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Venting

January 28 2015

I have read a few posts and noted that some people occasionally like to vent (fair enough and probably good for the constitution). My vents are that the last 4wks I have had to work 10-12 hrs days, due to the industry I work in and the weather, also because of the weather, the grass is growing way to fast and I therefore need to mow the damn lawns more often than I have time What are your "Vents", if any, or are you happy with everything in life. (just fun general vents and complaints about life in general, not serious), Could be Politics, sex, partners, weather, work, kids, parents, friends (or lack of), the cost of beer, wine, or salami !!!! anything.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    What is it with young guys - who I haven't met, flirted with or messaged sending "Friend Requests".Eff Off and grow up!!!!!!! Vent over

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'xeena' Sometimes I wonder just how many men truly like women as a gender? And not merely tolerate women because women are the owners of vaginas. Who or what has got your dander up ?? Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Was in the library a couple of days ago and decided to check out some Shaun Tan books in the kids section. Picked up some snotty little beggars cold. Not liking it much at all. Can't even go anywhere in case I pass it on to others. Hope it is gone in a day or so. By the way if you are unfamiliar with Shaun Tan's work check him out, well worth it

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    10 years ago

    Meant to have a day off today and sort out domestic duties after 4 weeks away. Got a call from work people wanting to meet ASAP this afternoon to sort out issues (theirs not mine). They can't wait tomo as one director is off to his hols tomo morn. there goes my day off. Just means I have to get out of my jimjams soon? and I was so planning to just chill today and catch up with the forum this arvo.... this is gonna cost them...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Maybe they think that will make you notice them, as a flirt will get lost in the masses? It's nearly always guests who do this in my experience.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    In being friends with people who I've never met, don't know and have never talked to. Sounds like those profiles described a while back as friend collectors. Silly really, but each to their own.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Agree. Really dumb idea. I also don't understand the Pic Collectors. Such a waste of everyone's time.

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    10 years ago

    Who knew it would be so hard to find sexy attire in my football club colours. I mean brown and gold are such 'on trend' colours Get your act together lingerie shops!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'kissk' Who knew it would be so hard to find sexy attire in my football club colours. I mean brown and gold are such 'on trend' colours Get your act together lingerie shops! Based on your current photo, I believe you need to change and start supporting the NZ rugby team, and you can look gorgeous in what you are wearing

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Only five a day! So frustrating.

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Single_Guy4U' Quoting 'kissk' Who knew it would be so hard to find sexy attire in my football club colours. I mean brown and gold are such 'on trend' colours Get your act together lingerie shops! Based on your current photo, I believe you need to change and start supporting the NZ rugby team, and you can look gorgeous in what you are wearing A kiwi born grandmother made sure of that I think I would be thrown out of the venue for mixing my codes though - I am in Victoria you know!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'kissk' Quoting 'Single_Guy4U' Quoting 'kissk' Who knew it would be so hard to find sexy attire in my football club colours. I mean brown and gold are such 'on trend' colours Get your act together lingerie shops! Based on your current photo, I believe you need to change and start supporting the NZ rugby team, and you can look gorgeous in what you are wearing A kiwi born grandmother made sure of that I think I would be thrown out of the venue for mixing my codes though - I am in Victoria you know! But you look very sexy in All Black

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    10 years ago

    Soooo get messaged....this bloke is a douche.....knocked him back, rambled some crap about being a soldier with 3 tours under his belt, sent his gallery couldn't view it so obviously cockshots or the like which he denied aaying they were only face pix so I said I have family in the ADF mostly Officers next thing he disappears. With the influx of membership RHP the quality disappears in a sea of shit.....maybe there could be a new membership level that goes through a more thorough screening process not dictated by $ but by social interaction on the site. Hang on, that's the chillout lounge.....👍🏽

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Estranged wife said to me "You're an arsehole. Stop thinking of yourself and start thinking of others" Well most of my life I've been thinking of everyone else and pretending to be the person and man that they wanted me to be and expected. Well l am thinking of myself now. Go fuck yourself

