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Hook ups gone wrong When it all goes pear shaped
April 26 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
God, quite scary isn't it what breakups can do to people. Worse when they continue to carry it with them, when they can't let go. I almost hooked up with a guy and long story short, didn't have my glasses with me one day after a walk, needed them to text, so spoke with him on the phone instead. I talked to him for about 30-40 minutes and the conversation very quickly went to his supposed ex, who he was still living with and sleeping in the same bed, I might add. Young children etc of course I quizzed him about that, but then it was ALL about the ex and how she'd cheated and how he wanted to get revenge or maybe didn't say it that way, but same same. He never wavered, it was all about her and how hurt he was. This went on for so long, I heard every last detail. I decided not long into the phone call I was out, by the end, I told him sorry, this not happening, you need to sort your shit out. Then I got the 'But I have needs too'. Told him too bad, he wasn't entitled, it wasn't my job to give give that to him. I'm not sure if I've already posted about this either within this thread or elsewhere on the forum, hope I'm not repeating myself. But the baggage astounded me. I ran for the hills, happy to leave him to it and if it weren't for that phonecall, I wouldn't have known
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RHP User
10 years ago
I had one date that turned into a runner. After reviewing each others profiles we got chatting and all was good. She portrayed herself as being very down to earth and I honestly, from her pics, thought that was a euphemism for her being a bit rough around the edges. But that was Ok with me, as I was really just looking for some (social) company. So we agreed to meet at a pub for a few games of pool. I said "I will be easy to spot. I am the one that looks exactly like my profile pics". And I even sent her an on-the-spot selfy. Well she turned up looking like she was on her way to Flemington for the Melbourne Cup. I was pleasantly surprised that she scrubbed up better than expected, but thought it was a bit over the top for a few games of pool in a pub. Instead of playing pool, we sat in a booth and chatted. It was easy and comfortable chat and we got on well. Then she asked me to get her another drink while she went to the loo. She never returned. I messaged her later for a 'Please explain' and she replied that I should have dressed up more. I thought...WTF? There were no surprises on my part. You knew what to expect a night before. I was expecting her to come as she looked in her profile pics too. Oh well...Live and learn. My next date was same same, except I made sure that I was very well presented this time. And she said "What are you dressed like that for? We are only going to the pub." Fortunately I had more comfortable clothes with me and we went on to have a great time.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sounds like you cant win. Either way. I generally tell people what I will be wearing. Im more of a casual person, so its usually jeans. But I like to let them know. Your story reminded me of a meet I had in a cafe. Very hot summers day in qld. Im in a cool floral maxi dress, he turns up in a suit with tie and jacket. Really not necessary. He was sweating and looked so uncomfortable.
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RHP User
10 years ago
that's wrong. I'm guilty of not replying to texts etc but would never do a runner on someone I was out with
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SNAG4XTC' Sorry Deep / Touch, I did write more, then deleted it before posting. Basically, her past came back to haunt her. If you think about Nattiets post and multiply it substantially, you may get the gist. We talk about some guys being pricks...but that guy was way over the top. There is no happy ending. respect your choice not to put it into print, sounds like a sad story
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RHP User
10 years ago
I recently updated my profile and added that a current selfy would be possible using ___ (same user name) and my profile update was rejected. I also got a stern warning that any further reference to outside apps would see my account blocked. 😱 Hence I wasn't game to push my luck.
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RHP User
10 years ago
(touch) Regrettably, it was sickeningly bad.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I made contact with a lady that I really liked on RHP. We shared a few chats and really seemed to be well aligned. But she dropped off the radar. I tried messaging her a few times..but nothing. About a month later, I got a mesage back saying...Been off offline...dealing with personal stuff...just spotted my messages...love to catch up, etc...here is my mobile number. So I sent her mobile a message with...OMG, I thought that I had lost you..bla bla... After a few brief messages, I asked where see was. How shocked was I to get the response..."How would I know. I'm her ex. At least now I know that I was right" WTF !! I replied and basically said..."To the best of my knowledge she has had nothing to do with anyone. And she was only online briefly before disappearing. She has had zero involvement with anyone". I went on to say "Now I know why she disappeared. She has a stalker. What part of Ex do you not understand". Eventually, I got another message from her on RHP and I questioned whether it was again the Ex. She replied that it was really her. He doesn't know her RHP password as she opened the account after they split. She said that she sent me the first message and then, in good faith, answered a call from him for assistance. It all went bad. She got dragged around the house by her hair and beaten around the head before he stole her phone and threw her out. She was very distressed because he was doing his best to destroy her life and she feared that she would lose her job because of it. I was booked to fly out that day but said that I still had enough time to drive for 4 hours to give her an hour of emotional support and hit the road immediately. She said "Would you really do that?" and I responded "I am on the road now". Unfortunately there was a major sporting event going on, that my GPS didn't allow for, and an hour later I was no closer. I had to tell her that I had run out of time and couldn't make it. When I returned to Oz, and got phone reception, I messaged her that I would try again and did the drive to the general area. But there was no reply and after an hour of hanging out at a shopping centre, I drove back to the airport to fly back to site. Later she replied that she was out all day and had only just got my message. She said that she was sorry she missed me and was amazed that I actually made the effort. She still didn't have her phone and the Ex was still giving her hell. Shortly after her profile disappeared from RHP completely. I have no idea what happened to her. I just hope that she is safe. Another example of some men painting a bad picture of all men. PS: I want to give a shout out to the guys on this forum. Thank you for showing that there are decent guys out there too. Your expressions of empathy for the ladies and disgust for those that embody disrespectful behaviour is much appreciated. Even you Stirry (you stirrer), I know that behind the scenes, you are a great guy and very supportive of others. 👍
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RHP User
10 years ago
or better yet, have one FB for family and one for play. Snag - golden rule - you can always dress down a suit, but you can't dress up a t-shirt. I've been caught out like you once before. Never again :) B - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Youve had a few horror stories havent you? Personally, I would suggest being wary of anyones "stories" if you havent even met them. Dont invest so much of yourself. That last woman may not have even been legitimately wanting to meet anyone. Plus do you need to get involved in a strangers crazyness with a possible dangerous ex, unless its to advise them to get legal help to deal with it. You sound like a very compasionate person. A lovely trait, but can be abused and decieved by the wrong ppl. Your last story reminded me of a story my friend told me. He met a lovely lady online. Second meet was at her place. Sitting in loungeroom enjoying conversation and a drink when her ex starts bashing and screaming at the front door. Police were called as he was smashing pot plants and they were obviously fearful, but my froend decided that he didnt need that type of baggage included in getting to know someone. Sometimes I think some people hop on these sites way top fast after a breakup. I was chatting to a guy a few weeks ago. Lovely guy, exchanged numbers and conversed a bit more. Then he told me he had to move as his ex was making life difficult for him and harrassing him in his home.making life difficult. I really dont need any of that crap in my life. I dont have it and really dont want to take on someones dramas. So I told him I thought he needs to sort that out before trying to meet people. I dont need dramas. So I will avoid taking on anyone elses if I dont know them. Just be careful SNAG and look after yourself on here.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Such good advice.I have met a couple of men who were genuinely separated but were still in a state of shock. One was still living in the house with his ex and sleeping on the couch. He was in pain and lonely. My advice to him was to wait at least six months ,sort his living arrangements etc.and maybe then go on dating sites Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
