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Taken men who pretend they are single
October 03 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Single_Guy4U'You are absolutely right. It is not what I meant, I just meant that the thread appeared to be going off track. I see what you meant.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jack_Denials' You're pretty sharp you must be a Mainlander ... the whole sheeps arse of me doesn't know what you mean by that Mr Roystan's comments were not visible when I posted my take on what was said
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'KiwiBred' Quoting 'Jack_Denials' You're pretty sharp you must be a Mainlander ... the whole sheeps arse of me doesn't know what you mean by that Mr Roystan's comments were not visible when I posted my take on what was said Being a Kiwi myself, those shoes do not look like typical Mainlander, more Jafa But may be wrong
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'KiwiBred' And I can only speak for myself but I am not on here for multiple partners all over the countryside. Some of us prefer quality over quantity. I didn't get that at all - I mean that's not how I interpreted it. Firstly, when he says "a large percentage of us are here for sexual gratification in some shape of form", I read that as being a large percentage of the site overall - which is reasonable given the amount of heated discussions over the nature of the site. "with multiple partners all over the country side" again, a reasonable comment given that people make assumptions to that effect based on friends lists. I didn't equate it to him referring to himself nor did I think he meant anything by it in the sense that you've taken it. When he says "but we still hold this massive moral compass when a guy has a partner", I read that to be referring to the consensus within the forums with regards to men that are attached. Firstly my comment was directed at what I have quoted above. You are to my mind quite perceptive as you seem to be looking at a "big picture" as opposed to commenting directly and taking things literally. I have also been taken by other comments you have made which show your powers of observation and ability to comment. Secondly the Mainlander remark was a tongue in cheek attempt at humour, being a Kiwi myself. To those not in the know Kiwis will argue that they are Mainlanders and the other lot are Pig Islanders...the issue is yet to be definitively resolved... Normal programming has been cancelled
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Single_Guy4U' Quoting 'KiwiBred' Quoting 'Jack_Denials' You're pretty sharp you must be a Mainlander ... the whole sheeps arse of me doesn't know what you mean by that Mr Roystan's comments were not visible when I posted my take on what was said Being a Kiwi myself, those shoes do not look like typical Mainlander, more Jafa But may be wrong ...or Fendalton
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Stufu1969' In the kiss......where you actually calling out my name BEFORE I even got close to your 'golden pussy'? :-) for the main event...cooooooieeeeee stuuuuuuuieeeeee
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Eagle752' ummm.....could the married women please contact me.... I have a head ache
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its a market place, and we wander around and we really have to take things on face value. The assumption is that what you see on the outside of the box is what is in side the box. When you take it home and you think its brand new and find out its not, or that it does not do the job it says it will do , then naturally we want our money back. So married men market themselves as single to get laid. Its not rocket science and as most the people on this site are men wanting to get laid without any expense or without fuss or bother they can often resort to deception. As do women, but women do it in a different way. Married women do not have to hide it on here to get laid. But women do have to lie about their age, their body type etc and that I see a lot of. They may show a kind of avitar picture. They might hide the worst parts of their body, they might hide that they may be socially inept, or living in their car and looking for a husband, the motivations for most lies is for gain. Little white lies are just so you do not hurt a persons feelings. So some women may lie to get a guy that can give them what they want. They might want a boyfriend but advertise that they just want sex. Then guys buy that story and get called utter arse holes when they do not want to give that woman the boyfriend experience, usually after they have fucked said woman and do not come back for seconds. see where I am going, a lie is a marketing tool to get what you want and everyone on the other end usually ends up at the sharp end of the stick. I think its a shit thing to do, to lie that your married when your doing the most intimate of things as in entering a woman's body, she is giving herself to you in trust. Opening up herself both in a physical and emotional way( most women cannot separate sex from emotion) and that is not a bad thing as it makes for more intimate and warmth while doing the wild thing. Men/women who do this really have no respect for others of self , self deception is a road to deceiving others, so a good look in a mirror before you start to fuck someone over is always a good thing. look yourself in the eye and say, would I like someone to do this to me? I have married lovers who do not lie to me but they do lie to their partners. I am a selfish woman. That`s the bottom line of it all. I take what I want. So I can ill afford to take the moral high ground, but I try to do as little damage as possible in my hedonistic life.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You had me agreeing with everything you were saying, except for the last paragraph. Not judging you but after thinking about it (for me anyway) knowing that I was going to sleep with a woman knowing she was married and cheating on her husband may play havoc on my conscience, and therefore I may not be able to proceed. If I did not know, then no problem, or if the husband knew what she was doing, again probably no problem. However, to me anyway, the thought of having sex with someone knowing they are cheating on their wife / husband, would be a bit like accepting stolen goods. (I would know that it was wrong). Not judging you as probably different circumstances, just my opinion.
