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Seduction - Are you for it?
June 24 2014
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Compress all that first bit into a few minutes and a round of drinks and I'm all yours. :) What's time mean, anyway? Some people are just meant to fuck each other, hard and ruthlessly. I mean, if the mood fits and the circumstances are right, I'm not one to delay the inevitable at the expense of savouring the moment. Eat the pudding! HugsGazp
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RHP User
12 years ago
Seduction is EVERYTHING. But don't seduce one person..... seduce your entire world. That is what makes you most attractive to that one person. DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
12 years ago
I love the idea of the seduction unfortunately, a high percentage of Australian men are very uncomfortable with it. Preferring to jump into the sack ASAP which I do not like and will not engage into as already am already bored... Lol. I find that men with European, Latino and North American upbringing or background pay more attention and are more open to the art of seduction. This topic came up in a gals night out with my girlfriends, and some complain that there is not enough or never really any seduction going on aside from the flowers and choc which some think is enough to get the women lubricated for 'the big bonk'. Lol. My friends are very frustrated with the laziness of their men. They have tried to seduce them (specially away from the remote control, the other woman). but most of the time, the seduction just falls on deaf ears. Harder now with World cup and footy on...Oh dear.
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RHP User
12 years ago
is awesome. I like to think I am a seductress. Without it, sex is just a fuck and most fucks are just boring as batshit. wooo whooo sticking your dick in and out of me for a couple of minutes, big deal, my vibrator can do that, and get me off better.
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' is awesome. I like to think I am a seductress. Without it, sex is just a fuck and most fucks are just boring as batshit. wooo whooo sticking your dick in and out of me for a couple of minutes, big deal, my vibrator can do that, and get me off better. yes. Exactly my dear woman... hate sex without seduction. makes you feel cheap and the experience boring and unmemorable. At the end of the day, I like to create memories while also having fun. Just some men don't get it... I try to slow it down for them and some respond but others dont so it is a no go zone at the end of the day... Yawn... But to those you understand and enjoy it, hubbahubba.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree with all your comments Lily. Particularly about seducing with words. I would say, while no expert, I do have some skills in the art of seduction. However, I'm always willing to learn and you've given some excellent tips! Ciao Bella :) Silva xx
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' I love the idea of the seduction unfortunately, a high percentage of Australian men are very uncomfortable with it. Preferring to jump into the sack ASAP which I do not like and will not engage into as already am already bored... Lol. I find that men with European, Latino and North American upbringing or background pay more attention and are more open to the art of seduction. This topic came up in a gals night out with my girlfriends, and some complain that there is not enough or never really any seduction going on aside from the flowers and choc which some think is enough to get the women lubricated for 'the big bonk'. Lol. My friends are very frustrated with the laziness of their men. They have tried to seduce them (specially away from the remote control, the other woman). but most of the time, the seduction just falls on deaf ears. Harder now with World cup and footy on...Oh dear. I like to be seduced. really some women are so lazy, expecting men to do all the work. pfffft.HugsGazpacho
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MissBishere
12 years ago
When are we having dinner sexy woman😘😍 I'm a lover of seduction but find it lacking in most encounters. To me it translates to passion and if there is no passion then I switch off. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' When are we having dinner sexy woman😘😍 I'm a lover of seduction but find it lacking in most encounters. To me it translates to passion and if there is no passion then I switch off. - Posted from rhpmobile Whenever you are down in melb, we can catch up. I'll check my work sched if I get to go to sunny Brissy. Need to check the sexy people of Qld! Ready to be seduced, the Qld way (whatever that means,Lol). grandes abrazos mi chiquita! xxx
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho51' Quoting 'lilyorchid' I love the idea of the seduction unfortunately, a high percentage of Australian men are very uncomfortable with it. Preferring to jump into the sack ASAP which I do not like and will not engage into as already am already bored... Lol. I find that men with European, Latino and North American upbringing or background pay more attention and are more open to the art of seduction. This topic came up in a gals night out with my girlfriends, and some complain that there is not enough or never really any seduction going on aside from the flowers and choc which some think is enough to get the women lubricated for 'the big bonk'. Lol. My friends are very frustrated with the laziness of their men. They have tried to seduce them (specially away from the remote control, the other woman). but most of the time, the seduction just falls on deaf ears. Harder now with World cup and footy on...Oh dear. I like to be seduced. really some women are so lazy, expecting men to do all the work. pfffft.HugsGazpacho I get you. It goes both ways, yeah. Lol. Come hither and let me seduce you, ever so slowly....