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    10 years ago

    Absolutely love it when you get a bee in your bonnet - so forcefully straight to the point with a sting in the tail. Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Keep looking after yourself first. Because you are worth it! Your estranged wife will just have to deal with the fact that it's no longer all about her. Seems to have come as a bit of a shock to her. Love and hugs. Xeena

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Your app will not allow me to shortcut to the last page of any threads, and hasn't since you updated the main site last week... iPhone app if you're interested... Hp xo Because you're worth it... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    10 years ago

    Do you think you will fix the problems with accessing your site through an iPhone anytime soon??? I can't even lodge a customer service request due to the problems. it's extremely bad form.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I hate having to fast for medical procedures. It's hard enough for me to go 2 hours without eating let alone 8 hours...

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' I hate having to fast for medical procedures. It's hard enough for me to go 2 hours without eating let alone 8 hours... I do believe there are other measures available to take your mind away from eating... Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Some people have no problem vilifying others, both on and off the forums, yet throw a tanty at the mere hint of criticism when it comes to their own posts. So sad.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    People "apologizing" to others they caused offense to by saying they're sorry the other person misunderstood what they meant. I used to work with a doctor who said the most belligerent things, then gave an "I'm sorry you took my comment that way" response when confronted. A formal group complaint sorted him out though.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Spit it out...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Fellas, I'm personally not a fan of single guy's pics showing them have sex with others anyway, but... If you have chosen "Always for intercourse" from the Safe Sex options, at least make sure your pics reflect that. Seriously.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Some people have no problem vilifying others, both on and off the forums, yet throw a tanty at the mere hint of criticism when it comes to their own posts. So sad. And I'd say it's common practice.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Just disappeared?😳xxFreya

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    It was the one with the op constantly getting with a married guy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I wonder why,seemed a fairly normal topic for here..maybe the OP asked to have it taken down xxFreya

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    The way it was worded she posted it as her thoughts perhaps whilst having a moment at night. Cold light of day she may have felt a little vulnerable.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    But it seems like it's always the same couple of people who have posts aimed at them deleted rather than responding (or just ignoring). The mods must get tired of them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    She had put up a similar post a couple of months ago...pity it's gone there was no negativity at all,I posted on there this morning,there were only supportive posts ..so cherrylips if you are reading this a group hug for you xxFreys

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    that disappear for no apparent reason - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    some fucker lost there undies today and nearly fucked my lawnmower !!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Hack...chop...pare...slice...dice...trim...excise...BUTCHER !!!! Hp xo Because you're worth it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'SEXYsally6969' some fucker lost there undies today and nearly fucked my lawnmower !!!! - Posted from rhpmobile I understand they would have to take their undies off first, but to then attempt to fuck your lawnmower !!!

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    10 years ago

    And simple observations......

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Single_Guy4U' Quoting 'SEXYsally6969' some fucker lost there undies today and nearly fucked my lawnmower !!!! - Posted from rhpmobile I understand they would have to take their undies off first, but to then attempt to fuck your lawnmower !!! Was thinking along exactly the same lines - be buggered if I'd try that !! Those blades just turn too fast for my liking. Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    actually those undies would have come from a big bloke , I thought I ran over a garbage bag Sally - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' But it seems like it's always the same couple of people who have posts aimed at them deleted rather than responding (or just ignoring). The mods must get tired of them. I don't know, I haven't been around much lately, but I wonder if I have a similar view as you but regarding different people.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I saw what you did there.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That bloody Redhotpie "banner" with notifications hovering at the topic of the page and RHP asked if could describe my issue with it. Anyone else annoyed at the fact that it now hovers at the top op the page covering posts etc. rather than being part of the page?I really don't like that the banner doesn't move when scrolling up or down the page and it covers forum posts. Blegh.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Brave enough to come to a NEWCASTE M&G ....@@@@&&&!!!???...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    We'd love to see you. A very normal relaxed bunch who love a laugh and a relaxed evening.....stay tuned...

