M63 F50
Soft Cock
October 11 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
They're just not as good as diamond dick you're attached to??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
If it's all the time, then I'm sorry but it has to be something you're doing.It may have nothing to do with your body or how attractive you are but what you're doing or saying.Just because your man can handle you, doesn't mean others can.Before trying to 'fix' everyone else, I would take a look at you and how you act first.You seem to be dismissing a pretty big part of the picture.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've heard this from some other women and unfortunately it is the guys and not the girls! Sometimes a little help goes a long way and tell them to get a blue pill! It does work wonders for staying power and rock hard erections. Not just for guys that can't get it up - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sure men can get intimidated by a confident woman,but as a general rule we have not had much trouble with non performing guys.The female half of us is very outgoing and seems to put guys at ease.If you are treating them (men) as a commodity to be used and abused I can understand why they may feel put on the spot so to speak.What sort of age guys are you talking about? Also the 'sad limp dick' comment reveals a lot about how demanding you may appear to these guys.In short try being nice and try to put the expectations away and create a low pressure atmosphere.I'm sure you will find it works wonders.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe they are just over overwhelmed by your beauty! Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Penises are bullies. Like all bullies, they are also cowards and can wilt under intimidation and pressure!You're a sexy woman, and put together with your talented man, maybe some guys can't handle it. But I'm guessing you'd all meet and greet before fucking (or failing) and that's where most people would know whether there's enough energy and chemistry between everyone for a good time. If I don't "feel it" I generally go for polite honesty and say so. Never fun but beats the rudeness of a soft cock in front of a sexy woman playing her trumpet .
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RHP User
12 years ago
Try cialis?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Your own trumpet as your not having much luck blowing other people's trumpets
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Tall74nHard9
12 years ago
but did you ask the 'limp dicks' what experiences they had to put them in that condition ? To have so many going on seems more than just bad luck. As noted above, maybe look at both sides of the equation. Tall
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RHP User
12 years ago
Your profile in itself is rather harsh..... Are you a harsh person...?Sure you can write on there you only want too meet "absolutely beautiful people" ....and yet you message someone who has "large" on thier totally boring profile?Sounds like you expect cocks to raise to your attentions because you are very attractive and they are privileged to be sticking their dick in you. Did you ever think you put too much pressure on them too perform. It happens as I have found this out in the past. Remember attractiveness is not measured just on the outside. Being attractive on the insides is by far, what makes people feel comfortable.Right... you can all bitch slap me now...I have only written what I think.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Totally agree with you Inspirit! I had started to write a very similar reply, but found I couldn't be as diplomatic as you just were so I gave up! ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
When you have a gorgeous man (who can go all night, with a rock hard cock),why are you looking for any other man????Maybe no one can satisfy you??? Maybe?Just asking except him.I am not the a beautiful woman like you, but I had never a limp dick, all the men who come over are getting hardSo I must do something right. hmmm
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is everyone relaxed, at ease with each other ? How much time are you spending chatting on the couch before touching, kissing ? IF you are marching guys from the front door to your bedroom and expecting them to perform I'm not surprised they are struggling. Do your partner and yourself have your shit together ? ... Are you both on the same page ? Do you have rules like no kissing ? Something this simple, can make sex feel very impersonal to a guy who may be pretty nervous, and nerves and erections are not a good mix... Hp xo 💌 Because I'm worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
You are too beautiful for RHO?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Get them to get down and give you 20 first? As reading your profile you guys seem so militant, too many strict requirements. Does your man stand at the end of the bed shouting out "Front and centre, time to get it hard and fuck her Boi?" Maybe chill a little and drop the "We're so hot tag" and enjoy the ride, so your partners can also..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Inspirit, I think you address this topic where it should be addressed. I don't live near them. Although I fit their age bracket, I wouldn't feel comfortable.Locally, One partner, we both had three cums each during the afternoon. There was no pressure from either side, coffee to start, hours together, a coffee to finish.One partner, we had dinner together, went back to her place, she stripped at the door and said "fuck me with that big cock of yours" over and over. Guess what, I don't have a big cock, and I just couldn't get hard. We played around for a while, I enjoyed licking her home. After 15 mins of cuddling after, I said "Thanks for a nice night but I'm going back to my place".Last night, I had dinner with an Absolutely Gorgeous Woman. During dinner, the Small Head was so excited and wanted to take control. I had to "smack him" and it took a lot of effort to remain a Gentleman.She'd had a big week and needed sleep, without me. Ultimately, we parted company at her door.The Small Head was very very unhappy, but the Big Head woke this morning knowing that he was a Gentleman and looked after his Lady.