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me ; Starts a little cheeky, laughter always a good start. Even a little subtle innuendo, rather than the 'wanna fuk'. Intelligence a huge turn on. Doesn't have to include dinner or drinks , though I must get some practice in there. Though eye contact alone can be electric. Sexy texts, maybe a little naughty, pics always welcome. Building up The fever pitch for the meet. So by the time of arrival I am wet and That first kiss makes me melt , my breath quicken and an involuntary moan escape my lips. That's if it's done right. Preferably lasting longer than 15 mins and leaving you Wanting to shout ...next !!!
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MissBishere
12 years ago
I will see what I can do, probably not in Melbourne for another month or so. Have Sydney and Newcastle next week an then need to head north to Townsville in July.... Gees work keeps me busy 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
So, how do men like to be seduced? Anyone? gazpacho?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Or is it when us little women bat our eyes and say how handsome and strong you are, and how smart. I feel so safe with you.............. Come on guys, how would you like to be seduced by a hot woman?
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' I will see what I can do, probably not in Melbourne for another month or so. Have Sydney and Newcastle next week an then need to head north to Townsville in July.... Gees work keeps me busy 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile Busy indeed! Or out of trouble gorgeous! Hey you have my number. Hope you are well and staying hot and sexy. hehe Maybe we can meet in Sydney with some hot sydney guys and make a night out of it! Wooo hooo!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
What you have described, the flirting, the texts, the sexy talk, the intimate conversation, etc, etc. If a guy isn't doing it with me I assume that one, he isn't that interested or two, he is inexperienced. If I assume a guys isn't that keen I give it a pass. You know, if you can take it or leave it. I would rather leave it. As you say the wham bam is really boring when it is one on one. zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' So, how do men like to be seduced? Anyone? gazpacho? Apparently based on his post here, Gaz wants it over and done with within a few minutes.. Skip the entree and straight to the pudding. C'mon Gaz... if we women work it, would you like us to seduce you and extend the session... Surely those lovely full derriere of yours deserves some major fondling and squeezing before the main course?
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' What you have described, the flirting, the texts, the sexy talk, the intimate conversation, etc, etc. If a guy isn't doing it with me I assume that one, he isn't that interested or two, he is inexperienced. If I assume a guys isn't that keen I give it a pass. You know, if you can take it or leave it. I would rather leave it. As you say the wham bam is really boring when it is one on one. zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz AMEN Sister.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just my view
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'silvangold' I agree with all your comments Lily. Particularly about seducing with words. I would say, while no expert, I do have some skills in the art of seduction. However, I'm always willing to learn and you've given some excellent tips! Ciao Bella :) Silva xx How are you? Glad you agree... But seduction also come more naturally with some people specially if they are both attracted to each other. not just physically but also mentally stimulated. The physical is always a good start but where from there is up to both... Nice seeing you around the traps and keep having naughty fun. xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ms Lily is a cynical exercise in convincing someone to succumb to your charms against their will....but that is not what you mean here I assume....Pursuit and seduction are the essence of sexuality.It's part of the sizzle...Camilla Paglia xAuntie
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
Seduction is the most erotic part of any sexual experience for me, I love it and it almost always leads to the most passionate, intoxicating sex imaginable......💋
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Apparently based on his post here, Gaz wants it over and done with within a few minutes.. Skip the entree and straight to the pudding. C'mon Gaz... if we women work it, would you like us to seduce you and extend the session... Surely those lovely full derriere of yours deserves some major fondling and squeezing before the main course? Oh I know how to seduce Gazpacho... with a slow spanking. Make his little butt all warm and red, tease him a little.......... LOL. But Gazpacho is after a different experience to you and I. I don't know, maybe lots of men don't mind the pudding up first when they are just looking for sex.
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Hottie1
12 years ago
Great topic Lilyorchid. Being married (for over 20 years) seduction isn't often high on the sexual agenda. Since joining RHP and looking and finding a male friend to play with, I realise how much I love being seduced and seducing. Upon meeting our first ever date on here, the seduction was tangible. The looks over lunch, him caressing my arm ever so gently at lunch and the first kiss in the elevator, FUCK ME that was incredible. I love the suggestive or downright dirty banter as we plan for meets as well as that initial time in the meet before the clothes come off. I know I am a ball of sexual tension ;) before but definitely not after our meets. ;) Mary xx
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Yes... true true. I agree there chica But some are just so good with their words and their hands... then their tongue... and their....
