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Why the cock shot ?
June 23 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just for research purposes late last year I put up a cock shot as my sole public pic...my views and flirts went through the roof - from males, females, and couples alike...and most were guests...I sometimes think that just because they cant see the pic doesnt mean their imagination isnt going to work overtime.....a restricted pic can be anything - for example Brae your gorgeous current pic did show up as restricted one of the few times I have gone back to guest membership - now tell me...its surely not just me is it??? But that really isnt a cock (if it is I have a lot of learning to do...lol) , Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Fly_boy1987'. And seriously... wouldn't you prefer to see the face of the woman you are lusting after and want them to see yours in return? A pretty face goes a lot further than a boob pic for me. When I out my girls on display men and women alike focus on the small tattoo I have and nothing else. Heeeellllloooooo the mind is a little north of there.......... It amuses me no end. Quoting 'looking2try3 Focus is one of very few paying single females looking for single men (thanks F for you post !) So these guys are marketing to the smallest possible market they could pick. It just doesnt make much sense marketing to such a "small" number of people. . I pay my membership and am looking for single men only. No females, no couples and really I dont mind being a minority market. I dont mind being amongst the few that can see all the cock shots...seriously, it is okay!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Look it aint nearly as much fun if you kids dont play , I cant help myself ahhhhhh see but nor can you! . Brae ....snap !
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RHP User
15 years ago
I thing you may have just found the answer...it appeals to the following of that funky all chick rock group "Hens in the House" and you got the first line right... | Quoting 'MrsPeachypear'Cock-a-doodle-dooooooo! So keep on crowing out the lyrics, the groupies want more when... | Any-cock-will-doooooo | | I played lead guitar...but the Purple Pussy Pounders never made it to the top.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Charles_Dickens' ...maybe us RHP users should nick name men.. "doddle dicks"....that use cock shots in their pics...?? .... Charles xoxo So if guys with cock shots mean they only think with their cocks, does that mean guys with ass shots only think with their ass?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Charles_Dickens' I think men that use cock shots in their pics proves the theory of..... "men only think with their dicks".... I think that females that like cock shots are only after cocks.... and that is all they think.... LOL... Charles xoxox There may just be a touch of penis envy happening. I think that women who like cock shots are no worse than anyone who watches or has watched porn.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Errr... I see where you're heading with the logic mate... but that's crap. :pPeronally I enjoy the odd cock shot eveyr now and again ... (sent to my private email address if you can.. that'lll do nicely) :pHugsStalky Quoting 'Maverick83x'So if guys with cock shots mean they only think with their cocks, does that mean guys with ass shots only think with their ass?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Charles_Dickens' Quoting 'Maverick83x' Quoting 'Charles_Dickens' ...maybe us RHP users should nick name men.. "doddle dicks"....that use cock shots in their pics...?? .... Charles xoxo So if guys with cock shots mean they only think with their cocks, does that mean guys with ass shots only think with their ass? LOL...maverick - i think your getting too personal and you can't see the funny side of it.... ....im just repsonding to the OP's question.... Na man was havin a laugh with ya, i keep forgetting to use emoticons
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RogueGeek
15 years ago
In fact I saw a girl on the weekend who I thought was from the site. But I sure as hell wasn't going to ask her about it in person! Turns out I was wrong but nevermind.Cheers,MS(the female half) Quoting 'we_are_no_angels' people say they dont want to put face pics up because they dont want to be recognised but the way i look at it is. that if someone is on this site in the first place then they are probably into the same things and dont want to be recognised themselves... i've seen a few friends on here and whilst i may send them a message or something initially i won't spread rumours about them because i would hate for them to do it about me...it could be a golden opportunity, especially if its a hot co-worker that sees you..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachypear' Hehhehe doddle... not sure if that's a typo Charles... butt it's sounding like you're saying men with cocks we can see... are how do I say it?... Easy?...Works for me. Hehhehe hugs ya... Mrs P HELLOOOOOOOOO PEACHY not just the ones with cockpics!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'cl_ms' In fact I saw a girl on the weekend who I thought was from the site. But I sure as hell wasn't going to ask her about it in person! Turns out I was wrong but nevermind.Cheers,MS(the female half) Quoting 'we_are_no_angels' people say they dont want to put face pics up because they dont want to be recognised but the way i look at it is. that if someone is on this site in the first place then they are probably into the same things and dont want to be recognised themselves... i've seen a few friends on here and whilst i may send them a message or something initially i won't spread rumours about them because i would hate for them to do it about me...it could be a golden opportunity, especially if its a hot co-worker that sees you..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Don't let it get to you Charles...at least you admitted to playing with your "spell thing doddle dick" whilst trying to type on the internet. | My spelling sometimes fails...but a sure sign of things gone wrong is when I hit too many keys at once and all of a sudden... | ♀♂☺ | ...not everybody can type with it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
The burning question is ......can they use the thing I'm a fan of the good old cock shot personally, I like being shocked by the whoppers, having to lean in close to work out what the heck some of them are hanging out of LOL, and even turning my head on the side to follow the bent ones Just because they cut to the chase sometimes , doesn't mean they can't be great guys beneath the cock. Just sayin . PS some wear theirs on the outside all the time too, just look at the ones who dont display a cock , yet wear it on their foreheads all day long
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RHP User
15 years ago
Probably the same reason why some women put up tit and pussy shots, and the same reason some couples show pictures of them boning- it's a pretty brazen statement of raw, in-your-face sexuality that they want to convey. Pretty much like how some of us intend to convey the mysterious, the seductive, the playful, and the like.
