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Male Underwear at Party's
July 26 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
Dictating what sort of underwear they have to wear? Well that's a big eye roll from me. I'm a little confused. What exactly are you wanting them to wear, and women for that matter? Sounds very stuck up to me but maybe I didn't get what you meant? For the record, I don't spend a fortune on myself, I don't have to. They like me just the way I am, natural and beautiful. Try to remove the pretense. Massive turn off for me
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RHP User
8 years ago
too btw
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RHP User
8 years ago
Unless I'm slipping a pair of my knickers on a guy, I have to say I would tend to prefer to say YES to your NO, and dig men in a pair of form-fitting, black ...err, whatever you call boy-leg underwear in man-land (not the visible branding bit, though)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Pepper rose. Agree no large branding but I think from what I've seen males may be limited in choice for "sexy" or brandless marked underwear? As long as it's clean with no holes and the elastic still works then 👍🏻 - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Yes to boy leg, form fitting. To me that is sexy and appealing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
love the visible branding, I find them sexier, so again it would be no from me 👎
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RHP User
8 years ago
be honest here. The clothes don't make the person look good/younger/thinner/classier, the person in them makes the clothes look good, along with other contributing factors like how clean they are, how they smell mmm yum and how they carry themselves, their sexual confidence. All that said, the branded underwear is a bonus 😛😜 Sorry, I'll leave you to it, had my say
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RHP User
8 years ago
The alternatives are less masculine, in my mind. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
If its an Event then there are lots of alternatives to the branded boxer shorts. Plenty of online sites selling cool underwear for guys, and Im not talking Manties.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't see what the fuss is about.... But it'd be a party I'd steer clear of as whilst your intentions may be to raise the bar of efforts that guys put in, I think there are much more important things to be vetting... I can picture it now...a group of men with the perfect underwear that no one wants to be around.... But hey....they'll look the part right?? :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm struggling to think of decent branding free men's undies though. Armani like to stick their eagle on things, Andrew Christian have their symbols... the closest to branding free would be YSL/Oroton silk men's Gs... (though I keep those for sport since they hold what needs to be held, and don't restrict/have much fabric that'd hold sweat) Leather doesn't have branding, but that stuff is also only suited to certain themes/types of party too. I get the "not your daggy stretched old-man-style Y front undies" or "fresh from the 4 pack at Coles" idea behind the rule... but I don't see many great alternatives for guys the way you've worded it.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Surely Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday ........... isn't visible branding ?
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RHP User
8 years ago
I thought Aussie's were supposed to be egalitarian? It's the man or woman in your eye sight, your nose 👃 length, who you'd like on the tip of your tongue 👅 the voice in your ear 👂🏼 the hand 🤚 on your body the vibes coming from the person that dictates if you're gunna let someone in your personal space. Please let's not be stereotyping and judging when as a group we are supposed to be accepting of all sexualities and penchants. M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Y fronts... Makes the name brands look so much sexier..
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
I get maybe the big branded bonds or tradies styled boxes. And some calvins ,but a lot of the higher end boy leg style ones have smaller but deffinately branding on the bands albeit more discreetly ,to name a few. Tommy Hilfiger,Amani, and emporium So op ,how bout you suggest some stylish men's stuff That you think is ok ,not everyone one wants to were stretchy vinyl or leather , not all can afford it or look good in it ,sometimes the cost of just going to a party and havering a few drinks can break the bank for some , Was thinking about your party this weekend ,lucky we are busy as I have hundreds of dollars in underwear but none are deemed appropriate for your get together , will watch with interest ,there's a difference between ill fitting dirty holey branded boxer junk ,and the good stuff that we think looks nice ,although I do see what your trying to do nybclassing your event up a bit ,but possibly a hard line in the sand to draw , - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Some are branded, but there are loads of unbranded if you look up Johnniescloset and Gooddevil.com. They also have boxers and briefs.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Does this mean I can't wear my Starwars underpants!?!?! It's a no from me!