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Another man-bashing thread.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just couldn't be as diplomatic as Inspirit.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The amount of threads that go along the lines of - just because you have a big cock or a six pack ..... but arrogant to think that you don't have to engage my largest organ !! you get the jist. You say you are very attractive (and I won't go there) but are you relying on being very attractive and simply turning up expecting that to work or are you really trying to engage the person you are with ??Like the peeps have mentioned already and not trying to be harsh but it seems like the common denominator so far is yourselves so if your getting the same result all the time but not changing anything its like bashing your head against a brick wall - keep doing it and it will get sore after a while.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I had a conversation with a friend,he told me that he wont play with couples anymore because he just felt like an object...his pleasure and needs were irrelevant to them...I know other couples who have a completely different attitude they are fiendly,lovely and care about the pleasure of anyone they are with . Maybe OP you are more like the former couple and less like the latter.A slight attitude adjustment me thinks, is required.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mr Tryst and I have never experienced guys going soft on either one of us. Maybe we are not attractive enough? Ms Shout
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have just read you profile, shit talk about arrogant. I am in my fifties work 70 hours a week for 3 and half weeks at a time. So no I am not able to reply to your profile because I am not slim, but I do a laborious job and I am able to keep up with my lady for hours on end with a hard on. Too bad you believe you are out of your league.. PFFFT
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RHP User
12 years ago
Given that your profile says you have been in the swinging scene before, a little reflection. What is different now than before when you two were in the scene......your approach?, the people you are choosing to meet? The circumstances of the meet? The activities you are exploring?For this issue to have raised its head, something about the situation must have changed from before.
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RHP User
12 years ago
None of you were really listening to me…… what I was actually saying is what can we do to help the guys who have performance anxiety. Yes I said I’m OK to look at but there are far younger, prettier, slimmer girls then me, so I wondered if we could all come up with a solution. My gorgeous man is fine as he has nothing to prove, he knows I love him and therefore performance anxiety isn’t an issue. Apparently one of the greatest sexual and emotional obstacles for men today is performance anxiety. Those who battle it on a regular basis know how crippling and debilitating worrying about it can be. The problem is in the term itself: "performance anxiety." Guys have socialised themselves to think of sex as an act, a performance, with an expected role they are supposed to conform to. Maybe their anxiety around sex comes from the expectations imposed on masculinity in our culture, from watching porn, from there depictions of how men act in the media, from fears or insecurities that fuel this need to perform. How many times have they thought about their sexual performance? How long have they lasted, how good or bad did they think they were in bed, what did the girl think of the sex, a past sexual experience that didn’t go as planned? For many guys, these questions fill their minds and often stay with them. Men typically view sex as goal-oriented, performance-driven, orgasm-centric and erection focused. How un-sexy is that sentence? Imagine what sex would be like if we came from a place of pleasure, intimacy, sharing of sexual enjoyment, no judgment? Men set themselves up for performance anxiety by creating expectations that are often too difficult to achieve — expectations that don’t really even matter. Not only are these expectations hard to live up to, but they work against the very nature of what sex is: pleasure enjoyed by how many people are involved. Alcohol You've had one, or five, too many at the bar. Though you may become more charming as you get drunker, your penis may not. There are always those who claim to know imaginative, sure fire sober-up techniques, but that's all bunk. Once you're intoxicated, only time's going to sober you up. What to do: The solution here is purely preventive; hang back on the drinks if you plan on engaging in some action later. So if you sense you're starting to tie one on, switch to drinking water halfway through the night. Who needs alcohol when you can have sex? Tired You could be tired from a long day or fatigued from being sick; maybe you are hungry. Whichever way it happens, your body is run down and probably in no condition for sex. What to do: Take care of your body before you try to have sex. Eat, take a nap, veg out for a little while after work. Recuperate a little bit before giving it a go. Other factors Caffeine and nicotine, and social drugs are major impediments to your penis getting hard. Both jazz up your nervous system, making erections more difficult to achieve. What to do: Simple. No coffee before sex and save the cigarette until afterward. A comfortable environment, with humour, conversation and ensuring there is a mutual connection before you even get into the bedroom. We always meet people first, talk, get to know them, make them feel comfortable and at ease. If the connection isn’t there, we never, ever hesitate in saying so. This is meant to be a fun and pleasurable experience for all, and certainly not full of anxiety and stress. Finally, guys we are not in any way saying there is an easy answer, but if it feels wrong when you know the elevator isn’t going up….. Then speak up! Also to those of you who have attacked me personally, please stop, this topic was meant to be discussed in a forum where no one is judged. This is a sex site, let none of us forget that! My partner and I have been doing this life style for over 10 years and this problem has only just become apparent! Have we changed, no, have we suddenly become arrogant, supercilious absolutely not. We are caring, friendly approachable people and would never invite someone into our private domain if we were not. However, what has changed is the attitude of some of the guys we connect with - that is where the change in attitude should occur.