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Shallow women
January 25 2015
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RHP User
11 years ago
Come back..... we'd all like to read your thoughts on the responses so far.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd love to share my opinion of your post and your attitude with you but I don't have instant posting and there's no way the moderators would allow what I want to say to be posted.
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nattyocean
11 years ago
With regard to this topic, again I receive a response to a message I responded to with a template of not what I'm looking for etc, who subsequently outlined to me that apparently my profile states that I'm looking for a man just like him and to quote "if I wanted to pursue muscled, tattooed idiots then don't indicate otherwise! Lol dude, chill! I get a little tired of having to justify myself on this site by what I can only assume to be are insecure, desperate and potentially angry men and that my friends is not something or someone who I would be into! I'm a lover not a fighter! And what ever happened to no means no! And if there is something on your profile that does not appear then just accept that it is the case not feel the need to lash out! It is highly offensive, unnecessary and there will be someone on here that you will tick their tock - but sorry just not mine! So OP I can understand that you are feel frustrated etc but patience, a bit of extra effort and honesty goes a long way as opposed to misdirected anger xx NattyO - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Think this ones run its course now jensman1903. Im sure with the amount of comments its recieved, he will take some of it on board and maybe see theres light at the end of the rhp tunnel if the right attitude/approach to other people is given with a little respect.
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madotara69
11 years ago
you don't have instant posting Jman?, shit you are the dusty old lounge over in the corner, needing a good dusting off Mado Tara xx Oh and a kiss in the air for Jennie lee xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I notice that the OP is currently online. Come share your thoughts, Jamie.... the microphone is yours.
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RHP User
11 years ago
and quietly exits the room with Jensman ...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'PaintMeHappy' and quietly exits the room with Jensman ... Jensman just got lucky... He who hesitates masturbates...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Jamie Jamie Jamie.. Remember that this all in fun and what goes on here is just an imitation of real life. If you think it's hard here to "pick up" then try the real world, go to a trendy bar or club on a Friday or Saturday night and bust your moves and see how you go the chances are you will have more luck here.. A lot of single women already have the preconceived notion that they are going to treated like a piece of meat on these sites so why not raise the bar and try to weed out those guys.. At the end of the day we all have different tastes and likes, we have been on here for about 12 months and yet to meet a woman who wants to play with us in a threesome, but that's ok we don't get put out by that, as it is just life :) And also remember you have a profile on here and need to be careful what you post and how you word thing's. Our bet is you have just sunk your own ship with all the beautiful women on this site :(
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RHP User
11 years ago
Even if a woman only gets twenty messages a week,that's an awful lot of coffee... Meeting people ,unless you are an uber extrovert can be just plain exhausting...so of course women and men will be selective ,and if the profile and or message doesn't appeal,then there ain't gonna be a coffee...the law of averages would suggest that if you send out onehundred messages then you might get response from ten recipients...make your profile more interesting and you might receive more attention...but I have come to the conclusion that there is also an element of luck involved here..well that's my excuse for having absolutely none 😒xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its sounds to me like the op expected women on rhp to all be willing to sleep with anyone that sends a message or a flirt. If being choosy on who gains access to my yummy bits then just call me as deep as a drop of water. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Appears I'll be adding to to my particularly shallow and picky profile , knowing what your looking for isnt shallow. You dont buy a car with no idea what model, make and year your after who test drives every car in the yard ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yep shallow shallow shallow..... Don't climb a branch unless I like what I see...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Dude, I have 6 pages of contacting single ladies and couples, not a single conversion, some are kind enough to say 'no thank you', mostly just 'no reply'! I really want to complain sometimes, but I believe in free market sexual economics I usually wrong elaborate long replies that response to their profile requirements and what they say about themselves! Then again, has some good conversations with some people!
