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Confident Men

January 09 2018

Women apparently love confident men. I've witnessed the confident man in a party slap a bottom or two or give a lady a pash and off they go to a room. If I did that I'd probably be slapped or punched and thrown out. But given recent events in the news, when does the confident male overstep the boundry and risk receiving a summons for sexual assault or harassment. In this lifestyle confidence wins the girl but it risks being taken to court or dragged through the media years later. Does being a more reserved and less forward type put men at a disadvantage. I don't suffer a lack of confidence but don't want to be misunderstood or risk being labeled a pest. It's difficult to get the balance right. You want a confident man but if he's not your type watch out. But if he is how much is ok. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    In an age when an anonymous allegation can destroy your life and career, the right of reply is the least you can be afforded (if not the presumption of innocence) regardless of how confident you are of being right or that the allegation is false (also regardless of the number of people who will assume the allegation to be true). I think this also applies to the topic at hand. Can I be confident I have never done anything that may be used against me in time/s to come? Yes, but also no. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    She has you there Peachy. Totally

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    iam so sorry for going of topic but no one as go had my best mate and i do think tall is a real confidend guyin all things

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Is a moderator 🤔🤨🤯

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    No worries. I was surprised the topic lasted so long. Pleased attitudes toward women have changed and noticed both sexes have issues. Usually find consumption of alcohol has something to do with it. Also maybe the price charged to single guys at clubs might encourage some to try and get their money's worth and be a little too persistent. On another note it could be that you gorgeous ladies are so intimidating and some of us fear rejection lol. Not that we lack confidence 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Completely different scenario. I see you're coming out of your shell with the return of your back up crew to the forum. 🍑

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    We were just talking about age.... are you going to correct yours? I will if you will. ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Back up crew There’s a bit more comedy, if you scroll through the pages 😄 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    What was it you were trying to say? Psycho babble was it 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    anyway 😏

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    The plot thickens 😎 Goddamn I love this place 😜

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    8 years ago

    Wondering which thread you are saying I killed. I can certainly trace back to the post and thread and all who were concerned all and about, can't say same for the chat rooms that boiled around then. Toss a coin ? No, what will be will be, loved the lightning stormgreat one for our Snap shots thread. Once were sapling in a school children's play.... I'm growing to be an old oak tree, storms come and go precipitation (what a lovely meaning) it is in my nature to enjoy the mugginess because of the cool smell after the storm and the rain and become of the sentiments by the parliament of those wise owls over the years. xx

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    OP you're so right. Have you heard it said, instant arsehole just add alcohol?

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    Was directed at Peachy not anyone else. I just realized it could me misconstrued. Hi, Mado. Thanks for the offical outing. Haha.

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    That was a general "you're all" because this is at least the third time questions about Tall have come up by most of the same people. And every thread has ended up deleted or locked. The speed Meander's birthday thread got locked down at yesterday after the bickering on there, I'm surprised this has gone so long. Not my problem of course, but it would be encouraging to think people thought about the OP now and then, aside from their own selfish suspicions started on this thread by some profile that claims to be crazy. Peachy

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    8 years ago

    3 times you say Crazy girl makes a fourth ? Damn trendsetters out of the blue Sorry, I'm thinking of her too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    85 are from a male claiming he isn’t crazy to a woman who openly admits that she is!!! Talk about comedy 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    i did reply straight away T&H but the message was not allowed to be seen. apparently, differing opinions are not encouraged and complete solid knowledge is ignored and dismissed due to my being a newbie and your multiple profiles out number lil ol me, solidly backing up your fantasy life here. i was already bored to bits with all the pontificating. I cannot be bothered pointing out all the oh so obvious inconsistencies within your profile, your profile photos and those in so many of the other profiles you strategically place throughout this exciting and wonderful place i fondly call RHP land. I am more than happy to just bow out because as the fire got smothered and all the interesting replies that supported my oh so arrogant, or should i say CRAZY assertions were kept out of the forum due to their inflammatory nature, i found myself nodding off. in reality, people are like sheep, and people like you love to place yourself in the middle of sheep where you can direct them to say and act in ways that you encourage. this is your tight little enclave and i never had any intention of breaking it up. i just wanted to set a cat in amongst the pigeons, so to speak. See what would happen. whistle blowers are never popular people and it usually takes many before their "crazy rants" are discovered to have, in fact, been actually very real and and in their very nature very disturbing. if you truly want to prove that you are in fact a very badly aged 60 year old man, then go on cam and show us all? By the way, your description of yourself in your profile does not match the mean and angry looks you stare down into the camera for all of your photos. We are all aware of the other profile that uses the same stance in it's main photo that you have leaning against your car. but in his profile he is at least leaning up against a pole lol so once again i shall say i am deeply sorry to have caused you any angst Tall and Hard. I'm sorry you feel the need to cast aspertions on my mental state just because i have used a funny YouTube video and incorporated it into my ID here. Because of the Crazy V Hot vid, i have been able to break the ice in this kooky fun little place RHP land and have gained an cooperative and very good looking hugely long list of hotties, both men and women, who are falling over themselves to have me meet up or attend a party with them. I am gong to let myself go on friday night in this quaint little get together and in no time at all you will be a distant nightmare that just doesnt feature in my life anymore. Bye Bye TallHRed = i'll race you!