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Making people feel comfortable is the best way to help them perform. Do what you can to help them feel comfortable.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'Your profile in itself is rather harsh..... Are you a harsh person...?Sure you can write on there you only want too meet "absolutely beautiful people" ....and yet you message someone who has "large" on thier totally boring profile?Sounds like you expect cocks to raise to your attentions because you are very attractive and they are privileged to be sticking their dick in you. Did you ever think you put too much pressure on them too perform. It happens as I have found this out in the past. Remember attractiveness is not measured just on the outside. Being attractive on the insides is by far, what makes people feel comfortable.Right... you can all bitch slap me now...I have only written what I think.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It wouldn't bother me being limp all night lol for a piece of that action, there's other ways to keep the ball's rolling. I know I've had to many Jimmy's now... beverage type that is....xknots
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi Kinkypussycat, yes it has happened to me a few times when I have had threesomes with a bi guy. The first time I think it was because it was his first time in a threesome and with a guy... He was really nervous. A few times because they guy was a bottom... I think sometimes bottoms don't necessarily get hard when they play with men, but that is me guessing. And maybe another time where the guy did okay but he was a little disappointed in himself but it was a foursome and the first time we had met, so again nerves played apart. What can you do about it? Don't play with couples or guys unless they are fairly experienced with group play. And yes maybe spend more time in the getting to know each other part at the beginning of the night. Good luck!! :D
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't think there is anything wrong with stating your preference for slim people. And have you changed your profile? ... Why is someone making comments on your husband being demanding? Seems completely out of the blue. Don't get it. I admit that if a man has slim on his profile I say .... Next. I am not attracted to skinny guys at all.
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RHP User
12 years ago
...you were pissed off and had a dummy spit as it appears you know what the problem is. Therefore I suggest in the future, rather than bash men and their performance actually write about the issue in more constructive manner. In saying that you might of found my post a personal attack, though it was clearly my perception from your post and your profile. Perhaps you are a loving, caring couple however your post and profile do not allow ME too think that. Also I do not think all men see sex as a goal orientated feat. I do believe some men can set them sets up for failure if they feel they are batting above their "weight". Some girls are the same. Goodluck. At the end of the day accountability is what is important here I think.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's a problem that has been brought up before... Sometimes it is performance anxiety, some of the guys on here are a bit messed up after breaking up with their partner. Sometimes it's a lifestyle thing... Maybe they've had too much to drink or have health problems. It's not you and there's not much you can do about it except just choose a bit better. Healthy guys, more than a year out of a relationship who have had sex recently. Idk, a hard man is good to find though!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
from you. What you have written now didn't attack anybody.yes some men have trouble so do some women, but maybe we can hide it better. I wouldn't take a drunk, stoned male home in the first place.Sex should be fun and enjoyable not a task.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Kinky, the two biggest issues that affect me occasionally are either being tired or too much alcohol. Either are up to the guy if they know ahead of time.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'...you were pissed off and had a dummy spit as it appears you know what the problem is. Therefore I suggest in the future, rather than bash men and their performance actually write about the issue in more constructive manner. Good luck. And Kaleidoscope, did you just choke or something?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Firstly, to those of you who have criticised our profile, we have a fantastic marriage and an amazing sex life. However, we enjoy spicing things up a bit by playing with others, males, females, couples and groups. We do not have to justify our preferences, the definition of preference is - "that which is preferred; choice". However, that isn't set in stone we are not that shallow. We have met and played with many that don't match our profile, but there is an aura and/or a personality that made them attractive to us in other ways. To suggest that our approach is militant when you have never met us, is not even worthy of a reply. Meeting fun, confidant people (who we treat with the utmost respect, as we do any other guest) having good conversation, enjoying a laugh is the entree to a great main course! This site is about fun, good sex and if you're lucky making new friends, all with a common interest. In spirit - you are not being realistic if you believe that the majority of the guys on this site are not goal orientated! Of course they are, we have never had a guy come round for deep and meaningful conversation! They know what they are coming for so they shouldn't turn up to play tennis without their racquet. I have had some pretty negative comments on this thread, which is unfortunate! I thought this forum would provide a medium where ideas and views on relevant subjects could be aired in a constructive/positive manner. Personal derogatory comments levelled at us or our profile are unnecessary, unhelpful and reactive.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
