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RHP National Meet & Greet
May 25 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
Organising any type of event does take effort. Be it a wedding, a concert or a simple meet and greet at a local.pub. However, getting all snooty is not very attractive for anyone.. I will not be attending, though this is a free forum or it appeared it was, as now I have to find $120 to post in here. A great meet and greet is about publicity. JFTR. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Removing yourself? We've all had snipes so you're not the lone ranger on that one. Good luck behind the scenes. 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Pull the thread
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Message me
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Seachange73
10 years ago
you and Precious have worked so hard in organizing this event for everyone. It is a thankless job and most of us appreciate it and commend both of you for taking up the job. Like any job or challenges, there will be ups and downs. More downs at the start so just ride it off. Sure all responses will vary, positives and negatives. You have managed to turn a negative ($120 fee for non-drinkers) into a positive (reduced fee). See what you did there. That is great. That is what it all about in management or organizations. Specially in big organizations. People management is the most difficult as they dont come in the same package and do their own thing. Unpredictable. Don't take it personally or it will grind you down. Look at the forum topic to respond at the end of the day rather than constantly. Have a glass of bubbly while doing it. You are doing a great job so far, keep at it, have a little break and let Precious take the reign. Tag team. Keep it businesslike if you must so you don't get bog down with personal comments. Have a I don't want you to leave. I think you are a great person and Perth is lucky to have you. You are just tired at the moment. Please re-consider your termination of your account and decide when you are less tired and emotional. I hope you stay. Take care.
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
And contemplating the responses on this forum, and would like to make a few comments. Firstly, well done for taking the initiative and organising the event, it's a huge job and one you have taken on of your own volition. Having organised quite a few meet and greets in Melbourne, and having travelled to both Sydney and Queensland multiple times for their events, I could be described as a veteran of these events - as an attendee and an organiser. What's that saying about turning up to the opening of a paper bag? 😀😁😄 One thing I know is that you can't please all the people all the time. Although the $120 is a shock to most I can see why the price is what it is. Yes you could have made it a bit cheaper by not having the DJ and photo booth but you (I am using this in a plural sense) are looking to create a whole event, not just a meet at a pub. Having a reduced rate for non drinkers is going to make it more affordable for some people, well done. But the cover charge also removes peoples choice about how much they spend on the night; I think this is what most may have a concern with. Lily has made some very relevant points, and I agree that you can't take comments personally. As an organiser I have copped negative comments about some aspects of the events I've organised. Meh, I never take it to heart....but I do use the comments to polish up the event itself (if possible ), or for the next event. I think the best advice I can offer is for you to reach out to people who have experience in organising RHP social events and ask for help and ideas. I know you two have organised many events in Perth, but this is way more than that, and you have had a taste of how difficult it can be. I am more than happy to lend a hand and any comments or ideas I offer would only ever be for making your brilliant concept even bigger and brighter. Big hugs to you both xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
There was a comment about RHP sponsorship and that would immediately put them in line for both vicarious and assumed public liability. The cost of insuring even a 4 hour event would be absolutely prohibitive considering the overall implied activities. Share that amongst the attendees and forget it... nice thought but not at all practical. Simple solution... go if you want and don't if you want, no reasons really be given other than that. The rest is all just chin chatter. Best always.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
It wouldn't matter what you organised as people will always find something to complain about. Just ignore them and move on. Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
The cost of insuring even a 4 hour event would be absolutely prohibitive considering the overall implied activities.I thought it is a meet and greet - people gather and chat. What public insurance is there for a meet and greet especially when it is held at a licensed venue for alcohol and all attendees are over the legal drinking age?? Interested in learning what "implied activities" for a meet and greet are..
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Don't pull the thread. There are a lot of good information here. If you start a new thread, there is no guarantee the same thing won't happen, right. The sooner you guys expect and accept that there will be negative responses, the better you are placed to manage. Don't give up. If I took every negative political battles and attacks at work personally, I would have quit a thousand times... and they would have won. Pick your battles , as my business mentor told me long time ago when I was a wee grasshopper starting out. For every negative experience you overcome, you become more resilient and it becomes a positive experience. Keep focus on the goal and let the noise subside. Get advice and help from experienced people like MsJonesy and Mary and Summer. They are a treasure trove of wisdom honed by experience and definitely worth digging. Set up a strategy on how to manage this - id approaches and contingencies. Keep a sense of humour... Keep things in perspective. There are a lot of funny (both haha and weird) fuckers here. So deal with it with your usual sunny and witty disposition. You are a fiery wee Scottish lass so I am sure you can give as much as take it. I like the Melbourne Meets a lot because there were no real sit-down tables where people settle in and dont move and isolate themselves from the group, waiting for people to come around to chat to them. They watch from their seats, shy and scared shitless in a large social setting they may not be used to. Like a deer . I like the way things were organized in Melbourne as we were pretty much on our feet most of the time and are forced to mingle and move around, even just to make sure we get some blood circulating in our legs. We do things differently Lastly, I would get the 'work-experience kid' to clean up some isles though for those unsavoury personal attacks where posts were not relevant to the meet... Not a fan of censorship, but not also a fan of trolling. If I decide I can't afford the entry fee but still like to party, don't be surprised to find me scaling up Rydges' women's toilet window to smuggle myself into the meet with my bag of homebrand dips and chips and Westcoast coolers. Text me if you need my help.