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Venting
January 28 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' Is it paid female members only then? Any other women here who see "Remove profile" right underneath "Change phone number" on the Manage Account/Profile page? But I cannot see a remove profile tab on that page, specifically directly underneath the 'change phone number'. I am a paid up female member. ? Peachy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' Since the last big upgrade, now I have a "remove profile" tab in settings. Never had it before. Had to write into customer reports to ask to be deleted before. So silly. Just a sneaky way of keeping profiles on here so it looks very active when new ppl do a search. Men and couples have always had that tab in my experience. I still don't have it. Peachy ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice'Wow, before reading a comment by Peachy I knew women had to ask the mods to have their profile deleted, but wasn't aware that men and couples have a button in their account settings to do just that. I think that is fucked, women should be able to leave too without having to ask permission. It's never changed in my knowledge of nigh on 9 years but it's not like I check all that often, lol. There are quite a few differences between male, female, and couple profile types. Female profile benefits have been tightened up a lot over time. Peachy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes, when I first used the site, 2 and a bit years ago, female guests recieved a free message every week.
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RHP User
10 years ago
At 3am after a big night - not something you normally do as a boring SAHM, only to wake at 6 because your kids haven't woken you up, and realising they are at grandmas. Why can't my body just rest and sleep when it has opportunity!
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Paid up couples have the button. So it seems only paid up women and Tv/TS do not.
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MissBishere
10 years ago
I have no button to remove my profile and I'm a paid member
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' Dont text and walk. Multi tasking isn't that hard is it?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I dug up a little gem to use and just at the point of posting it got nuked...I went to some effort to find this so I'll share it with you here..While you can't control someone's negative behaviour you can control how long you participate in it
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' Yes, when I first used the site, 2 and a bit years ago, female guests recieved a free message every week. From what I've read in the forum, they've tightened that up on several levels Deep. Including things like, having to be verified (I know I needed to be verified to use the chat room when I was a guest last). That is one change I like considering how it was abused by anyone making a fake female profile. Other changes I've read about that have me SMH. The female guest have to be contacting a male profile... and tada... the male has to be a paid up member. I've always resented the imbalance between male and female profiles, this to me, seems to make sure the male is still not getting any benefit of contact unless they're paid up. Peachy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Apparently, a new female, guest profile does not necessarily come with a delete button. And is advised to upgrade to message men, paid up or not. Thanks friend for the help. :-) Peachy
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RHP User
10 years ago
That you cant give another profile a validation unless you are verified. That would cut out people making another profile to get a fake validation.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Apparently not. Even forum regulars have been known to validate people they don't know and brag about it. and It's not like I couldn't get a profile verified to validate another one. It'has been awhile since we saw those sorts of tales in the fora. haha. :-Peachy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Im talking about eg:a male profile who makes a fake female profile to validate himself. Not anything to do with forum activity.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' Im talking about eg:a male profile who makes a fake female profile to validate himself. Not anything to do with forum activity. But it is not that difficult to get a friend to help you out, and I know that from what I have read in the forums. I added the mention of forumites because of the general lack of respect for the meaning of a validation. It's not something to count on. Peachy :-(
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RHP User
10 years ago
ffs in the middle of sexy chat and they pull their profile Hit send and boom, all the messages disappear, gone without a trace I have needs
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RHP User
10 years ago
aaaaagggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh that's better
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm still a fuckin idiot lol when will I learn to stop trusting people. I think I've just been done over. Feeling quite used right now, but that's okay, I have my vay of dealing with vermon dude from yesterday, don't worry, I'm not talking about you
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' Some like validations and some don't, and some find them more useful than others. Where do you get "a general lack of respect for the meaning of a validation" from though? I've not noticed that. You're right Summer, that part was an exaggeration, and it was superfluous to the point I was making as well. Peachy :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Does that happen often?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' I'm still a fuckin idiot lol when will I learn to stop trusting people. I think I've just been done over. Feeling quite used right now, but that's okay, I have my vay of dealing with vermon dude from yesterday, don't worry, I'm not talking about you But you a very sexy one, so vent all you need to and then jump right back in there.. You have lots of supporters and at least one loyal fan here !!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Stirry' Does that happen often?? - Posted from rhpmobile being an idiot you mean? lol far too often
