RHP

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What's with ...?

October 26 2012

Guys messaging asking to take a girl out, when all they've seen is a pic of half her bum and some cleavage? Are they desperate? Are they pretending to want to take her out for dinner/a drink but really hope she'll just write back and say 'let's f**k'? Are they just saying whatever they can think of to get her attention on here? Why would a guy want to take a girl out, or f**k her for that matter, when he hasn't even seen her face?! I'm thoroughly confuzzled - what am I missing here, guys?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Couldn't agree more with Mischeviouslad first post on this topic     Guys man up..... it's wot most women like , a man to be a man !!!!     Well said Mischeviouslad

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'missopenminded' Well I would think that is most guys intention they dont actually care as long as they can see u got a nice bum or boobs they will go in for the kill :p Well I would think that is most girls intention they dont actually care as long as they can see u got a nice cock or six-pack they will go in for the kill

  • captainkaos

    captainkaos

    13 years ago

    You ladies are always the ones that say that it doesn't matter what you look like as long as you have a nice personality....or a sense of humour......or are kind hearted. Now that someone has asked you out not judging you on your looks you are complaining. lol.   Personally, I hate the constant emails back and forth and you cant judge a person properly by emails.....I also get a bit bored by it all. I like to get to know someone in person over a drink or dinner. Saying that, I never ask someone out with my first message either..........   P.S. This topic/post is currently 6 pages long and I only read the first and last page. Sorry if i have repeated what everyone else has said. I just had to put in my 2 cents worth. lol.

  • Playful2looking

    Playful2looking

    13 years ago

    Ok guys dont ask any of the girls out that only show their bums or tits. Oh for god's sake wake up its a dating site. its more then just wanting to fuck you unless you are a real shocker then its just a quick leg over and run like hell. You cant just send endless messages back and forth for ever you are going to have to meet eventually. The guys just want to sort through the process a little quicker, cut to the chase because some girls can string it out for ages; because why maybe they are shy, or have commit issues or maybe; they dont want to meet just need their ego boosted.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'For some men, me included, life's got more to offer than an orgasm. He may only see half your arse, a bit of boob, but he may see the tone in your profile. He may see the intellect you possess through posts here, or he just may WANT to see the you, if you give him half the chance. Just my thoughts.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    DeviousMissM   Very interesting comment you made   Seeing how I have neva meet you or exchanged any manner of communication with you I can only guess thats this has come from you have some kind of contact with my VERY angery VERY controling VERY confused ex, so say hi to him for me !!!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    i think it's nice that they are offering to take you out and not just asking for a fuck or more pictures of your "kitty" . Enjoy it while it lasts and if they are polite take it as a compliment. If you meet a guy out at a club or pub he is hardly going to ask you for dinner , its a drunken fuck and a seedy taxi ride home for most. It's good to know guys still have some gentlemenly old fashion traits and still ask girls out .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'whitelilly60' DeviousMissM   Very interesting comment you made   Seeing how I have neva meet you or exchanged any manner of communication with you I can only guess thats this has come from you have some kind of contact with my VERY angery VERY controling VERY confused ex, so say hi to him for me !!!!!!!     Hi lovely lady, I never made a comment about you. Im assuming your ex is anythingforthegirls or something? He called you a dirty slut on here. I did comment on that, asking how the hell the mods let that comment through. Then I reported him, and the comments (there was another on a different thread) were removed quickly. I'd never bag a woman in public. Now, the men here are a different story... Hug!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Please check your email.

  • Hanna_ybbn

    Hanna_ybbn

    13 years ago

    DeviousMissMI back you 100% on that.I saw 2 comments made by the person you mentioned and was actually GOBSMACKED that it ever made it to the forum to be honest.The mind boggles....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    DeviousMissM     I did jump the gun and take from what I read that it was you making the statement! I was wrong! I did find out later that "oneforthegirls" is my insufferable EX !!!!!!!!   Thank you for for email and your comments and reporting him, he of course deleted that profile as would then have to say in his profile that he carried the same aliments that he claims I have!!!!   Just a cheap shot on his behalf !!!!   cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    DG - well put Sir, indeed :) A man asking an ass out to dinner is just as tempting as the guy who asks for my panties to be sent half way across the country - without even engaging in any conversation...Now Im not suggesting the extreme flip-side that says "hey, lets fuck"..... but please.... guys.... women are designed to be receptive to masculinity.... so man the fuck UP and communicate LIKE a Man!!!DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    A hug for WhiteLilly and Hanna. A smile and a wink for DG. And for the rest of you: Man the fuck UP!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Oh I dont know..I had a delightfully romantic dinner with half a bum and some cleavage last night. In fact we got along so well that next time we meet the entire bum has decided to come along!So things are looking up. All I have to do now is to coax my head away from the television and convince it to put in an appearance next time as well