There are people with serious shit going on in their lives. Trust me, there are plenty of men like that as well. It's actually scary, some of THEM are scary ffs. In my mind, they shouldn't be on here, shouldn't be dating at all. I'm not even going to go into what's come my way there but fucking rude is a pretty good start. The thing is they're not entitled. It's not our business to be squaring things up for them. I have zero baggage and expect that in return and if I were you snag, I'd avoid avoid avoid
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RHP User
10 years ago
Summer is right about other site references being put in your profile. That's not allowed for obvious reasons. I'm on another site where the guys can set up automatic flirts so I get hundreds of flirts with a reference for another app along with their user name for that, and a note to say they aren't a paid member and can't reply to my message? Next
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RHP User
10 years ago
Shhhhhh......people will think I'm.....*gulps* nice!!! Lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Dont encourage stirry with compliments. Hahaha
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Quoting 'Rantallion' ...make me ashamed of my gender! Yes and the female species perfect We're NEVER a dud root, are we ladies? Well, maybe just the one who watched My Kitchen Rules or whatever it was lol I'm stuck for words.I really don't know what to say to that
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RHP User
10 years ago
Re: Avoid. I hear you. And my profile states that the Emotional rollercoaster and Horror train are banned in Rods World. As I am not interested in dramas...a certainly not interested in any direct involvement. I was just trying to give some emotional support. Otherwise, I am very upfront that I am not the solution to their problems. Sometimes it helps just to know that you have a friend in your corner if you need to talk. Zero baggage is definitely the way to go. Enough said.... Let's go back to band camp 😁😁😁
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RHP User
10 years ago
This one time...at band camp... I was with this super sexy chick...she was like nothing that I had known before. It was so hot...so intense...and then she.... BEEP...BEEP...BEEP...BEEP... Aaarrggg. Hit the snooze...rub my eyes...and lay there for a bit...loving the moment. BEEP...BEEP...BEEP... Shut up 😡 Swing my legs out...get up...take one last look at my empty bed...and get dressed. I hate work days. 😁😁😁
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RHP User
10 years ago
This one time...at Band Camp... Same, same...except the bed wasn't empty. So I wrote a song. Chorus. (queue music) 🎶 Wishing today was another day. A sunday maybe, where we can drift away. And have the time, to lay sublime, in each others arms. Loving the day.🎶 Well it was Band Camp...😛😁
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RHP User
10 years ago
love the last one, sleepovers should always be when there's no work the following day few rounds before breakfast. Oh and don't worry about hogging, hog away lol I'm the worst hog. Did I just say that especially within the 'screw up/train wreck' topics, I just get on a roll Another time at bandcamp Can't talk recent, that wouldn't be cool, most have been good anyway, but searching back through my memory way way way back when bandcamp first started, an encounter that turned around, so started off bad. Early communications were problematic, from both him and me. I initially wasn't sure and spent quite a lot of time in an unsure state, we moved to the phone and would text occasionally, then finally agreed to meet but he fell off the radar. He'd practically been begging me by this stage so I was confused by that and let him know in no uncertain terms. It just didn't make sense. Anyway, when he reappeared months later and proceeded to ask for my empathy, he'd had some awful stuff happen in his life, not baggage, just sickness, business problems, there was more. I was initially hesitant but we got back on track, started talking again and agreed to go and meet him. Drove across the city, found his house, but as he walked out towards me, I stopped in my tracks because he looked quite different to his pictures. I was at that point thinking he'd dodgied his pictures. He told me he'd lost a lot of weight, which turned out to be true, stress and worry combined with hard physical work had caused him to lose a lot of weight. I said, look I'm sorry, and started to walk towards the car to leave. He was really nice, didn't pressure me but suggested I come in for a drink, I was there anyway. Sit and have a chat, no pressure. So I did, went inside with him, poured a drink. Within minutes chemistry just exploded, we went each other. Without going into the long version of what followed, best I've ever had and went on to see him a number of times after that. If I'd driven away, that momentary decision to walk back in and have that drink, I would never have had the privilege to experience him. He was incredible. Very happy I did walk back in and that I was able to share a part of my life with him. We joked about it further along, he said he was ready to 'tackle' me or that he was happy I made the decision and he didn't have to tackle me to stop me getting in the car So many months had elapsed and to end like that would have been a tragedy. So turned the tables on that one
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta1' Such good advice.I have met a couple of men who were genuinely separated but were still in a state of shock. One was still living in the house with his ex and sleeping on the couch. He was in pain and lonely. My advice to him was to wait at least six months ,sort his living arrangements etc.and maybe then go on dating sites Q Nicely put. There is a period of time where they need time to find themselves again, regardless even of whether they are the one leaving the relationship or the one being left, we all need to do that. I did. I learnt to enjoy my own company (even before the marriage ended), best thing I ever did. People say, join a club or take up a new activity, whatever, for me it was exercise. I used it as a form of escape initially and relaxation funnily enough. I no longer use it to escape but somewhere along the line, became addicted to it and still find it relaxing/soothing, clears my head. It's my time, my thing. Strangely, I even forego sex for it. Nothing stands in the way. I love it. Don't do anything too serious, but just enjoy it. So that for me, was and still is my interest/main focus. For someone else, it might be joining a dance group or a bookclub, somewhere where you can meet people and start the process of moving on or just enjoy being by yourself, enjoy 'being'. It's very peaceful. I agree that some time is needed for people to do this. They need to give themselves time, it's time well spent in my opinion
