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why do guy wast you time for
June 27 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
All talk and no action.
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RHP User
12 years ago
They are partneredThey get a "better" offerThey like the thrill of the chaseThey are partneredThey aren't how they have presented themselves onlineThe footy/car racing/world cup/ Wimbledon/ two flies crawling up a wall is onThey are partneredThey have turned up, don't like the look of their meet but too pussy to say so, as Meeka saidThey have mates who apparently are more exciting to spend time with than youThey are intimidated by you for whatever reason - maybe cause you are a goddess and they cant deal with that either They are partneredThere is beer and Xbox to be playedThey lack time management skillsThey are partneredThey are partnered They are partnered Think I've been stood up a few times ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Always possible they get there, see you from a distance then change their mind? Otherwise they just chicken out when it's time to follow thru Personally I know, nerves can be a challenge - but no risk no reward? I would never not turn up to a commitment, it's bad form ... And what about missing out on the pleasure to follow :-)
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MasterBilly
12 years ago
I ask my self the same ouestion
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Sukki' They are partneredThey get a "better" offerThey like the thrill of the chaseThey are partneredThey aren't how they have presented themselves onlineThe footy/car racing/world cup/ Wimbledon/ two flies crawling up a wall is onThey are partneredThey have turned up, don't like the look of their meet but too pussy to say so, as Meeka saidThey have mates who apparently are more exciting to spend time with than youThey are intimidated by you for whatever reason - maybe cause you are a goddess and they cant deal with that either They are partneredThere is beer and Xbox to be playedThey lack time management skillsThey are partneredThey are partnered They are partnered Think I've been stood up a few times ? You are so right with what you say above. I have never been stood up whilst out for a meet or catch up however I have had 3 or 4 guys continually text pestering me for dates and when I have finally had the spare time to meet them and have organised a time and venue with them, they have texted back 2 hours later and backed out. Those sorts of people are an absolute joke! They are the pussies who simply don't have the confidence to meet new people.
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twowithnolimits
12 years ago
Lmao @ billboy , try shaving your legs next time???
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think that if a man has a six pack in the profile picture, he should have it when he meets you :/
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RHP User
12 years ago
Cause Their 3 year old sons pet gold fish drownedYou were just a bit of fun to wile away a tedious Friday night withThey are partneredThey are nervous and just as insecure as we areTheir good mate Jonno/Danno/ Robbo car has broken down 178 kms south of the capital city that you live in and Jonno/Danno/Robbo can't be f*** forking out money to be a member of the NRMA/RAC etc and your meet is the only person in the whole wide world that will drive the 356 kms round trip to help them replace a fan beltThey are partneredYour not their exYour not as perfect as their motherThey are partneredYou look like their exYou don't look like their exThey are partneredYou mentioned "lets meet near my place" cause if all is going well you can get on home to get down and do the "dirty fozzie" asap and in their head they heard the words "Lets get married and have 2.5 kids and a cat"You're perfect and exactly what they have been looking for but that's like hello, NSA was all he was looking for at this time and so he didn't show and you will be forever known as the woman he should have met up with, but didn't and he will be bitching in his beer about it till his 84 They are partnered Bottom line Who frigging knows, people don't show, not gender specific and that's what one should expect when you put yourself out there. What you have to decide is whether to keep on putting yourself out there, or not and if you do expect a no show rate of 100 percent then you'll be pleasantly surprised if they do. GAME ON BTW - most of the time, the NO Shows, they're partnered.
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RHP User
12 years ago
i do but what has that got to do with him not show up
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MasterBilly
12 years ago
Quoting 'twowithnolimits' Lmao @ billboy , try shaving your legs next time??? you are right . I shaving now all over for same time need to do same new profile pic.
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
Simply because they can, maybe they're nothing like their profile and they get a little scared or one of all the other things sukki listed. I haven't had a no show, but I don't meet with very many at all and I get to know them before I do decided to meet with them. I tend to stick to the ones that I know or have met before.....💋
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would never stand you up - Posted from rhpmobile
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Smilingwithfun
12 years ago
Welcome to the real world. You don't think men get stood up? Given the ratio on here is about 10 to 1 men to women, the number of men stood up is amazing. There have been forum topics by men on this subject. It happens.