When you say the attitude of the guys you connect with should change, I have to wonder why you don't get to know guys who have the right attitude? That would seem a simple solution. I say that not to bust your chops or have a go. Either I have misinterpreted what you meant or perhaps you hadn't considered that as an option.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Kinkypussycat'I thought this forum would provide a medium where ideas and views on relevant subjects could be aired in a constructive/positive manner. It would also have been helpful if your forum itself had been written in a positive manner. Let's ALL do better next time, no?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think you've been treated really badly on this forum post and I really hope it doesn't put you off posting. Youve obviously got a lot to contribute. I think some of the regulars should get over themselves. The men on here can defend themselves against any bashing. It's really wrong to claim a woman is responsible for a man's erection when clearly that is not the case.
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RHP User
12 years ago
and I respect that and I have my own view. Thank you
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think you are dead right Kinky Pussycat. If I (male) want a good experience playing I always skipper and limit myself to only a small amount of alcohol. However my wife has a better time if she can drink so its win win.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Awesome71, thank you very much I was beginning to think everyone was ignorant and supercilious on this forum. However, have no doubt their comments will have absolutely no affect on me posting on this forum in the future. If I have something to say I will say it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You should never feel guilty for knowing your mind and what you want out of life. In saying that, read your profile and maybe use different words, as intimidation comes in many shapes and forms. I love your line that you take care of your mind and body, so instead of saying we only want SLIM people maybe you could change that to we are looking for likeminded playmates. Open up a little more on your information, you've been together a while and love to add a bit of spice. I can only say for the good looking men in this world, is there is always such an expectation placed on them, a lot of people think its easier as they have an advantage, however I always have seen it as they sometimes have to prove themselves. I hope you have luck in your ventures and enjoyment in simple pleasures.
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RHP User
12 years ago
its not only the mans organ that needs to be engaged but the mind too. Yes some of us have them an if there is doubt or anything that may be forcing itself past the pure sexual urges then under performance is going to happen. Insecurities or lack or trust/comfort do play a part for some. Some can ignore it and rise to the occasion others cant. No different from a woman being able to provide the right lubrication or not. It all depends on the individual or the circumstance in my opinion. Not all guys only think with their penis
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RHP User
12 years ago
Asch you man ha many time pull cock you not wrong is him
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm also a confident attractive women but are you as full on in the bedroom as your profile comes across? Maybe you need to use the gentle approach or maybe they just aren't attracted to you. Everyone has their likes and dislikes and maybe as attractive you think you are may be you just don't do it for them? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot'They're just not as good as diamond dick you're attached to??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
have bin there myself once .... a couple we met who were nice but she seemed to be the one in charge. he offerd me the magic blue pill which i refused....later on regreted not having it but he had a great time with my wife as we both helped watched and touched them both franticaly goin for it .. but when it came to me doing her, the pressure of pleasing her seemed impossible.i tried, only to go soft inside her. i think she was performing for him and not for us as a sharing couple.? we never met again. yet a male freind we had many encounters with. on almost every occasion couldnt get hard but we would go for hours and still have a great time sucking, licking and touching each other.sometimes he would cum but he didnt rely on a blue pill. and was never under pressure to perform.i think we understood each other and were freinds who understood each others needs. hope thats not too deep. (but we are digging arnt we.?)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe going for straight guys is not the way to go, I didn't read your profile so I don't know what you are looking for, so if you look for a bi guy the chances of him being comfortable around you and your hubby. Some guys say they like Mmf but just to get some. Or you could play alone with the guy first. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
If we are not comfortable in the situation and relaxed it not going to happen
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe Viagra in the top door will do the trick :) no problem then. - Posted from rhpmobile
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swifttall
12 years ago
After reading that I figured your profile was just good for the pictures. I reckon you could have been more aggressive with your opening but it would take some work to do it. What happened to secondly and beyond?