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ive told this story on here a while ago. Sorry in advance for the long post,Its worth repeating.Back in the beginning, when everything was shiney and new, I was attracted to a "domish" guy. Things progressed nicely to a public meet. Got on brilliantly and we were both very attracted.The perfect outcome. So we planned to hookup again. Ended up being awesome, did the sleepover thing and we had a perfect night/day together. Repeated this on the next weekend. All going great. Then we get to meet #4... Very comfortable and open with each other. Like I mentioned, he was dom and had a great setup in his bedroom. A nice array of crops,paddles,floggers, restraints, sex swing suspended from the ceiling, bits and bobs for all occasions. He was starting slow with me as I was brand spanking new (great description there) and we were both enjoying the journey. So 3rd sexual encounter.... Picture this.... Me stark nekid. Blind folded.spread eagle on my belly.tied with bed restraints on wrists and ankles. Cant move except to slightly raise my arse 😎. Im slowly and carefully being oiled, iced, licked, smacked, corressed, cropped, prodded in orifices, butt plugged, flogged... All done beautifully by a man who knew how to take his time, talk me through it and have me on the edge of the unknown. Then.... Everything stops. All is silent. I wait blindfolded and restrained, in anticipation of what would happen next. My breathing was all I could hear. Then he sits on the bed and he says," I cant do this" It takes a little time to process as Im in a zone. I ask him what hes saying and he repeats,"I cant do this any more. Im so sorry." ... And begins to openly sob !! Holy fuck that snapped me out of it. I asked him to take the blindfold off, and I see his face in pain and tears in his eyes. Such comfussion. And Im asking him why and whats the matter, what happened? Keep in mind Im still arse up,spreadeagled,tied to his bed. Feeling very vulnerable and confused about now. Looking at a man who looked broken and lost, him sitting on the bed surrounded by whips, vibes, dildo's, ropes, candles.... You get the picture. Im still in a dazed shock as he starts to tell me that today he had recieved a call from his ex and it really rocked him and brought out some emotions. And he realised that he was still in love with her and just couldnt move on. She had asked him to meet her for coffee to have a chat. Well this is hard to hear on your third fuck session and you are still naked and tied up while they pour their heart out to you, wiping tears away and looking totally opposite to the confident, charismatic man I had been seeing for the last few weeks. So I was feeling really silly by this stage, so I asked him to take my restaints off. I sat up and put clothes on. Still in a state of confusion. But I stayed there for a good while and let him pour his heart out,profusely appologetic,all the while Im looking at all these toys, impliments, clamps, oils and crops surrounding me. I really wanted to just leave and get out of there but he needed to let it out and my hot Dom guy was suddenly a confused and sad man who couldnt let go of his ex. So I wished him all the best and toddled off into the sunset, shaking my head and wondering what the fuck just happened!!never to hear from him again...... A classic fucked up example of someone using sex as a way to get over a relationship.😁
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thats a novel 😝
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' Ive told this story on here a while ago. Sorry in advance for the long post,Its worth repeating.Back in the beginning, when everything was shiney and new, I was attracted to a "domish" guy. Things progressed nicely to a public meet. Got on brilliantly and we were both very attracted.The perfect outcome. So we planned to hookup again. Ended up being awesome, did the sleepover thing and we had a perfect night/day together. Repeated this on the next weekend. All going great. Then we get to meet #4... Very comfortable and open with each other. Like I mentioned, he was dom and had a great setup in his bedroom. A nice array of crops,paddles,floggers, restraints, sex swing suspended from the ceiling, bits and bobs for all occasions. He was starting slow with me as I was brand spanking new (great description there) and we were both enjoying the journey. So 3rd sexual encounter.... Picture this.... Me stark nekid. Blind folded.spread eagle on my belly.tied with bed restraints on wrists and ankles. Cant move except to slightly raise my arse 😎. Im slowly and carefully being oiled, iced, licked, smacked, corressed, cropped, prodded in orifices, butt plugged, flogged... All done beautifully by a man who knew how to take his time, talk me through it and have me on the edge of the unknown. Then.... Everything stops. All is silent. I wait blindfolded and restrained, in anticipation of what would happen next. My breathing was all I could hear. Then he sits on the bed and he says," I cant do this" It takes a little time to process as Im in a zone. I ask him what hes saying and he repeats,"I cant do this any more. Im so sorry." ... And begins to openly sob !! Holy fuck that snapped me out of it. I asked him to take the blindfold off, and I see his face in pain and tears in his eyes. Such comfussion. And Im asking him why and whats the matter, what happened? Keep in mind Im still arse up,spreadeagled,tied to his bed. Feeling very vulnerable and confused about now. Looking at a man who looked broken and lost, him sitting on the bed surrounded by whips, vibes, dildo's, ropes, candles.... You get the picture. Im still in a dazed shock as he starts to tell me that today he had recieved a call from his ex and it really rocked him and brought out some emotions. And he realised that he was still in love with her and just couldnt move on. She had asked him to meet her for coffee to have a chat. Well this is hard to hear on your third fuck session and you are still naked and tied up while they pour their heart out to you, wiping tears away and looking totally opposite to the confident, charismatic man I had been seeing for the last few weeks. So I was feeling really silly by this stage, so I asked him to take my restaints off. I sat up and put clothes on. Still in a state of confusion. But I stayed there for a good while and let him pour his heart out,profusely appologetic,all the while Im looking at all these toys, impliments, clamps, oils and crops surrounding me. I really wanted to just leave and get out of there but he needed to let it out and my hot Dom guy was suddenly a confused and sad man who couldnt let go of his ex. So I wished him all the best and toddled off into the sunset, shaking my head and wondering what the fuck just happened!!never to hear from him again...... A classic fucked up example of someone using sex as a way to get over a relationship.😁 I have had the same type of experiences with guys who end up tears because they are just using NSA sex mistakenly thinking it's the grand solution to them getting over a relationship. I have let them get it off their chests and have been sympathetic allowing them sufficient time to talk it over but have also made it clear that I won't be catching up with them again and that they need to get themselves to a stage where they are past thinking about their ex and are ready to move forwards not backwards before they continue meeting other people for sex, dating, relationships or whatever.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its probably a big reason that I changed my whole outlook on what I want out of this. So Im more drawn to people who have been in the scene for a while,see other people,and play with the players, so to speak. They arent fragile and looking for a bandaide experience. Either that or they have just pushed it all deep inside.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' Thats a novel 😝 you're getting as bad as me took me 2 goes to finish reading it. Had an early Mother's Day catch up with my Mum/parents and family today. Started to have a quick read before I drove home, but had to finish when I got home lol But it's okay, it had the Wow factor, no it had the omg factor
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RHP User
10 years ago
about half way through, when you were talking about being restrained and everything was quiet, you had me hanging, I thought you were going to say he'd left and left you there tied up That's my worst fear. Good that didn't happen, what did happen is bizarre though. God, talk about killing the moment
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RHP User
10 years ago
..year old that turned out to be 72 with 2 hip replacements and a knee replacement due to weight issues.. lol "eyeroll"
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RHP User
10 years ago
I can dig it... My breakup was very sudden...she just said "we are so done and dusted" and that was it...over. But it was awesome. I had grown unhappy that I would never get to do all the things that I wanted to do...but I couldn't justify leaving her...and wouldn't cheat. I could see any way out. Her leaving me was not something that I ever could have seen. So I just said "Yippee". I said to her that the only potential issue that I might have is doubting my ability to satisfy her. She assured me that still thought of me as the perfect man, but she needed a woman. I had my first date 6 days later and never doubted myself ever again. 😁😁😁 However my breakup was awesome timing. Had I not already been looking for an out, i may have been devastated, as so many are. But for me, dating was exactly what I needed.
