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How many lovers have you had...?
December 08 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was so hoping this question would never be asked lmho. I've thought about it before but it'd be going back some for my before lol having been married to Mr P for over 21 yrs! But at a guess, I'd say maybe 20 before and about 10 in the last 4 yrs or so with Mr P tho that does include couples as 2... good post Dog! PPWeR
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RHP User
16 years ago
14 men 5 women... but only 2 men in the last 9 years as i was married and thenthe casual hook up turned into a relationship before I had a chance to think..... way way way out of practise... dont even remember how to hook up ... which is why I am on here
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RHP User
16 years ago
wait for it, wait for it.....a grand total of 9! (I had to count them on my fingers *giggle*) There were 4 before I got married - 1 was my boyfriend, 2 were his friends that joined us for some fun and 1 was a friend I spent a dirty weekend with after we'd broken up. Then there was my hubby! Since being married I have been with 4 other guys - all of which my hubby knew about PRIOR to anything happening - 2 in the early days (I'm talking 11-12 years ago) and 2 others in the past year or so. I'm yet to be with a girl, but I'm looking forward to trying it one day ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes... well.... Andy got her man in the end.... but Hugh Grant was pretty bloody shocked to start with :P LOL So, I'll go with Andy's final answer.... "Less than Madonna, more than Princess Di - I hope" :P LOL
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RHP User
16 years ago
Are these to be "lovers" or people we've had sex with? Is sex to only qualify if intercourse occurred? But then what about girl-girl stuff? Strap on? Bill says oral isn't sex! Sometimes we've had the most sexiest times with clothes on. I'm confused I might just go have a lie down and a wank ;P Again we're under Sophie, just where these Pups belong!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was gonna say more than Tiger Woods but I'm starting to wonder.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Valid point by Puppy, I was thinking the same, people we had sex with or lovers...big difference between them. Then the question are we talking about intercourse only or do you count hjs etc. Personally I don't think I've ever had one without the other happening at some stage anyway so makes no difference to me.My count I believe is 39, I might have missed a couple maybe I should try writing them down, wouldnt be many more though. I've never been married but was in a relationship for 5 years which was a good as being married. That's in 20 years since my first. This year my count is 3, how sad. Having said that I think the most I ever had in a year was 5. Wish I could say it was quality over quantity but that would be stretching the truth a bit far.Anyone want to volunteer to be number 40 .
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RHP User
16 years ago
somewhere between 25 and 30, a few are a bit hazy so I can't be certain ... includes 13 years of marriage where we had so little sex I probably should start minusing from my total :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
somewhere between 25 and 30, a few are a bit hazy so I can't be certain ... includes 13 years of marriage where we had so little sex I probably should start minusing from my total :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I aint brave enough to say my figure ;p
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RHP User
16 years ago
Do we know how many Madonna has had??
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RHP User
16 years ago
ok....had to think fast here...proberly 20-25...before my boyfriend of 5 yrs...then a couple after we split up..Then married for 10 yrs (together 11 yrs)...but no sex the last 3 1/2 yrs of marriage..plus no sex for 2 1/2 years after my marriage...then had a few since I been back in Australia..!! rofl............ Woohoo...Go aussies!! gwaaaddddddddddd sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxx nice one dog!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Which is why I am here. :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I want to hear from Hotaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
and yes i have kept a log
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sorry Baddog, There was a time when I was a good boy and I could accurately answer. But they ask "How many partners have you had in the last two months" every tme I go to the sex clinic for a check up and I've got absolutely no idea... but I like Sophie's way of putting it. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
lol... my count is 7.. :~((()))
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RHP User
16 years ago
DONT BE SHY ANSWER THE QUESTION...LOL
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ha ha ha, me quite a few while single, but too scared to tell the missus. Still love to hear how many for Hotaz. :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes, it's true - we gay blokes are sluts... had hundreds of sexual experiences in my 33 years of "practice".Though, the definition of what makes a "lover" a lover? I have had two long term relationships that lasted over 12 months each (3years & 8 years), , a two that lasted less than a year. Then I've met countless people off various websites for "hookups" which can last anywhere from 20 minutes to several hours or overnighters. The sex involved can be as vanilla as mutual masturbation through to mutual oral to fucking. Sometimes this sex is one on one - sometimes it is more than that. Then there is the anonymous hookups - visiting men only sex on premises venues (Saunas, cinemas etc) and the "invention" of this decade, the "swingers lounges". Plus prior to the net, the good old fashioned "beats". So - penetrative sex to orgasm? Or all manner of sexual contact between two or more bodies? As for the first....ah...yes...and for the second....ah yes....ummm... (Though I can count the number of lovely ladies who have been kind enough in the past 2 years to "help" me explore the other side, all within a group situation so I did have plenty of other stuff to distract me - 6 who I have penetrated vaginally but I have never orgasmed or ejaculated with any of them except by my own hand.)And - yes - get tested regularly - every 3 months and yes clear everytime and yes I practice safer sex as well and always happy to discuss that and any other aspect of sex with anyone!Thanks Dog - great topic starter! (And yeah, love the Madonna/Princess Di quote...sometimes the seemingly quiet, "good" boys are the worst....like me...)Cya#:~()PS - Not every gay man is that much of a slut - some of us are more conservative than married couples!
