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Blow jobs
August 16 2019
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RHP User
6 years ago
Im a student who wouldn’t a Jb from u
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RHP User
6 years ago
Puritan view of the world There are people who still hold rather Puritan view of the world, that cannot combine wholesome sexuality with marriage or they see parts of human body as dirty. It’s his choice, if he wants to have missionary sex for the rest of his life probably with same woman, let him have it. If other person shares his view, it’s their choice. Though in this day and age, lack of imagination and a close mind when it comes to sex, tends to hurt lot of relationships.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Religion.This is a misogynistic attitude. Women perceived as being "unclean" ,not "wifey"material if they expressed their sexuality. Women also buy into this crap.I know women who are happy to be the receiver of cunnilingus but find the idea of sucking cock abhorrent .. "dirty" even. Interesting topic Touch. Hugs Q
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RHP User
6 years ago
Wow, I’m sure they will end up single or in a boring marriage where his wife goes elsewhere for excitement. I like giving head, I like to please, tease and excite my lover and I love having my clit licked m. But I like to play and explore my partner and I like them to do the same this my body. Isn’t that what sex is all about?
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Mask_007
6 years ago
Unbelievable.... I don't function without oral sex...
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curiousgirl35
6 years ago
He was probably reading all the woman saying "no way" and thought "if i say i dont like it. I might get laid" haha who knows
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RHP User
6 years ago
A golden shower is out then ? But being buggered by the sports master is “de rigueur”
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RHP User
6 years ago
A friend of mine did not like her husband performing oral on her, or her on him, for this reason. I must say that men who don't want a woman because they like sucking cock are probably few. I don't know how many women outright don't like performing oral on a man, but I've certainly never met one.
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RHP User
6 years ago
coming out of a marriage has gotten better before i got married i used to get pleanty of blow jobs and sex and kinky fun, once ur married its down hill and she wasnt interested i had to discretly go out and get blow jobs from guys and gals and id gladly return the favour. once i got out of that marriage life was a breeze can social with other minded people and have fun been in orgies , groups and spit roasted and pleanty of oral so For me marriage is a killer of your sexual life but for others it may be great
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'OkeyDoke45' A friend of mine did not like her husband performing oral on her, or her on him, for this reason. I must say that men who don't want a woman because they like sucking cock are probably few. I don't know how many women outright don't like performing oral on a man, but I've certainly never met one. But they don't advertise it. Really bad form for a man to talk about another person on here, but was told one woman was so old fashioned and boring 'didn't even like having a cock in her mouth'. I don't necessarily believe him because he was a narcissist, completely self absorbed, but it did leave me wondering
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta4' Religion.This is a misogynistic attitude. Women perceived as being "unclean" ,not "wifey"material if they expressed their sexuality. Women also buy into this crap.I know women who are happy to be the receiver of cunnilingus but find the idea of sucking cock abhorrent .. "dirty" even. Interesting topic Touch. Hugs Q Sad and troubling I think. Tiny possibility that guy doesn't like giving oral and by letting her off the hook, him too, but I tend to agree religion is to blame. I had such a mixture of emotions when I read his comment, shock, confusion, anger, frustration, disappointment. This is why I respond so harshly to some topics or comments, if there is any suggestion men are controlling women, pressuring women or you might remember me fiercely taking on some men here who suggested I 'asked for it' (re man stalking me) because of what I wore. That's the same thing and very worrying that men still think like that. I thought we'd evolved from that. How will women ever be respected and safe, if men continue with this crap and if women let them. Both are to blame. There is a place for male dominance sexually of course, but I continue to be troubled by this
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RHP User
6 years ago
What is bring taught in high school my influence? Back in my university days I remember a girl who had come from an all girls school who was still yet to discover guys. Initially she wanted to used a condom for head. Not that I am against her personal hygiene choice just I am guessing it is what was taught to her. Give these ppl time to develop sexually and re survey them in a few years you might get a different answer. If blow jobs are off the table for wife material what else is? Bare ankles in public?
