M56
Unattached !!!
January 17 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
😀 was this guy a troll or what?
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RHP User
9 years ago
There was nothing wrong with what you said IMHO I found myself nodding while I was reading it 👍
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well OP, you surely created some entertainment here! What was the question again? I forgot! Night all! Yawn 😴 Andy - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Your profile sounds too demanding, and desperate. So don't use words like lonely, underused or needs company. Also, saying you want meets not chats makes you seem like you don't care about the woman you're with as long as she has a pussy and won't talk. The last line in your profile states you haven't had any dates, but you don't want dates, you want a FB. Safe sex: if required, that will put women off too. You also need to tell women how much pubic hair you have. That can be a huge issue for some (me included!). Some people won't play with a partner who is not manicured at the very least. Good luck! Try putting in more info in the pre select parts and change the wording a little. Don't write things like "You will be..". "You must..." - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Your profile sounds too demanding, and desperate. So don't use words like lonely, underused or needs company. Also, saying you want meets not chats makes you seem like you don't care about the woman you're with as long as she has a pussy and won't talk. The last line in your profile states you haven't had any dates, but you don't want dates, you want a FB. Safe sex: if required, that will put women off too. You also need to tell women how much pubic hair you have. That can be a huge issue for some (me included!). Some people won't play with a partner who is not manicured at the very least. Good luck! Try putting in more info in the pre select parts and change the wording a little. Don't write things like "You will be..". "You must..." - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Lots of women won't accept you as a friend on here unless they have met you in person, and don't think you're a tosser. 😜😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Just your style of writing perhaps. I don't think your question is a real one so I won't answer how I read some of your comments. Obviously it's a personal thing and how I see your comments isn't the same as others. So maybe it's just me, but I couldn't pass your comment on this thread without saying something. Let it go. It's not important.
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RHP User
9 years ago
His profile has been deleted hasn't it? Looks like that to me. It was probably all the rude and arrogant comments that chased him away. *winky face tongue hanging out* It's pretty funny when you think about it. All these poor schmucks in their 40s and 50s not getting any at home and haven't been in the dating game for 20-30 years who come on here looking for some fun. They must be totally shocked how it's all changed and how angrily people answer what to him was a genuine question. I wonder if they find women aggressive in general in how they approach the dating game compared to the "good old days" Haha. Interesting question. Will ask it when I have the time. :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
As in forward, confident, etc. Actually that was the wrong word to use and no Edit button.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well done Candy, your trolling is exceptional... you nailed my weak spot - my friends. And, silly me, I bit... kudos to you 😘
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RHP User
9 years ago
Seems to me you are okay when your friends are mean to others. I don't see that as a strength. You don't have to be a sheeple. This is not a troll at all.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I wouldn't worry about the attached or unattached on rhp and most people and couples don't care anyway i guess. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
9 years ago
waiting ?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Firstly eveyone on rhp is entitled to there opinion, doesn't mean I or you will agree with everyone, regardless what you think Mrs Jonesy was only expressing hers. How do you interpret if someone is passive aggressive without actually meeting them in person? Yet some can only judge them by there point of view.? pffff I'm strapped in Annie 😉 Yes Sweetgem am thinking the mods are stirring the broth. Funny how it always goes off topic into personal attacks on individuals. Anyone for a choc top icecream. ??😀😂 Back on topic any chance?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Great points made by sweet gem, kiss kiss and witty sex. While unattached / attached is each to their own, my first though would be that perhaps instead of wasting time on here use that time to make your wife / partner feel special again so you won't need to be compromising your relationship. I do not think of this as a sex site, more this is where people are likely to be honest on their description and what they want than on traditional sites where there's pressure to conform to normal standards. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
We are all caught in a social experiment. Just a variation of the Truman show. The mods in the control room throwing in threads to get us ramped up. Rebecca at the main console (waves politely).