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Please don't leave! I believe most of the feedback has been about the shock of the cost as others have stated, the personal blows flying each way aside. I know that receiving negative feedback when you've put a lot of work into organising something sucks. And I hope when you've read back you will see that even those who have something negative to say about the cost/restriction of the night have tried to show thanks to both yourself and precious for taking this on. Others comments about knowing in advance, and interstaters being aware they have to fork out for flights and accommodation etc is what has put noses out of joint. The comments made about money seem to be flippant. We all know that we up for travelling and a bed. These expenses however are at our discretion. We can shop for flights, trains, car pooling etc to find an arrangement, same goes with accommodation. Some will be happy paying $400 a night, while others would look at splitting a dodgy motel with a mate for $45 each a night. It's the fixed price - it's not allowing people to make the choice of what the spend on food and drink - alcoholic or not. It's fab to hear that there is a price for non drinkers. But for a lot on a budget it feels as if they have to pay out a lot of money to meet people - because that's what's important to them rather than the bells and whistles. I dont know what the answer is from here. But leaving would be such a shame 😔
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'SYDnobarbie' The cost of insuring even a 4 hour event would be absolutely prohibitive considering the overall implied activities.I thought it is a meet and greet - people gather and chat. What public insurance is there for a meet and greet especially when it is held at a licensed venue for alcohol and all attendees are over the legal drinking age?? Interested in learning what "implied activities" for a meet and greet are.. Me too... Am interested on what I'm missing out on.... might be worth breaking my piggy bank to shell out the $120.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think you'll find the 'unsavoury' attacks have come from the op alone. The rest of the comments have been about the meet and the cost. And the issue with that is? Have reread of the entire thread and come back to me with clearer thoughts, I'd love to hear them
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
If anyone started reading 7 pages of negativity would turn them off. Start a new one in a while. Hopefully the neysayers have vented and moved on. Like other m&g threads, how about we hear about the ones coming? Not the ones looking for an excuse to post negativity and who rarely contribute with positive posts
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SYDnobarbie' I thought it is a meet and greet - people gather and chat. What public insurance is there for a meet and greet especially when it is held at a licensed venue for alcohol and all attendees are over the legal drinking age? In my past life, I've done the insurance/legal packaging for everything from private organizations to public entities.... seafood and wine festivals, boat races, state wide bridge clubs. The classic was an interstate kite flying gathering up the Columbia Gorge. Take any group of people, add alcohol in varying quantities, add an unfamiliar venue and no restrictions on how anyone cares to interact? The alternative is to get signed waivers of liability but that then assumes that any other party that may incur ''injury'' is aware of the actions of the participant. It is what it is .... as we in Oz start to approach the litigious environment of the USA, we will see more nearly incredulous wins on behalf of the victims. All good and thanks......
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' If anyone started reading 7 pages of negativity would turn them off. Start a new one in a while. Hopefully the neysayers have vented and moved on. Like other m&g threads, how about we hear about the ones coming? Not the ones looking for an excuse to post negativity and who rarely contribute with positive posts Fair enough. I get your point. I just think a clean-up would be more appropriate? but up to Koko and Precious. I deeply sympathize with them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think it's a good idea to close ,not delete necessarily this thread.Start a new one for people who are attending or who are wanting to ask positive questions. Don't leave because of some negativity Koko and don't take it personally. Many people have also said positive things,what perhaps some people don't realise is that there is a difference to a m&g and an EVENT which is what you planned for,hence the extra $. Many people will make decisions closer to the event I think,sometimes life is unpredictable hugs Q
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precious142
10 years ago
Quoting 'Aristippusx2' We are going because for us it is a unique event. The work to organize a NATIONAL meet is to be commended. Lets ensure any feedback is not personal . Whether you choose to attend is up to you. Perhaps an informal event at lunchtime Saturday in one of the magnificent parks in Adelaide? There is an informal get together planned for Friday afternoon/evening by the beach - those details will be emailed to attendees who wish to come along.
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RHP User
10 years ago
as two totally different things. I am sorry to see that Koko has taken this thread personally. Once again, I posted with no malice or negativity. There are some on here who will read whatever I have to say as negative. That is their choice. I see no reason to do a "clean up" or pull the thread....there is mountain of positive feedback here for anyone considering running any future Meet & Greet.
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precious142
10 years ago
to all who have offered their input into what should or shouldn't be going on at this Event........ whether its the venue, the drinks , the food, entertainmemt etc............. but no thanks! We were asked to organise this National Event which we have done all with RHP approval. Together with the experience of our proffessional event co-ordinators, (and my own years working in liquor and hospitaityl trades where I have had the priviledge of organising much bigger events than this M & G) we have put together a package of what we believe will be a most enjoyable night for all who attend.......and we especially look forward to meeting new happy faces from all over Australia and making sure they feel welcome! It is good to see , however, all the concerns that been have raised by OP ie "sloppy drunks, insurance issues, especially for "the overall implied activities",seating arrangements, official photographers, underage drinkers et al...... We will be sure to remind future organisers of all Meet & Greets of your concerns Oh....and we did look at having a person on hand to help those people who find it "hard to understand in English" a menu but - to pay a person $25 per hour- plus time and a half on Saturday evening was a bit prohibitive...... Have a Good Nite!
