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Danger Danger Beware

May 19 2014

Yes we have all heard the stories and dangers of women meeting men and some outcomes can be very unsavory and down right dangerous ending in abuse or stalking intimidating behaviour !! Well remember ladies and gentlemen this is not only a womans problem with men ?? I have had a lovely phone stalker that i miss dearly ! But may i share with you my latest terrifying event ! It all started not more than a week ago , on a seemingly safe internet dating site , vanilla some may say ,! Now on this site i have quite a different profile one that i did think worked quite well at filtering what i did not want !! Nothings perfect ! A couple of conversations in and i work on the motto of meeting asap as much as a person can be enjoyed when messaging in real life face to face meeting is the only way to truly know if you can continue . So as usual i offer a coffee , lunch , whatever the woman feels comfortable with so lunch it is . 18/5/2014 time of arrival 12:36 pm as usual i am late ! Orders beer walks outside music two piece band place is alive and vibrant, i head for a corner table one of only two or three choices ! Minutes later i notice a head that with a similar hair cut and colour must be my date , move towards her and instantly i feel no initial attraction ! And yes disappointing but its the name of the game , but we chat and make small talk and well i offered lunch so i am not going to walk out and say sorry not interested i purchase lunch for us both which was delicious i mite add . Another beer and i decide to let it be known my intentions and feelings ??? Well miss seriously i think you can do a lot better than me , as i do not feel i can offer you what you desire or want at this stage of my life . I did of course sense some dynamic changes in the mood at the time and miss was quite upset , i took her hand and told her not to worry this was her first date for a while and she would indeed find the man that she so desires . We leave the premises she thanks me for being honest and we depart . Well my oh my i have met with rejection on many occasions and rejected on many occasions but what followed was quite perplexing indeed ,miss being upset was in absolute denial and could not accept the fact i felt no attraction to her she abused me saying i was inhumane and not fair ! I did not even try to get to know her ! I am a fool i could of had anything ! I am i lier because im just not into her ! My last comment before i had to stop this barrage was . I did not have feeling for you like you wanted me to did you want a man that feels nothing fill you of fake feelings so you could feel full ?? Well it got so bad i had to turn my phone off and when i turned it back on later that night i am the hunted . Now miss evil is going to hunt me down ring my work brake me into two abuse me threaten me till she is satisfied i am fucked !!!!!!! For look at what i have done i have pissed her off now and i had better look out cause the beast is hunting men !!!! Men beware of the beast that prowls in the hills where the apples grow ????????? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Geeeeee..... and you want us to accept the woman in your story was the unhinged one. That last reply above helps a lot lol

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Geeeeee..... and you want us to accept the woman in your story was the unhinged one. That last reply above helps a lot lol Some men just like to vent, or react in different ways. Not everyone has a PhD in man behaviours.Recently I had problems with tenants, I tried the nice approach it did not work. A nice young fella who was just out of jail, decided to give them a little talking too. Never raised his voice at all, just said him and his mates just out of jail would help them move. Sometimes diplomacy does not work and you have to fire one of the bow

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Mr Lad bland gets you nowhere buddy try mixing things up a tad , and i dont make up stories ok. So i suggest if you think i do message me personally and i will explain to you mr lad how the human brain can manifest in so many ways whether you are in control or not !! And seeing that i make all my decisions in life i would indeed suggest i am in control . Are you mr lad you seem to doubt so many , maybe it is you who infact is doubtful of ones own abilities ? Hmmmm? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Thanks for the consult, Dr Freudenstein lol

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Pleasure - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Bigocean72' Give 'm to me if your out there reading this you dirty fucking fake dog send me a message you fucking dog !! - Posted from rhpmobile Relax there Big O. Take it easy. As lovely as it sounds, not sure why you reacted that way but as much as chivalry is wonderful, your sentiments are misplaced, specially if you are not in a position to help. Going head-on is not always the best approach to the problem. Sydney667 needs to keep her wits about herself and be given salient advice, not a show of bravado and false hope of being saved. “Bravery without forethought, causes a man to fight blindly and desperately like a mad bull. Such an opponent, must not be encountered with brute force, but may be lured into an ambush and slain.” Sun Tzu , Art of War