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Sawadee
6 years ago
Some women love to suck cock and it shows ? You really can feel the difference between a woman who truly gets off to a woman who goes though the motions . No different to us guys i suspect ? There was a time when i selfishly enjoyed recieving but was a little slack on giving. One day the penny dropped and I learnt that if i spent more time on her clit what followed was so much more enjoyable. Lazy lovers will always be lazy lovers just as they are in everyday life.. Truth is ' you can't expect to get , if your not willing to give.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I’d have to say I love oral most times more than the main event. Both giving and receiving
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Freaky_Fun
6 years ago
Peachy_Peter Not sure what that has to do with the OPs forum but anyhoo. And if you're going to use borrowed pics, I'd take the honest bit out of your profile 🤷♀️
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'Pickme78' I’d have to say I love oral most times more than the main event. Both giving and receiving Me too, and I agree with Sawadee, you can tell if someone's not into it. I can't even watch a lot of porn clips for that reason. They're more hand jobs than oral and very obvious they're just going through the motions. It's intense for me, more so than it ever had been in my life, not that I'm suggesting age has anything to do with it, more the person
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'Freaky_Fun' Peachy_Peter Not sure what that has to do with the OPs forum but anyhoo. And if you're going to use borrowed pics, I'd take the honest bit out of your profile 🤷♀️ I'll have to get you to teach me how to use reverse image search. I've tried a few times but struggle with it. Keep up the great work 👍
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RHP User
6 years ago
Dont want the wife to be anything other than vanilla but crave bjs and kink and get it elsewhere. I tried to get my ex into some kinky stuff and he was horrified. If I meet someone long term all the cards will be on the table right at the start.
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RHP User
6 years ago
hit me up for a steamy bj
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LetsFrolic
6 years ago
Oral sex is a must with me and a partner. I give as much as I receive too
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RHP User
6 years ago
Many folk both male and female just cant deal with their own , or a potential partners , natural, healthy sexual appetite and general interest in mutually satisfying sex. For some reason ( upbringing, religious beliefs, prior experience etc) they believe anyone who is comfortable with expressing their sexual needs must be a slut, player, tart, tramp etc and not a suitable marriage partner. Its the reason there are sites like RSVP and Red Hot pie for example. I am sure that many here have experienced the duality of both ...... RSVP is for finding that Nice person for a relationship...RHP is for the Naughty person. A lot of folk are prepared to 'settle' with a nice person and lie- cheat- deceive that nice person and pursue a naughty person to satisfy basic>>>>>>extreme sexual wants. I have never been able to understand this kind of reasoning... @I_touch....you do say in your op that this is from a Student forum... I wonder if this is just and Age-inexperience way of thinking .... or are there comments going to be set in stone for the future as they get a bit more life experience?
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RHP User
6 years ago
The main guy who I quoted was adamant in his posts, I really see troubled times ahead for him, more so for the poor woman who marries him. I don't feel time will help him, not until after his divorce anyway. He might wake up one day. Yes being a student forum, they could be at the very beginning of their sexual journey. It wasn't just his comment, it was also the chicks not liking oral, not liking cum (taste and sensation one said). There were a few who sounded as shocked as me, but I got the impression it was the norm. I once had this young European guy unzip his pants, put his hand behind my neck and start to push my head down. All without even kissing me! I told him I don't need encouragement or to be forced, are you fucking kidding me? Hold me back. I'm gaggin to get there. It was almost comical but anger took over at that point because he'd wasted my time. I stopped proceedings immediately and gave him the biggest lecture all the way back in the car. He threw himself out at a set of lights near where I had to drop him. Saved me throwing him out. Fuck him. He lied to me from the get go about meeting at his place, only to be told nearby after travelling that was no longer an option, but getting back to him pushing me down, he was obviously inexperienced or had only been with really young chicks who hated oral. Either way I don't foresee much of an exciting sex life ahead for him lol
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RHP User
6 years ago
Also forgot to say, well you probably remember me commenting before about I guy I saw who was engaged, but couldn't have the kind of sex with his fiance that he had with me. I did ask why he was marrying her, shouldn't he find someone compatible, for everyone's sake. He claimed he loved her. I saw a picture, she was stunning, si was he, they would have been the perfect couple in the eyes of family and friends. I also can't understand that mindset. The one you take home to meet Mum and Dad and the tarts like me lol Like I said in my OP lucky I don't want to be a wifey
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Dirtyandfriendly
6 years ago
If I met a woman who loved giving blowjobs and it got her off I’d marry her hard!!!