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Seachange73
10 years ago
After re-reading all the posts and seen how it has gone pear shape so quickly, I definitely would recommend pulling the thread. Agree with Annie and \Q. Start a new thread, wording it differently, catering for a different target market. This thread is not created for the purpose of instructional material on how to set up and run RHP meet and greets but to entice RHP members to join in the fun and meet other like-minded people in a unique event and not just a pub or bar meet. Definitely pull it,.
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
Well said. It's great, Perth Socialites have RHP full support in this event and were asked to organise. It will be a great night! I look forward to walking the red carpet with you both lovely Golden DOW's. *clink clink* Ms Foxy xxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta1' I think it's a good idea to close ,not delete necessarily this thread.Start a new one for people who are attending or who are wanting to ask positive questions. Don't leave because of some negativity Koko and don't take it personally. Many people have also said positive things,what perhaps some people don't realise is that there is a difference to a m&g and an EVENT which is what you planned for,hence the extra $. Many people will make decisions closer to the event I think,sometimes life is unpredictable hugs Q I like the idea of keeping this thread open too though. Let people have their say, I have a few thoughts but have kept them to myself in consideration of the topic. I can see however the unexpectedness of the cost for people who have been to m&g's in the past as well as there being no mention of it on the 'save the date' thread. I think recognising that would be a good thing. JMO though. I really like that the price is across the board with it not costing extra for guys for a change. And the package sounds great to me, sorry I can't be there. I know attendees will have a memorable time. Cheers, Peachy
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
And perhaps have a look at the wording of the event listing, it has about as much pizzazz about it as an invite to a chook raffle at the local. Reach your target market properly...but there I go again offering support and advice. 😳 My bad, the organisers have made it abundantly clear they do not wish for any of that and have it all in hand. Although these comments of mine will be read as a crack at the organisers, I do truly wish you nothing but the very best for this event and my offer of help still stands. On the matter of my attendance, as I stated on the "save the date" forum I won't know until much closer to the date. I like many other people, have youngsters under our guidance and supervision (either as parents or ecucators) who will be sitting their final year exams...or about to start. That will be a priority for many.
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
Why can't some people just back off and give Perth Socialites a fair go. After all this is their forum and event. Talking and posting about it amongst yourselves and telling them what to do, is probably doing more harm than good. :( Let these ladies decide for their selves, or is their event. Good Grief, its 5mths away! Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
It is their Event.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'precious142' We were asked to organise this National Event which we have done all with RHP approval. Together with the experience of our proffessional event co-ordinators, (and my own years working in liquor and hospitaityl trades where I have had the priviledge of organising much bigger events than this M & G) we have put together a package of what we believe will be a most enjoyable night for all who attend.......and we especially look forward to meeting new happy faces from all over Australia and making sure they feel welcome! Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy'Why can't some people just back off and give Perth Socialites a fair go. After all this is their forum and event. Talking and posting about it amongst yourselves and telling them what to do, is probably doing more harm than good. :( Let these ladies decide for their selves, or is their event. Good Grief, its 5mths away! Ms Foxy I think most people have been helpful and sympathetic to Koko and Precious. Precious can always ignore our input, which were made in good faith. As per my previous post, their choice as it is their OP. i was not aware that this National Meet and Greet 'event' is a Perth Socialites event only and as opposed to an RHP event as described by Precious in her last post. You got me confused there. I think some of us who recommended to contain the negativity in this thread have the best interest of the meet in mind. don't you think? We want the meet to succeed if you read it. So, my question to you is to whom are you directing your hostility towards? Your last post adds onto the negativity in this thread. Something a lot of us have been trying to deflect. Have a good night.
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
It is NOT their event. It is an event for ALL RHP members. The possessiveness and defensiveness which they have exhibited does these lovely women absolutely no favours, and having met them both I am frankly a little shocked because it is contrary to the positive view I had formed on their friendliness, inclusiveness and kind heartedness. Precious' last post made it abundantly clear what her views are of those who have concerns, or god forbid offer assistance in the spirit of friendship and a desire to make the event the best it can be for all. Best they remember who the event actually is for......which is all of us.