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RHP User
11 years ago
It seems the OP is now offline...... preparing to rise from the scorched earth of his topic, profile and previous unsuccessfula nd antisocial methods.... to be born again as ... ........ to be advised. OR, he blocked me. hahaha
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RHP User
11 years ago
believe that anyone who doesn't want to sleep with me is shallow. I mean, what other reason could there possibly be?? 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' believe that anyone who doesn't want to sleep with me is shallow. I mean, what other reason could there possibly be?? 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile Makes three of us
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RHP User
11 years ago
Try not acting like a complete tool! - Posted from rhpmobile
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gazpacho
11 years ago
I thought this was going to be another discussion about vagina sizes. I'm so glad it was just another new guy griping about not getting any from the wall to wall sluts he imagines from all these raunchy profile pics. HugsGaz
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Quoting 'PaintMeHappy' and quietly exits the room with Jensman ... Paint? You'll be back like it's a traffic accident.xxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hes online again...... reading..... Come back Jamie..... all is forgiven ...... if you've learned something for the topic you started. Thats the point of taking the effort to write it, right? DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Love it when someone voluntary puts their head on the chopping block!!... He He.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Shallow women are great.Easy to please, they just look at the surface, you can be anyone you want for a shallow woman. If its not working for you try a new hat. A good new hat can easily fool a shallow person into thinking you are cool and very fuckable and that's what you are after is it not OP. As long as they look good and want to fuck you should be more than happy with a shallow woman and all you need is a good hat. Now the desiring woman with depth, there is way too many of them about. They see straight though you, even with a new hat, I truly though of ditching this place till I learnt to focus on the shallow end of the pool, you don't even have to try.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Got an interesting message today,great profile details, hot sexy profile pic. tick,tick,tick. Gave me access to pg, and I was turned off by how messy his bedroom pics were. Nothing worse than seeing crap piled up everywhere in the back ground. So thats a no from me. Shallow? Yep.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Three generic messages that weren't even trying to pretend they were just for me. One came with access for a PG full of cock shots. Reading my profile must be too big of a job to handle for the poor dears.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Damn, Cavey. The lad had a squiz at my profile but didn't leave the entertaining little message. Bloody favouritism.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm doing my very best to keep Ms. Paint Me entertained. 😛
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RHP User
11 years ago
would be to think that we're all on here for the same reasons. Thinking that RHP is a reflection of reality would be your next mistake in my opinion. It's been my experience, on the odd occasion that I have a face pic on display as my profile pic, men don't hesitate to approach me. But having said that, it's fair to say that these same men would not approach me in real life. Men generally just don't - it's the other way around. So in that respect, RHP is most definitely not a reflection of my reality. It's not so much that we're shallow Mr Jamie100, I think it's more that we know what we want (or don't want as the case may be) better than anyone else (as do men no doubt) - no different to you knowing what you want better than we could possibly know what you want if that makes any sense at all LoL.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe people should read profiles before messaging. I've been told numerous times that I'm rude because I've told guys straight out 'No'. My profile clearly states that I'm looking for women, so I'm not being rude by turning down men, they just aren't what I'm looking for. Everyone has a preference and the right to say No!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
You guys still defending intolerence? ** Kiwi has it cornered. And btw Kiwi I did catch a glimpse of the face pic - understand your post. Very interesting. ** SA
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can't talk with my mouth full ..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Frankly, I think its all been said, but like others on here, I too have on occasion received salacious and these come hither me invitations for the instant meet and all that follows, (from others) usually at ungodly hours of the evening, when I'm engrossed in a book, or snooping through the forums. I used to be very, very polite and make small talk. Then I became jaded. (A bit like you sound Jamie!) My standard response for these adventures now is, "Buddy, it's after midnight The Happy Hooker has closed for this evening, however future encounters are $200 per hour, and after hours is a $400 call out fee + travel allowance!" Usually, silence ensues - a beautiful thing in my opinion! Now, Jamie I'm off to tend my Spaghetti Bolongaise and shave some Parmesan Cheese, which is what I'd probably do to your balls, (or anyone else's these days) if I received opening messages like the ones, that you've sent to others......above!^^ So, be nice and gracious; And, as my grandmother use to say, you'll catch more flies with honey than vinegar!