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'Dirtyandfriendly' If I met a woman who loved giving blowjobs and it got her off I’d marry her hard!!! Well that's me but can we role play the marriage part
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EarthQueen
6 years ago
Quoting 'Dirtyandfriendly' If I met a woman who loved giving blowjobs and it got her off I’d marry her hard!!! Is it that hard to find though? I thought most women would enjoy giving it somewhat?. Theres something so intimate and empowering about it to me. Its always so disappointing when men say they aren't into oral sex. You have to respect it ,but it's a bit of a let down. Touch I think they are just young and in a few years their minds might open more. The level of sex education given is so basic which is such a shame. All kids are given is the basic mechanics. God forbid they learn about pleasure or about their bodies in a more meaningful way.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Yes we all have to start somewhere. Regarding some guys not liking oral, that's a deal breaker for me, although I have got them the odd one interested. The truth is some men have never had good oral, good meaning with chicks who really love it, so it does nothing for them. But oral, giving and receiving is a large part of play for me, sometimes the entire meet is just oral but more so when they know how to work over a squirter. Those guys are harder to find than I realised. I got lucky initially but have struggled to find men with experience. Anyway not to worry, life is good. I have reflected more since starting this topic and went back to my time with my first serious boyfriend and I can recall being a bit revolted with him shoving his dick in my mouth lol My how things change 😉
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2'The truth is some men have never had good oral, good meaning with chicks who really love it, so it does nothing for themYouve got that right as most women Ive been with really have no idea.The ones that do though, wow they really blow your mind :D (please, no dickhead jokes)
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RHP User
6 years ago
Thank you for that honest comment. I've had guys say the same. And IMO there are not many men who really enjoy giving oral, those who do wow, it makes all the difference!
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EarthQueen
6 years ago
Touch The last man I was with was 48 and initially he said he felt bad about me giving him BJ’s because he felt they were degrading to women 😕. He changed his mind fairly quickly . Actually it felt good that we could talk about why he felt like that and where it was coming from. But the point is those long held old beliefs in people are an obstacle to intimacy and being true to what you want and asking for it.
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D_Light
6 years ago
KokoI tried to get my ex into some kinky stuff and he was horrified..... Where I I sign up Koko? we've known ea other 4-5 yrs and no shackles except travel for those times required....
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Dirtyandfriendly
6 years ago
You would be very surprised, I’m finding a lot either had very bad experiences giving them or they only will when in a relationship. You hit the nail on the head with intimate and empowering, 2 really attractive traits. Most I’ve met a blowjob is a warm up to sex which is great, but 5 minutes of it and the effort really isn’t there it’s just done to get the dick hard. I love giving oral to women and I’m shattered when I’m told they don’t like receiving, breaks my heart.
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Mask_007
6 years ago
Is a extremely interesting topic, and much more due ro the fact that people do things they are not really in to just with the idea of paying back the favor or that oblivion feeling. In conversation with a group of really close girl friends, come to a conclusion that a small percentage of the girl really have some kind of interest in giving oral sex, but the majority don't really like it, and just do it for the wrong reasons. My self; i really enjoy eating a girl. And if she does not like it i respect. A girl that know what she is doing down there and like it is definitely something extremely rare these days.
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countrytouch82
6 years ago
The rarely used word called "outercourse" is a word that essentially refers to all play that isn't V or A intercourse. Oral, body rubbing/grinding, between breasts, fingers/hands etc. Due to lacking most sensations while using condoms I'm sure like many, I share the OP's idea that sometimes all of these other options or individual ones can be a main event in themselves, and certainly required most of the time to bring me to orgasm (taking condom off). I have to say though that a woman can still really enjoy oral even if she is not going at it like a pornstar, sometimes the light tease, nibble lick etc is intended to arouse and not necessarily to bring on a orgasm, and she still enjoys the effect it has. As for education and where people get their objectionable ideas or lack of knowledge, the same as those that want to remove the teaching about LGBTI etc, are similar to the people who would protest about any further in depth discussion/education about sex in schools, as their argument is in part religious and in part because they see teaching as an encouragement to act, that teaching kids is likely to start them experimenting and earlier than they already do and with more things. If some people view oral sex as disgusting so be it, everyone is entitled to their opinion, but they should not be trying to teach such an idea on others, if their best argument for it being disgusting is "just because". Just as women showing their ankles used to be disgusting. Strange ideas like "women that like oral are slutty and/or not relationship material", have not been made up by that person on the spot, those ideas have come from misguided teachings and peers, and so even with any advance in sex education in schools (which will never reach all anyway), the problem is that sex in general, is still often a taboo topic for the community at large, and often not talked about within family etc. So there is often no sex-positive talk that will counter the sex-negative talk in general society. In my limited knowledge, I think kids are aware of sexual acts (if only through porn or limited sex ed), and the focus on teaching about consent is gaining momentum, but just knowing an action and getting a yes, still misses all teaching about intimacy and connection and being truly aware of a partners physical and emotional state. Much more than just being okay with putting a P or a V in a mouth...
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Thank you for that honest comment. I've had guys say the same. And IMO there are not many men who really enjoy giving oral, those who do wow, it makes all the difference! Holy shit! No way hosay, I nearly choked on bacon rind once! My hat goes off to you ladies!