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RHP User
12 years ago
We're with you inspirit and mselle- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
well i suppose in some cases it could be overwarm situation in 5 years i never had any problem to stay hard for hours untill i planned for threesome with a couple girl was hot like hell her partner was supportive to i am non smoker he was smoker me and girl was doing great but everytime when he was trying to join in i was not comfortable what he was doing plus his breath made me go soft it was really embarrassing for me .
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is really depends on how much they are indulge in activity than thinking about something else. Many factors can lead to this situation. Some things that you can not help with. Well I have had all night sex back in Uni. days with rock hard cock allnight. And still do. They really need to stop thinking about everything else and just enjoy the moment and things will workout.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
If it is happening all the time, I would think that it is something you are doing not the guys. You say you are attractive, which your body is by your pics, but is attractiveness enough, you also need to be engaging. I have not had your problem so am not really able to help in any way. Hope you can find a solution, good luck. D
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's something that can happen to anyone. It just doesn't happen to your husband because he is comfortable with you. I would say judging by your attitude that perhaps it may be you that it the issue. Not in a mean way, but perhaps you are putting unnecessary pressure on these guys to satisfy you. Real life isn't a porno - men aren't hard and ready to go for hours on end. Read up on the science behind procreation. Reality vs porno are 2 different worlds.- Posted from rhpmobile
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WyldOneParties
12 years ago
Performance anxiety is just a fact of sexual life, it won't go away I'm afraid. I think it most certainly helps if the woman is physically attractive, but even more if he has some impression that he isn't EXPECTED to perform, because then he can relax. Perhaps try talking about other experiences before getting horizontal, if you can mention these 'bad' experiences in a compassionate, non-judgemental way, I'm sure it would take some pressure off the guy in question and help him see you as the attractive person so say you are. The removal of an absolute expectation (in your own mind too) and an understanding that these things can happen not only stacks the odds in favour of it not happening, but also allows you to enjoy whatever the experience brings. We too are interested in the threesome thing and actively seek a guy to 'add some spice', we have occasionally had similar experiences with er.. 'sad limp dicks' but we always try to help the guy not to feel bad about it and enjoy the moment... the oral, the touching, the conversation, the toys, laughter or whatever the situation has to offer. Sometimes this attitude works the very wonders you are hoping for. As in life - the glass half full, 'we don't always get what we want' approach is best... and the most attractive to everyone.There are many profiles that rant about all the things they DON'T WANT, usually followed by a list of 'personal requirements', we experienced many of these on RSVP before we eventually found each other. There is also a lot of the other kind of profile, the ones from people that don't take themselves too seriously and are biased towards offering useful information about THEMSELVES... in order for reader to decide if there is likely to be any chemistry. We have always been MUCH more attracted to the latter and I'm sure the majority of the people we would enjoy sex with have a similar view.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi there,I do think alot of people watch too much porno and get the wrong impression and capabilities of a man...and womans abiulities.It annoys me on that pornos are acting after all,doing half a dozen cuts and shoots on a to make it seem like a man can remain hard with a massive hardon for half a hour then shoot a gallon of cum!! This is not possible for the average guy then to be hard again in ten minutes and do it all again.Im experienced and with no inibitions ad can put on a good performance to satisfy most woman but do need a break too,have a few drinks,a few laughs then later yes. Dont expect too much from either person,just a hot sexy juicy fun time I say.Steve
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RHP User
12 years ago
Laying on a bit thick can do this.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You all tend to forget on little detail. All or most of the guests tend to be not that hard, well, it must be because as guests they wear condoms while her husband is going bare skin. Personaly with a condom the begining is not as easy as without and sometimes i just don't feel anything even in the middle of the action. We can't do without but man those things spoil most of the fun. My advice, find a regular that you can trust and you will definitly see/feel the difference.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I dont have the problem!! Steve
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RHP User
12 years ago
Did you skip sex ed class? Might be worth a quick read to how the male anatomy works.... On the flip side, if you are still not satisfied after hours of hot sex, maybe something is working quite right there?