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Honestly, I'm less convinced of this. Most profiles here and elsewhere are an amalgam of fantasy, denial, self delusion and outright b*llsh*t. Judging others who may contact you only on that profile is fraught with difficulty. I tend to read between the lines, as do we all. Is the tone nice or unhappy? The obvious can they spell (or at least avoid the modern "wat r u up 2?") and what does their grammar look like, not because I give a shit about spelling or grammar but because I'd like to find a brain as well as "bits". I've met plenty of folk where I thought to myself I wasn't convinced but let's try meeting someone "against type". As you'd expect, some successes, some not, so much the same as any other meeting really. The only real difference here is as a not very attractive guy I have the time to do this, where as kiwi noted the attractive women here have to deal with a crap-flood of mail and have a hard enough time winnowing the chaff, let alone meeting extra guys where they can't be sure. I don't think things are going to change BTW. It's just basic human nature after all. But, I think it serves us all well to at least be aware of the blinders we're all wearing.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey jamie100. I'm sorry but not all us woman are shallow. I can say that I'm not going to go fuck every guy that approaches me. After all I do have standards, eg don't want married men, no one under 30 or older then 60. I also want someone that is reasonably good looking but more important I want men that are respectful. I don't want man saying I don't want you putting me at risk by playing with that guy, when they want to put me at risk by playing with woman without condoms. So if that makes me shallow in your eyes or anyone else's eyes then so be it I'll be shallow. xxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
..Jamie has been snapped up by hordes of women here No masochists read the forums maybe?!?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'eviltwin' Honestly, I'm less convinced of this. Most profiles here and elsewhere are an amalgam of fantasy, denial, self delusion and outright b*llsh*t. Judging others who may contact you only on that profile is fraught with difficulty. I tend to read between the lines, as do we all. Is the tone nice or unhappy? The obvious can they spell (or at least avoid the modern "wat r u up 2?") and what does their grammar look like, not because I give a shit about spelling or grammar but because I'd like to find a brain as well as "bits". I've met plenty of folk where I thought to myself I wasn't convinced but let's try meeting someone "against type". As you'd expect, some successes, some not, so much the same as any other meeting really. The only real difference here is as a not very attractive guy I have the time to do this, where as kiwi noted the attractive women here have to deal with a crap-flood of mail and have a hard enough time winnowing the chaff, let alone meeting extra guys where they can't be sure. I don't think things are going to change BTW. It's just basic human nature after all. But, I think it serves us all well to at least be aware of the blinders we're all wearing. Other than my height, the length and colour of my hair, physical appearance does not factor into my profile at all, so not only do I not have that complaint, I simply don't hold that view.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I TELL THOSE I PLAY WITH PLEASE DONT VALIDATEI DONT NEED IT I KNOW I AM FUN.MEN CAN BE JUST AS SHALLOW AS THE LADIES.MEN AND WOMAN ARE LIKE CARS THE OLDER ONESHAVE MORE SHAPE AND WILL LAST LONGER.
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RHP User
11 years ago
you my friend have come along way😊 Maybe the op is a "No GOGO mobile"😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Paradisepair' I like them hot, hunky and preferably hung. I wish to use them mercilessly for my own pleasure, and fortunately I'm very giving so it's not a one-way street. I not just have a good loving man in the real-world, but real world guys occasionally hit on me. I don't think a huge percentage of women here are looking for a 'proper' match, just a nice, sexy, friendly, intelligent and respectful root. I feel very fortunate to have encountered a number of guys who fit that bill. You've obviously not been having fun, you sound very bitter. Try adopting a few of those traits I mentioned above (nice, friendly, respectful etc) and you might have a better experience. Misogyny isn't something that generally turns women on. I have sent that many messages and am always respectful and pleasant. I receive very few replies and about 85% of replies are "SORRY YOU"RE NOT WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR". What's the go with that. How do they know if you have never actually met or at least taken the time to have a chat. I have even been told "SORRY I AM INTO GYM JUNKIES WITH MUSCLES RIPPLING EVERYWHERE, from a woman that describes herself as AMPLE, what's the go with that. Also women accept friend requests but never actually reply to messages. Because of this I have decided not to renew my membership which expire this Saturday.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' take a break. you have 6 friends and a validationlife cant be all badDon't let a few no thanks responses get to you.you need a thick skin on here ultimately people are fickle and so is attraction. You cant control what anybody else does but you can control your response. Well said. Right now, I'm wishing I was closer to Queensland to meet you - a woman who looks at the bright side and posts a classy, intelligent response.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Are a wanker. I'm not sure what role RHP plays in your life since you clearly spend a lot of time with your own hand on your dick. Your bullshit assumptions about "all women on here" make you look like a prick...,and not the useful ones I so selectively choose to fuck. Good luck...your gonna need it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Your probably just sick of being rejected... which is understandable. Though it's bound to happen on this site where the single guys far out weigh the single girls (I'm think)... I get rejected all the time on here, so I know how hard it can be, but lashing out doesn't help dude. Just think to yourself it's thier loss, and move on. Trust me I know, I get more attention from girls in the 'real world' but I'm often too shy to start a conversation, so I use this site to break the ice.. but then find myself being ignored by people who I'm pretty sure don't know what thier missing! Catch 22