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RHP User
6 years ago
Though you meant suckin cock. :S My cunninglingual skills will remain classified information :D
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RHP User
6 years ago
Nothing like giving a blowjob. Love it.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have read on some threads that there are guys that will not kiss a woman after she has been down on him even if its oral without ejaculation. I find that very strange and silly if i am honest.
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RHP User
6 years ago
It is the pressure.You want equality and kindness between genders? Then respect other people’s boundaries. If they don't like it - it is their choice. Good for you that you like it. Nobody should be demanding oral from anybody and that is exactly what porn industry is teaching. Men need to stop expecting blowjobs. Many girls felt the tug on their arm, the pat of their head. “Coercion” is not “care” . Doing so is just cheap, disrespectful and brimming with insecurity. Many men said what they like about oral is power. "Sex is intimate", one man told me, "but oral sex is intimate subservience. Rougher blowjobs emphasize this power disparity, which makes them even more appealing." It's a ego boost. Is it selfish that you are not into it? Probably is. So what? Girls earned that selfishness after many years of not having reciprocate ...and even if they occasionally received it, it's not a given. And to young girls if they ask “Will he still love me if I don’t?” , let them go. (Ms) Surprise surprise, men who want to satisfy are not so fussy about getting blow jobs, and can even skip it alltogether. (Ms)
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RHP User
6 years ago
I thought every guy would want to marry a girl that loves to give BJ's. Shows how out of touch I am with the incel community. I won't be visiting the site though, I will just take your word for it.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'cat_n_the_hatter' It is the pressure.You want equality and kindness between genders? Then respect other people’s boundaries. If they don't like it - it is their choice. Good for you that you like it. Nobody should be demanding oral from anybody and that is exactly what porn industry is teaching. Men need to stop expecting blowjobs. Many girls felt the tug on their arm, the pat of their head. “Coercion” is not “care” . Doing so is just cheap, disrespectful and brimming with insecurity. Many men said what they like about oral is power. "Sex is intimate", one man told me, "but oral sex is intimate subservience. Rougher blowjobs emphasize this power disparity, which makes them even more appealing." It's a ego boost. Is it selfish that you are not into it? Probably is. So what? Girls earned that selfishness after many years of not having reciprocate ...and even if they occasionally received it, it's not a given. And to young girls if they ask “Will he still love me if I don’t?” , let them go. (Ms) Surprise surprise, men who want to satisfy are not so fussy about getting blow jobs, and can even skip it alltogether. (Ms) That last sentence, so true. In my experience, the guys who delivered the most or rather best pleasure, were those who either delayed their own pleasure, completely focused on mine, a few only wanted that. That just makes me want to pleasure them even more, it drives me wild. I was just reading a profile (another site) where he seemed a bit preoccupied with his own pleasure 'I love a great blow job' etc. I scrolled on. I love giving great blow jobs but need to know it'll be more than that
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RHP User
6 years ago
can't knock him for being honest about what he does want
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RHP User
6 years ago
There is nothing in this world better than oral Giving & recieving especially 69 Bring it on i say Pleasure is for everyone all the time
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RHP User
6 years ago
I absolutely adore sucking cock! Could do it for hours 😉 And don’t necessarily need it reciprocated but if the person wanted to devour my pussy I’m certainly not going to say no! As for wifey material... I wouldn’t marry his sorry ass in the first place if he didn’t let me feast on his cock every night! 😂 Those commenting on that forum are obviously only young... give them a few years and some sexual experience and can guarantee the majority will have a different opinion.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I grew up in a era where 99% of the guys were circumcised. Those that weren't were mainly of UK/European birth. The girls I grew up with would not suck and uncut cock. The asked why, their answer was it was unclean. Now we all know that not to break true... personal hygiene is something for all guys cut or not. Now as a bi guy I love sucking uncut cock as long as it is clean (and not adverse to a CLEAN cut cock either). But maybe that may have something to do with it. I know when in the UK I was told I showered excessively.... at least twice a ---- when I get up in the morning and before going to bed (and maybe another if I was coming home and going out in the evening). In some cultures, that is considered excessive.... in Australia I suspect that is normal. Not saying that this is the reason, but it may have something to do with it.
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RHP User
6 years ago
People who don't want to share their desires with their long term partner are bound for failure. Staying together while not fulfilling each other in as many ways as possible isn't sucess. Open communication is important, and I understand that one you have kids you may not feel comfortable with your partner sucking you off but: 1) That's why we clean ourselves afterwards. 2) You aren't going to stop experiencing the urge to receive oral. Your partners desire for monogamy (since that's what you may have mutually agreed upon) is more important than your hangups because in this scenario you're talking about being faithful sexually. Ultimately it's all your choice but you're taking risks, why not be more mature about your perspective towards those risks. 3) I'll bet he didn't tell the girls who sucked him off that it made him think less of them relationship-wise All that being said, our personal boundaries are important and the 'stage' in our life we are currently embracing is important. He'll probly marry a chick who never goes down on him and she'll probly have gone down on everyone she was with before she met him.