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RHP User
12 years ago
In regards to alcohol, we wondered for a long time why a lot of guys don't drink when they play, to be honest we didn't like it. We have started to presume it must be guys who can't get it up when they drink, maybe that comes with age (I'm lucky I got a young one haha)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Agreed with awesome.
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madotara69
12 years ago
It seems to be part with parcel, having another guy is our fantasy come real. No doubt it is for the guy as well, though it just takes time for the visitor to feel confident as a part with the teamwork.There seems to be a lot of hype about guys being able to walk in and just fuck another mans wife, in company with hubby. So far we have found that it takes time and care, how much time? It does not matter.Mado, Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Every man is different and maybe you intimidatemen or they have a personal problem.Without knowing the guys I cant answer but yes there are a few that are all talk no action.As for myself I can say that when I split with my exI was so heart broken it affected my erection for atleast 2 months.There will be people who will blame it all on you butignore them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
and some people are just mind fucked
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RHP User
12 years ago
wow thankyou kinkypussycat for asking the question iv been to scared to ask for ages but never did coz i thought that there must be something wrong with me :( ... now im not feeling so useless after reading all the posts here & are now ready to pick my self esteem back up off the floor :) lol cheers xox
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well Kinky after having read your topic - I really can't see how you can't see what the problem is! It's as plain as the nose on your face. It is right in front of you and you can't see it. It's your ego!!!! It is obviously so large theres no room in the bed for any man with a rock hard cock that will stay that way for 12 hours or more. BTW that isn't normal I really think hubby might want to go and see his doctor about that. Just calling it as I see it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think all the women on here make it impossible for a guy to satisfy you! You want absolutely everything to be perfect! 4 example. You have a wonderful guy you date. And now you expect everyone else u meet to be as good or better then him.. Take the good with the bad an give us guys a bit of a break!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
happens in porn industry all the time.. Even with seasoned vets that have fucked hundreds of times..They still go limp now and then. That's why they use fluffers. Ive seen it happen plenty of times, doesn't bother us at all. Theres more to sex than just humping . Just get em to use there tongue for a while or go at it with him alone for a while. The 3rd time is always better for the guy, his more use to you by then. Maybe don't scare them with your attitude so much as well. You sound scary and angry lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think in many instances we simply reap what we sow. We just sat here reading your profile and admiring your pictures (very lovely body), it all feels rather combative and arrogant and certainly not conducive to a fun experience all round, do you think you maybe setting up a test? As let's face it no one likes a test.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
First i make sure they feel comfortable with me , i make sure they dont feel pressured in anyway ,i like to make them feel as if i am their best friend they can trust me and they can say anything , i throw humour make them laugh and make them feel i care about them and their best interest , they are free to be be whoever they wanna be and of coz within reasons that is and i think once they feel confidence with you the rest as they say history..i can also say , i am easy in the eyes and pretty sexy too , but what is that mean ? Being very attractive and sexy doesnt mean anything really without personality , when i meet them i reckon just offering my hot body and good looks not good enough , i have to make sure i match it with my infectious smile ,warm heart and easy going attitude and it works everytime so far , i would say positive attitude and great personality works everytime... just saying.
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RHP User
12 years ago
i cant understand why everybody is abusing everybody else on here the lady in ?just asked and everyone turns nasty as if its her fault the fac tis that 70% of men have an erectile problem have a good day children x
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RHP User
12 years ago
Are you playing with guys who have had experience with threesomes / group sex before, and in particular who have experience when it comes to other males being present? A guy who has no or limited experience with such situations could well be very nervous and unsure what to expect, and furthermore straight guys in particular may not be used to being nude and having sex in close proximity to other males, so it's natural that they may experience some 'stage fright'. So, you could eliminate that particular factor by only choosing guys who have a fair amount of experience already.