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RHP User
11 years ago
diametrically opposed status, to his - the way I read it. If you were in the same inner circle you'd know, true not sad. You have more fingers on one hand than you have "members" of the inner circle. Then theres everyone you "know", then there are the rest of them. Experience is what you get after you need it. Keep on truckin' .....
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compressor
11 years ago
no point in telling fibs as they find out in the end. be honest straight up
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm over it too. I clearly state I don't want attached men, I've already had heartbreak because of it. We always figure it out. If they play me, I'll play them. I have no qualms in letting their partners know if they lie to me. Fair is fair! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well im new , fresh and 1 million % single :))
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jack_Denials' Quoting 'KiwiBred' And I can only speak for myself but I am not on here for multiple partners all over the countryside. Some of us prefer quality over quantity. I didn't get that at all - I mean that's not how I interpreted it. Firstly, when he says "a large percentage of us are here for sexual gratification in some shape of form", I read that as being a large percentage of the site overall - which is reasonable given the amount of heated discussions over the nature of the site. "with multiple partners all over the country side" again, a reasonable comment given that people make assumptions to that effect based on friends lists. I didn't equate it to him referring to himself nor did I think he meant anything by it in the sense that you've taken it. When he says "but we still hold this massive moral compass when a guy has a partner", I read that to be referring to the consensus within the forums with regards to men that are attached. Firstly my comment was directed at what I have quoted above. You are to my mind quite perceptive as you seem to be looking at a "big picture" as opposed to commenting directly and taking things literally. I have also been taken by other comments you have made which show your powers of observation and ability to comment. Secondly the Mainlander remark was a tongue in cheek attempt at humour, being a Kiwi myself. To those not in the know Kiwis will argue that they are Mainlanders and the other lot are Pig Islanders...the issue is yet to be definitively resolved... Normal programming has been cancelled ... all good! Wasn't familiar with the expression and as such wasn't sure how to reply. Yep! I'm always looking at the big picture & generally try and see things from all perspectives, even more so when something either confronts and/or challenges my own way of thinking.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jack_Denials' Quoting 'Single_Guy4U' Quoting 'KiwiBred' Quoting 'Jack_Denials' You're pretty sharp you must be a Mainlander ... the whole sheeps arse of me doesn't know what you mean by that Mr Roystan's comments were not visible when I posted my take on what was said Being a Kiwi myself, those shoes do not look like typical Mainlander, more Jafa But may be wrong ...or Fendalton Hmmmn ... NZ Slang, usually in pejorative (if I'm not mistaken), but open to interpretation at best depending on wether the (f) stands for fucking, fuckwit or fabulous LoL. But no ... not from Auckland ... or Fendalton
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RHP User
11 years ago
who cares if the guy is married or not? Do you want to marry him? Make him your own? Is it ok if he is not married but has several lovers at once? Is this about control? Im confused.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I had to call my now ex husband during the birth of my child. He was with his RHP girl apparently he did think I knew anything about. He had put up a couples profile without my permission with my pics and was telling everyone he plays on his own. When did a check on her I discovered she was doing the dirty on her husband who I was in high school with. So each to their own but seriously tell the truth. You will get found out eventually. - Posted from rhpmobile
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justforthefun44
11 years ago
This has happened to use a few time they say they are married when it comes to arrange a meeting sorry the wife is away at the moment would you like to meet me on my own bullshiters get a life if your other half is not into this then don't play some one will get hurt YOU
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RHP User
11 years ago
For you "F" would be for Fabulous (I lived in Auckland & Wellington and like both)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is this a common thing? This site is for having fun so a lot will if you're taken anyway... I'm single but if I was taken (I probably wouldn't be on here) but if I was then my partner and everyone else would know of it by my profile - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I too have experienced this.......it sucks......even just the lying and deceiving.I have stopped seeing "single" men for this reason.......They were all married.I felt like a free Hooker........yuklove grant xaka Karin