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RHP User
16 years ago
DENI...!!!....You keep a log??? pmsl...so a man that actually keeps tabs on the notches on his bedpost.. bwaahahhahahaaha......I always thought this was a falacy ...!!! lots of laughter here sweetpetite41 xxxxxx now now ya all.....hotaz doesn't have to tell....does she...rofl
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RHP User
16 years ago
Before i got married I cant remember but their was quit a few. But 5 since I got married, But 6 more since joining here... And more to cum i hope ! lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Is it bad to say I dont know.. cant remember .. lost count .. .. ahhh well.... and Deni .. what the hell... why are you keeping count .....???
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well as my user name implies, I'm in for as much as I can get, at one party there were 43 guys and yes they all got a turn with me, some twice and several more than once and that was only one party.GBM
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RHP User
16 years ago
gang_bang_me... you rock sister! hehe Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was worried this poist might attract some negative attention but it's all in good fun hmm ! lol Jen Girl I agree...c'mon Hotaz....give over ! gang_bang_me u managed to beat most of us in one nite !!!! LOL Impressive ! Been to a few GB's myself but of course the guys only got to count that as one !! As far as "lovers" v sexual partners.....let's just call it all sex.....how many people have you had sex with ? lol Anyboy else like me and want to be on a few of these posters lists !!??!! heh heh *wink* Have fun....post your hearts out ! Dog. Xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well i'm older than Hotaz so you could probably double her figure for sure and add some more on
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RHP User
16 years ago
never tells tales out of school, and i don't know how many, why is it important to keep count? It must be some sought of ego thing. Some i remember, some i wish i could forget...lol, and no doubt there are those times i have forgotten. I guess i could have had more partners, but hey...wouldn't be Robinson Crusoe there!Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
wat a scary post ..... lol my guy mates and i sat down one weekend half tanked and tried to do the whole count thing and while im not going to say how many ......... if u average it out over the years since i first became sexually active it was just over one a month :) so it really doesnt sound that bad hahahahahaha
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RHP User
16 years ago
What if....like any statistic the figures were manipulated, and looked at from a different angle, ie how many times have you had sex with another human being, no counting Mrs Palmer and her 5 daughters here, or whatever the female equivalent of that is! now for me...i didn't lose my virginity till i was 20yo, but all things considered, i figured once a week would be a fair average, now i am 47yo. So 27 years of sex at an average of once a week, i couldn't be bothered working that out at the moment, but proud to say the majority of those times were with the same lady!Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well, in a relationship i generally don't play, but when single........ Last time I was single, had at least one guy every day of the week, for the better part of 12 months. And then there were also the swingers parties..... in total something like 200 in ten years........
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RHP User
16 years ago
Male part of piper2007 here. To be honest far too many to count. So can we do a new take on this to simplify things please? Had a bit of a count up and have penetrated girls from 27 different countries. Would be interested to hear other counts in this new 'sub topic'..
