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What Is The One Thing That Irks You?

September 13 2014

Mine is Men who are attached but list themselves as Single! The first thing I look at is their status, if they do not have single stated on there or I do not go further then their initial contact. But I've now had quite a few guys who have messaged, I've looked, seen single so I start talking.... they've given me their number... then start to organise something and I get 'oh by the way, I have a partner' or todays one: 'Do you mind if my wife joins in' I'm sorry your what!? At least be honest about it straight away... one thing I don't like is someone sneaky and misleading. And when I tell them honestly that I'm annoyed they weren't upfront about it 'oh my wife made the profile for me'..... So whats the one thing that irks you? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    People who are so despicable that they use forum posts to harm another in real life...and they do this anonymously...shame,shame on you Q

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Calling yourself a black kettle Foxy?...if so I am not sure why Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Been on here for 6 months and not 1 message. My profile is straight up and honest and plenty of female profiles are looking for the same thing but not one bite. What do I need to do to even talk with someone!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Then you can contact whomever you like....no guarantee though xxQ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Is that why you're not smiling in any of your pics?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Know how ya' feel man, it's worse when ya' 51, I can tell ya'. I have trouble smilin' for pic's too. Cheers Paul.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'JerseyGirl' Is that why you're not smiling in any of your pics? Horny, you don't look very friendly in your pics I think, which might be one of your problems with attracting women here. If you had some pics of you smiling you might have more luck. Quoting 'Horny_1985'My profile is straight up and honest and plenty of female profiles are looking for the same thing Well, you say you are looking for: "Looking to meet anyone that's up for some fun." Of course there are plenty of women looking for the same thing, I would even say 99% of us are.I think you need to expand and be much more specific about what you are looking for. Right now it sounds to me like you don't really care about who you meet, which for me doesn't really do it. Good luck!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    AND then I look at their profile only to find they want someone unattached!Why do we bother ticking the boxes if we're wasting our time...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sorry dude, hate to tell you this but women don't have to look. We wait for men to approach us even though your offer of a one night stand is very tempting. :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Take notice of everything that the Four Ladies (Q, JG, Story, Meeka) have said. I've been on this site for a long time and they speak the truth. Pay for a membership so YOU can contact Ladies, Smile in your pics, The Gangsta look is for teens. Don't say "So if your (you're) looking for a night of mind blowing pleasure please message me". The only "blowing pleasure" you'll get from that statement is when you do it to yourself.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If have to say the biggest disappointment I had today was watching the wallabies get beaten by South Africa. 😝😝😝 On a serious note though, I dislike the number of fake profiles there are ATM. Literally random no pic profiles of 20 something girls with no profile content, winking at me from various states around the country. Clearly hackers or spam or opportunist weirdos. Does anyone know who I can report them to? As it's just annoying really.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    People that call me lady. Kidding, but can we be the Four Floozies instead?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I was brought up that all Women are Ladies and deserve to be treated as Ladies, unless they act otherwise. So, Four Floozies? No. But, one of you is definitely A Lady.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Well said COCKSUCKERS 😎

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    And a cranky old pole cat in a pear tree... just thinking of a Xmas carol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I get sick of the Hi I'm in town for the night want to met WTF .. No !!! Get to chat to me first send a nice message and after a while mention your staying , guys think this is a whore house it's not for me .. Yes I do block guys that I say no too then they view me all day and it's creepy then send flirts all day blocked !! What makes me happy is knowing there is genuine guys out there I can name one that's very special and keeps in contact !! I like RHP for the forums and the events that are coming up more than the pick up side of things that's what keeps me on here oh and while I'm on a role the grey ghosts that are to lazy to put some sort of pic up you won't have any luck at all !!! Have a great Monday everyone .. Erin

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Chat_Meet_Touch'Women are Ladies and deserve to be treated as Ladies, unless they act otherwise. Unless they act otherwise... I rest my case.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Waking up at 06:00 on a rare day when I could actually sleep in irks me no end!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes nothing worse, I usually get up btwn 3 & 4am on weekdays, so I find a few "liquid" sleeping tablets on Friday night helps break the cycle. Just checked out your pic's, your awesome "bum" shots get my votes. Cheers Paul.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Jester7' Well said COCKSUCKERS 😎 When someone refers to a post without quoting it and I have to scroll through 6 pages to find it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Two French...well European..hens and one ol 'chook -) xxQ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Chat_Meet_Touch' I was brought up that all Women are Ladies and deserve to be treated as Ladies, unless they act otherwise. Makes me wonder what we ladies do that gets our 'lady card' taken away from us?? Chewing with our mouths open? Hating chick flicks / romantic drivel and liking horror? Getting sweaty and dirty? Swearing? On second thoughts....I really don't care and my behaviour isn't going to be affected by the silly and outdated notion that I'm 'supposed' to act a certain way because of my gender More on topic, my irk of the day is guys who think that a pic of their floppy dick is attractive / a turn on.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    Ladies do not fart?? Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Those who do not read profiles and do not know what NO means

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    When ladies don't even give you and honest answer, or don't repel to messages or flirts, when you have taken the time to write them a message or read though there WHOLE profile and don't even have the decency to write back or just a simple yes or no... Seriously it can't be that hard!!! What's the point in having flirts if you don't read them or pay attention to them?? It's what it's called... A flirt! Not being a creep or a stalker it's just say hi, I'm interested... I no I'll prob get blown up at for saying it but it's what every guy is thinking... Just asking for a min of your time or at least some consideration. If it's that hard then why are you on here????