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I can't believe the number of women and men on this who are actually looking for their soulmate and/or "normal relationship". Wtf? If that's what I wanted I'd have a profile on rsvp or eharmony!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'bigbadboy63' I can't believe the number of women and men on this who are actually looking for their soulmate and/or "normal relationship". Wtf? If that's what I wanted I'd have a profile on rsvp or eharmony! I think you'll find the gushy romantic profiles are 99% Fakes/scams

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting '50zcool' Quoting 'bigbadboy63' I can't believe the number of women and men on this who are actually looking for their soulmate and/or "normal relationship". Wtf? If that's what I wanted I'd have a profile on rsvp or eharmony! I think you'll find the gushy romantic profiles are 99% Fakes/scams RSVP, Eharmony, Plenty of Fish, Oasis.... they're all the same as here! RHP is at least more open to what the site is about but i've talked to alot of guys on all the other sites who open with 'wanna fuck', 'show us your tits' etc ....   Brave_heart doesnt mention soul mates or 'normal relationship', she's questioning - as i do too - why you would ask someone out when you havent seen their face... pretty simple really! Some us like to see whether there is an attraction or something there otherwise it can be a waste of my time and his.   Those lacking class are everywhere!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'bigbadboy63' I can't believe the number of women and men on this who are actually looking for their soulmate and/or "normal relationship". Wtf? If that's what I wanted I'd have a profile on rsvp or eharmony!How do we all know that you haven't .got a profile elsewhere .. . you could easily be playing a multilayer street just like a fair few here are .. People can look for what they want, where they want.. wither they find it is another thing.. each to their own ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    oh shock fucking horror..so you get asked out with out knowing someone.big deal,,are people here to make new friends or just lead people on..the last five people ive chatted to over time when asked out to meet, all gave the same answer that being ..oh im not in perth at the moment ..what the fuck is that bushit..of coarse if you just put up picture of tits, arse or pussy ,no doubt ,,you''ll just get message of how you would be a good fuck..there are few on here ive chatted to and know where i coming from in saying this..im at point now i over the bullshit and lies dished out by people.id prefer to meet straight up,no expectation..you can have a nice time with a stranger, meeting for the first time as much a being with someone you've known for while..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Guys will fuck anything.. That's why. Doesn't matter how pretty or rude her mug is.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'punk77'Guys will fuck anything.. That's why. Doesn't matter how pretty or rude her mug is. The guys didn't ask to fuck me. The asked to take me out for dinner - without knowing what I looked like.   Yes, they probably hoped for a fuck, but paying for dinner with a woman whose face you've never seen, and who you haven't even raised the idea of fucking with just_seems_stupid!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I just read your profile Brave__heart, and the only thing unreasonable about asking you out, is that it's in the first email:-) I don't worry about pics too much, as I've found that often the profiles with all the sexy pics tend to be a little light on the literary content.I'd prefer to have dinner with your "written" profile than a bimbo! That aside, much like the real world, the opening line shouldn't be "let's go out to dinner" as much as it shouldn't be "let's fuck"... although on the odd occasion that has worked;-)PS: the first girl I dated I met on the phone (not a phone dating site) and we liked the sound of each other's voice...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    you have guys asking you out to dinner, and not based on your looks (hopefully) but on the content of your profile.And the problem is ?You should be so lucky !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Just a guess but maybe that's their best feature and many women want all the attention they can get and if they got none at all then what ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I personally hate internet introductions. It is very arrogant to pretend to know what someone is like from a "chat" or "message" It is very impersonal and quite often misleading. As for your photos I believe they are you but who is to say they aren't pics of your best friend's boobs or bum? I offer dinner/coffee as a first meet because its a great way to see if you click with the person- as opposed to how developed their literacy skills are...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We spend so much time searching for company but because us men have to compete with thousands of idiotic men that have one finger typing and the other hand stroking something else, it just makes it hard.   genuine guys like myself, you just appreciate a person for the personality and not just the physical.   Having said that. we all have an animalistic attraction to physical features in the profile pics.   I melt when i see curvy women and especially curvy women in corsetry.   By typing the wrong sentence or sending the wrong impression is easy over the computer.   You never know how an attraction to someone will workout until you feel their physical presense beside you.   I look forward to reading other people thoughts

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