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SEXYCD
6 years ago
I love giving BJs !!!! Absolutely love it 😋
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RHP User
6 years ago
I think with his attitude, any of his relationships would be doomed. I wonder if he holds the same opinion about giving her oral? Is he ruling that out as well? What an exciting sex life they have to look forward to. The bigger issue is the disrespect IMO and likely he would find other women to give him blow jobs
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RHP User
6 years ago
I'll bet he didn't tell the other chicks
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Lust4life23
6 years ago
Oral sex both ways is important in any relationship! Whether it’s FWB, Play Friends or Husband and Wife! It’s all a part of sex or live making!
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RHP User
6 years ago
I like it... Giving is essential, receiving is awesome X
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RHP User
6 years ago
Oral sex is where it's at omg I love eating pussy😍 wifey material for me is 1 who can deepthroat 🤤😍😁
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RHP User
6 years ago
I think the term "blow job" in itself doesn't do the reputation of it much good. Oral sex is better. Also I think if you are happy getting Oral, you should be happy giving oral.
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RHP User
6 years ago
#moist
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RHP User
6 years ago
Have to admit it was something i didnt like doing or recieving when i was married. i thought it was dirty and he was doing it as chore, sex was never openly talked about at all very taboo. I guess people are all brought up with different views and we should accept people for who they are and their choices. Now..... a year and a half on.....i cant get enough....love every moment...especially when you make an amazing connection, let go of innhibitions and realize how much it turns each other on!
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curiousnhorny05
6 years ago
Please don’t blam religion for this opinion. Frankly I don’t buy it. Sometimes I think it’s down to slut shaming and guys meeting their needs. I love giving head it is such a turn on.
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RHP User
6 years ago
The lack of BJs at home is why I first started to play; a couple of times it happened but usually the excuse is it's too big - pfft! I think it was her country catholic upbringing implying it is dirty. She even gets uncomfortable when I do her but I know initially she enjoys it but thens she just wants it inside her. So I play on the side to get the satisfaction I crave and that actually keeps me even more faithful to her - win-win I guess or I hope.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I absolutely LOOOVE giving oral to woman...!!! All the better when you can make them squirt 😍💦😋
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2hotforit
6 years ago
Wow I can’t believe I’m hearing this. Not one of my relationships did I ever hold back anything sexually......I love sex and I want to enjoy all of it. What a turn on to watch a guy cum hard in my mouth. I did this for my husband, my boyfriends and friends with benefits......if some guy said to me he didn’t want a blowjob and isn’t adventurous, then he’s not the man for me.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I’m betting almost every woman who posted has received oral sex and enjoyed it so what is the problem. The next subject on that thread will be anal sex and finally “Would you prefer to reproduce in a peetree dish. Get a life ya proudish wankers I say, ya kids probably LOVE oral sex, try asking them what their opinion is.
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Mask_007
6 years ago
I definitely can say I am a pleasure/pleasure. In saying that is a something i do look forwards, nothing more special/sexy/intimate then oral sex. And like tohotforit just mention. If I can't eat your pussy for hours or you don't like oral sex. I am sorry to say but, you are not the right woman for me..
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RHP User
6 years ago
I love my 'wifey' - shes the mother of my kids (& a great one at that), *hates* anything remotely perceived as 'kink'. No BJ's (ever...) wont role play, no sex toys & wont try any other position other than missionary (If shes really 'frisky', she might get on top). Sex is a rarity - perhaps 3 - 4 times in a YEAR... - BUT - Sex isnt everything right? Thoughts?
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RHP User
6 years ago
A woman who doesn’t enjoy oral is a deal breaker for me. I also always encourage my partners that I value them all the more for freely expressing, exploring and owning their sexuality.
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EarthQueen
6 years ago
Quoting 'wannaplay2' I love my 'wifey' - shes the mother of my kids (& a great one at that), *hates* anything remotely perceived as 'kink'. No BJ's (ever...) wont role play, no sex toys & wont try any other position other than missionary (If shes really 'frisky', she might get on top). Sex is a rarity - perhaps 3 - 4 times in a YEAR... - BUT - Sex isnt everything right? Thoughts? It's not everything but its something. Depends if you can be happy without it I suppose. Counselling? Whats her thoughts?