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RHP User
10 years ago
right back atya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sometimes the timing puts a post in a context...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Gee, that sounds like the Game of Thrones tagline! :D Anyway, Winter is encroaching and I am so disappointed that I have no one to keep warm with and cuddle with. Why is it so hard to find a good FWB that one connects with and is physically attracted to, to meet regularly for sex and other activities?!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Cos they're all dentists and so you can't be shown their face :p
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RHP User
10 years ago
about imitation being the sincerest form of flattery...? I received a message from a man, checked out his profile and looked at his validation. As you do I then read the profile of the woman who had written it. Right there in the looking for section was a paragraph stolen word for word from my profile! No references or anything?! Funniest part is she stipulates that she's only interested in people who make an effort, who are quick-witted and intelligent who write inspiring messages. Apparently plagiarism is ok though...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' about imitation being the sincerest form of flattery...? I received a message from a man, checked out his profile and looked at his validation. As you do I then read the profile of the woman who had written it. Right there in the looking for section was a paragraph stolen word for word from my profile! No references or anything?! Funniest part is she stipulates that she's only interested in people who make an effort, who are quick-witted and intelligent who write inspiring messages. Apparently plagiarism is ok though... Guy on another site messaged me, checked his profile out and lo and behold, he'd stolen a couple of paragraphs from my profile. Just changed the gender pronouns. I replied and told him I liked his profile and asked if he wrote it all himself, funnily enough never heard back from him
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well at least it's one less poorly written profile 😘Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta1' Well at least it's one less poorly written profile 😘Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well thank goodness they copied yours, rather than just sticking with the generic ones! Maybe there's a gap in the market? We could start a forum thread for "Far more interesting profile paragraphs to copy and paste for when you couldn't be arsed to put any time into your own!" It's certainly be more interesting than reading yet another "enjoy pleasing my partner and won't stop until I'm asked to. People have described me as good-looking but you can be the judge of that." etc etc. "Profiles'r'us!" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'PatchworkGirl' Well thank goodness they copied yours, rather than just sticking with the generic ones! Maybe there's a gap in the market? We could start a forum thread for "Far more interesting profile paragraphs to copy and paste for when you couldn't be arsed to put any time into your own!" It's certainly be more interesting than reading yet another "enjoy pleasing my partner and won't stop until I'm asked to. People have described me as good-looking but you can be the judge of that." etc etc. "Profiles'r'us!" - Posted from rhpmobile We'll get you laid or your money back!! * * Terms and Conditions - Does not apply you don't get laid because you're a giant douche nozzle who couldn't possible have written such an awesome profile.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I get a message on kik from a man who I chatted with briefly 6 months ago but never met. He remembers himself to me and we do the 'how are you?' polite conversations and then about 6 messages in he writes "love your pics, here's one for you" and it's his cock. Not a great shot either, one of those taken from underneath with crinkly ball skin in the foreground.... He's an adult, a grown man in his 40s. What the fuck are men who do this thinking? It makes me wonder which came first... did he take a photo of his cock and then think "hmmm, I'll message that stranger I spoke to 6 months ago" or was the cock shot taken because conversing with me for 3 minutes got him so aroused he had to share it....
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RHP User
10 years ago
I did not..... suddenly his opinion on anything became completely irrelevant to me. Funny how that happens
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RHP User
10 years ago
Boo hiss. Trackwork means buses on the weekend, and it's thrown my travel plans into disarray, meaning I can't make it to the airport on time. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
so I get 5 messages from a male profile, with one locked private picture that i can't see. No vision, no reply, simple as that. The fifth message says something like 'I think it's sad when you say nice things to someone and don't even get a reply' wah wah fucking wah oops, that last bit was me My response 'and I find it creepy when guys like you contact me with hidden pictures? I don't do blind dates. It could be anyone. Do you really deserve a reply?' he was obviously not wanting to show himself and a negative response was better than nothing. Does make you wonder though, why bother?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Summer that's just taking things to another level!
