why do men want another man with their wife/partner?

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Mr Rough here,I absolutely love the look in Mrs Roughs eyes and the sounds coming out of here mouth when we roleplay this scenario. It has nothing at all to do with trying to get one up, so that i can shag some random woman, but rather has everything to do with wanting to see her absolutely fullfilled. Thats not to say that the woman of the other couple would be left out. I would gladly offer my juicy lips for her to sit down and take a breather, however the whole focus would be to ensure Mrs Rough every wanton need and desire was catered for.have a headache and can't write anything too intelligible at the moment, so i will leave it there!

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  DonnaBrett

  15 years ago

  Mr. here...it's a genuine turn on!! I love watching her get gang banged too....LOL

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  For us it is about giving her pleaseure and a turn on for him - not alterior motives involved. If you are comfortable with each other, there is nothing more sexy than having her having attention from another male. Certainly not about him having some bargaining chip to allow him to play

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  For me when I have had a partner, its always about the enjoyment from the pleasure she receives from the occassion. But I have been, in one situation, where I learnt towards the end of the night that the husband of the couple I was with was useing me to sleep with his wife as he had been caught cheating and he wanted to leave me with her so things could be even. Once I found out about it, and the fact that the husband had passed out from to much booze, the wife and I sat down for a cup of coffee and talked about it. She left him two weeks later.

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  Bubbaj

  15 years ago

  recently talked to a guy who would love to be in a relationship where he is faithful to her and only plays with her but he will let her play around as much as she wants especially infront of him. he considers himself as "small" and actually takes pride in that but would love to see a "bigger" man doing his girlfriend as that is a real turn on for him.each to their own :)

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  thank you for the contributions, sure opened my eyes! the main reason i asked, apart from being interested is having been with couples before, and it all being very very new to me, i always had in the back of my head some niggling thought that 'this isnt right' or i felt i was taking advantage of someone somewhere or being used as a 'tool' if this makes sense? this has taken the edge off the experience a little for me but i have recently been put at ease and im finding my way so to speak haha my respectful side comes out and gets in the way and its hard to push it aside without feeling like im using, any thoughts or advice on this would be greatly apreciated

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  i like to get another nice guy in to help me pamper Trinity once in a while.. because shes a GREAT GF, and she loves the double attention.. Of course its hot to watch and share her body and listen to her while shes being pounded I love 2 girls at once , and she doesnt mind sharing me with the right gal... Its just treats for us both.. yes we have heard stories of the mans hopeless so he gets another in, or the woman has no libido anymore so they get another gal in for him. You hear them all in this scene

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' Ha! I just think you're suffering from being "decent". Swinging is not like being single though, with single girls there's often (not always) heaps of other stuff to consider. Does she want a relationship secretly? how to be a gentleman? how to not make her feel used but still keep your freedom? and the lsit goes on and on. With us (and i speak for us only) you as a single guy is there purely for fun. A mutually pleassing transaction. You're having fun, you are contributing to us having fun. We lay no claim to you and expect you to do the same for us. KISS theory (keep it simple stupid, for those who haven't heard of that) You have fun, we have fun....alll good And we get to have pillow talk afterwards :) With marrieds just have fun xxthank you for this, this is the type of thing i have been told and assured is the view of most, so i will go with the majority and try to have fun....if thats ok with you?hahaha yeh your right, i do suffer from 'decency' lol xx

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