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RHP User
15 years ago
You might like this one...although I don't know if ya'all had or have Dial bath and deoderant soap here? One of the big franchise stores ran a massive all out advert campaign and blasted prices, promotede stores and had specials on all kinds of things inserted in mailboxes, every newspaper worth circulating...you know the kind. | Now Dial was one of America's favourites at the time and ran as a loss leader in this campaign...and the slogan they used to sell it because of the dial on the packaging was "For Around the Clock Protection". | Quoting 'MrsPeachypear'I'm not entirely sure where I sit on the matter seems I just LMAO...settle on F***ing Around the Clock tonight! | Got it in one, Mrs. P....it even got through the proof readers without the "l" in clock. | ...there were some asses was blowing bubbles later. | | Wanna take a shower...we can play "drop the soap".
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RHP User
15 years ago
My opinion has changed on this a lil bit. After viewing a few female profiles with just a close up of there pussies and NO pics available in the pg has made me realise that yeah if u ONLY have pics of ur cock then its pretty lame lol. BUT theres still a place for them in the profile pic if u have others on standby once u get interest..then its fingers crossed she like ur other head 2
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachypear' Quoting 'we_are_no_angels' Quoting 'MrsPeachypear' Hehhehe doddle... not sure if that's a typo Charles... butt it's sounding like you're saying men with cocks we can see... are how do I say it?... Easy?...Works for me. Hehhehe hugs ya... Mrs P HELLOOOOOOOOO PEACHY not just the ones with cockpics!!! I left that for someone else to point out!!!Hehehehe Hugs yas... Mrs P its a shame your that your only on here for the forums :)MrNA
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RHP User
15 years ago
Love your sense of humour!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Love your sense of humour!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Little Boys and there cock shot and you sit there night after night surfing the profile of women and wonder why no female's are interested in your profile's,Like Saturn65 said a nice 6 pack would turn more women on than your little boy would, or sexy arms and nice chest take note little boys that having cock shots up puts more women off than anything have more interesting shots up and you may have more luck.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'happygirl09' Little Boys and there cock shot and you sit there night after night surfing the profile of women and wonder why no female's are interested in your profile's,Like Saturn65 said a nice 6 pack would turn more women on than your little boy would, or sexy arms and nice chest take note little boys that having cock shots up puts more women off than anything have more interesting shots up and you may have more luck. we agree fully............interesting pics capture the imagination......cock shots turn it off.......
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RHP User
15 years ago
Im with you.... well said
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RHP User
15 years ago
Aussiepeaches you are one very mean and horrible man.....there goes one of my favourite perves . Sulking now . If everyone takes Aussiepeaches lead what would be the point in my membership?? This had better not be the start of a new trend. . Kisses Focus sad and upset.....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Aussiepeaches put that gorgeous thing of yours back on display! It's too pretty to hide
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' Aussiepeaches you are one very mean and horrible man.....there goes one of my favourite perves . Sulking now . If everyone takes Aussiepeaches lead what would be the point in my membership?? This had better not be the start of a new trend. . Kisses Focus sad and upset.....Sorry but was about time i took those pics off dont ya think? maybe ill put some new ones up...any suggestions??