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Having an increase in the dreaded logout blues. Not affcting posts yet.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Happily using the full website on the phone and it keeps wanting to morph into the stupid mobile version
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is it doing that when you're already on the classic full website or when you open a new one? I leave this page, or the full website, up all the time on my phone, so never escape out of it. Instead, I turn the mobile data off. That way it logs out, so when I turn the mobile data back on and go into the internet, the site is still here, it just prompts me to log in again, which is perfect for security if my phone is stolen or whatever. That works for me, you might have a different issue, but thought I'd mention it 😃 I also hate using the mobile app 😃
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've had no logout issues on the phone or laptop 😃
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
The app has the gaul to ask me if l was happy with it . So i told it no. It then invited me to submit a ticket. Being the good RHP citizen i am i took 5 minutes to type out the prob and submit. But woa is me. My email address is not valid....wtf. Tried everything. Even [email protected]. But no cigar. So....get fucked
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RHP User
10 years ago
Has everyone figured out yet that you only have to enter once to a new line and it will start a new paragraph. If you enter twice it will actually add 4 lines in between the paragraphs when it posts. So it doesn't look like a new Para when writing your comment but will appear as new Para when posted.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Posted a 7 liner. With 6 paragraphs
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
No it happens while im in the desktop version. Press for my main home page and pffft. But stopped now after doing it all afternoon. Telling it what i thought seems to have worked.....stopped now
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RHP User
10 years ago
What do you mean by page break on here? I only use page breaks in word.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Really tired of giving and getting so little back.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Above comment was for you 5 message guy experience... Now this has turned into a vent about not being able to reply with quote on mobile lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' No it happens while im in the desktop version. Press for my main home page and pffft. But stopped now after doing it all afternoon. Telling it what i thought seems to have worked.....stopped now Yeah fair enough, that hasn't happened to me, strange, maybe different browser or something? I have had double posts though
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Kept telling me my email was invalid. Which it wasn't. .. But put a .au on the end and it was happy. Which made the email address invalid...... Go figure.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
fuck everything
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' fuck everything You need to jump on Auntie's couch seriously, hope you're okay though
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Cal1983' Above comment was for you 5 message guy experience... Now this has turned into a vent about not being able to reply with quote on mobile lol I can't see a comment, can you say it again? You look cute btw
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's Saturday on a long weekend I'm at work 😐 Which sucks.... I just found a pube on my desk 😧 It's not mine.....eewwwwww
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Rubenesque_Red' I just found a pube on my desk 😧 It's not mine.....eewwwwww It must be a guy's pube there are no women with pubes left in this world, if you're really lucky it could be from a bloke's beard.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Rubenesque_Red' It's Saturday on a long weekend I'm at work 😐 Which sucks.... I just found a pube on my desk 😧 It's not mine.....eewwwwww maybe a mouse, or a mouse pube? though that would be really tiny
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RHP User
10 years ago
You do know that they need to grow back between waxings...
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RHP User
10 years ago
slept in this morning and missed an invitation to breakfast, with a hot Italian aaaaaggggggggggghh that's better
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have lost my make up bag Please help
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
But to have someone that you love and thought that loved you, call you a "freak". I cant begin to describe how it makes me feel.
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RHP User
10 years ago
So sorry to hear that. Apart from anything else,it's such a shocking betrayal of trust. Hugs Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
Only if a freak is a unique person who has a big heart and makes others smile. Hugs handsome man xxxx
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
To use such a word is an affront and an intent to wound you to the core. Your journey to acceptance both internally and externally has been a long one, and the times you have shared parts of it with us here on the forums has touched many of us. For someone to choose to use such a derogatory term, when they are presumably close to you, well I can't even describe how horrid that is. I personally think there is no apology big enough for what they have uttered, and no 'excuse' reasonable enough. (((Hugs hon xx)))
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MissBishere
10 years ago
That is atrocious behavior. Ditch that person from your life. How could they do that if they truly knew and loved you. Big hugs and kisses for you. I hate to think of you hurt in anyway.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yeah, look after you, you've come too far. MsJonesy, nice one. We have had glimpses occasionally but I suspect your life could be a book. Your person and presence here has had a positive effect on a lot of people, you can feel acceptance permeating through this community, and it's people like you who influence that. But that's just a side effect, though nice to have that happen, sometimes it needs to be just about you, so look after you xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Annie look after yourself FREAK is a word used in so many different instances now...maybe take the positive out of it and uses it as the sporting public use it to describe a person that has a a) Gift b) More natural abilityc) A special skilld) A rare talent Im sure we are all freaks in a funny way ... but you have a big heart and are a genuine person Your friend Alice
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RHP User
10 years ago
Having to iron again after 5 months of not touching an iron
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RHP User
10 years ago
Everyone else has said it so...*hugs*
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RHP User
10 years ago
Big hugs girlfriend. That abhorrent judgement says a lot more about them as a person, than it does you. Love RR 💋💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hey Annie, You might find it helpful to remember you cannot control what other people think and/or do; as individuals we all can only hope to control your own reactions. (Much easier said than done in the heat of a moment, I know). For what it's worth, upon reflection you might consider some of the more positive definitions/connotations of the word "freak": Caprice 1. work of sportive fancy in art etc. Vagary 1. unusual, quaint, or extravagant idea. 2. wild, fanciful, or fantastic idea. or Freak (colloq) Person who is enthusiastic about a particular thing. You could simply choose not to accept the other, more negative definitions or connotations (even if those were the intended use). Glass half full vs Glass half empty rationale. Just a thought.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You have many peoples respect and support on here. For someone to claim to love you but be malicious and want to hurt you with names? That person doesnt deserve your respect. They arent good enough for you. Toxic. Just be happy.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Just saw this and I feel deeply for you. You know I care for you as a friend. I think the world of you. call me. Time for another drink or two under our tree? Hugs xxx