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RHP User
10 years ago
We just grab a few kegs, esky's, one of those mobile spit roast catering mobs and head down to Glenelg beach.....after all, spring is beach able weather lol Nawwww fuck it.....don't listen to me to be honest But to address the $120 thing....it is fuck all out of the budget....for ME.....but my job allows for it quite well. However...... My concerns are that it's $120 for essentially for fuck all.... Table service for grog isn't my thing as I believe that it will remove the social rotation that you get when you need to walk to the bar....opportunities are then missed to bump into that random interaction you get while you're waiting to be served.... But...... Once again, you probably shouldn't listen to me....I don't attend many of these things as I'm more for a campfire, swags, and the stars..... But I do hope you can resolve these discussions to achieve your perfect night so we can all get back to the core aim of events like this....that is to put faces to avatars, and animation to personalities..... :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
The meet and greet is what it is. All set and no advice, ifs, buts or maybes is going to change that. All we can have is an opinion now. And in the best interests... maybe we could entertain the idea of what the organisers have organised then. Or maybe find an event that does. Cheers Koko and Precious, I do celebrate your innovative approach. Oh and Koko, hugs! Peachy
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
There is no hostility from me. Please do not try that one on me, as it will not work. :) What I have read from your posts (on nearly every page of this forum) is nothing but mean spirit towards others through out and telling people what they should and should not post?? How their financial situations are or what they should be.... the little snips and digs at people here and there? NO? Is that really the best interest of this event ???? Koko has left and Precious has made it clear. All I am saying is, leave the ladies to do what ever it is they have too to organize this event. Both ladies deserve that. If you want too - go do your own or find an event that will suit you. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
As much as this is an event for all RHP members, there is no such thing as an event that will cater to all. The RHP community is an extremely diverse bunch, so any event proposed will doubtlessly suit some, but not the majority. This event is what it is. It may or may not suit your particular financial, time and other constraints. (regrettably timing doesn't suit me) However, please remember that selfless individuals have put a lot of time and effort into making it a reality. And the intent was to make it both an extra special event and one that does not bias towards either East or West Oz. Rather than continuing the trend of poking holes in this event, I am going to start a new topic "Your ideal RHP national meet & greet". Let's see if we can define a best fit and then work towards arranging that for the next event.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If you want too - go do your own or find an event that will suit you. I must say the hostility I see in this topic does nothing to sway me from my decision to close my RHP account. I understood the Meet and Greet in question was started as a MEET AND GREET with the aim of getting a LOT OF members of RHP together for a night of chit-chat, meet and greet. As far as I can recall Adelaide was picked as it is "almost in the middle" so that both East Coast and West Coast members have to and can travel - equal for all - rather than having 1 in Perth or 1 in QLD or MEL etc etc... When the Meet and Greet was first announced there was no talk of 120AUD attendance fee, was no talk about RHP sponsorship, red carpet etc etc.. As far as I can remember Koko took it up on herself to organize it -kudos to her! Now it has been announced and people have spoken - most find the 120 AUD ticket price a bit steep. I am deeply disappointed that people who have spoken up constructively are attacked with comments like the one above! I thought the idea behind a NATIONAL Meet and Greet was to be INCLUSIVE to members of RHP and have as many members attending as possible. Now, I am getting the message that this is not the case. This is an event organized by the group Perth Socialites to their standards and expectations and if someone does not like that or cannot live up to it (e.g from a budget point of view) then they are told to "bugger off" . Is this INCLUSIVE? I conclude that it seems it is impossible to get an inclusive national meet and greet under a roof I wish the best of luck to the organizers of their event, but I am either not attending at all or I am at the car park drinking "cheap" wine and having a McDonald's burger cos that is what myself and most of my friends (who all work full time!) can realisticly afford and it seems that if one speaks up about it then they are hostile, disrespectful and negative...gimme a break!
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
I agree, Well said. Ms Foxy x
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Im no rocket scientist but the statement "their event" signals to me, the meaning that Koko and Precious are organising an event for everyone but it is their event to add their own flair. As with anyone that organises events, a bit of themselves are put into it to make it a bit different and memorable. Im hard pressed to read anything else into it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
....to check everyone's spelling.
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RHP User
10 years ago
After reworking finances, I can come and am bringing Jennylee1903 with me. Neither of us drink alcohol and I have food allergies. I hope the food caters for food allergies. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
As I am a guest member I can't message you regarding cheaper rate. Please contact me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Did I pass? - Posted from rhpmobile
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precious142
10 years ago
Quoting 'libbylou2' As I am a guest member I can't message you regarding cheaper rate. Please contact me. - Posted from rhpmobile We will be in touch with you soon
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is it going to be a sitdown affair? ie will their be a seating plan or will it be cocktail foods where the waiters mingle amongst the crowd? Like Lily I'm a more a fan of the latter as it allows more interaction amongst people which is the whole purpose of a meet n greet, but each person is different of course. Just a question...the tax return may come to the rescue yet...
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RHP User
10 years ago
LMAO. Just when I thought that I would get away with "Oz". Can Toto come too? 😀😀😀
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RHP User
10 years ago
Annie, no it's not their event, with or without their 'flare', there's the problem. It's like being on a committee of a sporting club or on a board in a workplace, holding a position where you act on behalf of the members. All you are there for is to represent and act in the best interests of the members. Your own flare is rubbish when it costs the members that much, more so when flights and accommodation have already been booked. To completely disregard the members and how it would affect them (not to mention insult them and disregard their concerns within this thread, which has been disgusting), is not great, bit of a mystery to me. I thought the whole idea of of meet and greets was to attract as many people as possible. I appreciate you're supporting the organisers, but this wasn't about what the general rhp community wanted, it was about what Koko wanted, the bells and whistles, the fancy dinner out, which seemed to appeal to her, going by previous posts. I've been on committees all my life and have often encountered people who can't quite grasp they're only there as a representative, it's not their own business, they get carried away with it along the way, and lose the plot. They organised an event, made the announcement early in the year, this far into the year slap everyone with a high entry cost and why? I can't answer that one, not a decision I would have made and they must have known there would be an uproar, they must have been advised against it, and decided to go ahead anyway ?? So Annie, Foxy and even you Snag need to consider that. On that note, I'm out, I'll meet you in the carpark SYD