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Sawadee
9 years ago
I wasn't trying to be a smart arse when I replied to your post. After reading , I felt that maybe this was not the right place for what youre looking for. That's the point I was wanting to get across. Being mere male and on the end of some pretty ordinary man bashing (undeserved btw ) I felt compelled to reply to what you had to say. I don't think I misread but if I'm wrong I'm wrong . That's why I asked Summer to explain where she felt I was wrong following her sarcastic remark. I'm happy to stand corrected if that's the case. Maybe your remark was just that of a woman pissed of with men here who act alone causing a bad name for the decent guy's . I'd say by the support of the female section you're getting this may be the case. I'm guessing.. Like your male friend says, talk to me like a 2 year old .. Jay
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RHP User
9 years ago
It seems to me that this is all about expectation. Expectation in any form is an ugly thing in my book. If someone requests anything from me and there is the slightest expectation attached to it then the wall goes up. Personally, I generally do not like dealing with attached girls as it is complicated and I do not want a complicated life. There is also the risk of the partner on the door step and unlike Cavey I do not crave that sort of opportunity. If i really click with someone that is attached and they can convince me that it is not simply boredom or even worse revenge sex then the possibilities are boundless. But staying on topic - RHP is not a friend of any form of expectation. It is the home of free will and choice.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yep, had one of them too, attached guy contacted me for revenge sex after his partner had strayed hmm now let's see, yeah nah 😏
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RHP User
9 years ago
The common assumption is they haven't tried hard enough to make the partner/wife/husband feel wanted and desired. Reality is more often that they've done this, with zero interest in return. Relationships for a lot of couples can be really good, the exception being sexual incompatability. I think you'll find not many would actively use this and other mediums to search with the view to betray the partner they love, without first trying to get the excitement and interest back together. They've usually exhausted other options. Who are we to judge? Due respect, I'm not having a go at you, just giving my thoughts on it 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
The exception being sexual 'compatability'
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RHP User
9 years ago
To put it bluntly, best known for that of course, and assuming I ventured into your profile further after seeing the handlebar moustache, sorry no kind way to say that but really?? Assuming I had a read, everything the ladies above said. Your question at the end of your profile? The answer is yes. The competition here is 'stiff'. What are you? lol oops I mean what do you have/what are you offering, that will make us A. Read your profile with interest B. Be gaggin to get our greasy little mitts on you. Because it's not about what you 'must have' when you're hitting on women. Tell us how it would be a good use of our time if we chose to meet you. Seduce us 😉 Your must have list is I suppose clear, nothing wrong with that, but I'd seriously change the wording and maybe be more realistic. Blunt but you did ask 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
Patchwork Girl ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Just out of interest, my profile used to say in detail what I would do for them, what turned me on, and how I loved pleasuring, so much more, ending in saying I expected them to be into me and the moment etc etc but I found I had too much interest from selfish individuals. So by contrast, I have now changed it to be more specific, and reflecting where I am at the moment. Crazy busy and barely have time for sex at all, let alone 'one of' encounters. Not a good use of the limited time I have. End result, no interest, or hardly any. Interesting isn't it? The mere mention of ongoing if possible, and not the dreaded NSA (cringeworthy) and they run scared bringing we want a relationship 😀 Does it bother me? Not at all, I'm too busy. Interesting little 'social experiment' though 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
Bringing? 'Thinking' we want a relationship
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On_Safari
9 years ago
OP looks like your a zero....change your thinking.....people still have to have a reason to give you the time of day and I think your sense of entitlement is shooting you in the genitals. Just sayin' ~ Indy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' OP looks like your a zero....change your thinking.....people still have to have a reason to give you the time of day and I think your sense of entitlement is shooting you in the genitals. Just sayin' ~ Indy Sense of entitlement - an excellent term for my understanding of expectation. Very well articulated.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' OP looks like your a zero....change your thinking.....people still have to have a reason to give you the time of day and I think your sense of entitlement is shooting you in the genitals. Just sayin' ~ Indy Sense of entitlement - an excellent term for my understanding of expectation. Very well articulated.
