F74
the under 30s Male
February 07 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
I met a random one night from here...Young guy...22....He got me to wait in the back seat of my car, in just lingerie and a coat (was Winter after all)...He went down on me...I came a few times...He left! He didn't remove his clothes or take his cock out! He delivered...BIG TIME! I will never discount a younger guy and take each guy on his merits! If he is shit..I simply don't see him again...If he is great and we both agree, we meet up again! My fuck buddy now is under 30 and Oh... My... Godda...He is a great lover! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'TheFingerMouse' Other than the long term girlfriends I've had & one or two other special cases in the FWB group I've found that a lot of women are pretty lame ducks in the sack. Clueless on what to do & under the impression that the man's equipment should just stand to attention with no effort on her part. I wonder how many guys have felt pressurised to cum as quickly as possible during a blowjob as within 2 minutes their lover asks, "Are you close?" Are you serious? You literally just began! Then of course we're expected to return the favour for the better part of half an hour - whilst all the while making sure that you never feel rushed or under pressure lest we ruin that delicate mindset some of you need to be in order to orgasm - have you ladies ever asked yourselves: If you had to give a guy a 20min blowjob EVERY time you had sex just for him to cum, how long would you put up with it before you just thought, "Fuck this, I cum to quick? You cum too slow!" Perhaps it would be different if you were all the same, then it would just be something that we would have to get used to, but fact is you ain't, some of you cum very quickly & multiple times in the first session (good on you girls by the way, you're a god-send). Now, it's true that with time you can help a particular woman "practise" her way to being able to cum quickly with you, you can learn all the little personal foibles that allow her to get her rocks off ASAP. You can do that. OR, if you're young & pretty, you can just get your rocks off, call this one a dud & move on to the next one. I'm not saying it's right, personally I like to give a girl a chance to settle in, but it's definitely an option & let's face it, that's what you ladies are doing when you drop guys for being "duds". We're just following your lead after all; find one that doesn't require as much work :-P- Posted from rhpmobile Interesting. I didn't realise that sex was all about cumming as quickly as possible. Or that it's some sort of competition to see who can orgasm the fastest...or that a person's sexual prowess is judged by how fast they can cum. That doesn't sound very enjoyable at all and it's certainly not the type of sex I want to have. In fact, I generally want the opposite....to stretch out the pleasure for as long as possible - for both partners. I don't want to feel like it's a race to get our rocks off. If I was with a guy who went about sex in the way you're describing, who made me feel like he was timing how long it took me to orgasm, then I would certainly class him as a 'dud' and it would be a big NEXT.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't even go there. Seriously?The generation 'Y' male is, to me more like, generation wh'Y' (the hell would I waste my time?)These boys (they are not men) who are almost young enough to be my son, do not interest me at all. Sorry but cannot connect with a species on a whole different planet to me. It's difficult for me to not think of them as all coming under the same umbrella. The club of self interested, kite-boarding, thoughtless, little tossers who have been going to Uni for 10 years straight and still live at home with their mum and dad because they will be paying off hex fees until the year 2030.You may think it a bit ignorant of me but I can't help it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' The point of my comment is.....1. Person X pakes sweeping generalisation stating that men under 30 are shit lovers2. A parade of men under 30 in here, feeling challenged and that their sexual potential in RHP has been tarnished, come forth to defend and promote themselveI wonder... similarly, how a topic such as... "women over 40 arent worth the effort" may run DG We girls would all rush in there with our pitchforks and axes! That's what! dbs
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' The point of my comment is.....1. Person X pakes sweeping generalisation stating that men under 30 are shit lovers2. A parade of men under 30 in here, feeling challenged and that their sexual potential in RHP has been tarnished, come forth to defend and promote themselveI wonder... similarly, how a topic such as... "women over 40 arent worth the effort" may run DG We girls would all rush in there with our pitchforks and axes! That's what! dbs
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lolll youve just come across the greedy men. We are just young dumb and full of cum lol- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23'Interesting. I didn't realise that sex was all about cumming as quickly as possible. Or that it's some sort of competition to see who can orgasm the fastest...or that a person's sexual prowess is judged by how fast they can cum. That doesn't sound very enjoyable at all and it's certainly not the type of sex I want to have. In fact, I generally want the opposite....to stretch out the pleasure for as long as possible - for both partners. I don't want to feel like it's a race to get our rocks off. If I was with a guy who went about sex in the way you're describing, who made me feel like he was timing how long it took me to orgasm, then I would certainly class him as a 'dud' and it would be a big NEXT. I don't believe I said that a person's sexual prowess is determined by how quickly they can cum, if that's what you inferred then you are mistaken. I merely pointed out that women complaining about young guys who just want to get the rocks off as quickly as possible have no right to moan unless they if they aren't taking the time to educate these young fellows that they come across. What are you all waiting for? For the next lady to be the one who takes responsibility for him? Then there's the wheel house of ladies who believe that sexual prowess for a guy is all about stamina and being able to last an age so they can extend their pleasure as much as possible. Did it ever occur to you that the opposite is true for men when it comes to women? Men, and I mean ALL men, I say this with complete confidence as I'm quite sure that no man who has ever had one will disagree with