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just watched a Pamela Connolly interview with Gene Simmons. His answer was 4800 women, not including oral
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RHP User
16 years ago
wow is that a world record? lol cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
7 - 5 guys, 2 girls
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RHP User
16 years ago
After a good think I am happy to report that fortunately......the "memorable" out number the "forgettable".... Yay for RHP, oh and some fabulous Uni years.....lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well I've had one 'lover', and then i've had 'experiences' with (including the lover):2 girls, 1 on 1 encounters.4 guys, one MMM threesome and two separate encounters with dudes as 1 on 1.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Cas darlin you never told me about the MMM Your in troulble now dearest spanky spanky strapon spanky.. pmsl sweetpetite41xxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well it was only recently, and not all that great of an experience. :PFeel free to spank me though...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I used to keep count....but these days I'm less competitive. Either that or alzheimers is kicking in early. I stopped once I ran out of fingers and toes, now I just say I'm experienced. You know I used to keep count, but nowI'm not so competitive.....ummmm Damn Alzheimers!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
How are you finding it Trish? :P
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RHP User
16 years ago
maybe hard to beleive for some , but no logs , no real data , over 2000 , for sure but ,beleive me , did not help , still hungry like a virgin and fascinated by pussy
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RHP User
16 years ago
I know where you're coming from, the encounters I've had with guys have felt less 'normal' than those with women, and I think I've not felt as relaxed/comfortable, but then that might be because I was aprehensive at first and then during I wasn't really enjoying it all that much.Meh.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I bid 3000:0)))))))
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RHP User
16 years ago
guessing over 50
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RHP User
16 years ago
can probably multiply girls estimates by two and divide guys estimates by three lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
how many??well...if i think about how old i was when i lost my cherry...times that by approx how many years ago that was...timed by maybe one guy a fortnight...then OMFG!!!I coulda been a fucking millionaire by now if I hadda charged em all!!!Just my opinion...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
how many??well...if i think about how old i was when i lost my cherry...times that by approx how many years ago that was...times by maybe one guy a fortnight...then OMFG!!!I coulda been a fucking millionaire by now if I hadda charged em all!!!Just my opinion...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
where the hell did my post go??
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RHP User
16 years ago
Deni_Crane keeps a log book and I would expect Ms GBM keeps a bookings ledger ? Some people fall asleep counting sheep... Bet Deni and Ms GBM relive their joyous experiences every night until the Sandman arrives :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I stopped counting at 25....women that was, not age. To hazard a guess....probably 90 or so. If mrsActive's maths is to be used, that'd be around about 270 for me lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
I even can all there names remember names lol but then i have not had as much experience as some
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RHP User
16 years ago
babe you can multiply and divide any way that suits you , but you never touch the topic about how active is MRS Active
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RHP User
16 years ago
To reply to those asking why i keep count.few reasons - Started as a young horny ego driven 18 year old hitting the clubs and pubs in sydney. To tried to prove my notches to your mates ( which people still dont believe you ) which became a habit. And to a very add that the last 50 or so have been in gang bangs or special little parties...i cant compete with some of the ladies who are the centre of attention ,although i have once had 7 in one special party...which i have been trying to beat for 2 years,ha ha! i am sure there are others that havent made the list after due to alcohol consumption or early onset of Alzhiemers. Wether you agree with keeping count or not,it is just a habit i cant break........and an excellent way to keep phone numbers beside the name,and is such a good asset if you are travelling near that place or area,you can just give a ring and you have a great night or day...cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
well i was married for about five years (still not divorced though) and in an exclusive relationship for 6 yrs cheated on all before and really been a rascal in the earlier years don't really know the score but more than 200 less than 300 no-one from here but not for want of trying, but no luck as of yet any offers????? (guess it's the age thing) Hammond
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RHP User
16 years ago
No need to be that pessimistic MrsActive. I mean we are talking on a sex site, there is no reason for anyone to lie about these things here. Sure there are some people obviously trying to be smart arses but aside from that for the most part I would expect that the figures given here would be fairly accurte/honest. Why bother lying about it...Maybe I'm just too trusting.
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RHP User
16 years ago
3 Couples (6), probably 50 plus women, at least 20 guys and aout 8 transexuals. Outside of that 4 relationships, 3 of them 4 years each and current one 7 years. Can't remember a real bad experience either. If anyone could be bothered adding it up, let me know. It was hard work trying to work the above numbers out.
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RHP User
16 years ago
i lost count around 250 for women quite a while ago (oral included), its 3 for guys (oral only)... has anyone else gotten bored though? not with the counting part... thats pointless... sad to say but bored with sex... in that im running out of ideas of new things to do... anoyone got any advice?