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RHP User
9 years ago
be patient - don't push the bloody button twice. I am sure the one on my left shoulder was saying that.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Wow Kisskiss80 you do a great profile assessment. If more guys took note of what you ladies like/ dislike they might enjoy themselves more. As to the forum subject, you just have to read the profiles properly and show respect. If you don't find what your looking for on RHP move on to another site. 🙂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hi Kay, That’s a really simplistic view… just checking... do you think that going out to "Swizzle" at the Opera House - an acrobatic, burlesque, comedy sort of thing - getting wrapped up in the front row antics and maybe having a few cocktails plus a bottle of bubbles, a few laughs and a few stolen kisses would be showing enough "feeling special" for you? Well it's not enough for my sweetheart and this is a pattern that has been repeated for a very long time. Sometimes the low desire partner just gets in a pattern of refusing for so long that nothing the high desire partner does is enough. When you take those wedding vows of forsaking all others there is also a vow to cherish. Well... when the cherishing vow is replaced by "Fuck off leave me alone" for YEARS... the infidelity or a divorce is a foregone conclusion. Infidelity is sometimes a narcissistic asshole getting his rocks off, but very often infidelity is a couples problem and I can tell you I have tried for well over a decade. I personally don’t see divorce as an option given how the rest of our relationship is great, but we have literally become best friends, there is no desire. RJ
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'WomanWhisperer' Wow Kisskiss80 you do a great profile assessment. If more guys took note of what you ladies like/ dislike they might enjoy themselves more. As to the forum subject, you just have to read the profiles properly and show respect. If you don't find what your looking for on RHP move on to another site. 🙂 - Posted from rhpmobile Well there you go girls! Some guys actually think with their heads and not their great central members! This guy worded his profile for the reader, not the writer. I tried to do the same but I don't think I did as well...not sure why he has no pic, though. One other thing: look at our ages; does that tell you something?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'RichardJohnsXX' Hi Kay, That’s a really simplistic view… just checking... do you think that going out to "Swizzle" at the Opera House - an acrobatic, burlesque, comedy sort of thing - getting wrapped up in the front row antics and maybe having a few cocktails plus a bottle of bubbles, a few laughs and a few stolen kisses would be showing enough "feeling special" for you? Well it's not enough for my sweetheart and this is a pattern that has been repeated for a very long time. Sometimes the low desire partner just gets in a pattern of refusing for so long that nothing the high desire partner does is enough. When you take those wedding vows of forsaking all others there is also a vow to cherish. Well... when the cherishing vow is replaced by "Fuck off leave me alone" for YEARS... the infidelity or a divorce is a foregone conclusion. Infidelity is sometimes a narcissistic asshole getting his rocks off, but very often infidelity is a couples problem and I can tell you I have tried for well over a decade. I personally don’t see divorce as an option given how the rest of our relationship is great, but we have literally become best friends, there is no desire. RJ I agree with RJ and sometimes the higher desire partner can be the female...doing everything possible to bring a bit of spark back into the bedroom.....all to be met with a no. Also for years. I was in that situation and eventually gave up trying....then he wondered why the marriage eventually failed. Divorce for a long time was not an option but in the end I couldn't stay.
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RHP User
9 years ago
But is that the way you want to live for the rest of your life? I don't really understand it. I know there are lots of things to consider when divorcing - family, kids, money - but you are still young enough to build up your assets again. Don't wait until you are in your 50's and splitting becomes a lot harder to do financially. You could still be great friends, just not a couple. What is so wrong with that?? If sex is important to you, you should pursue a more satisfying realtionship(s) And I agree with your comment about the other partner cherishing the other. It's a two way street altough it's the person who is having an affair who is slammed for ruining everything usually. Hate to say this but the chances that you will be found out at some point is pretty high. :(
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RHP User
9 years ago
I agree with and have iterated though all the permutations, including what you are suggesting, it's a really tough choice with no perfect solution. For now all I know is that accepting the self esteem destroying rejection fuelled by my pursuit just stops. I'm also not willing to deny my desire, so here I am... I don't know if that is acceptable here, I do read profiles and I don't pursue anyone who states that is an issue for them, but I equally hope to find interesting ladies who share my perspective. In the mean time I will continue working to improve my marriage, I have not given up!RJ
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RHP User
9 years ago
So nobody thought that the OP was old mate married Johnny who makes a new profile once a week and blurts out a personal whinge, then deletes? Its becoming a common cycle with him.