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm soooo with you there, absolutely loving my perving paid up and proud status right now.........lots of colourful pics to pop my eyeballs right out of the sockets . Peaches !!! I'm with Focus.......what the heck man? Lucky I can still peek through your window
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'happygirl09' Little Boys and there cock shot and you sit there night after night surfing the profile of women and wonder why no female's are interested in your profile's,Like Saturn65 said a nice 6 pack would turn more women on than your little boy would, or sexy arms and nice chest take note little boys that having cock shots up puts more women off than anything have more interesting shots up and you may have more luck. we agree fully............interesting pics capture the imagination......cock shots turn it off....... Out of curiosity a couple of questions for Shel - have you never wondered what a particular cock might like feel sliding in?? Or whether you could actually get all of it in your mouth?? just by looking at the picture?? ... maybe its just me but I know I have - my imagination has been known to go down these paths on the odd occassion .... . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just for you , I'll leave a pic up for a day well as soon as its approved that is Focus.....yep me too. I have even been known to sit back , nod, and say to myself......"Yep, that's one goooood lookin cock "
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sitting back here thinkin, Yep, thats one hellava good looking hot woman... I'll show u mine if u show me yours.. hehe Mr JJ
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RHP User
15 years ago
consider it a big kiss......ummm anywhere you want...ladies choice today I'm feeling brave getting the mug out LOL, or crazy it's a fine line sometimes
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RHP User
15 years ago
Cock pretty..............there are the definatly Richard Gere, Brad Pitt (when he didn't have the hobo look happening), george clooney,sabastian bach and ricky martin (damn shame he doesn't play for our team but gay or not dat boi is bootyful....rrreeeowww)...kind of cocks. And there are also Danny DeVito, Rodney Dangerfield looking cocks. But most girls will say that as long as they have nice owner/trainers and know how to stand up straight when spoken to and be appreciative of affection, we love em all.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes Mrs. P and Im forwarding them all on to you oh and MMWAAAAHHHHHH right on your cheeky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice'Sitting back here thinkin, Yep, thats one hellava good looking hot woman... I'll show u mine if u show me yours.. hehe Mr JJ Your post popped up afterwards. Now I could take that one of two ways.... - You're going to show me a pic of your own 'one hellava good looking hot woman' lol or... - You're going to show me a good lookin cock shot
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think my secret's out about the ropes, huh? Just like my appreciation of nice shoes and lingerie...it is not a fetish, I just happen to like it. | Quoting 'MrsPeachypear' PMSL Midnight, let's give 'em my L! Howzabout soap-on-a-rope, lots of rope... to tangle ourselves up with 0:-) | Rope and soap...boundaries are only limited by imagination and mutual agreement (where have I read that before) so let's give leave out the "L" and I can show you where to hang the soap or the rope. | Just a consumer warning Mrs. P...the difference between a woman in church and a woman in the shower playing with ropes and soap? The woman in church leaves with hope in her soul and the woman in the shower leaves... | ...with a big smile. | | And soap in her hole...but I am too polite to say that in public.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I've long pondered the merits of uploading the "full spread" of pics (i.e. right through to the X-rated cock shots). Weirdly, I have always felt OBLIGATED to show everything purely because RHP (unlike other dating websites) has greater emphasis on our physicality/sexual appearance. Take 'em or leave 'em, it would be nice to think that all X-rated pics are uploaded purely in the interests of creating a transparent, honest RHP profile---a far more positive spin on such an emotionally erect topic!J.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Not a thing wrong with have a few vices and occassional transgressing into sin, Mrs. P...and not uncommon is the ritual of confesseion, penance and absolution... | Quoting 'MrsPeachypear' Nice post Midnight, I'm feeling all holey now... | So if you would ditch the last of the scanties and forget licking that lolly....I am happy to turn the shower on a bit hotter and please do step into the confessional. You might just have to change your tune if you to make sure I go to heaven...well, at least visit for a few minuties, so crank up the Dave Mason and sing along: | "Baby please.....you've got me down on my knees" | Bless you my child for you have sinned. Now please, sin again and again and again. | | | I'm a sinner too Mrs. P...I will get my licks in, with your blessing of course!