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'SEXYsally6969' some fucker lost there undies today and nearly fucked my lawnmower !!!! - Posted from rhpmobile Still on me stilettos.............

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    scaredy-cats

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    For the life of me, I cant understand why a couples profile would have both of them seperately doing selfie pics in the mirror and no photos together.Why wouldnt you at least take each others photo?Its quite common too. Just dont get it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That just makes me think that one half of the couple doesn't know their pics are being used on this site...

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    10 years ago

    I'm being ignored 😄

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Whenever a topic is posted about playing without the partner's knowledge, how many instantly get defensive or start pointing out reasons why without actually reading the OP.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Let alone answering the question asked. 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ...& who hasn't paid?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Jack_Denials' ...& who hasn't paid?or are we thinking different songs? "Whose cheatin' who, who's being true, who don't even care any more....?"

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    10 years ago

    like to get fucked this weekend

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb72' like to get fucked this weekend to be able to help you out.

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb72' like to get fucked this weekend your problem is .....?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Limited opportunities with a weekend of 2 grand finals,nrl has 2 qld teams playing so our brissy guys will be hard to get away from watching that with their mates,school hols so lots of single dads have their kids, or people gone away for long weekend. Sorry about the bad news.😁

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Having a sizzling fuck session on the beach and a dog comes bounding up. Puts a fresh spin on dogging......... Actually the owners werent too far behind. People have no respect. Mmmmmm. Awkward.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb72' like to get fucked this weekend

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'willowtree_2' Limited opportunities with a weekend of 2 grand finals,nrl has 2 qld teams playing so our brissy guys will be hard to get away from watching that with their mates,school hols so lots of single dads have their kids, or people gone away for long weekend. Sorry about the bad news.😁 Thanks for such a positive response. Luckily not all men have kids and not all men are into footy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I just worked out that I have settings for my notifications... I like it. .I would love to have my notifications attached to my forum activity. .Might make it a bit too facebook for some but how many would deny that they'd like it. Peachy ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Added a colleague to Facebook and suddenly the click-bait posts are filling my news feed. You know the ones, they will usually contain pics of some poor child, taken from somewhere on the net, and say shit like "One share is one prayer for this child with cancer!" or "Stop child abuse, Like if you agree, ignore if you don't care!" The last one was accompanied by a pic of a three year-old girl with a bruised face. A quick Google search showed that she had been assaulted at day care in the UK by a two year-old boy (aptly nicknamed Chucky). As soon as something is on The Internet it suddenly becomes impossible for many people to think for themselves. Just because someone put something on a site doesn't make it true! *Takes deep breath* Rant over.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Unfortunately the internet has made it way to easy for the whack jobs and the stupid to have a voice. Mind though, it did allow me to find RHP and then Mikes Place, which I went to for the first time last night. I didn't expect to complete the experience last night but managed to. Met some cool people.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    A smoker in Qld who thinks we might be compatible. Fark, all this eye rolling the last few days has given me a headache.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have enough trouble packing for a weekend away, let alone 7 weeks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Was it busy? Thought with the afl g/f and ppl away it would be a little slow. Diversionz had a bi night on, a friend went but said it was really quiet.Im down the coast at my mummys place getting spoilt.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ....a little quiet. Even a first timer like me could see that. I imagine it's the same as most places where people congregate in that it fluctuates.......fucktuates?

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    10 years ago

    .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb72' . I couldn't hear you ? What did you say again !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    We are down the coast as well. Can this weather get any better? A perfect long weekend!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yep its perfect. Shame its school hols and beaches are packed.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Countrychic1962' Quoting 'Jack_Denials' ...& who hasn't paid?or are we thinking different songs? "Whose cheatin' who, who's being true, who don't even care any more....?" more a colloquialism from where I came from

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    One of my customers took their kids to Thailand for the School holidays and another has gone to England to work for however long. Between them I'm owed about $3k. So baked beans and vegemite toast for my kids and I until the pricks decide to pay me. Not fucking happy ! And, AND, I worked a kid weekend to get their jobs done !

