F52
why guys tell bs!!
June 06 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well said Fizz, if there was an intelligence test to join this site a lot would fail. Of course what you described goes for the single women who only meet with their partner. You know the ones, they have a single woman's profile but hidden away in the text is a little line about them being attached and will only play if their partner is involved. Guess for them it is cheaper than paying for a couples profile right!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Some blokes will give anything a go, and they are possibly encouraged by your wanting phone and cam sex...they probably think along the lines of, we are never going to meet, so i am a chance at scamming this chick! Not a lot you can do about it, except weed them out asap!Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes it does happen, also there is from a couples point of view the "start" of a" couples" convo only to find its the male iniatiing it from his angle only and has no plans to meet as a couple and is only in it for his own benefiit.You soon can tell who these types are. We are slightly different it seems from a lot of couples on here in as much as Im more of the "administrator" of the account and its seems very rare where I get an" introduction" message from the female half. We dont have any issues with that its just an observation we have made I also think that being a couple on here also seems to protect us from some of the stuff single female profiles seem to attract. Id imagine due to failings in the system there are men pretending to be women.(free and cheap to get access to chat rooms) if you can get a girl to take a pic of herself and upload it . Women of couples pretending to be single( spinoff of afore mentioned al a cheap..)Couples with men/women that have own agenda and blah blah blahhhhh Its as the wise and learned above me have said weed out the crappola! Can understand your vent! Cheers Mrs Sat
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RHP User
16 years ago
yep i reckon the site should b able 2 record the ip and block if 2 many complaints about the same individual. Until that day im on guard. Only takes one stupid idiot 2 ruin it 4 the rest of us. And yes its just not problems with guys im pretty sure girls r half as bad. Guess trial & error i suppose.
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RHP User
16 years ago
To guys or girls alone, or couples even. Anyone can and often will not be 100% open with you. The outright lies I've heard told amaze me no end. Whilst I try to be 100% upfront about things myself with people when I meet, there is a point where I don't think some questions are any of their business. As for people being WHO they say they are, I always want to chat on the phone and do an MSN webcam with them before I'll meet up. It's so much easier to see their expressions and get an idea of who they are as you chat. Wayne x
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platinumblonde69
16 years ago
Unfortunately it happens alot. I have had a smiliar thing happen recently. A guy I know very well, has single on his profile, so he can cheat. I am married, I say very clearly on my profile my intensions, but this guy has single on his, and during chats on msn i have seen pics of his child and spoken at length about married life. I have an issue with this, and emailed him with a few thoughts, and as a result I have discovered him bagging me to a woman he intends meeting, calling me a "wacko" cause of what I said to him. Makes me laugh that cause I dont understand why he needs to lie, I get labelled the wacko. Anyway, Im pissed off atm that even after chatting for what seems like ages, it goes to show u still dont know someone. Very disappointing.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Now that we've established why guys tell BS, can anyone take a stab at why women do it? Oh, yeah......it's not limited to men. Most women who post a profile pic of their tits where you get such a close-up view that you might be forgiven for thinking it's their ass crack you're looking at, turn out to be a bit of a porker. Women claim to be part of a couple, too. However, I have to admit, I get lots of men from 'couples' wanting to meet alone and I've yet to see their wives. They always say, "Oh, she's not into it right now." There's BS all around you in here and some of it's a laugh. I've said it before in relation to folk saying they have 'athletic build' when in MY opinion, they don't. In their opinion though, it may really be what they believe..............so it's not BS to everyone. There's no harm done..............
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RHP User
16 years ago
have had numerous guys with a 'couples' profile tell me in their msg they are a single guy or their wife/girlfriend doesnt play...put up a single profile guys thats what u are and girls with a 'single' profile turn out to be attached and will only play when their boyfriend is there... girls you are in a couple not that hard to work out is it
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RHP User
16 years ago
Wells said, Platinum. Sure seems strange that he'd have the front to label you as the wacko, particularly as you are well aware of his situation. If it's any consolation, I've admired the fact that you leave everyone who reads your profile in no doubt as to what you are seeking. Take care - hopefully we may chat one day
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RHP User
16 years ago
We find this quite regular, a couples profile you start chatting on MSN, then you are told "I am single now and should really get around to changing my profile"!!!!!! Or if the conversations starts going to 3-somes. The alarms ring and we are quite blunt. Then you are asked to go on cam and our responce is "just a photo will do us" But they will claim confidentuality. But they maybe dont relise that anyone can record whats on the screen and then edit the recording and you have hundreds of photos they were trying to avoid. We think the best way is to be on guard within a few minutes we know if its a fake, or not on the same page as us. Our suspicisions are also raised when p/g are opened during intail contact then shut down....we dont save or copy any photos of others....but we go back and have another look discuss with each other and make a decision over 3-10 days. Plus as we leave to meet we have another look so we can reconise who we are meeting....but their photos are gone...then its sorry guys we wont meet without photos. We have not had a no show for 3-4 years and never experianced just one of the couple showing up. We have met quite a few that are unsure, say there is no spark or recently just plain rude we expect if we met another couple we give each other 100% of our attention not get up and have a dance within 2 minutes of meeting..... Or maybe the problem is we are just too ugly! Or are we starting to read between the lines quickly? This business of girls must talk we dont do, we say all 4 must talk guys and girls we think this weeds out further problems where the female half of the other couple is just looking for a bi experiance or her male half is too insecure to see his wife with another man.
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RHP User
16 years ago
To anyone who has had anything to do with ' iwantsumtoo ' - he is engaged to his gf of 5 years, who has no idea about this site. They have 3 children together. He is a lying, cheating, manipulative piece of shit. Save yourself the time of knowing him. I would like to know if anyone is game enough to tel me of any dodgy business they have had with him. please reply to this thread. please, i need to know if I'm making the biggest mistake of my life...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Honestly, I just have to shake my head at the desperation of some people. Yes, it is desperation and no, I don't understand it. It's not that hard to be truthful. Who cares what other people think. Isn't being true to yourself and your friends more important or are the two of us being a little naive? I'm Mike, the He in our relationship and we've been married for 12 years. What we have is not something we're going to throw away just to "get one away". I can guarantee that if one of us does chat or meet alone, the other will know so fast it'll make your head spin. We believe that honesty is the best policy and stick to it. We both never make promises lightly and there have been some that we have broken but we NEVER hide anything from each other. (With thanks to Sting for that inspiration. :-P) Some friends have asked if it makes things strained. Not for us. If anything, it makes us closer because we know that at the end of the day, we can rely on each other. Now, I know that this may scare some people off but we don't care. If we find a lady who wants to share that with us, you'll get a pair of true friends and that's not blowing my own horn. I'll get off my soap box now. I've said my piece. :-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Gordygordygordy' Most women who post a profile pic of their tits where you get such a close-up view that you might be forgiven for thinking it's their ass crack you're looking at, turn out to be a bit of a porker. Ha Ha Love that line - I promise Gordyfordygordy my ass crack is not that close to my face.
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