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
With Meander but also with the OP. So many guys don't make the effort and understand him trying to lift the standard. Saints and sinners was lacking in the male effort. Disgraceful. My male half needs to check his undies draw as he is attending that party. He may need to lift. And he can fuck off away from my draw. No boy legs in there that I'll let him wear
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
With Meander but also with the OP. So many guys don't make the effort and understand him trying to lift the standard. Saints and sinners was lacking in the male effort. Disgraceful. My male half needs to check his undies draw as he is attending that party. He may need to lift. And he can fuck off away from my draw. No boy legs in there that I'll let him wear
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
😁
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LetsFrolic
8 years ago
All i wear is bonds or calvins boyleg style .. umm except g strings - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I love to look good when i go to parties and events im in no way shape or form rich, i do put money into my nails over $100 each time i have them done, i get my hair trimmed up at around $30 every few months, i get my lingerie online so its not expensive but it still is a cost, make up isnt cheap to buy either and dont forget the shoes a girl loves her shoes, what about waxing it costs money, its not about being stuck up or high class, its about putting effort in and feeling good about myself and it shouldnt be any different to what guys do for themselves buying a pair of shorts that you wouldnt wear on a daily basis isnt hard and there are plenty out there, Aliexpress & wish are great places to buy online and having a look on a regular basis isnt hard, we want to give an event that is different from anything else, we dont want guys walking around in the big bulky branded type underware or wrapped in a towel, we are only trying to lift the bar of what guys would wear to house parties and make our event something not been on offer before.
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RHP User
8 years ago
you might get your wish there. I think you're forgetting sex is natural and connections formed prior need to be natural, with people comfortable and sexy in their own choice of clothing. Personally, Calvin's on a hot young dude, would shit all over an expensive g on an old dude, just sayin 😉 money can't buy some things. This topic just offends me, you really are missing the point of sexual attraction. So you don't like Bonds or Calvin's, did I mention I do 😊 seems you assume your guests will feel the same way. So what are these men paying to come to your event, that is before taking out a second mortgage for the new undies? 😉 How long are these babies gonna be on anyway? 😇
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Seachange73
8 years ago
I.do get what you mean and hope the men make an effort too. After all, it's a party and hope people get into the spirit of it Good for you for making an effort to lift the game. many women would definitely appreciate the effort as much as we make an effort to dress up for the party. It's really more fun. I.also think there's nothing wrong with boy leg or stretch boxer shorts. As long as they are clean and presentable. That is, newish and it doesn't look like they were wearing something that their dog have been chewing up. 😨 I'll get in Friday afternoon and see if I can register interest in your party. Sounds like a hoot 😘and just up the road from me instead of the long drive to Lilydale with your other parties 😱 I hope you have lots of attendees and have lots of naughty fun! 😈 if there's room for one more I might pop in. 👍
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
We agree with you Doorman. It is important to put some effort into ones appearance & grooming, when going to a swingers party or even just to meet for drinks. The women generally always put in an effort to look good, but alas the guys most often don't. Arriving in tracksuit pants & smelly running shoes is just not acceptable. If you are going to be removing your clothes, and changing down into something sexy ( so as to set the mood / enhance the ambience ) of the party, then yes, the males also need to put in the effort. Nothing worse (and unsexy) than standing around in towels or heavily branded boxers / briefs that have large branded elastic waist bands. Mr D simply wears a pair of black cotton "briefs" (I think they are called) that are not branded. One of the attractions of a swingers party / venue , at least for us, is about being able to strip down into ones underwear in a sexy , sensual & naughty environment. There needs to be some fantasy involved as if not, then what's the point, one may as well be at home in ones mundane suburban environment. Think of that exciting scene from "Eyes Wide Shut" . It would not have been so erotic had the men been standing around in towels or boxer shorts and the setting was your average suburban Australian face brick "Lego Land" cloned house, would it? One well run party, that really makes an effort to be the "creme de la creme " makes masks compulsory to all, and black tie for males. They want to set a standard of sophistication & opulence, and for the clientele that they aim to attract, this works. Their parties are the best we have ever been too- something akin to Eyes Wide Shut. Certainly nothing wrong with attempting to lift the standards. But Australia being as PC as it is, one would no double be labelled as tall poppies, by mediocrity, for wanting to do something better. That said, the swinging scene here in Melbourne does cater for all tastes, classes, sophistications & upbringings. Some of the venues appeal to a more feral "Bogan" element (not necessary to shower, shave, brush your teeth or get out of your highvis tradie gear - just come as is ) whilst other venues put a lot of effort into their decor, ambience and the air of opulence & sophistication that they wish to imbue. That element of fantasy, that is different to ones everyday daily life, is important for us. Well done Doorman, for wanting to raise the bar at your parties. It would be fun to have an all black or all white , themed night too . Very sexy . - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Double should read "doubt" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hi Lilyorchid you got it on the head is a event/party make an effort.
