Some Guidance: How to Respectfully Partake in Race-Play

Hi everyone, I wrote this for another community specifically in the cuckolding and hotwife scene back in August but I thought I'd share it here.

During my time as an experienced Third and as a Bull, I've occasionally come across new couples who seek more extreme thrills and forms of humiliation as part of their cuckolding dynamic. This has included forms of bullying, giving errands, and otherwise deriding the male half, but in some cases, a couple wants something more taboo.

Race play is particularly common with couples from non-white backgrounds in the West, and while some dynamics can be quite awkward depending on each participant's heritage, I've been able to manage it respectfully as a bull on a few occasions. I wanted to give my thoughts on this for couples looking for this experience and Bulls is unsure how to manage it if it comes up.

For some context, I'm a Caucasian bull based in Syndey Australia, so the demographics in my area skew heavily towards couples of Eastern and South East Asian descent, but I've heard and helped the desires of couples from India, Egypt, and the Pacific Islands.

Here is my guidance on how I approach it.

1. Initiating the conversation.

As a couple, it's important to understand why you find the idea exciting. Communicate with your partner to ensure you have the same ideas in mind, and ensure that you have a way to communicate any discomfort that may arise during play with each other.

As a Bull, never bring up Race-Play, even if you'd like to try it. Nothing will turn off another couple faster than their race being brought into the equation if it isn't something they're seeking.

2. Understand the Fantasy.

As a couple, what do you want to happen during play and the meet & greet beforehand? How do you want the bull to facilitate it? Would you like to be overt role play or more of an undertone?

As a bull, really understand the essential elements of their fantasy and where it stems from. Building this out gives you a better idea of how to improvise or speak at the moment during the play, but it is critical to also understand the couple's soft and hard boundaries around this.

Playing into a fantasy, and bringing up genuinely racist or harmful tropes are often totally different things unless they're explicitly asked for.

3. You will often be building the girl and bull up, rather than tearing someone down.

This last bit of advice will vary depending on the exact fantasy or dynamic. However, as an example, I often find that Asian wives or girlfriends want to be complimented, and told their beautiful, told that I love their tight Asian pussy, or asked if they love my big white cock inside them.

Race play in practice last week.

As an example of these three things in play, I'll use a couple I met on Friday. They were both of Asian descent and reached out to me here on Reddit. I was initially sceptical because the girl was gorgeous, but their profile was quite old and had a history with pictures of her.

I began asking about their fantasy and it became evident that their fantasy for race-play could be boiled down to a perceived difference in conventional attractiveness ‘I feel inadequate as an Asian male with a gorgeous girl, I want a big strong white male to give her the pleasure I can't’.

The raceplay was purely constructive, and all humiliation for him stemmed from our physical differences, with a focus on my overall attractiveness, fitness, and strength versus his, and leaning heavily on my experience in bed.

I met them in the hotel lobby, shook his hand slipped my arm around her waist, pulled her up and into a kiss. I said she was adorably short and we moved up to the hotel room.

During the evening, I spoke down to the male, gave him some errands, and sent him to another room while I checked in with the girlfriend before kicking off play. When I said he could return, I was already between her legs using her thighs as earmuffs, telling her that I loved the way her cute Asian pussy tastes.

After the final clothes came off and some time with her sucking my cock in front of him. I told him to pull his cock out and expressed my disappointment that he was flaccid this was something that would happen a few times in the evening much to her amusement, but obviously, I didn't have an issue with it.

With the intonation that it was embarrassing, he was soft while the love of his life was naked in front of him, I picked her up in one arm and carried her to the bedroom of the suite. He sat in the seemingly mandatory hotel cuck chair as I began fucking her.

During the next two hours, from the chair, down the hall and occasionally the doorway when we needed water or more condoms, the boyfriend was made fully aware of our physical differences and heard his girlfriend screaming how much she loved my strength, stamina, and big white cock.

Coming back to my points before, notice how any elements that tore someone down were purely physical differences but with the undertones of the race play, while anything explicitly racial was expressing our enjoyment.