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    12 years ago

    It must be a stressful and dreadful experience I imagine and I feel for you. A bit of advcice is to talk to a trusted friend or family, bounce ideas for way forward to protect yourself and kids (physically and mentally), take it to the police, which I believe you may have, and contact FB and all your friends about this wacko. Hope they are smart enough to recognize the issue and delete the offending member. Name the suspect to the police, RHP and FB make them aware of the abuse. They have certain policies in place to make RHP a safe place for all. Breath, be still and plan your moves with some help. don't go blindly into the fray. and seek help where and when needed. Take back your power to fight back and take back control of your life rather that let him manipulate everything to his advantage. Turn the tables and let him sweat his tiny balls off. Lol. “The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting.” ― Sun Tzu, The Art of War wishing you the best in the future.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting bigoceans first sentence in his topic....."some outcomes can be very unsavory and down right dangerous ending in abuse or stalking intimidating behaviour !!" .........and his most recent one... "Give 'm to me if your out there reading this you dirty fucking fake dog send me a message you fucking dog" Hmmmmm DG

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Just Ocean protecting his flock DG, just being a bloke and in bloke terms really what he is saying is " hey you dirty fucking dog, hurt my ladies and I will hunt you down and give you a good firm talking too." Testosterone and the fight or flight instinct can be uncontrollable, and fair enough the control thing comes down to ones ability to foresee consequences as a result by the actions taken and if one can sleep at night then those consequences have been reckoned with.

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    12 years ago

    You make a good translator for Big O. Ever considered a career in diplomacy? We do need world peace.... lol X - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I can go from Betty Crocket , humming in the kitchen and baking a cake to Broom Hilda in a flash I guess guys can be the same, we all flip flop in posts now and again, tis the nature of da human. that's what makes the forums so interesting If we were all politically correct and minded our ps and q then it would be zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz land. our finger tips are just extensions of our thinking at the time. now you boys, shake hands or I will grab you both by the ear and smack your bottoms! but only if you ask nice

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Fuck i love the forum. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    In a topic intended to warn others about irrational impulsive and intimidating behaviour..... the author takes the time to intentionally and deliberately draft (edit?) and hit submit on his own display of precisely that. That reflects upon the topic, somewhat. ;-) DG

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Pull ya finger out your ass - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I thought you loved the forum?! ;-) lol

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Just trying to help ya loosen up !! :-)) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I could not be more relaxed arrrghh !!! Stretch ! Farts ! Picks ! Nose ! Throws feet up and hahahaha i love the forum ! Bahahahaha was getting boring ! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    When I called out to Tara and said "Hey Ocean has a stalker", we burst into fits of laughter, after the tears resided, I explained the circumstances, " she said oh Ocean has probably just got aching balls, stay with him until he settles a little", So we did and eventually he fell asleep, first thing he did when he woke was scratch his balls which is really just an impulsive and soothing feeling from being stretched, it causes an itch. In fact Ocean sacrificed his overly filled balls by walking away from what turns out a lunatic woman, he did the right thing at his own expense. Too think the moral of the story is that even a man can have feelings and even when the balls are aching,if it aint right he can walk away and ocean did so politely.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    A) I couldn't believe this thread got so much airplay. B) soinds like you're just as "loopy" as your bunny boiler. C) Obviously her crazy just wasn't the same as your crazy. I'd loosen the hold a bit mate, you're starving yourself of oxygen then again.......