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'AuntieEdna2' Ms Lily is a cynical exercise in convincing someone to succumb to your charms against their will....but that is not what you mean here I assume....Pursuit and seduction are the essence of sexuality.It's part of the sizzle...Camilla Paglia xAuntie Indeed. Makes the prize sweeter doesn't it? A worthy effort to pursue to convince a man or vice versa to cross the threshold into one's realm and capitulate to the urges of sex or love. To forego as many held beliefs and reservations, inhibitions to enjoy each other in the most primal act of sex between people who find each other attractive.... And definitely part of the sizzle.Tonight, I have just been seduced by a man who has enticed me to leave the comfort of my warm home into his beautiful company for a classy dinner, wine and into his arms... I have succumbed for the night... I love it!!!
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'ag4mg92' Great topic Lilyorchid. Being married (for over 20 years) seduction isn't often high on the sexual agenda. Since joining RHP and looking and finding a male friend to play with, I realise how much I love being seduced and seducing. Upon meeting our first ever date on here, the seduction was tangible. The looks over lunch, him caressing my arm ever so gently at lunch and the first kiss in the elevator, FUCK ME that was incredible. I love the suggestive or downright dirty banter as we plan for meets as well as that initial time in the meet before the clothes come off. I know I am a ball of sexual tension ;) before but definitely not after our meets. ;) Mary xx That's what I'm talking about! NIce... Love it. Gotta go and get ready now.... Love to hear more.xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I love even the idea of seduction. Getting ready for a date, putting perfume on in all the right places, deciding which lingerie to wear, what dress and shoes. It's all part of the build up. Meeting their eyes over drinks or dinner, going dancing, giving them the come hither look. Knees touching under the table, double entendres, subtle touches and kisses. A lover and I always used to go out for a few hours first, the slow seduction of each other, knowing what was going to follow later was so hot.OMG, I've just about seduced myself imagining it
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RHP User
12 years ago
learn the art of seducing and Be seductive
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tamworthguy46
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Or is it when us little women bat our eyes and say how handsome and strong you are, and how smart. I feel so safe with you.............. Come on guys, how would you like to be seduced by a hot woman? This question is probably harder to answer than what I thought.......In my view a woman seducing a man, would be all about feedback, making the man feel wanted and desired, and attractive, subtle gestures, including wanting the man to hold them, pampering them with nice words and softly touching and caressing them. I suppose it comes down to it...a woman that wants to be seduced, wants to indeed feel like a "woman" and a man wants to feel like a "man" I am very much a fan of Seduction, but it's a two way street......a partner or lover, at least has to be accepting of that seduction, and obviously a lot better if they return. Tam
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'tamworthguy46'This question is probably harder to answer than what I thought.......In my view a woman seducing a man, would be all about feedback, making the man feel wanted and desired, and attractive, subtle gestures, including wanting the man to hold them, pampering them with nice words and softly touching and caressing them. I suppose it comes down to it...a woman that wants to be seduced, wants to indeed feel like a "woman" and a man wants to feel like a "man" I am very much a fan of Seduction, but it's a two way street......a partner or lover, at least has to be accepting of that seduction, and obviously a lot better if they return. Tam Treating that person like they are wanted, not just like they are being used, there is a huge difference and it isn't necessarily verbal, it is touches, breaths, glances, attitude, kisses....etc . A quicky through to a full on bondage session can be seductive if it is passionate in making the other person feel truly desired. It is the magic ingredient to make a good dish a great dish.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I do try my best. To be honest, when I am very attracted to someone I find it difficult not to touch them. Even if it's just a small part of me touching them. When you have that connection with someone you can communicate just wih your eyes. :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes, I love being seduced... with his words through suggestive sexting, getting me frustrated and wet... with his sexy voice and breath, talking dirty against my ear... his blue eyes, dark, watching over me like an eagle waiting to devour its prey... with his gentle touch, running his fingers and tongue all over me, making me beg for more... then, with his wild and passionate kisses, turning me into a puddle of mush, ready to be devoured That's how I like to be seduced - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
