lobe, and then they role over to look at me and ...... I'm looking back at my dog.
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RHP User
13 years ago
OP - great topic. Love after sex cuddles... agree with some of the gal's comments - kind of leaves you flat if there's no cuddles and chat afterwards. However sitting on the fence, cuddles and chat do tend to encourage emotional involvement... But at the end of the day, if its only a one-nighter, what's the harm in a little after sex cuddling to make a girl feel good?
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's because our Cock and Balls does 99% of the thinking in sexual situations so the second you blow your load you come to your senses and begin thinking with your head and unless she's something special you want to get away from there ASAP
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