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    Yours was the first post here starting this craziness so we're glad you've volunteered to finish it. Happy travels. Now back to the discussion question the original poster was asking people about. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I was rolling thoughts around as a bit of mental chess Confidence is a pathway. Those holding it do not need to coerce or manipulate others into making that path easier or more supportive. The owner of confidence walks their own line which others can join, if they choose that same line. DG 😎

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    Bravo ML We have to catch up for a cocktail or two at Stowaway See Gomd? This is how real people who can really meet do it Isn’t that right ML

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Rumour has it 😄

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Lead, follow or get out of the way. I guess I am confident ML because I always have followed my own course.

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    Tumour Last I heard (because I asked), it's aok to have multiple profiles AND fudge your details. No one in the fora said anything to the women who fudged their details on the recently closed thread, one merely for aspiration. So I can confidently say... It's legal, none of your business and double standards. Being a bully and a bore isn't confidence. 🍑

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I love confident men. I married one who makes me feel good, and other women jealous. He doesn't need to slap arse... Because they're chasing him. But he only wants me... I am an incredibly lucky woman! 😍 🍑

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    From South Park One of his signature phrases was ''man, I have no idea what's goin' on''. This thread has been the most interesting for quite some time, but not for the original topic.

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    lol..... towelly was always high..... hardly surprising he had no idea what was going on 😂

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    Completely agree with you. There is NEVER a time to degrade a woman. There is of coarse an exception to this when playing BDSM. But that’s consensual between the players and usually in private - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I’m, last I knew “never” meant “never” I know a man who could say “never, except for....”. Turned out to be one of his worst qualities because it meant there was always an excuse for any and all poor behaviour BDSM is a very specific genre of sex that does not relate to real life at all. To bring this into the debate shows a total lack of respect for women on your behalf. Very poor form indeed

  • bonefide

    bonefide

    8 years ago

    Freaky I'll have two with remote control please

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    My lover is confident but he is also reserved. I'm reserved but i'm also fluid so i know how to break down his reserve. Yes confident but an arse slapper he is definitely not! Who even likes that in the middle of a crowded room? Unless you specifically want to be spanked, whacked? Men should know when to keep their hands to themselves or when it's the odd occasion where it is invited. LC.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I’m glad I’m not confident. Looks like trouble.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Not all of us are confident, men or women. Some men who do this may appear confident but deep down are attention seeking A-holes who just want attention and to look alpha in front of their mate with no regard what so ever to how disrespectful it is to the female. Refer to comments on Just add alcohol. The way some men have been raised as well has a lot to do with this behaviour. Traditions are shifting with women becoming more empowered which challenges the old "a woman's place is in the kitchen barefoot and pregnant". some men are still raised thinking this way. BB raised some very valid points about being able to go and chat to someone with confidence without being arrogant. I recently have come across a very rare gem. Sensitive and a little fragile. There is no ego whatsoever. He has this quietness about him that intrigues me and I want to know more. I would prefer that over an Alpha any day.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    There are women out there too who behave in this way and with the invention of social media and this cyber world where anything goes with out any consequences I am sure it will become more prevalent. The thing I have noticed the most is the general lack of respect people have for one another. So a confident man or woman going around touching people or acting inappropriately not Ok in any situation unless invited.