To me it means more than just getting a root or a shag as the outcome... Does seduction have to be sexual ?? I mean, it starts way before the bedroom - doesn't it?? To me it's little things as well as big things, words, actions, body language, mind and so on. Seduction to me just does not have to be all words, it's auctioning those words too and believing in them. It can be things we do for ourselves and others, where we get a lot of pleasure from it. I mean, to me seduction means anything to do with pleasing and what pleases ourselves and others? I believe it's a path one takes to get to the outcome of that pleasure. Thinking out loud here....and curious what others think Do you think seduction is a natural action or do you think it's how we go about it? I mean some people do go overboard with seducing others - as in try to pursue another, that's not what I look for or want if I don't want it if it's a one way street. It's gotta be mutual....yeah??? Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
To me it means more than just getting a root or a shag as the outcome... Does seduction have to be sexual ?? I mean, it starts way before the bedroom - doesn't it?? To me it's little things as well as big things, words, actions, body language, mind and so on. Seduction to me just does not have to be all words, it's auctioning those words too and believing in them. It can be things we do for ourselves and others, where we get a lot of pleasure from it. I mean, to me seduction means anything to do with pleasing and what pleases ourselves and others? I believe it's a path one takes to get to the outcome of that pleasure. Thinking out loud here....and curious what others think Do you think seduction is a natural action or do you think it's how we go about it? I mean some people do go overboard with seducing others - as in try to pursue another, that's not what I look for or want if I don't want it if it's a one way street. It's gotta be mutual....yeah??? Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I agree 100% with your post. :) Foxy
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
Of course it doesn't have to always be able a sexual encounter and ideally should start long before the bedroom. Any kind of seduction which is including all aspects of ones body, including mind and soul, makes it so much better and when it does include the sexual act itself, it can be truly mind blowing and a beautiful thing....💋
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Nice post Tamworth. I would to hear more opinions from the men. Rather than use our seduction diviner rods to second guess how much and how you want us to seduce you, why don't you tell us... We are more than willing to learn what floats your boat. After all, it is for our mutual pleasure. ..:) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
To be an attractive person, means: * to appear physically attractive (which is highly subjective and varible from individual, culture, nationality etc), * and exhibit personality and behaviour trait which creates involuntary attraction in others. I see Seduction as merely attraction-in-motion.... moving forward on a specific level with a specific person. If you understand HOW attraction works, and anyone CAN learn that..... you will be self aware and observant of others reactions. Seduction without Attraction is guaranteed to fail. But Attraction doesnt need seduction.... it is already attractive... and you dont need to focus attraction if you LIVE it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
LMAO! Ah DG you are an inspiration that is for sure. But I fear that there are some people who may not really understand what you mean. Some people are just not in-tune with themselves or their surroundings so they will never breath it, live it... be it!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
The sensual and a more feminine once they use the inbuilt curse to seduce you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's very much an integral part of a future meet, if there's a mutual like of course the plateau will get more exciting, intriguing and expansive, and lets face it you're not going to be seduced by a non entity, just my opinion of course - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
My guy im currently seeing KNOWS all about seduction as it was me that was the seducing but was very subtle and then got down to the inevitable and it was extremely perfect!! mmmmmmm
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm blind to see the signs and often think she just being nice lol I'm also little to respectful for over doing the flirting ? See dumb male lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Seduction is outright trickery and why people feel let down afterwards when it's all over... Xxviolet
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tamworthguy46
12 years ago
Quoting 'Violetincredible' Seduction is outright trickery and why people feel let down afterwards when it's all over... Xxviolet Hmmm that's interesting, I suppose it could be perceived that way, if seduction wasn't true, or followed through to the end ? I am although a little surprised that a passionate theatrical lady such as yourself, would be against seduction, as a ideal though. hugz Tam
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Violetincredible' Seduction is outright trickery and why people feel let down afterwards when it's all over... Xxviolet to fuck someone you are not into is worse trickery, a means to an end...that is when you are truly used and not admired as you should be.
