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Larger women?

June 01 2010

not sure if my last post was posted, apologies if you're reading this twice.Where are all the men who like larger women?

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    In my experience 'larger' girls are a lot more fun to be naughty with!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'mscurious68'great post honI was spose to be in bed about an hour ago..but alas thanks to this post Ive been up longer..no regrets..was enough time for my electric blanket to warm upAlso thank you to all that have postedits been a great read and nice to see the positive responses to being a gal with the X factaxtra bustxtra bumxtra thighsxtra personalityhugs everyone I cannot agree more strongly Mscurious - I love to lose myself in the sensual and lustfull delights of everything "x"tra - nothing is more sexy than a confident hot larger lady

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'mscurious68'great post honI was spose to be in bed about an hour ago..but alas thanks to this post Ive been up longer..no regrets..was enough time for my electric blanket to warm upAlso thank you to all that have postedits been a great read and nice to see the positive responses to being a gal with the X factaxtra bustxtra bumxtra thighsxtra personalityhugs everyone

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Take 2: Cheers Mscurious, however I can't take the credit for this little gem. Glad I dropped in to catch up on what was being said here..cos all those who contributed are hereby invited to a BBQ at my place!! Lovin the attitude....lol

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I know its not correct to say this nowadays with all this love yourself as you are psycobabble.I really don't like fat women.When i go to the supermarket I almost feel ill looking at the fat ugly bodies on so many women.You should be able to keep yourself in decent shape until you are 50 I reckon.If you can't you are lazy or have emotional problems.This applies to men as well I guess but I don't bother looking at men.I spend a lot of time in asia where most women are slim and sexy and when i come home its like entering some sort of hell world.That's me.That's honest.I won't lie to you to make you feel better.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I love my body..it has taken me on all my adventures and it will be what that takes me through the rest of my life here on Earth. There have been times when I have been obsessively tuning and polishing it like a Bankstown Boy and his WRX and then other times when I've allowed nature to run its course. I eat fresh fruit and vegetables, drink plenty of water, take vitamins (when I remember) don't smoke, don't drink or take drugs and do not lead a sedentary existence-however I am a size 16 and I shop in regular stores. Some people that don't know me think that my body is disgusting-ugly-and hideous-and don't mind telling you so. When I was working out sometimes even twice a day and had a flat stomach, muscly arms looking more like this image we women have become conditioned to look like I was attracting all kinds of attention from men-some may wish it was like that for them or I was currently like that for them I don't-maybe I've been hiding away on purpose like a wounded animal-like so many before me that find themselves single again-in the wilderness laying low. At the time of uberfitness I actually found it to be a bit like being thrown into the colosseum with the lions-even when I was clothed I felt like a piece of uncovered meat. When I was approached by someone-I couldn't help but feel that's how they viewed me-a trophy or a meal-especially from their comments. In a way I'm glad I'm the size I am now as I don't seem to attract as many men and it's good to be walking around alone but content-as you're not having to deal with the craziness-but then you get the other side of the coin. The ones that approach you thinking that because you are larger-you are desperate, easy because you are desperate or will put up with being treated with less respect than any human being deserves because they may be attractive and think that they're the best you've ever had-despite describing themselves as a "nice" guy. The classic situation is you are up front in your profile about your description or in your first texts/email or you actually meet someone for the first time in person-clearly they can see that you are not a 50kg waif before they start writing down your/their number. I am who I am, I feel it's obvious and not relevant if you're still putting the moves on me you must be getting some kind of primal tingling going on down there rather than telling me to go away or ignoring me so I'm not going to even mention it or ask you about my size as if it's a disability as to do so almost makes me less than deserving of happiness and pleasure in my own eyes-as although you may think so I actually don't feel trapped in some sexual ghetto for desperate fat chicks hoping to be rescued by Jenny Craig our fairygodmother. I've fought and survived bigger battles than any skirmish you want to start. It's almost as though in hindsight you want to say "Dude seriously I'm not here because I need you-I'm here because you need me." Regardless, these liasions always seems to start well-you go along-and then suddenly even though you've been having a great time-he pesters you daily for sex and then because you're beginning to feel you are ensconced in each other's lives, you trust him to go off and do his own thing, he tell's you it's over because you're not his type because you are "fat and ugly". I once had someone that I can't believe now I thought was the "one" when caught out in his infidelity-told me as his excuse "What did you expect she was a size 8". I may be delusional but I kind of expected the guy that had told me to check out places for us to get married and that I had been living with for over a year not to do that during the week he'd gone away to see his parents up the coast-it was as if in his brain he'd said "pick whatever you can that she can't change and blame my failings as a human being on that"-the equivalent of telling me it was because she was A+ blood instead of my own rarer variety yet that's what he was going with-her dress size-because to be larger as God or my DNA made me is a crime which will excuse saying things like that or engaging in that kind of serpentine behaviour. I was at my uber fittest I am a larger frame so I will never be an 8 or maybe a 10 unless on a drip dying of cancer somewhere... So I take another look at the pictures of me that were not burnt by BigW due to the frightening sight upon being processed and I look again at the profile pic, and then I look at the other beautiful men (other than "Mr