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RHP User
10 years ago
I won't be attending the event, so could you please arrange to have my name taken off the list? I tried to comment on the event but I keep getting an error message. Thanks :)
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
Add-a-laid?? 😜 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'The_3somes' Is it going to be a sitdown affair? ie will their be a seating plan or will it be cocktail foods where the waiters mingle amongst the crowd? Like Lily I'm a more a fan of the latter as it allows more interaction amongst people which is the whole purpose of a meet n greet, but each person is different of course. Just a question...the tax return may come to the rescue yet... The room will be set up Cocktail style, Canapes will be walked around the room. Drinks will be served around the room for those that don't want to line up at the bar.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Addle-aid, ;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am loving the sound of your event! I wondered what drinks were part of the package if you don't mind me asking. I love the idea of not having to line up for them. Peachy... I bet there are surprises too...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Add-a-lad. 😛
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
If 1 is on a committee, then one is elected and therefore put in the position to serve those that elected you. Bit like a prime minister......... Koko and Precious. They thought it would be a good time for a meet and greet with a national possibility. So they organised it to try and make it a memorable event and something a bit different. It is their event to organise for everyone. If i organise Annie's National 55th Birthday Bash does that mean i have to liase with you ITouch? Or anyone else? No. Ill organise it for everyones enjoyment with.....my flair. And those that are invited can come or not. Their choice. If it was like a committee can you imagine the chaos of everybody saying "you have to do this. Lets put it to a vote" Someone took the initiative. I didnt see anyone else stepping up to the plate
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RHP User
10 years ago
The Koko profile may be gone but Im still here with the Socialites For the people who are coming along, it will be a great night, of that you can be sure. I did not, contrary to some peoples opinions, stamp my feet and ask for things to be done my way. (The Socialites is more than Precious and myself??? ) Thats absolutely ridiculous. Im not that type of person...... We have been discussing the M and G for a long time. We have had many successful events, including the Perth M and G, so I think we have proved that we can put on a good night and we are all about people meeting up socially and enjoying themselves. On a last note, I posted this only because I wont put up with unfounded lies being bandied around about me by people who arent even interested in the social side of the site. Hopefully now this thread will now be more positive and have some more comments from people genuinely interested in the M and G. I will still be reading the forums avidly as Ive always enjoyed the banter and sometimes eclectic topics. I would rather read and enjoy the posts without involving myself in any to and fro bickering. XX
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RHP User
10 years ago
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
I bet your top dollar and a good "Add-a-Lad", that those who have mentioned the cost being too high and have quoted, they will not going. Do end up going. Time will tell. See who changes their mind, over 5mths. I've seen this, over the course of the years, on nearly every forum written up about Meet and Greets. Things happen I guess, and people can change their minds. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
I most definitely won't be one of them. Being spoken to like that, with no apology, is absolutely disgraceful. And it's not the first time I've seen it, which is actually the reason I don't go to these events, in Perth at least, other cities I'd be there like a shot. Annie, you haven't made yourself look very good in my eyes here either, condoning that kind of rudeness?? Some apologies might have helped these ladies save face and certainly should have been forthcoming, 'meet and squirt'? Haha way to go ladies 👍😕 but you getting behind and supporting that? Disappointed in your behavior too but whatever you like, whatever turns you on 😉
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RHP User
10 years ago
Could you be anymore dramatic? 😢😢😢
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorry, not koko anymore 😁 my bad
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precious142
10 years ago
Trying to get my head around some of the nonsense being posted here, especially by those who have no idea what has been organised for this Meet & Greet. And for the record, Koko and myself are NOT the only people involved in the oranising. There are many people who have helped with different aspects of this Event including RHP management. And Annie......your last post was spot on!! Vamos de fiesta!!!!! xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
My last post to you....youre offended when you regale us all about your squirting prowess every week.? Really.There have been instances where you have been rude to me with no apology. Pot, kettle. Its been an experience , the to and fro of digs between you and I. Thanks for your invaluable advice xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting precious "Trying to get my head around some of the nonsense being posted here, especially by those who have no idea what has been organised for this Meet & Greet." Perhaps a little more transparency would fix that?? Because I'm even confused.... At $120 a head for a modest 100 attendees would be a $12,000 turnover.... A good DJ possibly $2000.... That means $10,000 goes to a function room that would be about $5000 including canopès which from my experience going to weddings and such include these as well as beer and wine..... To me, there's $5000 unaccounted for, except for a photo booth....add to that a possible monetary contribution from RHP of maybe $2000-$3000 and that sees the DJ payed for.... Someone is getting ripped......or someone is making a damn fine profit. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's exactly like school kids in the yard!!! Bloody disgusting for grown adults. Pusscat
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RHP User
10 years ago
Glad to see you are still around even if your profile is gone 😘 I think Stirry's idea is great regarding transparency, unless there are things you want to be surprises on the night. Foxy - you're probably dead right about that. Sadly I won't be one of them as most of the people I was going for aren't going now (Stirry I will have to see your dual battery set up another time) 😉 Koko - for the record, I think it stinks that you seem to have copped the brunt when there are more behind the scenes. However getting personal no matter who the forumites is to me isn't required. I'm not normally one for being so outspoken about someone in particular - but the reason I won't be attending isn't financial. It's the attitude shown by Precious and the apparent lack of care/outright rudeness regarding people's concerns. Concerns I believe were genuine and reasonable from people I regard as intelligent, thoughtful human beings. If the cost is set in stone that's cool. But the way it was addressed is what has everyone in a fluster. I went back through the the original save the date - on 28 January perthsocialities posted "accommodation packages are being arranged at the venue so stay tuned" I read this as the venue already being chosen/booked. The cost may not have been finalised - but knowing the venue, it was clear there would be a decent charge per head. Heads up might have been a good idea given this was the only issue raised (not the effort of the organisers) Again - I do hope the event is everything you've planned and that everyone who goes has a time to remember.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Grown ups whining about $120 LOL.... Get a life.... OH that's right you don't have one cause $120 is cost prohibitive. Best stick to dogging hey, cost nothing to visit a public park, and you don't have to buy posh food.