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RHP User
10 years ago
That first date went pear shaped...literally. The date was a 4WDing expedition and found a pear shaded stump to plow the cruiser into. Landcruisers are really really tough but stumps are tougher. I totalled it miles from anywhere. Oops 😁 But the date turned out good anyway. Her legs were still quivering an hour after I finally let her get some rest. She was a happy camper 😛😛😛 And she was a swinger of 5 years. I never doubted myself again, especially the next date when she lost it and started crying saying "How can you do that?"...I replied "Would you rather I was a prick?" and she said "Yes. That would make it easier" She couldn't handle the heat. LOL
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SNAG4XTC' I can dig it... My breakup was very sudden...she just said "we are so done and dusted" and that was it...over. But it was awesome. I had grown unhappy that I would never get to do all the things that I wanted to do...but I couldn't justify leaving her...and wouldn't cheat. I could see any way out. Her leaving me was not something that I ever could have seen. So I just said "Yippee". I said to her that the only potential issue that I might have is doubting my ability to satisfy her. She assured me that still thought of me as the perfect man, but she needed a woman. I had my first date 6 days later and never doubted myself ever again. 😁😁😁 However my breakup was awesome timing. Had I not already been looking for an out, i may have been devastated, as so many are. But for me, dating was exactly what I needed.Being prepared beforehand makes a huge difference, no doubt, good for you. The first date sounds like it was a cracker
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RHP User
10 years ago
except for the stump incident
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'dwddwd' ..year old that turned out to be 72 with 2 hip replacements and a knee replacement due to weight issues.. lol "eyeroll" omg really? Wow, I've heard guys say a lot of women don't look like their pictures, this is an extreme example of that
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was as er....surprised as I've ever been in my life. I think I mumbled inarticulately for a good minute or so before regaining any semblance of composure. lol. Funny now. Not so at the time..
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RHP User
10 years ago
I dont understand why ppl either use fake picks or very old pics and drop their age 10 to 15 yrs. Do they seriously think when they meet someone, that it wont matter? Geez.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't get it either, do they really think the other person will just go through with the meet. It's sad and still is a major problem with online sites. No simple solution other than to remain cautious, follow our own screening steps, and good old intuition 😃
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RHP User
10 years ago
People saying they're say...45 instead of 48 or 45 instead of 50. Just to get through the age filters sometimes on profiles. And some are better preserved at an older age. Like I_touch_myself2 who started this thread. You wouldn't know she was much past late 30's looking at the photos & physique. Overweight 72 pretending to be a slim 50 was a stretch & half though... lol Pleasant enough chat once I recovered from the shock but... lol Old pics I don;t get unless you joined the site a decade ago & couldn't be bothered updating your photos...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Definitely the most expensive date that I have ever had. 😕
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RHP User
10 years ago
Firstly...let's not get any weird ideas here. I find myself comparing woman on here with my mum, who is in her 70s. And quite a few woman that claim to be in their 40s look much older than her. Are they lying about their age? Or did they just not age well? In all fairness, my mum has aged well and will still swing an axe or hand mow a couple of acres. So do you feel the same? Do you use the parent test? Do you ever look at your date and think that if you had a group pic with your date and your parents that your date would look like the oldest in the pic? I think that all profilers should keep it real with their pics. Keep them current. That beind said, some of mine are getting a little dated but I annotated many of my pics with the date that they were taken...and I haven't changed in the slightest. Still got a full head of hair under that hat. Maybe a couple more greys sneaking in, but certainly nowhere near the point of considering putting a colour through. Which I am sure a lot do to pretend to be younger.b
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yeah a couple of yrs isnt an issue, as long as you still look like that age range. I lobbed a yr or 2 off recently. So of course Im not going to make an issue of it. But I did it because a family member who has their face pic as their profile pic, viewed my profile several times, so I changed a few things on my profile so it wouldnt resemble me. ( and then I talk about it on a public forum lol) But lobbing off 10 yrs+ is dating suicide if you ask me. I would rather state my age and recieve compliments that I dont look my age.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thats the excuse said when Ive asked people why they still use old pics." Well I havent changed in 5 yrs so theres no need to update the pics." Yes everyone hasnt aged if they look through rose coloured glasses. But others can see it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' Thats the excuse said when Ive asked people why they still use old pics." Well I havent changed in 5 yrs so theres no need to update the pics." Yes everyone hasnt aged if they look through rose coloured glasses. But others can see it. Yes, absolutely. I've aged in the last year, even though I keep fit and eat well, aside from chocolate and HJ's lol but largely look after myself, I have aged in the space of 1 year, so people saying they haven't changed is usually through their eyes. Pictures need to be remotely current, or at least some of the pictures, with the remainder being the last year or so IMHO well said
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'dwddwd' People saying they're say...45 instead of 48 or 45 instead of 50. Just to get through the age filters sometimes on profiles. And some are better preserved at an older age. Like I_touch_myself2 who started this thread. You wouldn't know she was much past late 30's looking at the photos & physique. Overweight 72 pretending to be a slim 50 was a stretch & half though... lol Pleasant enough chat once I recovered from the shock but... lol Old pics I don;t get unless you joined the site a decade ago & couldn't be bothered updating your photos... Thank you, what a nice thing to say. I actually didn't look as good at 30, nowhere near it, but nice to be on the receiving end of a compliment like that. Definitely makes me feel good, thank you