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'snappyfishgirl' I too have experienced this.......it sucks......even just the lying and deceiving.I have stopped seeing "single" men for this reason.......They were all married.I felt like a free Hooker........yuklove grant xaka Karin :(
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RHP User
11 years ago
I seriously don't understand why some lie about their relationship status but it's very disturbing for those at the receiving end be them men or women. Better to let your friends know from scratch to avoid any cause for hurting. Better to be honest than to be dishonest just to enter into somebody's pants or skirt. Too bad all men get associated with these things because of such selfish behaviours by the little few.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am mostly shocked that you chatted online for TWO MONTHS and never met!!! Wow, you must be seriously pissed off that you wasted so much time on this guy. I'm sorry you had that happen. If you know someone he knows, I'd be dobbing him in. Dirty cheating bastard :/
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RHP User
11 years ago
Enjoyed reading all comments here on this subject.. I've witnessed this from a different perspective.. My partner and I have been together for near 7 yrs and I guess you could say I'm on this site for 'him'. In the past 12 months I've found him registered on over 27 dating/sex sites.. Constantly creating new email addresses to hide the evidence.. It used to break my heart, as I really don't feel the need to be with any other man or woman apart from the one I love.. that's just me, and the way I am.. He on the other hand has cheated relentlessly throughout our relationship.. As a last ditch effort to save our relationship and maybe meet him half way (we have a 4 yr old daughter) I am curious about this open relationship thing.. But get cold feet as soon as it looks like it might happen. My partner always said he was a single male with no kids! I agreed to be profiled as a couple seeking couples, as in the past we always ended up paying a woman to come and I got to sit and watch.. Which I didn't mind, but felt a little left out.. So even tho I've agreed to search for couples, he is still secretly sending flirts and msg's to single women on here.. It's like his desire to f*** other women is much stronger than his desire to be in a relationship with me and his daughter.. He has sites hidden on his computer 'incognito' and he is a member to a couple of other sites cos I sed the discreet billing on his bank statements.. BUT HE DOESNT KNOW WHAT IT IS OR WHAT ITS ABOUT.. DENY! DENY! DENY! I'm no stranger to these sites as I spent 3 yrs single and was a member of RHP.. I'm curious, but I do still believe in monogamy, unless both parties agree otherwise.. I actually think a lot of males/females who are driven by the thrill of the chase and new relationships are actually NARCISSISTS.. but I'm no expert, just my opinion... Thanks for reading my story.. Cheers everyone.. SJ
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hahaha.. That's the spirit.. You go girl!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
BLOODY AWESOME!! Love good morals!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not sticking up for the married guys , but I would have thought with the amount of women on here not wanting anything 'but some good old fashion fun' a man ' married or not could fit the bill provided they accepted it was a temporary liason.. I believe a good operator could have her cake and eat it without the need for all this anger. But then again ' I am a guy who is not looking for anything but friends' preferably with benefits.. if she happens to be married, she made that decision probably because something is missing at home. I wonder how many women are here without the knowledge of their husband / partner.. etc.. More than I care to think.. One thing for sure, not many of these women are about to put there hand up and cop what gets handed out to the guys.. Easy to sit behind a computer screen dishing out moral judgement on others..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' I would have thought with the amount of women on here not wanting anything 'but some good old fashion fun' a man ' married or not could fit the bill provided they accepted it was a temporary liason.. This thread is not about married men, but married men who lie and deceive by pretending they are single. Small difference?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Your story makes me incredibly sad. You found out your partner has been lying to your face continuously, possibly for years.It sounds like you given a lot to try and make it work, but are not getting anything in return. I won't pretend to know how hard it when there is a child involved, however being treated with such little consideration and lack of respect is not only awful for you, I think it sets a sad example for your little girl. I hope you will find the best solution for you, whether with or without him. Personally I feel no one deserves to be treated like you say you are. Good luck x
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mrs SonsJons... I know the move I would make, and that would be my choice... I hope that you can be happy and strong in your choice... Hugs xo Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
