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February 23 2013

Now I have been a member on here for longer than I would like to admit off and on but mostly on and over the years I see a running trend. This is an online dating "community" and it is very prominent to that word "Community" Now I have nothing against the friendships on here I know a lot of strong ones exist I will not mention usernames and I myself just from frequenting chats and such have become a known member in such groups. Get to the point you say...Okay than. My view is that a lot of the people in these tight clicks (there are a few) are almost territorial in there spaces ie:Forums,Wa chat,Vic chat or adult chat (the fav) I don't think that this is done on purpose I think it is a comfort thing even though we are online they become familiarised by there environment and people here.But when a new member comes into the equation it is almost like they have to pass some kind of initiation to hang out and be heard by the " cool kids of this playground" some get easily accepted others not so much. It also seems if a new member upsets one of the ancients ( I'm sure that just upset a few) than they now have a pack mentality to help deal with this "Newbie". So who here agrees with what I have said? Who here thinks I am wrong and delusional? And who here thinks some attitudes towards new members needs readjusting?- Posted from rhpmobile

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Rhp_rebecca

13 years ago

We do not feature an edit button for Forums posts for a number of reasons. As stated in one of our stickies, we believe that our posters should think twice before posting. There is no point being able to edit something if you post it in the first place and it ends up upsetting or annoying people anyway.We will look at providing a means for people to remove their own post in a set timeframe but we do not wish to investigate squabbles AND refer to various revisions of a post that was supposedly offensive.You cannot edit something that you commit verbally to someone in real life. You can only apologise for what was said. We believe the same should be the case in Forums but if there is a comment or post that was deemed very offensive, the post can be reported to us for review.As for comments that were considered offensive in this post, we have chosen not to remove it considering the poster of the comment has clarified their position on the matter.This Topic will however, be closed.

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