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RHP User
10 years ago
@ Deep_purple Well, you look somewhere between 18 & 40 in the profile photo! lol. Family member checking you out? Nice.. That's too funny for words. I appreciate that's probably wasn't as amusing for you.. lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes it will be funny in a yr or so maybe, but rocked me, as the ladies on here know. And agree that my pic doesnt give much away. Thats the whole idea. Pg is a wonderful thing though.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes, thought it was just me, I have benchmarks, comparison points, thought it was just me lol Yeah, I quite often think men and women are either lying about their age, significantly some, or haven't aged well, or let themselves go, whatever, but have others I compare them to. The first guy I ever hooked up with who I don't talk about so won't go too far into that, but he was incredible and I used and still do, his body, weight, height, nationality, natural sexiness, dom characteristic, everything, he set the bar high, very high. So from then on, I'd look at pictures, on other websites, weight would be stated along with height, and I'd look and think, yeah nah haha I know there are variants, but it became a really good tool to be a super sleuth and the few times I let my guard down and not think of the comparison, sure enough, not good. That's only one example but with age and how people look for their age, I'm very picky, I'm convinced a large number of people lie about their age to some degree. I'm not one of them and proud of it
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SNAG4XTC' I made contact with a lady that I really liked on RHP. We shared a few chats and really seemed to be well aligned. But she dropped off the radar. I tried messaging her a few times..but nothing. About a month later, I got a mesage back saying...Been off offline...dealing with personal stuff...just spotted my messages...love to catch up, etc...here is my mobile number. So I sent her mobile a message with...OMG, I thought that I had lost you..bla bla... After a few brief messages, I asked where see was. How shocked was I to get the response..."How would I know. I'm her ex. At least now I know that I was right" WTF !! I replied and basically said..."To the best of my knowledge she has had nothing to do with anyone. And she was only online briefly before disappearing. She has had zero involvement with anyone". I went on to say "Now I know why she disappeared. She has a stalker. What part of Ex do you not understand". Eventually, I got another message from her on RHP and I questioned whether it was again the Ex. She replied that it was really her. He doesn't know her RHP password as she opened the account after they split. She said that she sent me the first message and then, in good faith, answered a call from him for assistance. It all went bad. She got dragged around the house by her hair and beaten around the head before he stole her phone and threw her out. She was very distressed because he was doing his best to destroy her life and she feared that she would lose her job because of it. I was booked to fly out that day but said that I still had enough time to drive for 4 hours to give her an hour of emotional support and hit the road immediately. She said "Would you really do that?" and I responded "I am on the road now". Unfortunately there was a major sporting event going on, that my GPS didn't allow for, and an hour later I was no closer. I had to tell her that I had run out of time and couldn't make it. When I returned to Oz, and got phone reception, I messaged her that I would try again and did the drive to the general area. But there was no reply and after an hour of hanging out at a shopping centre, I drove back to the airport to fly back to site. Later she replied that she was out all day and had only just got my message. She said that she was sorry she missed me and was amazed that I actually made the effort. She still didn't have her phone and the Ex was still giving her hell. Shortly after her profile disappeared from RHP completely. I have no idea what happened to her. I just hope that she is safe. Another example of some men painting a bad picture of all men. PS: I want to give a shout out to the guys on this forum. Thank you for showing that there are decent guys out there too. Your expressions of empathy for the ladies and disgust for those that embody disrespectful behaviour is much appreciated. Even you Stirry (you stirrer), I know that behind the scenes, you are a great guy and very supportive of others. 👍 This sounds like the worst possible outcome for someone on here. Hopefully this woman is ok, and she isn't hurt in any way. While I have yet to have any experiences like this, with the 2 women I have met I always treated them with respect. It does make me feel ashamed when I hear men behaving like this, but thankfully this isn't representative of all of us
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RHP User
10 years ago
Did the family member with face profile recognise u from ur boobs profile pic? Awkward much? 😝
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RHP User
10 years ago
If it was just a boob pic at the time, I wouldnt have been recognisable to them at all. The pic I have up now, isnt an outfit that has been seen by fam/friends. But the one I had up, I believe, showed enough to recognise me, especially something in the back ground. Always be aware of where you take your pics. Bedrooms can be easily recognisable. P.S toungie, that pic gives me the eewws when I see it. 😳
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RHP User
10 years ago
Shallow_pink (yeh i got nothing at the mo), thanks for the advice on profile pics. I find art/ profile pics very subjective 😋 Anyways, it was ur mate harmless clover/ p.iv that put me up to my last msg, im just the messenger 😇
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RHP User
10 years ago
Regrettably the guy in the post that you replied to was a pussycat compared to the guy that I had referred to earlier. That guy should not be breathing.