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RHP User
6 years ago
If you are having sex less than 10 times a year it is considered a sexless marriage.
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DMan82
6 years ago
Can't live without oral sex As a man I do love receiving bjs, very hot and tempting to be able to cum in mouth (I would never push someone to do that if there's no agreement from both parts) BUT ......... I definitely love giving as much as receiving. Giving oral job is something that turns me on more than anything else. I could spend hours pleasing my wife, gf or fwb with oral. My dream lady is someone that doesn't ask me to do that but just grabbing my head and stick it between her legs.lol 69 and face seat is definitely 2 of my favourites. Keep calm and go for oral sex.
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imjustmetassie
6 years ago
I give as good as i get and i take what im given from my guy
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technologic
6 years ago
I suppose I'm one of the few women here who doesn't enjoy giving blow jobs except under certain circumstances.. 🙁 Cat_n_the_hatter's post really rings true with me. Personally, I find oral sex (receiving and giving) a very private and intimate sexual act. I feel very vulnerable, more so than PiV. So I feel that I can only comfortably do it after I've established a certain amount of trust in the person. On top of that, it's actually physically difficult for me because my jaws just do not have the opening capacity for anything larger than a medium sized Lebanese cucumber. 😅 It actually gets pretty sore within a minute of extended jaw opening... Unfortunately guys usually do not believe the amount of discomfort it causes me. It also irks me when people say they can't imagine being with someone who doesn't enjoy it as if there is no good reason not to. 🙁 In saying all that, it doesn't mean I do not enjoy giving the right person oral pleasure. I just need to feel safe that he understands that when I need to stop.. I really NEED to stop. Respect that my preference is to lick, nibble and suck rather than deep throating instead of feeling entitled to the latter. Countrytouch82's comment: "... a woman can still really enjoy oral even if she is not going at it like a pornstar, sometimes the light tease, nibble lick etc is intended to arouse and not necessarily to bring on a orgasm, and she still enjoys the effect it has." perfectly describes my oral style. 😍 Certainly there is a lot of focus/pressure for men AND women to give oral when the focus really should be on 'pleasure' instead. This whole 'I love going down on a woman/man but I will not do it if she/he doesn't want/enjoy giving me head' is kinda missing the point. If the specific act is something you love to do (with a consenting partner of course) then why the strings attached as if there aren't a plethora of other ways to provide pleasure? I would prefer to explore with a lover that is great at pleasuring in the way that both of us truly enjoy rather than placing undue pressure and expectation on them to give pleasure in a particular way when the enjoyment is only one sided. Nonetheless, everyone has a right to their preferences and their deal breakers. Just a warning for those that feel that BJs are an absolute must for then right from the start - I'm not the one for you!! 😜
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RHP User
6 years ago
Ok these no oral sex lady’s are definitely not for me. Not only do I love to receive a experienced talented woman teasing my head licking my shaft sucking my balls. But I love the noises she makes when I work my way down from her mouth neck nipples stomach inner thighs her outer lips inner lips and then her clit to lick flick suck nibble and eventually Boom 💥😜👅💋 suck it into my mouth and tongue flick it gently bite it like it’s the most delicious thing I’ve ever enjoyed. So I’m thinking that means I’m definitely not marriage material, I’m not that surprised but as I’m not even relationship material 🤣 On a side note to “I touch myself “😉 I hope you get a laugh or at least a smile out of my comments I’ve never posted on any forum in my life before and I’m new here so try be nice if you reply on this Don’t bite my Head Off raoflmfao 😜🚀
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RHP User
6 years ago
sex without oral sex is like a sandwich without bread 🤪 it is very true about the chemistry and how good the sex to follow is going to be willing and how in to it is the performance of oral as that's the lead up to the sex...
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RHP User
6 years ago
Well welcome to the forum. It's all downhill from here. No just kidding 😂 No oral sex giving and/or receiving, is also not for me. I respect people who are honest about it though. The guy I referred to in my op though, I don't respect him, because it smacks of general disrespect for sexually permissive women which IMO belongs back with the dinosaurs. But welcome ☺
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RHP User
6 years ago
Thank you for your comment. I really respect your honesty and it highlights how it doesn't have to be the same for everyone. And yes, it doesn't have to be full on like a pornstar. I only started enjoying dominance in that respect, in recent years. I also didn't used to be comfortable receiving oral, although that has changed now, I do understand the vulnerability. Thank you
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Brass_Monkey
6 years ago
That’s it, no UK trips for me! Haha
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RHP User
6 years ago
I am so tired of the old adage ‘a slut is not wife material’ just because a woman loves sex, giving her man pleasure, pleasing him, how does that make a bad wife? We can do all THAT and still behave in public, and be good role models for our kids. How would what happens in the bedroom in private affect anyone else or the kids? Why not have both? Great sex life, great wife, happy parents? Hell, I even go one further, great business woman and role model for women!