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Force_of_Nurture
12 years ago
I'm definitely a fan of seduction I love the anticipation .. the conversations that lead to imaginations.. that lead.. ... .. I love being with someone.. and allowing that slow burn of desire to build .. I love the playfulness of seduction.. the knowing look... the casual touch .. .. letting each other know... in subtle ways.. what our bodies are wanting I'm not saying the actual sex isn't amazing... it is... ... but the slow burn of seduction... mmmmmmmm
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RHP User
12 years ago
I perhaps sounded cynical. And no I would never fuck someone I wasn't into... But I don't like seduction... It's kind of like my timtams and my banana.. My banana is sitting there all lovely and yellow and healthy... Next to... My timtams who are seducing me with their smell and look and quick sugar fix and not having to even bother to peel them. I give in to their seductive ways... I enjoy it at first but then it is just an empty sugary taste, way too many calories, a sugar high... No room to eat the good banana. If the timtams had not seduced me with with their devilish coquettish ways I would have ended up more satisfied with the one who was itself with no fakeness or sugar coating... That is how I feel about seduction- I know lots of people love it... Maybe just not me... Xxviolet
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RHP User
12 years ago
Seduction = checking to see if she has a pulse?? Lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Violetincredible' I perhaps sounded cynical. And no I would never fuck someone I wasn't into... But I don't like seduction... It's kind of like my timtams and my banana.. My banana is sitting there all lovely and yellow and healthy... Next to... My timtams who are seducing me with their smell and look and quick sugar fix and not having to even bother to peel them. I give in to their seductive ways... I enjoy it at first but then it is just an empty sugary taste, way too many calories, a sugar high... No room to eat the good banana. If the timtams had not seduced me with with their devilish coquettish ways I would have ended up more satisfied with the one who was itself with no fakeness or sugar coating... That is how I feel about seduction- I know lots of people love it... Maybe just not me... Xxviolet but I bet you enjoyed the tim tam at the time ;) I am looking for a bit more than a good fuck but I would still rather a good one than a lousy one. Applications are open for my banana but in the meantime, I will have my tim tams, lol. What would really be great is if a tim tam turned into a banana!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
The Tim tam had better turn into the banana before I even bite it though!!! Xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
The seduction can be just as satisfying as the act getting her interest then maintaining it the first touch brush of leg under the table the first time you hold her hand and the first tentative kiss which reveals so much about each other yes yes yes for seduction. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Seduction for me can start just by eye contact and then the mind just gets going and generally it goes from there...sucker for women 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Like smoke with fire Attraction is seduction Seduction is mutual To seduce is by two Seduction will only ever be as good as two make it One accepts seduction from another. Good or bad is determined from the strength of attraction. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
But why can't you have both? A banana split....... the banana in the bottom of the bowl, a good solid base and then icecream and cream and chocolate sprinkles on top? Seduction always plays a part in sex, whether it be with a new partner or a regular partner. Isn't it? Or do we all just turn to our partners and say "wanna root" out of the blue? Well okay sometimes, but often it's more than that? Isn't it??
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zenarider
12 years ago
Seduction for me is like a very slow tease where the senses are hightened and kept at a high level for a long period of time, kinda like tantric. The journey being more important than the destination. What is the rush, slow it down and think of how you love to be touched and teased and do that to your partner. If it gives you goosebumps and tingling it probably will them too. Pete
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RHP User
12 years ago
When you are in Sydney, send me a PM and I will introduce you to the boys who seduce oh so deliciously, the whole night long, even through food and drink breaks :). You don't just seduce in the beginning, I love the whole package, back and forth the whole time
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Yes please! I'm coming to Sydney in a few weeks for work! Some unholy distraction fr your lovely studfarm would be most welcome you goddess of hedonism. .. lol. Grasshopper xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
12 years ago
To the ladies and gents. Glad to hear your views. But Mr. Stir... I would.not consider that seduction. Lol. Unless you are playing doctor and nurses... ;). And.can you please give us a full body check up while you are at it... with your lips and tongue. . Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Bigmamma1' When you are in Sydney, send me a PM and I will introduce you to the boys who seduce oh so deliciously, the whole night long, even through food and drink breaks :). You don't just seduce in the beginning, I love the whole package, back and forth the whole time Please
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Am sure Bigmamma can accommodate us all women under her wing And pair us up with her gorgeous men... yum.... Like the adult only Perfect Match show...Lol. Pick me pick me. Up for.major seduction from Sydney gents until my heart skips to crazy beats and my body begs to be taken in and consumed. .. ahhhh... Ladies lets make track to Sydney. Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Could not agree more! Seduction and the anticipation of a pleasurable encounter is more than half the experience! Hence why lingerie is so hot! It's a sneak peak at the full pleasure to come :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Definitely the best way to turn my body on is through my brain! The build up, the anticipation, making your pulse race is all part of the fun! The brain is the biggest organ in the body for a reason ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
12 years ago
Deep sensual erotic massage and a bottle of grape seed oil, seems to do the trick. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I really enjoy a woman flirting... Teasing with sexual innuendo .... Sometimes going into more explicit but it's good to have to imagine, what your wearing, how you look, what look is in your eye, hearing soft seductive words... Texting can be like a soft whisper in my ear... Meeting up for a drink... Taking all if you in... The care you took with your hair, makeup, clothes, lingerie or not, shoes, how you smile, smell if your skin, your hair. While enjoying each other's company I like to lean in to whisper something to smell your neck and hair... Looking at your sexy skin on your neck imaging my tongue gliding over the skin... The taste... Hearing the catch in your breath.... Slight touch of your hand in my arm, slight touch if your breast against my elbow as you lean in... It feels electric .... Flicking your tongue over your lips teasing me with what that tongue could do.... I like the torment of talking and gave all these feelings going on in the background... My body comes alive.... And it pours out in those first few kisses as my wanton desire engulfs you. I very much like a striptease... And a girl slowly taking my clothes off... I enjoy every inch of you and don't want to miss any... My raw... Hungry stare of lust will excite you as your demure look at me as you peek off clothes does.. I like nothing more than being the centre if attention and seducing me.... Feeling your soft lips and tongue kissing, licking my skin all over my body... Hott
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'macguy29' The brain is the biggest organ in the body for a reason ;) - Posted from rhpmobile that would be the skin....brain is third largest (liver is second). I don't know if you know about the rule in here that if you get something wrong you need to be spanked....seductively of course...