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Profiles that state "no time wasters!". I'm sorry if you think chatting to me is a waste of your precious time. God forbid we actually have more than a "where and when?" conversation. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    This a sex site, don't you know? Oh wait, people who say that really irk me. *Goes off to flog herself*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Reading profiles and seeing over-used phrases "I am open minded" or "I will push your boundaries" or "You wont be disappointed". Almost every profile says it and its an instant turn off for me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Gee_8' When ladies don't even give you and honest answer, or don't repel to messages or flirts, when you have taken the time to write them a message or read though there WHOLE profile and don't even have the decency to write back or just a simple yes or no... Seriously it can't be that hard!!! What's the point in having flirts if you don't read them or pay attention to them?? It's what it's called... A flirt! Not being a creep or a stalker it's just say hi, I'm interested... I no I'll prob get blown up at for saying it but it's what every guy is thinking... Just asking for a min of your time or at least some consideration. If it's that hard then why are you on here???? Please do not flirt me, especially when I was a guest member. you know what happened? five thousand blind men sent a flirt

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Gee_8' When ladies don't even give you and honest answer, or don't repel to messages or flirts, when you have taken the time to write them a message or read though there WHOLE profile and don't even have the decency to write back or just a simple yes or no... Seriously it can't be that hard!!! What's the point in having flirts if you don't read them or pay attention to them?? It's what it's called... A flirt! Not being a creep or a stalker it's just say hi, I'm interested... I no I'll prob get blown up at for saying it but it's what every guy is thinking... Just asking for a min of your time or at least some consideration. If it's that hard then why are you on here???? why is anyone on here, because the get what they want out of it. some are just into the forums, never meet people but like to post or read the posts. some are dudes, who are pretending to be women, or part of a couple when they are really part of the right hand brigade or left depending on your mood, or if you broke your wrist from looking at mahhh pictures some are into couples, so that cuts out some for you, some are into older guys, younger guys, men with blonde hair , guys with abs, guys with a beer gut. Blue eyes, brown eyes , or one of each. the range is so huge that you could never figure out why people are here I am here as I have a theory that fat old chicks like me can get laid. Still working on my sample group seems I need a lot more research , tough job but someone has to do it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'JerseyGirl' Profiles that state "no time wasters!". I'm sorry if you think chatting to me is a waste of your precious time. God forbid we actually have more than a "where and when?" conversation. - Posted from rhpmobile where, the nearest football field, when is when there is nothing on the telly and the urge is just comes out of the blue. I am a class act a time waster according to the RHP , dick on ary is anyone that says NO

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Gee_8' When ladies don't even give you and honest answer, or don't repel to messages or flirts, when you have taken the time to write them a message or read though there WHOLE profile and don't even have the decency to write back or just a simple yes or no... Seriously it can't be that hard!!! What's the point in having flirts if you don't read them or pay attention to them?? It's what it's called... A flirt! Not being a creep or a stalker it's just say hi, I'm interested... I no I'll prob get blown up at for saying it but it's what every guy is thinking... Just asking for a min of your time or at least some consideration. If it's that hard then why are you on here???? The idea that anyone is obliged to respond, or that not responding is rude, or that being a member gives you the right to be treated a certain way, irks me. For everyone worried about what they deserve or what they have a right to receive, give some thought to true human rights issues across the globe, and get some perspective ;) Meanwhile (and yes I've been banging this drum for years) when a woman commonly gets 30-50 messages a day and countless more flirts, she'd have to give up an hour or two each day just to read, check profiles, respond, yada yada. It's nuts to expect women to do that. Let alone the fact that it's nuts to expect people to act the way YOU want them to act. So yeah, that kind of thing irks me :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    meander sorry - I selected the QUOTE but it didn't work? the tried to fix? Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Jester7' Well said COCKSUCKERS 😎 When someone refers to a post without quoting it and I have to scroll through 6 pages to find it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Finally !! One of the most REAL and Factual comments on this site !, Well said COCKSUCKERS 😎 Quoting 'Cock_Suckers' That say no single guys !! What's the difference between a married cock and a single one !! Please explain ! Lol Cock is cock !! Xxmrs cs - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Having the courtesy to cancel a date for very good reason with plenty of time for them to arrange something else and being accused of having found a " better offer " wth?? Heavy sigh 🙈 luckily this was a one off but it irked me irked me irked me ..moving on ....💃