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    10 years ago

    With the fleas of a thousand camels Wet_Paint xx Karma Karma Karma

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Nasty, horrible, vindictive trolls. Get a life.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Sorry to hear. Share if you need. It helps.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'willowtree_2' Yep its perfect. Shame its school hols and beaches are packed. Love packed beaches mmm not when they're packed with bloody kids though so get your point, hmmm school holidays, might explain why things have been a bit quiet over my way

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    What is it with the '' such n such is travelling to your area and wants to meet you'' crap.... They might be travelling to my area, but considering I've never said a single word to them, either by message or on the forums, it's highly unlikely either of us want to meet each other... Seriously RHP, step it up...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Insomnian' What is it with the '' such n such is travelling to your area and wants to meet you'' crap.... They might be travelling to my area, but considering I've never said a single word to them, either by message or on the forums, it's highly unlikely either of us want to meet each other... Seriously RHP, step it up... Tell me about it. It get the same, only to find out they are visiting Brisbane, not Hervey bay where I live, around 3.5hrs drive away. ????? (Sometimes I am also out of their age range ??) So appears not in my area, and not wanting to meet me at all. :-(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yes the whole search and area thing is a pain on the mobile is painful. Cairns is in Qld but it's 1500km away!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Single_Guy4U' Quoting 'Insomnian' What is it with the '' such n such is travelling to your area and wants to meet you'' crap.... They might be travelling to my area, but considering I've never said a single word to them, either by message or on the forums, it's highly unlikely either of us want to meet each other... Seriously RHP, step it up... Tell me about it. It get the same, only to find out they are visiting Brisbane, not Hervey bay where I live, around 3.5hrs drive away. ????? (Sometimes I am also out of their age range ??) So appears not in my area, and not wanting to meet me at all. :-( I have ones all the time for people from Brisbane visiting Sydney...which is only 6.5hrs drive away from me so they don't go anywhere near the region I live in.....sigh.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    spending it up large, splashing it up on facebook like it's front page news - going through newsfeeds of people they owe money too and then wonder why they're being paid a visit by the big guns

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Single_Guy4U' Quoting 'Insomnian' What is it with the '' such n such is travelling to your area and wants to meet you'' crap.... They might be travelling to my area, but considering I've never said a single word to them, either by message or on the forums, it's highly unlikely either of us want to meet each other... Seriously RHP, step it up... Tell me about it. It get the same, only to find out they are visiting Brisbane, not Hervey bay where I live, around 3.5hrs drive away. ????? (Sometimes I am also out of their age range ??) So appears not in my area, and not wanting to meet me at all. :-( The site doesn't do itself any favours with this mis-matching

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Scorn is the new hate. 😕👎

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    10 years ago

    pre-occupied with work lately. bit scatter brain. Lots of housechores done on autopilot. had late dinner with kids, served them food and then served myself. work report in one hand, put my plate down by the kitchen bench to season my curry. I reached out to grab fishsauce to season my curry. sat on table. Had my first mouthful then realised i pour dishwashing liquid all over my curry!!! yuck!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'lilyorchid' pre-occupied with work lately. bit scatter brain. Lots of housechores done on autopilot. had late dinner with kids, served them food and then served myself. work report in one hand, put my plate down by the kitchen bench to season my curry. I reached out to grab fishsauce to season my curry. sat on table. Had my first mouthful then realised i pour dishwashing liquid all over my curry!!! yuck!! So you washed your mouth out with soap just before actually swearing. Did you blow bubbles when you farted ? Sorry, bad joke, hate to waste a good curry :-(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    People who work in places frequented by tourists won't speak common (read: easy to follow) English. Customs are the worst "Your produce is prohibited, so we will confiscate the contraband and issue you a penalty". At Central Station today: "This train will terminate, please alight." I had to translate to three worried people whose English sounded fine to me. Quite possibly they were wondering if the train was on fire and about to blow up. Just why?