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RHP User
16 years ago
7 before i got married 1 while i was married 3 since my husband passed away a year ago but my memory isn't as good as it used to be
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RHP User
16 years ago
To the guys who are saying they have been with 90+ woman lol... I dont believe u. Espscially if ur like 25....
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RHP User
16 years ago
I feel like a virgin here! Hmmmm, 3 in high school, 2 x marriages, 2 x certainly forgettable, 2 x friends, 2 x casual (and so worth it!) and 1 current (and the best to date!). I guess 12 isn't that bad considering I was married for 35 of those years. Sweet
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RHP User
16 years ago
But not enough to say I am satisfied ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sounds like Mrs A is closer to the truth :) ... It's gootta be the Event rather than the amount haha .. something memorable .... or in some cases ... an occasion you'd rather forget haha :0 keep smilin'
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RHP User
16 years ago
I dont think im gonna break any records unless there are ladies on here who wanna help my current count sits at about 5
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hrmm...at the ripe old age of 27...and given when I started...I'd say about 190 give or take 10%...in saying that...I gave up counting when I hit double digits...but for a while there, I was like that chick in Reality Bites, haha, scorecard and all (most of them failed biology 101). :(
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RHP User
16 years ago
em here, no idea. id be in triple digitis by now, 16th bday orgy 17th bday orgy 19th bday orgy, different person every night for a month just so i could piss off my house mate. no less than 6 per year since i was 14,i think the most would be sep 07 -sep 08 where there was well over 50. woops. girls more so than guys. and very few since meeting my partner, infact 2 since meeting him.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well, I remember once sitting down with friends and trying to work this out one day and thinking, wow thats quiet high!! lol My thoughts on it now is, Im 44yrs young and had a great time to date! From memory, there have only been 2 men that I regret? So, Im happy with that! As for a number - you'll just have to guess if I intrigue you that much!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
My last gf asked me this and I thought it was about 15-20 then finally I started counting one day only to be hated when i got up past 35 lol really should have shut my mouth at 10!!!!! Think it's about 60-70 now tho:P Not that i'm proud of it i'd much rather just have one great girl;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
to be honest.... i dont count notches or try to figger out how many partners ive been with.... im with you sweetpee... cum on, all i do is count how much fun and ejoyment ive had.... and ,,,,well ive had LOTS... take care everyone and have a happy n safe xmas n new year
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platinumblonde69
16 years ago
Hmmm...Not sure i should answer this without phoning my lawyler first....and..being blonde....i lose count after ten...and just start counting again....hahahaha
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RHP User
16 years ago
i am a complete novice, 4 boys and 2 girls - but i'm hoping to make up for my slow start!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'd love more, drop me a line - all welcome :))
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RHP User
16 years ago
does it really matter how many and how often ... that is for me to know & i dont never really kept tabs on all that ... But i would like more hehehehe
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey there your smokin hot girl Quoting 'jengirl'I want to hear from Hotaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hot baby
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RHP User
16 years ago
Oh this is easy, literally 1000's - oh wait, that includes the ones I have dreamt and/or fantasied about. Recalculation in progress, okay a few less, okay okay, a lot less ! Offically, more than most would think, and minus few I wish I hadn't Festive salutations to all K
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RHP User
16 years ago
Isn't it rude to kiss and tell? Whether it was more than Tiger W - (well, who knows how many there were really lol) or not - it's nice to be with experienced and passionate people. Love to add to Gang bang me's stats - more than once - and love an experienced couple or group to show me what 'value adding' is all about (reciprocity guaranteed ;)) - still - if someone's satisfied with who they're with - great. It's not a problem having less - it's only if the one isn't giving anything - and if discreet liaisons aren't available when they're wanted - for those who want them.
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RHP User
16 years ago
You too MissBJ...I had responded to MrsActives comment and see it isn't here either. In essence I said there was no reason for anyone to lie about it on here apart from those that are trying to be funny (or immature) about it. So most comments on here should be fairly accurate.Damn, MissBJ, so you have had as more in the last 2 years than I have had in my life...so much easier as a woman.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well I'd like to say that the amount of people i (guy) have been with is........ 1 and that is my mrs, is that a good or bad thing? i wonder not that i'm saying everybody who has had countless sexual partners are bad people or 'sluts'(used in a bad manner). I think i might make a forum out of mi situation.