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Year becomes Yeats... man becomes MNS..and so on...derived me nuts :-) ....see was supposed to be drives!...double grrr xxQ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    A lot of people don't like receiving flirts here as they take no effort. When I take the effort to write a message (not just - nice tits!) to a lady or couple whose profile says we match so to speak, only to get no response.....common courtesy would deem some response even to say no thanks!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Some would say having no photos on your profile shows no effort. I know it's one thing that irks me!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm hearin' ya' man, we are on the lower end of the scale here, but you're only 40yrs old, so you are in with a chance. Common decency on here is rare, we out No the ladies 100 to 1. I sent a nice msg to a lady that had a clear shot of her anus/vagina as her profile pic, age was open, so I msg'd her nicely offering to 'quench her desires", I quick view and I'm "blocked". A lot of ppl on here "talk the talk", but shit their pants, when you offer suggestions, I'm single, very open, honest etc about what I seek, I don't contact ladies that seek LTR, as I'm strictly FWB, but with all the "trimmings" atm. I could very easily go "open to a relationship", chat em' up, pant's em' twice, block em' on my profile and mobile after that and walk away. I don't do that, anybody I meet on here, I want to have fun with and be able to still have a coffee with in 5yrs, or chat if we meet publicly. Keep choppin' away man, you will meet some nice ppl on here, I've been blocked in the past, accidently checked them out 3mths later, and found out I've been "unblocked". Perhaps I'm not so "full of shit" in the end. Nice profile pic's are a must, be patient and be yourself. Things will work out in the end. Cheers P.L.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    a married cock and a single cock,is the preference of the person you are sticking it in xxQ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    mr here. that's soo true.. I see that a lot at work too ( i'm a concreter ).young blokes half my age,, with all the muscles and tattoos and shit get a start with us .. can see in the way they move that they are trying their best to keep up with th old fella but fuck they knock up quick..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    What irks me is obese drunk old men who think it is fun to harass younger folk because they are stupid assholes. I saw it at the casino recently and these old bastards were just relentless to the dealers (Multiple) then they start to get angry when I speak my mind to them....everyone of them offer to punch you but don't ever bother to get off their fat lazy ass's to do so. All show and no go! I will back you up every time girls and put these pigs in their place. Show some respect! If you can't see your balls when you look down stop drinking and start running.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Oh dear, Dimeshreds lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    People who have no table manners, especially those who can't use cutlery correctly and/ or talk or smack their lips when they eat, closely followed by those who slurp their drinks! Ok not RHP related but it makes my skin crawl. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If the above mentioned person,or indeed persons,are pulchritudinous in the extreme,please refer them to The Miss.Manners Academy for the Re-education of Mannerless Oafs....no restraint will be used...unless they are very recalcitrant.... at the end of our extensive programs you will be able to take the subject anywhere...they will be whipped into shape as per your instructions ....even to dine with Liz and Phil ,sans your embarrassment.....yours truly Q.Manners xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Right now it's people who won't accept 'no' for an answer. I've been polite and responded to messages explaining that they don't meet what I'm looking for (and what I'm looking for is very clear in my profile!!), but it seems that's not enough for some people. Grrr! Rant over for today, now going to enjoy a beautiful Saturday :) Elle xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'd agree with OP, men lying about their relationship status. This is separate from their relationship status. Ie The deceit. Also profiles that is just tick boxed from the default options. Cock pictures as profile pics. People who harangue after a "Thanks, but no thanks" message.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    When someone is thinking maybe he might be able to meet me as the saying goes you snooze you lose !! I'm busy for the next couple of weeks with kids social commitments - Posted from rhpmobile

  • LusteeKaoz

    LusteeKaoz

    11 years ago

    Cyber Invasion. This would have to be my top irk...... Whether via message or if your in chat in a 'whisper' yeah right they are private - not.... is what I term 'Cyber Invasion' Now, some of these guys really, wow, they can write and should give up the day job for a literary career.But this to me, especially when uninvited is just not on. I mean hello all you budding erotic novelists, would you actually walk up to any woman or man in the street and just go all hands on, would not be long before your were arrested if you did it that way. So is there a difference when you put it in writing without an invite. Hey, if we establish a connection and its mutual down the track then yes go forth and put your prose together. I do have to add a second HAIR...... Facial Hair, omfg no I cant cant cant abide it. But this is just me, others may find it a totally different aspect. This ties into body hair and genital hair, dont say you dont have or only a little when your pelted enough to be a silverback, and if you expect women to wax or manicure expect they want the same. Think will leave it there. lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    "youse"/"you's"/"yous" I don't mind it if I'm going to "use" something, or I'm referring to multiple female sheep - but when people use "youse" to refer to several people. I am usually unsurprised when they then "aks" them a question. (this irks me even more when it is written down) Also "H" as "haitch" rather than "aitch"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    guys that try to tell the same lies and bs that you have been hearing since puberty and expecting you you actually believe it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    To us it is not the cock but the fact that we like to play together and to my man a cock in his face not so much of an interest for me well I like to see us both having fun. Maybe one day but right now no single guys and that is my peeve. It the profile says No single guys, it means no single guys and yes we mean it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'sples2'It the profile says No single guys, it means no single guys and yes we mean it. It would be great if couples would stop trying to get me to meet. My profile says no couples, and yes I mean it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I flew up to site last night for an 11 day horror swing that includes two weekends :/. What's irking me now though is the fact that I forgot to pack my beautiful, brand new, water proof, big head vibe! Faark! Much love, Elle xx

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