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RHP User
8 years ago
be very interested to know how much money you make out of these parties. How much are couples and singles charged to attend? Fair question since you are advertising on the forum
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RHP User
8 years ago
Its not about the money, We are setting a standard and do you seriously think that we dont have over heads, Party's and events are very social and like the ladies look good we want the guys to look good to, Ive seen enough guys come in their every day undies and its not sexy maybe if your just meeting up for a booty call then what does it matter and this is no house party its an event, guys underware is no where near as expensive as what ladies spend on themselves so saying & If you look in events all details are there and remember its not being held in just any place.
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Starlet1
8 years ago
We are fans of Marc Dorcels films which feature them in Parisian chateau. Would love to know more. As for our preference, agree on dressing to impress. Would love to hear which brand of underwear the ladies prefer. A nice, new pair of CKs or Diesels are our preference, but keen to hear of alternatives. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
8 years ago
You don't need to justify yourself in how you want your party to be held. Set your goal, your standards for your party. It will appeal to the appropriate demographics. To those who are easily offended by your efforts to raise the bar wrt hygiene and fun will not go. Not the people you want in your party. They are not your target audience. There are lots of other parties they can attend that suits their taste. Simple. DC well said. 👍 Op, looking at your invite list, you definitely have attracted a good number as you offering something different to the run of the mill parties. Congratulations!! keep the new ideas coming. 👍👏 For those people who have never attended parties nor have no intention to yet are highly critical, well ignore them. That's just trolling. 😎 The venue you chose is a nice one in an affluent bayside suburb. you have undertaken Event costs and business risks to provide a different experience to the Melbourne swinging scene. You need not answer what you're making as that question is inappropriate nor it is any of their business. they can figure out themselves with the attendee numbers you have provided and costs. They can use work it out themselves. Some people really.. 😄 I also didn't see you blatantly advertising for it. Fair question. 👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
We dont want the brands with the big bands with names on them, yes it is to late to buy online but buying online is the best way to go and many choices and nowhere near as expensive as what ladies buy so to say its expensive is laughable, guys could even tie a ribbon around their cock and present it as a present for the ladies, its not hard to get creative, even find stickers if you really wanted to and make it fun, there will always be those people that think its not about the look, we are all eye candy for each other ;)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Events and Private parties are a bit different from guys popping around to your house. And the underwear you can get online isnt that much more to buy that undies in any of the department stores. We have a Leo party coming up next week and Im wearing a velvet animal print dress, 8 dollars from the OP shop. Parties and Events are a good excuse to dress up a bit and maybe wear something you normally wouldnt, its all a bit of fun and why wouldnt you? Your event, your rules.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yes it is your party and your choice to tailor it however you like, was just giving my opinion. It is what it is, that's how I feel. lilyorchid, trolling? No, giving my opinion which the op requested by posting this topic. Who is trolling is subjective? As far as me having no intention to attend a party, that's rubbish, it needs to be the right dynamic for me which I haven't found yet, according to my preference, personal to my needs and desires, and typical for you to yet again make it personal. How about sticking to the topic. On that note, op so you have overheads, yes I expect you would, although the high entry costs to most parties usually well exceeds the actual cost. Not suggesting that's the case with you, but hence my question, which you didn't answer btw 😉 I do respect and appreciate your desire to weed out the, and to quote DC "tracksuit pants and smelly running shoes" lol come on, how often does that happen? Sorry to be addressing a few different people in the one post but busy day ahead. DC "Nothing worse (and unsexy) than standing around in towels or heavily branded boxers / briefs that have large branded elastic waist bands" - Absolutely couldn't disagree more. My partners have looked pretty bloody hot in a towel and the aforementioned underwear, but it would make a difference who's in them of course 😀 I'm sure your party will be awesome. I would just hate guys to be reading this and feel self conscious about their underwear, I needed to put it out there that this is a select group of people who feel that way, not everyone. That said, I'll leave you to it. Good luck, hope you gave a great night 👍
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