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' People who work in places frequented by tourists won't speak common (read: easy to follow) English. Customs are the worst "Your produce is prohibited, so we will confiscate the contraband and issue you a penalty". At Central Station today: "This train will terminate, please alight." I had to translate to three worried people whose English sounded fine to me. Quite possibly they were wondering if the train was on fire and about to blow up. Just why? Lol, I have a feeling they were just reading a script as provided by their employers. who speaks like that in a day to day conversation? Like going to a milkbar and asking the old Italian guy behind the counter for milk. "'I would like to purchase a litre of your most precious white liquid produced by the mammary glands of this said Terra Australis bovine species". I know of a few staff I have of whom English is a second language. they speak perfect english, grammatically correct albeit with accent and nothing wrong with that. All very studied yet beautiful. They are the torch carrier of the English language as the locals can't be bothered to enunciate nor articulate. They have more reverence for the language than the locals. Lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I know what you mean Lilly, Mrs D speaks English as a second language, she is also a qualified proof reader.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    aahh...those PERVERTS! and I ain't prude myself :) but I almost reached for the phone to dial the local police station and file a report of "sexual harrassment" today morning....aaaahhhh So here is what happened. It was a lovely summer morning so I decided to cycle to the local beach and do my regular morning swim there -instead of doing my usual pool-swim I did the ride, did the swim, then went back to my bike to grab the extra gear I need for changing into cycling gear again (shoes and stuff) when I noticed a PERVERT OLD MAN (75+) in his UNDIES (horrible yuck white ones) staring at me whilst folding his man-bits..aaahhhh...but it is none of my issue what he is doing in the shadow of the tree in a public beach so I did not return his stare..continuing to grab my gear from the basket on my bike he must have noticed that the bike belonged to me so he shouted at me whilst my back was turned to him"Oh so you ride, I bet you can ride any HORSE! Wanna ride mine?! I am here!" aaaarrggghhhh honestly I ain't prude and okay I was in my cozies (not a bikini so he cannot say i was flashing too much skin) and I did not even utter a word at him yet I got shouted at by a pervert! This has never happened to me and it was bloody annoying! Can I not walk in my cozies from the beach to my bike rack on my way to the change room just because I am a woman? Or if I do then I am an available prey to any pervert to comment about my looks. I bet he has never seen a sexy woman like me for years (or decades!) so he just could not help himself and had to release his stress this way (before his pacemaker blows over) but still - I was furious! How does he dare to shout insults at any passing woman at a public beach ARGH.. I went and changed into cycling gear and went to grab my bike - but was already prepared to use self defence if I had to should he approach me...and he shouted at me again! This time he was saying along the lines of "You are hot, let me eat you out!" but I did not hear it cos was already on my way out of his eyesight on my bike...on my way back I passed a police car - they were out patrolling- and I was VERY TEMPTED to stop by and alert them of the pervert on the beach but decided it might not have been that important... still..it ruined an otherwise perfect morning....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If it wasnt a nudist beach(where guys watching and wanking is accepted) then he was breaking the law. Even at the places where play and voyourism is accepted, calling out and being down right rude isnt acceptable. If it was me, and I had my phone, I would have taken a pic or recorded him, and reported it to police. You really dont know if he would have said and done that to any female of any age.maybe next time it will be a very young girl.Not good. He needs to be stopped.

