your sexual awakening

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I was a very late bloomer, but even from my first time, I found I was comfortable, exploratory, and uninhibited. Unfortunately things didn't last with that person, but as a result, I decided I did not want to go that long again looking for such special someone in order to have any such touch. So I tried (again) on this and similar adult sites (as opposed to my usual vanilla sites), but this time with experience and sexual confidence under my belt, to literally try new things even if casual/one off, including fantasies if possible.

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  EarthQueen

  8 years ago

  With a long term partner and wanted to push myself out of some comfort zones/explore. When I joined I had gone a year without sex which to me, is a long time when you are used to having it whenever you like. So was also craving physical contact/touch without commitment. I picked RHP initially purely because of forums. Also it had pretty pictures. 😀 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  The answer to your question explains how I ended up both on the site and the scene. I was married, and things were not going well. We didn’t communicate well about anything, and we never talked about sex. I had just resigned myself to the fact that this was as good as it gets, and that I didn’t deserve more than that, but had a few experiences which had me starting to wonder. I googled a bit, and ended up here. I wasn’t looking for connections with people, but ended up finding both. I’ve always appreciated people’s openness on the forums, even when I’ve oftentimes found it confronting. It’s helped me clarify the kind of relationship I should expect and accept for myself. This was about 5 years ago now, in first incarnation on RHP. Since then, my marriage has gone the way it should have long before, if only I’d been brave enough to admit that it wasn’t worth clinging on to. I’ve learned much more about myself, as a person, and as a sexual being. I’m in a relationship which allows me to fully express myself, and fulfills me in every way. I have wonderful friends who open my eyes to new ways of experiencing life. And I’ve tried things sexually that I would never have even dreamed of before, with still more on the horizon to look forward to. I’m very grateful for RHP and it’s role in my life.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I'm a very late bloomer here... Although I've been polyamorous for many years, it's always been more about the emotional intimacy and connection than about "just sex" for me. All of my partners are pretty much the same too. Relatively "normal" looking (albeit high-independence) one-on-one bf/gf relationships, except that we have more than one at a time in parallel. Feels like no big deal. Then a couple of months ago one of my partners went to a little private sex party. Turns out it's not something she is particularly into, but hearing all the details of it flipped some switch in my head. All of a sudden I can look at sex as something that would be fun to share with like-minded people, particularly in multi-person scenarios. So I started digging around a bit to see how I could get into that, and my online searching brought me here. Long story short: I've always been very sex-positive by attitude, but just not particularly personally motivated for it outside of intimate relationships. Which is why I've been more on the polyamory end of the nonmonogamous spectrum. Now I "get" the more sexually playful swinging side of things too, and looking to explore it more.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Your post fills me with hope. I'm walking that path you've already trodden right now. I'm craving more out life both personally and sexually. RHP has helped me immensely on both fronts. I doubt I've had my awakening yet, I've intentionally restricted myself due to the relationship stuff but the light at the end of the tunnel is growing brighter everyday. Possibly just shared way more than I'm comfortable with, but hey, you can't experience life without throwing caution to the wind occasionally. No doubt a few more speed bumps and U turns to come. That's how we learn. I've actually said it before I really love how open the regulars are on the forums. Expressing oneself thru sexual experiences is an exciting adventure. Apologies OP if I've taken your intentions on a little detour. BB - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Thank you! I found such inspiration and hope from people I've met on here, many of whom who have become great irl friends, and many of whom gave me advice to get through some of the more difficult parts of the journey. Good luck with it all - it's totally worth it.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I was married for 17 years and we had always enjoyed what I considered to be a 'good healthy sex life', although looking back now I would consider it quite 'vanilla'. At the age of 40 I chose to end my marriage and was fortunate that my very first sexual encounter (and first ever one night stand) was with an incrediblly sexually mature, adventurous and naughty but extremely respectful 29 year old (he became the one night stand that never went away) and we explored each other and also embarked together on a journey as a 'couple' on RHP He opened my eyes to a whole new world of sexual expression and I learned that my lust for all things sexual was something to be embraced and enjoyed and is not something taboo. We have since parted ways and although he did come back into my life (and bed) on several occasions (and we are still in regular contact as friends) he has now married and is embarking on that life journey, while I am back on this site exploring and experiencing new things and having new sexy adventures. I love who I am and where I am in my life ... I have been fortunate enough to meet some awesome men and made some wonderful friends. In fact I am about to embark on a new and exciting sexy adventure with an incredible guy I have met on here ... so bring it on I say 😈💋 And thank you RHP xx - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  In that I am following my curiosity at a later stage in life. Ive always craved vonnection and touch from a partner. Sex ne er far from the front of my mind. Ending a 15 year relationship where I was 100% faithful and early on was great regular albeit vanilla sex. I found RHP from another dating site and it opened my eyes to an incredible lifedtyle I knew I was ready for. Ive had so.e amazing experiences. Its been a steep learning curve and I have had to take deep breaths and take that step out if the comfort zone. Its been worth though and I intend to explore more and grow from it. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  All you sexy women.......... plus a highish libido, a love of women and sex and an insaitable curiosity.

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