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
I think most people have probably been stuffed around one way or another, it's best just to move on and just go oh well, their loss...... Smilingwithfun, the real world? In the real world I don't date either and I tend to work on the therory "No Expectations, No Disappointments" 💋
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Meeka is right, some men are just pussies. In a similar posting a few weeks ago, I mentioned about a certain young man (31) who barraged me with texts and emails and calls for a meet. When I have agreed, on the night of the meet, I texted him from work to confirm if meet was on. This was 2 hours before the meet. Only then did he text back that he cant make it. No reason. Just really disappointed that the man I thought had integrity and ended being a dick. A small one. Lol. His loss as there are lots of other gorgeous nice sexy men out there. Glad I dodged that bullet and I did not show up in the bar and a no show. Take the experience as one you can learn from and not take it personally. Certainly am more aware of some signs of a*holes out there. Hey, we win some and lose some. Just like in real life. Hugs
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why don't reply I'm keen as mustard :( - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Possibly people who get to the point where fantasy becomes a reality...and Freak~out.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Perhaps it's all about the fantasy not the reality?? Does our head in too, and causes a world of frustration. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Sukki' Who frigging knows, people don't show, not gender specific and that's what one should expect when you put yourself out there. What you have to decide is whether to keep on putting yourself out there, or not and if you do expect a no show rate of 100 percent then you'll be pleasantly surprised if they do.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Sukki' Who frigging knows, people don't show, not gender specific and that's what one should expect when you put yourself out there. What you have to decide is whether to keep on putting yourself out there, or not and if you do expect a no show rate of 100 percent then you'll be pleasantly surprised if they do. Doesn't matter what you do, where you go or how you contact people, there will always be those who think their life and time is more important than yours. I think in some instances that some people aren't being arseholes but are actually nice people who don't know how to say no then panic at the last minute and pull out. Honesty gets put aside because they don't want to insult someone. I would rather hear the awful truth but I know personally, it is hard to say things sometimes knowing they are going to take it really badly.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'RunAwayJoinCircz' Quoting 'ralf74' Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Sukki' Who frigging knows, people don't show,not gender specific and that's what one should expect when you put yourself out there. What you have to decide is whether to keep on putting yourself out there, or not and if you do expect a no show rate of 100 percent then you'll be pleasantly surprised if they do. Doesn't matter what you do, where you go or how you contact people, there will always be those who think their life and time is more important than yours. I think in some instances that some people aren't being arseholes but are actually nice people who don't know how to say no then panic at the last minute and pull out. Honesty gets put aside because they don't want to insult someone. I would rather hear the awful truth but I know personally, it is hard to say things sometimes knowing they are going to take it really badly. Agreed but lets stop making it about Guys, Gals do it too ya know, enough Man-bashing for one day. Who of the above was talking about men besides you?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Degree - one must have for difficult question
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RHP User
12 years ago
was about to say the same thing. I meant people as in both sexes not just the penis clad variety.
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MissBishere
12 years ago
Quoting 'Sukki' Who frigging knows, people don't show, not gender specific and that's what one should expect when you put yourself out there. What you have to decide is whether to keep on putting yourself out there, or not and if you do expect a no show rate of 100 percent then you'll be pleasantly surprised if they do. Love this bit ^^ both your posts were funny and had me loling but totally agree with this bit.
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MissBishere
12 years ago
Fuck I hate the iPad formatting
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MissBishere
12 years ago
Fuck I hate the iPad formatting
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RHP User
12 years ago
It happens to us all. No need to bicker and fight over it. It sux and not a nice thing to do I think we all agree on that one, just accept it and move on.I have been stood up more times than id like to admit, and that's not just from sites like this I'm a member of some normal date sites as well.
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Good luck and may you travel fair in the future. Take care and hope to hear or see you around thye traps... x
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would agree...I believe it is more a fantasy thing where the thought and arrangement of the meet is the turn on. They masturbate several hundred times and then when it comes to the time they don't feel they can do it...lol. I have heard this story many times from couples and women and personally I don't understand it...why go through all that effort to not follow through. But let's not forget women do the same thing...happened last Thursday to me...lol.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I imagine the most common cause is balls, or lack thereof. It's all fun and games via mob, pc, messaging etc but when push comes to shove it's a game changer. All of a sudden he has to live up to his profile pics and all the 'talking it up' he may have done lol. If he is sneaking around behind the partner stuff will be crossing his mind e.g. what if I'm seen by somebody I know, is this really worth the gamble?!?!?!? Guys, as I'm sure we are all aware are often better at talking it up than fronting up........it must be genetic lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'RunAwayJoinCircz'Agreed but lets stop making it about Guys, Gals do it too ya know, enough Man-bashing for one day. Where did Runaway's post go? Some great answers here that make a lot of sense.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
appears to have goneski... Maybe he met someone?? Who knows?? All the best Runaway if you have. :) Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Perhaps it's much more difficult for introverts to meet and engage with total strangers....I find it quite exhausting and while I may appear to be more eextraverted than I actually am,it takes a great deal of emotional and psychological effort.....and some days are just better than others.....but I have never not turned up without letting the other petsdon know xQ
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RHP User
12 years ago
Twice now I have been stood up while waiting for someone for a coffee date. The first was about 18 months ago. I was standing at the cafe for a while before texting him. His response - "Oh shit I forgot!". The second was not so long ago. Again, waited at the cafe. I texted. After half an hour I texted again to say I couldn't wait any more and was leaving. Three hours later I get a text back - "Sorry, I slept through my alarm". I'd like to believe this behavior is not intentionally malicious, it's just thoughtless. And irresponsible. And obviously it shows that I'm not worth their time, so therefore I won't waste any more of my time on them. Live and learn!
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I get and totally understand where you're coming from! Introverts only get introverts...extroverts will never truly understand introverts... Just from my own life personal experiences with extroverts. It's those small things, extroverts will never understand. *sighs* Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
It is rude not to say something, quite offensive not to show up nor contact a person. I'm grateful that no matter what I've shown up (pulled out teeth) and I've never had a no show. So I try and put myself in those shoes who do show up and there's no show.. What an empty feeling that would be sitting there not only that confused..And as for excuses the best so far was the monkey bar... Gotta love that! The budgie dying and the dog who ate the phone - fucked if I'll be waiting for it to shit it out!! Poor poor lame excuses... Why can't people just say "sorry I'm not feeling it".. At least it's something?? This whole meeting people and hearing such horrid sad experiences gives me the reassurance sticking to meet and greets is much better options by far. :) FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
I love you !!! Made me laugh. Great posts.
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