I tripped and fell into her") I've been with previously long term. Psychologists/behaviourists say we are naturally drawn to someone of the same level of attractiveness. Ie a 7/10 will go with say a 8/10 or a 6/10 but not a 3/10 and usually vice versa. The New Agers etc say we are actually drawn towards our twin souls that actually look like who we were in the opposite sex previously. Based on that-and looking at my ex partners-no I don't have a shrine with candles going but one does collect photos over the years-it's part of one's history-if I was attractive like these men I find attractive (and others do too) in my past life I must also be reasonably attractive (not necessarily launched 1000 ships beautiful) too this incarnation for them to recognise me be attracted to me..or then I think briefly did I have a fetish for very unattractive women in my past life? Back to the future-I'm wondering now (as at no point had I seen him with a cane or a guide dog) what is this actually about? As I know clearly it has nothing to do with me as despite my other powers of seduction and pleasure-shape shifting into a waif or some other form before we went to bed together was not one of them-let alone any amount of time we spent in his bedroom or elsewhere before we had an intense time together. You see they try to hit you in the weak spot-but if you don't have one-you can only pity their weakness and take back your power. The best thing I discovered was about auras and it made a lot of sense-the larger the aura the larger the physical anchor it needed to keep it grounded-you're off to a head start if you are quite tall as your aura is stretched up rather than out. The best way to get grounded if you are at times off with the fairies is sex, followed by aerobic activity. Then there's all the others that are not good for you fatty food, smoking, alcohol-but it also made sense why some people find some addictions very hard to beat or taking up another one in its place. It kind of makes sense too why women that have had babies have a real time with their baby belly/weight-hating it rather than adoring it for what it is and made to feel ashamed instead of being proud of how they made another beautiful being-and housed their aura too-thinking cranky crunches will shift it when maybe something more gentler would do the trick. I always thought the great sex I had with the kickboxer, surfer, skater and cyclist was more than the delicious pleasure of just a tall muscly fit man's strength and power against ample womanly flesh-and the fact that they were all a bit intense creative types anyways-so it's likely going to be passionate. But who are you going ask about what it could be? I don't have an x-wing to fly and see Yoda in person and there's not a lot of wisdom to do with sex specifically in those movies. The health, fitness and diet experts had no answers that I could find as I ate more of everything and probably more junk food too while I was with these guys but the weight fell off me-and before you say it was the sex that burnt it off-exercising intensely a few times a week for 5-6 hours is not the same as five days at the gym with weights that didn't achieve the same results. But here it was laid (pardon the pun) out for me in a book about auras-I promise I'm not a full time tree-hugger though I do like trees. These guys were really driven to do their particular workouts addicted as I was/am about amazing sex they loved doing it because they were grounding themselves and filling up with the good stuff so when we had sex it was really intense and a merging of energies. Auras are fed with prana so if you can find someone that's filled with that -I'll give you a hint they are found near the ocean-yummy blissful sex. Wow-maybe I'm a vampire of sorts....maybe that's what freaked him out-lol It kind of also solves the mystery as to why when there's some guy who is always usually with the skinny/model girl and then has hooked up with a larger lady and is still with her and although his mates are looking at him sideways and even he himself is kind of puzzled and can't work out why he's with this attractive but "fat chick" as his mates call her-it's not just that her p**** is amazing or she can suck start a dyson-which many have and can do-it is because she is amazingly powerful she has a beautiful and powerful aura that brings the sex to a new level. And before I get attacked I'm not saying other people or guys don't have beautiful wonderful auras-or can't reap the benefits or can't suck start dysons-I'm not trying to have a go at anyone-just sharing. They may not be large because they do all the things to ground themselves. I'm just sharing some info that I discovered and made sense to me personally and about and for some other large gorgeous women I know and if can help someone else view themselves more positively. Got to go now I'm off to the gym-got to get my rexy back to super sexy... It's was hard enough being seen only as a "fat chick" that was "ugly" Now I have a whole other set of identity problems-I have to deal with am I now a genital Jedi on a voyage to hook up with some hottie that is all broody and intense with his mother issues and has a thing for black pvc that will take me to the stars; am I a fairy waiting to be torn between lame ass Bill but really wanting the Area Sheriff whose all moody because his kingdom has been stolen and his family killed so I better get myself to Fangtasia to get myself noticed or am I in fact a vagina vampire about to have a forbidden romp all my friends will not be pleased about with a sexy, sexy lycan whose seen as the ultimate enemy so I have to go out and buy myself lots of new shiny sexy clothes? There really are worse things than being though of or thinking of yourself as a "fat chick" or "fat and ugly"-if you label yourself or if you are someone that likes to label or judge others over anything. If I was actually presented with all three today how could I possibly choose which tasty, intense and broody thing to put in my mouth or anywhere else? Now that's a real problem...NymphetamineDrm

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Cliffs notes? :D

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Somebody please give me the abridged version. I forgot to bring  a packed lunch and thermos, and it looks like a long journey and i just dont have the energy right now.Cheers Nev.....tired and having trouble concentrating tonight.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Hi Ms Capital, I don't have a webcam, and if I lived in Canberra, I'd be joing your club very quickly.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'sydneyboy3au'Cliffs notes? :D LOL

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I have a big girly crush on you NymphetamineDrm (coolest nick on here btw).