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am new and from SYD and a single female. I have not got a wink - or whathever these are called- so I did not have a chance to take a look at your profile until I came across this thread. Whilst I understand your frustration I think you have to realize that 1,women are not shallower than men 2,photos matter a lot - if I cannot see the face of a person I am not going to prioritize him for a response. 3, attraction is subjective - what you might like and what personA might like WILL DIFFER from what personB likes.."Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" if someone looks at your profile and thinks "nah ..not for me" and are honest and upfront about well guess what - you saved yourself a lot of time and anticipation with false hopes and a let down. I know this because I am not perfect - I know I am not everyone's cup of tea - does that mean that everyone is shallow...no..it is just that I have to put a bit more effort into it. 4, Flexibility - there is no such thing as perfection - Learn to compromise as it might bring fun life experiences along the way Best of luck BTW The stats are that Sydney has a man-drought - so you are very well positioned to find someone :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
As a girl who blocked you last month I can definitely comment on this. You were polite , nice , I found you attract and you were not sleazy once too me. It was the lack of photos and the biggest turn off is you just keep messaging me consent. The time you message me I was on vacation so I didn't want to be bothered much . If I stopped checking my phone I had 5 msgs from you and felt like I couldn't breathe as in one night it happened more than once. Just wait for a reply and understand we all have lives and not always available to reply to you straight away. Just chill out and be casual not be over bearing. By the way we aren't on here for the same thing either. Everyone has their reason so don't be judgemental...and lastly I can easy pick up people in the real world .. I use to site as I find its a direct way to find what I'm searching for
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Paradisepair' ... I don't think a huge percentage of women here are looking for a 'proper' match, just a nice, sexy, friendly, intelligent and respectful root. ... That's what I'm looking for in a woman :-) And I'm happy to be friends first - unfortunately so many men are looking just for a quick root and then run for exit
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RHP User
11 years ago
I offered help..... he blocked me. Looks like some little boys just don't play well with others.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you can't handle rejection.... then RHP is no place for you!!! Easy peasy Japanesey!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah.......OMG.........hahahahahahahahahahahahaha......Gasping for air.....rolling on the ground....... Tears pouring........... Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha........ Oh g-d I needed a good laugh!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Lol, you shouldn't pinpoint because it's really not your business to command what others should do. -snapchat horny2night-
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RHP User
11 years ago
Does shallow mean we are upfront in what we want and don't want? And are men shallow for looking at a ladies pics and commenting purely on the aesthetics they see? Perhaps you feel they (the men) should comment more on the wonderful personality and loving nature of the lady behind the pic? Or man for that matter... If you and your profile is not what the receiver of your message likes, or thinks they will like, then why would the honesty of that offend you? Have you tried eHarmony? Perhaps RHP is not the right place for you ....
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm really enjoying the forthright views being expressed in these forums but can't help think that the above "subject commentary"is akin to rhp suicide.while there are profiles here that are "lists of what I don't want"etc and I fall into a healthy number of those lists I appreciate that's what this site is all about.its not a traditional dating site.when it comes to sex we all have very clear ideas of what we like.its hard to match fantasies with reality,but that's the purpose of this site.regardless of shape,color or sexual tastes you can put up your list of wants and hope for the best.theres no denying the numbers,way more women then men,but that's why they're here.ive lived with many female freinds over the years and got great insight into the slobbering and unwanted approaches they get when they out for a night of fun with freinds,again that's why many of them are here.they can skip all that,put up their wish list and see what happens.yes we,re all here for the same reason but theres nothing wrong with being selective...that's my 2 cents..lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have No friends, no validations and I'm constantly rejected on this site.Haven't even had sex in 3 years. So think of yourself as lucky. Things could be ALOT worse.