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Passionate2012' Thank You Bigocean Sometimes we get so into the moment that we forget not all people are normal. The dating arena can be a dangerous and fragile environment. It's nice to be reminded. Define 'normal'.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Big O is just away with the ferries:-) :-) his is a Don Quixote like take on love and life...a romantical man whose quest for the one lead him to meet a woman who wasn't.... xx Q

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    You're absolutely correct....providing his account is accurate.... What if....we change a couple of details here...... He grabs a beer, sees the lady, heads on over all is well but he ignores his initial "I dunno about this" feeling. They have a great lunch, laughing, holding hands and she puts her hand on his leg and winks.... As he nearly cums in his pants with anticipation he embraces her long and passionately and starts to get a feel in while waiting for lunch..... Until.... He gets to her bikini line, and discovers that Lucy, forgot to mention she was a Luke. "How could this be??" Big O thinks....."she's Fucken bigger than me!!!" His raging hardon goes down like the titanic, and says "stop...stop....look I can't do this. I thought I could, but I'm just not feeling it!!" Of course Lucy is going to be pissed!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    The old Luke, Lucy twist Now what was that song from Spinal Tap?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I thought it was a song by Prodigy called "Breathe" ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    What ya had for lunch??? lol I just guess some people don't take rejection all that well.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Yes i will come clean !!! On that same fateful day i met my not quite as loopy as me bunny boiling boy or girl ?? I confess i had booked a double DATE !!! Dom dom dom !!! Yes i know some may think that is a bit slutty however i was prebooked with my dinner date and it was a last minute slide in loopy lucy !!! Funny thing my second date on that fateful day was actually my second date with a fine woman i have met once before so yes this was infact my second date with a lady from the same vanilla site where i discovered bunny boiling loopy lucy !!!! Dom dom dom !!! And infact my dinner date went extremely well thank you and after we went to watch a movie on the big screen and it was there i recieved my first ever big screen blow job which the contents of my massive full ball bag was swallowed completely leaving not a trace of evidence on any cinema seat !! And i do hope to to view another quality film in the future . :-p wait for it !!!!! Bahahahahahaha! Oh! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    I got a great blowjob too. bahahahahaha I told Tara I had aching balls, you know seized the moment.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I know most would be over this now but i recieved a message from the girl i took to lunch !! Yes i unblocked number just for curiosty sakes what shall i do seriously nothing i think and do not reply i think ?? She sent me Hi i really appolagise for my behaviour the other day it was crazy and im seeing somone about some help. I hope you can forgive me oneday and i wish you well . I think i should not reply .seriously what should i do nothing or reply ?? Anyone ?? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Hahahahaha legend mado Nice skills tara :-)) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Just leave it as that and close the chapter

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    You're full of it.....

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    "Alice" has fallen down the hole. .... seriously some forum peeps are scary. ... just sayin

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    probably seeing your dinner date. dom dom dom domdomdom

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    But I'm of the firm belief we shouldn't be encouraging some of the shit posters dragging the quality of the forums down. And I'll probably get a warning over that statement, but Mods it's TRUE!!!

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    Indeed they are 😳

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    12 years ago

    Enchanting little story that......but one point that has probably been missed is . the psychotic ones are nearly always fire cracker lovers, and so it's a tug of war between awesome sex..... against.....your fucking mental, and I can't talk to you...lol Sorry but I just thought I would throw that into the cesspool.

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Bigocean72' I know most would be over this now but i recieved a message from the girl i took to lunch !! Yes i unblocked number just for curiosty sakes what shall i do seriously nothing i think and do not reply i think ?? She sent me Hi i really appolagise for my behaviour the other day it was crazy and im seeing somone about some help. I hope you can forgive me oneday and i wish you well . I think i should not reply .seriously what should i do nothing or reply ?? Anyone ?? - Posted from rhpmobile WTH? Me thinks you are starting to like the attention you are getting from her (your stalker) or are we on episode 220 of this soap opera? I thought you just want her to leave you alone? I must have taken the wrong turn somewhere? Lol. You know what we all think if you read the previous posts. from the good women and men who have responded to your thread. time to put this drama to bed?cheerio

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    From all the gossip and bullshit from behind the scenes Indi, it has become ridiculous, the snide remarks and rallying, personal attacks in force. Nothing more too say.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Unless it was an adult movie house, that would piss me of no end. I would bitch slap the woman. Drag you out in the street by your clock and call a cop. And that's just for talking during the movie. Seriously in an ordinary movie is not on as we don't go to hear some woman slurping on a cock, it's right up there with sex in a disability toilets