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I'm in.. Not literally... But nothing better than 'larger' women.. As you put it.. Got any more photos...?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I was about to post something very similar myself, untill i found your post & had a read. Thankyou to all for helping us curvy girls feel sexy! Good luck rainbow_bright oxo

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    "Quoting" MynameonurlipsTake 2: Cheers Mscurious, however I can't take the credit for this little gem. Glad I dropped in to catch up on what was being said here..cos all those who contributed are hereby invited to a BBQ at my place!! Lovin the attitude....lolSSSOOOOOOOOOOwhen is the BBQI'll bring aussie_guy_2000 and we can all rub wobbly bits togetherwoot woo and cheers

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    you big girls rock!!!!!!! as for where are the guys that find bigger girls sexy read my profile i love the feeling of being with a cuddly lady that is comfortable in herself and with letting me show her that im comfortable with it too..... You girls be proud as the old saying goes 'if you got it flaunt it' P.S. larger ladies in sydney I WILL CUM TO YOU

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Hello Rainbow, I have found many men here that luv us bigger girls so many so that im in the process of organising a drinks night in sydney in Oct/Nov specially for us BBW's and admirers i was amazed at the response i got when i posted a thread about bbw parties my inbox went crazy lol so dont give up they are def out there and if anyone is interested in coming to a night out let me know and i will add u to the interest list to send details to once i have dates xx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    That sounds like it would be a great night xtraluvly !!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'mscurious68' "Quoting" Mynameonurlips Take 2: Cheers Mscurious, however I can't take the credit for this little gem. Glad I dropped in to catch up on what was being said here..cos all those who contributed are hereby invited to a BBQ at my place!! Lovin the attitude....lol SSSOOOOOOOOOO when is the BBQ I'll bring aussie_guy_2000 and we can all rub wobbly bits together woot woo and cheers Yay! Gotta love a woman who brings her own meat....(so very not politically correct but hey....couldnt go past that one...lol)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    be happt to go for a drink to the bayview one night with you rainbow.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I'm reading all these comments from guys saying how much they love larger women. But where are the Melb guys???? I'd love to meet a sexy Melb guy who would love to accept me for me......one that "really" is genuine!!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    My general response about are there me on here for BBW... is YES YES YES. and thank god not every man on here like BBW. We would be mobber... ;p but i definitely know BBW is not for everyone. how boring would like be if everyone was the same. I mean some people like Vegemite and some people definitely don't. I looove Vegemite and looooovvve the right attention from the right people! lap it up BBW Ladies cause one day you could be skinny.... and miss out on all those lovely men! ;p xx X

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    "Quoting" Mynameonurlips Take 2: Cheers Mscurious, however I can't take the credit for this little gem. Glad I dropped in to catch up on what was being said here..cos all those who contributed are hereby invited to a BBQ at my place!! Lovin the attitude....lol SSSOOOOOOOOOO when is the BBQ I'll bring aussie_guy_2000 and we can all rub wobbly bits together woot woo and cheers Yay! Gotta love a woman who brings her own meat....(so very not politically correct but hey....couldnt go past that one...lol)and what better dessert is there than usANYONE ELSE WANT TO BE ON THE MENU

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I spent a while reading this topic! I have always liked average women, The super skinny models dont appeal to me. A real woman usually has a little extra padding and thats a Good thing! Areal woman has curves, I dont want to count the bones! 50's models like betty paige were better looking than todays models. I am a breast man so super skinny flat girls aren't my thing, but they may be nice people, so it is always ok and polite to say hi! Rainbow bright that started this thread, you have no worries as you are a foxy lady and there were a few other foxy ladies on the replies.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Ms XcentriX is damn Xciting just to chat with and I agrre 100% with her....confidence is one of the gretest afrodisiacs...and without a doubt the best ever sex I have has been with Larger women....and I hope that continues....Hint hint X.....ciao A

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'xcentrix'My general response about are there me on here for BBW... is YES YES YES. and thank god not every man on here like BBW. We would be mobber... ;p but i definitely know BBW is not for everyone. how boring would like be if everyone was the same. I mean some people like Vegemite and some people definitely don't. I looove Vegemite and looooovvve the right attention from the right people! lap it up BBW Ladies cause one day you could be skinny.... and miss out on all those lovely men! ;p xx X

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    For me it's very clear and simple - big girls = big hearts and big fun. Vive le difference!!!!

  • married2aBBW

    married2aBBW

    15 years ago

    as you can guess from the nickname on here - i am married to a bbw and love her to bits, and yes i love to admire curvy women, if i wasnt married to a bbw then i would for sure be trying to meet someone in that category. and i know we cant advertise but there is a ' club for cuddly' people at a ' .o r g ' place , just take away the for if you want to know more ;) it is social and swing so the curvy lovelies here might find fun and friends there too? {im the same nickname there as here! }

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    i love larger women:)they are beautiful,generally have a better personality than skinny girls,passionate etc

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