You two GORGEOUS hearted people who not only took the time to read my post, but to actually reply!? YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH YOU HAVE MADE MY DAY... Honestly, thankyou so much for your time and care. You have no idea how sad my heart feels all the time, it's just kinda normal to me after also being married for 16 yrs to a similar type, then another 7 yrs.. I honestly don't think there is any man on earth who could truly love and adore just me.. So I try to compromise so I'm not left alone again.. Hate being alone more than being betrayed.. I don't have anyone but my partner and my folks.. And kids xxxx mmmmwa xxxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Your story makes me incredibly sad. You found out your partner has been lying to your face continuously, possibly for years.It sounds like you given a lot to try and make it work, but are not getting anything in return. I won't pretend to know how hard it when there is a child involved, however being treated with such little consideration and lack of respect is not only awful for you, I think it sets a sad example for your little girl. I hope you will find the best solution for you, whether with or without him. Personally I feel no one deserves to be treated like you say you are. Good luck x I agree with Meander, and your situation is incredibly sad. Not saying it fits your situation as I only know a small part of it, but I personally believe (and I come from a dysfunctional; family) that the children can be better off and happier with separated parents, and I know several that have done that and the children have had a great life loving both parents whom are separated. For me personally, I would not put up with lies, deceit and cheating, and would not stay in a relationship just for the sake of the children, as they also feel and live the pain.
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RHP User
11 years ago
What is worst is you are in rhp as a couple .. and your male partner blocks your couple profile because he has a paid member ship on rhp as a single .. what a tool .. You look at single guy profiles and come across him being on here .. Hmm .. All I can say is a lot of men cheat and I guess women do to .. where is the trust ....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mea... I know what the post is about.. My point is ' if a woman is here for a FWB or FB chances are she is likely to meet a male looking for the same., married ' single ' or whatever. Saying women don't lie and deceive about the same is head in the sand stuff.. I think we 'd be surprised but who's about to let the cat outta the bag...? Not me , I couldn't give a rats... My question is '. If found out , should she be castigated in the same manner as we do men ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have had the same issues........all from males.........actually a few females....Why lie?????
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sassycandy63' What is worst is you are in rhp as a couple .. and your male partner blocks your couple profile because he has a paid member ship on rhp as a single .. what a tool .. You look at single guy profiles and come across him being on here .. Hmm .. All I can say is a lot of men cheat and I guess women do to .. where is the trust .... trust is in the heart.......I have been hurt too.Faith........One must have faith.......in love and trust.or why continue....... I will never be depressed again.......all my scares on my arms are a reminder of this.love grant x
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is he on here as a single?? Do you know his username??? I didn't know. Know he is on countless others..
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RHP User
11 years ago
This is Mrs E here.... I commend you, Stufu, on your comment. 100% correct. I will even take it further.... I am the wife, and it is amazing to maintain your marriage and play with no guilt. For all the ladies.... It's called NSA for a reason. Men find it attractive and impossible to resist... As there is no commitment involved. Women constantly seek love hence the lies on their part also. To all the single ladies..... Attached men are great. Reliable. Enjoy it. To all the men, single or attached keep trying!! I honestly agree with Stufu.... We are all on this site for a reason... Enjoy it xxxxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'SonsJons69'I honestly don't think there is any man on earth who could truly love and adore just me.. So I try to compromise so I'm not left alone again.. Hate being alone more than being betrayed.. I don't have anyone but my partner and my folks.. And kids xxxx mmmmwa xxxx I hear what you're saying, better unhappy being together than miserable alone? I've worked with many women like yourself, who feel being with a man who treats them badly is as much as they deserve. It sounds like you don't love yourself, but do you love your child? I'm guessing yes. Is it ok for her to grow up thinking this is the way men should treat her? Is it worth being a single parent and alone to give her a chance to get the self esteem I think you lost and to find a good man who treats her like she deserves? You are her main role model. I wish you both all the happiness you deserve.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I just read your profile. Please don't.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' If you wish to start a thread about taken women who pretend they are single, go for it. I put that out there for the men weeks ago, and still no takers?