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'madotara69' The quality of these forums has turned to shit From all the gossip and bullshit from behind the scenes Indi, it has become ridiculous, the snide remarks and rallying, personal attacks in force. Nothing more too say. But yes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Now that was tacky....I hope it was an R rated movie and that you didn't frighten small children or give an old person a heart attack....Indy I'm with Mado ,if you don't like the post move on,if you don't like the poster same,same...Q

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Over the years, I have seen this happen time after time, psychotic women taking a turn now and then, usually at parties where the attention can be overwhelming, off they go the life of the party as they pick the target and scream, yell, threaten, tear their own hair out in fits of rage, usually over a bit off jealousy, some one looks at another the wrong way, the partner cops a load of shit and grabs his missus and makes a quick exit, then you see them another time and it is like nothing happened, but it does again at other times, same show different crowds. These blokes put up with it because they are attached, maybe in love with those women and when times are good the banter is of the great sex life, most end up divorced in the end though. Now the same could be said about men, but in this topic it is about a disturbed woman. The rest of Oceans posts about another date has nothing to do with this one woman yet because there is some judgement to the nature of Oceans dating style, in comes the troops too judge him on that as all part as one thing. So Ocean goes to meet a date for lunch, she ain't what she showed him in the pics, he is put off at the first sign when seeing her, he buys her lunch lets her down lightly, fucks off and later meets another date, that is not breaking any rules, the first date goes phsyco on the texting thing and threatens him personally, it happens (seen it first hand) she calls him every name under the sun, hates him with passion, later when she comes down she is sorry and aware of her problem (blackout) She knows it. So Ocean may just be the type of guy that attracts a woman like that, it's usually the live ones that do.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    We were alone in cinema btw ! Yep only two in the entire cinema . Oh and btw bahahahahaha - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Fuck your good :-)) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Hey bigO, I think you need this! *hands bigO a ladle* ;P - Posted from rhpmobile

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    12 years ago

    You could have easily made her decide she doesn't like you in another way. For instance, in a way that gives her the opportunity to maintain her self confidence and self esteem. I think you were actually unusually cruel and selfish. Never underestimate the value of falling on your own sword to protect the interests of others, brother. HugsGazpacho

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Big o, I changed my mind about your post It started out fine. I get that you rejected a woman. No big deal, I can be as blunt as you regarding that. But then you unraveled like a jumper. And mando, , his dating style has nothing to do with it. He failed to mention he was alone at the movie, unlikely as it was in the evening and weekend. My crapo meter started to go off. Like one person said it was tacky. I also agree it's time to fall on your sword. I think you did lead this woman on, so be I bit wiser in the future. You had 2 women lined up, that tells me a great deal about you motivation. We are not dial a cunt. Some women get to feel that way, especially if they are not thought of as classic beauty. You looked you judged, and you patronised , then you went to plan b.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    And i judge all by one week of there actions be it good or bad ?? Come on get on the program thats why i love a stir !!it winds up the hypocrits and pompas asses to show that maybe even the ones with a single face may just be sporting another under a veil of indecision in there own complicated lives and if anyone thinks a life is not complicated full of many emotions decisions good or bad then i would say to them ? Bullshit , every one of us makes decisions good and bad. its i feel if we never learn from the decisions and choices we make then that is i suggest a waste of time effort good will and energy , but i can tell you one thing i will never judge assume or expect i know anybody truly from a dating site forum i dont give a fuck what they say or rave its just common sense you know nobody intimately sometimes even when they are your partner !!!!! Good day . - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    did she have no teeth? am glad I am not in a position to be dating... while her behavior was well and truly over the top, do you honestly expect to feel 'connection' after one date? I couldn't stand my husband when I first met him, or the second date - 23 yrs later I couldn't imagine being with anybody else. Just keep in mind, true love grows. I think a lot of people , especially when they are older and wiser (not necessarily saying you) have a list of how a person should be, and if they don't tick off everything on that list then they are cast aside. You could actually be cheating yourself out of something much bigger and better than you ever imagined, just she wont be packaged like Elle McPherson.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Yeah.... That program needs it's meds.....