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi All, as a newbie couple, we started chatting on-line to a hubby and his lovely wife. We all seemed to click, so they invited us over. About 30-mins later, we arrived at their house and much to our surprise we found there was another man there, with a fake orange skin tan and no shirt. He was beyond drunk. It was explained to us in great laughing detail that he was the ex-boyfriend of the wife and she had found him at the pub, so she decided "why not". He was not into swinging before this, but in his state he also decided "why not". He was a swimming teacher and he shaved his chest and legs. Anyway, while nervously listening to how things should go, it was quickly revealed to us that there was yet ANOTHER couple on the way, so we could relax. At this point, the wife decided the ex should rekindle their past glory by ducking off into the bedroom before the party got going for real. Poor hubby was left with us, the crackers and some God awful yellow stuff that was supposed to be cheese. The hubby bluntly decided it was now a party and we should get started on him. Something about a dick and how it needed to be sucked. Just then, the other couple arrived. They introduced themselves. She was very good looking and had tiny, cold, bony hands. He was also good looking and a wet-fish handshake if you like that sort of thing. They let us know they will be the best looking couple in the room tonight and I guessed they could be Ken and Barbie swimsuit models or movie stars. Wouldn't you know it, they had no idea what was going on either, and it wasn't because they were blonde. Hubby then decided to upgrade his party. The music was pumpin' so we could all get to experience what bleeding from the ears was like, and in front of Barbie a fantastic solo dance started to happen. That was until the wife heard hubby's yelling about how beautiful Barbie was. The wife dragged hubby away and made him promise to be part of a magical threesome. Later on we found out the ex could not get it up and she needed some encouragement, or something like that. But meanwhile, in the lounge room, there we all were. Just two lonely couples barely yelling a kind word to each other. That was, until hubby returned to renew his attack. But Barbie had cleverly crossed her legs so tightly that she could not lift her bum off the lounge again and again as hubby tried to grab her hands and pull her up. I was wondering if Ken was just going to be a plastic cut out, or was he secretly going to man up. Hello! It was the wife, she came out of the threesome room, screeched something at hubby and stormed out the back. It scared the shit out of us. Hubby raced after her and passed the ex as he stumbled out to take over the Barbie-cue. Yes, Barbie could also dance with a drunken orange, if only she could get off that damn lounge. Hubby and the wife came back in after their fight, grabbed the ex and headed back into threesome bliss. About 2-mins later, hubby came out of his allotted room and again started trying to teach Barbie his dance. The wife must have figured out hubby was missing and came out after him yet again, she slammed the back door in preparation for the next fight. I think Orange man threw up a screwdriver as it went round-n-round. My partner in crime said Orange man's chest was "prickly" and after we screwed Barbie, we left. Much much more happened, but I am crying too much and can't continue.
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RHP User
10 years ago
dwddwd.....Id like to know how your date went? Did you have a cup of tea and a scone?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorry that happened to you but fuck that was a good read. 😄
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RHP User
10 years ago
... Quoting 'lily1970' dwddwd.....Id like to know how your date went? Did you have a cup of tea and a scone? Quite the comedy thread this one, isn't it lily1970? lol Iced coffee & general chit chat ensued. Then off! Just one of those days...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks for the reply dwddwd....ive spent part of today just pondering how you got out of that situation...I couldn't come up with anything polite other than a cup of tea and a chat....lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
WeKiss - What a great story. Pity it sort of picked up pace towards the end, leaving out lots. Left me wondering what happened with Ken. I've got this mental picture that he didn't move all night. Love to hear it face to face. Great share. 😁😁😁
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RHP User
10 years ago
@WeKiss Hands down! That's mental! lol Jesus that's made my day!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I had to go and read your profile. I knew it would be a good read. Loved this: Disclosure notice, Sydney University...we banged your mum and dad. Crack up.😝
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RHP User
10 years ago
They spent a lovely afternoon at bingo, before he took her back to the nursing home...😝
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RHP User
10 years ago
Deep purple..... of course!!!! Bingo!! didn't think of that!
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RHP User
10 years ago
So it's gone a bit quiet in here and reflecting, casting my mind back, aside from another few attempted blow 'n go's lol most have been good guys, I'd like to reference encounters that go well, but are shortly followed by a feeling of, not regret, but disappointment with their behavior following the successful play meet. So I met a guy one day, won't be too specific, but it was public, challenging in the sense that we didn't have privacy, never perfect like that but we were comfortable together, at least I thought so, he was exciting in the sense that he was 'sexually mature' knew how to tease and tantalise and pleasure, really got me going. He talked about looking forward to getting me behind closed doors for a more extended interlude with all the above coming into play. He talked about this during and after. I left feeling very happy and excited that I might get to see him again, stayed horny all day, aroused still from the encounter. So i sent him a message, which I don't always, usually wait for them to contact me, saying how awesome he was, how horny I was still from the encounter. Basically thanking him and complimenting him.................then nothing, no reply.........................that's the low point. It's like, was it just me or did we just have a great time together? Anyway, whatever, we move forward, fast forward I can't remember exactly, but few months maybe, fair bit of time had elapsed. I'm at the beach one day, in view of a main seating area and grassed area, where people look down at the sand. I get a text. 'I've been thinking about you' worded slightly differently with broken English but that was the intended comment, how have you been or something, I can't remember but indicating he was interested in seeing me again. No reason or apology for not responding to my genuine message all that time ago. My feeling was he was at the beach, saw me and was horny, and saw me as an easy target. That just pissed me off. I didn't reply. I wanted to because I was also horny but I have to like someone to have sex with them and although I don't require a lot of communication, no reply to that particular message was hurtful, so much so, it was a deal breaker for me from then on. Just an example of how the encounter might go well, but how feelings about that person/encounter can change after the event with their follow up behavior
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' They spent a lovely afternoon at bingo, before he took her back to the nursing home...😝 We're not referring to my date per chance? Nothing wrong with bingo at the blue care nursing home. lol Those over 50's living things look quite appealing. Quiet neighbours, lot of ladies with time on their hands....