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scandu4fun
6 years ago
Thoughts? He sounds like he still wants to have a secret wench down in the village. For me I love giving and when I receive it's a bonus, but to exclude a lovely lady for wanting to or willing to give a BJ seems very narrow minded. Such narrow mindedness does not bode well for open and meaningful communication on anything. This maybe a dysfunctional assumption but he enjoys and does but not for his future bride, so. I hope he and his kind open their minds before too long so they can really have a connection through meaningful communication and open a world of real enjoyment. How much do I enjoy giving? Studied that part of the female anatomy to understand how to do it better, after finding the full size and shape of the clit, I took close notice of cues for individual context, and we discovered that what was thought to be an orgasam was not a full orgasam and she is a squirter, and that's soooooo hot. She gets so horny that she recripricates in ways that makes early years seem so?? But while nice not a deal breaker if she didn't, just appreciate it. She is an excellent mother to a great child that has become a very decent person. And we do more than just oral, but our child does not know everything we do, as a child shouldn't. So why have 2 standards?
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RHP User
6 years ago
Not wifey material? I married my ex-wife partly because she was the best ever at it! How’s that for a diametrically opposed position on the matter?! 😂 She is my ex-wife though 🤔
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RHP User
6 years ago
lol I guess blow jobs alone can't save a marriage? 😁
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RHP User
6 years ago
I haven’t been with a girl in 7 years who didn’t like to suck cock. Either because they love to do it, or love to please. And if my gf sucks another cock, that’s sexy as hell too...
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'technologic' I suppose I'm one of the few women here who doesn't enjoy giving blow jobs except under certain circumstances.. 🙁 Certainly there is a lot of focus/pressure for men AND women to give oral when the focus really should be on 'pleasure' instead. This whole 'I love going down on a woman/man but I will not do it if she/he doesn't want/enjoy giving me head' is kinda missing the point. If the specific act is something you love to do (with a consenting partner of course) then why the strings attached as if there aren't a plethora of other ways to provide pleasure? Couldn't agree with you more! While my reasons are different, I could happily never give a blow job again. I do it because I know it is enjoyable for the receiver but I don't really like it, the taste (a lot of men have a fairly strong 'meaty' smell - even if they've just showered and have great hygiene) and semen getting anywhere near my face makes me gag involuntarily. But I still do it (and do it well, if I do say so myself) because i'm not selfish. And because I want it back. Oh wait...does that make it selfish? Miss Little xx
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RHP User
6 years ago
Well... They are students and usually they think they already know everything but obviously the fact is, they still have a lot to learn. It's all about the arousal, the moment, the touch, the connection the pleasure... so many ways to do that, you never really stop learning and experiencing. Silly to deny yourself any part of that!
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brokenhands
6 years ago
Blowjobs! Besides someone who knows how to use a wand, preferably in combination with a bj.. Personally blowjobs are my absolute favourite! A definite must in foreplay and crossing the finish line.. nothing better! I get that it may suck (haha) to give it.. taste, uncomfortableness, etc etc.. but its an absolute must hey 👌
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RHP User
6 years ago
no it's not uncomfortable for me, it's fucking awesome. I love it and I couldn't proceed I don't think if the guy stopped me lol for me it's a big part of submitting, massive turn on, but more than that. I love the feel on my lips. Okay, I'll have to take a break again lol
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RHP User
6 years ago
I've had guys on here say that BJs are not for the wife hahaha. This is not as uncommon as you think. As for oral sex, i also know many people who refuse unless they get back. If you like it do it. Intimate play shouldnt be a trade off, although that can be fun but never in a derogatory negative way. And this is so contradictory with the knowledge i have on kink. But you get the jist i am sure. 😊
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RHP User
6 years ago
Can I tell ya a little secret about BJs 🤫 Big blokes who earn a living driving Volvo truck are said to be the Sholin Monks of the Blowjob Ya know I have another secret 🥺
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RHP User
6 years ago
Why are we bashing this guys comment? Aren't we all on this website because we're a little left of center with our sexual preference? I thought the general consensus of this website is that were all alowed to like what we like and in that not like what we dont. He shouldn't have to feel embarrassed about his opinion with what he likes sexually, that HIS opinion. I mean its not my preference, personally line 100 cocks up and I'd devour them all. However, all you women on here calling him misogynistic, you are the reason why femisms has gone too far. Just because he doesnt like women that suck cock and you dont fall into that category all of a sudeen his misogynistic? .....please give me a break! I dont like men that are too manly/bogan or rough with me, does that make me a man hating lesbian?
