M62
why don't ladies make a move?
January 23 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
If a woman is frisky which will be at any sector of a calendar month depending on the woman, a subtle but affirmative advance will be entertained or even reflected back. If a woman ignores this cue or comments on her non interest, then she's more than likely not "On Heat" at that particular time. Some coercion may be worth a try but risks pissing her off. Now this may sound like a general male perspective way too ambiguous and stereotypical, but it is of my own experience and ascertion which I put forward here. (At the risk of stark applause)
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RHP User
14 years ago
If a woman is frisky which will be at any sector of a calendar month depending on the woman, a subtle but affirmative advance will be entertained or even reflected back. If a woman ignores this cue or comments on her non interest, then she's more than likely not "On Heat" at that particular time. Some coercion may be worth a try but risks pissing her off. Now this may sound like a general male perspective way too ambiguous and stereotypical, but it is of my own experience and ascertion which I put forward here. (At the risk of stark applause)
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RHP User
14 years ago
they are too busy judging men and saying no ... then complain theres no good men ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Touching your arms, eye fluttering, smiling, hair twirling and knee knocking. Nuff said.HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sadly, often you're right. In my case OP the answer it two fold. 1. I would bought up to believe that women do not chase and 2. What rocks me to the core is a dominant male. I adore them. If he wants me he'll tell me and then come get me. I don't just leave the guy in the dark here, he gets plenty of encouragement along the way but assertive, confident and self assured as HUGE turn ons. The fun is in the hunt surely. I know guys who find it fun to hunt, I of course aquiesce (while enjoying the demonstration of power) and return the favour by seducing and pampering them. Now surely that's much more fun then "hyai hunnie, wanna root."?
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RHP User
14 years ago
And the circumstance. I like to seduce , its a delicious tease to get a person off balance, not sure, is she giving me that look? When I want sex I will just be honest with my need, I have even ask a man do you mind if I suck your cock? I think its polite to ask. The truth is that women are bound by convention, told to be good little proper ladies. The word slut is a prime example of why women do not often show their desire in a public forum. That is why we do not always tell other women friends that we are on a sex date site. Some women do not like you around their husbands, if you have that sexuality about you. So its not easy to step away from convention, and like men we do not want to face rejection, its not good for anyone. Be like a fly fisherman, lure her in let her entice you but in the end, step over and take what you want. The goodies are on the plate, don’t make the woman lift them to your mouth. Adventure time, I say NO all the time and I judge men all the time., But then I expect men to have that same right, to judge me and to say no TR please I am not that kind of man..HELLLLP! You have the right to remain silent, or cry out in pleasure. I do not have the time nor do I give a rats arse what others think about a woman that is honest with her desires. But then I am an older woman, we get over it as we get older and think, shit time is ticking I have to enjoy this while I can.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Which is probably how I found myself in a somewhat amusing situation recently.I invited a guy I'd been chatting to for a while (who seemed confident enough) to come and play with me late one night and, despite me quizzing him most directly on a number of factors relating to his sexual likes/dislikes/abilities, when I greeted him at the door dressed in stockings, corset, etc, he got all flustered and apparently started to think "Woman being interested in casual sex = ulterior motive".When he eventually managed to speak he said, "Wow. Fuck... Waitaminute, do I have to pay for this? Is there anyone else here in the house?" and got all embarrassed when I couldn't help but laugh in his face.xx Sarah
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm with you adventureTime.
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Tart_Du_Jour
14 years ago
There are a few things at work here. It could be that these women do want to have sex but maybe not with you. If they are attracted to you it could be something else. Even in today's society women are still criticised for making the first move. We are told from a young age that this is what men do. A lot of it has to do with confidence. I think a lot of women are scared of being rejected and because it's not something they are used to it if it happens it's a blow to the self esteem.I don't have an issue with telling someone I'm attracted to them, by and large I haven't had a problem with this. I don't want to always be the one to initiate things but if I'm not proactive I only have myself to blame if nothing happens.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I will call on one of my male friends who will be more than eager to please me and themselves.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Women definitely do 'make a move' , if they are horny enough and interested in whats on offer.......... Unlike men though, women have the ability to be selective, even when hormones are driving them to extremes. if the offers not forthcoming....methinks the interests just not there........
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RHP User
14 years ago
You make me laugh... I love the line' do you mind if I suck your cock ' got a good belly laugh going when I read that...Nothing like good manners when you have a need. Like' cuse me' do you mind fucking me now' Im ready... lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
...as long as somebody does it. | There are only three answers to any question...yes, maybe and no. You have a 67% chance going in and over time I have learned to overcome my very bashful nature and just ask. | It's not easy being shy.
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RHP User
14 years ago
To the OP...there isnt a woman alive that doesnt know how to work it..........if she wants you, you will know about it..no question...some are subtle, some more assertive, but you will know, oh you will sooooooooooooooooo know... hate to be blunt, but it would appear it was simply a case of "She/They just wasn't/wren't into you" !!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
simple
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RHP User
14 years ago
There are six options, vis vis.... "oh god yes", "yes", "maybe", "no", "oh he'll no!" and "next". Hehe. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
"You have got to be joooooooo-king". | That's when us shy bastards fake a good grovel and pray for a mercy root. | ... come on baby, just once? I won't tell a soul. | | Except every man and his mother at the office...yipee I finally got laid!
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