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
And the blame for that lies on both sides of the fence...the organisers and the participants on this forum. Yes I have contributed once to that train wreck by labelling the event write up as having as much pizzazz as a chook raffle invite. I own that, I am happy to live by that as I do not belive the write up gives people who have not been to a meet and greet any idea of what they are, nor how special the event is, nor what is going to happen on the night. Other than that my comments have been supportive and included many offers of help. Perhaps this is where some of the problem lies; offers of help, suggestions etc have been taken as criticism of the event. I have no doubt the organisers did consult others in their circle, just as I have no doubt they consulted with RHP management. But that is where the consultation seems to have stopped. There has been much praise for your efforts and your intiative, but there seems to be an underlying theme in comments that if the per head price had been thrown out there as topic of discussion much earlier...either with the general forum population in the 'save the date' forum, or with those of us who have run successful meet & greets outside WA (and therefore givning you the opportunity to gain feedback from the whole of the nation) then you would be in a different place altogether. Admission of this may stand you in good stead, rather sarcastic and dismissive posts which do nothing but alienate your target market even further. Yes, the event is now set in stone. I just hope that stone is not one which is going to drag the organisers and the event under the water never to be seen again, because that would be a real shame. Work hard to make it the best you can....by listening and acknowledging people's points of view, by being open as what is going to happen (Precious you say we have no idea what is going to happen at this event...well is that our fault?) ...so you can market the event in a positive way. Once again I wish you nothing but the very best for this event xx
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
I liked the post because it made me laugh at the time. I do have a dark sense of humour at times. Reviewing my like, well may have shown a bit more discretion in hindsight. I may be bitch at times but i am a sensitive bitch. I dont like hurting people but i do call it as i see it at the time. And that sometimes requires me to apologise at times. So a big public apology to you for causing you duress with my like. I have removed the like in question. Hugs. Hopefully you will see that i am fair enough to admit when im wrong and accept it. Annie
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
I'm sorry. You two do not post often, so for you to speak up and post. Yes, I will take note. Ms Foxy x
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RHP User
10 years ago
SuperFoxxy - I agree with everything that you have said. It all the "other remarks" that are so uncalled for. Peace, love etc etc. Pusscat xxx
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Smilingwithfun
10 years ago
Stirry, there is Alcohol included for 4 hours i believe. One would need to see the difference in packages, drinkers or non- drinkers to be able to work a cost.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks Like I said, you're a bitch, but you're our bitch
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RHP User
10 years ago
There is a 4 hour drinks package included, and as was pointed out previously, having 1 drink each half hour equal 8 @ $10.00 (av) a piece = $80 for drinks alone. And the choice of drink includes sparkling, red and white wines, premium beers, 5 spirits, juices and softies. Food wise the 5 hour hot and cold food package has been selected to include vegetarian and GF foods. As stated in the Events post........ Further details will be available via Email once you have registered
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RHP User
10 years ago
Around September when all you mob down south are feeling like icicles. I nominate Perth Socialites to organise the event. They do damned awesome Meet & Greets from what I've heard. So Koko and Precious and the rest of Perth Socialites, you wanna head to the sunny north for a thaw-out M&G. You know what they say about being in the tropics and being hot and sweaty and OH SO MOIST! And as for $120 for 4 hours booze and food, that's cheap by today's standards. I was out Saturday night and it was $100 for two mains and $9 per glass of wine. If we'd bought a bottle that would have put the bill up to $150 easily.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes, I know that was for two mains but over the course of four hours I would easily drink two bottles of wine, there's $80+ at hotel prices and $40 for food. If it was cocktails they're $20+ each, that's only 6 in 4 hours and you've spent your $120. Check out the prices online and you will see $120 is not unreasonable.
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RHP User
10 years ago
So here is a night out for comparable cost. I get the train into the city (lol) which cost $6-7 , go to a fancy restaurant and get a large Big Mac meal for $11, I skip the posh dessert and head to the pub. I proceed to drink 5 schooners at $ 11 each ( yes its in the city ), on the way out I buy a packet of potato chips while I'm waiting for my $50 cab ride home. Its ok to say you cant afford it but to complain that the "meet and great" is expensive is just a bit sad.