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    8 years ago

    to detract further from this topic, for those who my be wondering what has happened to the strange world of the Crazy Woman, I will be posting further information in the "Anything Goes" topic listing a bit later when I get some time. Tall

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'midnightblue71' Not all of us are confident, men or women. Some men who do this may appear confident but deep down are attention seeking A-holes who just want attention and to look alpha in front of their mate with no regard what so ever to how disrespectful it is to the female. Refer to comments on Just add alcohol. The way some men have been raised as well has a lot to do with this behaviour. Traditions are shifting with women becoming more empowered which challenges the old "a woman's place is in the kitchen barefoot and pregnant". some men are still raised thinking this way. BB raised some very valid points about being able to go and chat to someone with confidence without being arrogant. I recently have come across a very rare gem. Sensitive and a little fragile. There is no ego whatsoever. He has this quietness about him that intrigues me and I want to know more. I would prefer that over an Alpha any day. So Kylie Mole

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    and that little bit taller 👎👎 Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' to detract further from this topic, for those who my be wondering what has happened to the strange world of the Crazy Woman, I will be posting further information in the "Anything Goes" topic listing a bit later when I get some time. Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    that you didn't know her t n h

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I had a giggle imagining Kyle Mole lol Quoting 'madotara69' Quoting 'midnightblue71' Not all of us are confident, men or women. Some men who do this may appear confident but deep down are attention seeking A-holes who just want attention and to look alpha in front of their mate with no regard what so ever to how disrespectful it is to the female. Refer to comments on Just add alcohol. The way some men have been raised as well has a lot to do with this behaviour. Traditions are shifting with women becoming more empowered which challenges the old "a woman's place is in the kitchen barefoot and pregnant". some men are still raised thinking this way. BB raised some very valid points about being able to go and chat to someone with confidence without being arrogant. I recently have come across a very rare gem. Sensitive and a little fragile. There is no ego whatsoever. He has this quietness about him that intrigues me and I want to know more. I would prefer that over an Alpha any day. So Kylie Mole

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'midnightblue71' Not all of us are confident, men or women.----- so true Some men who do this may appear confident but deep down are attention seeking A-holes who just want attention and to look alpha in front of their mate with no regard what so ever to how disrespectful it is to the female. Refer to comments on Just add alcohol. The way some men have been raised as well has a lot to do with this behaviour. Traditions are shifting with women becoming more empowered which challenges the old "a woman's place is in the kitchen barefoot and pregnant". some men are still raised thinking this way. BB raised some very valid points about being able to go and chat to someone with confidence without being arrogant. I recently have come across a very rare gem. Sensitive and a little fragile. There is no ego whatsoever. He has this quietness about him that intrigues me and I want to know more. I would prefer that over an Alpha any day. I'd prefer confidence over arrogance and if someone is quietly confident that's a good trait to have imo :-)

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Rubi_Rose' and that little bit taller 👎👎 Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' to detract further from this topic, for those who my be wondering what has happened to the strange world of the Crazy Woman, I will be posting further information in the "Anything Goes" topic listing a bit later when I get some time. Tall and goes to prove that you don't read well enough either. Are you perhaps associated with her ???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    t & h btw did you use your ability's with regards to me not reading well enough because there out of whack. People can miss things you know, Iv'e seen it happen on the forums plenty of times.

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Rubi_Rose' t & h btw did you use your ability's with regards to me not reading well enough because there out of whack. People can miss things you know, Iv'e seen it happen on the forums plenty of times. I don't use my "abilities" here on site, unless requested.Psychics / mediums can generally 'switch off' from their abilities, and don't go snooping through other peoples personal issues through avenues such as this. Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    you seem to honour the ethics that come with your abilities. The only reason I voiced what I did in my post on the previous page was because of my own morals and ethics. Rubi Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' Quoting 'Rubi_Rose' t & h btw did you use your ability's with regards to me not reading well enough because there out of whack. People can miss things you know, Iv'e seen it happen on the forums plenty of times. I don't use my "abilities" here on site, unless requested.Psychics / mediums can generally 'switch off' from their abilities, and don't go snooping through other peoples personal issues through avenues such as this. Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    And we have just entered the twilight zone. 😶

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    confused Candy if that is what your post means, Tall is a Psychic MediumThat is the reference with regards to his abilities. Quoting 'CandyDelicious' And we have just entered the twilight zone. 😶

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Uh huh 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ..... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' Quoting 'Rubi_Rose' t & h btw did you use your ability's with regards to me not reading well enough because there out of whack. People can miss things you know, Iv'e seen it happen on the forums plenty of times. I don't use my "abilities" here on site, unless requested.Psychics / mediums can generally 'switch off' from their abilities, and don't go snooping through other peoples personal issues through avenues such as this.Here Tall I'll take that "requested" is an option by the ability to post reply, in my eye. 'Switch off' , sounds convincing The wonderful thing with discussion, in this instance: Confidant Men, the OP ponders upon a discussion with an heuristic incipit, expressing a holistic trivium. So in reality.. we have an optical illusion, Theoretically.. seeking a balanced common sense by the weight's ethics as opposed, Practically.. confidence and behavioural etiquette. The OP has put it in an eloquent sense, clearly the ('wow wtf !!, if I would ?, something tells me I can't') Caution prevails. Some people don't care to confidence anything other than in oratory confidante an insidious trait seeking sexual worship, rhetoric even. Problem is, impervious. I digress Hey Tall'Unless requested, (we can) switch off' Requesting you use this medium to the best of your abilities do what you do with me, sounds exciting ? does it work with men too ?

