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who normally initiates sex in your rship
December 23 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
... but not always.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm with you on this one
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nice.
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RHP User
13 years ago
on who thinks of it first..... or, who wakes first some mornings, lol... varies.....sometimes its a mutual thing, other times its not... like any couple, our rhythms and drives are not always in 'synch', and interest waxes and wanes accordingly.... there is no 'ideal' as none of us can predict the impact of things like children, aging, health or even careers and medications... sexual interest comes and goes...........people either cope and adjust accordingly..... or they dont.
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RHP User
13 years ago
If you are referring to 'sex' as only the act of it, I would hope it's both...the good old days of being able to give her a nice donk on the head and drag her by the hair back to a pile of furs is nearly over, although if you have a Nerf club and a roaring fire even that can be a bit of fun if agreed.Once we're out in the open air environs...I blame things like spontaneity, attitude, sense of humour, intelligence, the ability to carry on a good conversation, being relaxed in one's own skin and opportunity as the real instigators as the initiators of lots of wonderful adventures and experiences I've had along the way.Ever wonder why it seems that say, in a big gathering, you almost always seem to catch the eye of someone who's catching yours in return...just wander over, say hello and magic happens. Could be the most or least likely suspect, sometimes you just never know. Too, even if I've met someone casually or gotten to know them in any number of venues similar to this which often happens even in my business world, the sensual symmetry and mutual attraction is there first and if that's not sex I don't know what else to call it. That's one of the best parts about sex, it seems to start when you say hello and just gets better from there or ends up going no where...but at the least it's the best game in town and worth every moment.The end...I just used up all my more logic thoughts for today and have to go hit the last of the leftovers, anyone for a bit of roast turkey with homemade cranberry dressing, a bit of real stuffing and a slice of pumpkin pie? If you're in a sexy mood I might even share the last half of a bottle of very decent 35 year old scotch with you and...who knows what might just happen when we curl up on the couch for a nap.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well isn't that typical and what women have been saying about men for ever. Everything is always about sex. Lol Those things come naturally when you have a connection with someone and enjoy spending time with them. Although I am very affectionate with the lovers I care about. I am always touching them, hugging them, kissing them, and I enjoy spending time with them. Naked or fully clothed. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
But you are right a man or woman has to be open to that and even if they are not naturally affectionate in the same way doesn't matter to me but I need to know that they are comfortable with me being that way. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Both of us do. We like to keep it interesting n fun.
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RHP User
13 years ago
...as sometimes begging works and if not, just take them shopping.
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RHP User
13 years ago
In my last relationship it was tricky, because my ex had ovarian cysts and sex was painful for her fairly quickly, so I definitely didn't want to pressure her into doing something that'd hurt her. It made it hard, because she did want spontaneous seduction too.But yeah, outside of that, I've found it to be mutual. I might lead, partner might lead, it works out.
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madotara69
13 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' ... but not always. I agree.Eve said to Adam catch me if you can, it's been the same old story ever since the word began.oh and some tattoo's get Tara real fiesty, Thanks jman
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69'Eve said to Adam catch me if you can, it's been the same old story ever since the word began....but I love the music. Eddie lives!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Partner and I are very open with eachother about what we want and when we want it we go for it. But hey spending six weeks a time apart it doesn't matter who leads as long as you get laid
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RHP User
13 years ago
I will just lean over and start sucking his cock, he gets the idea pretty quick.
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madotara69
13 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' Quoting 'madotara69'Eve said to Adam catch me if you can, it's been the same old story ever since the word began....but I love the music. Eddie lives! Agreed, and for that. I'll be your huckleberry
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