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precious142
10 years ago
Quoting 'usrightnow' Quoting precious142 (28May),"We were asked to organise this National Event which we have done all with RHP approval. Together with the experience of our proffessional event co-ordinators, (and my own years working in liquor and hospitaityl trades where I have had the priviledge of organising much bigger events than this M & G) we have put together a package of what we believe will be a most enjoyable night for all who attend." Is another of the expenses professional event co-ordinators? If not voluntary, that could eat into the budget. Organisers, I know from experience, organising things can be a thankless task, and very draining. Best of luck. No.....the professional event co- ordinators are not an expense.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Koko & Precious - it sounds as though the Adelaide event will be fantastic! And more power to you too! Your calm, civil , classy approach to the venom being sprayed has been nothing short of dignified . I salute your self respect & quiet maturity. Ysa. x
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'social_suicide' Grown ups whining about $120 LOL.... Get a life.... OH that's right you don't have one cause $120 is cost prohibitive. Best stick to dogging hey, cost nothing to visit a public park, and you don't have to buy posh food. Even though I know you're just trying to stir shit as usual, in this case I really think you're onto something. Given what I've seen on this thread of the attitude from the Perth Socialites and Co. - one in particular who no surprise supports this ignorant and arrogant comment of yours - I think a dogging session in a public park with some maccas would also be much more fun than this 'national' M&G.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Quoting 'social_suicide' Grown ups whining about $120 LOL.... Get a life.... OH that's right you don't have one cause $120 is cost prohibitive. Best stick to dogging hey, cost nothing to visit a public park, and you don't have to buy posh food. Even though I know you're just trying to stir shit as usual, in this case I really think you're onto something. Given what I've seen on this thread of the attitude from the Perth Socialites and Co. - one in particular who no surprise supports this ignorant and arrogant comment of yours - I think a dogging session in a public park with some maccas would also be much more fun than this 'national' M&G. LD if a night out for you is limited to the 10's of dollars that's ok, nothing wrong with being a really cheap date, but to complain that $120 is expensive is ridiculous . There is a massive difference between stating that you cant afford something as opposed to something being too expensive. I cant afford a lot of what I want because I cant afford it but I never whine that its all too expensive. But I suppose if you set the bar really low in life you will rarely fail, like Homer Simpson said....." trying is the first step to failure";)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Have put there point across , I'm embarrassed that people are continually going on about this M&G . Instead of the two and throw can someone have the balls to organise one in there own state , as it seems so easy looking at the comments by some .
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RHP User
10 years ago
If you find it cost prohibitive and cannot make it it's actually not the end of the world.I fail to see why people are still being negative, you do realize you don't actually have to go and can wait until another meet is planned that more suits your budget. I'm sure other people have missed out due to it being in another state and not being able to afford it at the time, i know if it was in Perth we wouldn't be able to afford it. However we wouldn't bitch and cry about it, we'd wait until something more suitable came up. The costs are as they are if you can't or don't want to attend then don't, but please quit the bitching about it. Some people have put a lot of effort in trying to do something for the RHP community and i'm sure if the shoe was on the other foot and you had organized it and all these people didn't like it and decided to pick it apart you'd not be happy either. Again i thought this was an adult website?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'd probably do $240 on the bar tab alone if left to my own devices.....
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Seachange73
10 years ago
In deference to my fondness, high regard and respect to Koko, whom I consider an outstanding human being having met her personally, I will not further contribute to the detraction of this event if you are trawling for an argument. I have nothing by praises for Koko and will graciously honour her in the best way possible out of fondness and loyalty. Best wishes to Koko and the team. Many have said it before me, you will not please everybody but it does not hurt to hear people along the way and consider their feedback. That is the important lithmus test to the progress and success of any project or event to be implemented. May your Meet exceed your expectations and make memorable experience that many will reminiscent with much fondness in years to come. More power to you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
...then see if that USArsehole Trump will cough up a few thousands bucks to swing the overseas backing. His mama done good by the boy and he's up for damn near anything that will get him elected. When in doubt, blame the politicos and call an early election!
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RHP User
10 years ago
You seem to have missed the point. There will always be people who can't afford things - but surely this should be taken into consideration when organizing an event such as this. Shouldn't it be catering to as many as people as possible. It's okay for people that know each other or perhaps have formed online friendships, but for a new person - it's not worth it for me. $500-$1000 to meet people I will never see again. I notice men complaining about paying to go into swingers clubs - do you think many single men would show?
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Smilingwithfun
10 years ago
I have to answer the above, would single men go? Well, if i was 36 i certainly would, just for the drinks package. However now that i'm 56 & not so shallow, it would be for the food as well.
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
I'm going to take a Bex, drink a jug of Mojito and go have a good lay down. 🍹 *clink* Ms Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Stirry' Quoting precious "Trying to get my head around some of the nonsense being posted here, especially by those who have no idea what has been organised for this Meet & Greet." Perhaps a little more transparency would fix that?? Because I'm even confused.... At $120 a head for a modest 100 attendees would be a $12,000 turnover.... Stirry, I posted a few days ago that it sounded like the 'premium wedding package' at Adelaide Rydges from the drink description and the cost of that package was listed as $129 per head. Unfortunately I can't find the same PDF page listing the pricing from a few days ago (I can see the links in my history, but they all get 'page does not exist' errors now and the new PDF doesn't mention the same package). Based on that I don't think it's fair to speculate on profiteering - I just thought a $9 per head discount sounded low given the lesser setup and food costs on a cocktail arrangement vs wedding reception (perhaps they counter that a wedding reception would have lower alcohol consumption since time is taken up with speeches/sit-down dinner... I'd counter that swingers need to be able to 'perform') I agree with your point about transparency of arrangements when trying to quell speculation - especially the references to RHP involvement as if it's all shady cloak and dagger Secret Squirrel stuff. Did they team up to make a real life Orgasmo ray gun and everyone is under an NDA? (it has made a REALLY welcome change to the usual rehash of topics though :-) )
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
You cant afford membership, you cant afford me..........shit, wrong thread again.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
its about choice......the freedom of choice. Choice that has been available at many past Meet & Greets to pay for you own drinks , your own food. Whether that choice is because of personal preference or $ constraints is relevant to each individual. As this thread shows....many folk get a little peeved when their freedom of choice is removed. When I am out partying...couple of drinks and not a lot of food suits me just fine. Not impressed with forking out a set $ amount to supplement the appetite and thirst of others.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Freedom of choice. Freedom to attend or stay at home
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RHP User
10 years ago
dont worry. It will pass. One day you will tire of your bullying snipes at anything I post. I am sure that anyone who does choose to attend this M&G will have a great night.