me on this point; men LOVE having sex with a woman who is able to have multiple orgasms and come quickly when she's turned on enough and without having to get ages and ages of oral. These women are the best sex we have because when a woman is orgasming her pussy does things that it doesn't do during the sex in preamble, it squeezes and convulses and massages us inside her in ways that feel absolutely incredible. A woman who can do this is regarded as having awesome sexual prowess by men.Oh, but you're probably thinking, "Well, she's just lucky, it's easier for some women...", yada, yada, blah, blah, excuses, excuses... Bullshit. Women consider men who are able to maintain wood during extensive sessions of intercourse and in all sorts of positions whilst things may or may not be comfortable for them (hands up any men who've had to have sex with a girl whilst standing up and carrying her, harder than it looks in the porno eh?) to have excellent sexual prowess, correct? Well maintaining this wood in these sorts of situations is all about relaxation and concentration even in the face of discomfort and distraction. Well the same is true for women trying to get to orgasm, is it not? Unless every woman I've been with has been lying to me, I've been under the impression that it takes a fair amount of relaxation and concentration for a great many of you to get to orgasm. Now, if this is a skill in the men then surely the same is true for the women. Do you not consider the possibility that these so called "lucky" women that are able to orgasm easily and multiple times with a half-way decent partner are simply BETTER at concentrating and relaxing themselves for the job in hand? Why is it that men have to take on the burden of "prowess" in the bedroom on their own most of the time whilst women are able to foist responsibility for reaching orgasm onto their partner?So many women think that they make a man cum, what drivel, most of the time men make themselves cum, women are just there as tools to help. Ladies, learn how to use your tools and if your tools are inadequate then adjust them and fashion yourselves some better ones that help you get your work done, as has been said before, just ditch them and get a new set.As for this notion that I'm suggesting that sex is a race, again, total drivel. Sex is not a race, it couldn't possibly be, a race implies competition and there would be no point for men to compete as we would lose; we need to pit, refuel etc. Women don't. We would end up being spectators. BUT we're happy to be spectators since if you get a good woman then it's the greatest show on earth! No man begrudges going down on a woman at length if she cums multiple times and end's up all red, hot bothered and flustered, it's both hilarious and exhilarating to spend the evening pleasuring a woman until she begs you to stop and says she can't take any more, that's great fun.What's not fun is spending the better part of an hour just to get her to even her first climax and then, just when it seems she's getting close, she pokes her head up and asks you, "Are you okay? You shifted your weight a bit, are you uncomfortable?" FUCKING HELL! Then when you assure her that you're fine, you "just had to move a bit, carry on as you were", she's gone back from 80mph back to 20 and you realise that you're going to be another 20 bloody minutes at least just because she can't focus enough to be able to ignore a little movement on the bed. Can you ladies not see how this scenario is essentially the same as man who loses wood at the drop of a hat? Trying to change position, trying to put a condom on, whatever, and then losing wood happens 'cause of a lack of focus and relaxation. Sure you ladies can help in these situations, if you're one of the good ones, but too many women think that this is entirely the man's responsibility and it's his bloody problem. These same women also think that their bloody problems (with not being able to cum) are our problems too.Well fuck ya'll and your problems quite frankly, when it comes to cumming I say this to those women: Shit miss, I got mine, get yours!Not all of you are these women of course, many of you are great, you help us out if we need it and we're more than willing to help you out then if that's the case. But those of you here who say that you're not going to bother with us need to take a good long look at yourselves and ask, who are you really hurting when you don't bother teaching a guy and instead dismiss him as a dud? Just your fellow ladies friends down the line, that's all. Start helping guys out more and start taking some fucking responsibility for your own orgasms. Learn how to focus and relax, I don't know how, ask one of your lady friends who can cum easily how she does it, practice masturbating whilst listening to terrible music or something, anything, I don't know, use your imagination, just sort it out!Until you do, I'll be busy spending my hours with ladies who either are a joy to behold in all their orgasmic glory or are at least willing to help you learn their own personal foibles in how to get them to multiple orgasms. All those of you who don't know how to teach a guy about yourself or simply think that he should just know of his own steam can go fuck yourselves
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RHP User
13 years ago
And here I was just thinking everyone was different/unique/catered their own opinion.When I was 19 I had my first experience with a much older woman, precisely 30 years my senior. She disliked the use of a tongue anywhere and could not stand cuddles or talking after sex - it was an arrow straight to the door; however we always sat and talked over a wine and Cat Stevens before hand. My second experience was completely the opposite with a lovely lady near the same age. I would never judge or class either of them, or anyone of any age.. Isn't this kind of like calling all black people slaves, among a few exceptions?My only rule is never to sleep with anyone who doesn't have an open mind, and I can completely understand how bad experiences can build reluctance but that can happen in any level off life.Do you stop buying groceries when you've been short changed a few times? I don't think there's a need to create a brand for it, simply screen better and ask the right questions. Many of the replies have shown that ego in younger ages consistently equates to a negative performance, flush that out as rule number one.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It depends on the type of person. I am definitely not like that and seek every experience I have to learn more about the opposite. Everyone is different and it's enjoyable finding those different things that turn a woman on. I think porn sends the wrong idea out there