Well I will be stuffed ,had a look at love honey ,on the net Today and there's some nice ones no branding to speak of ,and half the price , of what is normally pay whooohoooo ,gotta love that ,hopefully,the planet. Will line up with us next time around ,(see what I did there )and do agree your party your rules , and I'm sure good venues don't come cheap ,nor is cheap always a good thing ,is nice to have lots of options Really wish honey birdette would wake up And have matching stuff or at least some men's wear that goes with the beautiful women's wear they have Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Now I understand what really happened at Saints and Sinners..... Poor bastard was wearing the wrong underwear lol Too soon? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'DynamicCouple36'Mr D simply wears a pair of black cotton "briefs" (I think they are called) that are not branded. I'm struggling to see how a new pair of black briefs are significantly different to a new pair of little black trunks. What if you can only get them via special order? (I wish this silly forum allowed links so a few examples could be posted) I get the idea of the restriction, I've thought similar when you go to Hellfire and there's someone who just threw on black trousers and shirt, and others have some elaborate latex construction that probably takes hours just to put on. (I don't care about it being egalitarian, or Tommo not getting in with his 4-pack bonds specials, just really getting down to "what is and isn't considered OK")
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
We would not have any problems if someone wore a new pair of little black trunks. It's the dazzling array of in your face, American gangster style shiny & shimmering polyester boxer shorts and heavily branded male undies that , for us, are not very sexy and certainly a mood killer (in our opinion ) at swingers parties. Then there are those dreaded white Y-front old mans undies, complete with urine stains & skid marks .....yes we have had the misfortune of encountering those at a few swingers clubs. Some things can never be unseen :) lol Perhaps the best maxim would be less is more ? A new, simple & clean, plain pair of black cotton briefs or tight fitting boxer style (if there is such a thing ?) Mr D likes to keep things simple and unobtrusive in that department. He does not own a single pair of boxers. It's all plain, pure cotton briefs, never Y fronted and never white !! Lol Let the girls go for something more ornate & lacy , like our favourite Honey Birdette or KissKill. It's all going to depend on the type of party and the demographic / calibre of person the party hopes to attract. We have been to some shockers over the past 4-5 years. Euwwww. Say no more !! Lol It high end or nothing, for us now. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hey Ho...Let's Go......Comm...annnn...doh
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RHP User
8 years ago
Think some people here have had to much of a good thing. Sounds like its all getting abit stale, when lables on underwere is a problem for you. Never been to a party. But if we did. I know dam well we wouldnt be looking at labels. Was it a problem when you first started going and hosting events and parties. Maybe time for a break - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
This is the most rediculous post I have read on this site ,,,,labels on mens underwear at party,s ,,,who gives a f....... what woman looks at a mans underwear long enough to check out the label ,,,,,,,I don't ,,,mens undies arnt on long enough at a party to worry about ,,,,am I going to say no to a man just because he has a brand name on his jocks ,,,no way ,,,,,next u will be wanting women to wear brand name bras and undies
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Talking about the big lettering type. Originally designed with the wide elastic so tradies don't have to look at their mates hairy cleaverage when they are getting down and dirty on the job. Not normal labels
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Don't you guys want to be remembered? When a hot chick rambles through the party, do you not say "did you remember the hottie with the purple Honey set on (someone will know who I mean.. 😁)" Would a guy want to be the subject of a similar convo. " Remember that hunk with the purple briefs on? Well, he fucked me. So hot" The very reason l prefer woman's shopping. So much easier to be an individual........ As if l need that but anyway....... Guys. Be a standout . Instead of one of those guys with the black bonds on....... Derrrrr
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RHP User
8 years ago
Annie. Want to be rememberd for who i am. Not my dam jocks - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
It's good to stand out but but Bonds are "very comfy undies" there is no doubt. And when you want to perform you need to feel comfy lol........I am partial to the tighter fitting boxer trunk type undies....Country Road have a nice classy understated range...and also very comfy too....labelling is there on the garment but generally need to get up nice and close to read it....anyone want to check my label to make sure?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Once you go black, you'll never look back....and the skid marks will be gone too!!! Lol they're probably still there but you gotta sniff for them....instead the precum stains come out to play under black lights...lol I'm curious though.... How does one police it? Sure you have a rule, but where's the inspection area?? Lol is it like a rally leg where there's a dedicated room with the sign "scruteneering"?? Lol If you find a non-compliant guy then what?? Do we call the tactical response unit or the fashion police?? Lol Maybe.... We could even have sniffer dogs?? I'm glad I came back here....I love my peers, they're so classy, refined, and they completely accept everyone no matter what....I love youse all....lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
As you say, the ladies make such an effort to dress very sexily, even though it's not for the guys x The least the guys could do is dress as sexy as he can for the girls x not what he thinks is sexy but what the ladies think is sexy x Whilst we are here, lets take a look lower down x Lower x Yes, that's right, socks !Take your f.....g socks off ! it's not hot or sexy x it's not even man-lingerie x it's disgraceful ! X
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RHP User
8 years ago