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Quoting 'Staples4335' I have No friends, no validations and I'm constantly rejected on this site.Haven't even had sex in 3 years. So think of yourself as lucky. Things could be ALOT worse. Chin up. Had a quick perv at your profile. Don't know why you haven't had any luck. Maybe expand the bit about yourself. But soldier on it'll happen. You are a decent looking rooster
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RHP User
11 years ago
As the male half of a couple on here, I have to agree with most of the posts. Your post is precisely why you will find most couple profiles saying "NO SINGLE MALES". We don't all say that because we don't want another guy around spoiling our wife... quite the opposite. Many of us would LOVE to see a RESPECTFUL, HUMBLE, DECENT guy treat our lady. And the ladies would love nothing more. However there are so many, like you, who spoil it. Your arrogance and self-centered attitude cause us to simply say "no". It takes a great deal of faith, trust, respect, communication, love, and a lot of other qualities you seem ignorant of, for a couple or single woman to put themselves "out there" on a site like this and venture into this territory. You, as a single male however, need only throw up a profile and a pic in hopes of getting laid. No risk, no big decision, no deep thought around it. If it doesn't work out for you, no sweat off your balls, right? You aren't putting anything on the line. Everyone else IS. Show a little F***ing respect for others and maybe you'll get somewhere. But alas, I'm sure you have fully destroyed ALL hope on this site. Our wives are our goddesses. The single ladies, by mere fact they had the guts to be here, should be treated every bit as well. Think about that. If we were fact-face I would give you an ass-kicking like Robert DuVall did in "second hand lions", then help you lick your wounds and give you some clearly needed advice to help you grow from the situation. Try reading Swingland, then have another go somewhere else. A single guy wrote it, aiming primarily to educate single men.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Annie_Whichway' Quoting 'Staples4335' I have No friends, no validations and I'm constantly rejected on this site.Haven't even had sex in 3 years. So think of yourself as lucky. Things could be ALOT worse. Chin up. Had a quick perv at your profile. Don't know why you haven't had any luck. Maybe expand the bit about yourself. But soldier on it'll happen. You are a decent looking rooster You have a great face... Maybe get out in the real world and don't rely exclusively on RHP for meeting women, I'd let you buy me a drink if I met you at a bar...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Lookin4FunPpl' Quoting 'Missb72' take a break. you have 6 friends and a validationlife cant be all badDon't let a few no thanks responses get to you.you need a thick skin on here ultimately people are fickle and so is attraction. You cant control what anybody else does but you can control your response. Well said. Right now, I'm wishing I was closer to Queensland to meet you - a woman who looks at the bright side and posts a classy, intelligent response. Now guys that's the way to do it. I do not fit his cry tear re a , as I cant fuckin spell and i can speak proppa
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QLDtwo4fun
11 years ago
Mate, just because there are women here who are open about their interest in sex doesn't mean they want to fuck every one who winks or messages them. May be I'm wrong, and in the real world you get more action than on here, I which case change your approach on RHP. Mr Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
I personally don't think women here are all shallow. A certain amount of members here including women are well educated and have worked hard enough to get a decent lifestyle. There're a few reasons women are here:1. To kill loneliness. We all want to be loved. We would rather interpret wild animal sex to affection;'2. A broken heart to heal: We tend to be attached to the man that we're emotionally attracted. Once there is a man there, he is all that we want. In order to move on, we will have to accept the fact that there is not just one man on this planet.3. Curiosity. There is a huge step from fantasise about it to act upon it;4. Maturity. Some of the young girls haven't found true love yet and they would like to explore as much as possible until Mr right is in our life;5. Attention seeker: Some women may have low self esteem and a quick way to fix it is to have heaps of persuers running after to boost their self-esteem.... They need a man to make them feel good.6. Boredom. Some people need constant stimulation and excitement to be able to free from predictable life. I don't blame women to be selective. Put it this way, we can only get pregnant and have a baby once every year while a man can spread their seed to as many women as they want. It is biological instruction so also kind of resource protection. There're different attraction cues for different person. One man's rubbish can be the other man's treasure. So please be thoughtful and respect women instead of taking it personally.