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    Quoting 'KrissySYD' aahh...those PERVERTS! and I ain't prude myself :) but I almost reached for the phone to dial the local police station and file a report of "sexual harrassment" today morning....aaaahhhh So here is what happened. It was a lovely summer morning so I decided to cycle to the local beach and do my regular morning swim there -instead of doing my usual pool-swim I did the ride, did the swim, then went back to my bike to grab the extra gear I need for changing into cycling gear again (shoes and stuff) when I noticed a PERVERT OLD MAN (75+) in his UNDIES (horrible yuck white ones) staring at me whilst folding his man-bits..aaahhhh...but it is none of my issue what he is doing in the shadow of the tree in a public beach so I did not return his stare..continuing to grab my gear from the basket on my bike he must have noticed that the bike belonged to me so he shouted at me whilst my back was turned to him"Oh so you ride, I bet you can ride any HORSE! Wanna ride mine?! I am here!" aaaarrggghhhh honestly I ain't prude and okay I was in my cozies (not a bikini so he cannot say i was flashing too much skin) and I did not even utter a word at him yet I got shouted at by a pervert! This has never happened to me and it was bloody annoying! Can I not walk in my cozies from the beach to my bike rack on my way to the change room just because I am a woman? Or if I do then I am an available prey to any pervert to comment about my looks. I bet he has never seen a sexy woman like me for years (or decades!) so he just could not help himself and had to release his stress this way (before his pacemaker blows over) but still - I was furious! How does he dare to shout insults at any passing woman at a public beach ARGH.. I went and changed into cycling gear and went to grab my bike - but was already prepared to use self defence if I had to should he approach me...and he shouted at me again! This time he was saying along the lines of "You are hot, let me eat you out!" but I did not hear it cos was already on my way out of his eyesight on my bike...on my way back I passed a police car - they were out patrolling- and I was VERY TEMPTED to stop by and alert them of the pervert on the beach but decided it might not have been that important... still..it ruined an otherwise perfect morning.... I feel your pain sister lol I haven't actually had the misfortune of the verbal grossness (except out the window of cars), usually show my disdain early in the peace, send out the 'go away' signals, as I'm sure you did, that individual probably needed reporting by the sound of it, gross, yuk. I get old dudes perving at me all the time when I'm out exercising or at the beach, young ones as well, but that's different haha double standards I'm okay with them looking, it's a free world, and I dress 'lightly' you might say so I guess welcome the visual validation (and I'm fully aware it might not always be validation at my age, they might just think I'm tragic, I don't give a crap though), but when they hover or change direction, just so they can check out your ass (and like 75+ like you say), they're so obvious, it makes me sick. One man yesterday really made me angry. I'd finished my walk and was sitting looking at the ocean, chilling and enjoying the panorama, he's walking past on the path but couldn't get past, slowed right down, and veered towards me in a really creepy way, all the while perving constantly, eyes just about popping out of his head, he was sort of half smiling in a creepy way, yuk! He was old wtf I get it a lot but this guy came into my personal space, stood right near me, almost like he had no control over it, weird. I am getting a bit over it, and less tolerant, so stared back but with a scowl on my face, the 'f*&k off' kind of look, but he still hovered, so I asked him what he was looking at, in a not so nice tone, and he moved on, but STILL didn't completely move on, probably a meerkat in his other spare time. Then he stopped again 4 or 5 metres away, turning and perving still, so again I turned and scowled at him, saying out loud 'keep walking', though I don't think he heard that, other people around me did. Then he very slowly went to his car but again was taking way too long and then sat in his car forever, creeping me out all the more. I don't have a problem with them sneaking a look, everyone does that, including me, but come on. Also hearing you on the old dudes in the speedos yuk, gross

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    10 years ago

    with willowtree, what he did would have to be illegal

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    Quoting 'willowtree_2' If it wasnt a nudist beach(where guys watching and wanking is accepted) then he was breaking the law. Even at the places where play and voyourism is accepted, calling out and being down right rude isnt acceptable. If it was me, and I had my phone, I would have taken a pic or recorded him, and reported it to police. You really dont know if he would have said and done that to any female of any age.maybe next time it will be a very young girl.Not good. He needs to be stopped. it is not a nudist beach..it is a beach near a Sydney suburb , 10metres from a busy road, 50metres for a pedestrian main street. I did not report him as I assumed he was just a "old pervert" and the police was busy with attending to a pedestrian who was injured in a car accident - a car ran into the pedestrian waiting for the light to change in the pedestrian crossing..so in comparison what he did was of lesser importance. Plus there were other patrons by - an other cycling couple (a man and a woman who did not go for a swim) were ear-witness to what this old pervert shouted at me and they were visibly shocked and there were other people around - I reckon if his behaviour got worse he was reported as the day went on . From my side if he is there the next time I am doing my Monday Morning Cycle+Swim (which I do almost every week) I will report him to police if even as much blinks at me..never seen the guy there before -there are usually older men sitting around admiring the "view" but they are very polite, never harass anyone just hanging out..This dude was an "old pervert" behaving weird..he could have had some mental issues -I don't know..Just weird...but damn it rained parade on my otherwise splendid Monday morning ocean swim ...