😀👍 Sooooo, what do the guys think of my bonds boy leg trunks? I love them. They feel really sexy. Branded not only on the band, but all over. I've certainly never had any complaints 😉 love the feel of them too, when I run my fingers over the surface, mmm yeah 😊 I seriously doubt any man would be turned off by me wearing these at a party, guys who see me in them in the flesh are seriously turned on by how I look in them. Why then should men wearing bonds be viewed differently? I'm sorry Annie but people wear clothes differently, a designer pair of undies isn't what I'd remember about a guy, trust me on that one, and the same for women. I wouldn't be talking about the dress she wore, I'd remember her the person. I maintain my initial opinion, many of the comments here are sounding stuck up. DC likes high end only now? lmao can't remember the last time I had a high end fuck 😀
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RHP User
8 years ago
wash the skid marks out 😎
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RHP User
8 years ago
Its not the clothes, its the person wearing them, ITM? Yet in Dress to Impress you say that people dressed up to the nines are what you call Poodles. Bit of a contradiction. Whatever, at the end of the day if people are offended by the OP looking for people willing to make the effort and look the part at their party, then thats fine, they dont have to go, do they?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Very interesting post with lots of varied and interesting opinions here and some very funny ones too. Great that you are trying to raise the bar in your event op, but like many in here I've found it hard to locate garments that fit the bill. Will check out some which have been posted here by others now though... perhaps more examples of online shopping sites or even brand names might be of interest to many.
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Seachange73
8 years ago
Ignore her. That's just trolling for attention as usual. 😎
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RHP User
8 years ago
Two solutions actually..... 1. When people attend the hosts hand out the underwear that THEY see as fitting for the guys at their expense.... lol Failing that option given that the hosts may not be wanting to wear the cleaning bill lol :p 2. At entry EVERYONE, strips off butt naked and the hosts provide BLACK wheelie bin liners that have arm, leg and neck holes cut out of them...this would not only eliminate any sort of fashion competition, but would also see to it that there's no washing involved as they're disposable, there's a readily available supply, uniformity across the participants which would raise the ENTIRE bar for ALL not just one side irrespective of gender... What do you all think?? :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Just a few thoughts re those opposed to this post . You have been to vanilla clubs that have a strict dress code. Do you moan & bitch about it too, or do you comply so as to get in ? The OP's post & request is really no different is it not ? And it really is not an unreasonable post nor request. What about themed parties, like S&S . Do you dress the part or just moan about it? The OP simply wants to raise the bar with the hope that this will make their party a success and set a sensual, erotic & naughty ambience. If you don't like their request, well, you don't have to attend the party. No one is forcing you. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Quoting 'DynamicCouple36' Just a few thoughts re those opposed to this post . You have been to vanilla clubs that have a strict dress code. Do you moan & bitch about it too, or do you comply so as to get in ? The OP's post & request is really no different is it not ? And it really is not an unreasonable post nor request. What about themed parties, like S&S . Do you dress the part or just moan about it? The OP simply wants to raise the bar with the hope that this will make their party a success and set a sensual, erotic & naughty ambience. If you don't like their request, well, you don't have to attend the party. No one is forcing you. :) - Posted from rhpmobile As you know, many guys don't give a rats arse. Saints and Sinners is a good example. A pair of bonds trunks is their idea of erotic theme. Wtf. Guys at players party's, tracky daks and then they get upset when they don't score. Special result requires special effort. No special effort in the prep, no special effort in the bedroom
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RHP User
8 years ago
Koko I bet your new leopard print 'frock' will be a show stopper 👍👌
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RHP User
8 years ago
There's a difference to dressing up and being stuck up, and I cab 100% say that I avoid people like that, offends me, I just feel sad for those people. Like you're always chasing something more or help getting attention, the natural act kind of gets lost somewhere. Scuse the pun but strip it down and lose the pretense, I did, best thing I ever did. I was once like you people, glad I'm not now. That's all, for now 😃
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RHP User
8 years ago
Someone's getting their perfect knickers tied upward.... My job here is accomplished :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I will never wear a 'frock' 😕
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RHP User
8 years ago
😂😂😂 👍
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Indeed !! You hit the nail on the head. We love visuals & styling and fantasy and and and and . That's what makes sex, arousal (and everything in between) so special. It's important to make an effort we believe. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
I've seen many people attend theme nights at swinger clubs and make no effort at all to wear either theme or even sexy lingerie.....neat casual clothes then a towel when ready to play. (Trackies are NEVER acceptable lol). I do believe they put all their effort into the play and don't give a rats arse about themes or looking sexy....that's all fine by me, their choices and their lives. But I am not fond of the judgemental looks given when those who make an effort to dress to theme make an appearance, or those who wear sexy stuff. Some of us are happy to pop on a corset/or attempt to dress to the theme....because it adds to the fun of the night and helps with self confidence.
