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Let's talk about sex, baby!

March 02 2014

sex

This is a thread about sex. A bit like the Anything and Everything threads, but exclusively about sex. It's for everyone who likes sex. Or likes talking about sex. Or learning about sex. And for everyone who's annoyed by all the other threads that are not about sex. And for anyone who's struggling with something related to sex (too much, not enough, not good enough etc). And even for people who want to brag or advertise. Yep, even for those folk. All comments and posts and thoughts and subjects related to sex are welcome here :) No limits, except be lawful (nothing promoting non-consensual sex of any kind), and please, try to be respectful ;) As for me, I'm always surprised that having a lot of sex makes me want a lot more sex. Whereas not having much, or any, makes it easier to switch off my desires. Does that mean that people with low libidos could increase their desires just by doing it? Like the classic 'fake it 'til you make it'?

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'MisterGreen' Hmmmm ... Kinda getting a bit bored of having Sex. I want Soul Sex . You know . Sex with meaning . An Experience . The more it's repeated , the better it gets . Levels ! Sex with someone that rocks my socks off . Something I can't live without ...! I want to be lost in Lust and Love . GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    You must be going for looks and not the pleasers.Even with the ladies you will find sex is better withmiss average than miss wow as miss wow feelsyour lucky to have her or in your case him.Quoting 'JayJay_66' On so many threads the percentage of guys are all for pleasing a woman and performing oral sex .......but I have to say in reality the percentage of men that I have "played" with lately are more than happy for me to suck their dick but then don't return the favour!!Even when I basically say ....ok my turn now......maybe not in those exact words......they just laugh it off and go straight in for fucking!!I definitely don't have a hygiene problem,I wax and am extremely clean!Now I know exactly what most of you will say and that's exactly what I intend doing from now......Its ME first!!!I'm sure there will be some guys reading this that are guilty of it , so come on I want to know why? Why do you expect a woman to suck your cock and not return the favour? How can you not enjoy the feel of a womans body turning to putty in your hands as she moans and whimpers while thrusting her hips towards your eager tongue?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I think that's rubbish. Very few guys are any good in bed, hot or average. Granted I have limited experience but I have to use both hands multiple times to count the number of guys I've had sex with and I can count the good ones on less than one hand. Yes, chemistry plays a part, as well as my skills and so on. But frankly, most guys have behaved like they're turning the knobs and pushing the buttons on a microwave - turn this knob, press this button, 60 seconds later and we're done. Where are all the men that want to slow down, get intense, look, feel, breathe, explore, and really connect? Maybe I'm just crap at picking men but I assure you, their crappiness in bed has been much the same no matter how they looked. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Darlin', don't say a word, 'cause I already heard What your body's sayin' to mine I'm tired of fast moves, I've got a slow groove On my mind I want someone with a slow hand I want a lover with an easy touch I want somebody who will spend some time Not come and go in a heated rush I want somebody who will understand When it comes to love, I want a slow hand c/o The Pointer Sisters

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    You lovely man :) Thank you x That song has always been my sex anthem. Just yesterday I was driving and it came on the radio, and I shed a little tear :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Takes one to know one fussy :)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    If only I was in shape. Sigh.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    With the body shot and the words, I'm guessing a lot of ladies have had a little peek at the profile........ Myself included, Sigh!!!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'chevtrek' You must be going for looks and not the pleasers.Even with the ladies you will find sex is better withmiss average than miss wow as miss wow feelsyour lucky to have her or in your case him.Quoting 'JayJay_66' So are you saying I'm shallow?SO far from the truth!!I've only ever slept with one person because they were HOT, and no it wasn't very satisfying, but that would be because as hot as they were I didn't feel any chemistry there.Sure there has to be a certain amount of physical attraction there but to me sex is more than flesh and bones.....my mind is my greatest erogenous zone

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I haven't had sex in about a year and today I'm sooooo horny. I just haven't found anyone Ive been attracted to. Hasn't helped that ive just been reading about gangbangs, looking at pics of cocks .... sighhhh

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Awesome thread, think Im starting to get a little addicted to these forums too. It feels good, particularly after some recent good and bad experiences, to talk about this so openly. Thankyou all, particularly OP. Going to weigh in on the oral reciprocation here, and attempt not to personalise (brag) at the same time. Of course, its got to be a fair act, just as the act of intercourse should be considered so. Its always seemed odd to me that some people consider a fucker and a fuckee, and I always enjoy hearing a woman saying THEY fucked someone (lol?) rather than saying they GOT fucked. I think one of the biggest issues people have, myself included, is the specifics of how things should proceed. Im the kind of guy who appreciates a woman finishing what she started, but then again Im the kind of guy who doesnt really believe in a short/one main event only kind of encounter. Better be careful here or it will start to sound like Im trying to brag. As far as who goes first, well, guys have some technical issues in that department where as women dont, kind of a timing thing. Of course I understand most men perform unsatisfactorily anyway in a variety of ways and completely understand a womens point of view on this matter. There is also a little bit of OCD stepping in here for me but I digress, I think I am starting to sound confusing. Ummm, yeah dont be afraid to kiss someone after oral, while they all breathless and stuff. Certainly dont be afraid to give it at all its one of the greatest kinds of sex I can imagine. And absolutely reciprocate, but I feel at least SOME of the time, finish what you start rather than just considering it foreplay, and dont stop jsut because you got the result you were aiming for, the 5 minutes AFTER orgasm is when the best oral is received. Might have to go a little more gentle because we are super sensitive at the time, but dont stop *P I love a warm up blowjob, handjob, titfuck before I get down to my end of the bargain, and THEN onto the main event as it were. Devils made me have to go and take a little break partway through reading this thread, and many other good posts were made as well. Thankyou all again

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Ah I think you are referring to the,rub a dub dub,now where is that damn nub approach :-) :-) xx Q

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    At 66yr ,I'm still feeling sexy and horny but still to hook up with mature like minded lady to enjoy sex with. Naughty But Nice Col xxx

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Qefenta2' Ah I think you are referring to the,rub a dub dub,now where is that damn nub approach :-) :-) xx Q I think I am :)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    How to respond but to say I'd love to make you make me eat those words

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Recently I changed my profile to read more like that. Casual can be good but getting rare I believe. I want my lover to know me, push me and get close to boundaries. Then go past them and you need trust to get that. I like sex and would have it every day but that's not possible unless you have a relationship. I'm open to that but want to find some things that aren't main stream vanilla. I don't want decades of sex that dwindles over time, I want it to be fun, hot and always feel like I want it. Does the old and new exist and can you find someone that allow you to be you and also be together. Is this fantasy I have, hope not and that's what I'm seeking and hope to find. Quoting 'MisterGreen' Hmmmm ... Kinda getting a bit bored of having Sex. I want Soul Sex . You know . Sex with meaning . An Experience . The more it's repeated , the better it gets . Levels ! Sex with someone that rocks my socks off . Something I can't live without ...! I want to be lost in Lust and Love . GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Unfortunately there are some greedy men around. I believe you need to stop sucking on cock for just a moment. Foreplay is the best and they are many things u can do. A good hand job goes well for just a short time and maybe you can offer the blow job after you orgasm. Have penetration sex and then stop to finish him off with a blow job. I know this is quite specific but no other way to say. Hope you get some finger and tongue licking good time soon. xx

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