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RHP User
16 years ago
interesting reading well certainly glad we read the forum now know who not to contact lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Okay... 47 sexual partners in the past 18 years. Some long term relationships and a period a few years back where I had alot of one night stands and short flings and many, many years ago I had one night group sex so I've included all of them in my count. Prior to this weekend I had only had 2 for the past 4 years.
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RHP User
16 years ago
One of my ex girlfriends had sex with over 20 guys in a 6 month period about 10 years ago. She was apparently thinking she might be gay so decided instead to fuck every guy she could (including her taxi driver) in the hope that one would help turn her straight! After that she settled down with a woman very happily and would never get with a guy again.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Until 1991 I kept a list. Then I backpacked around the world for 12 months and simply gave up. lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
If I ever hope for a serious reltionship which I do, I shouldnt say this.. Sexual Intercourse last count was 493.. I used to remember all the faces and names.. not anymore.. i put my self on hiatus for a while tried to play it straight and find a partner.. but apparently im not meant to be with one woman.. and when I find a decent woman i dread the question how many have you been with.. coz more fool me i answer it. Yes Folks innocent looking me.. which is also why i dont go clubbing much anymore.. cant help it.. especially when she buys me a drink. I dont like games and i dont chase. Oh and yeah im not a tall guy either ;) must be cute. The above figure is for intercourse thats not other sexual activity which isnt well "intercourse" Lol im a bit ashamed actually, but when i do meet the right girl ;) i KNow im going to be able to rock her world Ps the biggest headkicker is im still STI free
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi all....just jumped on board at RHP and have a love/hate thing going on with this question...a great way to start. I love it...because I can honestly say that I would have lost count when it rolled past 50... Yeah, but I played in a rock band for a while and I was cute back then and and and....awww forget it! I admit it...I am too easy at times (and damn proud of it!) I hate it because I can recall the details clearly for most of them but know I have forgotten some that must have been rippers. The evils of Tequilla I guess? I have to say that I have tamed down a lot since the daze of my jaded youth but would not trade those for .....make me an offer?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Miss BJ I think it is the same place my last two are
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RHP User
16 years ago
I used to place importance on numbers when I was younger, but haven't done the sums in many a year as I realised that it doesn't really matter; something that I apply to a partner as well.If a partner has had 1 or 1001 partners, it doesn't bother me, so long as we gel sexually.I haven't ever asked a partner how many people that they have been with, yet a majority of my partners have asked me.I have always had to answer "I don't know". I think that it is something that matters more to women than men; though I could be wrong.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Most of my mates and me used to play games when we were younger to see who could get the most numbers... It was a very important thing to me back then and i used to count and remember it very easily. Now days im happy to take it as it comes, and cant remember the exact figure but i know its more than 75 but less than 80. My motto was plain and simple, lower you standards - higher your average. I like to think its made me who i am, and the practice has certainly helped.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Before I got married there was 5. always in a relationship.... fairly dull i suppose. Been married 25 years but in the last 10 years have made up for the lost time (number withheld due to confidentiality)...... shusssss don't tell anyone..... lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
A professional Man will never kiss and tell. Pro_guy
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RHP User
16 years ago
none...need some help here :( any volunteers?
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RHP User
16 years ago
ok i just counted mine i can not believe iv only got 6 is that a gud or bad thing?
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RHP User
16 years ago
not one. nada. just not been here long enough I guess at two weeks only, but time is marching on and my first csnt be toooooo far away. What a memeory it will be...you guys outa try to remember your first, not just how many. That would be an interesting topic. This whole typing thing sucks ass though. I gotta learn to multi finger type as my two "social"fingers are getting worn out.... MCMLX
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RHP User
16 years ago
I wouldn't stress, most here have a few years on you so have gathered the odd notch more.
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RHP User
16 years ago
im still waiting for the right one:-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Im still waiting for the right one:-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I cannot truthfully answer this question for fear it WILL incriminate me. Probably double the amount of a 20 yo. Just factoring the number of years and months extra available in a longer life.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Not enough!
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nort4t
16 years ago
Can count them on one hand 2 before i met my wife none in the last 26 years
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RHP User
16 years ago
I worked in a backpacker hostel for a year and well there was 83 before then so yeah we are gettin on a bit but still would love to find someone keen on being together but swinging atleast once or twice a month
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