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The Dos and Don’ts of RHP: A Friendly Guide from a Sassy Female POV
November 19 2024
Alright, gents, gather round! Let’s talk about how to make the most of your RHP experience—not just for yourself, but for the lovely ladies you’re hoping to connect with. I’m here to sprinkle some wisdom, a touch of sass, and a whole lot of truth to help you navigate the wonderful world of chatting, messaging, and camming. Let’s dive in:
Inbox Etiquette: Think Before You Hit Send
First impressions matter, especially when you’re sliding into someone’s inbox. Here’s a cheat sheet for success:
"Hey" and "How are you?" – If your opening line could double as the beginning of a bad job interview, rethink it. Be original! Compliment something from my profile, make a clever observation, or hell, even ask me about my favorite pizza toppings. Anything but “sup.”
Don’t Skip Steps – Jumping straight to “Can I fist your ass?” without so much as a hello won’t have me reaching for the lube—it’ll have me reaching for the block button. Build a little intrigue first!
Keep It Real – Be yourself, but be respectful. A bit of humor, some cheeky banter, and genuine interest go a long way. We’re all here for fun, not a Q&A on your fetishes five seconds in.
Chatroom Culture: Read the Room
Ah, the group chat—a buzzing hive of potential connections, hilarity, and, yes, sometimes chaos. Here’s how to survive and thrive:
Lurkers Gonna Lurk – Let people hang back if they want to. Not everyone’s ready to jump in guns blazing, and sometimes they’re just enjoying the show. No need to harass the quiet ones.
Don’t Whisper to Death – If you’ve whispered a polite “Hi” and I haven’t replied, take the hint. Whispering over and over is the digital equivalent of tapping someone’s shoulder repeatedly. It’s annoying, not endearing.
Director’s Chair? Nah. – Watching someone cam? Great! Yelling “spread your legs” or “lick her ass” in public chat? Not great. Keep your suggestions in whispers to the cammer if they’re open to it. Nobody needs unsolicited X-rated commentary.
Camming 101: Be a Star, Not a Disaster
We love a confident cam performer, but let’s fine-tune that approach:
Toilet Cams Are a No-Go – Yes, we see the cock. No, we don’t want to see it while you’re perched on the toilet. No matter how impressive you think you are, the setting matters.
Lighting, Please! – You’re not filming a noir thriller. Light your scene so we can actually see you. A well-lit cock is a happy cock.
Keep It Steady – A shaky cam is a surefire way to kill the vibe. Prop it up, hold it still, and let us appreciate the view without feeling seasick.
Bring Some Energy – Silence is fine for some, but personally, I enjoy a little audio feedback. Let us hear you enjoying yourself—moans, dirty talk, even a cheeky laugh—it makes the experience more fun for everyone.
Final Thoughts
Remember, RHP is a community. Treat people how you’d like to be treated—with a little respect, a dash of humor, and a sprinkle of naughty fun. Whether you’re messaging, chatting, or camming, put in some effort, be genuine, and let’s all have a good time.
Now, tell me—what’s your best chat opener? (And no, it better not be “sup.”)
xx
Sophie
Comments
MrMischievious
30 Nov 2024
Good points Sophie & if it was all that simple
RoB_SyD
27 Nov 2024
Noice
Finestkind16
27 Nov 2024
Well written . Hopefully the guys here take notice 🙈 You missed 1 really important point .. DONT WASTE people’s time . If your not interested just say so “politely “ And fakes please leave the building. So sick of the fakes .
SexyScorpion
26 Nov 2024
Well written Sophie. Now if only we could get more guys to read it.
wantsome0405
26 Nov 2024
It’s a no brainer. There is also the other side where a guy might be sick of writing a well thought out msg for it to not even be looked at, or seen and no reply
SassySash307
25 Nov 2024
Hear hear!!!
kingqueen2024
24 Nov 2024
Love!!
mjulzy
24 Nov 2024
Love this
LetsTwistAgain
24 Nov 2024
☝️🫶👏👏 oh my goodness - hearing you loud and clear. If there was a dollar donated everytime I read sup 🥴 or heh, what you up to, heh what are you looking for??? Get creative people or move along to tinder so you can simply swipe left or right - obviously all your intellect /creativity can handle
Butterflykiss01
24 Nov 2024
Thank you so much Sophie for sharing some wisdom.. Can be challenging navigating the modern world of hookups and dating. Manners intellect and respect go a long way..put some thought into your profile (yes i read them) One word opening is a no from me..unsolicited dick pic=I send one back saying "you just made me horny" Keep it classy..A high libido does not equate to cheap and tacky...x
Cumflirtwithus
23 Nov 2024
Love it! As the Mr of our shared profile, I’ll like to add, I doe want to feel like I’m just here to fulfill your pornhub fantasy! My wife’s not here just for your digital entertainment nor am I!
Sh31sHav1ingFun
22 Nov 2024
Thanks for this Sophie. Spot on and a few more. To impress her and give yourself the best opportunity to be chosen , "ask her about what SHE likes to turn her on .... it's NOT all about what you want mate " Plus don't send a dick puc as your intro line. Enjoy everyone and play safe.
spicyy26
22 Nov 2024
I would like to talk to someone on the app👀
HealthyFitNomad
22 Nov 2024
Common sense; some think because your on RHP its a free for all with childish comments and a meat market. I'd like to add Men have feelings too; it's not all one way, its just that more men are after intimacy so the odds dictate more morons. Look how many are in chat compared to number of women.
Kuti77
22 Nov 2024
Top words. Love it
Justdoingstuff
22 Nov 2024
Oh this should also be addressed to couples! 'Hey guys, how are you?' 'Great thanks' Pic of woman swallowing a large penis. 'Hey um, we like to consent to pics being sent guys' 'Oh others do this to us, so we think its ok' hmmmmm never skip that step, and thanks Sophie for a great little read :-)
midas892
22 Nov 2024
Sound advice, hope it works.