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Seachange73
12 years ago
You are right. So macguy bend over. We ladeez are queuing up with our paddles. .. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Spot on. Now come closer and whisper that all into my ear... ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
you can't 'seduce' an openly interested participant and as a result, can't seduce someone who is seducing you. If you're participating in sexual banter for example, the seduction is over. There's no seduction involved when you're out to dinner and you openly have expectations of what might happen next, especially if you've let them know your interest before hand (and met them through RHP lol). However, if you're out to dinner and it's clear you're not really into him (or her) then he may turn to methods of seduction to entice sexual activity. A husband may seduce his wife (or vice versa) if he knows she doesn't want sex tonight but the minute she responds sexually, the seduction is over. I've engaged in sexual banter many times via text with a particular fellow with the view of it leading to a sexual encounter (sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't) and it's not that we're 'seducing' each other. He knows I want him, I know he wants me and we know what 'we' are all about. Just recently though, I made myself unavailable (for a reason) and he attempted to seduce me over the phone, which was actually really hot! There are all different forms and methods of seduction but essentially, YOU hold the key! You can't expect to be seduced if you appear available and open to the idea of sex. It's clearly difficult to generate the idea that you're not really interested on a site like this because chances are, they'll move onto someone who is openly interested and that's probably fair enough. I think Violet was on the right track with the idea of trickery but here's where I think the difference is: seduction = enticing someone into sexual activity, which I think is ok as long as they're using methods and dialogue that suggests exactly that! If you're just telling someone what they want to hear and making all kinds of promises just to get them in bed (like I really like you and I'll call you tomorrow - with no intention of ever seeing them again), that's trickery and it's not ok! And for the record, parading around in a little dress in front someone you know is hot for you isn't a form of seduction, it's teasing (which is also ok).
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Seachange73
12 years ago
So a meet last night with a gorgeous professional man was a long series of flirts and seduction throughout the night. As I have envisioned it to be. Words (tones low that made us both lean into each other)... touch.. eye contact... laughter... wit...and more.... all so slow, deliverate yet natural and spontaneous.... Nothing rushed. Some men just really know how to talk to and take their time with women... ( He read my post on seduction while having drinks in a funky intimate city bar). That is what I am talking about. Makes the night very memorable.
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Interesting point of view. Without going into too much details, drinks was cordial and friendly. Really not a lot of sexual banter, if any. Purely connecting intellectually as we have similar corporate background. It was just us seizing each other up whether the attraction was more than physical. Seduction was done by me at first as he was slightly shy/reserved and I have to coax him out of his shell a bit. Not worth pursuing if no real feedback. Else we both walk out of the meet. Nothing wrong with that. Trickery is such a harsh word in this context as the attraction was there on both parties. That implies only one party benefits. Not true. The seduction was to get him to play in the same playground with me without promises of big love or the like. Just the idea of shared intimacy and sensuality in a safe setting. And we did despite the late night and heavy workload the following day. X - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissBishere
12 years ago
Quoting 'Bigmamma1' When you are in Sydney, send me a PM and I will introduce you to the boys who seduce oh so deliciously, the whole night long, even through food and drink breaks :). You don't just seduce in the beginning, I love the whole package, back and forth the whole time so next week then bigmamma
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RHP User
12 years ago
Missb72..... next week hey? It's Angel and Demon night next Friday. Haven't been in ages!