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    I was not referring too your post, just the OP about the beware thingy, there is sycophant women, on these sites, it only makes sense that many of them are unstable in life and it's around the mid life era, they are into another stage of their life as single women. We can live in a bubble of denial, but truthfully speaking, there is a growing number of people in this condition, and this type of site is a refuge of a kind, safe to dip the toes until an episode brings the reality crashing down that there is a problem going on up there with the missfires in the noggin. If we go back too your first posts Lady T, there was a classic example. Not really that concirned with oceans other date posts, though I believe he was provoked a little, so he threw it back.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Sphsyco

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    psycho

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Are all around us, and we also become the unhinged now and again. I know what you mean about mid life relationships for both men and women. Often divorced and looking for something better than what they had. Looking for that romance, looking for perfection, looking looking looking , and looking right past people in front of them in every day life. How many men actually ask a woman out without having met her online? It is a real challenge to meet someone offline, you cant chat up a woman at work anymore you cant say gosh you are one smoking hot sexy woman, to anyone in public or even pay a compliment to a woman or you face the prospect of being slapped down or looked down on. at pubs you cant talk to a woman she is mostly with her girlfriends and they dance together so who is brave enough to break into the girl pack. and girls, the young as well as the middle and the old, here we are looking for MR all right for me on line, when that same dude could be sitting in his apartment right next to your apartment, and you don't even notice him. We sum up a person in five seconds, now the not so pretty are set aside so quickly that they never get a chance to show who they are inside. the not so handsome guy who is shy, is flicked away with distain I think we all deserve what we get, a big empty bed and life if that's what we want to do is skim the saucer of milk. we need to find more depth in ourselves and in others. rejection by women on a sex site is not so bad as there are hundreds of NEXT but rejection after rejection on a relationship site would crush anyone Ladyt fucking lucky woman to have her man

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I think the program has had TOO many meds... Probably more plausible perhaps?? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    It's quiet normal seeming ones you have to watch out for. Who's seen the movie? . I'm getting a goose / gander vibe here Mado.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'MrsPeachyFool' It's quiet normal seeming ones you have to watch out for. Who's seen the movie? . I'm getting a goose / gander vibe here Mado. I am not saying just women, I made that point earlier that is on both sides of the genders. All I am saying is it happens.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Just thinking about judging people on their behaviour. BigO is fortunate to have had you at his back. I hope the woman is okay.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Your post began as a sympathy plea... Morphed into a "plan b so fuck the first cow for not being attractive enough" Then it's head on into a "just kidding" skit... Now it's a scientific experiment using controls, variables in the name of trying to prove..... What exactly?? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    Because I started thinking maybe your husband was trying to "do away" with you....😉

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Just a good discussion ! Well good or bad thats your choice but either way your in on it ! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'lilyorchid' time to put this drama to bed? Please!!

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'sir_stir' Your post began as a sympathy plea... Morphed into a "plan b so fuck the first cow for not being attractive enough" Then it's head on into a "just kidding" skit... Now it's a scientific experiment using controls, variables in the name of trying to prove..... What exactly?? - Posted from rhpmobile Fruit loops come in all colours, I am a blue one.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Yes we did go slightly left of centre from the opening post but goes to show how far things do go and how things get blown up and out of proportion leaving the original post about a troubled woman in a rejected state only a few remember !! Well i remember her and i dont unblock her to coaxe back into anything and i have not contacted her and will not but the reason why i was curious was for the welfare for the woman in question in the first place because believe it or not i give a fuck ! About alot of things in life especially when i have hurt another be it intentionslly or in this case unintentionally , and the fact that i did recieve a message from her appolagising and regreting what happened tells me for now she will be fine and that makes me feel a little better in the fact that she will be ok in time may take but she will be ok ! And if i have upset anybody else along the way with my well sometimes a little uummm lets just say unique style shall we, i am truly sorry as much as i love to stir i also can give it but of course cant take it ! Hahaha anyway i will shut this one down thankyou all and did hit over 150 comments so im happy hahahaha . - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Bigocean72' and the fact that i did recieve a message from her appolagising and regreting what happened We all have our moments...

