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Strap on for a guy what is the view on them
January 07 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'll be honest, as much as I love anal sex, I've really never had a great deal of success with girls and strapons. Silicone dildo's and plugs are great when used by hand, the real thing feels fucking fabulous but in my experience the girls I've been with on "hands free" can be a little rough with something that provides very little tactile feedback compared to a penis. Mrs Candy is great with one now, but its not really her thing, so its not very often we go down that path. The Feeldoe is great for solo play, great for being ridden cow(boy?)girl style but unless you're partner has pelvic floor muscle of steel they tend to be a little awkward. Miss Sarah, what is the corset backed harness you talked about? That sounds interesting. As for favorite insertable toys, gots to love Vixen Creations 'Mistress' Mwah Ant
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RHP User
13 years ago
In response to Meeka's question, they have their pros n cons. Definitely a far more intimate experience with more skin to skin contact, also with a built in vibe makes the pleasure for both partners even more pronounced. Having said that, they do require more effort to stay in place, particularly when getting vigorous. We have been on the look out for a minimalist o-ring harness to see if it improves or detracts from the experience.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I find the feeldoe horrible for wearing as a strap on. I may have been guilty of getting the biggest one in the shop though, so it's quite heavy. The way my insides are built it tends to slide in and away from where I want it to point. Makes for a great handle though!I will definitely take candytalking's advice and try it cowboy, which is one of my favourite positions anyway.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting '50zcool' Quoting 'Red_Jazz' My ex-husband loved his arse being played with. I would use a strap on with lots of oil and it was sooooo sexy. He also enjoyed a good fisting........' Now that's radical ! Thanks 50zcool. I do like to be creative......
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RHP User
13 years ago
Having been down that road (too easy for puns) just the once, I've got mixed feelings.I absolutely LOVED the eroticism of it, the change of context and dynamics from an emotional perspective, and from a physical perspective when she "reached around", wow.But I didn't actually enjoy the sensation inside me. Just slightly on the uncomfortable side of "meh". Perhaps that's an experience thing.Definitely interesting reading other's experiences!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have been 'taken' many times by sexy ladies donning a strap-on and enjoyed every experience. For me it is not about being submissive at all but rather for the sheer pleasure of it. I would suggest you make it clear to your potential playmate whether or not you wish to make this a sub/dom experience as sometimes for me there has been a little confusion. Overall it is, for me, just a really sexy time and even just seeing a women wearing a strapon turns me on! I am bi aswell which may help me enjoy the experience but in no way at all do I view it as 'gay' but by true definition gay means happy so it depends how one looks at it! I would love to hear from any ladies myself who would be interested!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've never had the chance to experience it but would dearly love to. You can call it gay, submissive, dominant, basically whatever you like. The fact is it can be none of these, simply an erotic and pleasurable experience between two or more people. If there is a girl(s) in Perth that wish to be my first please feel free to contact me. This is simply an act of sexual pleasuring.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Very interesting topic, I was hoping to get some advice on where to start me and my girl are planning a dirty weekend away and would love to give it a try we just both can't stop thinking bout it! So fire away!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Start small:-) maybe just try a finger or a small plug or dildo, take your time, lots of lube. Make sure you're in the mood or you just won't enjoy it. Don't feel too discouraged if you find it hurts too much, just relax and slow things down. Have fun:-D
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'dirtywet4u'Ive never done it, but the idea of it makes me tingle!!! It's definitely on the top of my To Do Soon List ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Meet a couple from out of town and she tried it on me. It was not to thick (thank god) and she knew how to use it....Seeking others to try the experience again
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RHP User
13 years ago
To be quite honest there is nothing at all wrong with it, I for one absolutely love putting on my strap on ( MY DICK) and owning it and giving my hubby and swinging friends whether male or female the time of their lives, its all how you use it, yes it’s all in the technique and whether you own it or if you treat it as an accessory I believe…..I really think that it is extremely HOT to give my hubby n others alike a feeling like no other,cause its definitely not the same as the real thing thats for sure there is no comparisen there…And to see a woman wearing one and owning it,and acting like its really hers is awesome,I have extreme fun with this lol, and the thing where anyone could think it has any kind of gay comparisen’s couldn’t be further than the truth,whether its a strap on or the real deal, cause only if you could have a one on one relationship with a man and no one from the opposite sex could gay even come into the equation, I mean seriously are we adults here or children???? And there is nothing wrong with how a person chooses to be in their sexuality, where not in the stone ages…. Anyways get to it and enjoy all it has to offer, and remember if your new to it start small,go slow and listen to your partner intently as they will guide you through it all….. Thats at least until you are used to one another and the receiving in that way!! Best of luck. XXX