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MissBishere
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Missb72..... next week hey? It's Angel and Demon night next Friday. Haven't been in ages! *sigh* I would so love to... but I am only there Monday to Thursday (morning)
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's that slow dance towards ... Mmmmm. It's to my peril I suppose, there's lots of thrilling stuff about it, it's a bit addictive. Sex with me is never guaranteed, I can't say if I'll like you enough until we've met, and then, I might change my Mind. I need seducing, chasing... The problem is that much of the seduction process is artifice, lies sometimes, flattery. It's not real. Castles in the air, nothing upon which you can build.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thank you for clarifying :) I didn't read your OP as a real life encounter (lucky you :P), more a clear representation of how you'd like things to play out. I'd also like to clarify that my comment wasn't meant to belittle what you said in anyway (for those concerned enough to PM me!). I think the 'art of seduction' gets lost in these times because people fail to understand what it actually means and that was the motivation behind my comment. My reference to trickery was in no way directed to the situation you described. I was referring to the difference (the way I see it) between seduction and trickery on the whole, nothing further. I think you hit the nail on the head when you said "seduction was done by me at first" - but that's where it ends.... Your OP was a great read and no doubt something us girls enjoy and crave. I'm not sure there's an actual word to sum that scenario up entirely but 'seduction' isn't it. I guess it's more a form of courting but even that doesn't really fit. Thanks again for your 'adult response' and to those who have PM'd me with concern (those with lovely words not included) - remember, ignorance is a choice ;) Peace! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
As a mere male, I follow the trail with intrigue. I see "seduction" referred to as a noun, nothing more than a label? I read "seduction" as a means to an end, a verb that describes the achievement of sex? Yet I understand from these comments that the art of seduction is desirable to both parties and creates the excitement we all seek. But what if it were the missing ingredient to longevity or escalation? That piece of the puzzle that allowed us to move on to the next part of our relationship. You know that tingle that makes you want more? What if the early physical attraction was ignited through seduction to passion? What if passion led us to more commitment? What if more commitment created unending desire? What if that desire led to a relationship that kept the smile on our face long after the last sexual encounter ended? I am a mere male but I do note that when a beautiful woman smiles your way, slides her hand on your chest, wears something "special", leaves her underwear at home or sends you that picture that makes you go "a Wow", then seduction becomes so much more than word. Ladies, never think that letting a man see your seductive side is not very, very special. It keeps the flames burning until the next time we meet.
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RHP User
12 years ago
slippery massage that turnssexual... seduce unknowingly ahhh thats the way
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RHP User
12 years ago
Im yet to experience seduction in the swinging scene. Im as guilty as others. Dont get me wrong had some great times but not much seduction going on. I guess due to people feeling out peoples boundries etc. Im comfortable with my partner but still the thought of being seduced yeah. Plenty of time I guess. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'ShySub255' Thank you for clarifying :) I didn't read your OP as a real life encounter (lucky you :P), more a clear representation of how you'd like things to play out. I'd also like to clarify that my comment wasn't meant to belittle what you said in anyway (for those concerned enough to PM me!). I think the 'art of seduction' gets lost in these times because people fail to understand what it actually means and that was the motivation behind my comment. My reference to trickery was in no way directed to the situation you described. I was referring to the difference (the way I see it) between seduction and trickery on the whole, nothing further. I think you hit the nail on the head when you said "seduction was done by me at first" - but that's where it ends.... Your OP was a great read and no doubt something us girls enjoy and crave. I'm not sure there's an actual word to sum that scenario up entirely but 'seduction' isn't it. I guess it's more a form of courting but even that doesn't really fit. Thanks again for your 'adult response' and to those who have PM'd me with concern (those with lovely words not included) - remember, ignorance is a choice ;) Peace! - Posted from rhpmobile My pleasure Shysub. Thank you for your intelligent comment. This is a forum and one should be able to express their opinions without fear or favourn. We may not all agree but if we can articulate our point in whatever context to make people understand our point of view, if we have one lol, then we have communicated. However, I do disagree with your thought on the duration of seduction. It does not have to end there. There are many levels of seduction. We can go on until the cows come home. But that is for another forum thread. Big hugs. x
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RHP User
12 years ago
beautiful new pic xo
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Missb72..... next week hey? It's Angel and Demon night next Friday. Haven't been in ages! I have never been and I just happen to be free on Friday. Maybe time for a group outing?