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RHP User
6 years ago
Sweetie you can have your opinion and we'll have ours. Okay?
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RHP User
6 years ago
Personally I’d never knock back an offer to orally pleasure me but ultimately the feeling of being inside a hot wet vagina will always be the greatest of physical pleasures and get me off with much greater intensity. Just my preference anyway 😀
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RHP User
6 years ago
You've completely missed the point of the post and crucial detail. Go back and have another read. He does like blow jobs, but stated he would never marry a chick who did that, not 'wifey material', that he couldn't have the mother of his children sucking his cock. I find that not only offensive in so many ways, but a sign of his disgust for sexually permissive or sexually free women, any woman who gives oral. I find that disturbing and I believe (just my opinion) that he will continue to have women blow him, treat them like trash, or think of them that way, on the sly from his much respected wife. The wife who's life will fall apart one day because she's shacked up with a controlling cheating husband. He isn't on this site as you seem to suggest and even if he was, we don't have to accept every behaviour just because we're sexually open. Jesus, that's a dangerous path to follow. And who's a feminist? I'm certainly not. How do you define a feminist?
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RHP User
6 years ago
Nup. Not touching that.
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RHP User
6 years ago
ill grab the popcorn 🤣🤣
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RHP User
6 years ago
Everyone is different. I'm assuming this guy might be associating blowjobs with women who are promiscuous. Some people have this dream that the person they will marry should be pure and untainted. Have you heard of the "Madonna and the Whore" dichotomy?
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one2join
6 years ago
Kind of agree with littlehotpie. Youre saying that this guy has an opinion that women who give blowjobs are "whores" and women who dont are "pure"? Youre also saying his opinion is wrong and he is not allowed to think like that? In the same breath youre saying we are all aloud to have our own opinions? Now correct us if were wrong but isnt that contradictory? Just our take on it.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Well that’s a pretty fair description of feminism, oh no wait .....
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sahzpete
6 years ago
If my wife and l where not swingers and she didn't give me oral I would problerly think about cheating on her and get it ells where, and l think that would be same in in many marriages if one of the partner's is not satisfied and l know many men that are doing just that. so these women are kidding them selves there man wont get it ells where . And have to agree with what Sawadee said, l am lucky to have had many ladies give me BJ,s and some of the ladies just seem to do it for a minute or two as they think it is expected, and most of those ladies aren't very good at it ,,, but it's fantastic when you come across a lady that likes giving bj's and knows what to do and how to suck a cock, you can tell she get pleasure out of giving pleasure, and its the same for my self l love making a lady cum with my toung and it gives me pleasure knowing l give her pleasure, and isn't that's whst sex is all about ,,,
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RHP User
6 years ago
Giving Head during Mischievous play is a necessity. It’s like breathing air.... Required! Long sessions of mutual oral is Blissful x
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RHP User
6 years ago
Hello
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RHP User
6 years ago
I'd have to say there is nothing better than a great oral session both ways. Nothing better than pleasuring a lady could do that for hrs lol and having that returned on myself is well awesome. Definitely oral has to be part and parcel of and good sexual relationship.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Trigggggggggggered!!! 😂😂
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Playful2looking
6 years ago
Locked away in my own R.H.P world where I meet sexually open people.... I forget there is a world out there of totally conservative people who seem to hold 1950's values.. Although we have become more understanding in regard to personnel rights, gay, Bi, women and individual.. I am still amazed at the backlash against these changes, combined with a surge in conservative attitudes..these Uk Students response to Blow Jobs and very normal foreplay activities seems to be a reflection of this change. Sexual attitudes seem to only reflect the bigger change in our society as we move towards electing more conservative leaders. Blow Jobs, pussy licking to me is a natural form of foreplay... so I have trouble understanding why some people don't enjoy these things...but each to their own .. although I will never understand why a man feels threaten if a woman has some sexual experience
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RHP User
6 years ago
Miss here Personally I won't give a bj after anal until it washed but that's just me .. the younger generation n sadly started with my gen do not understand sex or foreplay that well .. we are not open about it n tbh it's all kinda become taboo again .. they know what everything is but when it comes to interactions they don't understand why it's all there ... A study done a few years back showed that teens and young adults 18-25 admitted they don't use foreplay nor understand it's purpose.. Personally mr n I couldn't have sex with out it ... that's the best part !! These days I can honestly say tho that bj isn't something either really get given by each other...
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