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RHP User
9 years ago
What a narcissistic prick! As a guy, his profile makes my skin crawl ugh! Andy
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RHP User
9 years ago
That was very kind of you WomanWhisperer! I think the nuances of personal wants and needs has been trampled beneath the patent leather of high heels, which resulted in the Original Post, that did have a point, albeit, most of it being quite asinine, being forgotten. We just want a woman who wants us. Married, or whatever we are. SURELY, there are some ladies, that want low key, well mannered, gentlemen, who are not going to pester them or give a hard time. We have a wife to do the wifey stuff, but maybe they can't, won't or don't do the sex stuff, albeit, permanently, or temporarily. Why does the RHP produce a list of most relevant partners, who it's plain to see don't fit? There should be no lady in that list who specifies they want unattached guys. Or is it they want unattached, until they see the body? (Ha Ha) I sincerely hope, some ladies attracted to this topic, get in touch with the gents who have taken part in the discussion, and find out a bit more about them. Also Red Hot Pie, provide better tools for matching peeps who want to be matched, rather than promoting the hotter profiles that make the site look better! Chat you later, Andy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Why don't you just read their profile and you will understand what that person is or isn't looking for. Love the comment about Disposable Sex Objects... right on sister! I think there's an extremely extremely fine line to the profiles that want to experiment a little and those that are just looking to get away with not paying for what they effectively should be. You cross the line my friend the moment you make a distinct association of your expectations of readily available free sex. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Rascal99
9 years ago
Nice bum
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's a shame that woman "some" feel safer in searching for unattached men because of the stigma left by the few who do try and manipulate things to their advantage. 💑 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I would like to meet some one in Potts point Sydney. Satisfaction guaranteed! Check out profile please. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
We both think its our duty as sexually progressive people to shag the hell out of people in sexless marriages. Clearly there needs to be fire and connectivity. Its amazing what happens insde those marriages when the fire gets a poking. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm with you kisskiss80 all the way! Lying cheating bastards can keep their dicks to themselves! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
thats how i see this place. while sex is a theme here, that in no way makes one obligated to play or swing or be hounded by people pushing to meet etc. its simply a fairly reasonably designed place for adults to be adults away from all the other crap on facebook, etc...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Some married men are here because they have been keeping their dicks to themselves for too long...way to long.
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RHP User
9 years ago
2017bringsmeback.... Ironic nickname as 2017 has also brought me back to this site... I can help you out with a few truth bombs if you like.... Being 'attached' as a man will almost certainly reduce your chances to zero of finding a lady (especially considering when it comes to the act of actually finding someone it is the woman that wields the majority of power in selection), giving off the general vibe that you only wish to use said lady as a replacement for your right hand and odd gym sock that you haven't bothered to wash in months will also reduce your chances even further. Most women could find a man at the drop of a hat if they so choose to... Women however, are complex and beautiful creatures who have no interest in being treated like a doormat and completely excluding their own emotional needs.. You also had absolutely no piccy on your profile and remembering that women are complex and wield all the power on these sites, you expected that no picture and 'attached' in your profile was going to have ladies flocking to you... Thumbs up for the effort 'champ' maybe focus more on the partner you do have and communicate openly with her about what you want, albeit at the peril of your relationship and maybe things will improve.. I'm also having very little luck and I'm single and apparently way hotter in person.. But you have to remember most people are in here trying to find something a little left of field and horny attached men can be found by the truck load.. Good luck in whatever you decide, I'd first try open communication and honesty with your current partner but that's just me... Oooh that was a bit of a rant..
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RHP User
9 years ago
Single, huh..? ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Bodhi8
9 years ago
Don't worry mate there's enough that will suit what you're looking for. Not everyone suits an individual's requirements but there's enough that will. Chill bro keep the faith. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Mate , just google that word and read the definition!! Problem solved 👍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Eiliethiya' Single, huh..? ;) - Posted from rhpmobile bathroom products? might be there just for guests
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RHP User
9 years ago
my eye sight inside too good, could be aftershave for all I know
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Reg44
9 years ago
Unattached myself.... The reasons are... Not to be on the 6 o'clock news as a victim of an jealous enraged husband /wife who didn't know of their hobby ..there is no happy endings.. . I don't see the issue its not worth it.. If the couple both play no problem .... And single doesn't mean looking for a commitment just means free of commitment
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RHP User
9 years ago
Its people like you that make me thankful to be single. Nothing more off puttting than a man that is not loyal and honest.
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