RHP

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March 29 2013

If in a prolile a person has a risque name, photo, description and disires why do we get canned for treating them that way?   ie: Act like a slut = getting treated like one.   Your thoughts

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    The old saying goes - Treat others HOW you like to be treated....Regardless of how one's profile portrays oneself, we are adults on here and human, so a show some dignity and respect instead of making comments and hiding behind it because it is a digital world.YES! one sex is critically judged by this than the other..... hopefully equality is not far away

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Why would you disrespect someone male,female,tv,ts,straight, gay, or meretricious on a site dedicated to to celebrating sexuality, we are all here for our own reasons, not to be judged!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hmmmmmm so we show our titts and descibe what we like or want and are labelled for it ... thnx i choose not to see that as a bad thing as iam proud of who i am   I am S-sexy L- lucious U- untamed & T- true   so go ahead if ur intimidated by my profile then feel free label me a SLUT

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I haven't read all posts but... To say these are just words on a screen is ridiculous, judging from the passion (and anger) coming through in a lot of these posts these are opinions, ideas that come from people's minds about what they are thinking on subject at hand. Yes in my opinion you do treat people with respect until they give you reason to withdraw that right. Conveniently it's also listed in the human rights that all people shall be treated with respect and dignity irregardless of their race, creed, sexuality, gender etc, I'm sure this would also extend to their level of sluttiness but no one quite knew how to phrase it so left it to come under the sexuality umbrella. Just because you have x rated pics up, does not make you a slut (male or female, although yes, traditionally a derogatory term for a female). On a whole, most of the messages I have received have been very polite and respectful, but there have been a handful who have retorted to abuse on receiving my "thanks, but no thank you" replies. Funny, the most often used word in these nasty messages would have to be the words slut and whore... Come on, if anything label me a prick tease, if I were a slut, there'd be no reason for the nastiness, would there? Yes this is a sex site, but no we don't have to fuck everybody, it is our choice and our right to exercise the word 'no' if we so choose to, just as it is everyone's right to choose the pics they display. On that note, we women have often collectively said that we find cock pics a turn off, this is only an opinion, and usually said in response to men enquiring how they can improve their profiles, I don't think I have ever heard it said that we think they are male sluts, root rats etc. just a helpful "we know you've got one, and really once you've seen one you've seen 'em all, we'd much prefer a pic of your face" kind of approach.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    A woman with the morals of a man ?

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    13 years ago

    Strong Lusty Unconventional Teamplayer

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    The way you have worded your topic can easily be misreadl, and generally speaking some people relate Slut as being of female gender.   The manner in which you speak may have a lot to do with it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Some people get carried away and take the word literally and in some cases treats the other person literally, both genders arae guilty on this matter depending on the individual, but on the whole most people on here get it, it is a given that it is only roleplay and fantasy just the lines get blurred sometimes and there is confusion especially if the couple really isn't on the same page(ie a lot of differences, but what the heck we will test out the waters and have fun), most people do respect others but again personality comes into play, hence Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus scenario.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Ladies and I'll se the next term very fucking loosley....gentlemen.WTF. With what a few of the guys here have written fucking pisses me off, cos it's because of fucking dickheads thinking that because this is an explicit dating site, you have the right to assume because you've got a dick, that these women will be throwing themselves at your feet.I will point out the obvious that when you are rejected, you as a person are not being rejected. It's your approach that is being rejected. However, when you carry on like a fuckwit, you as a person deserve to be rejected.You fucking idiots need to pull your head in, treat a woman with respect and work on your approach, your attitude and your fat guts.Obviously I'm passionate about this because you're giving decent blokes like me a bad name, and making it a shit load harder than it has to be.Ladies....apologies for the abrupt and distasteful language, but FFS, some people won't learn.Corey

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Welcome to the forums Siege! This place just gets funner and funner! I'm sick of popcorn. Antipasto and bubbles anyone? I'm keeping the couch warm waiting for replies to our new friend!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    move over and I'll lick your breasts.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    If paint me has the puppies out I'm there! Nice post seige... I'm sure it'll get 'em riled!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    you are such a bubbles S.L.U.T paintme.....Slurping Licking Uncorked Tattinger

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    my bad *hides under her rock with bubbles and inspirits boobies*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    swirling my tongue over yummy erect soft pink nipples. While the owner of them drizzles ice cold Tattinger over them. I feel like such a S.L.U.TAwesome1 please be to rest your tongue on the other pink bits

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Happy to be slurping alongside you my dear...

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