South Korean Swingers Clubs

Recently my partner and I were in South Korea on holiday and took the opportunity to visit two swingers/sex clubs in Seoul.

This came about from the last time we were in Korea we were in discussion to whether these kind of places exist in South Korea, after some quick googling I discovered that they did but at that time my partner was not ready or willing to investigate.

Flash forward to our recent holiday we are both more relaxed and experienced with trying new things.

The first club we went to was Club we visited was Club Yesica.

I don't really remember why we decided to go to this one first as Desire is the older and more established club. We were told to go to a convenience store in the back streets of Gangnam at about 11:30pm and then call the Manager (in any other country this would be rather dangerous but Korea is pretty safe).

Once we arrived and called the Manager we were soon greeted by a Young Korean guy who spoke excellent English, he bought us to a nearby building where we went up in an elevator to and the doors opened to a very impressive bar and lounge club. We were told to put our phones and anything else we wanted to keep safe in the lockers by the door and then pay for a bottle of alcohol. We got a discount because we went on a Thursday night and it wasn't busy(was about $120 AU for a bottle of Wine).

This is pretty standard for these and also Hostess or KTV bars in Asia where you pay a huge bottle price instead of a traditional price of admittance.

The place was impressive and comfortable and well-decorated but very empty, just 3 couples including us plus the Manager and the young Korean guy who greeted us.

We small talked for a while then sat down and drank our wine and talked with each other.

We both agreed it was a great place with lots of potential but it was a shame there were not many people.

I won't bore you with all the details but in the next few hours we waited for more people to show up but were severely disappointed as there was only a few couples there still after some hours and they all seemed to be regulars and knew the manager. In the end we went home very disappointed and my partner (who is fluent in Korean) informed me that she suspected that all the couples that were there that night were simply cheating on their wives/girlfriends and most likely not interested in sharing/playing with others.

To the defense of Yesica, we were warned by the manager that Friday is the best night to visit and that it is not busy on Thursday.

So after that ordeal we were ready to give up but a week later before I was due to return home from holiday we decided to investigate Club Desire, Seoul's oldest and most renowned swingers club.

The introduction into Desire started much like that of Yesica, go to an address then call the manager.

This time we went on a Friday night. When we got to the address (note that Desire had moved locations from where it used to be in Gangnam and is now closer to Itaewon but not actually in Itaewon) we immediately saw a neon sign and a door across the street that looked a lot like a regular night club.

There was another couple getting out of a taxi the same time as us and appeared to be going to the same door.

This was promising I thought as it already looked more busy than Yesica.

We called the manager and the door buzzed open revealing a room with a bar and some business looking type men at the bar and lockers to the right. We were again told to buy a bottle and put our things in the lockers but were given a menu this time of the bottle prices. Again we chose a bottle of wine but the price was more expensive than Yesica, from memory about $160 AUD.

Once we paid and stashed our things we were shown to our booth in the rooms behind the bar, the club seemed larger than Yesica and much more full. There were already quite a lot of people there and it wasn't even midnight. As we were told to sit down we noticed that it was hard to see anyone else around us due to only sharing our table with one other couple and every other table was separated by partitions. This was a bit frustrating as in a place like this (it was quite dark) seeing the other people I would have thought was very important.

The club was very cool with great music and a few TV screens playing music videos, The crowd at first was mostly older with only a few people being younger than 40. We were lucky in that we were sat next to the only toilet in the place which kind of helped us view who was there as they walked by. We soon noticed there was another reason people were walking by our booth as we were sat next to one of the clubs interesting exhibition rooms.

This was a homemade small cubic room only really big enough to fit two couples at a time with mirrors on every wall and a glass ceiling with a ladder leading up to it. When I first heard the sounds of passion coming from the box in the corner I turned and saw glimpses of flesh through the hole in the black curtain that was covering the front (I am sure the hole was purposely put there)

Soon many people just got up out of their seats and went over to the box to look.

As we saw some men climb up the ladder and sit on top of the glass peering down and the couple doing it below, we couldn't help but laugh at the strangeness of the situation.

After a while that scene died down and people returned to their seats. I took the chance to get up and have a better look around the place as we had not really seen much of it when we came in. I was the only non-Korean person in there which was fine with me, I like feeling special.

While I was wandering around apparently looking lost a woman spoke to me and asked if she could help. I explained I was just looking around and she asked if we had been given a tour and information, to which I replied well no not really we were just shown to our seats.

Turns out that because we had done all the booking and enquiries in Korean we had missed out on being welcomed by this lovely lady who was very helpful and gave us the tour of the place.

There was different seated areas for those who wished to play with other couples and those who only wanted to watch. There were singles who were only allowed at the bar and any couple wishing to meet them would need to come find them there. There was a play room where if you played there you had to be okay with other couples coming in and touching you and maybe more. There was also another private play room where you had to knock to see if it was occupied.

There were towels and mouth wash and tooth brushes etc as well as showers in the toilets (every guy seemed to be using the shower as they came and left).

So after the tour and finishing our wine my partner and I decided let's go try out the couples room. I say room - it was more like a bed with glass walls either side and no wall on the front opening to the main room so anyone walking by could see you.

Two couples joined us either side and after some soft play and the excitement of some faces pressed up against the glass at the side of the room I finished and decided to stop probably much to the disappointment of the other couples who were asking if we would like to swap. At that time I didn't feel comfortable full swapping with those particular couples as they were older than us and not really our type.

Some time passed and more and more younger people seemed to arrive in the early hours of the morning.

This time my partner and I decided to just kind of pretend nobody else was there and went at it in our seats (not really sure if you are supposed to do this or not but the place was seemingly a bit relaxed on its *rules* ).

All of a sudden I looked up in the midst of sex with my partner and we had quite a crowd around us, there were even some couples that joined in but told my partner in Korean they don't full swap to which I replied no problem. This time the couples that joined in were prettier and younger (at least the women) so it was quite enjoyable for me anyway.

After we finished we sat around and talked briefly with some of the spectators who had now kind of joined our table.

Unfortunately for me my partner was pretty much done for the night after that as it was probably about 3:30am-4am and we had driven all the way from Busan that day. I say unfortunately because we had gained some attention after that last performance and there were suddenly a few more pretty ladies and their partners hanging around and one who walked over and asked if we were finished.

Before we left I had a last look at the Mirror box room to which had now gathered some onlookers on top. There was a girl who went up there watching and when I turned around started having sex with two other guys on top of the box. This was pretty hot as she was young and attractive and soon one of the guys gestured for me to join in but I walked away as I knew my girl was tired and bored and it was certainly not the right time to piss her off by playing alone.

So that is our experience in South Korean sex clubs.

All in all I enjoyed it very much but I do have a major word of warning.

I had to go ask for condoms as they were not obviously available, and when I witnessed the girl on the box making out with the two guys I watched both of them cum inside her without wearing protection as far as I could tell. It seems attitudes towards safe sex are much more relaxed in South Korea so if you do go make sure you remain in control of yourself enough to make sure everyone is being safe with you and your partner.