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RHP User
10 years ago
dwddwd.....Indeed!! I have worked many years in age care....one thing ive learnt,the urge doesn't leave you no matter your age....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Good point. I often wonder or fast forward, well not too far at my age lol, to how I'll be when I'm more mature okay well that's a stretch, older let's say, and still hope to be sexual in some way, regardless of how old I get. We horny old people just turn into hornier older people
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RHP User
10 years ago
We went out to dinner with this one couple who were really nice in messages and in talking prior to the meet. We found them attractive and they liked us as well. All seemed to be going very well till they asked about my partners work. At the time she was working with a council and had a lot to do with indigenous Australians and land rights. The female half of the couple said to us "Fucking c@#ns don't deserve any land". We were not there for long.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'espressomartinis' We went out to dinner with this one couple who were really nice in messages and in talking prior to the meet. We found them attractive and they liked us as well. All seemed to be going very well till they asked about my partners work. At the time she was working with a council and had a lot to do with indigenous Australians and land rights. The female half of the couple said to us "Fucking c@#ns don't deserve any land". We were not there for long. No way, really? Good move leaving. Hard to even know what to say to that, your thoughts I imagine at the time?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Chatted to this older lady for a while, decided to meet up with her one afternoon. Thought it was fairly suss the way she asked me to come in - through the side gate, walk down the path, into a sliding door to the main bedroom. Anyway, always up for a small adventure I thought to myself why not?! Get down to business, first thing that happened is that she took her wig off... anyway, that was weird but not TOO weird, anyway start fooling around, was pretty decent - then her SON knocks at the door... totally freaking me out now, then ANOTHER person knocks at the door - so she goes out and makes dinner or something - another car pulls up (I can hear the garage door open) and I was basically stuck there unable to move until the evening.. Turns out she was married, kids, everything. Another time I picked up an Irish girl from a pub, her photo's were near on PROFESSIONAL as she really looked nothing like them, started fooling around (stank of alcohol) anyway, took her pants off - smell was so bad I just stopped in my tracks, told her to get out of my car, drove home. Another time, went over to a girls house, heard a lot of shuffling noises and stuff being moved around - turns out she actually lived in a tip - there was so much rubbish all over the house, off food, mold, cat shit etc everywhere - just said I had to go get condoms and never returned.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sounds like all the liers find their way to you :/, I hope there are some good stories as well
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' I seem to attract them One was a guy that said he had to get something out of his car and pulled his clothes on and went outside. I got a text saying "that was awkward I had to go" Another one was a guy that told me after our first play meet to take all my pictures down as he didn't want others seeing me... Never saw him again. The guy that said he was 6'1" and 36 and on meeting was 5'6 and barely 30. Oh can't forget the "single" guy that I saw multiple times then I received a lovely text from his wife Was meant to reply this way, but as i said, hope you've had some good stories as well
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'espressomartinis' We went out to dinner with this one couple who were really nice in messages and in talking prior to the meet. We found them attractive and they liked us as well. All seemed to be going very well till they asked about my partners work. At the time she was working with a council and had a lot to do with indigenous Australians and land rights. The female half of the couple said to us "Fucking c@#ns don't deserve any land". We were not there for long. Lifes rich tapestry even on the internet. What an outstanding summing up of a complex issue. (sarcasm) Posting in the Canberra diplomatic corps due no doubt.. Jesus...lol Imagine everyone looking around elsewhere at the time. "Oh what a nice picture that is on the wall" sot of moment.. lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Had a girl i met online tell me she was single and just wanting a FB. Turns out she had three kids and was married to a guy i went to school with. All good i wont judge her for that too harshly as everyone has their skeletons and secrets plus i dont know what shes really going through. I decided not to go through with it (which turned out to be the best decision ever), turned out to be a crazy one telling me that "we are meant to be together" and that if "i dont marry her she will kill herself". I wont lie i was worried she would but thankfully it was a bluff. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
met with a woman for drinks and chat, all good.a week or so later, she came to my place, we had our fun.she left early the next morning for work, i thought all was good.got a message 2 days later saying she was disappointed i didn't check that she got home ok, it showed that i had no concern for her welfare apparently?was i a slack ass??
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RHP User
10 years ago
Went to pick up a couple that we had been exchanging messages from and pictures. Thought we were talking to the wife the whole time. At our place enjoying drinks. Found out the guy had limited time to live. The wife new nothing about why she was there and he told us he prostituted her out for money for his habit. He pretended to be her on the phone during the messages. The wife finally found out the truth, they had a big blue. She stormed out of the house into the night. The guy still hit us up for a threesome. We walked him to the door and said enjoy the rest of your time. Mate. This ain't going to happen. EVA!!!!!!!! Now that's a horror story.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Winmor' met with a woman for drinks and chat, all good.a week or so later, she came to my place, we had our fun.she left early the next morning for work, i thought all was good.got a message 2 days later saying she was disappointed i didn't check that she got home ok, it showed that i had no concern for her welfare apparently?was i a slack ass?? Hi. Not sure. This could actually be a good topic. Why don't you post this as a new topic. I'd be interested to hear how other women feel about this. I'm kind of in a transitional phase. I've always been down to business, hookup and part company and either hear from them again or not, whatever the case may be. I've always been fine with that but just lately, I'm not sure. It's because I have such a high sex drive and it's really annoying when a meet goes really well, brief communication after the event but then the guy goes quiet and I sit here and feel a bit ripped off that I don't know when I'll next get to have my filthy way with him. Particularly when they express how good it was for them, physically and verbally in the days following, then nothing. It leaves me thinking, if I was that good, why don't they want to have sex with me again, and then I pout like a spoilt child. Why can't we make appointments lol so we can book in sex every day for next month, let's say and we don't have to spend all the in between time going without sex and/or wondering when the next fuck is going to be. I have needs So her disappointment could have been a mix of what she told you along with just wanting some follow up contact, because it can leave women feeling cold without that contact. And I don't mean being in contact all the time but just to let them know the time with them did matter to you, that they were special. I'm struggling a bit with that at the moment. I'm sure it's just a phase. This bloody weather is getting me down. When it's this cold and crappy, I need a hot bod to stash under the covers and keep me warm more than ever, pouting again