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RHP User
11 years ago
sonsjons, your inbox is locked. If you want to talk unlock your inbox and send me a flirt. Or there are various women's counseling and support groups available in your state. Use them... Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'SonsJons69' You two GORGEOUS hearted people who not only took the time to read my post, but to actually reply!? YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH YOU HAVE MADE MY DAY... Honestly, thankyou so much for your time and care. You have no idea how sad my heart feels all the time, it's just kinda normal to me after also being married for 16 yrs to a similar type, then another 7 yrs.. I honestly don't think there is any man on earth who could truly love and adore just me.. So I try to compromise so I'm not left alone again.. Hate being alone more than being betrayed.. I don't have anyone but my partner and my folks.. And kids xxxx mmmmwa xxxx Believe it or not, this is a common thing. Men may put up a couples profile a singles etc because its an addiction. The brain is stimulated by a range of things, and sex is a big one. Some men now cant have sex without watching porn and they a have to be on the constant chase, like a dog chasing its own tail. Its not about how he feels about you at all, its about how he feels about himself.I think they hate what they do but cant stop, again like a lot of addictions and there is the shame as well of hiding stuff or even then, its the excitement of hiding stuff. He could love you more than you know. He just does not love himself enough so hang in their kido Your not alone at all, I know many women who this has happened to , some ride it out, some leave as it hurts to much. My biggest problem I have is the attitude to safe sex, some married men and single men do not want to use condoms. I do not get that at all but its so common its frightening. Frankly if you cant get it up with a condom, then I suggest you boil your dick after each meeting to be safe.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Exotica2014' To all the single ladies..... Attached men are great. Reliable. Enjoy it. With all due respect, it's not up to you to tell the single women on here what or who they should be doing. I have a number of reasons for not playing alone with attached men - even if they have permission to do so - and it's my right to exercise that preference.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Okay, so here's me playing Devil's advocate again. If a man's aim is to score and not to form a lasting relationship, honesty is not a high priority. It's more like an extension of roleplaying. Let's face it, everyone lies, absolutely everyone.I remember many years ago, back in my wilder days, I was chatting up a young lass and seemed to be doing pretty well. She liked my unshaved features, my long hair, my broad shoulders and muscular arms. At one point, she asked me whether I rode a motorcycle. I answered, quite honestly, that I was thinking of getting a Harley Sportster. I assume that this gave her the impression that I was a 'wannabe' because her ardour quickly cooled.Some time later (weeks, months, I dunno) I was in a similar situation with a sweet girl paying me a great deal of attention. She also asked me whether I rode a bike. Having learnt my lesson, I lied. I said, "Yeah, I've got an old Triumph Bonneville at home that I'm restoring." ...I fucked her.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Cheers for your concern, I really feel blessed that strangers give a rats crack hey! Restores my faith in human kindness.. If you have time, feel free to msg my inbox. Thanks ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Humans care... If we can't at least care, then WTF are doing ? Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Married men are not great. They are committed to someone else hence they can't meet when you want, there are all these rules in place and half the time you have to bonk at 10am on a Tuesday. I mean bonking in day light!! Lol. No spontaneity, no real intimacy, no dates on Friday or Saturday night... So kinda gets boring real quick really. not all married men obviously. :P Oh and RUBY.... whoo hoo!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Married men can never host and if they can you're fucking in someone's marital bed (eww), there is the risk that the wife will find out and you'll be involved in a messy situation. I never want to get that call from a woman- have you been fucking my husband? So Jay, yes we want more than a ons even if there are NSA and with so many men to choose from why would you choose a married guy?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Some women prefer married men because they don't have to wash their socks, clean their house,cook their meals yadda,yadda For them it's a bonk and go....and if he pays for a room,no muss no fuss..Simples.:-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I personally don't have my relationship status listed on my profile. Mostly that is because it is very complicated and difficult to sum up with just one word. However, I have no issues at all in telling it exactly like it is to someone who actually wanted to talk to me and find out about my situation. If after explaining my status, the person I am talking to is scared off, well then I will know they weren't for me anyway. On the other hand, some people may not even care or want to know at all and are happy for it to be my own business.