The thrill of the chase

Sometimes its not all about the ending but how you get there!! Yeah watching my husband with another women is amazing but at the moment we are experiencing our first time with a third that we know. Normally its someone we meet online who is new and we dont have to see them again if we dont want to. This time its his work colleague. This time i am loving the chase.

The story so far:

For this story lets call her sam. Sam and my husband have worked together for years. There has always been a flirty relationship between the two but she was engaged, kids, the daughter of the boss. The kind of person you dont go to with the kind of thing we want. It was always off the table. Recently she split from her fiance. I dont think i even gave it a few weeks. As soon as i found out she was single i knew this was our chance. One night i had a few drinks and thought “fuck it”. So i sent her a message. Made small talk first but then came out with it. I asked her if she could ever see herself fucking my husband. I was nervous as hell but id done it. She came back pretty much straight away saying if he wasnt married and didnt work together then fuck yeah she would. I knew we could make this work. We went back and worth for awhile. I explained what i wanted to happen. She has her reserves. The main thing being that they work together. I was worried that would be the reason it couldnt work.

We went back and forth for a week or so. Then we invited her away for the weekend. No expectations of anything happening. All the kids were there, other families etc. so i knew nothing would happen. What did happen was a shit load of flirting between the two of them. At this stage my husband didnt know that i had messaged her. He had no idea what i wanted. I knew he thought she was hot. I knew in the past he said she would be someone he would be interested in joining us so i just watched. They flirted, they touched. My heart jumped through my chest thinking we could make this work. But she hadnt agreed. By this time i think he guessed we had been talking. I didnt go into detail but basically told him shes interested but scared of the work relationship! He was too.

I really wanted to watch her kiss him but it didnt happen. There was a really great hug where she told him “they will make it work”!! As soon as he told me she said that i fucked him until he could take no more. I was officially turned on. Maybe this will happen but i cant get my hopes up yet.

We went home, we texted some more. She told me she was officially in!! This was going to happen. We have tentatively made plans for a few weeks away. I dont know if i can go without seeing her for a few weeks. I dont know if i can wait that long. I want this now!! Now we just need to tell my husband.

I tell her to text him. She gets up the nerve too and they have a sexy conversation. She showed me the text. They then speak on the phn for awhile. Exactly what was said i dont know but they agreed that what happens between them stays between them and work wont get involved. Im pretty sure they can have this relationship outside of work and it wont affect inside of work. Although if it ever came out i dont want to imagine the backlash.

Now we have to wait. I dont think i can wait. The thrill of the chase is even more of a turn on. I want to invite her out for dinner, i want the three of us just to hang. With no expectations of anything happening. There can be no sex!! Should i invite her to ours, should we go to hers? I want to watch the flirting between them. I want to watch him resting his hand on her, i want to watch the hugging and more than anything i would love to watch them cuddle and kiss. Hell at this stage i think i even want to kiss her!! (But thats another discussion we have to have)!! Then we can go our seperate ways after with the thrill of wondering what will happen next time we meet.

Now as i write this i wonder if i should ask her to hang. Hell, maybe ill just screen shot all this and send it to her. Or maybe not!! But i dont want to scare her off. I dont want to rush her into things if she is not ready. She has never done anything like this before. So what do i do??

How will the thrill of the chase end? Only time will tell.