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naughtymissxena
14 years ago
Quoting 'SaveFerris73'I'm reminded of that Monty Python song...Isn't it awfully nice to have a penis?Isn't it frightfully good to have a dong?It's swell to have a stiffy.It's divine to own a dick.From the tiniest little tadgerTo the world's biggest prick.So, three cheers for your Willy or John Thomas.Hooray for your one-eyed trouser snake,Your piece of pork, your wife's best friend,Your Percy, or your cock.You can wrap it up in ribbons,You can slip it in your sock.But don't take it out in public,Or they will stick you in the dock,And you won't come back.Perhaps a rewrite should be "But don't put it on your profile pic, for the women don't want the shock"? :PHell no, i want to know what i will be riding. All too often men say they have an seven to eight incher which is nice and thick, yum, but when they arrive its a pencil. There is more to sex than size but god damn when i feel like a big one, am told its a big one and then in reality its a tiny wee fella i want to shed a tear. So to all you exhibitionists out there flash away and know i will be looking, lol.
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RHP User
14 years ago
mine's pretty and it comes out to accentuate when conversation goes downhill :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'naughtymissxena'Hell no, i want to know what i will be riding. All too often men say they have an seven to eight incher which is nice and thick, yum, but when they arrive its a pencil. There is more to sex than size but god damn when i feel like a big one, am told its a big one and then in reality its a tiny wee fella i want to shed a tear. So to all you exhibitionists out there flash away and know i will be looking, lol. Which just goes to show it's horses for courses (no pun intended), and there's no one correct answer to the 'to show, or not to show' question.... which is both reassuring and frustrating. LOL.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Although I agree that a cock shot does not get my interest it does say a lot about the guy putting the picture of the cock as his main pic. Probably not the type of guy I would like to meet, there is a lot to be said about anticipation and I fall into the meet first play later mindset. That said not all of us gals are after the same and some as already indicated love to see a cock shot. So keep putting them up there as it makes it a whole lot easier for me to weed out the crap :-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I agree, there are so many cock shots out there sometimes the normal man can't compete!!!! So I went for something a little different, now I could turn around a little if you like, leave a little to your imagination!! LOL
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RHP User
14 years ago
seriously - the cock shot is incredibly gauche and shows lack of imagination, lack of taste, and so often is accompanied by a very boring, utterly vacuous profile. Do women post clit shots? No face or body attached to the clit - just a clit close up???? NO. Because there is no appeal in an inanimate picture of genitalia, out of context and unattached to the person who owns it. I don't respond to guys who post cock. I'd like to post their link on a gay website though and inundate them with cock shots. See how they like it themselves.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ninjaxxx' seriously - the cock shot is incredibly gauche and shows lack of imagination, lack of taste, and so often is accompanied by a very boring, utterly vacuous profile. Do women post clit shots? No face or body attached to the clit - just a clit close up???? NO. Because there is no appeal in an inanimate picture of genitalia, out of context and unattached to the person who owns it. I don't respond to guys who post cock. I'd like to post their link on a gay website though and inundate them with cock shots. See how they like it themselves. Sorry Ninja but yes they do! I have seen a few of them.....do people looking at couples pics have the same issue if the main pic is of the couple engaged in sex....cock penetrating pussy???? The cock shot might show lack of imagination to some but it definately works my imagination... . MissXena - you and me both hun but dont worry we arent alone in the pervert stakes.... . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
14 years ago
It doesnt have to be on the first pic but i do i do perve i like to see them oh bty i like em big but I hate it when the photos has cum in it.....ok so you cum but thats the end and its not hot guys those are the ones i pass on
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's simple, just apply the 80/20 rule - majority of men, perhaps around 80% just want to f&#k and are showing the tool they plan to do it with. The 20% remaining know that women will not want "just sex" without a meaningful foreplay... so they put better pics up... With female members the ratio is in reverse, perhaps 20% would want to perve on the cock pics, and the remaining 80% are bagging them out of their minds... What that means is that 20% of men have much better chances to get laid even though pretty much 100% of men want to do just that :-) Yes, it's a funny world we live in...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Most chicks like big dicks, and remember guys think logically...Chicks like big dick = show chick I have big dickThen girls come on here and say they don't wanna see a cock-shot, and guys are thinking...... WTF that makes no sense?!?!?!