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi I'm a 25 year old and I must say some of these allegations are true but there are a few of us, possibly more than a few that are willing to be taught, shown the ropes...used and abused ;) I'm willing to be a cute older intelligent girls "toy boy". I'd like to think I go alright in the bedroom but there's ALWAYS more stuff you can Learn and be taught.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I do agree with much of your thoughts, however just a few I cant buy The difference is we do not have a cock, and the clit unlike a cock does not go off at the slightest touch With some of my lovers I am embarased to say that when they go down on me its a grand total of a minute and I am done and dusted. Lucky for me as a woman, the guy can then keep going and get his own little bit of joy. Unlike a lot of women I do not require much of a warm up. Just kiss me with passion, take a lingering nibble around some important parts and then do the dip your finger test and see how wet the weather is in there. Some women like a person to engage them a bit more, as in conversation before and after sex. I have to take back my words as of late I had a lover who was 41 and was done and dusted in a minute , dispite us talking about what we found would be a mutual way to enjoy ourselves. Now you say, nothing better than a guy watching a girl help herself? well there I was, naked and just a little warmed up, with his cum sprayed over my hip I thought thats fine, just let me relax and focus and just lay there and watch me Nope, he actually got up while I was trying to do that thing you find so hot to watch. My sound track came to a halt, my desires had a bucket of cold water thrown on them. I am not talking about young men , who make the effort I was talking about young men who, just think women are wanking machines with tits I get my info from a few other women I know that have tried to give young guys a fair go, tried to teach but how can you if nobody wants to listen. I do understand its not easy for a guy to pleasure a women and yes we are our own worst enemy at times. I could have said, hey what about me? But why bother? What is the point if someone is clearly not interested enough to give pleasure you see, a man can stick his cock into anything and get a response, so its they are there they are hard and they think ohh fuck it, I will do it anyway sometimes we do that as well, as a guy is inside you, and your thinking this is not going to well but maybe it will improove with a bit of encouragement and body language pointing to the right directions some men do not want to read a map to go the long way and enjoy the view. nice post by the way, very mature and on the mark so its not all young men, its just a comment on some experiences my friends have had
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RHP User
13 years ago
jeez i can say you're a charmer . . . . young doesnt mean inexperienced nor does it mean with out any skills. . . . . you might actually learn stuff if you take advice from all walks of life rather than someone who is old which doesnt make them mature or with a life full of lessons... you might be surprised
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' I do agree with much of your thoughts, however just a few I cant buy The difference is we do not have a cock, and the clit unlike a cock does not go off at the slightest touch With some of my lovers I am embarased to say that when they go down on me its a grand total of a minute and I am done and dusted. Lucky for me as a woman, the guy can then keep going and get his own little bit of joy. Unlike a lot of women I do not require much of a warm up. Just kiss me with passion, take a lingering nibble around some important parts and then do the dip your finger test and see how wet the weather is in there. Some women like a person to engage them a bit more, as in conversation before and after sex. I have to take back my words as of late I had a lover who was 41 and was done and dusted in a minute , dispite us talking about what we found would be a mutual way to enjoy ourselves. Now you say, nothing better than a guy watching a girl help herself? well there I was, naked and just a little warmed up, with his cum sprayed over my hip I thought thats fine, just let me relax and focus and just lay there and watch me Nope, he actually got up while I was trying to do that thing you find so hot to watch. My sound track came to a halt, my desires had a bucket of cold water thrown on them. I am not talking about young men , who make the effort I was talking about young men who, just think women are wanking machines with tits I get my info from a few other women I know that have tried to give young guys a fair go, tried to teach but how can you if nobody wants to listen. I do understand its not easy for a guy to pleasure a women and yes we are our own worst enemy at times. I could have said, hey what about me? But why bother? What is the point if someone is clearly not interested enough to give pleasure you see, a man can stick his cock into anything and get a response, so its they are there they are hard and they think ohh fuck it, I will do it anyway sometimes we do that as well, as a guy is inside you, and your thinking this is not going to well but maybe it will improove with a bit of encouragement and body language pointing to the right directions some men do not want to read a map to go the long way and enjoy the view. nice post by the way, very mature and on the mark so its not all young men, its just a comment on some experiences my friends have had Cheers me dears, I must admit I was in kind of a bad mood at work the day I wrote that little tirade. Reading it back it does kind of sound like I'm having a go at women in general and that really shouldn't be the case. I'm quite certain I'm running about a 50:50 ratio of good to bad when it comes to the women I've been with in bed and many of the ones in the bad would have been able to make it over the good end given more time and patience but unfortunately I have little of either to spare: my first year in this country is nearly up already and I only have one more year after that so I'm afraid I'm going to have to go with the harsh line of getting rid of anyone who just doesn't have that spark with me, better to save my time and patience for those women who are just that little bit more special :-)P.S. Can't believe that dude just got up in the middle of whilst you were getting yourself off, what the hell?! Did he have somewhere he needed to be or something? What a tool.
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