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If a "single" man writes to you (that you know for a fact is married because you know him in real life), and he doesn't realise who you are, do you... - Let him you know he's not single without giving away your identity?- Warn the women on his friends list?- Let his wife know?- Try to out him on a forum?- Do nothing? Just a hypothetical, though I think I've heard all of the above in my time here.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have a deck of Tarot cards if you wish to borrow them:-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'MissBlissBomb' Married men can never host and if they can you're fucking in someone's marital bed (eww),I did have a married woman ask if she could come to my place (twice), it was never going to happen.She gave me the brush off before we went much further, I'm certain I dodged a bullet that time... I'm a bit concerned this is turning into a bash a married man thread
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RHP User
11 years ago
Meander, let's throw a rope over Kermys knob and lynch him !! Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
If the whineing didn't come from the same people, you could start to believe all woman talk the same talk. They say those who look for problems usually find them.. Truth is ' some women switch their radar off at the wrong time and tend to get caught up with bad boys , married or single.. . Not saying its right or wrong . But isn't that best for those who dropped their guard in the first place to right the wrong ? Regardless ' Good luck to those who found them self in a sticky situation, best to learn from the experience and just move on..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'MissBlissBomb' Married men can never host and if they can you're fucking in someone's marital bed (eww), there is the risk that the wife will find out and you'll be involved in a messy situation. I never want to get that call from a woman- have you been fucking my husband? So Jay, yes we want more than a ons even if there are NSA and with so many men to choose from why would you choose a married guy? and it sucks to know that you ripped another person's heart out even though you didn't know you were doing it. My story exactly the same as SonsJons69 except that I was the other woman. This poor woman contacted me after she found emails from me so I spilled the whole lot for her and I was more than happy to expose the piece of shit. She didn't know what to do, a handful of kids, loved her husband but he repeatedly fucked her over. I often wonder if she finally told him to fuck off. The stupid moron even tried threatening me trying to silence me which just pissed me off some more.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Highpriority' Meander, let's throw a rope over Kermys knob and lynch him !! What does Kermy have to do with it?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't want to lynch poor kermy... But if we are going to have a neck tie party we will need a big strong bough to sling the noose over... And who is bigger or stronger than kermy...? 😋 Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think you've finally lost the plot...
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RHP User
11 years ago
And do frogs actually have balls I wonder? PS... Wonder who has been reading SWB then. LOL!
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RHP User
11 years ago
about frogs balls,and are we being specific or generalising?....Kissing frogs of either gender is an occupational hazard here,People lie about their relationship status when their lizard brain is engaged .....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' If a "single" man writes to you (that you know for a fact is married because you know him in real life), and he doesn't realise who you are, do you... - Let him you know he's not single without giving away your identity?- Warn the women on his friends list?- Let his wife know?- Try to out him on a forum?- Do nothing? Just a hypothetical, though I think I've heard all of the above in my time here. you know him, and then block him. You do not want him to keep looking at your profile and wondering who you are. Never tell the wife, she will hate you more than him for telling her. Same for women on his friends list, its up to them all big girls or guys to work that out for themselves. its RHP not a school social, and of course like Jensman said, guys will lie to hit that wet spot. I tried to out people on the forums, for worse things than being married and it got me abused to the point I had to block a bunch of people in my private message box. Especially the women they will round on your like a pack of dogs, and say your making it up cause your a jealous bitch. So I learnt my lesson on that one. Do nothing is the best bet. fuck em I say, each to their own devices. the exception of course is if you are my friend offline and I know you would believe what I say, because you know me. Then yes I would tell you. But on line never again.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Couldn't agree more, though curious what others would do.