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Bigocean72' Yes we did go slightly left of centre from the opening post but goes to show how far things do go and how things get blown up and out of proportion leaving the original post about a troubled woman in a rejected state only a few remember !! Well i remember her and i dont unblock her to coaxe back into anything and i have not contacted her and will not but the reason why i was curious was for the welfare for the woman in question in the first place because believe it or not i give a fuck ! About alot of things in life especially when i have hurt another be it intentionslly or in this case unintentionally , and the fact that i did recieve a message from her appolagising and regreting what happened tells me for now she will be fine and that makes me feel a little better in the fact that she will be ok in time may take but she will be ok ! And if i have upset anybody else along the way with my well sometimes a little uummm lets just say unique style shall we, i am truly sorry as much as i love to stir i also can give it but of course cant take it ! Hahaha anyway i will shut this one down thankyou all and did hit over 150 comments so im happy hahahaha . - Posted from rhpmobile Well, I still like you. I'm not about to stake out a spot next to all the other crazy bitches you attract though. HugsGazpacho

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    12 years ago

    FMD! ..... I can't believe what I've just read!! I'll put a big kettle onto boil......... and make everyone a cup tea........Fluffy Bunny Tea Party...anyone?? Kiss and make up...well in Big O's case...a BJ in a movie! Time to rest now... Foxy

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    You didn't get to have the last word afteral Big O.....now I shall go check on those windmills :-) :-) xx Q

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I guess they don't all live under bridges....

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    ....

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'madotara69' So Ocean may just be the type of guy that attracts a woman like that, it's usually the live ones that do. Well mado you have been around, that I why you get my vote as Mediator of the forums...also mediator also sort of rhymes with madotara .....so maybe you could change it to medotara ? or does that sound to tamponish ?

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Now that you have settled Ocean, perhaps next time you are passing a psychiatric hospital, maybe you should call in and introduce yourself.

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'madotara69' makes me sound like a cunt Again Not at all mado...everyone knows you might be a bit prickly on the outside, but your soft and smooth and generous on the inside, now does that make you sound like a cunt I ask you ? lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Suggesting that I am a little crazy Mado?:-) perhaps you are right psychs can be very sexy ya know :-) xx Q