Senscorp894
22 Nov 2024
Sounds like I need to make use of the chat rooms sometime. 🙌
SensualAsian
22 Nov 2024
Thank you for sharing these valuable tips; they are truly appreciated and highly beneficial.
SugarAndSpiceWA
21 Nov 2024
Love this. I would also add - be sure to take the time to consider your username and picture. With so many messages, women often have to decide to open a message vs delete it based purely on the profile name, photo and the first line of the message. Create some curiosity and make a good impression.
Cococurves
21 Nov 2024
Thanks Sophie I'd love to put a link to this on my profile.... Thank for the community service announcement!
rexranger0
21 Nov 2024
yo ! wssup!!! , Naaah im just kiddin! well appreciate the wisdom sensei !
KH0546511
21 Nov 2024
Sophie I really appreciate your effort with your secret sharing …. Well noted 😜
MidnightExpresso
21 Nov 2024
Love this Sophie . This is the feeling users have been getting of late and it’s an extension of some great feedback from others with their views on the chat room . Question should a person regardless if it’s a DM whisper etc ask permission before doing so .
FunPhriend
21 Nov 2024
Thanks Sophie for putting so much effort. It is common sense generally, but it is also true that common sense is not so very common. LOL.
justforfun76
21 Nov 2024
‘Hi Sophie, I’ve read your stories, erotic and intriguing. They’ve made me wonder if they’re all from reminiscing or fantasising . Either way they elude to a passionate thinker behind the pen.
ChynaB
21 Nov 2024
Well said
Cumswallowa
21 Nov 2024
Great advice, A few things to add 1. Don’t straight up ask for pictures or private gallery access. 2. Don’t just send access to private galleries and then demand access theirs. 3. Don’t just randomly send dick pics if it’s not asked for (we may have people around that we don’t seeing your dick pic - like kids)
Liberated
21 Nov 2024
See, I always figured that they WERE being themselves when it's just 'Sup, or straight into "can I fist your ass". Some guys are just dickheads like that. I silently thank them for showing their true colours quickly and not wasting my time.
Blondeplaytoy
21 Nov 2024
Very well said. Another instant block: "How much?" 🤦🏼♀️
newcouple4334
21 Nov 2024
Pretty straightforward
SunnyWolverine
21 Nov 2024
Thank you for taking the time to craft tips and tricks in an engaging manner. (As with much of your stories). You have a way with words, let’s call it a gift (can it be learned, maybe- but not the point of contention). For many people, there is a social awkwardness. That is moreso in F2F/IRL scenarios. I venture to guess that there are many people that are trying to learn social etiquette (as our devices have made us more antisocial). For myself, it is easier to open communication behind the keyboard. But it shall be respectful at all times. As we are all real people behind the profiles. I am afraid many users forget that others here are human beings too. The digitalisation of a profile doesn’t dehumanise anyone- yet so many act that way. Thanks again for putting these tips into your style of engaging writing. Hope it helps users understand the sense of a digital community is still a community of people. Keep up the great writing!
Secondtimelucky
21 Nov 2024
Do you offer private lessons Sophie?
Music_Fan
21 Nov 2024
Love this Sophie! Reading a person’s profile also helps, especially when they’ve gone to the trouble to write it. We are all here for fun and some navigate their way to fun in a different way and style to others. Their profile contents is a good starting point to understanding that.
MissPocketRocket
21 Nov 2024
So true, Sophie! If someone messages me with certain turn of phrases or just sends their locked photos before they have even said hello or attempted to show me they have read my profile, they go straight to ignored/deleted/blocked. I enjoy getting to the sexy/naughty chat as much as the next person, but I want to chat with someone who will challenge my mind as well as my body.👏👏👏
JamesBlonde2022
21 Nov 2024
Beautifully written 😍
Coupleneed1girl
21 Nov 2024
Some great advice there, thanks
Kristiank
21 Nov 2024
This was very insightful thanks!
Naturelle
20 Nov 2024
Words of wisdom ❤️
Darkchocolate069
20 Nov 2024
Great 👍
hotwifegyro
20 Nov 2024
👏 👏 👏 thank you Sophie x
MrandMrs2014
20 Nov 2024
Great read and informative.
jameslee80
20 Nov 2024
I love this, and such good points. My other one is read the profile, if I say I won’t reply without face pics, don’t message 10 times when you haven’t sent face pics, you’re sitting in my ignored box 😳 This is all a great guide though, thank you from the rest of us
MrandMrsEss
20 Nov 2024
Great Stuff Sophie, this needs to be copied and pasted to forums and should be on the opening page of the chat rooms. Anyway how you doin’ and look how big my fist is 😂
Sutra
20 Nov 2024
I was one of the “Sup” guys . Point noted .. thanks for the tip 🙏
Black_Panther69
20 Nov 2024
story number 22..?
Black_Panther69
20 Nov 2024
i think people come from all walks of life and have different ways of communicating and are not all perfect nor we are all the same, so i think trying to make some rules as you have, i'm afraid I believe it does not pass the pub test. RHP is a swingers site, a bit like Tinder, so i think that is perhaps how many people see it rather than a social media dating site. Probably you are right what you write, and i can see your'e probably only trying to help.
Iwill2
20 Nov 2024
Thank you so much Sophie, I've learned something. BTW, I'm not a sup or hey guy.
Pammy99
20 Nov 2024
Sup Soph?
Rinoandpinkie
20 Nov 2024
Oh I love this Sophie! I think this applies to everyone not just gents to single ladies. And don't forget make sure there is some info in your bio. Give me a reason to respond and continue the conversation.
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