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RHP User
13 years ago
...bit hard to tell.Personally not interested....it's the kind of thing that would make me run screaming for the hills.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks for the feed back candytalking. Hopefully will give it a go this weekend hey fingers crossed
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RHP User
13 years ago
hi guys my first time posting on something like this I'm bi and love xdressing and all I can say it is the best thing iv ever felt but nothing beats getting the real thing - Posted from rhpmobile
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Racy136
13 years ago
I hate labels ... Just have fun and push those boundaries !!! Was happy to pop your cherry over and over again :) see you soon for more .... Been on here for over five years and first time I read a forum ..... it's about me ... He he - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
...and will heartily agree to enjoying the pleasures that a strapon can offer. As a bi guy I play with the real thing on a regular basis, but when having a strapon used on me it's not so much about the feeling of what's inside me (though don't get me wrong, that plays a huge part) but a lot of it is the fun that a female can bring to the party. Basically the dynamics are changed in many ways just by the fact that it's a woman doing it. The best part of when I've had the pleasure of it has been that when I've found someone wanting to do it with me then they genuinely are enjoying the experience too. To look into her eyes as she's banging into me and seeing her eyes twinkle, a sly smile or even a huge grin on her face adds so much to my own pleasure. And at times I've been left wondering who actually enjoyed it more. Now, whether you choose to go down the sub, dom or just plain sexy fun route (yes, route not root you dirty f...ckers) is entirely beside the point and one for personal preference. And lastly, without mentioning names like "Mary" lol, I'd like to say HI to the lovely ladies I've met on here who I've had the pleasure of being banged by. Awesome is all I can say!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
i have done this with a guy i was seeing..it was his first time trying it...it was fun for both of us i enjoyed it as well.. i have yet to come accross a new play mate who enjoys this..:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I here ya and feel ya nothing better than the real thing but playing with dildos and strap ons is good as well- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't think of myself as gay or straight or bi I'm just me and i like what I like and I love getting my ass played with, teased and filled - being penetrated by a woman is such a fantastic kinky role reversal, I love love love being made into a woman's man-bitch! :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
If the moment and the girl are going off then let her slip you on like a wet sock and get into the moment with her.Not for every one who wants it but for the right ones they can take me however they like.Get over the 'gay factor' and get lost with her.Can be that wrong it's sooooo right.If its getting her right off doing it then its getting me right off.Actually feels wicked if you let go and enjoy.Makes me come HARD.hope that is open n honest enough and helps.Cheers- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have never tried a strapon but I do have 2 hand made Black Jade dildos (Very rare) only 2 ever made and put them in warm water before using they are the best....... Will have to make a strapon with Black Jade just have to work out how to attach the Black Jade to the straps Ok I must go to the drawing board and see what I can do........ I also make 3" to 5" balls out of Black Jade, now one wonders if he can make a set of luv balls hmmmmmmmm Dam got my work cut out now........ GT
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RHP User
13 years ago
Never done it, but probably at the top of the list to try. A little anxious about it, but SUPER excited at the same time. BiBrissie sounds(and looks) like someone I'd love to lose it to. Anybody on here used a double ender with the opposite sex, anal one end and anal the other? Fit
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's different to a man doing it. Isn't it?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I really enjoy the experience of a hot sexy woman wearing a nice strap-on, taking charge, bending me over and giving it to me!!! No better feeling!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'CaseyCox' I really enjoy the experience of a hot sexy woman wearing a nice strap-on, taking charge, bending me over and giving it to me!!! No better feeling!! Far better feeling when its a nice hot cock,,,, NOT a plastic or silicon look a like....A nice cock is the only way to enjoy sex..... GT (real cocks are best)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi!! *waving* xx M....eeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am fairly sure I recognise Mrs Kinster.. Lucky you!! Having a dominant chick with a strapon. Mmmm (ˆڡˆ)
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RHP User
13 years ago
You have just added something on my to do list... just when I was ticking things off
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RHP User
13 years ago
Think I saw a porn like that once. Two boys on all fours facing away from each other with a double ender connecting them :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
Any guys keen to get spit roasted between two lovely ladies. :D Actually that's going on my fucket list. A guy at my head and a lovely lady at my ass. Woo Hoo!
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RHP User
13 years ago
absofuckinglutely
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RHP User
13 years ago
Marinade me any time Meeka ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just watch where you wave that thing, you're likely to take someone's eye out... *waves back* hehe up for a sword fight!?