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    I have woken too two of the most spectacular questions, in both cases I am hardly worthy of such,but too the thoughts of the cunt................................. and with the thoughts, they are something warm and soft and inviting, lovely little things in all manner of speaking, possibly the the most meaningful creation by mother nature herself as they are connected to the mind. Can't remember a prickly one tamworth, you got me there. (reminds me not to go any where near the nut sack with the ladies Epilady, yes beware indeed). Bring a grown man too tears it does!!! Why has come too mind escapes me, however a partial quote from Napolian XlV Remember when you ran away And I got on my knees and begged you Not to leave because I'd go beserk? Well! You left me anyhow and Then the days got worse and worse And now you see I've gone completely Out of my mind And! They're coming to take me away Ha, ha, they're coming to take me away Ho, ho, hee, hee, ha, ha To the funny farm Where life is beautiful all the time And I'll be happy to see Those nice young men In their clean white coats And they're coming to take me away Ha, ha! You thought it was a joke And so you laughed! You laughed When I had said that losing you Would make me flip my lid! Right?! You know you laughed I heard you laugh, you laughed You laughed and laughed And then you left But now you know I'm utterly mad And! They're coming to take me away Haha, they're coming to take me away Ho, ho, hee, hee, ha, ha To the happy home with trees and flowers And chirping birds and basket weavers Who sit and smile and Twiddle their thumbs and toes And they're coming to take me away Ha, ha!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Are you for real?????WE really do put ourselves in bad positions with some meets.So far I have stuck with 'Meet n Greets' at McCafes or the like.I make it perfectly clear I am not interested after chatting. I have had one stalker but that was prior to me joining this siteI never will be certain as to who it was and why that got such a perverse thrill out of taunting me. They new my every move.I had to change my number 3 times.... I think I'm still beingscrutinized but more from a distance now. It seems when someone gets a hankering for you it can be a real problem if not nipped in the bud asap. In saying all this I had a mild infatuation for a guy and spent a lot of time texting him but he encouraged it and I let it continue.Not once did he say he wanted it to stop. Had he of done soI would of ceased the msgs... instead I got abuse for contactinghim. So guys in all fairness, be honest and upfront if you don'twant something. (I wasn't even given a hint that my msgs should stop!)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Aww bigocean, sorry to hear the bad news. Glad you shared your story, there are many that can relate I'm sure. I know your made of stronger stuff then to let that particular ordeal shake you. Hope the situation has improved for you, and your back to your old self. It is a clear reminder though to be carefull.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Believe it or not you are lucky ! She didn't have money. With that she could buy the cops have you put in Jail. When you get out, have you killed. Mad as it may seam. (that does not even, raise an eyebrow)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You live in Mexico or something? (Leave that Peyote alone.)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'fallen_one72' Aww bigocean, sorry to hear the bad news. Glad you shared your story, there are many that can relate I'm sure. I know your made of stronger stuff then to let that particular ordeal shake you. Hope the situation has improved for you, and your back to your old self. It is a clear reminder though to be carefull. No we are not Jesus ! Quoting "fallen_one" "there are many that can relate I'm sure" Would you like to hear Mr's story he is unlucky, yes unlucky. He has to remember what happened to him everyday of his life. No one knew if he would live. Broken neck, Back....critical...from one of us..... girls......I'll get him to tell you...........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have spoken to men who have had women turn up at their homes (or remote farm) even though they had not given an address. Refused to leave for 24 hours. Woke up to find her naked in his room . (And no he wasn't interested) Another who hadn't even met, just emailed her a few times, but the woman had asked for the measurements of the loungeroom to see whether her wall cabinet would fit ! lol Men are sometimes MORE vulnerable than women because if they react they can be seen as being aggressive. Be careful boys!... and girls ... x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I just got called a cunt by Mr Stigg, and not in a fun way. I'm sorry you went through all that, but you have issues, sir.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It just goes to show, that no matter how pretty some people are,they are still ugly.....hugs XxQ

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' I just got called a cunt by Mr Stigg, and not in a fun way. I'm sorry you went through all that, but you have issues, sir. Dobber. :p HUgsGaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I thought your comment..... in the context it was offered..... was funny And I say through Man On Fire lol I'm reminded of the Simon Gitane story though.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I SAT through.... man on fire

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Omg the woman needs drugs ,what a complete turn out ,the women's gone mad x

  • him_and_me

    him_and_me

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'passion8_l' Happens here, on vanilla sites and in real life. Not so long ago I politely refused a man who offered to buy me a drink at the crown casino, he seemed to take it ok and I thought that was the end of it. When I left alone several hours later I heard footsteps behind me as I was crossing the car park, having been the victim of a violent attack many years ago I didn't even look back. I ran to my car, got in, locked the door and took off. The bastard headed to the only exit where he knew I had to open my window to validate my ticket so the boom gate would open. Fortunately I got out before he got there but not before seeing the look of utter rage on his face. All that just because I refused a drink, I hate to think what he might have done if I had of accepted the drink but refused to go home with him. At no point did I encourage him or even look in his direction prior to him offering me the drink, who knows what goes on inside their head but his behaviour much like your date was totally irrational. Oh wow. That's so scary.... Glad you're ok. x Me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It does happen. You were honest, and yes there are some scary; dare I say desperate people out there. It happened to me twice this year. Where the invaded my personal space. I really feel for you. Just remember, if push comes to shove you may obtain as a last resort an Intervention Order. Best of luck. Koz.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I forgot to mention, there are some some really nice ladies out there on RHP. It takes time to meet them, however when you do do you'll forget about some of the nasties that are out there. Koz.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    12 years ago