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Always a risk in an intimate and deep relationship where we both exposed our innermost workings to each other. I have to give her credit for nurturing me and allowing me to shine openly as Annie and share experiences that became reality from long held fantasy. In the heat of battle we aim to hurt. Sometimes we hurt the other too much. You know then its time to retreat and try and find a way to move on. You are hurting but still loving and what you need to do is unclear. Till the fog of love and war clears, I'll go and lay on Auntie's couch. Thanks to everyone for the words. Ill try and get back to the sandpit soon. Annie xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's not so much the meaning of the word,it's the intention behind the use of the word..but perhaps it's also an indicator of the other's lack of real connection with you..only you can tell. I can only imagine what you re going through,a seesaw of emotions I suspect. But do not doubt you and who you are,Annie is a shining example for all of us,full of courage. I don't know if you have seen the ABC's The Mavericks but I loved the episode with English artist Grayson Perry and Magda Szubanski,he is a transvestite and a revelation hugs Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ahh, the wounds that cut the deepest are by those weapons wielded by loved ones. I would not want to be judged by one hurtful altercation. I've said some things to people I have loved from a place of anger, pain and hurt, to do the same to another. Didn't diminish what I felt, and continued to feel for those people. I hope you both have time to heal, and regroup, and have an open line of communication to move forward. It's obvious you are deeply loved, respected and appreciated by many. Hugs to you
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RHP User
10 years ago
got my bloody period and I could be having sex aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaagggggggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
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RHP User
10 years ago
so horny, maybe I could just offer a blowie
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scubaboy69
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' A male poster on the Unicorns thread has a main profile pic of him with a snake, and LD's and mine got deleted? Remember the snake in the Garden of Eden? It's ALL your fault girls!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's a very small snake.I had to go back and look carefully...besides it was possible that you and LD looked far too sexy in your pics 😈 Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
I did have my snake pic up for a couple of days. The mods only pulled it once I'd put in back in my PG.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm still not quite sure why the ban on animals in pics...can anyone enlighten me? I'm guessing there must be a legitimate reason but I can't think of it.
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MissBishere
10 years ago
Well I've just had two pics rejected that didn't include animals, just boobs and my body. Soooo unless they have mistaken me for a whale I'm a bit confused why they would be rejected.
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scubaboy69
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' The suggestion of bestiality. No, not kidding, that what the mods told me when I first joined. Still, dead fish are allowed. Go figure. Necrophilia with a dead fish!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Oh Jeez, that's a reason that crossed my mind but I thought that was just too ridiculous. Suppose nothing should surprise me on here
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RHP User
10 years ago
Years ago when the trawlermen were away for weeks at a time they would sometimes enjoy the "benefits" of dead skate?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I had pics of him and me together rejected. I knew he was an animal in bed. I guess RHP thinks so too. RAWR! 😘😄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissBishere
10 years ago
I messaged customer support and the pics have been approved now. Thank you Melanie 😀
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RHP User
10 years ago
You're allowed to have them on the other adult dating site I'm on. A few guys on there have pics with their dogs.
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scubaboy69
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Years ago when the trawlermen were away for weeks at a time they would sometimes enjoy the "benefits" of dead skate? mmm... skates...
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RHP User
10 years ago
The legal system is so f---'ed toward fathers it is bullshit beyond comprehension. That causes child abuse at the hands of mothers with low morals!My vent. f---em !!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Constantly getting logged into the mobile app when I want the full site! Shitting me!
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Same until yesterday. Put a ticket in last week and got told techs couldn't see anything wrong. I replied well its fucked still. Its stopped now for me. And now i never have to log in. Im in permanently. Its all fucked.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Support told me to toss my cookies....or something to that effect 😊 Hasn't helped lol mind you now I'm just horny all the time 😉
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Years ago when the trawlermen were away for weeks at a time they would sometimes enjoy the "benefits" of dead skate? Marfavorit!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'scubaboy69' Quoting 'Summersolstice' The suggestion of bestiality. No, not kidding, that what the mods told me when I first joined. Still, dead fish are allowed. Go figure. Necrophilia with a dead fish!! Sounds a bit painful to me, or maybe Swordfish, even worse (Rectum,...... damn near killed him)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Had same thing happening to me. Seems 2b ok now around as same time comp for ibiza stopped flashing up after log in.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
The person who i referred to in my post page 157 in regarding to using the word 'freak' has apologised unreservedly and i have accepted it. She was unaware of the history l have with that word as does no one else. I hope that those who know her take on board my forgiveness and do not think any less of her and the beautiful person she is. Thanks Annie
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RHP User
10 years ago
People of adelaide trying to catch trains this morn.. or is that the sort of traffic sydney ppl put up with everyday? i wouldnt know sorry
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RHP User
10 years ago
RHP mobile tells me it is unable to retrieve my location and asks me to allow it access to it. There's nothing more I can do, my GPS is activated, I can't find any further RHP settings to set. I'm a distance from home and RHP is still using my home location. Aaaw c'mon RHP...
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Switch on the wi fi setting
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