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'coupleofnaughtys' Went to pick up a couple that we had been exchanging messages from and pictures. Thought we were talking to the wife the whole time. At our place enjoying drinks. Found out the guy had limited time to live. The wife new nothing about why she was there and he told us he prostituted her out for money for his habit. He pretended to be her on the phone during the messages. The wife finally found out the truth, they had a big blue. She stormed out of the house into the night. The guy still hit us up for a threesome. We walked him to the door and said enjoy the rest of your time. Mate. This ain't going to happen. EVA!!!!!!!! Now that's a horror story. That's bizarre! I'm a bit confused by bit about him prostituting her out for money for his habit. What habit did he have?I'm almost afraid to ask And if he did that, how is it she didn't know? And what did he tell her to get her to come to your place? 20 questions here, I'm sure I'm just having a blonde moment. Don't worry, I have plenty of them. Definitely bizarre though. But wow, that's the strangest thing. I'm guessing he thought you'd feel sorry for him and go through with it. That's really dodgy though. I mean, how would you know anyway if he was actually on limited time, so to speak. Not that that would make a difference to me either. Good for you for showing him the door. Kerb was the best place for him
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RHP User
10 years ago
I could seriously write a book about this. Again, going back a long way to my beginnings doing this, I wanted to explore, open myself up to new sexual experiences, not limit myself to my old way of thinking. I randomly came across a disabled guy (online), in a wheelchair, got talking to him. He seemed really nice, we chatted a lot and the chat got sexy. I didn't know exactly what his disability was or the extent of it, but I think he told me a bit. I meanwhile had all these thoughts flashing through my head about what I could do for him/to him yeah, you don't want to know, what goes through my brain is a nightmare lol, but example, worst case scenario, I figured if he didn't have any feeling in his nether region, his brain could engage, and who better than me to put on a show for him Lots of other thoughts in between no feeling and some, although the guy was in a wheelchair for a reason so I wasn't expecting too much, but was up for spending time with him and letting it happen, whatever that might be, even friends. So went to meet him and yeah, really nice guy but I got the shock of my life. Severely disabled and I can't elaborate on that. I couldn't just leave but his speech was very limited and tedious, hard work to try to exchange any kind of talk. I stayed for a short while, so I didn't appear rude, and left, but I was furious. He should have told me. His answer to that was that people need to get to know him in person. The whole exercise took about 4 hours out of my day, partly because he was so late because of his disability, hours late. I told him to be honest in his ad online, that he needed to be upfront. That fell on deaf ears, he still has the same ad on or I saw it not long ago. So that was bizarre. What greeted me was not even close to what I was expecting. Guess he's hoping some chick will feel sorry for him but he wasn't capable of physical or even verbal communication/contact, so what he hoped to get out of it, is a mystery to me. He was a quad, starved of oxygen at birth and severely disabled, but why didn't he tell me this before ?? Another lesson learned
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Quoting 'coupleofnaughtys' Went to pick up a couple that we had been exchanging messages from and pictures. Thought we were talking to the wife the whole time. At our place enjoying drinks. Found out the guy had limited time to live. The wife new nothing about why she was there and he told us he prostituted her out for money for his habit. He pretended to be her on the phone during the messages. The wife finally found out the truth, they had a big blue. She stormed out of the house into the night. The guy still hit us up for a threesome. We walked him to the door and said enjoy the rest of your time. Mate. This ain't going to happen. EVA!!!!!!!! Now that's a horror story. That's bizarre! I'm a bit confused by bit about him prostituting her out for money for his habit. What habit did he have?I'm almost afraid to ask And if he did that, how is it she didn't know? And what did he tell her to get her to come to your place? 20 questions here, I'm sure I'm just having a blonde moment. Don't worry, I have plenty of them. Definitely bizarre though. But wow, that's the strangest thing. I'm guessing he thought you'd feel sorry for him and go through with it. That's really dodgy though. I mean, how would you know anyway if he was actually on limited time, so to speak. Not that that would make a difference to me either. Good for you for showing him the door. Kerb was the best place for him Can't wait to read the answers to I Touch's questions coz I had the same questions.Coupleofnaughtys, can you please elaborate, thanks.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Winmor' met with a woman for drinks and chat, all good.a week or so later, she came to my place, we had our fun.she left early the next morning for work, i thought all was good.got a message 2 days later saying she was disappointed i didn't check that she got home ok, it showed that i had no concern for her welfare apparently?was i a slack ass?? I would say its more that she was disappointed that you didnt' make any contact afterwards rather than it being about her welfare like i touch said its not a nice feeling when there is no after contact made or it drops off.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' it's really annoying when a meet goes really well, brief communication after the event but then the guy goes quiet and I sit here and feel a bit ripped off that I don't know when I'll next get to have my filthy way with him. Particularly when they express how good it was for them, physically and verbally in the days following, then nothing. It leaves me thinking, if I was that good, why don't they want to have sex with me again, and then I pout like a spoilt child. I agree and I dont understand why , if it was good they don't want to arrange to have ongoing sex ? from what I hear its not easy for single men out there so why not line up something regular? a sure thing? i dont get it .. then i question if they just lied about it being good . It sucks because then you have to start all over again.*shrug* I'll never understand. Maybe its all about the thrill of the chase or they are out to bang as many as they can .. who knows :/
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm still not great at quoting people where they have also quoted someone.. so I kinda messed up my post. My bad!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I really believe with some guys, not all, they just want one of, and then move on to the next. There are other meets where I don't feel the chemistry, for them or me, so happy to have no communication after the event, and mostly likely they're the same, you can just feel it. But the ones that are off the planet good, the encounter and their reaction, and mine, when it all comes together, that's where it gets frustrating. wtf I think the same as you, I'm a sure thing lol and I'm horny. I'm sure in the process of moving from one to the other, day in day out, they must have bad encounters, but they don't seem to care. And I do think a lot of men have that fear of women getting too attached to them. That's not a problem in my case, I just want sex with guys who are passionate and I connect with. Anyway, I'm doing alright here at the moment, but for how long. Hate having to go back to the drawing board
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RHP User
10 years ago
And I cant work out the quoting thing plus I'm on a iPad so I think it has something to do that! I'm also quoting PoisonIV who say "me too" Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' it's really annoying when a meet goes really well, brief communication after the event but then the guy goes quiet and I sit here and feel a bit ripped off that I don't know when I'll next get to have my filthy way with him. Particularly when they express how good it was for them, physically and verbally in the days following, then nothing. It leaves me thinking, if I was that good, why don't they want to have sex with me again, and then I pout like a spoilt child. I agree and I dont understand why , if it was good they don't want to arrange to have ongoing sex ? from what I hear its not easy for single men out there so why not line up something regular? a sure thing? i dont get it .. then i question if they just lied about it being good . It sucks because then you have to start all over again.*shrug* I'll never understand. Maybe its all about the thrill of the chase or they are out to bang as many as they can .. who knows :/ Yep it happens to me too , but it's part my fault I don't contact them back as I think if they want to play again they can contact me , but the ones that don't come back your left wandering why for a short time but doesn't do good to your self-esteem for a bit at times ,but I bring it down to males and maybe some of the guys do want to play again but there unsure if I want to again? As I'm not going to chase them . But it dose feel good if the ones you want to come back , do come back again .
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