    It's not just women... It's both sexes!! and I do recall you posted a on Topic of your experience. Hummm.... inviting them back to your place and cooking them breakfast if I recall. *goes back and re reads forum*... I find it funny that people that encourage/enable are the first to complain and twist they have "stalkers/bunnies" yet they've encouraged from the start and don't take responsibility of their own behaviour, rather make them selves the victim that they've done nothing wrong. Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    12 years ago

    😁 Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Dear Ocean.....how sad for you. This whole thing makes me sad......still please don't change I like people who are honest and direct, we don't have to be mean in saying when we are not attracted, so stay the way you are. We all can't see in another mind, but I would go to the police, I got blackmailed from some men long time ago and I went to my boss and told him about it because this guy wanted to send something to my work place, I also went to the police, they have ways I was told to ignore any messages from this person.....it is scary. I wish it will go all away for you soon.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Just goes too show electronic messaging in any form does not work. I wonder what messages were exchanged between the two of you before hand. Clearly context may not of been perceived as one thought. Suck it up princess.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    this is a world wide event, maybe a female zombie apocalypse???? ex wife nightmares are the worst. I suppose of my own making but....DAMN..... I'll say it again.... DAMN! she has since calmed down to 'cold and indifferent' status as opposing to carving my nuts off with a spoon. we are civilized with each other. i always had been. I have had a phone stalker recently, fairly certain it is from this site as I am on no others and rarely give my number to anyone. It could POSSIBLY be a hacker, not sure. I would not attribute it to my ex, as she would not waste the call unless she wanted me to pay off one of her credit cards or to tell me how much of a prick I am. I get calls all hours of the day and night, and when I answer (blocked call), it is just ....nothing. it is to the point now where at nights my phone goes on silent, and nobody has my home phone.I have never wronger anyone worse than I myself have been wronged by a long shot, And I never went to the extent of stalking or harassing people.at all.dont worry, it should be over with in about a year or two:) unless you are dead beforehand.... with a butter knife in your testicles,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' It's not just women... It's both sexes!! and I do recall you posted a on Topic of your experience. Hummm.... inviting them back to your place and cooking them breakfast if I recall. *goes back and re reads forum*... I find it funny that people that encourage/enable are the first to complain and twist they have "stalkers/bunnies" yet they've encouraged from the start and don't take responsibility of their own behaviour, rather make them selves the victim that they've done nothing wrong. Foxy I recall something about an underwear delivery services

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I dont even know if it has been released here yet, but it is out on itunes in the states. this guy invents a 'cyborg', but really screwed up and give it a female psyche. He didnt make it for the military, he just wanted to make a cybernetic creature i guess.put her up against a platoon of troops and she mops the floor with them. WELL WELL WELL. think of a female terminator that is infatuated with its designer. as strong as arnoldmind of a 14 year oldlimitless intelligencebody of a smoldering hot 25 year oldand the jealousy of a full grown jilted femaleand he is in love with another woman.....I am going to download it. He is SOOOOO screwed!!!!and the bitch hates him.... and hates his girlfriend worse.....let go of my arm....OUCH!, let go of my arm! SNAPyou can run, but you cant hide....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    That is seriously fucked up

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' It's not just women... It's both sexes!! and I do recall you posted a on Topic of your experience. Hummm.... inviting them back to your place and cooking them breakfast if I recall. *goes back and re reads forum*... I find it funny that people that encourage/enable are the first to complain and twist they have "stalkers/bunnies" yet they've encouraged from the start and don't take responsibility of their own behaviour, rather make them selves the victim that they've done nothing wrong. Foxy Hey Foxy, Yup I did post and have those experiences. However they were meant to be NSA. I've had several since and yes sometimes do invite them back to either my home in the city or beach pad. And yes I still make them breakfast. And on the odd occasion do catch up again. However this seems to be a different circumstance. Like the rest of us. I'm here to have fun. If fun means sharing an intimate, sensual night with someone with the possibility of not seeing them again because that's what we agreed on, then fine. If we agree to see how it goes and if we're sexually compatible for things to comtinue then even better. However not at the expense of having my privacy violated. Not that anyone wants their privacy violated like I did or the OP in this situation. Koz.

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