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RHP User
13 years ago
GT... As much as I love "real" cock, it's not the same thing as a lovely lady welding a strapon... 2 completely different experiences, each with their own merits. If I had to choose one over the other, well, that would come down to what sort of mood I was in. Preferably would like not to have to choose and just have both!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
... By 2 lovely ladies. Well, Count Me IN!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sheesh, scary! Weilding would be better lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hmmm not sure about the spit roast but having one girl doing me from behind while fucking another does sound horny as hell.. Not sure how long I would last in that situation though haha. Would have to be with someone I trusted that's for sure and they'd hAve to be gentle.. may just stay a fantasy though I'm not sure...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Meeka, How about one end in me and the other in you? Fancy playing?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sounds hot Fit but it would have to be a bloody long double ender to get from QLD to Sydney. LOL
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xxxxxxs
13 years ago
Have done this a few times ! Love it , it's all in good fun !
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RHP User
13 years ago
And you would have to be one hell if a moaner if I am going to get the whole experience
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RHP User
13 years ago
Absolutely love having a woman bend me over and have her way with my arse. The best orgasms cum that way. Wish there were more ladies out there that were into it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi there, I've strapon fucked my man only a handfull of times and I need something much bigger so respects me in the morning! lol Any experienced doms want to swap training ideas and look at my humiliating pics of him discovering his sissy side! :) Hit me up I LOVE to share B & C xxxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi there, I've strapon fucked my man only a handfull of times and I need something much bigger so respects me in the morning! lol Any experienced doms want to swap training ideas and look at my humiliating pics of him discovering his sissy side! :) Hit me up I LOVE to share B & C xxxx
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Racy136
13 years ago
See you soon - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I reall need some guidence from a more experienced dom! All mine are too small and or I have no feel for... I would love some guidence and would be more then willing to share pics for it....
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RHP User
13 years ago
I will send you a text message just as I am about to come. ***Oohhh, awwww, oooooooo kapow ***
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey, I see you want to really give your sissy BF a good ass pounding. Lol. I am not experienced to give you lots of advice. Just warm him up, then go slow. As you say, it's impossible to get a feel of what is happening down there so he may have to guide you. So listen to what he says. Also ask, harder? Faster? If you want to build up to a much larger strapons well you need to train him by starting off with smaller butt plugs and working your way up to bigger ones over time. Most of this is what I have read on these forums, so might be worth going back to some older topics. They usually have anal in the title or strapon. :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh guys, lighten the fuck up! Just because you've copped a bit of a poke in the ass doesn't mean you're gay! Even if you're taking a real one with his balls slapping yours, still doesn't mean you're gay!If you find you only want to be in a relationship with another guy, and women don't turn you on... Guess what?! You MIGHT just be gay!If it's fun, give it a crack (no pun!), get those stereotypes out of your head, and you'll soon enjoy life a bit more. Unless you're already questioning your sexuality, you've got nothing to worry about... (Even if you are, you still have nothing to worry about - you've just got to find yourself)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Bloody well said Ozcouple.
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RHP User
13 years ago
he likes the real thing but i use a strap on on him... he says the sensation is awsome...its just another extention of our sex lives, his needs are also getting met which means our relationship is all the more stronger and fullfilling and honest... isnt that relationships is all about
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RHP User
13 years ago
OH HELL YES!!! yes, YES and YES again!!! I love taking a guy like this! It is an intensely powerful sexual experience for both parties. More guys need to let go of that 'juvenile'(quoting 50zcool) gay stigma and open their minds and surrender their bodies to this sexual delight. I am pretty much open to anything and everything though, as is my husband....I don't think there's much left that we haven't tried. I also agree with Meeka...i love stroking my strap on. Wish I had a penis sometimes...my husband would probably be woken up alot more in the middle of the night...totally get the obsession with them. :))
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RHP User
13 years ago
Whatever floats your boat I reckon!! I had a lady introduce me to the finger in the butt and it blew my brains out so I reckon I'd give the strap on thing a go! No it isnt gay! Alls fair in the seeking of pleasure!
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RHP User
13 years ago
ok...i've been away from RHP, but this was the place that helped me experience my strap-on fantasy. irishguyinperth you definatly have to try it. There are many beautiful ladies that i'm sure will be willing to hold our hand, and spank your butt, will using a strap-on...Meeks, I have to ask, have you tried a feeldoe before? I've had one used on me, and for me the experience was just as intense and exhilarating as a normal strap-on, but for my partner is was even more so.
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RHP User
13 years ago
No I haven't used one before :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'd be interested in what you think. Admitidly, my partner found it wierd at first, because she had to use her pelvic floor alot more.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Personally i love a female with a strap on! For me im not thinking of Gay, straight, submissive, dominance etc. I am only thinking about, how fucking good feels!! I have had the most intense mind mashing orgasms doing it. I highly recommend it to anyone who can get passed the whole "Your gay if you do it" bullshit. Any ladies that haven't tried it please "wink" me
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