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'SassySpicy' I personally don't think women here are all shallow. A certain amount of members here including women are well educated and have worked hard enough to get a decent lifestyle. There're a few reasons women are here:1. To kill loneliness. We all want to be loved. We would rather interpret wild animal sex to affection;'2. A broken heart to heal: We tend to be attached to the man that we're emotionally attracted. Once there is a man there, he is all that we want. In order to move on, we will have to accept the fact that there is not just one man on this planet.3. Curiosity. There is a huge step from fantasise about it to act upon it;4. Maturity. Some of the young girls haven't found true love yet and they would like to explore as much as possible until Mr right is in our life;5. Attention seeker: Some women may have low self esteem and a quick way to fix it is to have heaps of persuers running after to boost their self-esteem.... They need a man to make them feel good.6. Boredom. Some people need constant stimulation and excitement to be able to free from predictable life. I don't blame women to be selective. Put it this way, we can only get pregnant and have a baby once every year while a man can spread their seed to as many women as they want. It is biological instruction so also kind of resource protection. There're different attraction cues for different person. One man's rubbish can be the other man's treasure. So please be thoughtful and respect women instead of taking it personally. The same applies to some men here, except for the biological differences in the last paragraph, and I would challenge the desire of men to spread his seed to as many women as he wanted as totally irresponsible and financial suicide given the child support laws here .... gold diggers ahoy ... So I dont know why man bashing is as prevalent as it is .. except for the shallow, cheating, overweight, underweight, sex crazy, limp dicked, lying, perverted, boring ones .. then go for it if you can be bothered. But still, there's someone for them ... Jamie, you are a bit over the top with your assessment. Its not that bad. Maybe from a woman's point of view, who overwhelmingly has to trawl through 100's of unsuitable approaches to find one half decent man, just to go on a date let alone find sexy smexy, they get used to flicking quickly past just you if you dont match. Be polite, go to meet and greets, be patient. My socially awkward zimmer frame and I have got more than we can cope with at times, even being 'over the hill ' and passed by many, I have met and made lovely ongoing friendships. Doesn't always work out, but hey ... neither does life. Suck it up, be flexible, if one way doesn't work, try a different approach. But absolute judgements will certainly isolate you.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' I just read the message you sent me last year, and I must say it is in my top 10 of worst ones ever. If you feel it's representative of you, why not post it here and ask for the public to decide if my response was shallow? I think your attitude and approach are the things lacking, not the women they are aimed at. Still so harsh! Love it! Quick pm? Circz
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RHP User
11 years ago
I disagree with what u are saying....it's rude to say that woman are shallow on here because they told u that u do not match there seeking criteria. I think it's much simpler to be honest on a dating website with what ur looking for. And let's be honest here...u have to have an attraction to someone you are potentially going to meet up with for sex, it's exactly the same as in the real life. And I actually don't dog guys that are muscly or arrogant or shallow myself!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yeh I know it sucks mate when there's a specific criteria, I met a 22 year old woman on here. I was outside the search criteria, I sent her a message , she gave it a shot and we had a cracker of a time, it's was tough to convince her but worthwhile. When you go to a pub and you see a hot looking chick would you put some effort in? If you show personality it might pay off, most women are on here for a good time and are fussy, I'm sure they'd sway for a good guy. If it doesn't work keep searching mate, you will find one. I've sent my fair share of messages. Plenty of the same responses, chin up, party on
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yeh I know it sucks mate when there's a specific criteria, I met a 22 year old woman on here. I was outside the search criteria, I sent her a message , she gave it a shot and we had a cracker of a time, it's was tough to convince her but worthwhile. When you go to a pub and you see a hot looking chick would you put some effort in? If you show personality it might pay off, most women are on here for a good time and are fussy, I'm sure they'd sway for a good guy. If it doesn't work keep searching mate, you will find one. I've sent my fair share of messages. Plenty of the same responses, chin up, party on
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RHP User
6 years ago
The thing is, we are not all shallow. We write about our situations and what we are looking for. Lots of men choose to ignore the small facts about having a partner and being on here to explore being bi curious. There are so many different reason's for being on a site like this, but if a profile clearly states 'women only', that means 'women only' and to just keep on moving! Common courtesy should be given and received clears up any misunderstandings
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86Jasindy
6 years ago
For a second, imagine you are a woman. You have a busy life, and in your down time are looking to meet someone for a one off, or ongoing fun. You decide to try a site like RHP. You know what you are looking for in a male, female or couple. You type what you are after clearly. The day after uploading some photos and writing something you get more than 50 messages. Most clearly haven't actually read what you are looking for, or the message says something instantly puts up red flags for you. Are you honestly saying this hypothetical woman must meet every one of these 50+ people? Just so she is not seen as shallow? You must remember, there is a risk every time you agree to meet someone, and for a woman it's sad to say, that risk can mean their life. Just as every lady you come across in a night club or bar has no obligation to dance with you or except your drink, neither does every woman you message.
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