  • LetsFrolic

    LetsFrolic

    8 years ago

    The thing is if men aren't confident or make a move women don't even care that they're there.. then when we do women don't like it. Women just need to make the move themselves more - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I’m sure you’ll agree there’s a distinct difference between grabbing a random arse and confidence?? Women tend to make the first move in a public place usually anyway....her smile or non-verbal invitation that invites a male over to talk and introduce himself is a good example of that... I should add, I don’t recognise it either ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Just because she smiles at you, that’s not an open invitation! Damn you and your expectant white male privilege 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    8 years ago

    Anti is right. Big difference between being confident and just plain creepy. A confident man does not need to show off or drag a woman by her hair to his lair. A confident man's behaviour is one that is relaxed and happy with himself and his environment. He will exude these and put women at ease rather than the aggressive testosterone-driven behaviour of some desperadoes and misogynistic men out there. We women sense it and avoid the latter like a plague. Believe you me. We don't want to be in the company of malicious frustrated men who would just end up hurting us in so many ways. The latter just encourage us to carry a nail file in our purses for exit strategy 😜. Not that I have one 😉 Joking aside, be considerate, respectful and mindful of anyone's space and privacy, male or female. Overstepping it to the point of harassment and unwelcomed physical interaction is plain disrespectful, creepy and is plain criminal. Not acceptable. Imagine if someone physically assaulted your mother or sister or grandmother in a public setting. How would you feel? You get the picture?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    My bad...if she smiles, she just wants my dick in her throat...afterall, she’s already partially opening her mouth lol And... I’ll fit 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Itll fit It just wont reach her throat

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Exactly!!! So no more feeling too down okay?? You’re not the only one 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    8 years ago

    Anti, ML.. Get a room you two 😜

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Lily....mmmaybe.....just maybe we already are in the same room ....as the same person! lol One forum member knows how that’s done Dontcha K 😜

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    8 years ago

    Haha. A possibility but highly likely unless you are bipolar. 😜 And who is K? 😶

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' ....mmmaybe.....just maybe we already are in the same room ....as the same person! The "two become one" thing doesn't really count in that respect :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    How about one, becoming many K

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    Was a man in Black.... 😉 Or an x-file..... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    Btw I’d much prefer it we were like fight club lol You can be Tyler lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hi looking to meet someone nice.. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    I joined this site just this evening and it is much more interesting and rewarding than most. Nothing is ever as simple as it might seem. But my opinion is this. Michael Fallon touched the knee of a woman journalist who he knew well at a Tory conference party FIFTEEN YEARS AGO. It cost him his post as The Secretary of Defence. Boris Johnson has two illegitimate children both with young employees while he was editor of the spectator magazine. He also paid for two abortions for a third woman he was fucking. When he got the woman pregnant a second time, he promised that if she got rid of it he would leave his wife and marry her. Guess what. He didn't leave his wife. One of these men was an immature man who when he was made aware the line he has crossed, apologised got on with his life. The second has spent his entire adult life treating women, including his own wife like human crap with no value beyond his amusement. Who do you guys think is more damaging to women? Oh and if you want to read about the story, search online for "Helen Macintyre"

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    I did the briefest google search and see there is more to Michael Fallon than what you have said here already. News article EG: "The question in the first hours after Sir Michael's decision to quit was whether it was really over an event that occurred 15 years ago with a female journalist who brushed it off..He'd put a hand on her knee..She's questioned if his resignation is about more than that..His 45-second statement to the media and a follow-up interview where he talked of "occasionally" falling short of behaviour that would have been expected of him has led others to wonder that as well. I don't see either of them being less damaging considering his own admission. Peachy

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    It's the knowledge they are doing the wrong thing, and doing it anyway, that is the problem. Peachy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    have knowledge but it doesn't stop them justifying doing the wrong thing anyway imo.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    of course they still waffle on about having no regrets about it to try and back themselves up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    see this on the news, social media, forums ect... numerous platforms, including clubs/venues.

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    Call me ☎️ - Posted from rhpmobile

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