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' beautiful new pic xo MWAH!!!! This cold weather must be a damper for you my dear after your warm beautiful holidays OS? So glad you are back though. Missed your clever posts... Big hugz..
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'looking4quality' Quoting 'Meeka100' Missb72..... next week hey? It's Angel and Demon night next Friday. Haven't been in ages! \ I have never been and I just happen to be free on Friday. Maybe time for a group outing? AGAIN! Maybe you Sydney people will have an another trip to Angels and Demons when I get to Sydney? Love to meet y'all legends of the forum.... And am very shy about going to the place on my own...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I love seduction more so in person meeting a lady and looking at each other and smiling the passionate kisses and the light touches..the wanting to undress and kisss and touch allover
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Seachange73
12 years ago
I love a guy who knows how to seduce like a gentleman......some guys have no idea and it comes across creepy and contrived.Just my viewLol. Yes that is true in some cases and quite awkward and laughable. But sometimes we need to take the lead if we are attracted to them and can see the potential. We women are also party to the journey and have to pull our weight too and not leave all the work on the men. We can encourage them to open up by a soft touch of the hand or running our hand on their biceps or talking gently to them and eye contact. Some men are inexperienced or very nervous or both therefore need to be coaxed by the women. Some men respond but others are just plain dumb and miss out on the experience. then we walk out.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'looking4quality' Quoting 'Meeka100' Missb72..... next week hey? It's Angel and Demon night next Friday. Haven't been in ages! I have never been and I just happen to be free on Friday. Maybe time for a group outing? Wanna go L4Q? Yeah I will go if you like. Lets take a bottle of champers and sit on the side lines and watch all the fuckers going bang busters. We can give points for originality and point out all the jack rabbits. It will be fun!
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RHP User
12 years ago
You know I love corrupting people right? Better not ask that unless you are really keen to go. lol
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' You know I love corrupting people right? Better not ask that unless you are really keen to go. lol Please take me under your wing, Mamasan...
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MissBishere
12 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'Meeka100' You know I love corrupting people right? Better not ask that unless you are really keen to go. lol Please take me under your wing, Mamasan...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Tsk tsk... you ladies want me to seduce you to the dark side do you? Hmmmm? Well, if you really want to go to Angel and Demon night in particular, you will have to be in Sydney for the first Friday of the month. I will take you. Or if you are both here I can take you to a club if you like... but my preferences is for A&D night. You ladies let me know.
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
Oh and under your wing Meeka, is a good place to be..... A&D night, I'd be happy to tuck under the other wing Miss Meeka.....😈 Look at the the Queensland girls go hehe.....😜
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Tsk tsk... you ladies want me to seduce you to the dark side do you? Hmmmm? Well, if you really want to go to Angel and Demon night in particular, you will have to be in Sydney for the first Friday of the month. I will take you. Or if you are both here I can take you to a club if you like... but my preferences is for A&D night. You ladies let me know. Note to self.... FIRST FRIDAY OF THE MONTH.... Meet with dirty fuckers... Lol... A pandora's box is about to open .
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'macguy29' The brain is the biggest organ in the body for a reason ;) - Posted from rhpmobile that would be the skin....brain is third largest (liver is second). I don't know if you know about the rule in here that if you get something wrong you need to be spanked....seductively of course... good job I never tried to make it as a doctor! well corrected Luckdragon - I guess I'm gonna have to take my punishment from you and Lily can come over here and give me what for...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lilly, I can't do August though. Maybe September?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Or maybe try for the October long weekend. I know there are few debaucherous parties that normally happen. Some that would probably make your eyes fall right out of your head! LOL.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Lilly, I can't do August though. Maybe September? I'm game!
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Or maybe try for the October long weekend. I know there are few debaucherous parties that normally happen. Some that would probably make your eyes fall right out of your head! LOL. October may be a goer.... I need to get some work done in Sydney and Wollongong in Oct/Nov but will try to see if I can make it in OCT.... (excited....much). Hey MissB, Meander, Lovinit, you hear that...! All the other ladeez, a crazy meet and greet with meeka leading us to temptation... AMEN. Maybe we can have some rhp men meets as well.. Hmmmm . who's game?
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Lilly, I can't do August though. Maybe September? I will be busy Sept. as I would have just arrived from a 3 week OS work trip to Vietnam and the Philippines and then I have to go to Perth mid-September.... So despite the fact I will extremely horny after all my trips (lots of boxing, gym and running to release all these pentup sexual energy), I would like to get some rest before getting back into the 'Swing' of things. Lol. Oct is good or November...
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