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RHP User
10 years ago
That this was seen by the organisers as a National Event, not a m&g ..Over the four years that I have been here most m&gs have attracted people from interstate ..the last big Brisbane m&g attracted around 150 people ..RHP sponsored the event,paid for the band and some drinks I think,but never before has there been a cover charge for drinks and nibbles...perhaps if people had been given the choice to purchase the package or not, more people would be happier to attend Q
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
You are just repeating what has been said again and again. Broken record. Negativity. Pack mode of which you have always been critical of in your post history. Give the organisers time to release the non drinking package in response as has been alluded to by them. If it was me organising it, i'd have walked. But to the credit of those behind it, they believe in themselves and the cause. To deliver a memorable national event. Stop sniping at them. Its all been said. 11 fucking pages. Jesus.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The title of this thread, the listing on the Events pages is all as National Meet & Greet. Not National Event. Expectations of many may have been different.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' You are just repeating what has been said again and again. Broken record. Negativity. Pack mode of which you have always been critical of in your post history. Give the organisers time to release the non drinking package in response as has been alluded to by them. If it was me organising it, i'd have walked. But to the credit of those behind it, they believe in themselves and the cause. To deliver a memorable national event. Stop sniping at them. Its all been said. 11 fucking pages. Jesus. Really? And you're stance has been to condone appalling behavior, including personal attacks on me, which were completely unnecessary and nothing to do with this event or topic, yet you seemed to have glossed over that. Not only me, but Ruby and others have also been attacked and in your comment here, you make a sweeping statement about Ruby's post history? Not cool. Sorry but no-one made personal attacks against the organisers, yet that's what we got in return, and no apology has been forthcoming. I've tried to sit back and not respond but I'm disgusted and have little sympathy if the whole event goes under. I'm a nice person and I don't deserve to be treated like that or have people I considered friends jump on board and support that kind of behavior and make it worse. I echo that thought for Ruby and anyone else who has been on the receiving end of this throughout the thread. No excuse for that and to the person who called that 'classy', it gives a whole new definition to class
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Seeing as you are so passionate about being priced out the "event". I will pay your non drinks package on the night. That way you can attend and enjoy the festivities on the night. Will even buy you a drink to have a cheers with you as no hard feelings.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It was about the Freedom of Choice....its not all about the $. Did you not see in my first post on page one where I congratulated the organisers for taking on the task.? Did you not see where I asked a question? It is only at your insistence that many comments from people on here are negative. In reality...many have been very supportive (myself included) of the work being done behind the scenes by the Perth Socialites. I am not aware of anytime in RHP forum's where posters have not been able to post their thoughts (moderation excluded) That is all that is happening here.....many people expressing their thoughts. Are 90% or so, of comments here considered by you as snipes... or just mine?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Your last comment wasnt there before I made my last post. Thanks for your offer....if I choose to attend the evening I will do so on my own $ My very first comment about the $, was about it pricing many.....local and interstate out of attending. Not alluding to myself inclusively. Happy to have a drink with you to discuss the difference between our thoughts on negativity and personal thoughts and comments.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Will look forward to a nice drink and robust debate. There is nothing personal. I just think a fair go is in order without constant sniping at the event. Im sure 11 pages has got the attention of organisers including RHP and if something can be modified then im sure it will. But either way we will be there. We look at it as a weekend event. The night may be the centrepiece but so much more to it than an expense. Each to their own. Cheers and im out. Annie
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RHP User
10 years ago
And sent a message asking about the price of the non-alcoholic package and the accommodation package available, which was how we were instructed to inquire. The message I got back was lovely - but stated those details would be released to me once I confirmed my attendance. It makes it difficult to make a decision without knowing what you're up for. Q - I agree Annie - what a lovely offer
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precious142
10 years ago
Quoting 'SoftandCurious' And sent a message asking about the price of the non-alcoholic package and the accommodation package available, which was how we were instructed to inquire. The message I got back was lovely - but stated those details would be released to me once I confirmed my attendance. It makes it difficult to make a decision without knowing what you're up for. Q - I agree Annie - what a lovely offer And two days ago you asked to be removed from the register...and you were! So what point are you trying to make now?????
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'precious142' Quoting 'SoftandCurious' And sent a message asking about the price of the non-alcoholic package and the accommodation package available, which was how we were instructed to inquire. The message I got back was lovely - but stated those details would be released to me once I confirmed my attendance. It makes it difficult to make a decision without knowing what you're up for. Q - I agree Annie - what a lovely offer And two days ago you asked to be removed from the register...and you were! So what point are you trying to make now????? due respect but the point she was trying to make was that how can she make an informed decision about whether she can afford to attend, if she doesn't know the cost beforehand, hence the enquiry? So does this mean people have to commit to attending before they're given the cost of attending?
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