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RHP User
14 years ago
What makes less sense is when they then ask to see one.HugsS Quoting 'Maverick83x' Most chicks like big dicks, and remember guys think logically...Chicks like big dick = show chick I have big dickThen girls come on here and say they don't wanna see a cock-shot, and guys are thinking...... WTF that makes no sense?!?!?!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Stalky and Maverick - WTF?? Stalky a girl will ask for a cock shot if she likes you. What is so weird about that?. Hint hint, I am still waiting for mine. Maverick... guys think logically? Since when? hehehe Jokes aside, women like big brains, big eyes, big wallets, big hearts, a big personality, big hands, .... you see where I am going with this. So the question still is, why do men go for the cock shot straight away. Girls may like big dicks but as you can see from a lot of the responses, they only like them when they are attached to a man she finds attractive. Stalky seriously...... how many times do I have to ask? What's a girl have to do for you?xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
The cock shot as the main pic is offputting. Save it for the PG guys!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Before I joined this site, I was on a couple of tame dating sites and it never ceased to amaze me the urgency many men attached to sending me a cock shot. Within six weeks I had sufficient cock shots to publish a coffee table book entitled the many penises of .... I had never met any of the men, or their cocks in person. I may want the cock, I definately like the feel of the cock, nut I don't want a pic sent to my email or phone unless I ask for it.Guys, men, dudes, leave your cock in your pants until we ask you to take it out.
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RHP User
14 years ago
honestly? i dont even think ANY of my pictures get me anywhere...but i just keep trying and sending the messages wanting to see where the possible conversations will take me...guess it works if people have them on their profiles...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm not a great fan of the full-frontal, phallic photos. Although, it must be popular here as it seems to be a quasi qualifier for a lot of the female member's profiles I've read. I think I've lost count of the number of female profiles that include wording along the lines of "no cock shots please." But is the whole dick photo about anonymity or is it about insecurity? I guess not everyone is prepared to post their facial photos for the world to see. But I really can't see how putting your junk out, (instead of a recent image of your face) is going to appeal to the opposite sex, unless their equally insecure or one-tracked. I'm no dating guru but in my experience it's not something I've heard a lot of during introductions, like "hi can I take a look at your cock before we continue?" If I did, I think I'd be a little concerned that person was under the pretence that I was simply a life-support system for a cock.Sure there's a saying that "guys only need a place, while girls need a reason." I'd argue that despite one being from Mars and the other from Venus, we still share the same solar system and do in fact have a few things in common beyond appendages. Not all males are about how big their V8's are and equally prepared to dig a little deeper to know the person their having a banter with. Sure a well taken photo might demonstrate creativity (paraphrasing Irresponsiblity) but unless your Robert Mapplethorp and it's going to be hung in their sprooky NY apartment for their arty friends to see... I'd argue it's just another lame-ass cock shot from another lame-ass, narrow-minded member with just one thing on their mind. Sorry, but without digressing I don't believe dick + vagina = great sex. I think posting a dick shot suggests a pretty simple mind... which is about as dull as dull can be. Surely a profile that exemplifies a smart, funny, healthy, independent and naturally sexy member over some physically fixated fool?Ok, I'll step off my soap box now.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Guys prefer tits or pussy shots but us women want to see the guy we are chatting to? I know from experience that guys want to see my tits but I want to see their faces ......not their cocks !!! So is that a good compromise ???
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Angel_dreams' Guys prefer tits or pussy shots but us women want to see the guy we are chatting to? I know from experience that guys want to see my tits but I want to see their faces ......not their cocks !!! So is that a good compromise ???not all...please show me a half dressed woman ..... a hint of sexy lingerie ...... moist lips .....thr curve of her back .....much sexier than a pussy shot ...... or breasts ....... some of us have seen all too much of that already.............
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RHP User
14 years ago
Like I said before the reason I do is for the anonymity, I'm really open in my profile and I say stuff I'd never say to anyone other than a few close friends, I don't want my head up on there for my family, workmates etc to see, so I got to pick something else. Some guys their best asset is their face, some their torso, some their height, but some guys their best asset is their cock, and naturally everyone wants to show off their best asset.And despite all the stuff said on here I'm convinced some women really are drawn to full frontal nudity, otherwise male strippers wouldn't have an income. I've done just fine on this site.
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