Sex On A First Date... Slut or Not?

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  my last gf and i did on the first date (unplanned) it was late and i was going to drive home. 2am cc back to sydney. she wouldnt let me because it was so late. we jumped into bed to sleep.. then she jumped me. we were together for 5 or 6 years in the end :)

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I had sex with a man on the first date and 2 yrs later i married him. There's nothing wrong with having sex on the first date,or 1 off sex with a complete stranger, just coz ur feeling horny,doesnt make us girls sluts. Im tired of us women being labeld,slut,whore,tramp,ho,etc,just because we love sex. If having sex on the first date,makes us sluts,then what does that make the man? Men get called much nicer names like lady killers. Its time to stamp out the labels,and let us all enjoy what comes perfectly natural. As for u GOTH,ur comment just makes u a low life! Roxy

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  As far as conventional historical norms go it does, but should not. It depends on the man in question we are all quite complex and different as males. We just like women, come from a wide variety of family / emotional / social structures and thus provide quite different demands on a partner at any given stage of a relationship. With an emotionally sensible human of either sex, it is seen as a sexual emotional validation of their true human-being. With the wrong person usually with some kooky religious bent which has every thing to do with control and nothing to do with decent behavior. If I were to give advice just be true to your self. Jordan

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  as for what i think about sex on the first date don't really mind if it does or doesn't happen,i'm usually happy just hanging out with them but it does depends on chemistry and what you think of the person too

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  hey Taby001, If the chemistry is there then go with it and enjoy yourself. Just because a girl/guy sleeps with someone on the first date does not make them a slut. I had a long relationship after sleeping with my ex on the first night and then on the other hand had some great one night stands. I have found that some of the best sex is with a complete stranger caused you are not worried what they think cause, you are not going to see them again. if you are ever is Sydney i would love to catch up.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  hey Taby001, If the chemistry is there then go with it and enjoy yourself. Just because a girl/guy sleeps with someone on the first date does not make them a slut. I had a long relationship after sleeping with my ex on the first night and then on the other hand had some great one night stands. I have found that some of the best sex is with a complete stranger caused you are not worried what they think cause, you are not going to see them again. if you are ever is Sydney i would love to catch up.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I have no issue with sex on the first date - it cuts through a lot of confusion. All the same, I enjoy the chase and redouble my efforts if I date a woman who would prefer to wait. The challenge is good fun - it's not a conquest thing, more just a fun little game being played out in full view of the two people involved and opaque to everyone else. Either approach suits me just fine.

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