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Tall74nHard9
12 years ago
Quoting 'WanaTasteMe'wow thankyou kinkypussycat for asking the question iv been to scared to ask for ages but never did coz i thought that there must be something wrong with me :( ... now im not feeling so useless after reading all the posts here & are now ready to pick my self esteem back up off the floor :) lol cheers xox The only thing wrong with you that I can see is that we're both not in the same state. Tall
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singlewood
12 years ago
Guys get nervous witch can cause a droop, and hence when it droops they start to worry which causes it to flop and it becomes a vicious circle and nothing said or done can change it in the guys head, until he gets his head around the problem then all come back, but your issue is meeting multiple guys for a one off so no chance of the problem being sorted hmmm - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Whats the age of the people you normally pick up? Maybe it is to do with their experience (or there lack of) which may hinder their performance?I know that as a teenager, my first time with someone older was pretty nerve racking. And although i got through it fine (hard for 2 hours with a nice ending) i can see how someone may get nervous to the point of no performance?Just a thought? everyone is different i guess?
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's called a "refractory period." It is an evolutionary response that also explains why some guys get really sleepy after sex. It Is basically a hormonal reaction to the orgasm, that contracts the blood vessels in the penis and makes it return to a normal state after orgasim is achieved. Seriously, it's actually a good thing because A: the blood in the penis actually can start to "pool" after awhile, and that causes bruising,(not fun to have a bruised penis, it's called piraipisim, and it hurts like hell.), B: If a guy could orgasm repeatedly he'd eventually run out of seminal fluid, and sperm, and the back pressure of continued orgasms would cause a lot of damage to the internal plumbing a guy has (nor would he want to stop cause sex feels so good) and C: By tiring him out after sex he (was supposedly, during our hunter gather days) would be inclined to "leave it in" by simply collapsing in top of his mate. (this is, while unromantic, actually a good pregnancy ensurer as the woman probably wouldn't be able to push him off herself easily, there by maintaining the horizontal posture that is a good way make sure the semen stays put in the vaginal canal. Another reason is that the head of the penis is plunger shaped for a reason, It is so that it can REMOVE OTHER GUYS SPERM! Sounds gross, but it was designed like that so that a man had the best chance to make sure it was HIS offspring the woman had. Now if he stayed hard, he'd keep thrusting after orgasm and all he'd do is squish his sperm out instead. I hope this helps ladies from what I see you all would put a horn on a jelly fish. I have had this issue with several girls and some I can not go soft for the life of me. And I also think it's all about the perfect partner to breed with nothing to do with looks. When we just do it for pleasure it not to breed and we are made to breed and that's when iv always been able to stay hard it always been with some one I felt I could bread with. J
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RHP User
12 years ago
Reading the feedback was an eye opener for me ? Some post are very cruel lol In saying that the lady in question does appear very demanding and also judgmental to others Maybe consider the movie concept where it's the ugly nerd guy that ends up being the best lover of all ???