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
A cock , in a frock , on a rock ? Lol :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I will never wear what resemble mens boxers.
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RHP User
8 years ago
lol now there's a good reason to wear smaller labels 😛
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RHP User
8 years ago
Go dressed in pork chops 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I might start a topic "What frock to put on the cock?" 😂😂
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RHP User
8 years ago
Is an excellent example of why I don't swing... I'd be so exhausted from trying to understand all the rules that I'd need a sleep instead of sex 😂😂😂
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DarkAngel55
8 years ago
i love sexy underwear on a man nothing better its a real turn on i suppose its the same for a male looking at a a woman in sexy lingerie so come on men take some interest in what you wearespeciallywhen your having some hot sexy fun
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RHP User
8 years ago
Love Calvin Klein or Bonds undies on a hot bod. I can't see what is wrong with it? Not a fan of the tightie whities tho.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't like it when people don't make some effort to dress in theme. It ruins the atmosphere that the organisers are trying to create. It's about creating a bit of fantasy, something outside the usual. I often go to HellFire here in Sydney and occasionally you will see people in casual vanilla clothes - not sure how they get in?? But they stand out like dogs balls and I really dislike it. I totally get that people don't like to dress in themes and that is fair enough, but seriously don't go to the event then. There are not that many parties or events where people can really dress up outrageously with only their imagination as a limit, so let us at least have that! Puleeze! ~ Ban the jeans and sneakers! 🤣
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RHP User
8 years ago
Haha I was trying to think of a witty comeback to that, re chops, failed 😀 all I could think of was juicy and being eaten lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
Nothing wrong with CK's . They are about$60 a pair. As long as they are clean, no holes or stretched waist bands etc it shouldn't matter what brand or some one wears. But I saying that , it's your party so it's your rules so don't let that stop you, I just wouldn't go to a party like that. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You?? Speechless?? I think it just cold where I come from 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Its quiet simple you dont want to follow the dress code dont go, there's no other venue like what we are offering and for those small minded people that dont go to events or parties who are you to have an opinion about what should be worn because you have to no idea what an event or a parties is really like perhaps go troll elsewhere, online bullies are cringe worthy and get under my skin, fed up with your banter to be quiet honest.
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Party done and dusted. Too busy having a great time but did not notice a single pair of advertisement undies. Everyone looked great. And no one complaining. And the the world didn't come to an end....... And the peeps that didn't or would not have come because of expected standards, we didn't miss you at all. We were too busy......
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LetsFrolic
8 years ago
I think its stupid as the nicer underwear are the tighter boyshort style underwear and majority of them have branding on the band.. I guess you are asking them to wear more alternative style underwear - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
AnnieWhichway last night was fantastic and all males got it, no big name brands everyone put in the effort to look their best and looking forward to coming to the next event, I already have bookings for the next one and its others loss if they dont want to come along and have a great night because at the end of the day its about having fun meeting new people and enjoying yourself, we thoroughly enjoyed spa hopping to about 4 different spa's and still havent been in them all lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thank you all for your comments and constructive remarks . Those with smart ass remarks that have never even been to a EVENT or Swingers House party. My assessment of answers to the Question was Yes guys should make the effort . I can conclude is for those that came Saturday Night and enjoyed themselves thank you . Their was 5/6 males that did not comply were given 3 options remove n go naked or keep the Band folded inward and down or leave all stayed. They all Stayed . We had a fantastic night. Thank you all .
