M58 F55
Why is with some people !!??
June 08 2019
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RHP User
7 years ago
Happens all the time we spent a little over 10 thousand dollars last year in travel costs an hotel rooms for no shows
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RHP User
7 years ago
Agreed. Anyone that passes up an opportunity like that is missing something somewhere
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Moore3960
7 years ago
Yep... Happened to us a few times now in similar circumstances. So disappointing.
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newyboy70
7 years ago
Welcome to Hotwifing. We had this happen, cost us about $600. Never again. We ask for PICS straight up with no swaps. If they are hesitant we walk. The serious ones (2 only) will oblige.
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Seachange73
7 years ago
10k on no shows? I can just dream the number of fancy shoes I could have for that. Was this all on one go? If not, would you not have thought it wasn't a good thing to invest on travel and accommodation costs for first meet with a stranger the next time around? For me, i only need a single no show to make me think twice about financially extending myself for another meet with a chance of a no show. Once bitten, twice shy...
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think a lot of guys like to do the talk but are unable to walk the walk. A lot of men (married or in relationships) like the idea of meeting others but when it comes to the crunch they bottle it. How do you weed out the genuine ones.....i’m afraid I can’t answer that.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes Sea change.. Once bitten.. 😳😳😳
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RHP User
7 years ago
Utter petulance! Not reserved to just the men I’m afraid. Must have been a torrid evening. I am certain a more adequate and suitably skilled play date is just around the bend. Enjoy.
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RHP User
7 years ago
10k. Thats some hefty sum
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RHP User
7 years ago
And it happens all the time. I’d suggest you review your screening process because at 20 k you can’t blame them anymore.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi island Yes very common for us too. We have not forgone any of our hard earned fir this as we are happy to host. We have chatted to you in the past and unfortunately the planets have not aligned for either of us to meet up yet. Hopefully one day. We have found you to be a very decent respectable couple true to your word. When we have messaged we have always got a message back. To have this happen to you at least without any reason for not showing up is disrespectful to such a wonderfull couple. We support your brave decision to bring this up in the chat and as you have found many others share your disappointment. We hope that we can all meet in the near future.
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random51
7 years ago
It’s not really a rant just chatting about lack of manners it’s hard to find sitters call in favours to be let down even if where just to meet fo a coffe
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RHP User
7 years ago
Wish I lived in bribie as I would not be a “no show” Happened to me once and so would never do it to someone else as it’s not a great feeling at all
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RHP User
7 years ago
Similar situation happened with me last night. Persistent guy always asking to meet up I finally arrange to get some alone time he says he’s 10mins away and 3 hours later nothing. I’ve now blocked him on everything... time wasters are the worst!!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Manners and Politness are missing in this day and age. With the technology we have these days, not hard to say can’t make it.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Similar thing has happened to me. I've spoken to women, organised a meet, they seem keep, then they either don't confirm, or just outright leave it till the last second to cancel, while I'm already on my way to the meet. Some people (men or women) forget that being polite and considerate goes a long way, even in today's society
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well I certainly wouldnt have pulled the "no show" on you,Id have turned up,rip shit or bust.Quite frankly,I think the dude is as weak as piss.👎
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newyboy70
7 years ago
The last time, we waited till we saw him in person. Then we went together and rented the hotel suite.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes I know that felling, I would let you down, hope you have some one that appreciated you, and what you are offering, best wishes
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RHP User
7 years ago
Lots of views here, very sorry that you guys were left wanting - must have been some sort of end of the world crazy to keep him away? Has the no show made good or has performance anxiety taken hold??? And one bad apple doesn’t spoil the barrell
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RHP User
7 years ago
Looking at your profile, its definitely his lost.. WOW 😋😘
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RHP User
7 years ago
It's there loss. Whatever the reason you should have been notified they changed their mind.. It would have been polite
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RHP User
7 years ago
Not turning up is a message. Goose Ganders black pots and all that jazz
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sexuallover
7 years ago
Well just to say, if he cancelled on you without notice What a ??? you fill in the blanks Better still he wasn't worth the effortpoliteness goes a long way Missing from younger generation
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RHP User
7 years ago
For too many people on here this lifestyle remains a sad fantasy
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RHP User
7 years ago
He may have changed his mind or just got scared.... who knows. We all have the right to change our mind, but should also have the maturity and decency to own that change of mind/situation. I get the disappointment though... have faced that myself a couple of times. But if you've outlaid the money (yes it was your choice to do so) that makes it all the more disappointing.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes this has now happened to me and my hubby 4 times. So over time wasters
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RHP User
7 years ago
How rude, I wonder if you’d accepted his offer to pay for the room, if he would have turned up ? Very disappointing, a huge part of the fun in this lifestyle (for me) is the anticipation a few days before hand & more when the play time is just hours away. The excitement and nervous energy, just love that feeling, receiving a text to say they weren’t coming would have been disappointing, to do nothing is just poor from & rude
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casanovastudd
7 years ago
Sometimes you just need a plan B or even a C especially meeting someone for the first time.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I don't understand why people defend time wasters. I've had quite a few who quite happily chat for days, sometimes weeks and when it comes to meeting up they ghost you and don't give any reason. I did get one last weekend after not hearing all day if we were still meeting. I sent a message a few hours earlier to see if the meet was still happening. No reply until we were supposed to meet and then it was, "I've been asleep all day, not going to make it at 5". To that I asked if we were still meeting and his reply was"nah, I feel like shit". No apology or anything. If you change your mind, fine but let people know in advance. We are allowed to rant. I have limited spare time and don't have it to waste. It really does leave you jaded at times.
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RHP User
7 years ago
If that happens again to you please contact me , I’d fly nth to play with such a gorgeous girl 🌊😜
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RHP User
7 years ago
Who cares...your fucking hot as fuck...don't give him a second thought....his loss ,someone else's gain....onwards n upwards life's too short...xo
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Cunnilingenius
7 years ago
Every right to be annoyed. What a coward.
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Cunnilingenius
7 years ago
Another all talk no walk
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RHP User
7 years ago
I totally agree especially when you have booked a room..... he probably offered to pay knowing full well that you would probably organise it and pay. If they can chat initially then it wouldn’t have killed them to take five minutes out to say he wasn’t gonna make it!!
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RHP User
7 years ago
That’s really annoying & to not show any decency of letting u know, knowing ur both fully committed is absolutely crap. He probably got cold feet & is really shy when it comes to the crunch. People like that shouldn’t be on these types of site
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RHP User
7 years ago
Definitely poor form for sure! 😏
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youandus33
6 years ago
rude , we would like to be able to see your profile , lol
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RHP User
6 years ago
No one owes anyone anything on here. We all take the chance and it can go pear shaped. I got ganged up on last weekend by a couple telling me I’m a guy impersonating a girl....was so offended....should have realised where I was posting.....it’s rhp not the New York Times...and shit happens....block is my friend for people who don’t get where I’m coming from....definitely a girl....
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RHP User
6 years ago
Macca33 It’s only happened to me once ! It’s really just another form of lying I detest liars The karma bus gets them eventually I’m much more careful of people now It’s terrible that one bad experience can spoil it for others
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