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RHP User
12 years ago
Get a life! You are insulting and rude there is no need for personal attacks! For goodness sake peeps this is a public forum, we have freedom of speech! I have never read such a load of rubbish in my life!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Totally agree with luvnya69 " Maybe chill a little and drop the "We're so hot tag" and enjoy the ride, so your partners can also"
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've haven't read your profile and certainly haven't read all the comments here but from what I can gather seems to be 'on the rise', unlike the 'sticking point' of conversation here, (did I just say that?) is that with the increase of recreational drug use, lots of people partying hard after working hard and trying to cram it all in (oops, there I go again) their day to day lives, it seems the poor physical beings of the amped up horny libidos and imaginations out there simply can't keep up with the reality of it all. I'm not prepared to divulge anything relating to my own personal experiences on here but I will say that it appears it is unfortunately an increasingly common occurrence for many people I know of out there, whether single and out to mingle, swinging couples, monogamous couples, take your pick, it's happening a lot. Frustrating for everyone but I do feel for the poor buggers who experience this :-/- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Wow if you are that intolerant don't swing .. just stay with your hard cockman ... A very rude thread we think.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've Fucked so many women (not from here) that no one is a mystery anymore and its the same thing over and over. Getting to the point where it takes mental simulation also.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Viagra. It takes the risk out of the equation and let's everyone enjoy the moment(s) nerves free.- Posted from rhpmobile
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Plain280
12 years ago
Four different guys umm, no chemistry check, was it left right left, halt strip off, condom on, enter here. LOLAnd this from a Guy who has had this syndrome (medically induced), part of the problem is also theirs if they checked you out for compatibility before the meets and used the sponge like thing between the ears, rather than their testicles. This may not have happened to you, obviously your attractiveness blinds them to such a degree, that they think with their tool kits only.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just looked at your pics, who would need viagra with you!Amazing body ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I wouldn't let the comments on here get to you, i think everything has just being blown way out of proportion and misinterpreted. I can see what you meant as in, you consider yourself physically attractive so you dont think the problem lies in them not being attracted to you (which, personally i agree, I too would consider you attractive - I certainly wouldn't have trouble in that department based soley on attraction)so ahh, yeah, i think that this has just simply snowballed - and maybe just take care with wording in the future! :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
you are going to ask for help and can not take CONSTRUCTIVE criticism then DON'T ask. So many people on here with MASSIVE EGOS'S. Keep it real!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I haven't visited this thread for a while and am amazed that it's still going strong ;) One thing I will comment on though... IF you have a diagnosed medical condition then I could probably put up with you stuffing little blue pills down your throat. But as a rule I find it offensive if that's the way you choose to play. hp xo because we owe it to ourselves...
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RHP User
12 years ago
would that be ,six women or 123,456 women
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RHP User
12 years ago
If all you want's hard dick go for a younger man- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've lost count so it maybe the latter, even my profile pic was taken with a semi. It sucks, I miss that excitement. Had plenty of young and hot need something different, maybe older, much older. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi everyone , pretty full on thread I have to say. There are so many reasons why people may or may not perform, but I think a lot of it is due to their state of mind... Or some form of disconnect from their body and what they are feeling. Maybe also too much sex - its been proven even one orgasm for a man can really impact his energy (deplete) for almost 3 weeks so it may be a challenge 'rising to the occasion' continuously if he is always blowing his load.. Drugs & alcohol limit our abilities to truly feel - my opinion is people use them because they don't want to be in their bodies... sometimes sex can be very intimate and exposing and this can be hard for guys (& women). I think it's always important to get an understanding and feeling of the person and then take it slow as necessary... If we give up chasing an orgasm the sex can be so amazing ... and then it usually happens anyway (perhaps many times..) If not, you can just keep going hehe - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes I wood say inspirit you have scared the little fucker back somewhere behind there asshole in fact may have even taken refuge from this powerful beautiful presence you have over them ?? Ahh that's it the power is strong in you my dear the Power of the Pussy!!!! Your hard cock man is all that and nothing more ??? Hard cock!!! These soft cocks have feelings passion they may want to seduce you remember without your permission and welcoming legs spread lay back invitation the poor men are feeble its no wonder there cock shot up there own ass how the fuck are we going to satisfy a goddess especially when you grit your teeth tare clothes off dig in your nails and tell the poor boys you are going to fuck there brains out??? Try the gentle approach :-))- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
a knee jerk reaction never really ends well.. May I suggest you read the opening post. It does help sometimes
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi alll, Yes I too have this soft cock problem not all the time but most, Now the reason will be the same for most of us, we start to think about it before we get going then its to late. I have sat looking and chatting with the lady who we are going to have fun with turned on just by looking then the thought what if. Me and Deb have talked about the soft cock issuse and come up with next time we play with a couple me and deb are going to start playing with each other first to get going then when nice and hard then we all join together splitting up in to 2 .Not saying it will work but Deb knows how to get me hard with her touch and kisses. So maybe guys give it a go.Sorry if its been surgested before not read all comments. cheers
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RHP User
12 years ago
Loverly couple had the pleasure of meeting them both and think its pretty pathetic that we have a open forum where they have raised a topic without being rude or revealing names ect they are only asking the question to see if anyone else has had the same problem lay off her they are some of the most genuine people I have met from here and if the no shows of the site actually followed threw with meeting them they would relise they are loverly and mean no offence lay off kinky there good people - Posted from rhpmobile
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