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RHP User
11 years ago
let him know,that you know,but don't tell his wife....she may already be aware but doesn't want to acknowledge it...the women on his friends list.... Only if they were a friend of mine.. I would certainly like someone to tell me...a few years ago I met a man on another site.he said that he was single..We only met once but would sometimes chat online...eventually after quite some time,he told me that he was married... I asked him why he did this,he said it was because women wouldn't have sex with him if they knew he was married...simples
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RHP User
11 years ago
There is so much info on this subject and how to find a single guy.First if you pick good looks chances are he is married or got a GF.Second guys who know they got looks or money like the challenge of pick ups.Moral of the story ---Go out with Mr average.Its not rocket science.Oh and even in the fet world its the same thing .I am A DOM lets fuckThat few words says he is not a Dom but a dick.BDSM is a closer more trusting relationship than vanilla.So as soon as he says lets fuck alarm bells should go off in her head. Moral of the story is if he has looks chances are some one else owns himor there are eyes -ears and a brain use them.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' First if you pick good looks chances are he is married or got a GF.Second guys who know they got looks or money like the challenge of pick ups.Moral of the story ---Go out with Mr average.Its not rocket science. Moral of the story is if he has looks chances are some one else owns him Damn it!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Truth or lies !!! Quoting Lay T: "Never tell the wife ,she will hate you more than him for telling her " I agree to dob !! is spineless ! It baffles me however how anybody can hate and blame another for speaking the truth ! And allowing the culprate of deciet to feel forgiven and free of blame !! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' There is so much info on this subject and how to find a single guy.First if you pick good looks chances are he is married or got a GF.Second guys who know they got looks or money like the challenge of pick ups.Moral of the story ---Go out with Mr average.Its not rocket science. ...Moral of the story is if he has looks chances are some one else owns him Good sir, with all due respect I categorically disagree. Also, I found your bold statement too bold so removed this from the font. But I have left intact the alarming red colour to appease you. No no, don't thank me, it's really the least I could do :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
- Let him you know he's not single without giving away your identity? - yes, if possible- Warn the women on his friends list? - probably not. I think it's up to each of us on here to use good judgment and instincts to work out who we can and can't trust. If I knew any of the women well and considered them friends, I might decide to tell them. It would depend on whether I thought they were likely to be interested in him.- Let his wife know? Maybe, if I knew her well. I'd do for her what I'd want someone to do for me in the same situation.- Try to out him on a forum? - absolutely not. I vehemently disagree with the practice of discussing names and what you think you (the 'royal' you, not you specifically Meander) know about someone in any of the forums. Doing so publicly to a broad audience is gossip, pure and simple (I remember doing it myself once and was horrified the moment I pressed submit!). Letting people close to you know something in private that might be of direct concern could be reasonable, if done with good intentions.- Do nothing?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Liss_17' Cheers, lots of good points from most. It just comes down to the fact that I don't want to fuck anyone else's man, like I wouldn't want my man to fuck anyone else. If I didn't care that he had a partner I wouldn't have asked. I'm a big believer of karma and even if I unbeknownst hooked up with another's partner, I'm sure it would eventually bite me on the ass (and not in a good way) a little bit of honesty goes a long way is all. I'm aware that there's men and women on here that lie and waste others time. If they told the truth they could find others like themselves, and everyone's happy. I was annoyed when I wrote this, now just sad for his spouse and all his unsuspecting future meets. Hi Liss_17, I do realise that this forum topic is more about cheating men but the comments you made in this post and previous posts on this topic, I agree with you one hundred per cent. Unfortunately I can relate all to well, whether it is a man (many words could be used instead of man to describe guys like this) or woman, hopefully karma will bite them on their arse. Hopefully it doesn't happen again to you. Happy New Year
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RHP User
11 years ago
Personally I have no problem advertising the fact that I am attached. I know its probably costing me meeting someone but better they know first so that they can understand the whole situation beforehand.My situation is its ok to play but don't push it in her face ie have someone over while she is home or keep going out a few nights a week.Some people can still fool around because they don't wish to change their family or living arrangements.Also its not just guys who do this their are lots of FIFO workers slaving away up north while their ladies are playing.Best not to be too judgemental
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RHP User
11 years ago
I dont know why people think they have to lie..... it is such a negative trait to someones personality... especially terrible if you hurt people along the way. Just be up front, surely that will win your more respect from someone. I hope the origonal guy who changed his RHP name was reported... what a wanker!
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