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
Where's there is a will there is a way ,what a great idea turning the band inwards ,never would have thought of that , lol. Anyway. Hoping to make to the next one ,we are loving the thought of spa hopping and went online.to lovehoney .com got a great deal ,on some brandless awesome looking ones,they have a 2 for thirty dollar deal on and a first time purchase coupon for 20 percent off ,of course there is postage ,but even with that the total only came to$32,can't complain with that at all ,cheap as But more importantly Looks great , much better than going to a shop ,fingers crossed they fit , i never buy online just cos of that fear ,what's the worst that can happen my ass cheeks or junk hang out ,oh well deal with it 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You even ran a survey ?? Hahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You started a topic stating you had made a 'rule' for men not to wear common old Calvin Kline's 😉 or Bonds (Pat Rafter, come on now, would you turn him away at the door?), then asked this question "Do women want to see men in something sexy and appealing or everyday type underwear. Am I banging my head against a wall." You got varying responses to this some agreeing, some thinking it was ridiculous, I still do, I'm in that camp, but bullying and trolling? Rubbish, opinions asked for and opinions given. If your little ad didn't quite go to plan, that's your problem. Perhaps you should have taken on board ALL comments, and tried to respect those opinions also, instead of only looking for those that agreed with you. Your reaction also hasn't done you any favours in my opinion. If you're happy with your rules and attendees, good for you. I personally don't like to close doors, you just never know who might be on the other side in their Calvins 😛 Demanding your guests hide the label on their jocks or go home lmao if I was one of them, I would have said screw you and turned and walked away, made a phonecalls and gone to have fun elsewhere. Just rude. Haven't you ever been to a costume party where most are in costume but a few aren't? They don't get asked to leave because it's usually optional, not a rule. People generally don't like rules when they're supposed to be relaxing and having fun. But apparently your guests were fine with it. Well that's great. I wonder how many of them were really fine with it, or just told you what you wanted to hear 👎
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'TheDoorMan' Thank you all for your comments and constructive remarks . Those with smart ass remarks that have never even been to a EVENT or Swingers House party. My assessment of answers to the Question was Yes guys should make the effort . I can conclude is for those that came Saturday Night and enjoyed themselves thank you . Their was 5/6 males that did not comply were given 3 options remove n go naked or keep the Band folded inward and down or leave all stayed. They all Stayed . We had a fantastic night. Thank you all . guy I know went on Sat night and really enjoyed it, everything he told me about it was positive and he is looking forward to the next event.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks to your previous comment here I also went to lovehoney and made a few purchases. Much better range than previous sites I where I had shopped in the past. Also much cheaper than CK anyhow. I also got the 20% discount so added another since it was more or less free, depending how you look at it. Should arrive before I get home from WA so hopefully the missus doesn't open it before I do. As you said hope they all fit... and hope she likes them too!
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RHP User
8 years ago
The party wasn't supposed to be a party that captivated all walks of life.... It was aimed at very select community of people that are looking for better dressed men than the commercial type parties like saints and sinners as yes, that would entirely affect their "grab" of patronage which is why they probably aren't moving to institute that rule.... I'm not in the category of their exclusions as I know how I dress, and it ain't like that hahaha And yes I found it to be entirely pretentious, which is why I'd exclude myself from a party such as this, as I think there are better ways to deal with the issue, and as said previously other issues to me that are in my view, a much better vehicle for gauging and screening the quality of men..... The whole idea of screening people on their underwear is funny as fuck to me, which the OP didn't see....but chose to react defensively which also proved my gut feeling about them as hosts/people to be around..... But.... I'd never expect them to change their rules because of what I say.....which I feel your latest contribution is essentially saying "you should cater for everyone and not just those with specific types of underwear" - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Been involved with the party scene for a while. He took the risk to use an exclusive venue to make it something different and classy. Think he's rightfully allowed to put his spin on it and it worked.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Great to see someone try something different ... definately improved the eye candy for women. Men did wear boy leg, boxers etc but we saw more creativity and effort from the men ... a good thing I say :) The hosts vetted all people, they were ever present on the night and up until yesterday were dealing with any issues that may have arisen on the night :) I for one like that they did try something different, i dont think it was clearly expressed in the original post what they were trying to convey. On the night however, the venue was superb, nearly all people well behaved and it was wondrful to expore freely and all tastes accounted for :) The issues and ideas people raise on the thread are very valid and reasonable as a discussion too. The reality of the party and a few more 'stringent rules' meant it was one of the better play parties I've attended. Dance floor, sitting areas, designated gender bi play areas and lots of space :) Kudos to The door man. Mary xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