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    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2'Then he stopped again 4 or 5 metres away, turning and perving still, so again I turned and scowled at him, saying out loud 'keep walking', though I don't think he heard that, other people around me did. Then he very slowly went to his car but again was taking way too long and then sat in his car forever, creeping me out all the more. I don't have a problem with them sneaking a look, everyone does that, including me, but come on. Also hearing you on the old dudes in the speedos yuk, gross see I would not have hesitated to call police on this dude - anyone following me and then acting as if they were to follow me in their car is a straight call for help on my side. Knowing self defence gives me confidence that should it come to "contact" I am able to defend myself or buy time to get help but still - I would rather not live up to my mantra of "If threatened I punch first - not second!" the last thing one would want is to deal with police afterwards.. but it seems the world is still a weird place and we women have to be alert and ready to stand our ground etc.

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    10 years ago

    shows how much he ruined my "Tranquil Monday Morning"...my beloved Monday morning cycle and ocean swim combo...aaarrggghhhhhhhh

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    Quoting 'KrissySYD' shows how much he ruined my "Tranquil Monday Morning"...my beloved Monday morning cycle and ocean swim combo...aaarrggghhhhhhhh Sounds horrible. Especially to ruin a nice relaxing day. Say "aaarrgggfhhhhhhh" 3x more times, have a drink & relax. I am sure he will not be there again, as probably had a heart attack from being overly exited. I did not even realise that sort of thing happened. (as never happened to me, Not surprised mind you.), But; suppose that would be a bit naïve of me. Things like that are a bit scary when you hear about it, or think about it :-(

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    Quoting 'Single_Guy4U' Quoting 'KrissySYD' shows how much he ruined my "Tranquil Monday Morning"...my beloved Monday morning cycle and ocean swim combo...aaarrggghhhhhhhh Sounds horrible. Especially to ruin a nice relaxing day. Say "aaarrgggfhhhhhhh" 3x more times, have a drink & relax. I am sure he will not be there again, as probably had a heart attack from being overly exited. I did not even realise that sort of thing happened. (as never happened to me, Not surprised mind you.), But; suppose that would be a bit naïve of me. Things like that are a bit scary when you hear about it, or think about it :-( the stalking thing happens a lot. I used to walk a particular strip every day along the beach, and every day, without fail, no matter what time I got there, morning afternoon, it was never the same, this old dude would suddenly appear on the path on his pushbike and ride really slowly and perve, get a bit past me, turn around back past me again, you get the picture, creepy. He wore faded old cycling clothes (would have been high vis once I guess). But he'd appear from no-where. In the end, I realised he must have lived in one of the beachfront homes, watched and grabbed his bike when he saw the opportunity to be creepy?? There's no way he just would have been there every time I was, and he'd stare at me, I'd see him coming and look down at the ground so there was no eye contact. Needless to say, I don't walk there anymore

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    10 years ago

    I'm usually cool with the fact that I live in a regional area, by choice, but I was scrolling through the "talent" here this morning and I am envious of you Sydney women with all the available men. My travel options are limited as I'm a casual worker but I wish I could locate a nice FWB within an hour or so's drive of where I live. Sigh....guess I'll just keep looking for a permanent job.

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    10 years ago

    What happened to the Manners thread?

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    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' What happened to the Manners thread? it went off topic then off the rails.

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