You know, I've thought about this myself but it's hard to find underwear like that without the branding. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I am curious as to what "sexy" male underwear consists of? Rightly or wrongly the term "sexy male underwear" makes me think of something most likely worn in the gay and lesbian mardi gras parade. I even Googled "sexy male underwear", and that's exactly the sort of thing that came up. Would a simple pair of dark silk boxers be fine, or more like a sequined gold g-string? Asking for a friend....lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Any underwear seems to look great on the sexy, muscled up hunks used to display the underwear photographically on the packaging. Somehow, the underwear isn't quite as visually appealing when I put it on... :P
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RHP User
8 years ago
1/ Why don't you Buy the underwear in Bulk and you can come in FREE. 2 / We don't belong in garbage bags as you suggested . You can stay in the Hills.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
If a man's undies are the only thing you need to worry about , I'd say youre doing well. Personally I don't wear the branded Calvin Klein / Versaci type of undies , but I do wear boy leg and jocks depending on the occasion. I find the ladies tend to comment the boy leg and I prefer the jocks for work. I'd be more concerned with the wrong body wearing the wrong undies. Let's face it , there are body types that can wear anything and some that can't.. but that's only my opinion.. Storm in a teacup if you ask me ? 🙄
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RHP User
8 years ago
Lovehoney and wild secrets have great ideas and products for men (gay or straight lol). You want to look a little less like sheep and more like you've put some thought and effort into it, go and have a look there. I will restate again ... the OP were hosts to the utmost for the party they held last weekend. They had everything COVERED, male underwear was just one thing they wanted to improve for a party that they organised. Mary xx
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
We should rock up in our granny undies for the guys. If they do mediocre, they should get mediocre......
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RHP User
8 years ago
Omg. I can't believe this is a serious post. And from a host too! Way to shoot yourself in the foot. That phrase comes to mind: "Cut off your nose to spite your face."
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RHP User
8 years ago
Going to a theme night where guys rocked up in generic undies........would they like to see the females in boy shorts and sports bras? I think not.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Boy shorts and sports bras? You really think men will complain as long as they are actually still there to talk to us? :p Bring on the Bridget Jones undies theme night lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
Just to let people know ,I got the love honey package today of a couple of try outs and must say for my 30 dollars for 2 pairs. Couldn't be happier, good quality nice styling ,only wish they had slightly better sizing. These in between sizing never fits the smaller side as well as they donthe larger side with stretching that said still very happy and ,I'm sure we can shrink them a little , Hope that helps another guy if your looking online for a nice none blatant brand name , Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
8 years ago
Heard so many good response to your party. Lots of guys out there obviously willing to make a little effort to fit in and get into the spirit of the party. It's really no big deal. Well done. There will always be people against the idea. to be expected and valid. always good to test your ideas. But some just goes on and on about it that it 😴makes you and other readers question their agenda. It makes their opinions irrelevant. It seems many happy to comply with the rules, based on the large number of attendees otherwise they would not spend good money on some classy party? They are more than welcome to take their tantrum and booty elsewhere to other parties. Nobody is forcing them to stay. It's not for everyone. For those who made the party, I heard from a male friend that it was a great night with respectful people, fun and still horny. 😄😈 that's the audience you are after so don't stress out on the haters. Not much value to you. Ignore it. 😎 I'm sure the men will find use for the jocks again. Consider the minor spend as an investment for other future play. 😉 Best wishes to your next party. it'll be s blast.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Kisskiss80' Omg. I can't believe this is a serious post. And from a host too! Way to shoot yourself in the foot. That phrase comes to mind: "Cut off your nose to spite your face." Would it be ok if I wore Kisskiss's knickers to a party? From behind I think I may look ok but at the front hmmmm that may look a bit worse for wear. I am not a fan of the boyleg boxers that look like the test pattern on SBS - Ladies what are your thoughts? As someone stated roll the band in would that then be suitable? Its same same but different. In the words of Forest Gump "Sexy is as sexy does" We all have preferences. I appreciate sexy lingerie but a woman wearing simialr to bonds panties and bra set can be just as appealing. It's what is in the wrapping that counts because on your birthday you don't keep the wrapping you enjoy what is inside
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